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I coach ambitious Entrepreneurs & driven Young Professionals to meet high-quality women who support their goals and vision, in casual daytime environments.
I have helped 1000+ men to meet amazing women who support them and their vision & build networks of hungry and inspiring friends and associates.
I started out when I was 19 years old working as a trainee Applied Behavioral Analyst, working with students at Universities in the UK with a variety of learning differences: ASDs, ADHD, ADD, and Generalized Anxiety Disorders. I learned how to write syllabus and create structured improvement in the lives of my clients, before applying my knowledge of applied behavioral change to neuro-typical Men.
By the age of 23, I was in high demand and had worked with many of the world's top Dating Coaching companies. I soon realized that talking to girls in the daytime had greater benefits to the individual than dates and relationships with amazing women, but on a personal level it could be integrated mindfully in to anyone's daily lifestyle, to increase their confidence, social skills, self-esteem, and energy levels.
Now I work with high-achievers all over the globe, coaching them to have A) the dating life of their dreams, and B) a solid tribe of guys to motivate, support, and push them forward, whilst remaining mindful in balancing their health + finances with new-found social freedom!
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  • @Anastasia1622
    @Anastasia16222 жыл бұрын

    I'm a woman and I have to say this vid is 100% truth. Your approach is perfect. If I had to give a tutorial on cold approach I'd totally show this

  • @FluidSocial

    @FluidSocial

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's great. Thanks for the support!

  • @karllarsen8797

    @karllarsen8797

    2 жыл бұрын

    As a man and not a chicken, I would never approach women like this English guy. I would never, ever do what he did in this video.

  • @51MontyPython

    @51MontyPython

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@karllarsen8797 What would you do?

  • @adeeproductionz8630
    @adeeproductionz86302 жыл бұрын

    this guy deserves more support for his platform . Its very educating.

  • @FluidSocial

    @FluidSocial

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you bro

  • @darkbuddha3307
    @darkbuddha33072 жыл бұрын

    Best infield quality in the whole KZread game

  • @FluidSocial

    @FluidSocial

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks brother

  • @letsmakemusic7132

    @letsmakemusic7132

    2 жыл бұрын

    Seconded

  • @ShoaibKhan-bz5qm
    @ShoaibKhan-bz5qm2 жыл бұрын

    I’m glad you mentioned about not forcing the vibe - was super tired and actually feeling a bit depressed today - told myself I was gonna do a couple of shitty approaches and head home - ended up on an instant date - wasn’t the most confident/playful/charismatic etc. but was still in the moment and genuine

  • @DataDrivenActualization
    @DataDrivenActualization2 жыл бұрын

    Hahaha that intro is hilarious. I love the advice about keeping to take the steps you need to take and not getting too caught up with the highs and lows. If you're relying on that feeling, it's so easy to fall off or be inconsistent.

  • @FluidSocial

    @FluidSocial

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks bro

  • @askmydiary
    @askmydiary2 жыл бұрын

    Production of this vid is from another world, love the short scenes from the city. Keep them coming!

  • @xWingzTV
    @xWingzTV2 жыл бұрын

    Love that you’re back and running with these infields! Please continue with the regular uploads!

  • @samb202
    @samb202 Жыл бұрын

    At 6:10 when you asked “where WERE you going?”. Was that phrasing planned? Because she says back “I WAS going..” which implies that her plans have changed, after talking to you. That’s such a genius way to gauge receptivity. If she says back “I’m going” and not “I was going”, you know not to escalate. It could even be used at a bar for example. You ask a girl “where WERE you going after this”. If she says “I was going” you know you can invite her back to your place. There’s such gold in these videos, you’re going to give the whole game away. When you blow up.

  • @lifechangingmoments9074
    @lifechangingmoments90742 жыл бұрын

    I really appreciate the way Sam reflects in between sets. As they say, you don't learn from experience but from the reflection of the experience.

  • @simon-fk2ye
    @simon-fk2ye Жыл бұрын

    Take the actual ‘game’ away and there’s so many life lessons here! Always taking it back to first principle. Great work!

  • @simonthepukkapieman1387
    @simonthepukkapieman13872 жыл бұрын

    Great video Sam, appreciate the honesty and depth of the video. Good luck with your channel!

  • @mohammedkayed23
    @mohammedkayed232 жыл бұрын

    Best educational authentic advice not only for pickup good work man keep it up you’ll make it

  • @ayumelove
    @ayumelove2 жыл бұрын

    mate the smoothness of that witty line "birthdays are like a new beginning" and the way that quip went down. great work

  • @FluidSocial

    @FluidSocial

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks

  • @OG_Rider
    @OG_Rider Жыл бұрын

    Be present in the moment. Quality production and content 👍

  • @lifechangingmoments9074
    @lifechangingmoments90742 жыл бұрын

    Like & Comment for the KZread Algorithm! This channel deserves far more recognition. Action is Eloquence.

  • @Bullet-Tooth-Tony-
    @Bullet-Tooth-Tony-2 жыл бұрын

    This guy and James Tusk are masters of the game.

  • @rambo7135
    @rambo71352 жыл бұрын

    Looking physically attractive helps too😉

  • @lifechangingmoments9074
    @lifechangingmoments90742 жыл бұрын

    This is a totally brilliant video by Sam on DayGame. Balls of steel to approach so many girls. Massive kudos. Should we view the interaction as a trailer for a movie so she leaves with the impression that the date to follow will be great as the whole movie?

  • @God-hs5dw
    @God-hs5dw2 жыл бұрын

    Your knowledge with regards to psychology is impressive. Great video Sam. Do you have any books you recommend reading?

  • @BestFaceForward
    @BestFaceForward2 жыл бұрын

    Let’s go!

  • @FluidSocial

    @FluidSocial

    2 жыл бұрын

    Let’s go baby!

  • @ppr881
    @ppr8812 жыл бұрын

    Sam's Boyfriend Destroyers come out so naturally it's fascinating to witness.

  • @elvisdaygame4686

    @elvisdaygame4686

    2 жыл бұрын

    Perhaps you can also say I don't care if you have a BF, an Elephant, or a Kangaroo I have to meet you again.

  • @elvisdaygame4686

    @elvisdaygame4686

    2 жыл бұрын

    Never let a BF put you off your game. SAY----Have you ever met someone NOW & point to her & you that you had an immediate Connection with & at another time you didn't feel that great connection like with your BF(Point Away).

  • @elvisdaygame4686

    @elvisdaygame4686

    2 жыл бұрын

    I am not leaving till I and You have a 20-year-old child.

  • @Aiphadogg
    @Aiphadogg2 жыл бұрын

    Great video as always. I remember you talking about building a social network by taking extra time to talk to for example the barista, gym receptionist etc. Asking questions and making a conversation and that way slowly building rapport over time, when you come back again and again. I can't find the video again. Do you know which one Im talking bout, or maybe you can make a video where you talk more about this stuff?

  • @FluidSocial

    @FluidSocial

    2 жыл бұрын

    kzread.info/dash/bejne/gJ2o17WifdzcXaw.html ?

  • @Dudewittude
    @Dudewittude2 жыл бұрын

    I love that you’re putting in your rejections Sam. Also, I’ve noticed you have really takin your sexual vibe through the rafters. My shfonze was twitching 😂

  • @elvisdaygame4686
    @elvisdaygame46862 жыл бұрын

    Your hair has become normal quite quickly after the last video. This is a very nice video. The quantity of approaches is really good. What does Samuel think about if a girl asks you how are you? and you respond by saying " I am impossibly sexy"

  • @FluidSocial

    @FluidSocial

    2 жыл бұрын

    1) bro I just tied my hair back last time 2) it depends how you say it. It’s not the words but the delivery

  • @tutorjames666
    @tutorjames66610 ай бұрын

    That Russian instant-date was amazing man

  • @FluidSocial

    @FluidSocial

    10 ай бұрын

    Thanks James ! How are you doing ?

  • @eshw23
    @eshw232 жыл бұрын

    Got my first number from cold approach yesterday thanks for your vids

  • @FluidSocial

    @FluidSocial

    2 жыл бұрын

    Conngratulations brother

  • @elvisdaygame4686
    @elvisdaygame46862 жыл бұрын

    Can you add some qualifiers to your interactions? 1) Can you bake cookies? 2) Are you good at family gatherings? 3) Can you speak Mandarin? 4) Tell me something really interesting about you? Then say you have made it to the quarter-finals of being my Weekend or Summer GF.

  • @FluidSocial

    @FluidSocial

    2 жыл бұрын

    Careful not to miss the point if this brother

  • @lifechangingmoments9074
    @lifechangingmoments90742 жыл бұрын

    Where are the best places in London to meet East European girls? Can you do a video which details the best places for different types of girls? Thanks in advance.

  • @ShoaibKhan-bz5qm
    @ShoaibKhan-bz5qm2 жыл бұрын

    0:10 based Sam

  • @songsofthecentury3909
    @songsofthecentury39092 жыл бұрын

    I don't ask what do you do? Where are you from? These interview-style questions build no emotional connection. Instead, I am excited to meet you. What are you really passionate about? What's the most interesting thing that happened to you all week? Using positive words like excited & passionate associates the emotions in these words to me.

  • @elvisdaygame4686
    @elvisdaygame46862 жыл бұрын

    Dude, you are in a video by the BBC on KZread. I think you were with Beckster at the time & he became a wingman for Mystery.

  • @FluidSocial

    @FluidSocial

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yup

  • @voltage3692

    @voltage3692

    2 жыл бұрын

    What's the video name

  • @FluidSocial

    @FluidSocial

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@voltage3692 probably type ' itv 3 tom pick up artist' and you might find it.

  • @ConnorH.
    @ConnorH.2 жыл бұрын

    Zen pickup

  • @davidpeter4588
    @davidpeter45882 жыл бұрын

    6:00 nice

  • @songsofthecentury3909
    @songsofthecentury39092 жыл бұрын

    The problem most men have is they put the girl on a pedestal & hence have an irrational fear of approach. Girls are only human and have their foibles & insecurities. Girls know when makeup comes off at night the beauty disappears. Make strong eye contact like a laser beam & just tell her I like your style & not saying attractive & beautiful(this puts her on the defensive & you lose your power). In daygame go for a coffee or drink immediately or text for later that day, if you leave it any longer she will flake.

  • @zaraz9676
    @zaraz96762 жыл бұрын

    How is it not lockdown over there? Is it back to normal in UK?

  • @CommandoMaster

    @CommandoMaster

    2 жыл бұрын

    It's from the future lol

  • @jackrippers8526
    @jackrippers8526 Жыл бұрын

    21:17 #Korea !!!!!!!

  • @truthoverall
    @truthoverall2 жыл бұрын

    - 17:00 Gangster moment, Sam. Nailed it

  • @lifechangingmoments9074
    @lifechangingmoments90742 жыл бұрын

    You used to talk about familiarity & talking to the girl like a long-lost friend. Is it still a thing to do?

  • @FluidSocial

    @FluidSocial

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @Phil-RS
    @Phil-RS Жыл бұрын

    The important action is to complete your days mission and to avoid contact with anyone who is a stranger. Trust no one, time is short.

  • @coolpot
    @coolpot2 жыл бұрын

    what did he say at 20:07? they found it funny but i cant hear it !

  • @FluidSocial

    @FluidSocial

    2 жыл бұрын

    The garlic aioli couldn’t win me over, but you have. (The shop next door was giving out free garlic Mayo)

  • @dax8073
    @dax80732 жыл бұрын

    Serious question though mate, according to your stats, lets say if you get like 10 nums, how many roughly replies and leads on to a date roughly, you strike me like a honest and open person, would love to hear this side too :)

  • @FluidSocial

    @FluidSocial

    2 жыл бұрын

    Maybe 3-4 replies, 1-2 dates, depending on how much effort goes in/state of mind and, of course, chance

  • @isabellatripang2740
    @isabellatripang27402 жыл бұрын

    Sam, can you try to approach asian girls haha ? Never really see u going up to other girls of different race

  • @lifechangingmoments9074
    @lifechangingmoments90742 жыл бұрын

    You said some time ago that utilize the anxiety to your advantage. So is it a physiological response that your body is telling you this girl could be a wife material? Of course, I don't mean her clothes are made of wife material.

  • @antosfunb
    @antosfunb2 жыл бұрын

    Hi I'm 32 from London. Should I focus on approaching females at least over 20?

  • @95clemi

    @95clemi

    2 жыл бұрын

    yes bro

  • @gamesforadma9403

    @gamesforadma9403

    2 жыл бұрын

    At least, you crazy at least 25 year old

  • @askmydiary

    @askmydiary

    2 жыл бұрын

    I am 33 and just had a date with a 19 year old this week. if you are attracted to them whats the problem?

  • @askmydiary

    @askmydiary

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@gamesforadma9403 this is typical blue pill advice

  • @95clemi

    @95clemi

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@askmydiary 18+ is ok, yes

  • @ShoaibKhan-bz5qm
    @ShoaibKhan-bz5qm2 жыл бұрын

    20:09 Based Sam 2

  • @FluidSocial

    @FluidSocial

    2 жыл бұрын

    Based

  • @billywillis3372

    @billywillis3372

    2 жыл бұрын

    So based

  • @MistahUnknown

    @MistahUnknown

    Жыл бұрын

    Very based

  • @Evil_pinata
    @Evil_pinata Жыл бұрын

    FFS every woman has a bf?

  • @sassykulturesurridge5885
    @sassykulturesurridge58852 жыл бұрын

    That's the same women from Stratford lol

  • @FluidSocial

    @FluidSocial

    2 жыл бұрын

    Which?

  • @MistahUnknown

    @MistahUnknown

    Жыл бұрын

    Which?

  • @mundograph7223
    @mundograph72232 жыл бұрын

    Cold approach in a Cold city

  • @FluidSocial

    @FluidSocial

    2 жыл бұрын

    That’s the truth

  • @songsofthecentury3909

    @songsofthecentury3909

    2 жыл бұрын

    So a cold reading must be part of the interaction.

  • @rambo7135
    @rambo7135 Жыл бұрын

    Not to be gay but you're a good looking guy Sam but I reckon you can improve. You asked for permission and I understand this could have been because this girl didnt feel comfortable. But she was Russian and Russian girls like guys to take the lead. Rather than asking if you can walk with her you should have given an FTC and told her you will walk with her for a minute then you have to meet a friend or go for an appointment. What happened with this girl? Did you end up seeing her again?

  • @FluidSocial

    @FluidSocial

    Жыл бұрын

    Bruh of course I can improve. I might have improved already. I might have a dumb conversation this evening, and a fucking heroic one tomorrow. It’s not consistent. Of course my conversation suck sometimes. But not always. Don’t you see that’s the point? Everyone can improve. And it’s not lack of knowledge. I know more than anyone, I’ve studied so deeply. And I still fuck up. And that’s okay. Stop judging yourself so harshly. Stop judging others. Just go, act, don’t worry, don’t think too much, don’t try, just go and do and see what happens. It’s not lack of knowledge. It’s not like I don’t look at a video and know how it could have gone better, isn’t that obvious?

  • @rambo7135

    @rambo7135

    Жыл бұрын

    @@FluidSocial ok cool

  • @Brick1978
    @Brick19782 жыл бұрын

    Sam, great video but you need to get your teeth cleaned, girls love guys with clean teeth!!!

  • @FluidSocial

    @FluidSocial

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow thanks for the advice , I’ll order a whitening kit this second !

  • @hankybostik7634

    @hankybostik7634

    2 жыл бұрын

    my teeth are so yellow i can't believe their not butter!

  • @MistahUnknown

    @MistahUnknown

    2 жыл бұрын

    - *Puts the Tofu Tikka Masala away* -

  • @StarTrader4
    @StarTrader42 жыл бұрын

    This is all so dated man. Like 10 years dated.

  • @FluidSocial

    @FluidSocial

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yup. No idea is original, I’m just riding the wave.

  • @xxxiiixxx1404
    @xxxiiixxx1404 Жыл бұрын

    "It's always I have a boyfriend" FFS they even say it in bars and clubs it's a joke