"oh you've gained weight" *He's growing as any child should*

@mikadosannoji553

3 жыл бұрын

well his bones are growing so he gained weight

@roonilwazlib7298

3 жыл бұрын

well no the teacher said 你胖了 which means “you’ve gotten fatter”

@user-kz2dt8tz8e

3 жыл бұрын

Being a chubby child is better than being a skinny one

@iveyteoh6681

3 жыл бұрын

The teacher didnt really mean to shame that kid. In Asian culture (idk), people usually talk like that when they havent seen each other in a long time like "oh your cheeks are more chubby now". Well some people are really sensitive and take it as an insult but I'm sure the teacher meant no harm 🙂 Sorry for my long comment hehe

@3uriellegoode715

3 жыл бұрын

Ivey Teoh True! sometimes i even get happy since i used to be skinny im poroud of myself now that iv gained weight ill make sure not to gain to much though.

The fact that he's not even fat or chubby...

@shanghainese7198

3 жыл бұрын

It’s a joke

@ohyeahminecraft

3 жыл бұрын

He's tiny! I felt so bad :(

@uzumakiswirls6849

3 жыл бұрын

@@shanghainese7198 he felt as if it was an insult ofc maybe the teacher didn't mean it that way, but it's not a jOkE.

@ayo.......2430

3 жыл бұрын

@@uzumakiswirls6849 it's a normal thing to say in Asia. I'm korean and was told similar things except the opposite since I was really skinny as a kid and still get told to this day when I meet my relatives "you lost some weight, you should eat more" something like this. Its a normal way to say "hey you've changed". I don't think it's a joke but it's meant to mean no harm to anyone.

@uzumakiswirls6849

3 жыл бұрын

@@ayo.......2430 no I agree. I know that the teacher most probably meant it in a normal way. But I'm just saying that him being upset abt it isn't a joke.

He’s literally just a kid. He shouldn’t be worrying about his body. Even if they don’t mean any harm, I feel like some adults still need to think twice before they say anything like that to a child :(((

@SD-yt9fe

2 жыл бұрын

It was a perfectly normal question tho?

@fi1e3rr0r7

2 жыл бұрын

I agree that the kid shouldn't be worrying about that, but why does the blame immediately go to the adult? It's not like they ment harm in saying that.

@-myharlequinnsapphicarch-

2 жыл бұрын

@@fi1e3rr0r7 the direct translation is like "did you get fatter??" or "are you fat now?"

@lauragg459

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with you

@sar1346

2 жыл бұрын

I think she ment like "you've grown".

Mom: “Yes, he’s gained some weight” HUH ALMOST LIKE THATS WHAT GROWING CHILDREN DO.

@plant2188

2 жыл бұрын

I know it’s like “you guys know that he is going to gain weight… because he’s a growing 5 year old, right?”

@fairyxe5693

2 жыл бұрын

@@plant2188 fr he’s literally not even slightly overweight at all 😭 he’s a completely normal and healthy looking 5 y/o

@Pilot-cx6xt

2 жыл бұрын

exactly, its as if the teacher expects him to weigh the same in 10 years

@Em-lr4wb

2 жыл бұрын

In Chinese it said: though he’s gained some weight, it’s normal weight and not fat. The translation is slightly off.

@JIHYODORANT

2 жыл бұрын

0:54 The kid is planning to lose 0.5kg, what??!! He shouldn't need to lose weight it will just stunt his growth and become malnourished

Adults would never know how much their words affect a child.

@lilnigka

2 жыл бұрын

Right, because adults were born as adults 😂

@Rahulbajaj561

2 жыл бұрын

@@lilnigka exactly was i was thinking. lol

@xx-xy1rf

2 жыл бұрын

@@lilnigka no but they grew up in different times and all people never know how their words affect someone

@xXChibiTaokakaXx

2 жыл бұрын

@@lilnigka No but alot of adults are insensitive dumb@sses when it comes to how they treat kids. As if the kid wouldn't be affected long term by how they act towards them.

@alishaahmed2560

2 жыл бұрын

@@xXChibiTaokakaXx my parents. it’s fun listening to them insult me and scream at me non stop

That’s not cute at all... that’s actually disturbing that a child so young is concerned with their weight when they are clearly at a very healthy weight.

@possum2620

3 жыл бұрын

Little bit under weight may I say, But every child till either 10 and/or 14 have baby fat, it's natural.

@markanthonywilliams350

3 жыл бұрын

its all in the head. u could be perfectly healthy but still think ir overweight. poor boy:(

@markanthonywilliams350

3 жыл бұрын

@@anoxmousyt4778 this isn't abt ethnicity its abt the mental stability of this child

@thepowerofgodandanime2691

3 жыл бұрын

@@anoxmousyt4778 That's absolutely absurd, no one is perfect what are you,a child?

@anoxmousyt4778

3 жыл бұрын

It's a joke

Boy: has a full blown mental break down The background music:😃🌅🎆🌈⛱

@musicislife6633

2 жыл бұрын

I was thinking the same

@jihan6823

2 жыл бұрын

HAHAHAHA

@nb5053

2 жыл бұрын

hahahahahahahahahahaha

Mom: “he’s gained some weight” Him: *a growing child*

@cocraine

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, she’s not insulting him. Why do you guys assume just cause someone says somebody else has grown weight, it’s a insult and that their mad at the other person for growing weight?

@cocraine

2 жыл бұрын

This is the problem with you guys. Why do you all paint weight as a bad thing or a insult?? I’m so confused

@ezraflix

2 жыл бұрын

@@cocraine bcz it’s insulting for someone to point out your weight, whether it is meant as an insult or not

@cocraine

2 жыл бұрын

@@ezraflix yes. But she’s saying he’s growing.

@khiemho162

2 жыл бұрын

@@cocraine those words affect his mentality and his behaviour as well. Saying some words that have double meanings to kids who aren't smart enough can actually be bad. The boy didn't know anything and the teacher just said it. Just like when i was a young child, my parents and relatives fed me a lot and when i gained weights, they kept calling me fat (or basically a pig) which made me sad. Yeah i think that if you have kids, you will be the worst parent. Just saying.

And this people is how an eating disorder begins

@Bratzismylife

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely agree

@umm_mimi7412

2 жыл бұрын

For sure, I really hope the kid realizes that he doesn't need to change.

@natechenheng1380

2 жыл бұрын

a*

@Shydrangeaa_

2 жыл бұрын

@@natechenheng1380 an* There’s more than one eating disorder

@hadeelsaid4679

2 жыл бұрын

Even though there’s a video bringing awareness to this kids problem he’s probably going to end up insecure about his weight and that can be very dangerous (eating disorders)

I can’t get over the fact that he cries and exercise. Just imagine how hurt and miserable he felt.

@aya123444

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. This hurts my heart so much.

@kimberley6308

3 жыл бұрын

Very sad, he so young he should not be so worried about weight.

@reyyyss

3 жыл бұрын

i agree, but i don't think the teacher meant to hurt him. don't get me wrong, i think it's wrong to ask a kid if they've gained weight, but i don't think she meant to be rude, yk?

@kimberley6308

3 жыл бұрын

@@reyyyss agreed I don't think the teacher ment it in a bad way, its the way the boy reacted to her comment, very sad.

@reyyyss

3 жыл бұрын

@@kimberley6308 yeah, it's really sad

Asian standard’s are Toxic!!! Like the teacher shouldn’t be saying those type of stuff to a young child - And the kid wasn’t even “chubby” and even if he was like it isn’t you’re BUSINESS!!!

@heitorsantos9824

2 жыл бұрын

Actually I believe that if the child was overweight that would indeed be the teacher's business, seing that the subject is related to health. Poor child, I hope that doesn't affect him so much.

@busterkeatonsbriefs

2 жыл бұрын

@@heitorsantos9824 it's not the teachers business

@heitorsantos9824

2 жыл бұрын

@@busterkeatonsbriefs But shouldn't a PE teacher worry about the health of their students?

@busterkeatonsbriefs

2 жыл бұрын

@@heitorsantos9824 well in PE they teach sports, nutrition and fitness but don't single students out because of their weight.

@MayandPoppy

2 жыл бұрын

I agree that just because this is considered “normal” in many Asian countries doesn’t mean it is OK.

This just shows how simple phrases can affect everyone, including little children... A few years back, adults would say stuff like this to me and tease me about my “chubby thighs” all the time. Now I’m almost 14 and am underweight because I took their words to heart 😢 I hope he learns that he should love his body no matter what, and that he shouldn’t let people’s criticism get to him.

@unnaturallynormal

2 жыл бұрын

i know how you feel, my mom always points my stomach out. it makes me feel fat, im eating less everyday and i don't know how to stop. i can't fkn eat anything, i just don't feel like it. get better soon

@gleams3264

2 жыл бұрын

@@unnaturallynormal I’m concerned for you. Don’t eat less! An average person should eat at least 2000 calories a day. You can always try to exercise, go on morning walks or running.

@3thalluing339

2 жыл бұрын

@@unnaturallynormal I was stuck there before. I know how it is and the only thing I willingly ate was fruits because they tasted appetizing. I recommend eating fruits and making fruit + water combos so your body can start to find foods appetizing again. it won’t happen quickly but at least it’s something and eventually looking at meats and etc. will make you hungry again.

@gleams3264

2 жыл бұрын

@@3thalluing339 very much correct!

@gleams3264

2 жыл бұрын

@@3thalluing339 agreed.

Poor baby. He definitely shouldn't be worrying about weight, especially at his age.

@tweezerz

3 жыл бұрын

i cried think about it

@o-o1251

3 жыл бұрын

I worry about my weight and Im only 9..

@sarah-dq5rl

3 жыл бұрын

@@o-o1251 please try not to worry about things like that! Yes, when I was 9, I always thought I was fat. But now as I look back, I realize that I never was fat at all, so if you're worried about your weight, please try to keep this in mind ❤️

@o-o1251

3 жыл бұрын

Awh thank u guys!

@hannah_1009

3 жыл бұрын

howl exactly!

dude a 5 year old shouldn't be worrying about their weight this is just horrible and sad

@NarainOfficial

3 жыл бұрын

Ye

@_phong.huynh_

3 жыл бұрын

and then seeing a 40 year old completely ignoring the scale and being morbidly obese in the US...

@civilizedgangster8024

3 жыл бұрын

@@_phong.huynh_ yeah, it should be the parents worrying about their kids weight

@VinVin_31

3 жыл бұрын

Ok it wasn’t even a insult or telling him off y’all need to study how china works I live in Canada yet I know this

@ragelastname5774

3 жыл бұрын

@@civilizedgangster8024 the child should also have notice

Why is he under the impression that he's not supposed to gain weight? He can't stop it... He's a child. He can only grow.

He's just 5! 5!! This world is becoming gloomier and more cruel than ever.

@janemaximoff7514

2 жыл бұрын

this is why more people have depression and commit suicide.

@yesnoblemetalsoxidizetoo3079

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, not letting your kid become obese is cruel lol 🤣

@citrusangel9488

2 жыл бұрын

@@yesnoblemetalsoxidizetoo3079 but letting them get an eating disorder is very cruel

@yesnoblemetalsoxidizetoo3079

2 жыл бұрын

@@citrusangel9488 that's not what I was saying

@leoscamander7805

2 жыл бұрын

@@yesnoblemetalsoxidizetoo3079 does that kid look anywhere near obese?...what kinda kids dyou see around you man?...even if he were obese , there's a way to break it to children, it has to be slow and gentle and in no way should make them feel Inferior or depressed...

He's just five years old and already he's insecure about his weight. Yikes.

@Ncraft2

3 жыл бұрын

Him: 😪

@alwayshardbeinganarsenalfan

3 жыл бұрын

That’s a serious problem that I hope doesn’t progress with him further into his life.

@alwayshardbeinganarsenalfan

3 жыл бұрын

Karen luvs Jesus me too.

@regen4823

3 жыл бұрын

@@alwayshardbeinganarsenalfan earth lives matter

@greatigbakpa5848

3 жыл бұрын

He’s not insecure he’s just scared

He shouldn't be worrying about his weight. He's still a child. He's supposed to gain weight. Not lose weight

@AlwaysUs4L

3 жыл бұрын

JDF ok but children can fell insecure too he’s teacher said that like he was fat and he told her he was working out .

@scorttxh7632

3 жыл бұрын

Iconic Dionna | We know that children can be insecure. Our point is that the teacher shouldn’t comment on a child’s weight in the first place because children are supposed to gain weight.

@cranburrey

3 жыл бұрын

@American Born Mostly adults.

@keenjoaquin847

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you i can now no longer be insecure about my weight because of you

@HBC101TVStudios

3 жыл бұрын

Asians, what do you expect

poor baby. He’s not even fat. He’s perfectly healthy. Those adults are just projecting their insecurities onto him. I hope he’s okay 🥺❤️

When he cried it broke my heart. If you don’t have nothing nice to say don’t say it. You’ll never know how badly words can affect someone. Poor baby worrying about this at such a young age.

If he is considered “fat”, I’m considered *obese*

@kenji586

3 жыл бұрын

*Same*

@obabatunde100

3 жыл бұрын

SAme

@JohnZ-

3 жыл бұрын

If he’s considered fat, what would they consider Discord Mods, Redditor, and Rule34 Artists

@PetiteKeyboardist

3 жыл бұрын

I’m considered dead.

@snesjkksdnuesjjsj

3 жыл бұрын

Cookie Relish I am considered 'nauru'

I feel like his mother should show more concern. He literally is a child worrying about gaining and losing weight. That speaks volumes

@user-xy3zc4sb3f

3 жыл бұрын

This is common in China. The mother wasn’t concerned because she didn’t think of it as a insult, more like “Have you grown?”

@itslala3076

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly! This is really heartbreaking, his mom should feel sad that her son feel that way about himself

@toshix6001

3 жыл бұрын

it's common in east asia but sad also asian moms often care more about their image in front of others rather than their own childs mental health so she focused on proving to others that he is not fat and unhealthy instead of making the boy feel better

@fategg7930

3 жыл бұрын

@@itslala3076 im pretty suree the teacher meant it like have u grown since we seen?

@laurarodrigues9700

3 жыл бұрын

there's just this clip of 2 minutes, in which his mom talk for 30 seconds, but this is enough for you to say she isn't concerned enough???? perhaps do you know her personally????

why is he worrying about his weight?! he’s still a child :(

This is shattered my heart, he is too young, adults seriously don’t know the affect of their words on children. Him breaking down and crying over that is absolutely terrifying.

The issue isn't him being healthy and working out, thats great. The issue is that he immediately logged out of school, worked out, and cried. He was obsessed with the idea.

@LookupintheAER

3 жыл бұрын

It isn't healthy to work out just to change your body shape anyway. So I wouldn't categorize his working out as healthy, either.

@joshuameadows4922

3 жыл бұрын

@@LookupintheAER LOL what? You know that makes no sense right? So exercising to lose weight or make gains isn't healthy?

@LookupintheAER

3 жыл бұрын

@@joshuameadows4922 Exercising simply to change the aesthetic of your body is not mentally healthy. Its a sign of body disorder, eating disorder, and there's exercise disorder. So the physical exercise might be healthy, but if you're doing it for the wrong reasons, its mentally unhealthy.

@joshuameadows4922

3 жыл бұрын

@@LookupintheAER The entire point of exercising is to change the appearance of your body...Maybe your tired of being fat so you make the change to feel proud of yourself and be more comfortable in your body, or if you want to gain muscle you start working out

@LookupintheAER

3 жыл бұрын

@@joshuameadows4922 No, that's the unhealthy way of thinking about exercise. You should exercise for the sake of your physical health, not for appearance. If your physical appearance is the only thing that's motivating you, then that's an issue of body image.

the fact that at his age he is already anxious about gaining weight is making me worry about his mental health😕

@nahman594

3 жыл бұрын

What is the context of your comment?

@kennitta4495

3 жыл бұрын

@@Cindy-yq8km no its definitely not cute, it upset him and it had a right to upset him because someone commented on his body, the teacher may not have meant it in that way but it can definitely be perceived as body shaming

@kennitta4495

3 жыл бұрын

@@Cindy-yq8km but you do understand how it can be perceived as body shaming right?

@supershaggy4271

3 жыл бұрын

nah, this is how it should be too many people are obese becuase they are not anxious about gaining weight.

@therealgeoarchon

3 жыл бұрын

@@Cindy-yq8km ikr he only said he 'gained weight'

Adults don’t realize how much mean words like that affect kids so much. When I was younger my mom would always say I’m fat (as a joke even though I’m skinny). But it would go too far to the point I’d take seriously and become so self conscious that I developed a eating disorder when I was in the 6th grade

@anushka_xoxo

2 жыл бұрын

This is the situation with me and i AM in 6th grade

@hadeelsaid4679

2 жыл бұрын

@@anushka_xoxo it’s very very veryyy hard but rlly it is such a amazing feeling when it’s all over. I’ve overcome my eating disorder and I promise u it rlly is so much better living without it. Even tho I’m not doing the best mentally my eating disorder is such a weight lifted off. Please always rethink ur actions and why even ur even rlly doing what ur doing

@babyqueenxo

2 жыл бұрын

@@anushka_xoxo Don't listen to other people's judgements. Eat healthy and play. You're too young to be body conscious. But don't mistake this to eating junk food and not exercising. Exercising is very important at your age for healthy development.

@anushka_xoxo

2 жыл бұрын

@@babyqueenxo i do excercise but still idk why people say that

noooo little kids shouldn’t be worrying about their weight like this. This is how eating disorders happen. Adults need to watch what they say to kids. :(

This made me very sad. This child doesn't need to be worried about something like that.

@angeloripple5963

3 жыл бұрын

The effort tho is wholesome but yeah very sad that a kid is already cautious about his body

@BigpurrEli

3 жыл бұрын

This is the problem with the judgmental society that we created

@omgods1

3 жыл бұрын

@Joe Mama theres a difference between teaching and teasing. What if the child develops builimia or anorexia?

@muffix3111

3 жыл бұрын

Joe Mama he was clearly upset about it. A child who shouldn’t have to worry about things like weight, cried and was very upset about it.

@yourlocalcoward8128

3 жыл бұрын

@Anonymous I agree tbh, like everyone is beautiful, but being obese isn't healthy which I'm against

Children that young shouldn’t “work out.” They should be outside running and playing. That’s their version of “working out.”

@annabethchase4582

3 жыл бұрын

exactly!

@edithriviere6629

3 жыл бұрын

And i think that's how adults have to work out too...

@Turin-Fett

3 жыл бұрын

Too bad the whole world decided no one was allowed to go outside and have fun anymore.

@sqxz5966

3 жыл бұрын

@@Turin-Fett maybe because thwre is a f pandemic?

@casper34xv19

3 жыл бұрын

Also his form is awful

Thinking that kids like his generation all over the world are actually worrying about superficial things at such a young age. It saddens me.

this actually breaks my heart he's such an adorable kid he shouldn't have to worry about his body so early

Poor baby 😩 why is he even worrying about this? Who put that insecurity in his head?

@breadgenieboi9163

3 жыл бұрын

The media most likely

@KayleeGridleyLimitless

3 жыл бұрын

His teacher..

@aprilb1273

3 жыл бұрын

Lol the teacher but he probably has heard someone around him talk about their own weight in a negative way.

@forevertheaii

3 жыл бұрын

The teacher.

@katt0906

3 жыл бұрын

I rmb when i was a kid, my siblings made me insecure but they also made me mature and life advices, couldn't have been more thankful. Also im no longer insecure so which is nice

Dude he's actually kinda skinny. Also directly translating, the teacher asked "did you get fatter?" or "are you fat now" a bit rude if you ask me, particularly towards a child.

@pieman1712

2 жыл бұрын

It happens a lot in Asia; and not even in a demeaning way. It’s their culture and it was not the teachers fault that the kid had a low self esteem.

@rob_nnz

2 жыл бұрын

What? It means if they’re growing, you’re rude for assuming that a culture, particularly MY culture, that we do this to bodyshame. When you’re a parent you want to make your kid gains weight, because, maybe, I don’t know, IT MEANS A FORM OF GROWING UP? Don’t assume if you don’t know the culture. - -Coming from a Chinese person

@CenerothXaris

2 жыл бұрын

@@rob_nnz I looked really hard but I still can't see how your reply connects to anything from the original comment but if you really think something being a cultural thing means it can't be rude then ... yeah that's telling already to me.

@rob_nnz

2 жыл бұрын

@@CenerothXaris What I'm saying, is that I disagree with op about the rude part. You can read my original comment as to why I disagree with op's opinion

@jessie8337

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah that’s why it’s not advised to use triggering words like fat or thin because it can make the person self conscious and can trigger EDs. Imo, the conversation about weight should be very neutral and if not done well, it’s best if you don’t mention it at all, no matter to whom ur talking to.

There is a lot to unpack here. Firstly, he isn’t even “fat” why did the teacher mention if he gained weight or not? Secondly, kids shouldn’t worry about there weight and they should just be kids! 2021, the standard is to high it not only affects teens/adults but it also affects little children such as him

@hilbert8811

2 жыл бұрын

Gained weight isint taken as unhealthy in children out here. It means hey you are growing stronger, some ppl also equate gaining weight to getting stronger and the teacher said it in that manner. However the kid was too young to understand that

a child certainly doesn't need to be worry about that and when he went in the corner to cry I felt a sense of similarity.

Body shaming a 5 year old who isn’t even considered over weight. Oh we are such wonderful adults.

@1nterv1od_gd62

3 жыл бұрын

The teacher was 100% overweight as a kid and was bullied for it and this is how she carries it on.

@harshmnr

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe the teacher didn't really mean it like that. I'm not sure about China, but I've heard that in Japan at least it's considered pretty normal to just comment that someone has gained weight, like not as an insult but kind of like "Oh you got a haircut." ~:~

@Hellothere-kp5gm

3 жыл бұрын

@@harshmnr I agree. A lot of people really took that to another level and blamed the teacher for that. I bet the teacher didn't even mean to sound rude or anything.

@dindaseptiara5393

3 жыл бұрын

@@Hellothere-kp5gm I know this "you shouldn't feel offended and take a joke too far" mentality since I lived in Asian country as well but hey, have you ever heard how to act polite and not to comment on ones' appearance if weren't being asked? I too, believe that the teacher meant no harms with what's they were saying, but that comment could considered as body shaming. maybe next time just try to being more considerate because what you consider 'joke' doesn't always feel the same with another people.

@Hellothere-kp5gm

3 жыл бұрын

@@dindaseptiara5393 I don't disagree with you, however, check what I wrote again. I never said anything about this being a joke.

Bro he's not even chubby. The dudes like normal size. This is terrible influence to kids

@Belikel

3 жыл бұрын

The "dude" is a 5 year old boy. Can't you refrain from the frat-boy speak even with him, "bro"?! Talking about terrible influence.

@nindyaisah3936

3 жыл бұрын

@@Belikel umm chile.. why are u so pressed💀

@user-wn3wv5bx5e

3 жыл бұрын

Dude, it was most likely a joke, since parents or older people in Asia frequently joke about weight, love life and height when they meet someone. Even if it wasn't actually true, people really perceive it as a joke, and I'm sure that the teacher wasn't being intentionally negative.

@Carlos-qb5jj

3 жыл бұрын

Jemima , still not ethical for grown adults to be commenting on little kid’s bodies.

@user-wn3wv5bx5e

3 жыл бұрын

@@Carlos-qb5jj neither was it necessarily intentional. The teacher made one simple mistake that they probably didn't think much of, I won't think anyone would have known that a boy that was visibly fit wouldn't be aware of it. That could be part of the joke as well, the teacher thought that the kid wouldn't think much of it since he does actually seem fit.

That's honestly so sad like he shouldn't be worrying about those things a that age

He’s a kid! He shouldn’t be worrying about his weight at his age. He also shouldn’t view exercise as a punishment; it should be an enjoyable hobby for him. He’s also supposed to be gaining weight, because he is a growing child! I get that it’s considered normal in many Asian countries to make comments to someone you know like a family member about their weight, but just because it’s “normal” doesn’t mean it’s OK. 😔

@Incognito-co6og

2 жыл бұрын

It's suppose to mean you're growing, the kid is 5 he'll know how stuff goes around soon enough.

@hilbert8811

2 жыл бұрын

See generally when relatives come and meet after long time or children and teachers meet again after summer vacation it's usually the very common asked stuff. It indirectly means, hey you grew tall/ your body developed. Since he was little kid he misunderstood it

@veronniep

7 ай бұрын

When English speakers greet children they haven't seen in awhile, they say "look how much you've grown!" That's really all this teacher was doing here. It is normal, and it is OK too. There are a lot of other parts of Asian culture that are very problematic when it comes to body image and beauty ideals, but this phrase really isn't one of them. It's a term of affection/endearment, not an insult or a comment on someone's actual weight.

The fact that a five year old is worried with his body shape and that he actually knows how to work out is really worrying

@haroldinho9930

2 жыл бұрын

He doesn’t, he’s doing some exercises like press ups and sit ups wrong, very wrong.

@beasworld5155

2 жыл бұрын

My daughter knows how to workout since she was 3 and now she is 5 And she works out 2 times a day , she is always talking about body size

@kristinccha

2 жыл бұрын

@@beasworld5155 That is concerning

@escapefr0mslender

2 жыл бұрын

@@beasworld5155 Why does she focus so much on body image?!? You are doing something wrong, that’s disgusting

@cat-wq2sk

2 жыл бұрын

No when kids usually turn five schools teach them these work outs. Well im from the south and in kindergarten we did stuff like this

Bruh let him grow up, now is not the time to worry about his weight.

@curiious7275

3 жыл бұрын

Yess

@itsmickey890

3 жыл бұрын

For real this is supposed to be grown up and teenagers thing 😭

@sweetnsour10

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. He’s a child, he can make fun decisions.

@Ok-tf2wh

3 жыл бұрын

Nobody should be insecure about themselves and should learn how to love themselves

@paristexas13

3 жыл бұрын

IKR he’s supposed to have fun at 5 😭😭

It is so strange to see a child doing 'exercise'. I mean, yes, children are active - they do sports, P.E, running and jumping around, fighting one another playfully etc... But to see a human of this age performing structured 'exercise' is truly bizarre. This is not right at all! Poor boy!

someone please give this little boy a hug and tell him that at his age it’s perfectly normal to gain weight.

He’s a growing child! Of course he’s going to gain some weight AND get taller! Sad he’s made to cry and worry about this!

@huienchen9474

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr he won’t be able to grow properly if he keeps losing weight. The thing is “have you gained weight?” Is kind of a joke in China to tease close friends or family. But sometimes they don’t understand that you can’t say this to a child cuz they might take it seriously. Saying it too much to them may even take a negative impact on their mental or physical health, even after they grow up.

@qiqi9305

3 жыл бұрын

Random Gacha, I want to know if telling someone that they are adopted is a joke in China. My parents do that to me and it is confusing to say the least.

@huienchen9474

3 жыл бұрын

QiQi it actually is cuz I live in Singapore and even here it’s a joke between parents and children or siblings

@qiqi9305

3 жыл бұрын

Random Gacha, ah. Thanks for explaining.

@laramaria2908

3 жыл бұрын

@@qiqi9305 Don't worry about it. If they continue to joke, you can teasingly say: "I know. I have such wonderful genes that even you guys wonder don't you? I did." XD But I dunno if this kind of answer is rude even in a joke. I'm from the other side of the world so... Hugs.

guys, this is how anorexia starts. it’s not just with women, men probably have just have many cases. it’s just not as documented because of toxic masculinity. no one deserves to be treated like this, especially so young. yes, childhood obesity is a problem, but no child should worry about it so young.

@beastinout7291

3 жыл бұрын

I dont think anorexia has to be reported, it does happen in males but if your someone who regularly visits a physician they would tell you in you have weight problems..

@yalikejazz7489

3 жыл бұрын

Well anorexia doesn't need to be documented, like I myself suffer with it and I had it at a very young age, if he saw how his mother was working out and was being commented as "chubby" it can take a toll on a person, and at his age what happens around him can easily rub off on to him. But what worries me the most is that he can calculate weight at such a young age, I understand being picky and such, especially at his age. A child shouldn't worry about it so much yes, but it's more so the parent's fault or people around him. If he sees himself as chubby or fat/overweight he could easily taken that from his mother saying when she was little she was chubby, anorexia or any eating disorder in general is very complicated, and can effect people in different ways.

@charms251

3 жыл бұрын

Even me...? Im ten tho

@user-yh8ql5ep6q

3 жыл бұрын

Lol my parents don’t give a dime

@cremepuffle

3 жыл бұрын

The fact that people still think obesity, the actual fat, is the issue is still beyond me. 81% of girls as young as a single digit number worry more about getting fat than they do getting breast cancer or being caught in a nuclear war... but i guess fatphobia isnt real bc we somehow need to shame people to “get healthy” when it’s already been proven weight is not what makes the person unhealthy. Fatphobia is how anorexia and ANY OTHER eating disorders start. But yall wont believe that fatphobia even exists.

he will probably remember these words forever. some adults should be more careful about what they say and how much it can affect children’s life

The only exercise a kid should be doing is running around playing.

@pink_wine_

2 жыл бұрын

this should be one of the top comments

@Incognito-co6og

2 жыл бұрын

Considering kids will soon know plenty of emotions during adolescence is one of the reasons why people need to let them have fun but since this is asian culture I heard that it's suppose to mean you're growing

@izzy07c

2 жыл бұрын

Unless the kid wants to do more then yeah, but excersising should be encouraged in a healthy way. Without making any negative remarks

The fact that he burst into tears like that probably means it’s something he thinks about a lot. He is 5 years old for God’s sake! Him crying as he walked off broke my heart. He is no where near being overweight, there is no reason for him to be so worried and concerned for his weight at 5 years old!

@PrivateMcPrivate

3 жыл бұрын

Tbh he's probably underweight. Kids like him shouldn't be excerising much. I only started to get gym class when I was 11.

@nadz5286

3 жыл бұрын

it just shows how this generation has made kids insecure too

@xiaozenni4843

3 жыл бұрын

The teacher wasn’t saying he was overweight, I believe she was saying he looks healthier ;-; In Asia it’s common to comment about stuff like this when you meet someone. If you know the other person is trying to lose weight, when you meet them you’ll probably say “hey! Oh, did you lose some weight? You look nice!” Or whatever. And usually, when you say “have you gained weight?” You’re commenting on how they look healthier

@hehehehehehehehehe99

3 жыл бұрын

Although I turned 11 just some days ago I feel like I'm really fat nobody really told me if I'm too young to think like this or I'm old now and it's normal

@russtorque2993

2 жыл бұрын

I think it's his ill concieved notion that takes the better of him

This is how anorexia starts. He gets the mindset that he is too fat and starts exercising off all of the body fat he needs. I hope he doesn't get an unhealthy eating mindset too.

@astraeak2354

3 жыл бұрын

Yes , he needs to understand that he is perfectly finr :(

@weeb7967

3 жыл бұрын

@@noodleislife4572 oh thats y its edited

@benkenobi1422

3 жыл бұрын

@@noodleislife4572 bulimia and anorexia go hand in hand though. Anorexics sometimes purge what little they eat.

@noodleislife4572

3 жыл бұрын

@@benkenobi1422 you’re right my bad 🤦🏻‍♀️ in this case, this kid exhibited non-purging bulimia.

@abby-girly1652

3 жыл бұрын

Amen

This kid is so adorable, parents need to be emotionally available for him, atleast know about his worries🤧

My heart broke, please let children live happily, you only have a childhood once in your life

hearing him cry broke my heart. he’s so young, he shouldn’t have to worry about what his body looks like and how much he should exercise :(

@anonymousfan.4451

3 жыл бұрын

I'm apparently too young to be insecure at my age

@HiHowAreYa

3 жыл бұрын

@@anonymousfan.4451 You misunderstood 🤔

@anonymousfan.4451

3 жыл бұрын

@@HiHowAreYa uh no, I'm saying that my parents think im too young to be insecure but we can feel like that at any age

@HiHowAreYa

3 жыл бұрын

@@anonymousfan.4451 oh srry you didn't mention your parents

@thisisabot377

3 жыл бұрын

@@Cindy-yq8km It's not really cute that the misunderstanding affected him in such a way

Oh man. This is how body dysmorphia and eating disorders start. Poor baby. I hope the parents told the TEACHER (who is a WOMAN), not the boy (for everyone that keeps writing "*HE or HIM" in the comments.) where she could go.

@lin.yiming

3 жыл бұрын

He’s a boy*

@GS__

3 жыл бұрын

@@lin.yiming I hope the parents told the TEACHER (who is a woman) where to go. Watch the video again and read my comment AGAIN. SMH.

@lin.yiming

3 жыл бұрын

G S Oh Okay,I apologise

@zskr257

3 жыл бұрын

@@GS__ it looks like you're refering to the sentence before tho I mean that's kinda how it works

@hacgiaythiengia7516

3 жыл бұрын

If you tell a kid that s/he gained weight, it should be regarded as a compliment (I'm Asian, that's a culture)

Poor little boy. He’s not too heavy. He’s beautiful. Words hurt.

i want to give him a hug!!!!! and tell him i love him

Unbelievable. This is not funny at all, poor kid

@ajayusspiritus6955

3 жыл бұрын

This poor kid takes things too literal, no joke but If someone asked him to jump he'd either jump or ask How high

@PastorOogway

3 жыл бұрын

@@ajayusspiritus6955 That's called being a kid

@hatman3445

3 жыл бұрын

Hilarious.

@MountainMaid238

3 жыл бұрын

That baby needs some responsible adults in his life to role model and help him process his thoughts and feelings. He's a child, hes not supposed to make sense of the world on his own.

@Rekter

3 жыл бұрын

Ajayus Spiritus Bruh he’s frickin’ five years old-aka a *child.* What the actual heck do you expect?

this is horrifying. this is what I look like while having a bad episode and deciding to work out. I have anorexia. this kid is FIVE.

@nonochangbinno

2 жыл бұрын

i hope you get better soon, you are so strong! i wish you the best 💓

@-topic9506

2 жыл бұрын

@@nonochangbinno ❤️❤️❤️

@nonochangbinno

2 жыл бұрын

@@-topic9506 💙🤗

@kittycatrittycatalt9523

2 жыл бұрын

Get better please ♥️ You’ll be alright people care for you :) And yes I agree it is horrifying A teacher should never do something so disgusting

@xxxnachoelwheellsxxx3464

2 жыл бұрын

@@-topic9506 Nobody asked you drama queen

That poor kid man , srsly Idk why these adults are so obsessed with a child's weight

All negativity aside, he looks so cute when he exercises.

His is toooo young to be worried about things like that, and that teacher has no shame whatsoever seriously 😔😔😔

@jvstvorothii

3 жыл бұрын

and i am too young to be worrying about college/my future/death, but here i am

@srutideka2894

3 жыл бұрын

No I think it was a normal comment, like, "Oo did you gain weight" everyone says that not necessarily criticizing him

@elmaxswalkman

3 жыл бұрын

Sruti Deka but he’s young and he doesn’t understand that, the teacher should know better

@srutideka2894

3 жыл бұрын

@@elmaxswalkman yeah true that. But sometimes these kinda things just slip out. Like maybe the teacher didn't think he would go to such a length and do all these 🙁 or she was like "Ooh you gained weight! You're chubby cutie" and he took it in a bad sense 🙁🙁

@justinztan

3 жыл бұрын

It's also a cultural thing. Chinese people are generally more direct, sometimes to a fault.

HE’S ONLY A BABYYY ITS TOO EARLY FOR HIM TO BE CONCERNED ABOUT THIS

@cozygamer6369

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@yeboyjayyjv9109

3 жыл бұрын

He is not to early!!I it is actually better to start young and be fit! Cuzz when you get older its gonna be harder!

@cozygamer6369

3 жыл бұрын

Cuby Orange he’s to early to be concerned about his body image not to young to be fit there different.

@yeboyjayyjv9109

3 жыл бұрын

@@cozygamer6369 no he isnt! He should care about his body and not eat too much!

@ttretinoinn

3 жыл бұрын

Cuby Orange dude the kid is literally five he should be worried about remembering the alphabet

Honestly I felt the sadness when he went to cry in the corner, made me sad and totally understand what he’s feeling at that age

I’m pretty sure the teacher’s intent wasn’t to harm him, because in Asian culture, typically when you haven’t seen someone in a long time, they’d comment something different about you like “oh, your hair has gotten longer” or “oh, youve gotten skinnier.” Of course, when you say “oh, you’ve gotten chubbier,” some people may take it as an insult

@okay5668

2 жыл бұрын

Let’s not normalize it though I still think it’s not okay even in Asian culture

@bananabutts

2 жыл бұрын

@@okay5668 yeah, thats true

@izzy07c

2 жыл бұрын

It's meant to be a nice compliment, saying you have gotten fatter is an insult everywhere on the world

@babyqueenxo

2 жыл бұрын

@@izzy07c So is saying you've lost weight or gotten skinnier. Body positivity doesn't do enough for skinny and small people. We need to address body shaming as a whole.

@izzy07c

2 жыл бұрын

@@babyqueenxo its not that deep bruh

there’s literally no need to comment on his weight if he’s clearly healthy...

@abigailhagos501

2 жыл бұрын

I think the teacher might have just meant it as like, you've grown a lot, I dont think there was any malice in what they were saying.

@Chloe-jt4yb

2 жыл бұрын

@@abigailhagos501 well directly translated she said "did you get fatter" or "are you fat now"

@jakewngg

2 жыл бұрын

@@Chloe-jt4yb in china we say it as just a way of growing, the literal translation doesnt tell the whole story

@Chloe-jt4yb

2 жыл бұрын

@@jakewngg that's fair

@annieenri4373

2 жыл бұрын

Thing is, comments on weight loss and gain are just small talks in Asia. People blurt it out to someone all the time.

Teacher shoulda said “did you get taller” than “did you get bigger.”

@b1._.x457

3 жыл бұрын

I don't understand why people are targeting the teacher, it was just a fun question. Where i live that question is not an insult... Just a misunderstanding.

@esmeortega2081

3 жыл бұрын

@@b1._.x457 He started crying. Like who tf asks A CHILD if they gained weight? That's rude dude.

@b1._.x457

3 жыл бұрын

@@esmeortega2081 not rude to me.

@00f169

3 жыл бұрын

@@esmeortega2081 Asking a child if they gained weight is quite an asian thing. It's more of a lighthearted joke in this context. It's just that the child took it as a literal question.

@pizzatime9196

3 жыл бұрын

Nah when I was a kid, these "lighthearted jokes" were kinda mean :( From my experience as an Asian, relatives and random strangers like to point out your physical appearance :(

When he started crying, I did too...I just wish I could give this cute little kid a hug and tell him how cute he is!!

Its actually what happens. My best friend, she is not fat. But since she was fat in her childhood everyone still calls her fat even if she lost her weight now. And she always focuses on diet and dancing. But when teacher was angry he called her out "fat, fatter, fattest, careless girl". Then again the principal said that her cheeks were puffed cuz of the fat. (I'm being honest. She didnt have it) They might think its just being close enough to say those things to eachother. They think they are saying just for fun and they wont take it seriously. But- she...

Awh...poor kid he shouldn't be worried about anything rn..

@hopepletting476

3 жыл бұрын

I agree. I think most kids subconsciously know that society wants slimmer and fit people even if it hasn’t come to the forefront of their mind yet. It was distasteful and inappropriate for the teacher to open their mouth about a student’s weight even if they don’t have any bad intentions. Adults really have no idea what a comment like this can mean to a little kid bc adults just asume that kids don’t understand anything. I remember being 5 and I was getting ready to trick or treat on Halloween so I had my mom tie my butterfly wings at my front side and she made the comment “oh, you’re getting a little chunky’ and I was self conscious the whole rest of the night and thinking abt my weight instead of having fun like a 5 year old should on Halloween. The comment meant nothing to her and she probably doesn’t remember it but it wrecked me even in kindergarten.When I was in elementary school (even since preschool) I never wanted to wear sweatshirts bc I thought they made me look fat. Despite my parents being supportive and body positive those comments still stuck with me. The point im trying to make is that despite what adults think, little kids are actually a lot smarter and understand more than you think they do. Kids minds are complex and intuitive. If you wouldn’t tell your co worker that they look like they’ve gained weight then why are you saying it to a 5 year old?

@koo9733

3 жыл бұрын

I agree, he should be living his childhood and be happy!

@cielpurificada1l917

3 жыл бұрын

I think kids should be worried about their health

@Angie-nn5jt

3 жыл бұрын

@Amisha Koottungal Joy huh what?If your talking about my profile pic it rlly shouldn't concern you.

@superkppnva2651

3 жыл бұрын

ɴᴏᴛ sʜʏ ɴᴏᴛ ᴍᴇ they should but not to the point where their self conscious about their weight and appearance. There is a right way and a wrong way when educating kids on health.

Doesn’t matter how old you are, Everyone has their own issues. poor kid.

@alicandylover2286

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah i feel bad for him

@ThanhLe-vm6fr

3 жыл бұрын

Junior poor kid ? What wrong with him?

@alicandylover2286

3 жыл бұрын

@@ThanhLe-vm6fr the kid is worrying abaut lossing weight and stressing out even though he's young

@pingu3945

3 жыл бұрын

@@ThanhLe-vm6fr Also because he doesn't even need to lose weight

@chickenwings6745

3 жыл бұрын

Pingu Ik he’s skinnier then meee tf

He's already literal skinny legend 😭😭 That teacher is so crazy

I just want to hug him 😢

It's really messed up how many people body shame others in Asia, even if they're healthy. I'm Vietnamese and I'm sad to say that this is a normal occurrence, even to children. This boy's skinny for a child! It breaks my heart every time I hear something like this directed to someone.

@kellynonicr856

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you and I love bts too. Those teachers learned that from their parents or sumthing I tried to be open minded as possible cause I can be wrong and some time so might not see the other persons perspective

@jccj9069

3 жыл бұрын

Joey Fish I agree saying did u gain weight doesn’t mean ur fat u can be skinny and gain weight

@Kimomo0

3 жыл бұрын

Orange what do you mean?

@green3364

3 жыл бұрын

Grows 1 feet and gain pounds due to that and gets called fat for gaining pounds

@username9885

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah I mean that could develop an eating disorder especially if it's constantly put into your head starting from a young age

He was mad because he was exercising and when teacher pointed out he was fat, he felt his efforts were discredited. Cause he looked like he had been exercising for quite a while , he knew those exercises well

@gokuvegeta1626

3 жыл бұрын

yea man and for a 5 year old its just crazy

@purinpat

3 жыл бұрын

I felt so bad to see him so sad, but what you said makes sense. All of us, when we put a lot of effort into something and expected to be praised for the result, when the result is opposite, it really hurts inside.

@ready_get_set_go

3 жыл бұрын

The teacher didn't said that he was fat like all living creatures we all gain weight

@thesovereign8625

3 жыл бұрын

He needs a male role model to explain that that's what gains are bro.

@xiaozenni4843

3 жыл бұрын

I don’t even think the teacher thinks he’s “fat”, in China we say that the moment we meet someone we know. Instead of “oh hey, how are you?” We could say like “hey! Oh, have you gained/lost weight?” And yeah it’s not the best mindset but I think the teacher was complimenting him. I feel like his parents are the ones affecting him at home and are making him feel like he has to constantly exercise. It’s sad that he’s so young yet he already has this kind of mindset ;-;

Why tf would a teacher ask about weight? How dare they?! They don’t have the authority to

I can't stop crying over this. He's a sensitive young man. Just like me. I wish I could be there to help his obviously overworked parents. Sending tons and tons of love litte buddy. ❤❤❤❤❤

it's none of the teacher's business about a child gaining weight

@beanmonkey7777

3 жыл бұрын

A Random Dude i still don't think it's a teachers worry i think they should at least see a doctor or smthing that's not the teacher's worry

@darcandelaria

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly people are so rude! A person's weight is personal, weather the world labels you as skinny or fat or whatever, unless you're anorexic or morbidly obese then those people closest to you have every right to ask questions in a loving caring way out of concern but other than that people need to keep their mouth shut!

@Strawbcherries

3 жыл бұрын

Dar Candelaria I don’t think the teacher meant it in a negative way, I think she was just asking if he was growing. Like, got bigger and taller since he’s aging up. But it is still really sad to see someone so young worry about it...

@szecr

3 жыл бұрын

Actually it is, a teacher doesn't have to be a doctor to worry about a child's weight.

@darcandelaria

3 жыл бұрын

@@szecr did you see the same kid we did? Does he look obese to you? She had no reason to say that to that little boy.

He does not deserve to be questioned like that. He should enjoy being a child instead of being worried about his weight... Edit:Thanks for the likes

@mimischannel308

3 жыл бұрын

Yes 👏🏾👏🏾😞

@user-tq6fx7tl7e

3 жыл бұрын

Nobody judged him though

@engineergaming1669

3 жыл бұрын

Joe Mama when your a kid fat goes into growth, if your malnourished for your entire childhood you will go way under your growth expectation

@nabranestwistypuzzler7019

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr

@ArMukh381

3 жыл бұрын

@@user-tq6fx7tl7e I changed the word to make it fit better

I'm not surprised when China literally has weighing scales by restaurants

It broke my heart to think..... how much pressure that kid is taking...

That is so wrong he’s an impressionable little boy, telling a child he looks like he gained weight could lead to him getting bulimia or anorexia

@TheOneEyedScholar-Official

3 жыл бұрын

what are bulimia and anorexia?Im just curious

@Wheelstar72

3 жыл бұрын

Rylie Adriano look them up

@jem6578

3 жыл бұрын

it’s actually considered a compliment in asia. in asian culture saying “have u gained weight” is basically a translation to your growing healthy.

@arlynnecumberbatch1056

3 жыл бұрын

And trust issues

@moldycookie8162

3 жыл бұрын

This is not actually how a normal child reacts, the teacher meant no harm and it's actually normal to greet children this way... There was probably someone who gave this child the impression that gaining weight at his age was a bad thing. Not really the teacher's fault.

This boy needs a lot of love and hugs. The fact that he cry while exercising speaks a lot.

@aya123444

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. If he just exercised ... sure. He's hurting.

Noooo, he's not even fat!? He's only 5! I want to hug that poor boy.

This is exactly how you give a kid an ED.

Asian beauty standards are extremely toxic. This is horrible

@bookishkiky1138

3 жыл бұрын

As asian I agreed with this. Whenever I went to family gathering, they always ALWAYS mentioned about my weight. Too chubby, too skinny, like I'm not aware about that??

@floridanava2024

3 жыл бұрын

I'm a 11 year old, 37 kg, 151cm, and they complaint I'm being to skinny is that true tho..

@nh3lv865

3 жыл бұрын

@@bookishkiky1138 whenever I went to school,everyone teasing me because I'm the only skinny kid in the class

@floridanava2024

3 жыл бұрын

@Jyotiraditya Behera I'm sorry for that

@floridanava2024

3 жыл бұрын

@Jyotiraditya Behera for what you have to go through

When I read the title I was like “lol, such a mood” thinking he was in PE class over ZOOM. Then I start watching and I get so sad and mad. This poor angel shouldn’t be thinking about his weight at all, he is clearly a happy, healthy, kid

@brandonwilliams8151

3 жыл бұрын

In asian culture its common to point out physical appearences, the boy just took it differently. Gaining wieight tends to mean youre growing or getting strong. I dont mran its the boys fault, im just giving insight.

@Ayla20

3 жыл бұрын

It broke my heart when he bursted into tears I just wanted to hug him and tell him its OK nothing is wrong with you ...😢❤😭🙌🏽

@zeddy2284

3 жыл бұрын

fr

@mushuvfx2093

3 жыл бұрын

Wokja66 in my house (I’m Asian) we go full on korean food mostly everyday and do a lot of exercising. I feel like Asians have more pressure on there health than Americans

@brandonwilliams8151

3 жыл бұрын

@@mushuvfx2093 Yeah definitely.

That poor kid. When will people understand that the things you say to someone will have an effect on them?!!

This is exactly why people need to not say stuff like that to each-other

When I was 5, I had no concept of "fat" or "skinny" yet... this is so depressing

@imahuman6048

3 жыл бұрын

Lucky you. When i was 5 my father and my brother always said im so skinny like a stick

@indiansgamers6747

3 жыл бұрын

@I'm a human I feel bad for u

@ellieadams5740

3 жыл бұрын

@Baako Jernigan Yh same, I don't think I thought twice about my body until I was about 13, and even then, I don't think I started feeling body-consious till i was 14 going on 15.

"Mental health is just as important as physical health" Schools: no

@ft.jackjimmy7282

2 жыл бұрын

I think schools should focus more on intellectual health than physical health

@nourghazal296

2 жыл бұрын

Mental health is far more important. I exercise for my brain and the body just comes along.

@Ice-ps9yo

2 жыл бұрын

@@nourghazal296 True

@Wolfy_Girl-pb6tg

2 жыл бұрын

My parents: no

@komeo7886

2 жыл бұрын

@@ft.jackjimmy7282 why not both? I think schools should focus on both more. In the past 3 decades, the prevalence of childhood obesity has more than doubled in children and tripled in adolescents. You can’t tell me that PE is not important.. or should count less than intellectual health

he’s just a kid let him live he shouldn’t be worrying about this

He is SOOO young. He’s gonna get an eating disorder because of other people’s malice. Just awful. Bless the boy. Your body is perfect and beautiful. Love yourself.

He shouldn't even be thinking about his weight cause he is a child, he isn't even chubby he looks like any other 5 year old. It makes me sad that he even burst out crying and walked away, I feel so bad for him

@haroldinho9930

2 жыл бұрын

He’s a little chubby but not that bad

@Basedhistoryenjoyer

2 жыл бұрын

And the worst part is that the adults probably thought it's normal because they themselves care about weight and so should the kids even if it's not true. So sad. :(

@bubaaaaaaaaa

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah his weight looks healthy

@MayandPoppy

2 жыл бұрын

I agree! He is a growing child, and he is supposed to be gaining weight. I get that it’s considered normal in many Asian cultures to make comments like that to someone you know, like a family member, but just because it’s “normal” doesn’t mean it’s OK.

@cocraine

2 жыл бұрын

@@Basedhistoryenjoyer no. I don’t think their caring about his weight or insulting him. I think the teacher meant it as “oh you’ve grown” ( that’s how we say it in Chinese.) I think it’s more of the mom teaching his kid to be self conscious because she is too, weight shouldn’t be painted as a bad thing. Y’all are the people doing that.

He looks healthy and a kid his age should never worry about being "fat"

@Dimension5Productions

3 жыл бұрын

But obesity is unhealthy. I'm not saying the kids fat, hes actually pretty average, but if a 5 year old is morbidly obese, that's bad

@pepper4032

3 жыл бұрын

@@Dimension5Productions obviously, but in this example it's really sad and he shouldn't be worrying about his weight. The Asian beauty standard is also extremely toxic, if you have a tiny bit of fat on you they think you need to loose it. It's really sad tbh, probably why this perfectly healthy kid is already insecure. At his age I didn't even think about how I looked.

@lww8133

3 жыл бұрын

@@Dimension5Productions ur example is sad..fr

He gained weight? What the heck That teacher as a person must bd horrible. Poor kid 😭he cried 😔

This breaks my heart. Poor kid! I want to give him a hug

This kid has exercised more than I have in my entire life.

@chaeryeong991

3 жыл бұрын

fr 😭

@hitmanbangshat2885

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@sledgetable172

3 жыл бұрын

🤣ikr

@potataman6108

3 жыл бұрын

I just noticed to bts army's ❤️

@ilovewooyoung

3 жыл бұрын

same

He's too precious! He really shouldn't be worrying about weights at that age. He does more exercise than I do.

@xxxxx1389

3 жыл бұрын

ARMMYYYYY!!

@o-o1251

3 жыл бұрын

ArMyy

@xxxxx1389

3 жыл бұрын

Yoongi Fluff Bun haha! So true

@o-o1251

3 жыл бұрын

@@yujinism6870 I don't I just replied to few comments

@kpoptrash4085

3 жыл бұрын

True, it's so sad that people put these ideas into children's heads at such a young age.

This is heartbreaking. I just want to give him a hug 🥺

This is so sad. He's such an adorable child no way he's worried about his weight at this age