You forget how even Dumbledore amends his own statement. “Help will always be given at Hogwarts to those who DESERVE it.”

@TheBehavioralArts

Жыл бұрын

Omg. Comment of the century! Is it just me or does that make the quote about 600x more appropriate to the situation?! Bravo! Bravooooo!!!! 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻 Ps: to clarify I’m not saying I personally believe they don’t or didn’t deserve it, I’m saying that due to the clash between H&M and the rest of the family they might feel undeserving or the rest of the family might see them as undeserving.

@overwatchking8842

Жыл бұрын

🤯🤯🤯🤯

@andreaseidlitz5714

Жыл бұрын

Brittany , I do bow to you , I just wanted to leave a comment for Spidey how I realy loved his HP note , but then I saw yours and omg . Nailed it

@brittanyallen1

Жыл бұрын

@@TheBehavioralArtsOMG you’ve made my day replying to me. I respect your opinion so much and always look forward to your insights. I am also a huge HP nerd 🥰 and even though I’ll be the first to admit I don’t fully understand all the drama with the Royals and the Harkles, that amendment just seemed appropriate.

@323azteca

Жыл бұрын

This was a cool memory lane post!!!! 😎😎

I'm from Germany and I grew up knowing about the royal family, Harry and William were always in the papers and magazines, it's ridiculous that Meghan claims that because she's American she didn't know much about the royal family. Nevermind the fact that she lived in Canada for quite some time, too.

I saw an interview of a serviceman who knew Harry while at the military base and he said that whenever Harry went out, there were always at least 2 special units that would go out in front and behind him or often fly above him so he was well protected. I'm not taking anything away from him, it's a fact that he was a high prize target so extra effort would have been made to capture him. This also means that there were many brave men and possibly women that put their lives in danger to allow Harry the opportunity to serve.

@joanhardy1787

Жыл бұрын

I've heard that he wasn't really a pilot because he couldn't pass the tests and when they had a drug test day, the big guys (I don't know what they're called) let him off base. Which was unheard. He went home. And that he just wasn't a good soldier. How could he be with his attitude and maturity level?

@pamelafrye4667

Жыл бұрын

AMEN 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏

@hd7704

Жыл бұрын

He only shot down at people on the ground using mounted guns on helicopters.

@debscott8407

Жыл бұрын

People Harry served with said Harry saw no combat. He did not fly helicopters. He was kept far back from any danger and the soldiers he served with described it as babysitting him. He basically spent his time sitting around and did not earn any of the medals he wears on his uniform which bothered the soldiers.

@lkayh

Жыл бұрын

I love all these “I’ve heard this” and “I’ve heard that” comments. Where did you hear it? Was it from someone credible?

What irritates me about MM is that despite her self-proclaimed 'whip smart' intellect, she perpetually claims ignorance of every aspect of H's life, country, culture, etc. She then proceeds to blame said ignorance on being American. That's not an excuse! I don't actually believe she really was ignorant of those things, she simply did not want to comply with expectations and now needs an excuse to explain her failure to adapt. But, if she truly was so incredibly ignorant about Harry, his family and country, she shouldn't have married him until she did learn about those things, especially given his family's prominence.

@judyivie4181

Жыл бұрын

Well the grandfather tried to tell him and happy harry wasn't having it. Boy she made a mess of everyones life. A true evildoer.

@pamelacooney9074

Жыл бұрын

@@judyivie4181 Agreed. No doubt many people tried to warn him to no avail. Saw a similar situation play out with a friend. Very frustrating.

@Tia-Louisa

Жыл бұрын

and she claimed that in America they don't have gossip media columns when in fact every week back in the day there were stories about Jenifer Aniston etc etc...

@TrevorH89

Жыл бұрын

@@pamelacooney9074 He might not have wanted to listen because of some the resentments he may have towards his father for not protecting his mother.

@camoumilecamoflage8875

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. that is common sense even if Harry was not royal. Of course you would want to know about details of the life of your potential life partner. Heck even I google people I find on dating apps 🤦🤦

I heard an officer that served at the same time as Harry saying they used to have to go out ahead of Prince Harry to make sure it was safe for him. Also, he was never drug tested and got out of it by saying he had to go home for business, after, he had just come back from a leave. So yes, he had advantages that others did not while serving.

@strat4096

3 ай бұрын

And that's why he's bunker Harry.

Harry was very well protected while in Afghanistan...he even had his own contingent of 7 gurkhas to protect him. They didn't want a repeat of what happened with Andrew, who wasn't given special protection during the Falklands war and the palace found out after the fact. William was prevented from being deployed for the same reason and was pushed to do more safe work, which is why he did 2 years as a search and rescue pilot. Prince Philip was a decorated war hero in the navy, and Queen Elizabeth was an ambulance driver during the Blitz in London because she was too young to enlist. Harry always overstates his military experience but it's actually laughable that he would say he is the only one in the family that has military experience.

@cybersal7

Жыл бұрын

As a princes, Queen Elizabeth also was a mechanic and drove a truck.

@n1na102

Жыл бұрын

I think he engaged more with the other people in the army during his time there and outside of his time there (with veterans, during the walk with heroes and through his charity work). He also details the training he was put through as part of the army and I think a lot of it was meant to break him down and rebuild him (the typical stressful training excercises that can mimic some forms of torture, e.g. being stripped naked, had his dick laughed at, blindfolded, music blared at him underground, put in the stress position, arms behind his head for hours, have horrible stuff about his mum yelled at him, alongside the other people in the army also getting the same treatment). Sure, I don't think he was on the front lines and I think he was very well protected, but it does appear that he had the same harsh training and lived on base in the same way the others did and commanded air strikes in stressful situations and so on.

@eileenesposito6726

Жыл бұрын

Just read today on UTUBE someone’s comment Bunker Harry. So he was well protected

@challenge1820

Жыл бұрын

I think they feel that their team work is hugely important and if they were a tad more honest with each other, they could have executed this pathway with so much more dignity. I imagine myself there in the mix, supporting the team and having to be and say things which are not accurate for the sake of the narrative and that’s is very intoxicating. But they sacrifice a lot of integrity in so doing, and I don’t know if they will ever realise it. They are in it, and structurally/emotionally they are left with little wiggle room. Just gotta watch each other and manage it. Not saying they don’t believe it, but there’s a lot missing and also the anger, his anger. And with her she is carried by the excitement of a position in history and self importance of Harry needing her.

@mickidonahue4038

Жыл бұрын

I can't help thinking he's competing with William and even his father in pointing out that he was the only one in his family with military experience.

He didn’t say it in the Netflix show but he does in the book: his father made appts and told him he would talk to a Rabbi and holocaust survivor - he didn’t just seek them out himself . He was told basically “you did a dumb thing in a youth-driven moment and now you’re going to go learn why it was bad.” I find it super frustrating how much he tries to make it seem like he reached out on his own and then goes on to shift the bigot blame on family.

@anniesimpson8522

Жыл бұрын

And I appreciate what Spidey reinforced what I noticed that Harry doesn’t indicate that these “ forced atonement “ visits had any impact on him .

@thelmarose2782

Жыл бұрын

What page is that on please?

@roxann_bam

Жыл бұрын

He could have gone on, if he hadn't been held accountable. Entitlement behavior? He was sorry he got caught.

@david22591

Жыл бұрын

I didn't know that. Thanks for sharing Jennifer.

@sorayamj3366

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for these videos and the calm and balanced way in which you present them. Watching them helps build Emotional Intelligence.

Hell no he didnt have any type of "lived experience" but prince William piloted an Air Ambulance, now THAT is a lived experience....

@lorrainemorrall9857

Ай бұрын

He was flying in the helicopter, he did "not" fly the helicopter! He was totally protected while he was in Afghanistan and according to what I've heard & what I'd read, he had never participated in the wars. Their perceived versions of events, seem to be their truths, for whatever that's worth!

I almost teared up when you mentioned the 'hatered towards the father' component in OC. No one talks about it, but it explains a lot of Harry's conflicts with the father.

@TheBehavioralArts

Жыл бұрын

Yeah 😕. It’s crazy to me how many people talk about Oedipus complex and focus exclusively on the love for the mother aspect. The disdain for the father is equally important and explains a LOT when it comes to Harry. Thanks for watching 😊

@MindBlinged

Жыл бұрын

@@TheBehavioralArts I assume its because people already dislike Charles (thanks to his messy marriage) so it's easy to see that as different from the complex itself. But Harry's conflicts seem to be deeper. If you have read the book, it switches from portraying him as a warm-considerate to detached-cold. Always have enjoyed fair analysis!

@twogsds

Жыл бұрын

@@MindBlinged I think that his time at boarding school has effected him.

@Lovesapuzzle

Жыл бұрын

I think people focus on the mother-son component because it can be sexually creepy.

@juneerasmus3485

Жыл бұрын

Diana pitted Harry against his father and William unwittingly or not and made him feel less (2nd) she told everyone in an interview that he was the "spare" she was hurtful in many ways lashing out when thing don't go her way. Yes she was nice to strangers putting on a good act at times but also had a compassionate side to her putting herself on a parr with the underdog showing the world you can and suddenly the world was a humanitarian. She was and did a lot of good but to many put her on the same pedestal as God that I really dislike.

On The Behavior Panel, Chase who served 20 years had stated during their examination of the same Harry video that he personally knew soldiers who’d served deployments with Harry and that he was heavily protected and had a vastly different military experience, especially overseas, given that someone of status like Harry would’ve made him a prize & propaganda win for enemy forces. My husband is Active Duty in a combat MOS and has stated that anyone of diplomatic importance or high status during their deployments has been very comfortably taken care of as the consequences would be too severe if not.

@lorimiller4301

Жыл бұрын

That just makes good sense !

@madalynnr9940

Жыл бұрын

In fairness to Harry I think being that close to a war zone and seeing and interacting with soldiers in active duty would have an impact on anyone and trauma is trauma no matter how "bad" it is compared to anyone else. I come from a military family and have seen PTSD and CPTSD firsthand and to dismiss the impact being near a war zone has on a person because they weren't in active combat doesn't sit right with me

@fisf.2148

Жыл бұрын

I’m British and I understood since childhood that Harry was such a big target that his entire platoon were at risk because he was there. Everyone tried to talk him out of doing this to his countrymen but he didn’t listen and it was stressful always protecting him

@madalynnr9940

Жыл бұрын

@Cathy Earnshaw true and Queen Elizabeth was also in the world wars so on that side of things it's not an accurate statement to make but I also don't think that was the point he was trying to make. I think he was trying to say he had this experience that impacted him in a way that his family didn't relate to and denied him the seriousness of in the same way that saying he wasn't in active combat and therefore didn't experience war. If that makes any sense

@EdgarAllanGo

Жыл бұрын

He still deployed to a combat zone. It doesn’t mean he is any less than just because he wasn’t on the front lines. Not a single General in the US Army serves on the front line either. It’s not like ye olden times where kings went to war. Just stop all the hate already. Geez. How many times did you deploy to a combat zone?

I agree, my biggest take-away is that she’s very inconsistent with what she claims to be and how she actually behaves. The one that bothered me the most is she apparently took some jabs at Princess Kate for having “pregnancy brain” and imbalanced hormones which feels extremely insulting and disingenuous from someone who purports to champion and empower women.

@kris_r

Жыл бұрын

This I attribute to her being a bubble with likeminded women as she seems to have a very close circle of friends. She didn’t think of pregnancy brain as an insult probably because she talks a lot about women’s issues. In this progressive view, it’s actually empowering to talk about challenges that women face, like pregnancy brain, menstruation, breastfeeding, etc. It’s another way that Meghan seems to try to relate. I think she was trying to tell Kate, it’s okay, pregnancy brain is normal and not something to be ashamed of.

@bodybalanceU2

Жыл бұрын

@@kris_r exactly i did not take that as an insult and i think commoner kate knew that as well but decided to be remote and royal about it

@jeantillotson4091

Жыл бұрын

Everything she says is ani sult to someone else and show her as perfect. Thank goodness none of my friends are as a sty as her

@bodybalanceU2

Жыл бұрын

@@jeantillotson4091 your spelling and comprehension is poor i do not understand what you are saying - what is ani sult?? and sty as her???

@heatherborojevic4591

Жыл бұрын

@@kris_r what bubble of friends? Honestly asking as she has separated from all family and friends of long term

Your analysis is by far my favorite because 1. You focus strictly on the body language and don’t get distracted by trying to guess the intentions. 2. You provide an impartial analysis without giving preference to those for or against Harry & Meghan. I’m looking forward to the next video :)

@hillbilliet

Жыл бұрын

ABSOLUTELY

@TheSmilingWeb

Жыл бұрын

I couldn't agree more! I've been down the rabbit hole lately with behavior analysis videos and Spidey's are by far my favorite. I so appreciate him never really taking sides and being so eloquent and clear.

@sundaeswithliz7974

Жыл бұрын

Yes that’s I like about him. It doesn’t feel like he’s taking any side. Some of those body language analysis videos are heavily opinionated with a hateful tone. I can’t trust their analysis.

I don’t believe she didn’t know she wasn’t supposed to talk about certain things. My wise teacher once said “it is not excuse to say I didn’t know, if you don’t know, find out”. For someone who did international studies and is an “activist”, there is a lot she doesn’t or didn’t know.

The queen offered her someone in authority and who had been in similar situations to help her and she refused

Great Job!!! The only place M bugged me is when she talked about the drive to the castle for her wedding. I think she was lying when she acted so surprised that her and her mom saw SOOOO many people along the drive. She had to know that happened with other weddings and even funerals. I think it was said in a bragging way.

He was not the only member of his family to serve in the military and see service during a war. Prince Andrew served in the Falklands war, Prince Phillip was in the navy for a number of years and saw service during WW2. Queen Elizabeth served in the army and lived through the blitz.

Imagine carrying all the anger Harry feels for what happened to his mom, and then marrying someone who relentlessly attempts to convince you that everything you are and everyone you ever loved is, by nature, evil. When he said, "I hated myself..." it took me aback for a second - the contempt on his face looks, to me, like self-loathing... in the present ☹️

@elenaovcharuk8529

3 ай бұрын

To me it feels like Harry should have gotten a professional mental health care, and instead he pulled himself into a toxic relationship.

I’m from the uk. When she got married the media was saying wonderful things about her. We loved her and thought she was beautiful. It was her bending the rules, not wearing appropriate clothing or doing things royals didn’t usually do that the media picked up on etc. Her personality didn’t help her at all because personality I feel like Americans are a lot more easier to read when they’re being fake. Brits tend to be more subtle with their actions or facial expressions. (Not saying Americans are fake it’s just easier to see it for us) The reason the media got so out of hand is because the articles were getting tones of views and magazines were getting a load of sales with the hate towards her so the more attention they got the more they were produced. The majority of us think she’s disrespectful towards our culture and don’t like her at all. (If we liked her the media articles wouldn’t have got clicks and the magazines wouldn’t have sold so they would have moved on. That’s how it works) They can blame the media all they like but she refuses to look at herself and ask herself the real questions as to why they really picked on her. She thought it was because she is of colour but not once did they mention her skin colour from the things I saw. It was all to do with her manners, or what she was wearing. Of course she goes back to Oprah to complain because let’s face it in America she’s going to find a lot more people who side with her as they don’t understand the English culture, she clearly doesn’t either and even after being taught still doesn’t which is why I feel like we see some contempt from Harry. He must have tried hard to help her fit in but he just couldn’t in the end. He doesn’t look happy at all through this and even when he was doing military work when he was younger he seemed to be bursting with life. Her obsession with being in the spotlight needs to stop because she’s dragging him down with it and it’s very sad to see.

@Callimoone

Жыл бұрын

See, I've always been fairly neutral when it comes to Meghan. She isn't my type of vibe but I have never seen reason to dislike her either. The not following royal protocol stuff was mostly false, with Kate or the Queen herself having done the same things but the press would spin things differently for Meghan (although worth noting they did the same with Kate in the early days too). I agree though, that people just ate up the negativity and so they press created more and more stories. That said, I mentioned last week that I have a bit of an OTT personality to override anxiety etc so perhaps I would be less aware of similar instances in Meghan. I think the reality with her is somewhere in the middle of the polarized views. I certainly wouldn't trust any media when it comes to any celebrity or royal. Far too many people out to make money or can benefit their own coverage from selling stories or being a "trusted source".

@mayank64723

Жыл бұрын

@@Callimoone the other reason may be, as meghan is not a 'white' fellow, hence the accusation of 'being a home breaker' may be applied to her much easily as compared to kate(who is obviously white in color).

@dianegriffen2756

Жыл бұрын

@@mayank64723 Not at all. Look at all the females who have joined the royal family, from fergie, diana, camilla and kate, they ALL got bad press for quite some time. Meghan was no different. Nothing to do with her colour. Camilla had to deal with some really vile stuff as a 'home breaker'.

@Callimoone

Жыл бұрын

@@mayank64723 oh agreed, entirely possible. I have just loved Harry since he was born (I was 8) and he's always been the one Royal I've admired most because he's the most human/ normal. All I know is that he's clearly the happiest he's been in decades. I thought he should leave long before Meghan though so I'd always support that.

@tinatee5577

Жыл бұрын

@@mayank64723 9

An outspoken and very highly decorated (the Military Cross was presented by the Queen!) British soldier, Trevor Coult, says that he was part of a detail assigned to protect Harry throughout his military service. By his account, Harry’s experience was absolutely not typical. That said, it was probably the most “normal” period of his life 🤷‍♀️💐

In “Finding Freedom” the authors specifically state how much help Meghan received! In fact, I think “Finding Freedom” goes into details better that the docuseries and “Spare.” The reason is that there is a more sinister reason for the docuseries and “The Spare.” Harry is gradually getting more frustrated as this saga proceeds! And reading the book you get a completely different concept of Harry’s story than when Harry talks about the book! The reason, someone else without the hate and animosity wrote the book! The book presents Harry as having a really wonderful childhood!!

I can't help but notice this inherit awkwardness that Harry has every time Megan says something. It's almost as if he struggles to really believe her and accept her story as truth as well. It's actually quite sad to see.

@kanezaanny8908

Жыл бұрын

Yep i though its was only me who saw that deep down he knows now that she's a liar and his big brother was right about her

@blueeyesblueskiesahead1612

11 ай бұрын

He seems so unhappy around her.

@firstnamelastname4427

2 күн бұрын

I see it more as meekness. He seems to mostly defer to her in these interviews. She seems to completely dominate her, and I'm not sure he is completely happy with it.

I think that the Dramatic HAND on the FOREHEAD was SARCASTIC, as was her BOW.

Even if the Palace was playing games by only giving her partial information, GOOGLE IS HER FRIEND HERE. Playing dumb about basic British culture is Pick Me Girl Energy.

@lesleyboshell6778

Жыл бұрын

She was given a 30 page dossier with instructions on protocols and how to behave. She was assigned to her, by the Queen, her most trusted aide to help her and guide her through any difficulties. She also had 7 other aides assigned to her to advise in different ways, whom she bullied, belittled and degraded, until they said they felt traumatised by her, so much so that they left the jobs they had been in for years. She refused help from all who offered it, including Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge, Camilla, Duchess of Cornwall, Sofia, Countess of Wessex, even the late Queen broke protocols in order to accommodate her. There was no excuse for her ignorance they were all there to help her fit in. The problem was her. 1; She didn’t want to fit in, she had no intention of staying in the UK to be a working member of the Royal Family 2; It boiled down to just basic good manners, which unfortunately she didn’t have. Never having been taught to show respect. Never having been taught to eat with a knife and a fork, instead of just a fork, which a lot of Brits find strange. She not only ignored protocol, she did her utmost not to comply with what was required. She said she didn’t know how to curtsy, yet clearly performed a decent curtsy in one of the episodes of Suits. She had to Google the National Anthem? Well she had her claws into Harry from 2016 and knew full well he was a member of the Royal Family and singing the NA would be required at some stage, so she had plenty of time to see it, understand it and learn it. Although she and Harry must have forgotten the words at the Queen’s funeral as they both had their mouths clamped shut when everyone else was singing it. Perhaps it threw them because the word Queen had been substituted with King.

@snowysnowyriver

Жыл бұрын

@@lesleyboshell6778 👏👏👏👏👏 Excellent summary.

@kris_r

Жыл бұрын

@@lesleyboshell6778 and your comment is the reason H&M needed to tell their side of the story. Too much of what has been written in the tabloids were lies and skewed against them and they were told by the institution to keep quiet. It is definitely time for them to defend themselves.

@conncoll06

Жыл бұрын

@@lesleyboshell6778 the summation of literally all the British media tells you to think about Meghan Markle. Apparently she all of the sudden became a bully and refused any type of support? Lol ok

@patriciam.1204

Жыл бұрын

Even Princess Grace (Grace Kelly ) had difficulty adjusting but was a lady and took advice, and overcame the problems even though it was harder for her with a language barrier too, she was loved by the people of Monaco.

Re. married in Castles - in the UK there are lots of Castles and many people marry in Castles. Think it may seem more 'wow!' if one is not used to them.

There’s a small clip from their patio party in one of the later episodes. The waitress greets them and is telling them where to go, and MM is very dismissive of her while Harry is looking at her and listening. I caught it as someone who has worked in the service industry for years. I wonder if anyone else did. I don’t have a stance on either of them any which way but I am always observing how people treat others (hence why I find myself on your channel). I just always find how people treat others who are In service to them or whom they deign as “not as important” to them always really interesting.

@ZiireNa

Жыл бұрын

There's many other videos clips like that. When she married. And it's getting out of the car, there's a man, reaching out, and she removes his hand. Like ' get off my spot light!!!! I don't need your help!!!' He clearly got the message and backs up. Australia event. There's ladies with lanyards, telling Harry and Megan where to stand, where to go. And who to talk to. And Megan ignores her and does what she wants. While the lady tries to get her attention. Harry always listlens and looks in the eyes. Another event, in middle east. He was meeting with some other royals. Other princes and again. There was ladies telling them where to go, and stand. Lady tell Harry, you walk this way, Megan you walk this way.and she so wanted to ignore her. She couldn't because the lady got in her face and directly told her to walk THIISSS way. She wanted to walk in the red carpet. But that red carpet is only for blood royals. She walked literally next to the red carpet she sooo wanted to step on it. It is soooo cringe.her face says it all!!! She hates being told what to do on events.

@ZiireNa

Жыл бұрын

There were many ladies that have cried because they can't believe how rude Megan was towards them. They are doing their job, and they get in trouble for making them look stupid, cause she keeps breaking protocol. They get ignored straight up. William got all the complaints and that's why they don't like her. She mistreated every employee that tried to groom her to be a royal.

@ZiireNa

Жыл бұрын

She also makes harry look Hella dumb because he did say in his engagement interview that he had worked so hard to explain her everything that's ahead. She even says, she don't have to google sheeeeet because he tells her everything !! He was supposed to train her and he couldn't even show her respect towards his family. He looks so dumb having his wife claim she was fed to the wolfs!!! That's telling the whole world your husband ain't sheeet, he looks dumb and uneducated.

As an actress, Megan should be familiar with researching for different characters and roles she played. There is no excuse for not knowing what was expected of her. I think she just felt very inadequate and tried to hide it by not accepting any advise and help. That is consistent with her talking constantly about strong, ambitious, smart women. For her to ask and accept help would be admitting that other people know more than her and she would percieve that as weakness.

@SousiQ

Жыл бұрын

That is what a talented actor/actress does - doing research to embody the character they are playing. Megan warps the character to be like her.

@daCubanaqt

Жыл бұрын

Exactly! MM was a fan of the Royal Family, and most people know living life as a royal isn’t easy. I cannot imagine she didn’t think there would be protocols to follow, etiquette to learn, and fulfilling her role in the family. She was around truly elite people and realized she didn’t measure up, she was a fraud. Instead of being humble by asking for help and being willing to learn, she opted to run away and blame the Royal Family for her woes. It all sounds very narcissistic to me.

@toilaCarissa

Жыл бұрын

Exactly!

@justaname8313

Жыл бұрын

It's because of her EGO, it's way over the top.

@fisf.2148

Жыл бұрын

Narcissists believe people around them should please them and not the other way round. It is an insult to them that they cannot get every single thing they want and they resort to bullying staff because saying "no" is unacceptable

There have been multiple televised royal weddings. There’s no way she didn’t know that people lined up on the route.

@Ah_Lee_Sun

Жыл бұрын

She wrote a blog about William & Catherine’s wedding…… she knew.

@aabc8141

Жыл бұрын

People lined up the streets days in advance. I’m British and live close to Windsor, I was there the day before the Wedding, there was a party atmosphere in town (it’s s small town). Streets and the park (the long walk) we’re filled with locals and Brits from other parts of the country and lots of Americans and Canadians who camped on the streets days in advance to ensure they have first row view of the carriage as it passes. This would have been covered on the news so unless she was locked up in a dungeon that has no WIFI or TV or radio and didn’t speak to anyone at all, there is no way she would not have known there are people on either side of the roads. These stupid lies she tells are pointless and only make her seem more dumb, insincere, fake and weird.

@mainejournalnews8737

Жыл бұрын

@@aabc8141 - Well said. I’m a yankee and I knew that people lined up on the streets. You folks are amazing at showing you love and respect.

She absolutely knew what a “walk about” was. She did extensive research validated by her “friends” who witnessed her googling, reading articles, watching interviews, etc. She knew just about everything to sell herself as comfortable with the press and her potential role in the Royal Family.

@chelseadelledonne5201

Жыл бұрын

How do you know ? were you there?

@sunrisesunset7244

Жыл бұрын

For a woman who has been obsessed with BRF since she is a teenager, she knew. And evidence are many, like the photo taken by her friend in 2004 in airport that she was googling the Queen with a clear view of laptop screen, and the words from her classmates and many acquaintance when they talk about her, and BTW those person have better credibility than her especially she was caught by public on media for lying so many times.

@t.l.1610

Жыл бұрын

I’m dubious of the ol “a friend said” or “a source close to X said,” you should be too. We know tabloid media tactics are suspect. They aren’t news, they’re rumor mills.

@t.l.1610

Жыл бұрын

@@soulpowerful Well established by whom? Exposed by whom? What are your sources?

@ShawNshawN

Жыл бұрын

Janis I lived in FOUR countries. You can research ALL DAY and still miss small subtleties, you ONLY know once you have seen and breathed it. Kind of like a man talking about what it is to be a woman.

Thank you for contending with the 'avert eye-contact = liar' myth. Your avoidance of the tempting and easy 'this means that' is one of the reasons you are the only behaviour analyst I find credible. Thank you for the nuance and the intelligent, humane approach you always bring to your videos.

I agree with you about Megan not knowing that she should have avoided the “topical” issue of BLM as the royals avidly avoid politics. In the US, there is no misunderstanding that BLM and the “me, too” movement is a politically left stance, so exceedingly political. Topical can be apolitical, but Meghan has proved herself to be interested in moving in political circles. The monarchy is head of state, but represents everyone, and so works with charities and causes that don’t have a political bent. She came in to the Royal family with her own agenda, didn’t read the room, and had no interest in investing in Harry’s culture….this became pretty obvious with her behaviour, and that is what caused the Brits to turn on her….absolutely nothing to do with race. She was offensive, and many of her mannerisms were dismissive and condescending.

@teresakolikata4719

Жыл бұрын

@SandraStevenson I couldn't agree with you more.

@forfun2777

Жыл бұрын

Me too and blm are politicized but isn't inherently political, only to those who make it so. She just wants to be the voice for victims, including herself.

@daisysunshine1324

Жыл бұрын

For me it was the hypocrisy. 6 private jet flights in a month, yet making a video telling us to not fly really is the kind of behaviour that pisses us Brits off.

@mellie4174

Жыл бұрын

Yes because victims of abuse having rights is definitely a political ideology and not just a human right. Same that all people should be treated equally under the law. The only people who think this is a political stance are people who disagree. They told princess Diana the same thing when she fought for people with aids and against land mines it was politically incorrect for the royals to do. Sigh.

@msrainbowbrite

Жыл бұрын

@TD DZ are you getting paid by the couple? you are believing harry to tell the truth? he says whatever nutmeg tells him to. The only person who has ever called Catherine arrogant is you. She doesn't have a history of being a horrible person. The only allegations against Catherine has come out since NUTMEG joined the family.

I was waiting so patiently for this even more after reading Spidey’s community post about how he enjoyed making it. Your effort is well established and much appreciated sir.

@TheBehavioralArts

Жыл бұрын

🤗

@daCubanaqt

Жыл бұрын

I thought I was too, but I started watching and just a little over a minute in, I’m out. I’m done watching videos about the Harkles. However, always love Spidey and look forward to his analysis on non-British Royal Family topics.

@debbieforhim7800

Жыл бұрын

@@daCubanaqt 🤣🤣🤣 - Harckles! Love it!

@coleo4165

Жыл бұрын

@@TheBehavioralArts please analyze the interrogation of Sarah the woman who killed her husband but leaving him in a suitcase

@DawnDavidson

Жыл бұрын

@@TheBehavioralArts😢

It's rather absurd for a 35-year-old individual not to google their potential date before the first meeting. Most grown, single individuals seeking a serious relationship would undoubtedly take this step to make the most of their time. I'm 34 years old, and all my friends who are approximately my age always check on their prospective dates before arranging to meet them. We're all quite occupied and value our time, we are quite experienced and have clear knowledge of our personal preferences. Devoting a mere 10 minutes to this simple homework, is a smart move, saving us from wasting time and energy.

You summed up their entire dynamic in the first video with “he tries to protect her like he couldn’t his mother”

To me, when I heard Meghan say 'so weird to say I'm getting married in the castle' (paraphrasing), I didn't hear she wanted to be relatable. It came across to me as 'how cool am I?! I got married in a castle'.

@cmp-vegan5136

Жыл бұрын

yess… she was proud of that

@lilajane3

Жыл бұрын

Agree

@mademsoisellerhapsody

Жыл бұрын

Humble braggart extraordinaire.

@snowysnowyriver

Жыл бұрын

@@mademsoisellerhapsody Spot on description. She does that a lot. It's a very passive-aggressive trait.

@Sarah-nw7xl

Жыл бұрын

She wanted to emphasise it. That's why she said it twice. But she wrapped it up in a performative layer of relateability. ("I'm so special, I got married in a castle! I want to show off about it but I have to pretend to be humble"). In fact, it would be more authentically relatable (to a lot of Americans at least) if she had said: how frickin' cool is that!? I got married in a castle! I just heard myself say it ! My life is like a fairytale :)

I'm not sure if you have already done a video on it, but their engagement interview is soo interesting too. I noticed in it that, Meghan was very much in the driving seat the entire time. Harry would look for confirmation a lot, and whenever she would break eye contact with him and look at back at the interviewer, Harry would pretty much stop talking as if it were a cue for him to stop his answer and that she was ready for the next question. Also noticed there was an instance in there where she looked back at the interviewer and Harry didn't stop for a few seconds, she then looked away to the other side and looked kinda annoyed that he was still talking. It was just so fascinating to see, and definitely has a lot to unpack! I would seriously love if you could do a video on that interview if you haven't already.

@carolrichardson8436

Жыл бұрын

17:39

How have I only just discovered you and your channel?! I love this and agree with everything you've said. Love the psychology (if that's the right word!) alongside the body language stuff. So interesting. Thank you 👍

@kathleensingleton6314

10 ай бұрын

I. Don't usually watch programs like yours because they always must interject their opinions that don't relate to the body language. I WILL WATCH YOU AGAIN THANKYOU !!

@user-hj2fb3yo3m

9 ай бұрын

I love your programs. You sound fair towards Meghan which makes you believable

1:18 for some reason it feels like “oh my cute little boy I’m so proud of what you are saying right now”

OMG, you NAILED it about the Oedipus Complex thing! I completely forgot about the father aspect... and that is a BIG thing for Harry (or at least I got that impression from his book)

@lilajane3

Жыл бұрын

After the Netflix shows I have been thinking that she wants fame and fortune and he wants a new mummy figure in his life

@karekausnicolli4890

Жыл бұрын

It makes total sense to me, too. I also had forgotten about the resentment and anger toward the father from the Oedipal complex. I do feel for him and for William losing their mother at such a long age. Unfortunately I feel that Meghan is toxic for Prince Harry and brings out these negative feelings toward his other family members, including his father and his brother.

It has been reported that, only a few days before Diana's death, she called the boys because she was away and wanted to check in. Apparently Harry refused to come to the phone for whatever reason. And so he never talked to her, and then she died. This is a very important fact and would, I would think, have a hugely negative and painful effect on Harry, and perhaps explains, at least in part, why he can't seem to heal from his mother's death.

@tinatee5577

Жыл бұрын

Yes I remember the interview, it was when they did a tribute to Diana a few years after she died.

@carole4119

Жыл бұрын

Yes in agreement.. I was called by hospice my mom didn't have long I regret..but was so hysterical and upset. It affected me and my job I just couldn't view. My brother and father were horrible ..narc s and I couldn't Deal with it all. So much drama and corruption And lies.. So that can haunt.. Thanks I know so much more Now than I did yrs ago..

@barbarabenedict3453

Жыл бұрын

I read that story, also

@kris_r

Жыл бұрын

Yes, Harry also mentions this moment in the book. He very much regrets not really want to talk with his mother when she called because he was having too much fun playing. He did in fact talk to her but he rushed through the conversation and wasn’t really listening to her. He was after all 12 years old, so I can see he was involved with his own stuff at the time.

@margenn3889

Жыл бұрын

His guilt is still there, but he continues to blame others for everything.

Your analysis’ in general have helped me weave out so many toxic people around me + helped me notice when people are uncomfortable which could possibly help someone in the future if they’re in danger and I just wanted to show gratitude 🙏🏽 GOD BLESS YOU BRO!

People who can look someone in the eye while lying, means they have no shame in lying. People who cannot make eye contact when lying is because they feel ashamed OR they don't think they will be convincing enough.

To be honest, getting married in the UK in a castle, is far more common than you'd think. There are 100's to hire out for weekends, overnight, or just the day for weddings, and all celebrations. Not cheap to do but a really common expense that 1000's of couples and families choose, each year, across the UK & Ireland. Brilliant analysis as always Spidey, thanks for all your hard work man!

@Kathie4

Жыл бұрын

To be fair, I live in NY & I'm about an hour away from a castle here, too! It's not the same, but many people say "I'm getting married at O'Heeka castle" 😆

@tigerpaws111

Жыл бұрын

Yes I agree! Windsor castle on the other hand is not so common 😂She should have been more specific, she clearly doesn’t grasp the history of the building or nearly anything to do with royal life. Even now

@dianegriffen2756

Жыл бұрын

I'm from England and got married in a castle. It's not overly expensive compared to other venues either. We looked around the castle first and absolutely fell in love and thought we'd never be able to afford it. We sat down with their wedding planner and the cost really wasn't that bad. We then went to a selection of hotels in the same area, and where we could get married and then compared the costs. While some things were more expensive on either side, the overall cost came out pretty much the same... so we went for what we wanted. No it wasn't Windsor castle!

@ClaudiaG.1979

Жыл бұрын

i am from germany and my brother got married in a castle. Its a common thing in europe.

@Selene_Rosara

Жыл бұрын

I live in the PNW and a mile or so away from a castle. It's a very popular wedding venue. I think she was going more for the whimsical idea of a fairytale wedding with a castle and a prince than the more mundane.

My impression of Meghan is she is very social, has trouble empathizing, and is sensitive to criticism. I know someone like that, and they are constantly beefing with 7 people at once. I still support them and love them, but it’s exhausting and frustrating. I have also learned that the only way to have peace is to never speak my mind. I wonder if Harry is in a similar boat.

@annicecooper8105

Жыл бұрын

I can relate to this. My SIL was a very similar personality and family functions were always laced with anxiety for us all, treading on eggshells the whole time in case she took offence and got upset. ( Of course she could be breathtakingly insensitive to us in her comments ! ). We knew it would make life difficult for my brother when they got home later on. Exhausting is a good word for it. They are divorced now, each with a new partner, and I can't tell you the difference in family parties etc. Far more relaxed and less tiring. It's odd how much one person can influence the whole group.

@Charlotte8591

Жыл бұрын

Why do you still love them if the only way you have peace is to not speak your mind? Just a genuine question, it sounds exhausting.

@aabc8141

Жыл бұрын

She’s self-obsessed!

@hd7704

Жыл бұрын

Narcissists are good at socializing, lack empathy, and are hyper-sensitive to criticism (real or imagined)

@marcocassone5996

Жыл бұрын

@@Charlotte8591 Because they are not all bad and they respect my boundaries. I do avoid them a lot and decline many offers to hang out, haha. Luckily, they understand themself significantly better than many others with similar traits, thank god.

When the burp/ hiccup moment happened- I actually interpreted it as a hard swallow or gulp, conveying emotion. The same hand to the gesture is also used for the same purpose of holding back emotions

Lightbulb moment for me was when you talked about the Oedipal Complex which many agree that Harry has. Not only is he involved with his mom/wife and wants to protect but the other half of this is how they hate/intensely dislike their father! This would explain all the nasty things he said in Spare about how cold and uncaring his father was/is. Poor Harry hasn’t grown up-he’s a case of arrested development (emotional and mental stage stuck at 13 yrs old)! Thank you for explaining things so well!

@vaska1999

Жыл бұрын

Oh come off it! His father IS a case!

@marybrown8905

Жыл бұрын

I’ve wondered that, too, if he hasn’t been “stuck “ at the age his mother died. I’ve seen this happen to other folks.

@chenoatracfonesky7674

Жыл бұрын

Emotionally stuck at 13, yes

@ShawNshawN

Жыл бұрын

I think he grew up, but you could never forgive your father cheating on your mom and allowing the press to lead to a high-speed chase that killed Diana. I STILL hate the UK press and I'm not even royalty or british.

@marlsberlin7716

Жыл бұрын

Very convenient for them that he doesn't hate Dad's money!

Regarding “unconscious bias“ his statement being to mind a saying: “ I didn’t say it was your fault, I said I was going to blame you.“

I think what bothers me about Megan is that she still seems disrespectful to the royal family in the way she talks about everything. Which I guess is fair seeing that she feels like they treated her poorly etc. but when she speaks about the stuff she didn't know, she tries to make it seem like everyone else is at fault and that it wasn't her responsibility to ask about these things or to make sure she knows

@heatherhartman2803

Жыл бұрын

Yes! I have a hard time believing that the royal family and those that work for them were purposely trying to make her look bad (which is how I feel she portrays it). It doesn't make sense. If she looks bad, then that is a reflection on them. So the only logical view in my mind is that they would do everything in their power to make her look good. And, just as Spidey emphasized with the Harry Potter clips, all she had to do was ask!! It isn't that hard. She could have asked Harry or another member of the family, or she could have asked a staff member. If she wasn't sure about something, why didn't she reach out and say something along the lines of, "I want to be respectful and act and dress appropriately. Can you please help me?"

@patricaowens

Жыл бұрын

@@heatherhartman2803 You are absolutely correct,all she had to do was ask…..ITS NOT LIKE SHE IS SHY.

@nanner3200

Жыл бұрын

@@heatherhartman2803 They did it to Diana......

@NikNakShak

Жыл бұрын

@@nanner3200 That doesn't explain why Harry didn't manage to prepare his wife for the basic requirements of Royal life and duties. He set her up to fail, not his family. The buck stops with him. When two people from different countries start dating, they typically learn about each other's cultures, beliefs, employment, lifestyle etc. during their courtship. Lovebirds usually want to know every minute detail they can about each other during that period. How entitled did Harry feel that he seemed to think it was down to the rest of his family to educate his partner on everything from needing to bow before the Sovereign to basic Royal duties including activities such as walkabouts? As if he didn't know that the women in his family have their fashion and style scrutinised by the media and a global audience? He has managed to write an entire book about everything he hated, struggled with or had to fulfil as a Royal - and the intense scrutiny Diana faced under the microscope of the media AND public - yet Meghan was apparently left clueless. The blame for Meghan's lack of preparation for Royal life lies with her husband. He had a responsibility to fully prepare her for his world, as she would have had to educate and prepare him for the US. He failed, and she has suffered for it. Once he accepts that his shoulders bear the burden of that blame, he can hopefully start realising that he is not a victim but the root cause of her problems. The man didn't even bother to meet her father before proposing yet moaned about having to ask the Queen for permission. The UK media seemed to turn on the couple after Meghan's family starting courting the press and complaining. Yet Harry seems to blame the media for talking to relatives he himself failed by not bothering to socialise and get to know them in person during his courtship with Meghan.

@Poolberi88

Жыл бұрын

Everyone has treated her poorly,.... according to her.

Fascinating stuff from you yet again Spidey, thanks a million!So so interesting and you are a very good "lecturer"! Greetings from Ireland🤗🍀

I more than enjoyed it, it was brilliantly done, and so profoundly dissected, amazing 👏 I don't know why your videos don't pop up more often, but this one did, and am grateful!

I’m English and I am admit while I never knew we called it a walk about for the royals, as the media would mostly when I watched the news (hardly watch it now😂) they always addressed it as something along the lines of. “The royals ‘insert names’ were out greeting the public at such and such a place”, so I will agree that initially yes, she may not have known what it was, but when she keeps stating no one helped her at all,theres multiple royals and high society people and aides who offered help and she allegedly turned it down. So she has no one to blame but her self

@Lovesapuzzle

Жыл бұрын

I agree. If she wasn't familiar with the term walk about, she could simply ask. I agree that there were likely plenty of people available to advise her and answer her questions if she would have bothered to ask.

I'm sorry about this but Meghan was offered so many of the Queens top people to guide and help her as she didn't want a repeat of the mistakes that happened with Diana. Even Sophie offered to help her, she was given a massive file on protocol not to obey but to explain the why's and how's, all of this she refused. As to a "walk about", she watch video after video of Diana and the Royal family, according to her friends, and would have seen them all doing "walk about". These two are passing the buck. We all wanted this to work apparently they didn't.

I like that you cite body language research as the basis for your analysis. Thank you.

I thought of something that I didn’t see talked about during this clip but there were other examples of similar situations given in part 1. Now maybe the reason it wasn’t mentioned is because there wasn’t much body language to support my claim but my claim is based mostly on common sense. The clip I’m referring to is when she is talking about her wedding and she explains that she knew there would be lots of people at the castle, but what she “didn’t know is people would be lining both sides of the street.” She even adds details like her mom apparently saying to her “what is going on here?” Meghan tells this story with a bit of excitement in her voice, but I have a very hard time buying her story. There is hours and hours of William/Kates wedding, from every vantage point possible, all available to her. She can probably get family copies of that wedding that most the public will never see. I just don’t think it’s reasonable to believe that with this perfect example of what you might be able to expect with your own wedding that you didn’t watch any of the Williams/Kate wedding. I have to believe she would have watched the William&Kate wedding hundreds of times just to get ideas for her own wedding. Seeing Meghan tell this lie with such ease and enthusiasm makes me believe she is a skilled liar. Meghan is so consistently dishonest and seems to lye about such small details that it makes you wonder what she won’t lie about. Unfortunately, you have to draw the conclusion that if there is any motivation for her to lye about something she won’t skip a beat. 34:47

@susanpharr6809

Жыл бұрын

Well said. Pretty accurate! I believe - especially regarding MM’s behavior patterns of lying, the veil between truth and a lie seems non-existent for her. It is said that is a characteristic of the narcissistic personality. Acting for her as a profession provides opportunities for role playing which can blur the lines between reality and fantasy under the circumstances as well.

@susanbirch-adams2831

Жыл бұрын

Hmmm.. Good point. I don't like how she says, "I didn't know this, I didn't know that." Really, being an actress you have to research your roles so you can get a feel for the character. Wasn't this one of the biggest if not the Biggest most import role of your life? How could you not fully research every aspect about it? Definitely, the hardest claims for me to swallow. The other things I think are more believable, but not she just didn't have a clue.

@anonview

Жыл бұрын

Even if she hadn't watched Princess Catherine and Prince William's wedding, there were clips from King Charles and Diana, whom she idolizes intensely. It's likely that she would have watched Diana's wedding at some point.

@anonymouse867

Жыл бұрын

She had dupers delight.

@pinkminipuff

Жыл бұрын

I also thought it was so silly. How could you not know? The wedding for Kate and William was super publicized. You're marrying the son of Princess Diana. You're marrying into royalty. I seriously doubt none of this was unexpected 😒. I really enjoy these shows. It helps me learn more about people and their expressions.

What I caught is that she is saying that nobody taught her how to wave, she just watched and learned. This makes her story about not knowing how to curtsy even less believable. Even if, supposedly, no one in the royal family taught her how, she could watch hours and hours of footage of people curtsying, so she would know.

@thanksamill

Жыл бұрын

There's footage of her doing a curtsy in SUITS

@amiramilova1

Жыл бұрын

She studied ballet when she was young. How on earth she didn't know to curtsy. All ballerinas are taught to make it. This is another lie. That is way she has been labelled a Pinocchio.

@underratedunity1528

Жыл бұрын

She's so full of crap

@patricia.1958

Жыл бұрын

Chase Hughes found evidence that she was given huge amounts if information from the courtiers.

Spidey, I can not thank you enough for holding such a high ground in all of this. I just knew that there would be no entitled, mean, "fun"-making attitude from you, in this, no matter how we feel about the topic! I truly adore how you keep the tone in a respectful way. BIG kudos to you!

@ros6553

Жыл бұрын

Agreed. Spider is very kind and balanced. I like how he gives various options for the behaviors he observes.

@thomasrios3913

Жыл бұрын

He needs a medal for this. I didn’t think anyone can stay unbiased when it comes to M&H

@flowergirlabc123

Жыл бұрын

Much respect

I haven’t been able to bring myself to watch the show itself. I stumbled on your video and I found your analysis to be very interesting. You are an engaging and eloquent presenter. I learned a great deal. Thank you for your analysis!

15:30 I believe it was kept there because it resembles the gesture of having that knot in the throat that happens when we're about to cry (or while being too emotional) and to subdue it, we tend to gulp it down. Interestingly, the hand gesture goes along with it as well! The placement is just right too; seemingly after unloading a rather sensitive topic, this gesture does seem to 'add' that tinge of an authentic emotion surging inside him tying the whole narrative of it all being truly emotional and genuine. Funny how it was either a hiccup or a burp, but the whole package works to depict something entirely different too, albeit too shabbily😄

Omg amazing use of a Harry Potter quote 😂😂💀

@TheBehavioralArts

Жыл бұрын

😂 my favorite is the second one where he actually says “Harry” 😂

In regards to Harry’s face in response to the ‘walkabout’ I read as if he is insulted/slightly offended because even though he has issues with his family it’s something else for someone unfamiliar to come in and rip on it

I was thinking maybe they left that 6 second moment in with Harry when he burps or hiccups because they thought it could look like emotion towards what he was talking about. I wish we could see the unedited version of interviews! Thank you for all your hard work, you are such an inspiration!

@TheKaraandAmy

5 ай бұрын

I think they left the hiccup in because everybody hiccups, no one can control it... Harry is really just like one of us. His chamber attendants put his trousers on one leg at a time!

Here are a few of my observations. The problem with Meghan's "I didn't know" defense is that 1) she could have asked. I'm sure that if she was unsure what to wear to an audition, she would ask. & 2) she repeated wardrobe missteps knowing they were missteps. Harry's explanation of how he resolved his costume problem tells me that he was forced, likely by his father, to speak to the Rabi and the Survivor. His, "I could have just moved on" comment tells me that he feels put out by having to speak with them and that he didn't value those conversations. I do believe he is sincerely ashamed for wearing that uniform because it reflected poorly on his character. There were media reports, at the time of Harry's military service, that he was kept in a relatively safe place due to him being a high profile target for the enemy. That seems logical. I believe most bride would say "when I got to the church, temple, etc." That is the building that brides associate with their weddings. Meghan very much wanted to remind viewers that she was married on castle grounds.

@JanWindsong

8 ай бұрын

And let’s not forget that she was asked specifically to dress in a certain harmonious way and she deliberately refused. I wouldn’t want that irritation in my family. There is a series videos about the violations Megan committed and the tunes that she was told no. Interesting prospective. Megan was s headache from the hit go including when she thought Harry was not interested and she invited herself to events to embarrass him

@Lovesapuzzle

8 ай бұрын

@@JanWindsong It's likely she's used bad behavior to gain attention for a long time. It's disappointing that it was tolerated for so long.

I'm from the UK & I can remember Harry growing up & how much more relatable he was. I think he is most proud of his time in the army & that was pivotal in himself. I remember there being plenty of "show" that he was treated the same as other soldiers, but come on he's a Prince. Do u honestly believe that our monarchy would really allow that? I do believe he has some serious issues surrounding his parents. If u take what happened to his parents & apply it to anyone child in the world, I don't think any of them would not have "issues" for want of a better phrase. Harry's are just out there for the whole world to see. Or read. I think raising awareness is extremely important if u have the ability. Sometimes though, you need to learn when to quietly get on with your life. Spidey awesome as always. Love the smile to contempt sneer. So very well shown! Love it! & all u do 4 us. Big hugs x

@ivydragonbreath

Жыл бұрын

Yes, exactly!

Spidey, you are amazing at remaining impartial. Hearing Harry speak about the difficulties and stresses of being a part of the Royal family, I get that it is not for everyone, and it certainly wasn’t a role his wife found conducive to her happiness. However, I wish they stopped trying to blame everything and everyone for their inability to fit that life and their desire to move away from it. Another thing that has popped into my mind after the endless complaining in interviews, podcasts, series, book, articles, and the unkindness with which they constantly speak about the Waleses, is how much harder it must be for William and Katherine to carry themselves with such dignity and grace, under the constant attacks and the pressure of being the future King and Queen consort, and while bringing up their young family. I don’t believe one needs to pick sides and can actually feel compassion for both parties in this situation.

@karmad4491

Жыл бұрын

William cheats on Kate and she has to take it. One reason people have a positive opinion of W&K is that so much negative energy toward H&M distracts from all the negative stories there are about not just William, but the whole RF.

@marzaak11

Жыл бұрын

@@karmad4491 still, it’s not about how awesome William is, it’s about the stress of constant attacks. It must be tough and personally, I find compassion for both brothers based on how I’d feel if I was in that situation with a sibling. I also think H&M might be making things worse for themselves by constantly over sharing. My that’s just my personal opinion.

@ShawNshawN

Жыл бұрын

ya, but you have to realize Kate and William are likely deliberately making H and M the undesirables to be able to rule. Its a classic problem of siblings vying for the crown and power. Has been historical truth for generations, so the same thing is likely happening here as well via the press vs real battles.

@ap9047

5 ай бұрын

This has been disproven as a lie and the man that started the rumor has since apologized.

The RF are known worldwide, to say that she didn't know what a walkabout was was to pretend not to have done research on the RF before she met Harry. She was obsessed with Diana from when she was a teenager. She manipulated Harry into making him believe that she knew nothing about him or the RF before she met him. Meeting Harry then marrying him was well planned and executed. When she entered into the RF she suddenly realized that she was not in their league but because of her narcissistic nature she wasn't willing to learn or be taught by anyone. But she wasn't leaving the RF without material to make money out of them. To make them look bad as she and Harry have been doing over the past two years.

This is true, my brother use to increase his eye contact when he was lying and make his eyes bigger 😳 I could always tell if he was lying when he done this 🤣

@scratchy1704

Жыл бұрын

I always give people eye contact when talking to them but I am not lying to them.

The idiocy of both of them thinking anyone will buy that she didn't google him or what a "walk about" could possibly mean is stunning. It simply directs people to think they don't know how to navigate the modern world. Even 6 year olds will tell you if you want to find out absolutely anything you google it. But she's not smart enough to decide to do that? She'd rather make a public fool of herself doing it wrong and breaking protocol? She does it deliberately and they both offer lame unbelievable excuses.

@jodievukmir3187

Жыл бұрын

Oh she walked that statement back also..later said she "looked at his Instagram" preferring the audacity that Googleing isn't the same as Instagram ..both of them also have many ways that "infers" things but.dont come out with specifics...I'm done with these two

@janice8514

Жыл бұрын

He school girl friends and best friend through college, and her 1st marriage, said she was obsessed and really admired Princess Diana. She would have watched alot of the walks bouts Diana did, as we all did in North America. At another girl's birthday party video around age 13 or 14, Megan was seen running around with a crown on her head, calling herself the QUEEN . This was her FRIENDS BD party! She was saying now you guys have to obey me and cursty or whatever.

@susanbrzezanski1292

Жыл бұрын

She’s the “smart girl” right? Did she never watch the news? Walk abouts are on the news all the time on the US news. In fact, US presidents do walk abouts , particularly on Inauguration Day. To feign ignorance on this subject, frankly I find completely unbelievable.

@jenniferestes5293

Жыл бұрын

I have never seen or heard of a "walk about" here in the US. But the name is pretty self explanatory. I don't know if I would have said or handled it differently if I was in her position.

@cardamom3804

Жыл бұрын

@Janice I’m from the US and have have never heard of a walkabout, nor seen it on the news. Not every household watches the news (my parents read the newspaper every morning)… TV was only for cartoons and movies.

You draw people who are like you. You are balanced and generous in your examination and speech towards the subjects in your videos.

You are REALLY good at this! Thank you for the insights.

If/ when they get divorced,. Who will get the children and how much child support will Meghan get?

It's interesting to hear that "probably" is a low confidence word. I often use it in conversations to come off less aggressive when I'm giving an opinion, or allow open room for error in the future if I'm found to be wrong. That's so fascinating how that works!

@n1na102

Жыл бұрын

I do the same! I suppose low confidence could mean not arrogant/ assertive here? More approachable / open?

@vfolsen

Жыл бұрын

totally agree. I do the same thing even when I'm very confident, just to leave room for disagreement without it becoming awkward. but you could argue that it could be interpreteded as unconfident.

@TheBehavioralArts

Жыл бұрын

Hello 😊Maybe I should have specified. When I say “low confidence word;” I don’t mean low confident in oneself I mean low confidence in the position. Exactly as you described. If you’re uncertain or willing to have an open discussion it would indicate that you’re speaking of opinion not fact. Ex: you would never say “my name is probably Michaela” you know this to be true. We don’t use “probably” if we know for a fact what we’re saying is true. Also always remember baseline. Some people are naturally more open minded, so they use “probably” or “in my opinion” more often to leave room for debate naturally. He does not Thanks for watching 😊

@vfolsen

Жыл бұрын

@@TheBehavioralArts hard to argue against the baseline argument. Keeping with the royals could you do a breakdown of the infamous prince andrew interview?

@eincryptid

Жыл бұрын

@@TheBehavioralArts ah! I'm fangirling that you now know my name, haha. And yeah totally, I understood but maybe didn't specify enough that I agreed with your statement lol. Love your videos, keep up the great work!

As usual your analysis is awesome and your kindness fairness at its very core.

I love your analysis, fair and professional. Thank you

I watch several body language and behavior analysis channels on KZread, and Spidey's is definitely my favorite (The Behavior Panel fellas are for sure a close second!). I had totally forgotten today was Behavioral Arts upload day, and when I opened KZread to see the new video, it made my day! Thank you for bringing me fresh, informative, entertaining, and relevant content each week, Spidey!

My mother always knew when I was lying as I just stared at her without blinking. I still do it. Obviously I haven't perfected it yet 🙈😂😂

Thank you so much for your impartial reading- many others let their opinions “leak” loudly.. …and… THAT IS WHY I admire you.

Thank you for this wonderful video❗️👌 He’ knows he’s wrong! HMTQ served as a mechanic in the 2nd World war. Prince Phillip served on ships. Andrew flew helicopters and was quite a hero during the Falklands war. Prince William, although he couldn’t serve in the forces, (as he is the heir to the throne) served as a search and rescue helicopter pilot, saving lives in dangerous circumstances! It’s been said by many (including a genuine war hero Trevor Cult) that Harry was highly protected, never served on the front line, and had a nickname “bunker Harry”. He gave a pledge to serve and honour HMTQ, and his country. He broke that pledge. He also as patron, failed to show up to an event for injured/killed U.K. military vets, preferring on the same evening to attend a Disney red carpet event, where he “touted” his wife for voice over work! Bragging about his service and kill count is quite appalling.

I’m glad you have stated, in the past, that not all rules will apply to EVERYONE. I glance into people’s eyes when having a conversation, not because I’m checking to see if they are buying something but because I get very uncomfortable looking people in the eye but know that it can come across as rude and/or uninterested to NOT make eye contact.

@Rhawn246

Жыл бұрын

Yes! Sometimes I look away and gather my thoughts and then I redirect my gaze to the other person so as not to appear rude.

Spidey! I'm a Panelist from Germany and a huge fan of your channel. I love the way you explain things and find it very inspirational and educational. Much love from Munich!

Really enjoyed learning about body language. You explained this so well 👍

U r so super good at your job!! I cannot get enough of your channel !

Talking about the "walk about" she contradict herself when she ask "are this earrings for a British designer?". So she knows, she should be promoting British things.

@aabc8141

Жыл бұрын

She knows everything, she has been obsessed with the royals and probably watched every programme about them ever existed.

I do want to say thank you for taking the time to make these videos. Been following you since JD and AH trials. Your the first pod cast I've watched ever, and from there now I watch the behavior panel, law and lumber, lawyer you know, and you. Just wanted to take a sec and say I appreciate what you guys are doing

@BasedYoga

Жыл бұрын

Ditto!! Me too!!!

@newnamewhodis1

Жыл бұрын

Me three !

@CatalinaFOIA

Жыл бұрын

I follow E.Baker too!

@ivydragonbreath

Жыл бұрын

Oh, I hadn't heard of the Behaviour Panel, is it just as enjoyable as Spidey? I might have to have a look.

@mdaddy775

Жыл бұрын

Same. And I like how he manages to be sweet and fair as well as critical.

I really love your voice and your demeanour . You are very calming and know a lot about your subject. Cheers from Australia.

You should write a book on body language. I'd buy it for sure!

I am not against Megan but, come on, since you become girlfriend of a Prince you begin to ask, search, get info and over all when you are going to meet Royal Family!!!! No question on it!

@sheilacampos5246

Жыл бұрын

One thing it got me thinking is how not approachable the whole institution seems to be. Because when Harry talks about how the decision to have him leave went about makes me think offices talked to each other but not the person per day. Also the cottage they were giving to live… total not it. Without them saying, these are my words, based on my life experiences. Rarely when you shine more than your boss, the end result is your promotion or continue support towards your success but the opposite until you part ways. Just bringing it to my own experiences. I can see them being shunned. Honestly. These are powerful people that are head of states. I don’t see them loosing time with details and accommodating people. We are being naive to think they would.

@SandraPerez-gf4xv

Жыл бұрын

I don’t think any research can prepare you enough. Diana is a perfect example.

@disarmedpianist

Жыл бұрын

Totally agree. Any ordinary person who cares about their partner would ask about the family before meeting the parents. Megan would have had plenty of chances looking these things up on the internet or to ask around. But clearly... She didnt, and now blames it on arguably the most easily searched family in the world, lol.

@Maggie22002

Жыл бұрын

Meghan did research The RF, according to her half sister, Samantha. Meghan has proven at this point to be a very destructive Malignant Narcissist. She alienated her own family & then did the same to the RF. They both have been caught in lie after lie. I refer you to the videos by Lady Colin Campbell on this subject as she has her own reliable sources of Info. She also has personal experience with a narcissistic relative. She wrote a book about it, worth reading- Daughter of Narcissus. Many therapists have written to her & confirmed that from what they have seen, Meghan fits the personality disorder. What led to Meghan’s gesture? She’s an actress & not a very good one. That’s what.

@vmc7773

Жыл бұрын

Same, don't dislike the lady at all but unfortunately recently she and he haven't done themselves any favours. I wish they would disconnect frm the yes ppl around them and view there life as there own,not a soap opera needing constant new episodes.

As Meghan is a narc, and ‘ never doing something wrong’ (😂) he feels the need to confess all he has done in his life. He hopes she will do that too, but that will never happen

This video was fascinating and so educational. Thank you!

As an American married to a Brit, I think you are spot on as far as the differences in gestures and mannerisms. It's quite a conflict of upbringing and societal quirks between two individuals - and that's not even bringing being a Royal or actress into the equation. I often get rebuked because of my mannerisms or way of speaking in much the same way. Now I know why. :)

@susaneglinton2184

8 ай бұрын

I dont think it was anythink to do with her mannerisms, more her basic lack of manners, as a Prince of yhe Realm Hsrry should have gone first at all times, but she pushed her way in front and caused many problems by defying protocol. A quick look at how the other wives behaved would have shown her how it was done.

His father and brother served. His Uncle Andrew fought and was awarded medals in the Falklands. He is amazingly ignorant about his own family

@annmartin5347

Жыл бұрын

His Grandfather, Prince Philip also served during WW2

@shamanicsoulcoach9588

Жыл бұрын

Yes Philip was a serious sailor. Charles was sent to sea to get him away from Camilla

Spidey, You show so much grace and honesty in how you analyze the body language and dialogue. In most cases, people are not horrible all the time, nor are they amazing all of the time. Many people project their feelings or own shortcomings onto others, especially when they see them mirrored. Then there are people who live in the world of confirmation bias and only look for things to back up their own opinions. You take such an honest and “just the facts” approach to your analysis that it makes you among the best at what you are doing here. Anyone who comes at you for your analysis is most likely closed minded and unwilling or unable to see things objectively. Bravo!

She was given a thirty five page file with instructions

When she said that bringing up MeToo was topical, I think she means it fit, logically, with the conversation. Like, she wasn't just throwing it in our of nowhere. To get, it made perfect sense to bring it up.

Liking this before even watching it! Love your content. Thank you Spidey!

I wouldn’t have bat an eye at the “when we got to the castle for our wedding” if she didn’t bring such attention to it. They’re royals. It’s not abnormal to hear their wedding would be at a castle. Felt like a weird opportunity to gloat the way she delivered it.

@chelseah9254

Жыл бұрын

Or just share the excitement with others?! As an American, the idea of having a wedding at a castle is the fairytale. If she wasn’t excited and it felt “normal” she wouldn’t be being real or relatable.

@matthiettmusic

Жыл бұрын

@@chelseah9254 that’s a good point too. I could see that!

Really enjoy your analysis, which is so educational, direct, objective and interesting

Spidey has the best comment section on the interwebs, spoken to so many great people here. Thank you for bringing the good vibes B. 🤗♥️

As a veteran no way he even resembled any similar experience and it’s legend he is known as bunker Harry. I was Army 6 years. My fiancé is Pakistani and laughed at this bc even the local ppl knew him as Bunker Harry. We had a long talk (and giggled) over this. Although he grew up on Indian border it was well known to him as a child Harry was a target. He did say even the taliban he insulted by quoting 25 as chess pieces know this but are using his words to create tension.

He talks about having a lived experience and joining the army like other members of the Royal family haven't done it. William was in the raf and was part of the raf search and rescue force for 6 years and then was a full-time pilot for the air ambulance for 2 years.

I appreciate learning the psychology behind all your videos. I do have my personal opinions about this couple, but I come to watch to learn more about behavior than really just discuss gossip. Thank you for the education!

Hi, secret viewer here. I never comment. But I absolutely love all your videos. You are so interesting to listen to and so likable as a person! I look forward to your videos each time you upload. Thank you for doing what you do! 😊