That First Lady broke my heart, how she admitted she couldn’t go through with suicide because she promised her friend, that is just heartbreaking

@jamie-leighgibson2338

3 жыл бұрын

Wish my granny's friend felt like that she killed herself after my granny got married back when they were 16 she felt lonely and missed her she felt like she was being abandoned

@nikonicolasnitolass9762

3 жыл бұрын

@@lorelei1761 no it’s there fault they should be your friend

@theliamcooke

2 жыл бұрын

This is pretty common, I made the same promise to a friend and it's stopped me from doing it

@miabeardmore

2 жыл бұрын

yh

@tiggercampbell6198

2 жыл бұрын

my dad killed himself..Im plagued with intrusive suicidal ideation..I would never put my kids through that..keeps me alive..and it always passes...and I have the best friends ever too

I want to give the first woman a massive cuddle 😩😭

@liamcassidy4254

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@nikonicolasnitolass9762

3 жыл бұрын

@@oglochomie sheesh lol

@jacobtaylor-smith4462

3 жыл бұрын

@@oglochomie you know what I meant jheez

@xxo_angelx

2 жыл бұрын

Can i have a hug? Lol

@jacobtaylor-smith4462

2 жыл бұрын

@@xxo_angelx sure

she is actually really brave. i could not go by myself. the nurses were amazing and so sweet

@katelyntaylor8131

3 жыл бұрын

I’m 16 and had to get one to try and control my period and had to get it out as it didn’t work but they couldn’t find it or feel it as it was to deep. And now the only way it can come out is if I go under general anaesthetic on the operating theatre as it’s to risky and deep and they have no clue where it even is as it can move once in. I’m to scared and just going to live with it inside of me for the rest of my life😭🤦‍♀️

@oliviawutam

3 жыл бұрын

@@katelyntaylor8131 sorry, that's impossible, I could find it easily. abt the girl= not brave but ignorant, She wants to become pregnant? quick somebody tell her that means a lot of pain. Ask any mother, she may change her mind.

@grce-ow

3 жыл бұрын

@@oliviawutam she's not happy with what she is feeling. she never said that she wanted to get pregnant but if she wants to get pregnant let her it's not your problem. we don't know what she did after this she may have gotten on a different form of contraception. i would hate it if you were my nurse when you speak like that.

@TinyPigy282

3 жыл бұрын

@@katelyntaylor8131 but the implant is visible on X-rays surely they can see it that way?

@grce-ow

3 жыл бұрын

@@TinyPigy282 they either have done one and know where it is or they haven't thought of it i guess. idk why they wouldn't have thought of doing an x-ray. she may not have gone to the hospital yet and has only been to her gp so therefore they wouldn't have done one. but idk it's not me

I wanna hug the first woman and tell her everything is ok

@rhyfelwrDuw

2 жыл бұрын

Me too!

@sandraadams4940

Жыл бұрын

No it isn't

Kudos to all these brave patients that agreed to be filmed. It’s daunting enough without the cameras.

The First Lady literally broke my heart. I can’t stand to see elderly people cry, it breaks my heart, just want to give her a cuddle 🥺❤️

@Romdormer

2 жыл бұрын

😥

@efyadjanie9155

2 жыл бұрын

So sad 💔💔💔💔🥺

She needs someone to talk to like a therapist weekly and a combination of medication as well. That’s more likely to help than just pills.

@eveoakley6270

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed, she needs therapist, but this is typical NHS, rather throw pills at you than refer for counselling 😪

@neen42

2 жыл бұрын

US - therapist i can afford: i can get you in 8 weeks from now, then April 2022... But if you can afford a therapist, you totally can see a therapist as much as you want/can pay.

@pansprayers

2 жыл бұрын

@@eveoakley6270 that's a universal problem, sorry. There's a shortage of mental health professionals compared to people who need the service. The NHS isn't unique on this end.

@LilySaintSin

2 жыл бұрын

@@eveoakley6270 How do you know she hasn't been offered that already? She might have refused. There's usually an 18 month waiting list on the NHS as well. We're very fortunate to stiil have it, even though it's hen deliberately underfunded for decades. Do you how much it costs just to call ambulance in US?

@LilySaintSin

2 жыл бұрын

@@pansprayers Exactly!

That poor first lady, such a lovely friend.

When you’re old, who cares if your meds are addictive, quality of your life is most important.

@hamstermunchies5558

2 жыл бұрын

They can cause a lot of suffering. Those meds are becoming much harder to get and the withdrawal for benzodiazepines is worse that torture. Those who go through it tend to try suicide because it's so horrendous. It is so much more horrendous than trying to cope without meds. Plus tolerance develops quickly so she will need more and more to get the same effect so eventually even the strongest dose won't do anything to help. She may be elderly but it wouldn't be too much of a stretch if she lived another ten years. All of this could easily happen within that time span, worse if she lived longer

These old codgers that leave their wives when they are old really get up my goat. But yet if he was in a wheelchair and needed caring for, she would have been there until he died. Poor lady, just wanted to give her a hug. I hope that girl has a plan for contraception now.

The first lady broke my heart i just wanted to hug her and look after her ,how could her husband sell the house from under her 😢 surly he can't put her out ,I really hope she can get some the help she needs, the doctor was very kind

i wish I could just give the first woman a hug, she seemed so lovely, i hope she is okay now and, for the second girl, i felt for her she was obviously very scared but the nurses were great especially the sweet one holding her hand❤️

that girl with the implant looked about 14 then when she said she’d been with her partner 4 years i was like… you’re not old enough!!

@chanellecinnamon6019

3 жыл бұрын

Okay karen

@tinxhowse2264

2 жыл бұрын

She did look really young!!!

@tinxhowse2264

2 жыл бұрын

@@chanellecinnamon6019 shes just speaking her mind

@emmaj4376

2 жыл бұрын

@@chanellecinnamon6019 ha! it’s just an observation, it’s not a criticism. she’ll appreciate it when she’s older and we all look wrinkled and she still looks in her 20s!

@neveterblanche7103

2 жыл бұрын

@Cat😸 she probably just looks really young, besides at least she’s taking the right precautions

When I got mine removed the nurse was so great to distract me from the pain she asked me about college and what I wanted to do in life and I honestly didn’t feel a thing .

@irhyn2300

2 жыл бұрын

why would u get it?

The last clip, those nurses were amazing!

They did her dirty with that thumbnail tho 😂

That kid did have some amazing eyelashes...

The lady in the first bit! Poor lady, what an awful situation to be in and I hope she gets through it xx

No suggestion for therapy/councelling/support for the first patient and then very little advice on other forms of contraception for the second...great.

@LilySaintSin

2 жыл бұрын

@Alexei Smirnoff Exactly!

@LilySaintSin

2 жыл бұрын

How do you know she hasn't done any of those things? Or she could have been offered those things cans refused.

@kbarnes8953

2 жыл бұрын

You think you saw the whole consultation? 🤔think not

The first woman with underline problems and going through a tough break up. Pulled at my heart strings, I really wanted to give her a hug. The nurses with the young girl for implant removal. Where great with her, keeping her calm as possible and being kind and patient through out. The NHS service are amazing people who are not always appreciated for the amazing service they do and the life's the change. Thank you NHS services world wide 🌈💐😀

I want to give the first lady a massive hug and tell her that everything will be okay and I would listen to her 😢😢

I really feel awful for the first woman, I wish I could give her a big hug and tell her how amazing she is and that everything is going to be ok💗

I wish I could help the First Lady. Broke my heart!

My heart literally breaks for this poor brave women I'll always say a face can hide a thousand thoughts and the mind can be so cruel when will that cry be loud enough its so overwhelming and an emotional roller-coaster that can effect us all in life I hope she get's the care and help that is needed that doctor was so lovely!

The poor older woman made me feel so sad 😢 I hope she is doing well now!

Literally sobbing for that First Lady, my hearts breaking for her

Oh my heart aches for the first lady. I know exactly how no sleep for days feels its agonising! On top of having so much going on in her life as well...I hope they have got her some help in place. She needs support workers going in or something bless her heart. Shes in my prayers.

@illumindonnaughty

2 жыл бұрын

Mine did too, i hope she is doing better now 🙏 sometimes catching up on sleep can make a huge difference...i know there reluctant to prescribe sleeping pills because people become dependent on them but my GP has given me a weeks supply in the past just to help me catch up x

The first woman suffering broke my heart bless her soul 😭💔 sending her virtual hugs

Fay is absolutely EVERYTHING a nurse should be. So genuine and warm and caring, whilst still getting the job done. Amazing.

The nurses are soo kind :)

The first lady broke my heart bless her

She was amazing and so were the staff xxx

i love that black nurse in the 2nd bit, great personality :D

👏 for the GP, the Nurse and the Healthcare Assistant

Poor lady! Hugs to you, sweetheart.

I hope that woman will be doing better soon , I wish her well

Hi, just some Info that’s the contraceptive implant not an iud (interuterine device) that’s a method of birth control inserted into your uterus like the mirena or copper coil 😊

@Ellabella12367

3 жыл бұрын

And that really hurts going in 😅😂😂 was OK coming out tho

@reemee3701

3 жыл бұрын

I have an IUD so couldnt understand why she was asking her to raise her arm 🤣🤣

@LauraBidingCitizen

3 жыл бұрын

@@reemee3701 Different body part 😂

@oliviawutam

3 жыл бұрын

I also understood about the IUD, Men should get vasectomies

@channel5

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Kellie, silly mistake. I'm blaming the heat

Please update the title I was so confused why they were asking for her arm; that’s not an IUD that’s an implant!!! It’s misleading just change the title they’re two completely different contraceptives and go in different places.

@jenjenbee1340

3 жыл бұрын

I was wondering the same thing!

@glenglen9958

3 жыл бұрын

It doesn’t say IUD anywhere in the title so it doesn’t need changing. Then nexplanon or arm implant is a contraceptive implant as it is “implanted in the body”. I thought that was obvious in the name it just goes into another part of the body. There more then one type of contraceptive implant and there not all IUDs.

@destinyccxo

3 жыл бұрын

@@glenglen9958 clearly you can see that multiple other people commented the same thing. Which clearly means they’ve changed the title since everyone was complaining about it being wrong.

The first lady bless her heart ❤️.I pray everything gets better ✌️🙏❤️

awww bless that woman 🥺

I'm worse than the young lady when it comes to pain and needles.

@oliviawutam

3 жыл бұрын

Zoe. being a mother is not for you.

@zoedark7101

3 жыл бұрын

@@oliviawutam i have a 21 year old daughter. I was hysterical throughout with injections and blood being taken. The birth traumatised me.

@jamie-leighgibson2338

3 жыл бұрын

@@oliviawutam ur so judgemental I don't do needles I remember having to have my mum come with me to get bloods drawn when pregnant as my partner was at work and I cried but in labour I flew through it and was perfectly fine no pain relief and my daughter was 10 pound 11ounces she came out in an hour 👌everyone is different and are allowed to be scared of things I'm traumatized from needles because as a young child I was having them constantly with being unwell and in hospital so my doctor's have even said to me somewhere in my head that thoughts still there Everytime a needles comes near me

Aw lovely nurses, women have to go through so much

Bless her that girl at the end.. so brave! I tired the coil and it didn’t work at all for me! The pill is doing the job just fine :) a little things here and their with light bleeds but other than that it works like a charm! I’m definitely not getting that implant tho ever aha

@missusw1

3 жыл бұрын

I had Implanon in my mid-20's. It was awful. I felt like my brain was shutting down and I got annoyed at everything then really tearful for no reason. I bled constantly for 4 months after being told to "see if things settled". I got really angry one sleepless night and dug it out myself, a week later I was back to normal. Went for a Gynefix eventually. I'm nearly 50 now and can still remember it.

I've been on the implant for 20 years and I've never felt the slightest bit of pain putting it in or taking it out. Painless.

@jessicavens1991

2 жыл бұрын

I feel it through the numbing. Always painfull and a lot of blood places on the skin for 2 weeks. But everything better than an IUD

@Scs.moon235

2 жыл бұрын

@@jessicavens1991 same here had mine out today hurts even with numbing

Ahhhhh Fay is so nice. Definitely in the right job. Sweetheart xx

I had to take my Auntie to support me. It was painful when removing the implant. I had mood swings and headaches. My menstrual cycle changed I didn't have a monthly cycle.😔

@yoongikookie4968

3 жыл бұрын

Sorry to ask this but does it hurt when u put it in?

@raffy8556

3 жыл бұрын

@@yoongikookie4968 In 2012 i decided to go with implant inside upper arm using local anaestheic. Every women has different experiences with their pain.

I had to be numbed twice when getting the implant removed as it was pressing up against a nerve in my arm (was causing pain when it was in hence why I wanted it out). Not the nicest thing in the world but I’ve had far worse (spinal blocks, c section, tooth removals etc)

bless the first woman, so sad x

Oh gosh I can't stand watching the first lady. She reminds me of my grandma so much. I can't stand to see my grandma cry ❤❤

She's really going to feel pain if she gets pregnant. I hope she gets an alternative such as an IUD.

The things women go through And society has the audacity to say they are weak

I have the implant and it's increased my periods and flow but I don't notice it otherwise and haven't gotten pregnant which is why chose it as birth control rather than for my period itself

Precious elder I hope she is able to get rest and peace in her life.

Oh gosh that lady 😭 made me cry

I relate to this girl I had the hormonal IUD and it made me more emtional than the depo injection so I got it removed and went back to the depo injection

Lots of suffering Poor people Thank goodness for compassion It’s such a shame

My implant experience was horrible, had it in to deal with irregular periods and felt nothing with it going in, but I bleed for a year and a half straight, so they finally decided it wasn’t going to settle and I was to have it out, that was the worst pain I have ever felt, had three doses of numbing and still felt everything, ended up just telling the nurse to just do it, it was sitting at an angle so was harder to remove, never again, I will stick with the pill, no longer have periods with it :)

@mhmyeet3508

3 жыл бұрын

It’s so crazy how different things work differently for everyone! I’m on the implant and it’s fine for me apart from the acne and weight 😂 glad you’re sorted now!

@nunyabizniz1983

3 жыл бұрын

My eldest daughter has the implant she has to have it changed in under 2 years she's 19. I'm dreading going with her to have it changed I can't cope with seeing my kids in pain xx

@Frankie343

3 жыл бұрын

gross 😝

@ems22holt63

2 жыл бұрын

Yh I only have wright gain and acne but no periods

@ems22holt63

2 жыл бұрын

Weight

This broke my heart I am literally crying! Poor woman

I’ve never met nice healthcare professionals myself so this was a bit jarring, they were so kind and accommodating!

@rhyfelwrDuw

2 жыл бұрын

The GPs and nurses in the surgery I go to are lovely and the phlebotomists are too. They are out there :)

I got the implant when I was 18 and put on 2st in 6 months. I had to get it removed it was awful and I'm so glad my nurse was as lovely as these two. On the iud for over 6 years and I'm so glad x

@ziesha.marie11

8 ай бұрын

Are iud painful?

The girl at the end was so brave! It's the scalpel that's putting me off the implant. Xx she's being responsible 💖 well done to her xx

@Hannahbond10

2 жыл бұрын

You don’t feel it though! Its honestly not bad at all but everyone is different and they’ll react to the implant different too x

Ive had my IUD in for 8 years...Im too scared to have it removed! 😬😬😬

@Ellabella12367

3 жыл бұрын

I had the copper coil and it really hurt going in i barely felt it coming out

@oliviawutam

3 жыл бұрын

that sounds messy and unhealthy

@jenniechurch5337

3 жыл бұрын

@@oliviawutam Do you know anything about them? Didn't think so...move along!

@nunyabizniz1983

3 жыл бұрын

It doesn't hurt but you get some cramping afterwards. I had mine removed after 6 years cos I planned a baby. I'd def go back to it. I was on the marina tho

I could never do the implant- it's in such a tender area as well I cant imagine. Women have to go through such an awful lot

@hamstermunchies5558

2 жыл бұрын

The one in your arm honestly doesn't hurt one bit. They give you an anesthetic so it goes completely numb and putting it in takes like two seconds. Its honestly no big deal

Very informative incidents

The first women I really wanna give a hug 😭😢

Feel so bad for first woman 😢

Felt so sorry for that first woman, I feel that she needs more support other than just medication alone. I feel doctors are too keen to just cover up the real issue by giving people antidepressants and when they do get to a point where therapy may be needed there is a very long waiting list. I think there's still a long way to go to improve treatments for mental health and for supporting vulnerable people.

That’s an implant, not an IUD...

@mjbrown5585

3 жыл бұрын

What’s an IUD

@OfficialRyanx

3 жыл бұрын

@@mjbrown5585 Intrauterine device. Sits in the uterus.

@OfficialRyanx

3 жыл бұрын

@@theotherone8036 That would certainly give them a up if it went off!

I think she's been hooked for decades now you don't want to get her addicted.

the First Lady needs to see a therapist not get drugs, drugs are a short term solution

I do not say this to sound rude or condescending, but truly, if the young female could not handle light pain of removing the implant it’s best she keep it in or else handle the pain of childbirth. 😳 At least find another means of birth control.

I just had my 3rd implant removed today, even while numbed I still felt the pain, which has happened with a previous removal too, the nurses are great though and add more numbing. I used to be fine with removals but because of that I now hate it, makes me woozy just thinking about it lol. I have another in my other arm too that has been lost and deep for years now, getting that removed is going to be horrendous, I'm dreading it. Normal removals are bad enough let alone a deep/complicated one. She did so well! My heart broke for the first lady, I absolutely hate seeing the elderly cry, I hope she is doing better.

Getting my implant in and out was absolutely fine👍🏼 I have 0 issues with needles thankfully x

@miahowells3062

2 жыл бұрын

This video has made me feel like it’s really bad to get it out, is it only the needle that’s bad because I don’t have a fear of needles so I hope I’ll be okay😂x

@Hannahbond10

2 жыл бұрын

@@miahowells3062 once its numbed honestly it doesn’t hurt! Its the same process as getting it in pretty much! Mine took about 3 mins to gets out all together xx

@Hannahbond10

2 жыл бұрын

@@miahowells3062 I don’t mind needles either so should be a walk in the park for you! Was pretty quick for me But i did have to have a bit more numbing cos I could still feel it a bit and she told me if i could feel it to let her know straight away but the nurses well dr and nurse doing it for me in my case where so lovely! They spoke to me the whole time too and they got it out pretty quickly like I said xx

Our NHS doesn’t get enough recognition

Poor lady is hooked

I had a "Norplant" - almost 30 years ago, it was 5 tiny tubes, spread out (fanned out) I only had it from August to February, but I wanted it OUT. No problem!!

broken heart want give her hug

I could not have that removed she did really well. Felt sick just watching

@Bringon-dw8dx

3 жыл бұрын

You are given local anaesthetic so it’s not painful at all

Awwhh that poor ole lady 😭😭

First Lady is so sweet awww

How old is the second girl ??

I had one of these removed and it was super painful. Poor thing. At least you had nice nurses to do it. My doctor was really rude and un supportive of it. I had one local and my doctor tried to cut with the scalpel and I felt it then stuck another local in and then couldn’t find the implanon the whole experience took 30 minutes

@googoogaga7986

2 жыл бұрын

I’d definitely report that, it can be classed under unprofessional judgement and stuff !

So upsetting. Why was that poor girl going throught contrazeptive implants being inserted and eventually removed, when she even says herself she is terrified of pain and needles. So sad women feel pressured to be the one doing the birth control. Why doesnt her boyfriend take initiative. Very brave of her still dealing with it, despite the pain and side effects. Sorry for my english.

@illumindonnaughty

2 жыл бұрын

It really doesn't hurt you hardly feel the needle it numbs the area so you don't feel it taken out, she must know condoms are her op tions now, could be wrong but she probably wants a baby?

@samantha_private1240

2 жыл бұрын

@@illumindonnaughty I agree I have it in and when they numbed me up it stinged a little bit and then all I felt is pressure

@B_27

2 жыл бұрын

Most women like to be in control of their contraception, we are the ones who have to carry a baby and give birth after all. Condoms are also not as effective as a coil (what this girl had).

@deborahkent9076

2 жыл бұрын

@@B_27 The coil is the IUD that goes into the uterus the implant is what this girl had.

whoever put my first nexplanon implant in did something wrong - it felt like a hot poker digging around under my skin for five minutes and i was incredibly sore for a week afterwards. when i went to get it removed, the nurse told me that i shouldn’t have felt any of that, and after calming me down on the bed for ten minutes and talking to me about my university course, removed it without my even noticing. 🤷🏼‍♀️

I've had the contraceptive implant removed and refitted. It's not a big deal? So anyone watching don't worry it's really fine. I didn't feel anything.

@JoJo-hg7tg

3 жыл бұрын

GA? They would use local anasthesia not general anesthesia

I hope I get awesome nurses like them when I get my implant 😩 I love getting tattoos and piercings but the little insertion device scares me lol. At least I'll be numb lol.

I agreed to get the implant because me and my ex thought it would be better for me so I wouldn’t forget the pill everyday we were together afew years, 2 months after I got it, he broke up with me. It’s nearly my 2nd year with it in. And only recently I’ve become really cringed with it like the thought of it being there / getting taken out makes me want to be sick, I really don’t want it taken out now as I’m really cringing at the thought of it being cut open onfg

That's not an iud

@e.v6134

3 жыл бұрын

What is it im scared to watch

@rhifincham145

3 жыл бұрын

@@e.v6134 She had a contraceptive implant in her arm removed

Oh that’s painful

Had this done. Didn’t feel a thing it was fine

I relate to the implant situation. When I got the implant I basically had a panic attack and I didn’t get numbed because I was crying so much. So i was terrified of the removal, but that went well

That poor first lady 😢

All of my life I’ve mostly only seen young couples breaking up but never an elderly couple until now. All those years together turned to dust. What could’ve gone so wrong for them to part ways at that age? I feel very very sad for the woman.

Jeez two weeks supply I'd be lucky to have two days supply!!

The only thing that hurts is the needle, you can’t feel anything else but it does make you feel queezy.

@courtneymck4125

3 жыл бұрын

they didn't numb me enough when they did mine, it still felt sharp and hurt, they ignored me when I told them

Wow I would have screamed It looked soon painfull

I used to get temazepam of 10 mg. But that didn’t work so then I got 20 mg. And that worked perfect I feel so sorry for this lady

When I had my implant removed, it produced a cord in my armpit and I couldn't lift my arm up for about a month

@kbarnes8953

2 жыл бұрын

No.Absolutely not. Implant on is placed subdermal.Where do you think your tendons are ?🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@absolutelyamboona8862

2 жыл бұрын

Looks to me it was axillary cording.

@absolutelyamboona8862

2 жыл бұрын

@@kbarnes8953 thanks for correcting me though

I know I shouldn’t be but I’m so annoyed that this young lady is removing her birth control partly because her boyfriend can’t “deal with her mood swings”. Is he going to be able to deal with her mood swings if she becomes pregnant? Yes, I heard her say she can’t deal with her mood swings either, however, I bet 9 out of 10, it’s because the boyfriend kept saying it, or something close to it. I hope she has another device in mind for when the implant is out, especially if she’s not ready to be a mom yet. With all that said, I love the way the nurses treated her. They were so sweet, considerate and professional.

I have the same implant and mine comes out next year and then will be replaced with a new one I think..