Hey everyone! Hope you’re enjoying this analysis 😊. Here’s an extra note that I filmed but then cut out to make the video briefer. There’s a lot of speculation in the comments as to why Meghan’s mannerisms and cadence are the way they are. I think acting plays a big part of it but much more than that, in episode 2 we see her mother being interviewed and then going back to the city they lived in and it’s plain to see that that is EXACTLY where she gets her mannerisms. It’s the exact same. Her mom is very animated with her face and when talking about their phone call when Meghan told her about Harry, she starts whispering, at some point they both even make a comment about their old yard at the same time the exact same way. The resemblance in mannerisms is uncanny. I’ll also add that there is nothing inherently wrong with these mannerisms. They simply rub certain people the wrong way (as many of you commented). It’s totally possible that some people are perfectly fine with it or even find it engaging but for whatever reason some people intuitively respond negatively to it, this is why we avoid it on stage. as mentioned in the video, I know this is a very polarizing topic for a lot of people (I explain why in the video) but let's try and keep the discussions polite and respectful please. Everybody's personal opinion is valid and I would love the conversations in the comments to reflect the open minded attitude that we value in this community. Thanks ❤

@anonview

Жыл бұрын

This is the most objective, straightforward video I've seen on the documentary, and I love it! 👍 I can't speak for others, but the reason I'm uncomfortable listening to her more exaggerated stories is because she seems to exude "exclusivity." She doesn't often use sentences that invite listeners to experience what she did. When she was talking about the elephant stuff, I didn't feel as if she was wishing the audience was with her when that happened. Instead, I felt as if she was saying that she was sorry something like that had never happened to her audience. I think this feeling of being excluded from the topic of conversation is what puts many people off.

@anonymouscoder7791

Жыл бұрын

I was waiting for ur analysis, 44:59 So true about ur analysis, I didn't pick up on(contempt) it first, When i saw this scene, i felt something was out place, like why isn't he saying anything, or joking about it like saying "yeah, that was awkward". Rather he sat there with little to no expression or trying to at least. It feels like maybe she is making this up, and it didn't actually happen, and its her way to show us how Naive she was, and her naiveness is so funny and adorable, again trying to relate to masses, but it didn't land well.

@tjbrat44

Жыл бұрын

THANK YOU for using your methods consistently for everone. Whenever there's question with drama channels, I come here! I want info on the Idaho murderer please!

@missliss2581able

Жыл бұрын

I really wish you had left it in. It seems very important to understanding her mannerisms and may have helped some of the more … uncharitable commenters. Her mother is a social worker, she’s probably used to having to explain things to adults in a way she feels they can understand and also talking to kids during difficult situations. I feel like some of that could explain the way Meghan explains things

@TheBehavioralArts

Жыл бұрын

@@missliss2581able unfortunately I have to make a lot of difficult decisions in editing because if I didn’t these videos would be 4 hours long. Maybe I can do a video eventually with some important cut outs like that one

She did an Oprah interview, while Prince Phillip was on his deathbed, telling the world the RF was racist in their dealings with her. She disrespected the late Queen, who is probably one of history's greatest women and promoted women's rights in a man's world. QEII also promoted positive race relations. She formed the modern Commonwealth, which is voluntary and the benefit is good trade deals and helping young people. And they had the utter gall to call it Empire 2.0, which was so untrue and insulting to all the countries that voluntarily joined. Her life's work, tarnished by lies. That is unforgivable and can never be undone. That fake exaggerated bow will haunt her for her lifetime. She lied multiple times, is a bully and keeps on lying about the RF. Nope. I dont like her or her behaviour and I am angry about that. I dont hate people, but I dont have to like them or their behaviour.

@user-tf8lj3ci3b

Ай бұрын

The other thing that I thought really bizarre aside from the fact that the points that you made she was pregnant she was an Oprah‘s chicken coop. I grew up on a farm I know for a fact when you’re pregnant the doctors tell you not to go in the chicken coop because it’s dangerous to your unborn child I find that very frustrating I don’t know what word I’m looking for, but she should’ve known better and I know obis would’ve told her to not do that. It’s like we’re not supposed to clean the litter box either when we’re pregnant

@diane9247

2 күн бұрын

@@user-tf8lj3ci3b Yes! Birds carry mites, e.coli and chlamydia. These would be in heavy concentrations in a chicken coop. Dog and cat feces also have e.coli.

I’ve met the queen, in the context of a private garden party at a historic site. I was one of the servers, wearing costume, we were all vetted and prepared beforehand. If I was prepared, I find it unbelievable that someone who was auditioning to join the family wouldn’t have been given an entire dossier!

@jola3047

Жыл бұрын

She wasn't a servent nor an invited in advance guest

@charlieann456

Жыл бұрын

@Jola If she wasn't invited, how did she get past the queen's security? I saw a video of them, talking about meeting the queen Harry had asked if she knew how to curtsey. Megan was shocked that she would have to curtsey to Harry's grandmother.

@elizabethhopkins7582

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@wendyodonnell5363

Жыл бұрын

I thought it was over dramatic.

@jennebaram9881

Жыл бұрын

@@charlieann456 Well... to get into my mom's house as a casual friend of the family, you need to be invited and/or accompanied by an immediate family member. If not, you need to ask and get the formal reply of "Yes- come over." If you don't know her, you need to ring the doorbell, explain yourself and get express permission (which she probably won't give you because she doesn't trust strangers). Different levels of familiarity equate to different levels of introduction.

I am ABSOLUTELY CERTAIN that she was prepped before meeting the Queen! My cousins met the Queen multiple times as they are Godparents to her niece’s son. Each time they were prepped AND reminded on how to greet her and how to refer to her for the rest of the time they were in her company! So moaning Meg having no idea - has to be a bare faced lie - right there! This was a fascinating watch - thank you!

@annettecarter7890

7 ай бұрын

I agree, but from what I understand, they had not expected to see the Queen that day, so probably no time for staff to prepare her, she would have arrived with Harry and gone straight in. The fact that in the interview, Harry says he asked her "You know how to curtsey?" shows that he had not discussed how she should behave.

@karenholland215

6 ай бұрын

Who cares! That woman was a human being just like everybody else. So what she didn’t do it right. It’s f’ed up that she would have to do it at all

@sandyCP

6 ай бұрын

​@karenholland215 Royal family is human beings too. We all have ways to greet elders in our cultures. It's nothing extraordinary. She could just ask Harry. Even a simple handshake would have been OK than this. On the top of that, she acts like it's perfectly alright, but makes a huge deal out of Catherine being uncomfortable about been hugged. That's pretty hypocritical.

@andree-annblais9221

6 ай бұрын

Totally agree, I recived a medal from the Canadian Governor and I had a protocol training a month before and a rehasal the day before. So yes there is both theory and practical training. It was very protocolar so when she saied that no one prepared her fo meeting the queen or the Britannic National Anthem I laughed out loud. She also lack of accountabality. She should have ask questions, she should have done her homeworks. This is just being a responsible adult...

@karenholland215

5 ай бұрын

@@TaylorVacthe whole thought of having to treat human beings as though they are higher than others is such b.s. “Royals” I’m disgusted by this whole concept.

When he said that she’s animated and gestures as if she’s performing for children, all I could think is that’s what attracted Harry. His inner child desires that.

@kellymoore6353

10 күн бұрын

That is exactly what I was thinking, she's absolutely played on that part

I live in Scotland, Princess Anne had an official visit to my place of work. Those that were meeting her were briefed by a royal staffer on etiquette. Curtsy, greeting etc. If that’s what is done for Princess Anne, I don’t for a moment believe Megan didn’t get briefed on how and what to do.

@phillipaclemons7261

Жыл бұрын

Countries have traditions. The Japanese bow as a greeting

@l.b.5892

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for pointing that out. I did not know that happened, I like it. I think in the case of the dinner though, there wouldn't be that though as she would have been briefed before, so she should have known that, but the situation was intimate and 'informal' - but still. In that situation I think she wanted to play the 'American actress sweetheart' bit, and how cool and trendy she thinks she is; when in fact she is just rude and uncouth. How sad. I would never wear ripped Jeans and barefoot during any dinner date with friends nor family. I may do so however, after a tiring or shopping day with a close friend and go home for a quick/rushed casual bite. That was not the case here. Total ego and preemptive projection. She really thought she was going to be loved and adored, but that wasn't the case 🤦‍♀️ No wonder William, if that is the case, thought she was rude, difficult and abrasive. I agree with him!

@DanaG1970

Жыл бұрын

She was definitely briefed on the etiquette for the royal family, she just chose to ignore it.

@sandrasutherland1756

Жыл бұрын

She was given a 30 page dossier on all things Royal. Guess they forgot to mention that.

@cl3140

Жыл бұрын

That’s not true, the press criticized Hugo Chavez for almost stretching out his hands to Queen Elizabeth and he was a President of a country. So someone didn’t brief him on greeting the queen. This may have been the case with MM.

Don't get me wrong, I spend all day in my pyjamas when I can get away with it! I hate dressing up for events. I'm also a hugger (I'm British so she was wrong with that generalisation imo) and I'm middle class as we're told Meghan was raised. However, if I was meeting my boyfriend's family and was serious about the relationship, I would not be in ripped jeans and bare feet and I certainly wouldn't force myself on them physically. Not all people are comfortable with physical contact. If she has reached her 30s and still doesn't recognise that then it's either because she doesn't pay attention to other people or because she doesn't care about their needs.

@magdasmith1421

Жыл бұрын

Liar.

@labeaxyz

Жыл бұрын

Exactly my thoughts! Wouldn't you make an effort for your guests? Or hosts? Besides them being Royals! I'm Italian but I don't go kissing people I'm introduced to for the very first time.

@AngieLea

Жыл бұрын

💯

@valansley

Жыл бұрын

All squeals and false smiles false hugs = Most people see right through it

@Peace-xu8ps

Жыл бұрын

Seemingly she cares about her own needs and throws anyone else under the bus that doesn’t ride with her.

My husband and I are different race, come from different country, and very different culture background. The first time meeting eachother’s family, we both asked “is there anything we should do, what to wear, certain way to behave”, and with all the tips, we both made mistakes which caused not-so-great first impression. So I thought, at the first meeting with W&K, she probably did prepare but still did make mistakes. That can be excused. But then she went on saying things like “i am always a hugger”, and make fun of the British culture and Royal protocols, that to me sound like she is aware that she made mistakes and she didnt care. She didnt want to change herself at all for marrying into a Royal Family.

@maried3717

11 ай бұрын

Absolutely true! She let them know it from the beginning!

@annicecooper8105

11 ай бұрын

Exactly ! We are in a similar position and we both screwed up in the early meetings but both families understood and graciously appreciated the effort each had put onto trying to be respectful. It's a learning process over time but it seems she wasn't prepared to learn and put the effort in.

@MissTi23

11 ай бұрын

The thing is… i can totally see not caring to indulge the practices of this monarchy that places blood over character…especially having grown up in America. I’d curtesy to M or B Obama if that’s what was expected, but I’m not bowing to Kate or Will. What have they done in life?

@annicecooper8105

11 ай бұрын

@@MissTi23 No-one is compelled to agree with a particular ideal in a culture - not sure I could live with some of the expectations in a Jewish or Muslim culture, but then I wouldn't choose to marry someone if I had serious issues with their culture that meant I had to do something I hated / disrespected on a regular basis.

@christynorman7288

11 ай бұрын

Huggers are sometimes false, a person who is too friendly like hugging in first meeting and it means nothing. One has to earn the friendship and the familiarity. It's not a badge of honour. My grandad said beware the overly gushing person. It's like walking on quicksand. So she is false in that respect too. She will not bend if it's not her way - it's no way!?? Peace ☮️ out SW England 🇬🇧

She s so horrible! As an American I would never ever compare the Royals to the pure entertainment of Medieval Times. That’s offensive!

Who exposes their neck for a prolonged period of time while saying they are uncomfortable? That definitely stood out.

@TheBehavioralArts

Жыл бұрын

I absolutely agree. It’s very inconsistent.

@shanicelasha8495

Жыл бұрын

i understand this analysis, but i do this when i’m extremely stressed and feel like i have to cry. i’ll just throw my head back and avoid the tears falling. I don’t think she’s uncomfortable in the environment, but i think the subject matter is what’s most uncomfortable for her

@mymai5859

Жыл бұрын

Yes OP ...her exposing her neck while throwing her head back is a sign she is very, very comfortable. It is a power move while addressing a subordinate to show they're in control. She's loving it & attacking the RF, while belittling her husband, makes her feel more powerful than them all.

@katreynolds3193

Жыл бұрын

As far as telling if someone is lying, at least to me and I can tell 1) they can not look at me when I ask then. 2) they turn flushed3) they can not come out with a straight answer that makes ANY sense at all and lastly my gut feeling 🤷🏻‍♀️

@lisecreed6749

Жыл бұрын

there's a difference between "safe" and "comfortable".

I have worked on a cruise ship where HRH have come for few days or few hours and all staff have been thoroughly explained how to address/behave, I therefore find it utterly impossible that nobody said a word to her. Maybe she was not listening....

@roselee4445

Жыл бұрын

She thought she knew better, was better, and would change the royals because surely she is better, knows better, and that surely they are miserable using etiquette.

@BuntyMcB

Жыл бұрын

She was given a large dossier as a guide and had the Queen’s most experienced people asked to support her. She said she didn’t need them - she had Harry. Basically I think she struggles with deferring to anybody.

@niklet9246

Жыл бұрын

I know it's an isolated incident, but my mind goes to the video of Meghan and Harry expecting to attend an event that I suspect they knew they weren't invited to. Charles tells them not to come in the room and they inch forward clearly intending to ignore him. Meghan starts to go in front of Charles and both Harry and Charles don't let that happen. She then pushes in front of Harry to walk in after Charles. It's very difficult for me to believe that Meghan just didn't know better. I think she needs to own (realize) that she has a personality that is MORE than just headstrong. Same with Harry but in different ways.

@elizabethanthony3916

Жыл бұрын

@@niklet9246 👍👏👏👏👏👏👏

@mayumimabini2630

Жыл бұрын

@Jo Ralu they’re not the same thing but don’t you think they will attempt to give MORE briefing to a Prince’s girlfriend/fiancée?

The south park episode of H&M is a MUST watch. Puts everything into context.

Not only was MM briefed on royal protocol, she was given a written 30-point dossier on the subject, had a team of 14 ladies in waiting and the ear of H’s personal assistant, ELF. MM, herself, has said that Sarah Ferguson taught her how to curtsey before meeting the Queen, AND she had curtsied on Suits, many years before. Not only that, but she could have googled “How to curtsey” at any point in time & got step-by-step instructions or even a video. If you’re meeting your new boyfriend’s family for the 1st time, any normal person would at least try to make a good impression… put something nice on & maybe ask him if you look ok, let alone if your new boyfriend is a prince & you’re meeting the royal family. All this acting like she didn’t know anything, couldn’t find out, & everything was such an awful surprise is not a good look. Nobody is that stupid.

@catherinebrame3145

5 ай бұрын

Thank you!!

@pameladigaetano8119

Ай бұрын

She is so disrespectful to the Royal family. Even the Queen!!! She actually thought she was more experienced than the QUEEN 👸! The nerve and outrageous behavior is APPALLING. 😮😮😮😮

Grace Kelly navigated both worlds seamlessly. With elegance and grace. It can be done. Americans are not all crass. I lived in England, and asked friends constantly for behavioral tips so as not to offend. As an American, I wanted to represent our country with honor.

@leighannhunt1970

8 ай бұрын

Very nicely said 😊 and so true!

@t.wlivingstone6769

3 ай бұрын

First if you read Grace Kelly’s autobiography, you’ll see that she didn’t have an easy entrance into the Monaco Royal family. It was something she had to Work at. She even gave Princess Diana if you read that autobiography some tips on how to navigate the royal world. Secondly, we must first and foremost understand that for Megan it was totally different. She’s a woman of color whether she wants to admit it or not and I think she got a taste of that. She finally saw herself as a black woman in America. I’m a Jewish black woman and my mother always told me the world would look at my skin color first before they looked at my character. Megan did not realize that people would look at her skin color first before they look at her character that they would assign a character based on her skin color. I think that a lot of the things said because I read them I’m Canadian and I read a lot of the things being harsh at her and as a Jewish black woman in Canada/America , I’m gonna tell you right now there was a lot of racist comments towards her so much so tell if it was me and her position I would’ve broke. I would’ve wanted to get the hell out of there so think before you speak because sometimes you need to walk a mile and somebody’s shoes in order to see their point. And if you can go back way back to one of Oprah‘s interviews, where a young boy read John Griffin’s book black like me And decided to try that experiment he did not last one week. He told Oprah that Black people must be really strong because he couldn’t last a week and he explained why find the interview.

@maryshanley329

3 ай бұрын

Nutmeg is a professional victim.

@maryshanley329

3 ай бұрын

@@t.wlivingstone6769 Many people didn’t even know she was black. They thought she was Italian. She is a classic narcissist. She has thrown all of the people in her life under the. Her “ Suits” actors no longer have her phone number.

@maryshanley329

3 ай бұрын

@@t.wlivingstone6769 That was 50 years ago. Today, there is a thriving middle class of black Americans. The Democrats never mention this.

One thing I've never understood about H&M's story is how they always emphasise how unprepared M was when meeting members of the Royal Family. Not just because they are the Royal Family but as an interracial couple from completely different backgrounds. As a white woman with a black husband, my husband and I had NUMEROUS conversations about meeting opposite sides of the family and what might be expected, things not to do or say etc... Not to mention in getting to know him & the way he grew up, I had gotten a sense of what his parents were like and what was expected. Seems to me that ultimately, H was the first member of the Royal Family to let her down and set her up for failure

@Adina201

Жыл бұрын

That’s the narrative they want you to believe. It’s not like they are being truthful..

@juliemcleod1119

Жыл бұрын

No, she was offered help, she said no. She thought she could bully and blackmail her way through. After all she is Not the first outsider let into the Rf, they are given help as much as is needed. After all many take years to get use the the family any family, she demanded every thing now!!!

@lynnfinly

Жыл бұрын

Its a story they spin but she was well aware of what she was getting in to. she had all the info necessary to thrive within the RF she just didn't want to comply to the rules. At the end of the day, she was working in a job that she thought was below her and she didn't want to play the game. they were given 1 year to make a decision, came her to Canada, then decided to move to USA. they tried to negotiate within the business and was turned down which then fueled them to make up lies to try and destroy the RF image.

@e.sterling141

Жыл бұрын

@@lynnfinly Yeah exactly. I mean we could accept their story that she was just oblivious and the very protective Harry did absolutely nothing to prepare her or to keep her from making mistakes, (they DO love to play victim) or we could think logically and realize that Harry is VERY protective of her and would have done everything possible to make sure she didn't embarass herself. And as we know she was offered her own aide to help her acclimate to their customs and she refused the help. (Which proves she just didn't care to respect their traditions.) I also find it really suspect when they were talking about how Meghan kept "accidentally" breaking the royal rules/traditions such as wearing her hair in a bun in public, as well as not wearing panty hose. There's a reason that never happened with Kate or any other woman who's married into the family. And that's that they're all aware of the rules. For Meghan to pretend she didn't know once again defies belief. Even HARRY would know these things. And knowing she likely had disdain for tradition and any "rule" that dictated what women could wear (especially knowing shes a vocal liberal feminist) it seems much more likely the rule breaking was very purposeful. That's just my take anyway.

@LK-lz6lk

Жыл бұрын

@@lynnfinly Wonder why they didn't stay in Canada? Not enough publicity, attn & spotlight for Meg?🤷🏼‍♀️ Idk how they compare re: that but I wish they would've stayed.

The fact you mentioned about the exaggerated gestures of kid magicians and the way Meghan told her story was so interesting. I did find it cringy but I didn't know why I felt so

@phlutegirl

Ай бұрын

Same! I appreciated the explanation for this reason!

"Look at us, we are so cool and relatable and cute..Not like those stuffy ol' Royals" What an ACT!

@ThatRedhedd

2 ай бұрын

She is nothing like the stuffy old royals though. That's not an act.

I think one of the most difficult things for me to try to grasp, why would she be disrespectful to her husband, his heritage, culture and to everyone else? Life is not only about one's self. It's this kind of behavior that makes the, "oh, she's American" explanation not complementary to us.

@merrywalsh2809

Жыл бұрын

It’s devaluing behavior. After a narcissist has painted someone black, the devaluing starts.

@keep_it_real_1

Жыл бұрын

Because she's a narcassist

@cagirl2220

Жыл бұрын

To bring him down so she looks better.

@joisagirlsname

Жыл бұрын

1. The "oh, she's American" comment is most definitely never a compliment. 2. The last couple of comments from Spidey actually hits this topic quite hard, it made me think she believes she's married into her own reality TV show. What could possibly be a better way to ensure you get longevity in front of the camera than marrying into royalty who live their entire lives in front of them?

@jlseagull2.060

Жыл бұрын

Bluegrassgirl Well said!

Why does she always assume we haven’t gotten any sense of who they are? They talk about themselves nonstop, so if we haven’t got a sense of who they want us to think they are from them telling us what we are obligated to think of them for all these years, telling us again is not going to makes think what they want us to think of them either. She needs to never use that justification for talking about herself again.

@Roszalief

Жыл бұрын

Because how they have been portrayed in the media. Lots of lies have been told about them while they are not allowed to respond.

@mecca1395

Жыл бұрын

@@Roszalief don't you think - an Oprah interview, Netflix 2 part documentaries, 4-5 independent interviews, a memoir - has been enough coz all they do is talk and the only people NOT doing the talking is the RF.... Weird you don't see it.....and they have been portrayed in the media as per their behavior.... I believe you absolutely accept people throwing their families under the bus to play not only victim but earn millions from it....

@zeldagoblin

Жыл бұрын

Which lies were those, specifically?

@SylD0611

Жыл бұрын

100 million $ is the real reason, come on Megan. Yes they talk about themselves nonstop, they love to be on camera and the attention. It's their "job". If it's just to say who you really are, you could do it for FREE 😅

@ashleydurham7397

Жыл бұрын

Yeah. I think we all get it at this point.

I'm American and her behavior is disgusting and so disrespectful. This is her stage she could have been prepped and still chose to do it her way and blame it on not knowing if it didn't go well! Like ad-libbing! That's the feel I get for this interview can't wait to see part 2 now!!! You are so dead on with the behavior and I'm learning so much just watching you! Also love the Canadian accent?! Have relatives in Maine and Canada and I just love listening to you ❤❤❤❤❤God bless you Spidey

@ivanabonacicdoric8537

11 ай бұрын

She did not have to change, only respect a bit

@strawbricketteshortcake5460

9 ай бұрын

Yes she thought that she was so charming and awesome that there was no way the royals wouldn’t make exceptions for her! Once she found out that they run a tight ship and she wasn’t the Captain her Princess fantasy crashed and she took it personally. She is gross

@yourconnection9303

8 ай бұрын

I don't hear an accent in Spidey as a Canadian. He sounds like a lot of Americans do.

@therealz360z7

6 ай бұрын

​@@strawbricketteshortcake5460I don't think being a virtual prisoner would make anyone feel welcomed .

@sandyCP

6 ай бұрын

​@@therealz360z7 Being a prisoner and being married to a royal family are very different things. Royal life is more like a life of a diplomat, not a prisoner. If it's normal life that they wanted they could just be non-working royals. Look how Prince Edward and his wife Sophie lived until they decided to become working royals. They did normal jobs and lived like normal people. So, I very much doubt it is "finding freedom" that H&M actually wanted

The first time I met my husband's parents, it was Thanksgiving dinner. I knew they were academics who had taught and been in administration, I knew where they were from, and that they were older (my guy and I were in our late 30s/early 40s). I was a boho kinda chaotic artistic designer for rock stars...nd I still new to dress well, be on time, be respectful, cordial, but not too familiar, and not to make it all about ME. I was at a family holiday, with a man I loved and hoped to be with. It was so easy to get myself in the right frame of mind. It was the LEAST I could do! She'd also already decided to marry him, it would also have been the LEAST Meghan could have done. It would not have been that hard. PUH LEASE girl. It was lazy and narcissistic of her.

@ThatRedhedd

2 ай бұрын

People who are huggers always hug me when we first meet. I don't like it. You know what I DON'T do? I don't call them lazy and narcissistic for not asking ahead of time if I was a hugger.

@catharinecarrington2705

Ай бұрын

She loves the camera she was an actress called she's going to love the camera cos she was on front of a camera at 24 hours a day make a Mark was a TV actress on suits in filmed in Toronto so she would know that Meghan Markle Camera Never Lies with Meghan Markle the camera never lies in the camera never lies with Meghan Markle because she wants to be the centre of attention

When my Italian friends were planning to visit my country, they asked so many questions in detail about how to greet someone, what is appropriate to say and what's not,what to wear etc. They did all the research beforehand. Even though coming from totally different culture, norms, and habits, they managed to not offend a single person, they were liked by everyone.

@hc7873

Жыл бұрын

@@RenataKleinRK , you're assuming this person is American 😉

@tiffanygirardi2341

Жыл бұрын

That is a good point. When I travel abroad, I research the customs and traditions and such as well and I'm not even meeting anyone!

@OnceUponaTimeline

Жыл бұрын

Or in a pinch, just hang back a bit to the back of the pack, see what others in front of you are doing, and copy it as best you can. This stuff varies greatly even from one family to another in the same country. When you are in new territory it's natural and normal to look at others for clues on the protocol. Are people introducing themselves or just waving and saying hi, do they wait for everyone and pray before dinner or just dig in once the first plate it down, etc.

@sillysod33

Жыл бұрын

That’s because your Italian friends did not have a plan to blackmail you and your family.

@pamelavarilone2614

Жыл бұрын

Your relatives set upon this assignment with much RESPECT. That is the difference. She, as a Narcissist, is completely unaware of this concept, and only moves in ways that serve to increase her “supply.”

“He’s found a woman he can protect the way he couldn’t protect his mother.” 🤯 WOW. He’s probably not even aware of that and here comes Spidy and reads him like a book in two seconds 👏

@maxinewarnest894

Жыл бұрын

If Harry wants to protect anyone in the way that he ultimately couldn't protect his mother, then he should promote the use of seat belts. But he never speaks of seat belts or how very important seat belts are.

@SG-wu8eh

Жыл бұрын

@@maxinewarnest894 can’t really blame him for blaming the paps instead of his mother who was being chased.

@user-cc2sv8fp5q

Жыл бұрын

The whole world reads it. And we also read that Meghan uses this poor boy because of his need to protect his mother. As a mother of two boys I'm so sorry for him.

@sharieannpryce9127

Жыл бұрын

@@user-cc2sv8fp5q Exactly what she's doing.

@Valen_Wolf

Жыл бұрын

@Maxine Warnest ❤️‍🩹 Actually.. yes, Harry did speak of seatbelts in his book. At least twice so far in the beginning of "Spare".

He looks unhappy, she is aging fast.

She’s a real gem. I don’t know how he can stand her.

My family bloodline is directly connected to HRH, and many Royal customs and procedures have overlapped in our behaviours. This includes directives on how to greet others, what to wear, and frankly - any and all types of considerations in place in any given moment. That being said, we are still far removed from that world. Thus, it is extremely difficult for me to believe that Prince Harry (nor his team) did not brief Meghan on protocol for a visit. Everything has to be meticulously organized, right down to the silverware or angle of a serving tray. I did not watch this documentary, nor do I have an opinion of her, but my gut says that a lot of this is fabricated, or swept up in a self victimization narrative. As others have said, the mockery and contempt for family traditions is.. off-putting 🚩. I think every person entering into marriage has to make concessions and efforts to preserve some consistency in tradition (toxicity aside). Being a good host, is about making others feel comfortable, particularly when you have little authority in a situation that could make or break your union, or make for a strained relationship with said guests in the future. It feels like Harry has taken a codependent stance and reframed it as "diplomacy" in his marriage, while Meghan attempts to reframe her obstinacy as being innocent or naive, and this is what irked me the most. Meghan is trying to co-opt the role of Diana by taking on her early life narrative of "not knowing". I believe she is mirroring this to Harry and this is why he is hooked. It is emotionally manipulative at best.

@karenans696

Жыл бұрын

Yep, you nailed it!

@barrymaxwell3487

Жыл бұрын

I guess all of this took the pressure and eyes off Prince Andrew lol. I don't care for the royal family at all as a British person but this mad world Harry and Meghan live in is just plain sad.

@ginastone5423

Жыл бұрын

So no offence but does autism run in your family as for some reason I have noticed all the leadership factions are autistic

@mvalenzuela6739

Жыл бұрын

Well put

@nikkis7375

Жыл бұрын

I’ve seen it all and I feel they are telling the truth. I don’t feel like anything is fabricated

Your explanation of how she tells her story makes soooo much sense. I kept asking myself for years why I don't like her... and you hit it on the head! I don't like the way she talks and I believe she loves the attention. Even I was offended when she was talking about meeting the queen and I'm American. No respect at all. Respect other people's culture especially if you are marrying into it.

@jessicamorrissey8026

Жыл бұрын

did you ever meet her. you have alot of "I" in your commentary for someone that did not actually ever meet her. I'm not intentionally trying to be mean like the majority of people in this commentary.

@GatorGates23

Жыл бұрын

Agreed

@jessdeeschulthz2427

Жыл бұрын

Yes! She obviously doesn’t hold him or his family in high regard if she didn’t research how to please them and him. I have been in a LTR with someone who has a different religion from me- when I met his parents I took the time to ask him lots of questions on how to behave because I didn’t want to embarrass him. She can’t think beyond her own wants and needs- at least the way their little documentary is edited.

@jessicamorrissey8026

Жыл бұрын

@@jessdeeschulthz2427 how to please him? I'd say she's doing that quiet well.

@jessdeeschulthz2427

Жыл бұрын

@@jessicamorrissey8026 really? He kind of looks dead inside. Not that he ever looked really lively-but it’s like his life force is fading away. It must be exhausting to take care of a damsel in distress all the time. Since his goal is to please her and she doesn’t have to take care of him emotionally. But okay. She might be amazing in bed- but that gets old. That’s only great for the first few years. While love is never equal and one person always is loved slightly more- they are both in agreement that she is the more worthy of receiving her love out of the pair. Every sacrifice made was to care for her. He’s a shell of the person he projected himself to be filling up her love tank so to speak.

Yeah, I have a really hard time Believing that it didn’t even cross her mind to ask Harry, “Ok, what do I need to do when I meet the queen?” Like, no. Anyone anywhere meeting their significant other’s family for the first time, would have some nervous questions. That’s normal human behavior. And if I am to believe that she just didn’t ask questions about how to act in advance, that just reeks of rudeness and is some of the strangest and most nonsensical behavior I have ever heard of.

@therealz360z7

6 ай бұрын

The only person in the entire world that is curtsyd is the queen she thought that wasn't really a thing I don't know why you think that her realizing that is rude it is just surprising and I guarantee the odds of you ever curtsying someone is a million to one.

@SMRT79

5 ай бұрын

A 2017 article discussed an inside source saying how hard Megsy worked to “memorize” all the protocol required For just a “5 min meeting w the queen”…so she is a liar and the proof is in black and white! Lol!

@ThatRedhedd

2 ай бұрын

The royal family wasn't elected. They didn't win a popularity contest. Just like the Kardashians, they didn't do anything to earn a sense of superiority. They're not superior to us. They're not owed any more respect than you or I. We're all humans with equal value & worth.

I didnt think princess di was all that until i rewatched her interviews, saw her photos and watched how sweet she was. I admire her now

I love Diana’s soft, but strong voice. She was polite, but made her point. I believe there won’t be another Diana in this lifetime. Thank you. ❤

@rs5570

Жыл бұрын

In no lifetime will there ever be another Diana. I know I will see her on the next plane. I plan to ask her some questions and express my great love for her.

@reysquadron7820

Жыл бұрын

She blew me away with that paparazzi. Such class and grace, and skills in trying to win people over.

@IrenaDeacon

Жыл бұрын

I agree. True protector and lovely mother and person

@eh-i1841

11 ай бұрын

@@IrenaDeacon it’s a pity one of her sons is so full of hate.She’d send him to his room,to think about his behaviour.

@abigaelwhite2383

11 ай бұрын

It almost seems to me like she wanted to become the new Di and got pissed and left when she didn’t land right.

The way you compared her way of speaking to somebody who talks to a child is brilliant. I couldn’t put my finger on it.

@annemccarron2281

Жыл бұрын

Yes, she comes across as very condescending!

@lilhimer3361

Жыл бұрын

This example of how irritating it is when someone speaks to you as if you were five is why people of almost every persuasion dislike Kamala Harris. Employment as a mediocre preschool teacher is a perfect match for her skill set. Same with Meghan.

I love how you explain and educate us on behavioral patterns. I also love that you are trying to be the middle of the road and let us decide for ourselves how we interpret the behaviors.

@janisaroyan6416

Жыл бұрын

Spot on

@koryryon4177

4 ай бұрын

Agree 100%

@maggiecronje4796

Ай бұрын

Eny news onn princess Catherine ❤

I mean, it's courtesy to learn basic respect, greetings, and customs just *visiting* another country... And not only was she meeting the *royal family* she was meeting future in-laws! Middle schoolers prep more for book report speeches than it seems she has before this monumental event in her life. I think you nailed it, Spidey: she acts a certain way when performing. I hear Greg Hartley say all the time, "the organism does what made the organism sucessful." I'm wondering if she intuitively put on the "charming performance everyone always loves," thinking the royal family would love her too. She's still doing it with that awkward bowing story at the end- which is so hard to watch. He compresses his lips when she compares meeting the royals to Medieval Times and I wonder how many times he's had to hear her make this disrespectful comparison. Then it cuts to her ridiculous bow. 🙈 (I've made that *exact* face Harry makes when watching a significant other do something you are completely cringed out by, but are trying to hide. There's eye roll suppressing and you're "smiling," but it just looks like you're smelling bad cheese...and then you can't even watch anymore so you look at your knees.)

@ThatRedhedd

2 ай бұрын

People who are huggers always hug me when we first meet. I don't like it. You know what I DON'T do? I don't call them disrespectful a-holes for not asking ahead of time if I was a hugger.

There is an expiry date on blaming your parents for steering you in the wrong direction. The moment you are old enough to take the wheel, responsibility lies with you. - J K Rowling

Can you imagine if MM were mocking the deep bow that Japanese children give their elders? If you were being introduced to ANYONE important to your spouse, you would make an effort to dress appropriately and if you presented in the opposite way, this appears intentionally manipulative. That she intentionally wore ripped jeans etc…sounds like she intended to show them that she is either innocent of everything they represent (unlikely) or wanted to show that she is unphased by their higher status. That she thought so much about this in the first place, but then reiterated this situation to the camera (to the world) shows a level of manipulative behaviour that is so beyond and it is this It is degree of manipulative behaviour that is annoying.

@EEmB

Жыл бұрын

Yes!!!

@Raelven

Жыл бұрын

It is plain old disrespectful, also.

@mafee9585

Жыл бұрын

Yes my husband is Japanese and I would never mock his families traditions to my friends let alone for the entire world to see. Others traditions and culture is not something funny that you go around and laugh about. I was shocked especially since she had a whole podcast about stereotypes!!!

@yatiejabs6684

Жыл бұрын

Respecting other cultures is very important to preserve harmony. I love Japanese culture and I like the way they show respect to others. Many regions in South East Asia, we kiss the hands of our elders and always let our elders go first. When we meet our in laws or future in laws, we always welcome them with respect. Hugging is a no-no if one doesn't know the other. We keep our distance first until we feel that person is a genuine person. This woman called Meghan made history by being disrespectful and mocking other people's tradition, worst part, her own husband's family. This man whose name is Harry, seems like a wierdo, comes from a highly respectable family - British Monarchy. By accepting this woman who walks all over his culture and tradition is beyond anyone's comprehension. I hope the Monarchy shows that they are a respectable institution, rather than being a laughing stock.

@valansley

Жыл бұрын

Very childish like a difficult teenager

The curtsy was totally disrespectful that Meghan mocked. It showed total disrespect to Harry and to the Royal family!

Reminds me of one of your other video, where you mention how pathological liars build their own reality according to what suits them and invariably ends up almost believing their own lies.

Adapting our behaviour to different social situations does not mean that we're fake, simply that we are not socially inept. We adapt because the world does not revolve ariund us.

@donnapotts2238

Жыл бұрын

This is exactly true we all behave differently in different situations we see that there are boundaries or rules and adapt to those, like being at work in a corporate setting you would behave differently to being in a bar with friends. It doesn't mean people are fake it just shows understanding of different social settings

@KarensOpinionsMayDiffer

Жыл бұрын

Extremely well written!

@reneep.1978

Жыл бұрын

@@KarensOpinionsMayDiffer All the above is true, but even when you behave differently in various situations you are still yourself. Megan Markle doesn't necessarily come across that way, many of her expressions and mannerisms come across as artificial/fake like she's acting a role instead of just being herself and that's why people think she's fake and/or a liar.

@maggiem.1539

Жыл бұрын

I’ve lived in 3 other countries than my own, which is the UK. The first thing you do is be polite to the cultures you find yourself in! You are then accepted, and my goodness you learn so much more about people and backgrounds of the country you are in. Priceless!

@elinebrock5660

Жыл бұрын

@@reneep.1978 people also think she's a liar because she's been caught saying so many demonstrably false things like, "We were actually married 3 days before in our garden, just us and the Archbishop of Canterbury!", a lie which the AB of C actually came out and refuted in a public statement!

I have a different theory on the shaking of the head no when he is talking about protecting his family. As a trauma survivor, I have noticed a tendency to shake my head when discussing/thinking about the traumatic situation, almost like trying to clear a mental Etch-a-Sketch of the image. It's a sign to me that the subject needs to move on before I get caught up in it and get emotional.

@lisecreed6749

Жыл бұрын

In general, the obsession with trying to make them look like everything about them is a lie is getting old. It's become obvious that both you and the Behavior Panel have some serious hate for them (Meghan especially) and it's ugly. Of course they are two-faced. We ALL are. Everyone has a public face and a private one and y'all are acting like they should be some sort of exception. "OOOH OOOH! HE'S WITHHOLDING SOMETHING! HE'S PURSING HIS LIPS!" Of course they are going to withhold information. They don't owe us every little truth they have, and so much of the analysis I've seen all of you do has been sketchy at best and has made for clickbait. Great for your subscriptions, but I think you do a great disservice not only to Harry and Meghan, but to your profession trying not to detect deception, but invent it.

@VLynnie

Жыл бұрын

Good point. I like the Etch-a-sketch image. Makes sense.

@zeldagoblin

Жыл бұрын

When bad stuff comes to my mind, I say or sing random words out loud. Don't know why, probably distraction.

@vaderladyl

Жыл бұрын

Kinda like telling yourself "No! Don't go there!"

@CatalinaFOIA

Жыл бұрын

Excellent analogy 👏 shaking an etch a sketch! It's so perfect, couldn't have stated that any better.

They absolutely 100% prepped her for meeting all of them. No question about it.

I was born in England. I lived there until I was 12 and then moved to the US. I understand the differences of the two nations. I don’t understand how someone can go to England and not learn and be respectful. Surely Megan wouldn’t have slippers and ripped jeans if she invited the president to dinner? She seems very anxious to be portray a poor innocent person, but she’s a savvy actor. Also, somebody with integrity would say I really blew it for that dinner with Harry’s brother, so I certainly learned to be more respectful and appropriate after that. She doesn’t seem to have any insight into her inappropriate behavior. And yet she is a trained actor?

As a prior director of protocol dealing with world leaders and heads of state, there is absolutely no way she would not have been prepared to meet the Queen. That’s very difficult for me to believe. Great video.

@rachaelleann9847

Жыл бұрын

That's just commons knowledge lol

@hobbesthecat6868

Жыл бұрын

I truly think this moment will be the crack that no longer holds back the water in the dam for Harry. I feel he knows she is absolutely acting in this moment and being disrespectful for effect in order to benefit herself. It was clear to me he did not appreciate the act. For God's sake, even The Crown outlined protocol given to everyone interacting with the Queen and they love nothing more than throwing the Royal Family under the bus to dramatic effect. As an American I respect the traditions of other countries and wouldn't dream of not researching how to properly behave. Would she approach bowing in Eastern cultures with the same contempt? Also, I have always asked those I have cared about how I should behave with their family. It is a sign of respect. I realy feel this relationship was rushed and I honestly don't believe it is good for either of them. It is a shame. 😔

@reenougle

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely. She will have been thoroughly briefed on how to act before meeting the Queen. Earth to Meg…

@CGH250

Жыл бұрын

She took classes in London on Royal etiquette after meeting H. These classes would have prepared her for how to curtsy, take tea, cross her legs, etc. A local reporter went to said school and spoke with an instructor there. M lies so much, she loses tracks of her lies.

@jola3047

Жыл бұрын

Where you with them during all private moments?

Delaying tactics are also for dramatics. Something which this young lady is very fond of.

@jennihj

Жыл бұрын

She’s not young she’s almost mid 40s

@mymai5859

Жыл бұрын

She is an immature, middle aged, lying woman who is very thick, yet thinks she's the saviour of the world .

@vaderladyl

Жыл бұрын

@@jennihj Yes she is still young. 30's and 40's is not old.

@e.sergeeva

Жыл бұрын

@@jennihj I believe 'young lady' was used sarcastically here))

@jennihj

Жыл бұрын

@@vaderladyl I’m 44 so I know it’s not old but it’s not Young!! It’s almost middle age.

I think she starts with “I’m not going to say I’m comfortable…” because she wants everyone to know she’s the victim here. This being a princess lark wasn’t all it was cracked up to be in her head. She probably thought it was all hanging out with friends, drinking champagne, eating caviar on tiny toast triangles & getting her glam on. Then it turned out there was work involved that she didn’t want to do, she didn’t want to confine herself to royal protocol & she wasn’t really allowed to talk about whatever leftie nonsense popped into her head (because the royal family is supposed to be non-partisan), which she thought was mean & convinced H of that, too. So now she HAS to do this documentary even though it’s going to hurt her (even though, in reality, the victimhood is all in her head). She has to act the victim ALL the time. She’s like a child who discovers reality isn’t the same as the imagined version & acts all butt-hurt because of it.

@ThatRedhedd

2 ай бұрын

LOTS of big ASSumptions there...

I really appreciate your objectivity in all of your videos. People tend to have very polarizing feelings about celebrities (either loving or hating them), but I have the belief that most people (celebrities included) are just people ... neither all good nor all bad. We all have our own strengths and weaknesses. So having someone look trying to look at human behavior objectively is refreshing.

As an American who respected the Queen, a very special person full of dignity and deserved complete respect. If Meghan truly loved Harry, she would have never made fun of his grandmother.

@aa.4639

Жыл бұрын

Not to mention the woman was 93 years old at the time of her passing. How do you turn your back on your fraile grandmother at her last moments??

@vooroojaak

Жыл бұрын

The Queen served her country 70 years! One should be lucky to live that long! The Queen never publicly made her feelings known! Megan wants to justify her actions ! And she made this deal with Netflix snd has the audacity to make fun of a family she married to! If she didnt like his family like she doesnt like her own family! She shouldnt have married him! She had no problem not speaking to her own family and divorce her first husband! But she saw a Prince and thought! Aha thats the TV show i can have for life! But didn’t realize she has to work for it!

@lizzylane2839

Жыл бұрын

@@aa.4639 96.

@aa.4639

Жыл бұрын

@@lizzylane2839 Omg.. 😵

@eileenhuss7566

Жыл бұрын

Exactly 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯

44:44 “Go high five the queen” 😂😂 That bow was so disrespectful and I believe Harry was showing contempt. I learn so much from you every video. Thanks! 👍

@TheBehavioralArts

Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for your continued support and kind words 😊 ❤️ ✋🏼 👸 😂

@mismag822

Жыл бұрын

@@TheBehavioralArts I’m beginning to think that part of the reason Harry married Megan was because she resents his family.

@cafreria_en_pote

Жыл бұрын

2023 and we’re still judging people on curtsies *face palm*

@mioara8169

Жыл бұрын

@@mismag822 Maybe , but this sooner will kick back to him , wait and watch.

@EmiliaJay

Жыл бұрын

@@cafreria_en_pote make sure you do it really really hard…

Great video again man! Thanks for pointing out about the difference with their backgrounds & how they approach the cameras. The way you describe the difference is very well done! Going to replay it again! Cheers from Ont, CA

The look on Harry's face when she is mock demonstrating the curtsy...wow. Spidey's analysis couldn't sound more spot on. I can't believe they left that scene in! If I had been caught on camera doing something that so visibly offended my partner, I would want to burn the tape out of respect for them and sheer mortification for myself. I would have a heart-to-heart with my partner, apologize profusely and do some long hard thinking about where I went wrong and how to be better.

@susannabribo7879

2 ай бұрын

Quello che penso

@ThatRedhedd

2 ай бұрын

She wasn't mocking anything. You heard her say she had been to Medieval Times - haven't you been there? I have. That's how they do it there, and that was her only example of how to curtsy. That was her frame of reference, and it is an American thing.

Her podcast is about stereotyping women, but she always stereotypes people. She says this is how brits are, or this is how Americans are. She and Harry always contradict themselves. That’s what I find so frustrating about them. Love your channel!!

@florac6906

Жыл бұрын

She claims she is a feminist but said Kate had a baby brain 🙄

@ting1084

Жыл бұрын

good point!

@lil-al

Жыл бұрын

It's about "archetyping" women 🤣

@baylorsailor

Жыл бұрын

My thoughts exactly.

@pinkette

Жыл бұрын

Projection

The fact that you stay objectiv is why I really enjoy yours analysis. You are just great 🥰

@TheBehavioralArts

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much. 🤗

@pensierostupendo

Жыл бұрын

@@TheBehavioralArts thank you Spidey.. I'm italian and as a latin person I gesture a lot... is this bad 😅😅?

@vaderladyl

Жыл бұрын

@@pensierostupendo Not at all. We Latin are expressive even with our hands. Can't help ourselves!😃

Lol, "slip me some skin queenie"...lol, your so funny Spidey....you always say something that makes me giggle! 😂

H doesn’t appreciate that the very privileged life he has, has to be paid for in the form of a few photos by the press . A small price to pay for such a privileged life style. Ungrateful child.

Really enjoyed your analysis here, thank you. She had over six months training. She was allocated two of the Queens most senior ladies in waiting to help her, especially with royal protocols. One of the ladies in waiting actually delayed her retirement just to stay on to help her out, but she didn’t want to know. She wanted to do it her way. In her own words she “wanted to hit the ground running”. Also one of the senior people provided her with a file containing over 30 pages of information, together with the mobile numbers of people she could call for help and advice at any time! Come on guys do you REALLY believe that they would just “throw her in at the deep end” 🤣 She purposely broke every protocol she could. Why? She didn’t want to learn or respect our traditions because she had no intention of hanging around. It was a smash and grab of titles and a dash off to the USA to merch! Read Tom Bower’s book, it connects all the dots!

@maggsbufton1969

Жыл бұрын

Could. It agree with you more. This woman wanted the titles, status and privileges with NONE of the responsibilities.

@enideckert3964

Жыл бұрын

@@maggsbufton1969 and don’t forget money

@charlielew2933

Жыл бұрын

@@enideckert3964 I mean…she was already a moderately successful actress. She was set for life from just Suits alone. So I don’t really think she wanted money per se. But I do think she was into the titles and prestige of being in the RF.

@charlielew2933

Жыл бұрын

I’m from the US, but am also very knowledgeable about UK culture, lingo, customs, etc. In Meghan’s defense, even I would have a hard time learning all the Royal protocols and such. But I do agree with you that she could’ve at least made more of an effort. Like, the Queen is a world leader, Wills is literally the future king. It’s not like Meghan would’ve worn ripped jeans and no shoes if she had President Biden coming over.

@enideckert3964

Жыл бұрын

@@charlielew2933 you could be right but Suits could be canceled anytime and her estimated wealth was $five million, hardly enough to live on until retirement with her fashion needs alone!

Oh my goodness you're so right! I always wondered why there was something that just made me not like her very much, and it wasn't that I wasn't empathetic to what she had gone through but there was always this feeling of being uncomfortable or irked whenever she spoke to the camera. And I think its exactly what you said about her speaking to the audience like we're children because I remember she had done an interview with 'Variety' and they had asked her a simple question which was "what is your favourite television show" or something along those lines and it was so long and drawn out that it took two minutes for her to actually answer the question. To me, she uses too many descriptions for no reason and when people do that I feel like they're speaking to me like I can't comprehend what they're saying unless they dumb it down, or like I am a child. So thank you for people into words why that is because I felt like I was never able to properly explain that feeling. Sorry this was so long lol

@thomasrios3913

Жыл бұрын

Yeah this was mind blowing. 😮. He nailed it

@zeldagoblin

Жыл бұрын

Amber Heard did that too. The whole...we get the idea of free speech from the Greeks....very condescending and unlikable.

@stephenmcdonagh2795

Жыл бұрын

Both sociopathic and narcissistic traits. Sociopaths tend to mimic behaviour due to them lacking normal human emotions- empathy being their major problem. Her narcissistic side sees herself as cleverer than she actually is, she's probably never met anyone she'd see as superior to herself, in her mind, she'll always be the cleverest person in the room, whereas in reality, this is only true when there's just Me-again and Harry in the room.

@phillipaclemons7261

Жыл бұрын

I think she is charming, but also feel she is manipulating and contrived

@niklet9246

Жыл бұрын

Yes, she's not able to gauge how to talk to people as if they're on the same level.

I have so much respect for you for simply being objective. If there were more people like you, there would be a lot less hate in this world. …It’s also much more pleasant to watch your videos than those that are fulled by emotion. ..Awesome stuff!

She was given a book by the 'Firm' with all this information she needed re the royal family/protocol , she was also was offered Angela Kelly (Queens Lady) in Waiting for the last 50 yrs to help her and also Sophie, Duchess of Wessex at the time, the the wife of Prince Edward by the Queen also!. All these things were availed to her and she said 'No, all I need to learn will come from Harry'. Well Harry obviously didn't do his bit~ also when she was 'suicidal' and the palace did not respond to her, where was Harry??? he could not find someone in all of London to help her??? He did not tell her about the national anthem??? And when was the last time anyone can accuse Meghan of not being a 'strong, independent woman 'that needed a man to speak up for her, really????????? She is not a Victim unless it helped her with her narrative. Please -------

I first started watching your channel when the Johnny Depp & Amber Heard trial was going on. I watched a few other behavior analysts but kept coming back to you primarily because of your objectivity. It’s apparent to me that your goal is to educate your audience without forcing your own viewpoints and opinions. I feel like I’ve learned a lot about body language and behavior by watching your videos. Thank you for your hard work in being a content creator as well as sharing the wealth of your expertise.

@giovannirsazak7239

Жыл бұрын

My thoughts as well.

@rachaelleann9847

Жыл бұрын

Me too

@sossoft

Жыл бұрын

Objectivity lol

@MsBahbii

Жыл бұрын

I agree. He is excellent.

@trumansmom5848

Жыл бұрын

Get over it. The thought of bowing to another person is ridiculous!

I cannot believe she wasn't 'groomed' for the protocols of royalty. And for Harry to say 'she didn't know what to expect '? You didn't tell her?! Bs!! I don't believe a word. And to ridicule his family, the queen, with the curtsey, how uncouth!!!!!

@TheOriginalCFA1979

Жыл бұрын

She didn’t know how to curtsy, but had to on the show she “acted” in. Nothing she says is true, she’s not the girl who cried wolf she’s the girl who stood up and proudly said the wolf ate her yesterday. I wouldn’t even believe anyone she purports to be related to her are even vaguely her biological family without a DNA test. Except H.H. Holmes. Double M definitely inherited Triple H’s morality and empathy, no issues believing there’s a relation there.

@mecca1395

Жыл бұрын

kzread.info/dash/bejne/d513q7yqnqrNnKQ.html You can find all their lies above....

@cafreria_en_pote

Жыл бұрын

Imagine a grandson actually letting the woman he loves not act like a robot in front of his grandmother after his mom was forced to do so and ended up dead because of it and openly stating he didn’t want history to repeat itself. Imagine people accepting people without ridiculous expectations of behavior which serve zero purpose.

@mecca1395

Жыл бұрын

@@cafreria_en_pote Well imagine a grandson throwing a major tantrum and throwing his family under the bus when he does not get his way .....Imagine being bred to perform royal duties all his life, but he wanted to be a CELEBRITY, but that was something not acceptable, and when mutually agreed to part ways, he shows his true colors, what a spoilt rotten peice of work he is and then sell his family for millions..... ah...role model

@ginger6936

Жыл бұрын

@@cafreria_en_pote What are you talking about! He himself had to bow to the Queen first of all, like he should do now with his father. If you can't understand others traditions doesn't means that are invalid. P.s. I'm unbiased, I'm not Brit nor American 🤷‍♀️

Curtseying to the Queen is a key element of British culture. Imagine going to Japan and mocking bowing to the Emperor. Or going to New Zealand and mocking the haka?

@HEA5690

Жыл бұрын

Exactly!! She's so dense and rude!

Thank you for being unbiased. Some people spew poison with hatred. It is refreshing to watch someone who does not try to push their viewpoint on others. I just realized that the media is the greatest culprit in causing the rift between the families and trying to destroy what they don't like.

I just have to say, Princess Diana's "as a parent comment" absolutely got me. The calm, cool, powerful but respectful way she handled that, wonderful.

@kathygarciac

Жыл бұрын

a real princess right there!

@shambhala3090

Жыл бұрын

There's not much to say about the son. He has none of his mother's attributes. Only Will is like his mother in many ways. I have never liked Harry.

@Kate98755

Жыл бұрын

to google has become an action statement

I also believe the reason she speaks, as you say, like she’s speaking to children, is because it’s part of her dramatization of the story she is playing her role in. She knew EXACTLY what role she was going to play with Harry. I think oftentimes Harry sees that it is a role, but his need to be the protector is so great, he hasn’t yet been able to surrender his own role.

@phoenixrises5169

10 ай бұрын

Agreed

Thank you for helping me understand the differences between human nature and human tendencies. I want to understand and tolerate, I want to feel compassion and empathy. I know it is not common sense, it is a learned trait. Keep doing what you are doing!, I’ll keep listening with an open heart.

I am appalled by these people! I love your channel, Spivey! ❤❤

Hey everyone! I JUST uploaded the video so for the early birds please excuse the lack of 4k and subtitles, they shall kick in shortly. Also, as mentioned in the video, I know this is a very polarizing topic for a lot of people (I explain why in the video) but let's try and keep the discussions polite and respectful please. Everybody's personal opinion is valid and I would love the conversations in the comments to reflect the open minded attitude that we value in this community. Thanks ❤

@keriduncan5764

Жыл бұрын

💗💗💗💗

@kirencja1

Жыл бұрын

I just wanted to ask for closed caption 🙂 thanks for being ahead of us xx

@TheBehavioralArts

Жыл бұрын

@@kirencja1 yeah, sorry. I normally upload well in advance so that by the time you see it the subtitles are ready. But because i really got it ready at the last minute and uploaded immediately they're not there yet. Thanks for your patience :)

@sammedpatil4465

Жыл бұрын

Hey spidy please tell us how to be a mentalist I want to learn something about psychology stuff and body language i learnt a lot about body language from you but I wanna learn about psychology and mentalist

@nicolegroves6880

Жыл бұрын

@TheBehavioralArts I just wanted to say, as a person who is hard of hearing, the subtitles are SO incredibly appreciated!!! KZread's auto-generated subtitles are not always available and are less than reliable when they are, so the extra work you put in to create the captions is a really big deal for people like me. Your channel is one of my favorites, I find it so fascinating! The fact that I don't have to guess what you're saying makes it even better, LOL!

I met Prince Andrew back in 2000 on the island of Anguilla. My ex and I were invited to a cocktail part at the Governor's House in honour of his visit. We were definitely given a written protocol and what to do and what not to do when meeting a royal. If I were dating and meeting my partner's family for the first time, I wouldn't be walking around barefoot wearing ripped jeans, whether they were royal or not.

@lilhimer3361

Жыл бұрын

I'm not buying most of whatever she's trying to sell. She wore ripped jeans and was barefoot when she met Prince William and Princess Kate? She's lying, or she has a rather blatant way of showing utter contempt toward her future husband's family, the customs that are important to them, just everything. I personally think it's a lie. It never happened. Prince Harry knows this very well but has bought into her lies. She repeats them. She believes that everyone agrees that their customs are ridiculous. Whether that is true or not really isn't the point. If I were dating a garbage man, I would have had more respect for his family than to be dressed the way she was. Did they show up three hours early before she was able to get dressed? It never happened.

@Allannah_Of_Rome

Жыл бұрын

If you were an Australian like me that's exactly what we would do except we'd be wearing thongs instead! 😂

@brandyjoiner9575

Жыл бұрын

Exactly! I'm an american, and I admit that I don't know much about the etiquette of how to interact with a royal. But, even in non-royal interactions, I wanna put my best foot forward, so I find it difficult to believe that Meghan didn't know... whether she was told beforehand or asked herself. I was so nervous about meeting my husband's family that I asked before meeting them because I KNEW that my family was more "relaxed" than his. If MM didn't ask, that's completely on her! And even if she didn't ask the first time, you better believe she'd have asked immediately afterward and tailored her behavior accordingly. I mean, we're talking about friggin royalty for goodness sake! SMDH

@thewraith3366

Жыл бұрын

For Andrew?? lol

@tearsong8744

Жыл бұрын

@@thewraith3366 I'm assuming that was before his current legal troubles. Meeting any member of a royal family is usually a big deal despite how far down the line of succession.

Love your analysis!! You are great & I sincerely hope you have all good comments!

Omg!! I’ve been for ages trying to understand why she irritated me soooo much! And you just literally gave the explanation. TOTALLY on point with the fact that she talks like we are kids, completely exaggerated and feels completely fake! She rubs me completely rubs me the wrong way

@paatee8831

Жыл бұрын

She even changed the way she speaks after marriage

@sandyno1089

Жыл бұрын

@@paatee8831 So did Hasbeans, it's horrible.

@marmar6764

Жыл бұрын

I agree and snarky like she's better than others.

@lorrainearmstrong7587

Жыл бұрын

@@paatee8831 I'm sure she changed after EACH of her 3 previous marriages. Divorce WILL do that to ya

@jodyrebeljohnsoncacciatore4791

Жыл бұрын

If we take on board that she talks like we are children, I wonder how actual children react to her?

the delaying tactics also work to help the viewer forget the actual question - especially if the answer is a non answer and we try to follow what she is saying. it's helpful on video to really review what was said and how she said it.

@SylD0611

Жыл бұрын

Why did you want do make this documentary? MM : "mmmmh 100 million $ seems a good reason. It's the kind of money I'll never get as an actress" If it's just to say who you really are, you could do it for free + they love to be on camera and doing interview talking about THEMSELVES.😅

@amandadoh2875

Жыл бұрын

I do that in interviews when I don't know the answer...

@KEMBARACHANNEL

Жыл бұрын

@@SylD0611 🤣🤣 exactly.

@paulchristian7693

Жыл бұрын

MM is an actress always playing her part. 🎭

The best behavioural analysis I have watched, your professional, totally unbiased and you spoke in a way people can understand. Thank you

As a Brit I can vouch for the fact that we do hug.

You were spot on. I couldn’t put my finger on why I felt kinda disgusted or icky when listening to Megan tell her elephant story. It had me even want to look away from the screen when she was talking and I didn’t know why. And then it reminded me of how I felt when watching amber heard tell a story….just idk icky. And then I felt bad like I must have preconceived notions of these 2 women or something and wondering why I feel this way so strongly when I don’t even know them! Knowing other people feel the same way as me and not knowing why was very interesting and insightful! Thank you for explaining this!

My biggest struggle with their whole story is that they are trying to make her out to be like Dianna. Dianna didn’t have a husband like Harry. She was alone. But Meghan has Harry on her side…so the story that she was so unprepared for protocol and stuff either means Harry sabotaged her to make her more like Dianna or it just isn’t true. Why didn’t he teach her the national anthem? Or get her aids to teach her protocol? Or whatever…. It doesn’t make sense… They would make a better story if she was the rescuer and Harry the victim. But Harry needs to save his mother so that doesn’t work…

@anonview

Жыл бұрын

Their separate narratives do clash in many instances. As for palace aides, Meghan was presented with tutors and even a manual/dossier on proper etiquette and protocol. She declined lessons from the tutors. I don't know what she did with the dossier.

@TheSpaceCrafter

Жыл бұрын

interesting point

@danamcclelland1538

Жыл бұрын

This is just me wondering - where any of his previous girlfriends American? If they weren’t, maybe Harry didn’t realize that Americans don’t ‘just know’ some of the things about the royal family that his former girlfriends knew. (Like if all his other girlfriends new how to bow to his grandmother, giving Megan a lesson on it probably would want on his mind.)

@Mirandajane84

Жыл бұрын

@@danamcclelland1538 at some point wouldn’t he have caught on? She fumbled so many situations and was crying about it.

Hey Spidey, thanks for another great analysis! 😊 at 31:58, she said that, "BUT the UK media are saying that you love it".. could it be that she had told H that she didn't love the attention from the paparazzi, but when she ended up smiling for the cameras (because let's face it, she loves it), H was confused by her actions against what she's said to him? Like, she could've played into his insecurity with the paparazzi, acted like she is the same like him, but deep down she loves the attention?

I'm British and I would just like to say thank you for your impartial coverage on this. In the interests of full disclosure I have to say that when they first got together I was 100% team Meghan. I genuinely thought that (as much as I love our RF), she was the breath of fresh air that it needed to bring it up-to-date. I was overjoyed when they both initially teamed up with Catherine and William to become what we then called the new ''fab 4''. When they made the break from the U.K I was sad but I thought, 'hey, I'm going to give them the benefit of the doubt'. I was disappointed but could see how they may want their privacy and just be a private family unit together, especially seeing as though they said that was what they both craved so badly, *privacy*. I guess when the tables started to really turn for me was the Oprah interview. Having always been a people watcher. I watched that interview over and over again and I felt the beginnings of a pit inside my stomach. Something was very ''off' about the whole interview. I'm sad to say that my opinion of them both has only gotten worse as time has gone on. I'm not sure what their end game is, their master plan so-to-speak but one thing I feel almost certain of, Harry has absolutely burned every last bridge of hope that existed between himself and his family and that is extremely sad. King Charles loves him dearly - as does Prince William, but they are not fools. There is one thing that I keep hearing in my head is when King Charles called Meghan tungsten and he's right, she's exactly that.

@barrymaxwell3487

Жыл бұрын

King Charles is a fool, he cheated on Dianna, letting his brother Andrew back into the royal family. Meghan and Harry are messed up but I'm far from fond of the royals.

@louesparza8003

Жыл бұрын

Nikitajane, from this Texan - you are absolutely right in what you explain. The Brits gave her every chance until she revealed her real self and her real intentions.

@kristinmartin2899

Жыл бұрын

I’m with you! I was never exactly a huge fan of Megan. I had this thing in my gut about her from the start that something was off. Then I saw the press honestly was hounding her and I was like “poor thing they’re actually being mean now. If they keep this up they’ll both walk”. So I wasn’t I was like “yep” when they went to the US . Then the Oprah interview happened and i lost respect for them. All of a sudden they were doing to Harry’s family exactly what her family did to her.

@marymacbeth5922

Жыл бұрын

@@kristinmartin2899 ....except her family did nothing to her to cause the chaos that ensued before/during/after the wedding. I am with you to that point. SHE is the one causing the friction. SHE is the one doing the damage and crying WOLF. Harry had always been my fav member of the RF. Now? I don't believe a word that issues from his mouth - and certainly not one from Meagain!

@cherylmc9

Жыл бұрын

OMG, I busted a gut when I read you say" King Charles loves him dearly". A dad doesn't tell his son, whom he is suppose to love, that he didn't think that son was his child!! I'll just leave it at that.

I’m with you on her characterization of her attire when meeting W and K for first time. My 17-y/o son just came to me to talk about what he should wear to his interview for a job at a coffee shop, so it’s not that hard to prepare appropriately to meet your bf’s brother and sister-in-law for the first time, let alone the second in line for the throne of England.

@tostamixtabifana97

Жыл бұрын

She was trying to make it Their honor to meet her. Grok.🤮

@sueharrison9115

Жыл бұрын

Meeting your in-laws should be like a job interview? She was being herself warm and welcoming but was met with coldness So what they are in line to the throne they are only people who shit out of the same hole !!

@tarabooartarmy3654

Жыл бұрын

I have to wonder if maybe Meghan was similar to how I would be in a situation like meeting the royal family (from her standpoint, not just from a random meeting). I don’t think I would want to prepare much, because I would want the meeting to be genuine, and I feel like if I “prepared” for it (aside from some very basic “what NOT to do” kind of stuff) I would be fake. I would want to be able to be myself when meeting my potental future in-laws. I understand the royals think they are “different”, but from my perspective (and perhaps from hers) they are just people.

@honey3202

Жыл бұрын

@@sueharrison9115 you’re missing the fact that unfortunately it IS protocol to behave a certain way. She married into this by choice.

@beekeepermariadelgado6806

Жыл бұрын

@@tarabooartarmy3654 yup they all use the toilet like everyone else.

You are so right about the dinner. Princess Catherine and Prince William took the time and trouble to dress and get a babysitter to come and meet M. M being empty headed didn’t bother. Sadly M dropped the ball and embarrassed everyone being in awful pajama type clothes! Shame on her.

Hi there - new sub and really enjoying your content. You make many observations I wouldn't have thought of and I feel I learn something new with each one I watch. We often have instinctive responses to other people's behaviour and modes of expression and your putting things into context as well as explaining received academic wisdom helps me to better understand body language. Fascinating stuff! Thank you for the time you put into making this content 😊

I have seen people dress well even when they have guests who belong to middle class family. When someone comes over to our house uninvited and without calling first, someone in the family who is not dressed well will go and change clothes while other family members greet the guests. People do it for me and I do it for them. It's not compulsary but it feels like a good gesture

100% spot on - you just helped me realise why this woman rubs me the wrong way.

The "hugger" comment still makes my blood boil. I've known many Americans who would never invade the personal space of a stranger.

She knows she has to bow to the Queen. We ALL do. This has been done for a thousand years. She needs to get her father's money back from Northwestern. Thats some crap education right there! Or was she high the entire semester?

Spidey!🤗🤗🤗 Turns out you were right on Andrew Tate!👍 you felt you were biased, you weren't. That was gut instinct. Thank you for teaching me these skills I use in day to day life♥️💜♥️

@TheBehavioralArts

Жыл бұрын

my pleasure! Thanks for being here 😃

@NicolaMaxwell

Жыл бұрын

@@TheBehavioralArts I'm always here for your uploads!!🤗💎💜♥️

I’m so happy you addressed the hate being in the middle receives from the extremes on both sides of any argument. You being able to play devils advocate and be objective is one of my favorite parts of you and about your channel. I always trust more easily when I feel like the person I’m talking to or listening to is able to refute the opposition no matter their personal stance. In other words, you da best, Spidey.

@TheBehavioralArts

Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much. It’s hard to stand that ground on KZread in this day and age and get decimated from both sides but Im so thankful you appreciate the effort 🤗

@penelopefp

Жыл бұрын

@@TheBehavioralArts I used to feel wishy-washy that I didn't take sides. But now, I see it as a strength to be able to stand in the middle and see the best of both and the challenge of both sides. "Blessed are the peacemakers."

@selfthinker

Жыл бұрын

Apparently the BBC often gets attacked from the left for being too far to the right and from the right for being too far to the left. That's what you get when you're trying to be politically neutral. I'm not a very political person but I engage with friends in political subjects. I then try to be as neutral and fair as possible. That often means that left leaning friends accuse me of being a conservative and right leaning friends accuse me of being a liberal. But I'm neither.

@fionamcfadden5772

Жыл бұрын

@@TheBehavioralArtsgreat job Spidey!..v interesting..thankyou Xx

@spiicyliime22

Жыл бұрын

Amen

This is my first viewing but i will definitely be back. I am so impressed with his analysis, but also of his commitment to neutrality in his presentation. I also have a degree in Psychology, so im naturally drawn to behavior analysis shows. His ability to analyze, educate, and role model working to understand others without judgement is also my goal at this point in my life. Thanks so much for teaching me about 30 new things in 50 minutes!

You clarified a lot for me. Thank you.

Hi spidey- re: the scene where archie is touching princess diana’s photo - you mention you wish they hadn’t cut away - missing Harry’s expressions. It was still very telling that the choice of showing a “fairy tale princess” portrait instead of a happy, candid real life shot of her - his mum - his mum with him and his brother playing… hugging. That’s what most families would have. They think they are pulling at our heart strings - but to me they are pushing a very cold/distant Hollywood narrative.

@stephanipeloquin4631

Жыл бұрын

I agree 💯

@shanie7192

Жыл бұрын

Amanda, my thoughts exactly. I do not understand why in a family home they wouldn't have a family photo of Diana, it's very strange. Then again MM was always supposed to be obsessed with princesses.

@paulchristian7693

Жыл бұрын

MM grow up around fake Hollywood people. She is knows how to deal with the media and PR.

@clairemoncollin5422

Жыл бұрын

I did not think of that! Very good point!

@loristoneking5671

Жыл бұрын

I agree. Also harry & meghan are making a lot of people unfortunately rethink the giod feelings they had about Diana. Nkt saying harry is all her fault, but Diana's way of turning around in her car seat to see if the boogeyman papps are chasing after her. Then meghan pulled that on harry getting him to twist around I. His seat. Diana and harry are more the romance novel storybook fantasy types. So self obsessed and paranoid.

All I know that as an African American female, if I started dating a man that I know has family ties with Royalty such as Harry. I would find out everything I could to know what to expect, what I should wear, how I should act, how to talk, when to talk. I would do absolutely everything possible to show respect to his family. Especially, if I'm going to be his wife someday. To me that's just common sense. She was a fool to come there with her own agenda, and present herself as the "IT" girl, and do like she wants, when they are Royalty for Pete's sake. Now, that doesn't make me dislike her at all. I truly believe that they love each other, and I'm happy for them. Yet when she went to his family from the very beginning and wasn't accepted as she thought she should, it was her dam fault. So, her next move was to get Harry as far away from his family as possible, making him believe that she was the victim in all of that. Now Harry is estranged from his family, not that he was as close as he would have wanted to be, but he dam sure ain't close now. He cannot and will not choose between his wife and children and his Father and brother.

@laurenletsche1134

Жыл бұрын

she would have had a great life doing royal duties and she blew it

@wearetheworld6962

Жыл бұрын

There is just something that isn't right about that woman. She has no forgiveness, no tolerance, no sympathy! She can off anybody if she can off her own family! Who is Harry's family to her? Nothing obviously, I just find that she is the selfish one here. She has no problems removing those who don't agree with her agenda or her period! Just not a good person tbh

@reenougle

Жыл бұрын

I agree with you Janicerespres… If you are marrying into a culture different to yours it is just common courtesy to learn about it and be respectful to their customs. If you don’t feel comfortable with that culture don’t marry into it!!!! She is a very silly woman.

@Mike-lx9qn

Жыл бұрын

It's mostly his fault. They, especially Harry, trash talk the royal family, accusing them of racism and attacking them with narcissistic tactics you would NEVER use against ANYONE you SLIGHTLY consider family.

@Mike-lx9qn

Жыл бұрын

The 2 psychos are only interested in the fame of abusing the royals. 'He claimed that as the “new kids on the block,” he and Meghan stole the limelight', and in this qoute all he thought of was the "limelight." Just a sick psycho talks about the new attention they attack their family.

Appreciate your work and thoughtful, genuine articulation of the relevance of body language in human's complete communication efforts at full understanding.

The way that you describe her being overly animated- I think I’m the same way and I have a hard time making friends particularly with women. This is the first time I’ve sort of understood why I may be a turn off for people. I always feel like I’m just being super friendly!

@taraozekin

6 ай бұрын

Also, as a side note, I tend to be naive myself. Until someone points it out, I usually don’t even notice rudeness or dishonesty, so I didn’t notice Megan being so rude until now. I used to listen to her podcast and one thing that kept me from binging the whole podcast is that it sounded so scripted as opposed to the many other podcasts by other hosts! So you convinced me!

The story of her meeting the Queen and the Wales family is completely different in the book Spare. It is written that Fergi showed her how to curtsy right before meeting the Queen and did a perfect curtsy. And the first time they went to Wales place and she just met William and not Kate. So basically revision of history as it fits.

@IssyKew

Жыл бұрын

In the Oprah interview she said Fergie showed her as well - more like the Spare version - and that they all congratulated her afterwards on how well she did it.

@sallys9632

Жыл бұрын

So Harry's face was just like "omg you idiot, did you forget this was different in the book/interview?!". I'm surprised they kept that bit in there honestly. I bet it's because she thought it was really "cute" 🙄

@pamelac.5600

Жыл бұрын

@@sallys9632 Yeah, I was surprised they left it in. I just thought it was disrespectful cuz H had a close relationship with his grandma.

@ginamorris8412

Жыл бұрын

I believe here she was saying that William and Kate came to her place for dinner and that was the first time she met Kate.

Spidey I asked my boyfriend what I should wear the first time I met his sisters, and we are all just ordinary people! Totally agree with your analysis. And I love how kind and respectful for you. Thank you!

@Barthenn

Жыл бұрын

Maybe it's more an North American thing, I don't know really. But I feel like unless you are trying to impress someone that doing this is not or more appropriately should not be expected. It's a nice gesture and show that you care a lot which is good. But on the other side. If it was expected of you to act this way then in my mind it's wrong. You went above and beyond. This isn't or shouldn't be what is the normal state of things. I mean there can be exceptions, I would say. If you happen to be of a certain trend very edgy. Punk, Emo, Goth whatever something that most the less-open-minded or very traditional family may find offense to. then it shows a great sense of empathy, awareness, etiquette and decorum for you to take the additional steps of appearing or making an effort to conform to their image of what is acceptable I guess. But why would it be expected that she can't be a bit more dramatic when she is in front of cameras. Most people I know are slightly different if they are at work, or with their significant other, with family or friends. ANd her things about being overly dramatic and eccentric with this feeling we have of her trying to give us the impression that she is relatable. Well there isn't really anything more human than that. Most of us seek companionship and a sense of community. Most of us feel an urge to feel wanted, appreciated and want to belong. As long as she isn't commiting any crime, why do people care so much about Meghan Markle. As long as they are happy together it should be the only thing that people care about.

@ThatRedhedd

2 ай бұрын

When I'm inviting my boyfriend's brother and his girlfriend over for a home-cooked meal, I am going to dress how I feel comfortable. In my twenties....inviting over people in my peer group. That's normal for 20-somethings to wear jeans and be barefoot at home. The royal family wasn't elected. They didn't win a popularity contest. Just like the Kardashians, they didn't do anything to earn a sense of superiority. They're not superior to us. They're not owed any more respect than you or I.

Thank you for a most insightful analysis which is helpful in sorting out the possibilities for the strong feelings people share about this couple, Meghan in particular.

I like listening to you explain the idiosyncrasies when it comes to behavior. You give insight that, unless you are trained to see it, would not have been understood. It helps me to understand why I may or may not like whomever you are talking about. Thank you.

Let's take a minute to appreciate the fact that Spidey went through the agony of actually watching this pain in the ass of a show to show us what they're really up to

@susanmetz9892

Жыл бұрын

Well, he’s making KZread money off of them, so I’m sure he’s enjoyed the agony.

@elainehargreaves9183

Жыл бұрын

Wait until you get the body language results from his interviews after that betrayal of a book... Especially the Tom Bradby interview for ITV where he flat out denies they ever called the Royal family racists! Tom Bradby's face is a picture ( he's been a friend of Harry's for over 20 years btw)

@gwynluv5447

Жыл бұрын

Oh please, he's doing it for the money.

@windywednesday4166

Жыл бұрын

I agree, Emilia. He gave me some really interesting insights, and I appreciate it.

@detectivefiction3701

Жыл бұрын

Gwynluv5447. Sure, but there are far more enjoyable shows you could watch to earn money.

I think one of the issues I have, which Spidey addressed, is that when most of us met the family of our SO for the first time, we wanted to make a good impression, to dress correctly and greet appropriately- regardless of their social status. And if it's a different culture, you would try to be sensitive to that especially. The fact that she never gave that a thought and that Harry didn't bother to help her just seems bizarre even BEFORE you add royalty to it. Even with casual friends from different parts of the US in college, you'd get a warning "Oh, she's a hugger" so you could be prepared. Harry could have warned his brother even. It's like Harry set them all up for failure.

@crystal6368

Жыл бұрын

Ok but if she was meeting anyone else then nothing she did was rude. He is just her boyfriend to her at the time, so when his brother & sister in law come over for dinner at their place of course she’s going to be in whatever clothes she’s comfortable in. She said she was cooking right? If you went over to your brothers house and his girl was in jeans barefoot cooking it would just be sweet or cute or at least just normal. I don’t see how it’s a big deal lol.

@abeautifulcountry9353

Жыл бұрын

I'm not a fan of Meghan but I think she was trying to be casual - as she had been with Harry. She probably thought very famous people prefer to be treated like everyone else so she acted accordingly, thinking they would find her natural, down to earth and refreshing.

@overwatchking8842

Жыл бұрын

@@crystal6368h cmon. No way. Sorry not in my books. If my girlfriend’s family was coming to my house for the first time I would 100% put myself together and try to make a great first impression. Cooking or not, it’s common courtesy. I get that it might be different for some but it’s not just about her. It’s also about what’s right by Harry, and that isn’t it.

@brattygamer8939

Жыл бұрын

@@overwatchking8842 but if you were ROYALTY or any form of celebrity, wouldn’t you eventually get tired of everything being a performance? Always having to look a certain way and having people be awkward around you- I could see where someone would be like “nah, imma be down to earth”. Plus if you came to my house for dinner we’d all be barefoot cause I don’t allow shoes to be worn in the house so…

@seraluv

Жыл бұрын

@@crystal6368 lol, wouldn't it be easier to copy and paste your response in ALL the comment threads. Y'all be good now.

You are a master at your craft, wonderful! Thank you 💖 Let's never forget this woman was and still is an actress. 🙄

Spidey, I very much appreciated your objectivity in human behavior. Regardless of who we like or do not like, and the varioua reasons why, it is important to know and understand that not evety behavior a person exhibits villifies or canonizes the person...meaning that the person's intentions can sometimes be without guile. Other times the person may be just that. This is why behavirotal analysis is so much fun. Great channel.

I think you are exactly right. My first thought was MMs behavior feels like overacting, like a lot of superficial persons act in "public" situations.