Have you ever met a pathological liar, and what were they like?

@squeakyfromme83

Жыл бұрын

It's confusing. Nothing adds up. They lie for no reason. They can't even remember their own lies, which adds to the confusion.

@understandingautism1389

Жыл бұрын

Yes I have met a pathological liar. One of my childhood good friends lied about everything even when confronting him about it he would just lie some more after a few years I stopped hanging out with him since it was too frustrating to have a conversation cause he would embellish or lie about things I knew were lies. Surprisingly he became a minister after high school.

@jaybanks1947

Жыл бұрын

My nephew lies about anything and everything. He can’t tell the truth about whether he put his socks on, even if he’s wearing them. I finally cut him off

@linguistsam

Жыл бұрын

I was raised by a pathological liar. The stupidest and most grandiose lies possible. Even after her death, repercussions of her lies still reverberate.

@craigfinnegan8534

Жыл бұрын

@@understandingautism1389 Why would a liar want to sell us on Jesus Christ our lord and savior, who's going to show up any day now and fix everything, even the US economy, violent crimes, pet overpopulation, and the war in Ukraine?

A friend of mine was married to a pathological liar. He would lie about things that didn't matter...I understand that is typical of a pathological liar. They practice lying all the time. He would cheat on his taxes, lie at work, lie to his friends. You grew to expect that anything coming out of his mouth was a lie.

@happygoluckyh.t.d.4life.739

Жыл бұрын

it really seems that they don't think the we actually know they are full of shit yet throw a tantrum when they out right get caught at it. Amazes me all the time.

@ArtemisiaDS3

Жыл бұрын

The issue is its not intentional at a certain point. They're so used to lying that it's just become natural

@TheXanneXanneChannel

Жыл бұрын

Oh hi friend, I’m not married to him anymore. It was too crazy.

My mother is a covert narcissist and a pathological liar. You can imagine what that did to our family. My older sister is Mom’s mini-me and she psychologically tormented me for much of my life. I only recently cut her and my mother off.

@9_debolati_318

11 ай бұрын

Didja..uhh..didja ever consider just uhh..you know...killin em?

My brother is a pathological liar!!! I can’t describe the nightmare in words!! I feel for all that have been affected by this nutcase!!

I was married to one for 14 years. He would even lie about the simplest of things - such as what he had for dinner

My former best friend was a pathological liar. She lied about EVERYTHING… just to lie. I sometimes don’t think she even realized she was doing it. In the end, she made up a huge lie about my husband and that ended our friendship. She was a wonderful, generous person, but she def needed attention and was pathological. Embellishing stories would have been one thing, but she was a bold-face liar.

@cariyaputta

Жыл бұрын

I don't think you can put "pathological liar" and "a wonderful, generous person" in the same sentence.

@sandraknight4751

Жыл бұрын

I know one of those. That's how they get friends again & again. Friends don't last long.

I once caught a guy who lied about me to my supervisor and a few colleagues. I disproved his lies with official documents previously endorsed and submitted... by himself. Should've seen his shocked pikachu face.

@craigfinnegan8534

Жыл бұрын

That's who all liars fear the most - themselves. Because all their lies have the primary goal of taking them away from themselves.

@happygoluckyh.t.d.4life.739

Жыл бұрын

I love a good narcie smack down and would have loved to see the look on his face but will instead bask in the knowledge that you got one good! thank you from a survivor of narc abuse.

Judge Newman is a great judge. He was so professional. His statements at the end of the trial showed his wisdom!

He killed Paul because he was facing murder homicide charge. He killed his wife due to divorce. It's very sad, glad it was resolved.

@ritaeichler2066

Жыл бұрын

No evidence of any divorce . That was a myth as per maggies sister at trial.

@IamNotTheAnswer

Жыл бұрын

@@ritaeichler2066 you say it was a myth when over 60% of couples get divorced, who knows what she was thinking or not. But technically not divorced but it was probably imminent as this was years and years of lies from a "prominent" person in the community... Whether it was divorce or not it was death due them apart

@IamNotTheAnswer

Жыл бұрын

@@ritaeichler2066 so you're saying there wasn't an inkling ever of divorce and to put that in the same sentence as myth is laughable... Over 60% of couple divorce. So yes they technically weren't divorced or separated but who knows what was actually going on. I'm sure it was a lot of pressure even thinking of splitting up publicly with such a "prominent" figure in the community... The years of lying and stealing that we knew about how many times she was implicated with any of his bullshit even minor stuff. It was enough to shoot her so I guess in the end it was death due to them apart. Literally

@ritaeichler2066

Жыл бұрын

@@IamNotTheAnswer all the prosecutors witnesses & maggs sister said they observed them to have a loving relationship . Maggie was happy as her sister testified. The housekeeper said Akex adored Maggie.

You gotta bring back the body language videos brother, there’s a million videos of this new format you’ve been doing

@Miss_Cherry

11 ай бұрын

Seriously

I hate lawyers who exactly know that their client is guilty and still try to get them free. 😡

5:25 is the defense version of Paul's death. He actually shot him in the chest and then from his jaw to the top of the head. Brutal.

Something that struck me extremely hard was after he was sentenced he said "I would never hurt my wife. I would never hurt my son pawpaw"(I'm probably misspelling that). He didnt say he didnt do it. Just that he "would never". That's not usually something innocent people say.

@ceebee2447

Жыл бұрын

Earlier, while giving testimony he said "I would never intentionally hurt my wife or son". I guess he replayed that statement in his head and realized it needed an adjustment.

@craigfinnegan8534

Жыл бұрын

Chris Watts said the same thing in the police interview room just before he confessed to killing his pregnant wife and two young daughters. The "never" part is highly significant. It's because it can only be a lie - to "never" be able to commit a horrific crime isn't humanly possible. Only flapping our arms and flying away is impossible. It's always all too possible for someone to harm their own children, or worse.

@laur131306

Жыл бұрын

@@craigfinnegan8534 sometimes I flap my arms and fly away Craig. I'm teasing 😂 I honestly got chills when you reminded me that chris watts said the same thing! Both fake "nice guys" that annihilated their families. I heard that his son Buster is being investigated for something. Is that true or was it something I misheard?

@christinerobinson890

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, the “intentionally” word made zero sense. I mean, I would never hurt my husband, intentionally or otherwise. I love him so much, I do anything possible to make his life better. Then to the judge, he used the wrong verb tense. He should have said, I didn’t kill my wife and son,” not “I would never hurt...” the “would never” suggests the future, which is impossible since Maggie and Pau-Pau are dead. I used that tense in my personal example because I have a future with my hubs because he’s not deceased. So it rubbed me raw both times he said it. I guess they don’t teach proper English at his law school. I call the drawl and the bad grammar ‘Southern grammar.” I had a boyfriend from AL. He said “peels” for pills and “wahf” for wife. Then he would drawl out bad grammar to tease me. Called me “Dahlin.” (Darling) It made me feel special until I found him calling his dog Dahlin. Lol. We had such fun teasing each other about our accents. He had been a singer and radio announcer, and he could turn the accent on and off. Anyway, I teach English (I’m embarrassed to say that I can’t remember the names of all the verb tenses) so when I hear incorrect verb usage, it rubs on my nerves.

@ElisiasEvolution

Жыл бұрын

@@laur131306 A boat incident... a girl died...

everybody lies.. some a lot more than others. we lie to ourselves more than anyone.

@seedtheskies

Жыл бұрын

I lie to no one... except myself.

@craigfinnegan8534

Жыл бұрын

@Demarcus The facts are it's so painfully obvious we don't need any facts.

@craigfinnegan8534

Жыл бұрын

@Demarcus Thank you Demarcus, you've changed my life!!

In college I had a friend who was a pathological liar but it took a while before I realized how bad it was. The culmination was her telling everyone she had leukemia then being caught out. Even then she offered up there was a communication error and that was the problem 🙄

As a pathological liar myself, it’s all of those reasons. I do it because I learned telling my parents the truth would always lead to punishment no matter what. My solution to this is to keep my mouth shut. Can’t lie if I don’t talk to anyone. I was diagnosed with BPD in my 20’s. I have stolen and struggled with drug issues my entire life. I haven’t been to jail and I’m not a violent person but I feel horrible about myself constantly. And you’re right, I’m writing this for sympathy because I crave validation. Idk. Just trying to give some insight as a less terrible version of Aec.

@mazzame6480

Жыл бұрын

Fair play,you seem quite an honest lier....lmao! 🤣🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿

@xoMiaBambinaxo

Жыл бұрын

Quite the introspection you have. Not alot of people are even capable of that. Kudos.

@MmaSmarty87

Жыл бұрын

the lie detector determined everything you jus stated as a lie

@Miss_Cherry

11 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing. I guess not all people with this "label" do evil things. We all have something.

@ryangordon1600

11 ай бұрын

Reach out to Jesus. Call upon His name. He will not only save you from your sins, he can heal you. Your behavior, and how you feel about it from your past. When reconciled with God, it brings peace. And makes it easier to confess to others who you've hurt and ask for forgiveness and he reconciled with them as well. Romans 5 1 Therefore being justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ: 2 By whom also we have access by faith into this grace wherein we stand, and rejoice in hope of the glory of God. 3 And not only so, but we glory in tribulations also: knowing that tribulation worketh patience; 4 And patience, experience; and experience, hope: 5 And hope maketh not ashamed; because the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost which is given unto us. 6 For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. 7 For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. 8 But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. 9 Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him. 10 For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled, we shall be saved by his life. 11 And not only so, but we also joy in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom we have now received the atonement.

The background music is horrible to my ears

Imagine being the son who's mother and brother get murdered and now dad's going to jail.

@christinerobinson890

Жыл бұрын

He’s behaving about as arrogantly as possible. Acts entitled. I think the money Alex stole is in off shore accounts in Buster’s name.

Yes, my brother-in-law is a pathological liar. And he’s so good at it, or at least he was. So genuine, so straight faced, has all the details covered. I honestly think he believes or becomes these kids, as he can tear up and show emotions while telling them, as if they really happened. It’s just insane.

“I would never pow pow, paw paw”

911 calls are so revealing. Some analysts state that what is most important (to the caller) in these calls is very often mentioned first. Need I say more...

Yeah. And she even went to police, etc, making up horrendous stories about my husband and me. I had to hire an attorney to protect us. It was a nightmare. I truly think that this person was unaware of what truth actually is. She created a fantasy and didn’t distinguish it from truth.

Most people know what a pathological liar is and have experience in dealing with them. I came here for body language videos… is there any way they can also be included along with whatever these are supposed to be?

The son recorded a Snapchat 5 MINUTES before he died 😮😳

That audio recording confirming Alex's presence at the time of the scene when he said he wasn't there was blood chilling. It's also very eerie because it was like Paul reaching out from the grave to provide one last crucial piece of evidence.

The shear amount of lying this man did is on par with Casey Anthony.

I've been married to a borderline, wrote one of my papers in college on it.

2:01 SWOON 😍!! You are smooth AF!

I would love to see a video on MH370 and deciphering if any of the officials/scientists/etc are showing signs of deceit while reporting their findings👀✈️

I admire your honesty, intellect. You don’t find that anymore. 🇨🇦 thank you.

I was friends with a guy in high school that was a pathological liar. It was really hard being friends with him and he really was a nice guy.

Such big lying fishes make us smaller ones feel like saints, don’t they, Derek.

One of my best friends in middle school is like this. She's still alive all the time about anything and everything. Even stuff that didn't matter at all. The only specific thing I can remember, as I'm 35 years old now, was her talking on the phone to this boy that she likes and saying that we were at the mall, but really we were at walmart. It was just ridiculous. And this is one random example of a thousand. I just can't remember anything else specifically. One of my neighbors is like this now. It's so insane. You literally cannot believe anything he says. If he says he ate a hot dog for dinner, you can almost guarantee it was not a hot dog. So weird. Also, I looked up antisocial personality disorder, what we used to call psychopaths, and he fits it to a t. It's pretty scary.

My neighbour a pathological liar and I think antisocial personality disorder. I need to be able to identity these type of people earlier, before they do harm.

this was crazy! we watched his trial even in Finland.

My ex was and still is like this, she will lie about stuff that she doesn't even need to lie about, it's like an addiction as she gaslights everyone and every thing around her, it must be so exhausting and also very lonely, she hasn't killed anyone yet but probably out of fear not morals.. 😢

I have students that are pathological liars. I teach 4th and 5th grade and these kids will lie about the smallest and biggest things. I had one boy full on tears, red face, stutter and tell me his cousin dies in just the right amount of detail. I sympathized and told him about my granny and how grief is hard and that he had support. Go to his homeroom teacher just to find out he told her the week before that it was his brother who died and she called his mom and SHE was confused. Like" UM NO ONE HAS DIED IN THE FAMILY> WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?" There's no hesitation and now I take whatever he and a few other student's words with a grain of salt.

Here's Alex Murdaugh: "You've GOT to believe me!!! I've been lying the whole TIME!"

I have a question but not about Alex or lying. As a little girl ingot a lot of attention because I was the baby and I won costume contests and was on the front of the newspaper. I got a lot of people recognizing me. Then we moved and still got attention from winning an award thru girl scouts. Again on the newspaper. Also lots of people like my eyes. But if you know me in very shy. I won't order at lunch I have my husband do it. I stopped playing sports cause I didn't want to be looked at. I hate seeing pictures or video of me. I cringe at the sound of my voice. What causes this? People don't mind perjury because they never get in trouble. Cindy Anthony should have gotten in trouble for saying she did the search. But they have proof she was at work.

@craigfinnegan8534

Жыл бұрын

What causes it is narcissistic parenting in a narcissistic culture. In such a culture we're made to think who we are on the outside is everything, and who we really are on the inside is something bad that needs to be hidden behind appearances. You're one of the lucky ones - you sided with who you are on the inside, so you ended up suffering every time you confronted your mere appearance to others. By comparison, the people who are really screwed in life are those who buy into the appearance game and in the process lose who they really are on the inside. In short, they're suckers. You're not. But our narcissistic culture makes you pay a price either way.

The high pitched noise is awful.

One of my best friends is a pathological liar. Its so wild. He really cant stop himself from doing it. Even for the smallest things. We're musicians... so one thing he'll do is lie about really inconsequential stuff. Like, he bought a guitar not long ago... instead of just being like yeah i asked dude to go down on the price a little... he goes on this rant about how he really worked on this dude for an hour and talked him down and this and that happened and this and that happened. Instead of the really simple 10 minute affair it was it became this epic duel of fates that truly put him in the light of being able to MAKE THE DEAL of a lifetime. Lol... But he does this with almost EVERYTHING he talks about. Every time. Nothing is simple nor ever easy. Its something that has developed over the years. When we were young it was just the occasional embellishments and stuff. And even then that was rare. But the chick he married went through this like... 6 year controlling thing and he didnt work or see any of his friends the whole time. That shit really messed him up. Hes a social creature and that just blasted all his occasional eccentricities up and mutated them into these full on psychological issues. I still love him and would do anything in the world for him. Ive just learned how to see through his bullshit and just ignore it. He knows he does it. He knows that i know he does it. He knows that i know that he knows that i know... blah blah blah... he tries not to go on too many rants. Lol

I missed these longer form videos

1:50 the defense claimed that they believed the shooters to be between the height of 5’2 and 5’4, the prosecution then took that and said that they were arguing that they were shot by 11 or 12 year olds, not saying he isn’t guilty, just pointing out a misstatement of the defenses case

8:18 watch the deputy with the beard nodding in agreement with the judge!

A psychopath scoring in the low 30s on the Hare test

One of my Brothers is a Pathological lier, you would catch him in a Lie and he would deny it right away. My sister is i think undiagnosed bi-polar....

I like eating food and watching these things ^,^

@deborah3912

Жыл бұрын

@craigfinnegan8534

Жыл бұрын

That's friggin funny to read while I'm eating smoked sausages on bagels.

I’m just here for the psyGOLogy! and the BODY LANGAUGE!

can you do one on the devil on trial?

Love the slow mo of his lies.

Yes in that video he was wasted, you could tell. That's sad.

yeah I met several but I'm starting to figure them out has I learn more about narc personalities. The last one is one moved into my trailer park and across from me was the worst but lucky for me I figured her out before she could do me harm. She is her own worst enemy because of her behavior, she said to me " You better not fuck me up" when I called her out on it and began the grey rock system and sat back and watched her destroy herself and those who also got to know her. it is no surprise that her friendships are short term and end with hostility and yet after time and in time of need she has tried to reach out to me with a common goal and I still said no. If it had not been for the fact that I have learned to save text messages and voice mails she would have had me evicted from my address of 20 plus years over things she made up. Also she tried to anti freeze my cat, it survived but that's not something I intend to ever forgive or forget. Yesterday I saw the land lord order her to stay in her own yard and talk to no one in the trailer park or she will be evicted. It felt good to me to see this, and to see her, see me, see it. What is worst of all is that has times get harder for us all, they seem to be coming more and more out of the wood work and more desperate.

@christinerobinson890

Жыл бұрын

Your last two sentences are so true and so scary. What exactly do you mean by “as times get harder”? Are you referring to finances or lack of morality or both or something else? I think the farther we push God away from daily society, such as removing prayer from schools and acting like it’s evil to be a Christian, the more acceptable is evil, and the more evil people become. I also think the terrible American diet with such heavy emphasis on processed “foods,” has led to across the board malnutrition, causing plenty of additional problems. The digital age has exposed people to all sorts of bad values, normalized the abnormal, and numbed their minds from critical thinking. Throw in widespread use of marijuana, crack, meth, and other drugs, and minds are fried. It’s like the inmates are running the institutions.

@happygoluckyh.t.d.4life.739

Жыл бұрын

@@christinerobinson890 I was referring to financial hardships, she was trying to get "free" whatever possible from me, but not just here and there ,I don't mind doing something to help someone once in a while or giving away something I have but they need but not on a daily basis. Every text I got from her started with either "I need" or "I want", never once said Hi, how are you. But all the other things you mentioned are very much part of it. Has soon has I started saying no she had a tantrum. Everything she told me about herself was made up and became clear has time went by.

Wish content creators would stop pretending they care what viewers think. It's all about the KZread algorithms, the more comments the better. Let's just be honest, and not lie ;)

I agree with the last 2 people bring back the body language analysis.

As George says 'its not a lie if you believe it'. I'm a pathological liar and I say this to myself in preparation. It's usually to create a narrative that would better fit the situation. I'm also very impulsive. I overshare and embellish. Often I cringe at myself later, but it's really hard to stop.

The lamp behind you on the right is off.

I may be a pathological liar myself. I may have met another pathological liar once or twice, but can you believe me?

Love your takes but them eyebrows are trying to jump off your face lol good video!

I've met a few pathological liars. Mainly minor things with someone I went to school with but oh man when I went to college I met a doozy There was this girl who went to community college with us "hilly billy folk (what she called us in a very fake New York to southern jersey accent which probably wasn't real). Apparently her parents are so wealthy and she was so wealthy they had a private jet that would fly her anywhere she wanted to go. When asked why she wasn't going to a school like Harvard (where her parents were alumni apparently) she said that her parents wanted her to be with the poor people to get some "perspective". It was very Inventing Anna type. What was funny was that I just kept saying "me too" and her lies got worse and worse from there. Looking back that probably wasn't the right thing to do but I was drunk and a dumb college kid... so eh.

Wow.

Shame. I feel like it's mostly about shame and hiding the truth to avoid feeling shameful, and that' runs in there family

I'd like to know how involved he was with that street gang

What is the music

When I met someone that was this way he always wanted to Agree with me and make up stories that seemed coincidental. It was so bad I could see right through it and so aggravating to see him do itIt was so bad I could see right through it and it was so aggravating to see him do it flawlessly

5:23-5:25- Is he laughing??!!

so if he’s guilty he was the only one in the room for weeks that knew he was guilty and could have just made a plea and saved everyone all this trouble and now that it’s over he won’t admit it?

Come on Dek, make some really good long ones, that’s what I’m use to, Manchester, England.

I was some form of a combination of compulsive vs pathilogical liar when I was an active addiction but I am pleased to report through my new found faith in God and the programme of A.A I have and have had this revealed to me on many a level and continue to actively seek daily help on being a better person! I continue to work on myself daily, it was quite the humbling experience! Liverpool, England.

@cinnamonrollonapancake

Жыл бұрын

Addiction is a disease and it is common for addicts to compulsively lie. My sister was an addict and passed away from several organ failures. I would attend her AA meetings with her as encouragement and support. You found God and you’re no longer an addict - you’re healed! God bless you! ❤️

I was once a pathological liar. I did it because I wanted people to like me.

He did it

Alex Murdaugh gives me forced relationship vibes

Hey Derek thanks for the great content and for all your hard work. I live a life of pseudologia fantastica. As human beings we are full of sht, sometimes I can't even trust myself. I mean I used to believe that money is evil, religion is evil etc. Those are all man made tools that have been exploited. Evil is a man made tool as well and it serves to punish. Anyway what I mean is that we do not fully understand the world we live in and it gives us a lot of freedom sometimes maybe to much. Thanks again for the awesome channel. ✌️

Are you not doing body language videos anymore?

Loving the new style ❤

Hey Derek, first off: Love your content! Ive been subscribed for around 2 years and have seen this channel grow Secondly though, the background ambience is very distracting. Especially the high pitched noises. I know your probably trying to go for an unnerving ambience but there are other kinds of more low-key type sounds/music that can accomplish that.

@josephmartinez3854

Жыл бұрын

Also 3 other ppl in the comments have the same complaint

Liar liar pants on fire

Wolves in sheep’s clothings.

My lovely... (let's not name the person here)... ...After more than 40 years, I've accepted how he is. He has a good hart, but always lies.

I know one. What a trip. This guy I know tried to make people believe He flew the helicopter for Walmart What a Hoot. He has even told people he is an attorney No. Dhit

Please make a video on Elon Musk’s recent interview with the BBC journalist. I would love to see that! Thanks for the awesome content.

Yes, I do a pathologic liar he's my step father.

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i know this is a dumb request but can you not use the creepy music anymore lol your storytelling and analyzing is already creepy enough lol how the f am i supposed to fall asleep nowwww

I'm a Schaiker

Why's he purposely talking with weird tones mid sentences, not hating but it just sounds idk odd

PLEASE BRING BACK YOUR OLD BODY LANGUAGE VIDEOS AND YOUR OLD STYLE. I LOVE THIS CHANNEL BUT YOUR VIDEOS AND LACK OF VIDEO UPLOADS IS GONA KILL UR CHANNEL! THNAKS, ALL 594,000+ of your subscribers

6:32 In my opinion, he was so cornered, he thought he was sparing his wife and son from embarrassment, humiliation, jail, etc. It is sad but he may have thought that was the better option. I don’t think he hated them or wanted them out of his life because he didn’t love them.

Pathological lying is lying for reason...Alec has many reasons to lie 🙄

He kinda looks like Dexter in your cover art pic

He is a ginger.., I cannot imagine they burned them for no reason in the medieval time. Judas was a Ginger aswell.. coincident? I doubt it. Just my opinion.

@heyheather111

Жыл бұрын

The whole “ginger” thing is so infantile. Someone’s hair color doesn’t make them behave a certain way. And how do you know what color Judas’ hair was?

@Leoprincess3038

Жыл бұрын

​@@heyheather111 my guess would be they're trolling.....and you fell for it 😂 come on

Derek must have no friends. Calls others pathological lairs. While he plays the character from Liar Liar. A true friend would've smacked him. He clearly isn't self-aware. He calls others narcissistic. Laughable.

hi Derek. as someone who understands body language, do you have any knowledge in its non physical equivalent, symbology? i ask because your thumbnail is symbolic and i was curious if you are as smart as i think you are. yes? okay, your choice, but i disagree. (: good day.

@quicksilverlacey

Жыл бұрын

I agree, to an extent. One thing is that some people will know or suspect you're lying, but just go along with whatever you're saying. My mom is like that. She won't confront someone on their lie she just lets them continue & goes along with it. Acting like she believes them. She sometimes puts it into a pocket in her mind for later to confront you on though, which I hate. Lol. She's used it on me before.

2:01.gangster