I could watch brene for 12 hrs. She's my free therapist and counselor, lol. I love her. 💜

@lucasmccauley4656

2 жыл бұрын

Hello. Nancy

@khworker1322

6 ай бұрын

@@lucasmccauley4656. Hello creeper

@diptiK24

3 ай бұрын

Mine too😊

@user-gh4yr5nq4j

Ай бұрын

YES! I feel she speaks directly to me.

I may be only 13 but you help me with my problems so that I can fix them, “I may be making a mess, but I am not messy” so goes with me!

@karenjohannessen8987

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Deku! You're getting the message early! Hurray!! Bright Blessings to you ~

@eleanor4759

2 жыл бұрын

I so hope that Brene's teachings are helping you! They've helped me immensely and I'm 20

@JulieDozierMcCrary

2 жыл бұрын

You are a remarkable young person. To have the self awareness at such a young age and to be making steps to overcome your issues is so huge. I commend you, am proud of you, and wish you the best. You will go far in life! Btw, today I learned (in a trauma informed training) that bearing witness, listening to others and helping them by telling your story, is the best way to heal yourself. It certainly has helped me. Good luck!

@djshoplandsshow-allowyours5911

Жыл бұрын

@@JulieDozierMcCrary it is the only way to stand up and take responsibility of and within everything that has gone before and then everything step by step within time helps our mentalities and us only way yo get through xx I agree with your statement xx congrats to all who tunes in, especially to such a lovely young person xx

@djshoplandsshow-allowyours5911

Жыл бұрын

Go you. So proud and pleased for you xx

After hearing this……40 year old me wants to go back and hug 12 yr old me and say, “none of this is your fault and you are worthy of love.”

@mangochutney4874

Ай бұрын

🤗

"The broken hearted are the bravest among us because they had the courage to love."

@chriscunningham8807

4 жыл бұрын

Opening your heart and exposing yourself to rejection, hurt and humiliation is one of the most courageous and beautiful acts imaginable. Losing the object of your love is painful and can feel like a limb or part of yourself has been amputated as the sense of we shifts back to sad and lonely me.

@annateves8944

3 жыл бұрын

I would add that the broken hearted don't stay broken. They learn faster than others thats all.

@kellysmith8845

2 жыл бұрын

I echo your sentiments

@deecastillo7133

2 жыл бұрын

Amen!

"Shame cannot survive being spoken because shame requires you to believe you're alone in order for it to maintain it's power." ~Brene Brown

@invii2049

4 жыл бұрын

Actually, I would add: 1. (in generally speaking) the 'feel of shame' requires 'humans' in your life... in absence of 'them' there is no much of a trigger to the negative sense of 'self'; 2. separating/ distancing from 'humans' (aka 'alone') is often can be therapeutic (as being vulnerable you get all these mixed messages, pushes, and vibes from 'others', apart from the most important - getting your own ones!) ... however, it is sense of 'loneliness' triggers self-doubts, search for personal/ personality defects, self-blame, etc. 3. "being spoken" should be to some 'human(s)' ... talking to something, animals or yourself is more like the 'placebo effect'. Regards

@SageGarlandSingerSongwriter

4 жыл бұрын

I love your username :)

@Jerry.anthony.c

3 жыл бұрын

26:00

@oumaclubbe522

2 жыл бұрын

💥

@yvonnemwangi3649

Жыл бұрын

Makes sense

"Courage is possible when you know how to get back up when you fall...If you are brave, you are going to get hurt" Love her!

@lucasmccauley4656

2 жыл бұрын

Hello. Janice

When I was in High School, I will never forget sitting across from the Advisor who said to me, "You are not college material." She was College Educated, and my 16 year old self thought, well, she should know....and for most of my life I believed that I just would never be SMART ENOUGH. Talk about how SHAME affects us for a lifetime!

@benjiemadarang6389

6 жыл бұрын

Why can't a mom,teacher like her run for president?

@irisgonzalez-caulder5682

6 жыл бұрын

Lori Taylor-Schulte best comment Mr Hernandez was his name and I was 17 yrs old. I'm not excusing, blaming, justifying. I'm just saying I understand. The only thing I'm ashamed of is dropping out of 10th grade. I'm not ashamed bcz I don't lie,cheat,steal and the worst sin, pride. I'm not proud of sin, I'm forgiven of sin, and that is the difference. God bless and thank you for commenting.

@sutton22680

5 жыл бұрын

Lori Taylor-Schulte this happened to my mother. She told me this story and I can honestly say that I have seen it flare up many times over the course of her life. She’s almost 60 and still tells this story and fights how smart and resourceful she actually is.

@sandrarowe7510

5 жыл бұрын

Lori, as a former 19-year high school teacher, 6-year high school counselor, and now a private practice mental health counselor, please know how sorry I am that an educator said "You are not college material" to you. IMO, that was HER mistake--her ignorance, her judgment, and her shame--not yours. I know personally and professionally how such trauma in our formative years can affect us a lifetime: but it is NEVER too late to process that trauma, to realize it is not true, and to chose a different path. Best wishes to you!

@artcano5682

4 жыл бұрын

My H.S. Counselor's name was "Doctor" Vicino he told, my Latinx friend she wasn't "good enough" to apply to Columbia University. Luckily, she applied and 4 years later he graduated from Columbia. University.

Trauma filled with SHAME all 13 years of school. I'm 72 now and is still with me.

I feel so very sorry for all the people who gave a thumb down here, but I feel worse about the world that surrounds those ppl. this information is so incredibly valuable! People, this is Ivy League education, for free! WTH, be grateful you have just seen something that is medicine for the spirit. Cure for the soul and the most lethal weapon to succeed! Thank you Dr. Brown!🙌 “no name calling, at all”

@Joferry2000

2 жыл бұрын

Excellent

Vulnerability is the birth place of everything we want more of in our lives.

@mommaria1968

2 жыл бұрын

That is one of the very best quotes EVER!

@lucasmccauley4656

2 жыл бұрын

Hello Lorrinda

@sisteradmn

2 жыл бұрын

@@lucasmccauley4656 Howdie :)

I am so grateful for your outreach. Thank you for nailing it.

Dear Brene', I realized some years ago, as a teacher for 48 yrs. of people, their animals and animals in general , that the things that we teach in life, especially the foundations of the learning, are the things we need to learn ourselves. Opening up to our students as our master teachers without victimizing ourselves to the process, exposes our own underbelly and requires huge amounts of courage, convictions, strength and insights. I love your talks. Thank you!

Always WOW. Love your work Brené. And thanks to SXSWedu for sharing!!

brené brown changed my life. I am a huge fan. thank you for posting this.

@NikkoTanGoogle

7 жыл бұрын

SAME!!!

@ashkjellllyndrvald9854

7 жыл бұрын

Same here.

@christian14525

7 жыл бұрын

Likewise

@francescacourtin7870

5 жыл бұрын

Yes she changed my life

@margueriteloughran905

4 жыл бұрын

arvj123

Thank you very much Dr.Brene . YOU always inspire me. God Bless You and your Family ❤

Watching and loving this from the uk. Saw a clip of this video in a training session so came to watch all of it. Amazing. Thank you.

I am SO absolutely empowered. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for speaking with grit! I appreciate you.

Wonderful, eye opening presentation! Thank you, Dr. Brown.

I love this woman so much! Thank you for all you do and are, Brene' Brown!

Absolutely incredible

Absolutely golden...I couldn’t get enough ❤️

@lucasmccauley4656

2 жыл бұрын

Hello Trudy

Difficult conversations are essential! This is Gold. Thank you!!!

Thank you brene brown, you helped me a lot in sieving out my fear.

Brene has changed my life and is a person I always turn to when I struggle with my anorexia recovery. She reminds me that being vulnerable and this fear is leading to something good

@diaduchien7366

2 жыл бұрын

Hello my name is DIA DUC HIEN, I bring you tidings

@marycraig6910

2 жыл бұрын

I hope you are doing OK. I find support and understanding in FAA (Food Addicts Anonymous)

THIS WOMAN!!! I LOVE YOU BRENE BROWN!!!!

From the bottom of my heart , I say thank Brené Brown ! I learn something valuable ever time I listen to your talks.

The most powerful conversation a teacher can have. Thank you, Brené

@kellysmith8845

2 жыл бұрын

So true

If we had these types of discussions at the beginning of every academic year with faculty I believe we would have a much different approach to our curriculum and pedagogy. Thank you Brené for another amazing presentation and discussion.

@lucasmccauley4656

2 жыл бұрын

Hello. Ashlee

@VirtualTeachingPro

2 жыл бұрын

@@lucasmccauley4656 Hi there

@lucasmccauley4656

2 жыл бұрын

@@VirtualTeachingPro hey. how are you doing?

@lucasmccauley3036

2 жыл бұрын

@@VirtualTeachingPro hey. how are you doing?

@khworker1322

6 ай бұрын

@@lucasmccauley3036. 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡

Wow! This just changed my whole life and I’m only 10:15 in! Finished watching. I’m going to watch all of her talks now. Thank you, Brene!

@VirtualTeachingPro

2 жыл бұрын

Once you watch one of her talks you always want more!

As a teacher, as a mom and as an often vulnerable woman, I thank Brené for this talk. Every minute was worth it. Many thanks for the content and your presence.

I am crying I am so moved by the timing and clarity of this.message. As the realizations settle in, my wounded inner self sits up, unrounds her shoulders, and takes a breath. This has a palpable visceral effect. Because shame is pain. I am grateful for this teaching and your courage and dedication Dr. Brene Brown in bringing this subject to light for the sake of all of us and this up and coming generation.

I. Am. Crying!!! Does Brene have a kid version of this? I want to teach my children this!

This one will definitely get out to some classrooms in Denmark today. Thank you for your message.

@lucasmccauley4656

2 жыл бұрын

Hello. Susse

Such an exciting time and the perfect audience to engage with Brene's message. I am heartbroken there are over 82,000 views with only 1000 likes... My days are spend in K12 Education & we SO need to receive this message and adhere to change. When I met with my HS Guidance office I too had the counselor tell me, "I was NOT college material, my parents were not of, THAT mindset." What a stifling thing to say to a adolescent who presents with the courage to ask how to improve her world."

Yessss, This video should be shared will every teacher in the world!!!

Thank you, Brene Brown~ 💖💕✨ For helping me see that my emotional vulnerability is actually a strength. Not a flaw. 🥰💖💕✨

Thank you. Berne Brown changed my life.

@lucasmccauley4656

2 жыл бұрын

Hello. Wanitkun

as an aspiring teacher, this talk has just formed the bedrock of my motivation. Thanks Brene. Cross fingers I'll be a good one!

Most recently I have identified that this viedo was helpful. Seeing the amount of self-worth-awareness in the concepts placed of Joy, Shame, Silence, Secrecy, and Judgement is where I can relate to. No matter how much empathy, I have shown - that concept is still deep from high levels of depression, social isolation - embarrassment and name calling or put downs. I did not like to agree with my recent correlation of the type of material that is affecting me (indirectly) but I will assume that everybody, everyone has the LOWS in life. Humanity. I am no teacher, but enjoyed to place myself in this pep talk. Thanks for sharing. It was informative. Appreciate the information shared. Thank You, Ms.Emily!

Again, Brene nailed it. She jumps right in the pool of of shame and vulnerability with humor and brings out the shine, out of these words. Thank you Brene, you're awesome.

Certainly courage is teachable ... definitely. It's knowing those values mentioned in the lecture and being aware enough to know the moment to choose courage and not let shame deliver its fear.

@VirtualTeachingPro

2 жыл бұрын

yes 👏 to this!

Thank you Dr. Brown for this info. This was great !!!

This is a great talk, we can make education so much more effective by leading with empathy! Knowing how to deal with shame would have helped us all as grade school students.

@karenjohannessen8987

3 жыл бұрын

"Lead with Empathy!" Oh, so, Yeah!!

I used to think that not having good armor was my biggest flaw, and it has been a defining force in my life, but Brené helped me see it not just as something beautiful but essential as well. She took the shame out of that for me. And that actually helped me become stronger and perhaps, even more resilient. Some people have their spiritual teachers, like Oprah and Brené for example have Maya Angelou as their teacher, some Mother Teresa, some Dalai Lama. Brené is my teacher. I just love her and am so grateful for everything she does

@VirtualTeachingPro

2 жыл бұрын

I can relate to this experience and totally agree with you here.

"Vulnerability is the greatest casualty of trauma... No vulnerability- no love, no belonging, no joy". This explains so much. Thank you Brenè. I ❤ your authenticity & sense of humour.

I love this message Thank you Brene Brown...you are awesome...a blessing a prayer answered for this time! You are a blessing.

@lucasmccauley4656

2 жыл бұрын

Hello. Marta

Changing the world one teacher at a time. I honour you for your courage Brene' and I honour all teachers who tread this vulnerable and courageous path. ❤❤❤

@tootscarlson

5 жыл бұрын

Kathy Strong with a last name like yours, how can you go wrong?

@monicahorne3230

2 жыл бұрын

@@tootscarlson 6⅞1!

@lucasmccauley4656

2 жыл бұрын

Hello. Kathy

@lynnepfeffer3326

2 жыл бұрын

@@monicahorne3230 is p pop pop pol ppppppp pop pop pop oor p to p

amazing. So much good info to think about. I am working on my ed degree. I am going to share this video with my adviser so she can share it with her classes.

Great motivation for a Teachers and help us to learn about social and Emotional skills for help our kids not only in the knowledge of subjects but most important is what its impact to theirs life for ever .

Breñes daughter: 24:00 "may be making a mess, but I'm not messy". Ooooouuuu!

A woman after my heart! Thank you so much for this.

@lucasmccauley4656

2 жыл бұрын

Hello. Claudia

Yes trauma for son by a school teacher in 4th grade, He did not recover for years. I myself can remember my teacher in 5th grade, so wonderful to me. A male, he could see me struggle through maths. Did some remedial work with me and I was back on track. Mr Burns thanks so much.

So, so grateful for your contribution Brene.

@lucasmccauley4656

2 жыл бұрын

Hello. Moira

YEEESSSSSSS! My life's mission. Thank you again, Brené!

@lucasmccauley4656

2 жыл бұрын

Hello Magellan

I miss you and your talks.....I am retired teacher.....and all schools need to hear you......

Thank you from Stockholm! Among of many sentens I take even this one: To change hateful to painful!

@lucasmccauley4656

2 жыл бұрын

Hello. lIona

Wow!! You’re amazing Brene Brown! The shields of shame! In all of my 38 years of life, I’ve never actually taken time to face the fact that I live behind these shields daily. Thank you for this inspiration!

@lucasmccauley4656

2 жыл бұрын

Hello. Krisonda

The action of learning is a risk, the ultimate vulnerability. As educators, it’s important to remember how vulnerable learners are. We have to create a climate where students are safe to be vulnerable, take risks, to make and learn from mistakes; this is where real grown can happen. Thank you Brené!

I was listening to your talk for our whole school pd. It was wonderful listening to you. ❤

Thank you for you message. You are a blessing.

You have verified my emotional brain and life , thank you with all my vulnerable heart ❤️

Well worth watching this great speaker and great teacher I have added Bren'e Brown to my watch again list she rates!

A valuable class by a well experienced teacher. I salute and honour all teachers who choose this path.

I just love her research. I'm grateful she has shared it with the world.

Thank you Brene for all that you do. You inspire me to live wholeheartedly everyday. It's a slow process but I'm finding my courage more and more

@kellysmith8845

2 жыл бұрын

Ditto

Dear Brene This is Leanna's daughter and I am so happy I watched your video because it basically just changed my life THANK YOU! I will be a better person than I am already. Leanna's daughter.

Mindfulness helps me to experience joy that I am experiencing in the moment. I know I can definitely future trip and worry about horrible things happening in the future. Getting sober has helped me to live in today and have gratitude for the great things in my life and know that the tough times will pass. I love the quote, "if you have one leg in yesterday and one in tomorrow, all you do is pee all over today."

I love you Brene!! Your teachings have change my life for the better! Thank you for sharing!

Brene Brown saved me from myself while coming out of a major fall in life.

@lucasmccauley3036

2 жыл бұрын

Hello. Leslie

shared on Facebook because I actually punched my desk at 9 minutes and 10 seconds in!! BEAUTY FULL!!!! This is good. really good!!! THANK YOU

showing an accurate and deep understanding; great perceptive. Thank you for all the insightful information. 💡

Thank you Brené for contributing to the positive changes in my life! I am forever grateful!

I completely agree that education is the cornerstone for creating, enhancing, and encouraging love and personal growth.

This was really interesting, informative and extremely well delivered. I had to check myself at my own door with some of this. I needed this desperately

Power differential.. wow, amazing way to put it.

Brilliant. I share this with all my clients to help them and esp their child/ren too.

Part of her brilliance is rooted in how funny she is. Loved this!

I have struggled with relentless fear (of loss of joy), especially as I try to silence my mind for sleep. Enter insomnia! I have found gratitude has completely erased those terrors. I cannot agree more fully with this connection for embracing joy.

I love Brene Brown!!!

Love love love!!

I love Brene Brown. I would love to see her talks in person.

Love, love, love this!!! Thank you. "Wake up everyday to be brave with your life." Brene Brown

@lucasmccauley4656

2 жыл бұрын

Hello Denise

@diaduchien7366

2 жыл бұрын

Hello my name is DIA DUC HIEN, I bring you tidings

Wow what a great talk!

Greatttt talk, she's so on point! I've started teaching poetry with 3rd and 4th graders and this was linked as part of the training material. And I'm so happy it was!!

you are amazing Ms Brown, thank you so much for all your blessings. "who'll run the world? Girls!...Who'll run this mutha.....? Girls!" -Beyoncé

I love this sooooo much! Thank you! ♥️

Brilliant and powerful talk. (Also Brene is so funny!)

@lucasmccauley4656

2 жыл бұрын

Hello Donna

This changed me. I’m going to listen again.

23:55 one of my favorite moments in the whole talk.

Amazing. changed my view. We are all teachers and students so this can be used for all relationships!

I really enjoyed this. Thanks so much.

Best of her video ever. She is in beast mode here.

I only just found this KZread. Everything in its right time! I am a Grateful person. I use to apologize for being born and had a hard time transforming into who I am today. A Grateful child of the Universe🤩

When she talked about people having an experience with a teacher that gave them self worth, I thought of Miss Hoback, an administrator at my school. When I started middle school and got my first demerit, I had a total breakdown. She had to take me out of class and into her office and as I sat there crying, she gently explained to me that a demerit didn't mean I was a bad person. I had just done a bad thing. I'm crying as I write this because it still affects me to this day. God bless that woman.

@dekusdepression

4 жыл бұрын

BelleFlower15 wow that sounds like a beautiful person, I remember I was crying and my vice-principal said “ don’t you dare cry! You have no right to cry! So don’t you dare cry!”

wow! thanks so much for this.

I started out with a lot of courage, but maybe that was a kind of naive fearlessness. Now it's much less and I'm having to relearn it. I needed your talk today.

THANK YOU FOR ADDRESSING THIS ISSUE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I used to think that I had anxiety......now I'm pretty sure I have just always been ashamed.

@Neeshpeesh123

6 жыл бұрын

krissyg511 same!!!!

@ruoweilim7334

6 жыл бұрын

you probably still have anxiety, but the root of that anxiety is shame.

@raybankes7668

6 жыл бұрын

ruoweii shame brings on tons of fear. I define anxiety as long term fear, it simmers on the back burner and comes and goes, but stays there...

@77zabka

5 жыл бұрын

OMG that is so true thank you for pointing that out

@invii2049

5 жыл бұрын

There is no such a thing like 'just anxiety' ... there is always reason for it. I wish you well.

hi thank you brenee .im from Bahrain Arabian Persian Gulf..I was a teacher and we had a religious discrimination in the air that led with the Arab spring in 2011 to a civil crisis in my beloved country...I knew deep in my heart that the teachers had a big hand to make things better and the hate will be less other than the classification , make fun and favouritism...I resined in 2014 . I thought of making the world a lovelier and braver place from outside the educational system...thank u again.

@lucasmccauley3036

2 жыл бұрын

Hello. Shareefa

@shareefaalzayani975

2 жыл бұрын

@@lucasmccauley3036 hi ✨

@lucasmccauley3036

2 жыл бұрын

@@shareefaalzayani975hey. How are you doing?

This clip was awesome!