Balancing Mercy & Anger

0:00 Intro
4:51 Prophet ﷺ sent as a mercy to everything
9:06 Mercy to elders and children
10:59 Should I show mercy if people mistreat me?
12:08 What is mercy?
15:35 The mercy of Yusuf (AS) towards his brothers
17:08 Characteristics of the Prophet ﷺ
20:12 Having mercy is good in most cases but bad when...
30:21 What happens if mercy is removed from something
39:45 Anger and it's damages
43:09 Allah loves those who restrain their anger
45:37 Different types of venting in anger
53:22 Managing your anger
Discover the key to maintaining a harmonious life in Islam by striking the perfect balance between mercy and anger. Join us as we explore the teachings of the Quran and Hadith, learning how to cultivate compassion and self-control in our daily interactions.
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  • @perfecttask9489
    @perfecttask94899 ай бұрын

    All fellows pls share brother Belal videos in your friends and families groups. Infact i used to follow brother Belal since last 8 years and i always search his videos but unfortunately Brother never had any KZread channel, the only platform i used to belonged to him was his Facebook account. I watched his End Series, and almost all of his lectures, i really appreciate his effort and dawah. May ALLAH bless him and all people who are sincerely engaged in Dawah activities. Aamin

  • @user-oc7vm5tr8y

    @user-oc7vm5tr8y

    9 ай бұрын

    @perfecttask9489 : Baraak Allahu Feek. A nice shared. Inshaa'Allah. Goodness springs from the ❤. Aameen.

  • @JP-nz4em

    @JP-nz4em

    9 ай бұрын

    Same here

  • @fightingdreamer8681

    @fightingdreamer8681

    9 ай бұрын

    Ameen 🧡

  • @safasiddiqui2299

    @safasiddiqui2299

    7 ай бұрын

    Ameen Summa Ameen :) 💯

  • @happyvibe864
    @happyvibe8649 ай бұрын

    Sheikh u make me fall in love with my deen wallahi whenever I see ur videos my love for Islam for Allah swt for prophet Muhammad pbuh grows more and more thank you so so so much sheikh

  • @madinanurow3439
    @madinanurow34395 ай бұрын

    I love this sheikh for the sake of Allah ❤❤😢

  • @IkemenDanshi
    @IkemenDanshi9 ай бұрын

    Shaykh, I hate to sound shallow. But just to express how happy I am to be among the first to watch this, please allow me to say... FIRST!!

  • @belal.assaad

    @belal.assaad

    9 ай бұрын

    May Allah bless you brother :)

  • @Hillz6
    @Hillz69 ай бұрын

    I feel like this guy has made a tahajjud prayer asking Allah for a beautiful smile cuz he definitely got it

  • @user-cy8kv8mg2f
    @user-cy8kv8mg2f4 ай бұрын

    Nothing like the the words of Allah and the Prophet PBUH recited and explained by Sheikh Belal so beautifully to cleanse our nafs and bring us closer to our deen and rooh; all the way from Bolton, UK

  • @nabilatahseen9126
    @nabilatahseen91269 ай бұрын

    What a beautiful voice of recitation MashaAllah!

  • @dunyaislowest
    @dunyaislowest9 ай бұрын

    Please move on for the sake of Allah !!! I love Shaikh bilal Assad for the sake of Allah. When I look at it my iman will increase ❤❤❤سبحان الله

  • @perfecttask9489
    @perfecttask94899 ай бұрын

    I love you brother Belal.. May ALLAH grant you and your relatives Al Firdous and grant you success in this life and here after Aamin..

  • @fightingdreamer8681

    @fightingdreamer8681

    9 ай бұрын

    Ameen 🧡

  • @kn-tq8sx

    @kn-tq8sx

    4 ай бұрын

    Ameen

  • @junaid2607

    @junaid2607

    4 ай бұрын

    Ameen ❤

  • @crazyheart003
    @crazyheart0037 ай бұрын

    Subhan’Allah, what a beautiful religion! May Allah grant barakath and mercy on sheikh, me and all the believers! ❤

  • @justworship0570
    @justworship05707 ай бұрын

    Peace and blessings from Dagestan ❤

  • @user-ov3uj6kd9p
    @user-ov3uj6kd9p8 ай бұрын

    Explains everything when he mentioned the Bedouins…I feel like a lot of them still need to find that balance, because it’s causing lots of families to separate….

  • @benrobinson7544
    @benrobinson75446 ай бұрын

    Thank you for your videos they help me alot through being a better person and Muslim. Peace and blessings upon you all!

  • @piqueny8872
    @piqueny88729 ай бұрын

    Since my father passed away. I’ve been the punching bag of the family constantly bullied always being blamed when things go wrong. Decades I’ve been slight, I have nobody or no where else to go since I suffer from a disability. Nothing is good enough for the family especially for my mother constant emotional mental abuse I receive! I don’t receive any respect appreciation or gratitude with all the service i do in my mothers household! I lost my anger over there ingratitude and disrespect and have been slight once again and still being taken advantage of. Since I have no where to go and the community won’t believe how much I’m suffering Two faced narcissist household Please brother make duaa for Allah to bless me with my own safe home

  • @TheBadgerr

    @TheBadgerr

    3 ай бұрын

    This is your test. Remain good hearted, kind, and keep an open heart, even if it is akin to opening your eyes in the Dead Sea. That is strenght beyond what people can understand. Understand yourself. Be your own best friend. And dont forget that Allah Azzawajal is with us, in what we do, in what we suffer through, in what we feel, and in what we dream for. This world does not feel like Home. Because it is not. This world is a test. And Allah Azzawajal will insha’Allah offer you that safe place. Until finally we return to Him, and get to go, back Home. I will pray for you, so you may find peace and safety in this world. And dont forget Allah’s promise in the Quran. “After hardship comes ease. After hardship comes ease.”

  • @DC-ek6ib
    @DC-ek6ib9 ай бұрын

    "Allah God is with the patient."❤❤🎉

  • @happyvibe864
    @happyvibe8649 ай бұрын

    59:25 best advice for controlling anger

  • @leahgoertzen6648
    @leahgoertzen66486 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your knowledge, I have been watching your videos for the past week, Ive learned so much and your recitation of the Qu ran is so beautiful !

  • @antamantium3238
    @antamantium32388 ай бұрын

    SHUKRAN…..OUTSTANDING LESSON…. 🤲🏿🤲🏿🤲🏿🤲🏿🤲🏿🤲🏿🤲🏿🤲🏿🤲🏿🤲🏿🤲🏿🤲🏿🤲🏿

  • @ibtisamm2915
    @ibtisamm29159 ай бұрын

    As salam alaikum wa rahmatullaahi wabarakatuhu, Shaikh it would be wonderful if you can do a series on the crucial battles in Islamic history. Jazakallahu khair for sharing your knowledge over the years and for these regular lectures.

  • @me_212
    @me_2129 ай бұрын

    Jezak Allah khair, barek Allah fee amaleek wa ahleek

  • @NutritionDefined
    @NutritionDefined15 күн бұрын

    Amazing allahumma barik aameen barak Allahu feekum aameen ❤️

  • @RahmaARahma
    @RahmaARahma9 ай бұрын

    Subhan Allah ☝️💖💡🎉 thankyou dear brother Belaal Asaad 👌 jazak Allahu kearyn

  • @SheCanMotivate
    @SheCanMotivate9 ай бұрын

    May Allah forgive us all,

  • @zahaidahannif3662

    @zahaidahannif3662

    9 ай бұрын

    Aameen ya Rabbil Alameen

  • @zizi326
    @zizi3269 ай бұрын

    Barakallah feek, shaykh Belal

  • @scarpelli9114
    @scarpelli91149 ай бұрын

    Thats a tough subject and a thin border, hard to show mercy once you are on fire! Mad respect for the person behind this channel, got love those cover photos! Rated, liked & shared! Jazak Allahu khairun

  • @mss4346
    @mss43469 ай бұрын

    جزاك الله خيرا. Great lecture mashalla. Sir Belal if you happen to read this comment, I would be very grateful if you would do a lecture on how to motivate a spouse who is a revert and still does not practice as Allah wishes.

  • @borkan1103
    @borkan11039 ай бұрын

    Good job. Keep continue with remarkable guest

  • @zainabmohammed9993
    @zainabmohammed99939 ай бұрын

    i love his recitation.Rabi hablii mina swalihin

  • @marjoryyson4537
    @marjoryyson45379 ай бұрын

    I followed your lecture sheikh ❤,, I love the way you explain every topic you discussed,, there's no confusion in every words you said.. it's very well explained as easy to understand ❤ JazzakaAllahu Khairan for you and your family sheik

  • @LisahsModestLifestyle
    @LisahsModestLifestyle9 ай бұрын

    May Allah Reward you

  • @nanethmohammad64
    @nanethmohammad649 ай бұрын

    May Allah reward you. Alhamdulillah for this lecture

  • @jhjsqds1764
    @jhjsqds17649 ай бұрын

    May Allah pay you for your effort and all the people Involved in these projects❤❤❤

  • @tropicaally
    @tropicaally9 ай бұрын

    may Allah bless you and your family

  • @Idowu_Balogun
    @Idowu_Balogun9 ай бұрын

    May Allah continue to reward shiekh...

  • @LilLion1818
    @LilLion18189 ай бұрын

    Alhamdullilah looking forward to listen to it insha Allah

  • @aisham1057
    @aisham10579 ай бұрын

    SubhanAllah! جزاك الله خيرا YA RABB! allow us all to humble ourselves, control our anger and have/show mercy to others, especially our parents! by YOUR mercy! 🤲 اللهم امين

  • @nadaali_1118

    @nadaali_1118

    7 ай бұрын

    Ameen

  • @scrippolyrics1684
    @scrippolyrics16849 ай бұрын

    May Allah reward you sheikh

  • @truereligion1900
    @truereligion19009 ай бұрын

    As salaam alaikum Thank you dear brother may Allah reward you

  • @waladatourino5077
    @waladatourino50779 ай бұрын

    Alhamdulillah, thank you very much for your lectures, may Allah bless you Sheikh

  • @ozlem950
    @ozlem9509 ай бұрын

    Dear Belal Assaad Allah gifted you beneficial knowledge and gift us with you🤲

  • @mrshadow8381
    @mrshadow83819 ай бұрын

    Jazakallah khair, thank you for teaching us with such clarification and gentleness. May Allah bless you sheikh

  • @munieeraalim3603
    @munieeraalim36039 ай бұрын

    Masha Allah what a very powerful and inspirational video. May Allah reward you generously Brother.

  • @shugrishiino
    @shugrishiino9 ай бұрын

    Beautiful ❤

  • @fatimaabdullahi440
    @fatimaabdullahi4409 ай бұрын

    I love this brother fisabilillah ❤️ helps me be better

  • @MrRiz157
    @MrRiz1579 ай бұрын

    Brother Belal, your speech was truly inspiring. It is my hope that we can all strive to act upon it even better than we already are. I also wanted to take this opportunity to offer my prayers that Allah will continue to increase your love for the Final Messenger (pbuh) and all those connected to him. Thank you again for your incredible contribution to our community.

  • @user-vz3pf4ox7q
    @user-vz3pf4ox7q9 ай бұрын

    I love you Shaikh from zambia 😂😂❤❤

  • @Lilli-London
    @Lilli-London9 ай бұрын

    So true everything you saying I love you, I am learning and executing i cried i have subscribed and seearching for your lectures all are so enlightening jazakillah khair for sharing all your wisdom and the way you explain ❤

  • @Ok....-
    @Ok....-9 ай бұрын

    Beautiful lecture ❤

  • @juwariahjobe8926
    @juwariahjobe89269 ай бұрын

    As soon as I see the content is an hour plus, my entire day is made Alhamdulilah. Great talk. Although the crowd’s sense of humor could use some work. Laugh, feel good.

  • @kn-tq8sx
    @kn-tq8sx4 ай бұрын

    Ido really like your talks and the way you describe it it is very important and AMAZING 😊masha Allah may Allah reward you and take you to jannah tul firdous ameen

  • @jamalmalik890
    @jamalmalik8906 ай бұрын

    Asalamu Aleikum sheikh ..Masha Allah may Allah reward you Could you lease teach us about advantages and disadvantages of marrying a single mother..jazakAllah 😊

  • @yalesewmuhammed6
    @yalesewmuhammed69 ай бұрын

    Seleloh alehi weselem

  • @tamaraadz
    @tamaraadz9 ай бұрын

    very interesting topic 👏👏👏

  • @tasnimmohammed8319
    @tasnimmohammed83199 ай бұрын

    Aslyumalykum MashAllh

  • @bluntpie6183
    @bluntpie61839 ай бұрын

    Alhamdullilah for you shaykh.

  • @kn-tq8sx
    @kn-tq8sx4 ай бұрын

    59:25 best advice for mercy and anger

  • @LUBB12
    @LUBB129 ай бұрын

    Assalamualaikum warrehmatullah. Kindly add subtitles to all the videos. Jazakallahu khairan for all of these golden lectures. Building my base again through these.

  • @coldcoffeeandcake-7511

    @coldcoffeeandcake-7511

    9 ай бұрын

    Me too. May Allah make it easy for us. Ameen

  • @mammbye9243
    @mammbye92439 ай бұрын

    ❤❤

  • @cronlab
    @cronlab9 ай бұрын

  • @mirtabish5997
    @mirtabish59977 ай бұрын

    ❤👍👍👍👍👍

  • @terrythornton7892
    @terrythornton78929 ай бұрын

    No disrespect mufti has spoken upon this lecture a year ago. Very soft spoken & nice to listen too .. Alhamdulilah 🤲

  • @belal.assaad

    @belal.assaad

    9 ай бұрын

    Glad to hear that. The more knowledge the better

  • @kn-tq8sx

    @kn-tq8sx

    4 ай бұрын

    Masha Allah

  • @skanwarjaved5016
    @skanwarjaved50169 ай бұрын

    Sir.... Can u plzz upload video on recitation of QURAN.

  • @happyvibe864
    @happyvibe8649 ай бұрын

    the toxic Muslim Community on tiktok should hear this part 7:00

  • @kn-tq8sx
    @kn-tq8sx4 ай бұрын

    59:25 good advice

  • @kn-tq8sx
    @kn-tq8sx4 ай бұрын

    Is this talk in America because I want you to do a talk in London insha'Allah ❤🗺️

  • @malikshayan4602
    @malikshayan46028 ай бұрын

    I live in Melbourne so where are you located and when i will come to your place to listein your speech live? JazakAllah

  • @dessy844

    @dessy844

    6 ай бұрын

    Preston Mosque, Victoria Melbourne The lecture is every Wednesday InsyAllah after Maghrib before Isya prayer .. I hope that helps .

  • @jjwj6885
    @jjwj68859 ай бұрын

    Shaikh, if you've restrained your anger over the years of being verbally abused by your family and kept holding it in for Allah’s sake but one day you can't hold it in anymore and suddenly blew up 😢. How do I ask for forgiveness for bursting into anger with no ill intention just that I just cannot hold it in anymore.

  • @belal.assaad

    @belal.assaad

    9 ай бұрын

    Asaalaykum, one of the causes of anger outbursts is holding in what you need to say for a long time, it will eventually explode. Next time, the key is to find a way to talk to them or someone about it who can help you communicate with them. It is easy said than done, but you can summon the courage to talk to your family members at a good time with resize y but express your feelings. It’s always a safe way to start cunvos about feelings rather than telling them what they are doing wrong. For now, this is a good opportunity for you to open up with your family about what made you burst. Start by apologizing for any hurtful things you said, then explain how you have been feeling to them. The idea is alike a sandwich effect, say good, then feelings, then good. Eg. I want to apologies for my outburst the other time, I love my family. My fault is I held my feelings inside and did not communicate them to you, but it’s fair I tell you. I’ve been feeling…… after all that say, ‘no matter what I want a close bond with my family and love’.

  • @jjwj6885

    @jjwj6885

    9 ай бұрын

    @belal.assaad Thank you, Shaikh for your wisdom. I will do so when everyone has calmed down and especially for me to be more composed to explain my feelings. I know my family will not be able to accept it since that's the way of my family where mother and brothers are always right and I have no say in matters. As a daughter, I must accept their way. May Allah forgive me for my harshness towards them. May Allah bless you for your kindness and guidance, Shaikh.

  • @___lilskewmadethis
    @___lilskewmadethis2 ай бұрын

    What about people who are Muslim and try to weaken someones Iman even after knowing that the person they are trying to weaken. Is working hard on his/her imaan

  • @shakibshaikh3506
    @shakibshaikh35069 ай бұрын

    Shaykh can we turn on youtube ads?is it halal?

  • @belal.assaad

    @belal.assaad

    9 ай бұрын

    It depends on the types of ads you tick to allow or not allow brother.

  • @shakibshaikh3506

    @shakibshaikh3506

    9 ай бұрын

    jazakallah khair....love your bayan shaykh....may allah grant you highest place in jannah..ameen

  • @semihrama9803
    @semihrama98039 ай бұрын

    isn’t the dua for forgiving and having mercy only upon him and rasulullah saw of the bedouin who urinated in the masjid of the prophet saw? 19:24

  • @belal.assaad

    @belal.assaad

    9 ай бұрын

    No, those are 2 separate incidences. I think you’ve mixed the 2.

  • @user-bg7yz1io3e
    @user-bg7yz1io3e9 ай бұрын

    Subhanallah only angry angry angry angry angry bird movie ?😢😢

  • @user-hu4li9qz6j
    @user-hu4li9qz6j7 күн бұрын

    ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🫶

  • @justworship0570
    @justworship05707 ай бұрын

    Peace and blessings from Dagestan ❤

  • @user-hu4li9qz6j
    @user-hu4li9qz6j7 күн бұрын

    ❤❤

  • @khatarynacarvia964
    @khatarynacarvia96416 күн бұрын