How To Approach Girls On The Street: A Step-By-Step Guide
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I coach ambitious Entrepreneurs & driven Young Professionals to meet high-quality women who support their goals and vision, in casual daytime environments.
I have helped 1000+ men to meet amazing women who support them and their vision & build networks of hungry and inspiring friends and associates.
I started out when I was 19 years old working as a trainee Applied Behavioral Analyst, working with students at Universities in the UK with a variety of learning differences: ASDs, ADHD, ADD, and Generalized Anxiety Disorders. I learned how to write syllabus and create structured improvement in the lives of my clients, before applying my knowledge of applied behavioral change to neuro-typical Men.
By the age of 23, I was in high demand and had worked with many of the world's top Dating Coaching companies. I soon realized that talking to girls in the daytime had greater benefits to the individual than dates and relationships with amazing women, but on a personal level it could be integrated mindfully in to anyone's daily lifestyle, to increase their confidence, social skills, self-esteem, and energy levels.
Now I work with high-achievers all over the globe, coaching them to have A) the dating life of their dreams, and B) a solid tribe of guys to motivate, support, and push them forward, whilst remaining mindful in balancing their health + finances with new-found social freedom!
I created Fluid Social with the mission to teach the ambitious men how to meet their ideal women and form unshakeable networks.
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If this is helpful. Please like, subscribe, comment, share. It all helps to boost the channel and the message to other guys who need it. Thank you 🙏🏼
guys, I have a testimony about my experience with daygame. I've never been able to talk to girls, I'm the kind of shiest guys who struggle with social situations and everything. but I was noticing that if I never did some move I would end up being alone forever and I decided last year to make the most out of me, even in that state of no experience I would improve step by step and try to at least talk to girls and see what could happen. now I have a little experience about talking to women from absolutely 0 (to hero haha) and from the last months I seriously approached 30 women with intention to get her number at least. what I've experienced changed my mind a bit. firstly and foremost, the girls were more open than I've never imagined, the greater part of then talked to me in a polite and positive way and I felt great about the majority of my approaches. from 30 approaches I could say 5 were lovely, great, with unexpected results, 5 were bad, the girls were'nt in the mood and it was a bit awkward, but didn't hurt as I though it could be and the 20 others were neutral/good. but the thing is, the absolutely majority of young/good looking girl I approached were engaged or had a boyfriend. if I could say, from this group of 30, I only found 5 girls or less that weren't in a relationship. that is the harsh part of it all.
@FluidSocial
Жыл бұрын
Very true. All great endeavours are difficult. Please like and share to spread the word bro 👌🏼👍🏼
I loved your three step warm-up process. Very simple, do-able and nothing too crazy
@FluidSocial
Жыл бұрын
and it actually works!!! Please like the vid, and if you have a friend you can share with, it really does help spread the good word. Thanks man
Amazing video Sam!
Most valuable video I seen in weeks!! Thank you Sam
This was really positive to watch and the kindness in this video cheered me up just watching, such a good way to be, that bit when you said the girl looks nice through the window I bet that meant alot to her and was remembered all day, 🙌 thanks for the inspiring video of kindness dude
This is underrated. Good content, some of the things you say are so relatable :)
This was the kind of video that it's needed ,, keep doing like this 💚
great video full of useful advice, thank you for making it!
GREAT Video. You just earned a new subscriber
Inspiring as always Sam. Never stop making these videos man!
@FluidSocial
Жыл бұрын
Thanks brother! Please like it and share with a friend if you can, it’s really helpful for me 🙏🏼
Just got here from The Attractive Man, Todd V.. finally someone who talks about their single cold approach, but still being real and meets the anxious greenies like me who just wants to share happiness. (Instant sub) / Greetings from Sweden
@FluidSocial
11 ай бұрын
Love this comment. Welcome brother. I truly want to help you get to where you want to be. Every new sub gets a free coaching call with me as well, so feel free to book that here: calendly.com/fluidsocial/connect-call-with-sam
Thank you for this video Sam, I've given my youngest son some of your videos, he's 33. He recently visited Miami and told me he saw a beautiful woman in Walgreens, he was so pumped that she had a conversation with him and was asking him questions; it might lead to a relationship. Thank you !!!
@JakeeReacher
7 ай бұрын
Congrats! Did your son approached her? Or did she approached your son?
Sam continues to be the best around
my hero, super helpful. thank you
so inspiring 🔥🔥
Very cool and 100% real as always, keep it up
@FluidSocial
Жыл бұрын
Thank you bro, please like and share with a friend :)
@33:42 that's not the case with me my friend. I've subbed and added videos that resonates with me the most on my playlist. 👍🏾☮️💯 I Appreciate your content , keep it up! 🇬🇧
camera man is improving, great content Sam
@FluidSocial
Жыл бұрын
Thanks man, please like and share if you can, really helps me and other dudes! 🤝🏼
He saw her in the checkout line at Walgreens and approached her !
great person
For months my algorithm has been showing me loads of videos of women shaming men and and videos about how all women are gold diggers and stuff like that. Basically red pill stuff. At this point my mind is so fucked up that I'm scared to get publicly shamed if I approach a girl or even to being accused of harassment. Your videos are helping me to clear my mind and to delete my wrong and limiting beliefs about women. Thank you
@FluidSocial
Жыл бұрын
Stop watching that poison. Stop altogether
@markhemming1423
Жыл бұрын
@@FluidSocialI know from my own experience that some women really enjoy being approached and having normal conversations with men. They themselves have told me this at the end of interactions.
Thank you for this video! Its very well made - I like your style a lot. True words of wisdom. I re-started cold approaching recently again (after a year brake) and can totally identify myself with this concept. We should only focus on taking the action and learn from our mistakes as we go. When we stick to this simple concept, the sky is the limit. The pain and embarrassment is inevitable part of the process, just suck it in and keep going forward -you will be rewarded by equally the most fantastic interactions and new relationships. I would also recommend to stop watching porn and masturbating because that sexual energy you would waste will be essential for the motivation to actually approach girls.
@FluidSocial
11 ай бұрын
Yessir! Get in touch if you want to chat :)
Cold approaching is the only way to meet Women. I believe in the theories of Troy Francis and of James Tusk. May 2023
You Troy and Tusk have best channels for this thanks mate.
Swiss girl sounded even more French as convo went on haha
I love you bro you are in my heart
Sam, I would recommend taking off the glasses. Would make you look more genuine. Loved the video.
❤❤❤ this video 🔥 🔥
Sam I hope you read this :) I had a crush on a girl (I'm 17 and this girl is 17) and we messaged and we were extremely compatible. One day she stopped messaging me and it broke me, I realised I was too attached because I knew I'd never have the confidence to find anybody else. Because of your videos you've given me the confidence to want to ask more people (my age) to introduce themselves and my social skills are amazing. Thank you!
@FluidSocial
Жыл бұрын
Congrats young brother
@beastwithredpill
Жыл бұрын
Wow man congrats, very mature of you at 17yrs old to figure something that takes people 20 plus years to even just discover ❤
Thank you Sam for this!
@FluidSocial
Жыл бұрын
Welcome Shawn! Please like and share with a buddy as it really helps the algorithm and means a lot for me :)
Cheers for opening super low energy girls!
24:23 Actually you were not so wrong. She‘s from the french speaking part of Switzerland. If she would have been from the german speaking part, then the accent wouldn’t have been so cute😂. So the default Swiss accent would probably be the Swiss german accent, because the french and Italian is nearly the same as in the border countries, but Swiss german is way more different to the german from Germany. (there is also a small Rhaeto-Romanish speaking part, but it‘s so small that I haven’t ever heard anyone from there speaking english)
The discord link in your 30 day recharge course doesn’t work by the way Sam.
@FluidSocial
Жыл бұрын
Yes thank you, it's an old link and we are making some changes. Would you like to join the community?
Why do women don’t stop when they walking in the public I stopped yesterday. Nine woman but not a single. Didn’t even looked at me because this seems like they are in rush. So what is the good possibility? Where should we stop them?
Sam - Do you have a patreon?
@FluidSocial
Жыл бұрын
Hey Scott ! Thanks for reaching out, no I don’t have that, but let’s talk on the phone ! You can find my link in the video description 🤝🏼
Thanks for another nudge to remind me to get out of my head...
@FluidSocial
Жыл бұрын
Welcome brother . Please like and share to spread the word and help me keep making more content for men 🤝🏼
the irish one was a pain
you should always ask for her contact , there is no point about going to a girl without asking for her number , she knows why you have approached her especially the ukrainian girl with the yellow jacket she was so receptive and into you and you didn"t ask for her number , even if it is a demonstraion and for the video you should always for it no matter what the outcome is in order not to regret it
@FluidSocial
Жыл бұрын
Why should anyone always do anything ? Don’t be silly
@Kevtron9000
10 ай бұрын
This is the dumbest thing I’ve ever read. Chill dude, Sam is an expert beyond your imagination. If he wants it he will get it, if he doesn’t he won’t and will leave equally as successful. Your mentality is so desperate
*But, what is a good way to not seen like a creepy, needy guy when you approuch the girl you are into. I mean London is a big town but what about doing that in a small city, I mean: How to get rid of the fear, overcome the feeling of *Anxiety without seeming strange and judged by she, or her girfriend, or others people, known to you* 🤔🤐
I want to do this but I could never do this lol I'd start by making asking directions
@FluidSocial
3 ай бұрын
You 100% can do it my friend, I’m certain I could get you going within 2 weeks . Book a call for free and find out: calendly.com/fluidsocial/connect-call-with-sam
@timothyorourke7116
3 ай бұрын
@@FluidSocial I live in rural area also so little opportunity for practice
@timothyorourke7116
3 ай бұрын
@@FluidSocial I'll definitely book a call tho
I think this is great, but I don't know if I can walk around giving compliments like this haha
@FluidSocial
10 ай бұрын
You can, if you did the step before: make eye contact, smile at some people. Step by step brother. Call me if you want to talk through this and get started: calendly.com/fluidsocial/connect-call-with-sam
@Kevtron9000
10 ай бұрын
Not with that attitude you can’t !
@yew921
9 ай бұрын
@Kevtron9000 I'm not bad looking but I feel like I'd have a panic attack haha, anyone who does this is a gentlemen and very courageous maybe I can one day behave like this
@Kevtron9000
9 ай бұрын
@@yew921 Sam shows you the key in this video…baby steps. You have literally nothing to lose brother bear! If you had a million dollar check to hand a girl would you be scared to walk up? Well you’re the check man! You only live once …step with confidence! So many great men, greater than us, lost their chance. Take yours .
@FluidSocial
9 ай бұрын
@@yew921 It's all just words until you've gone and tried it, brother. Words are empty. 'One day' means never. Why can't you smile at someone today? As I said, you can get my help for free, if you want it 👍 calendly.com/fluidsocial/connect-call-with-sam
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My RACE IS ASIAN PAKISTAN. I approached her today 2 girls both girls i approuch with full energy and confidence and we got connected with each other i git her number and 1 girl blocked me and other ignore my text i stuggle because of my race
@FluidSocial
5 ай бұрын
Bruh... If I wrote texts the way you've written this comment I'd get blocked too!
@raheelch5561
4 ай бұрын
Thanks that you reply
I think you'll have more of a success rate in the urban areas, central london makes you put these women on a pedestal
I'm thinking of developing a AI tool that could automate this process for me.
@FluidSocial
Жыл бұрын
Let’s do it 🎉
Why didn't you close the Ukrainian Sam? She seemed very receptive. The other girl at the end seemed even more receptive but what threw me at the end was when you suggested number-closing she said "instagram". This in my experience is typically a bad sign. Like she's deliberately not wanting to give her number in case she later decides to block/curve you. Yet from the interaction she seemed like a YES girl. It really is getting tough out there. Reminds me once when I spent like an hour with a YES girl in a club, bought her a drink, even got the makeout... but when i go to numberclose her when she's leaving she suggests social media. Personally, the next time a girl suggests instagram and i've asked for a number i'm going to call it out. and if i lose the close then i lose the close. I'm only interested in HIGH Interest girls anyway, and a girl who is already thinking about curving me is not a HIGH interest girl imo even if she appears to be a YES girl. As for the daygaming session. Well you're getting better results than me .. but i put that down mostly to your looks. I don't think my conversational skills with women are leagues below yours or anything. Regarding that approach you did when you over complimented the girl. Yes even before you called it out yourself I did think to myself that you overdid it somewhat (I honestly thought you were coming across a little desperate and starting to lose value). I did a few approaches about a month ago where i somewhat overcomplimented girls and it shockingly turned a no girl into a maybe girl. She was a no-girl at the start (pretending she couldn't hear me) ..but a few compliments and a bit of chitchat later i asked her out and she actually paused and considered the offer before lying and saying she had a bf. i know it was a lie due to the fact she paused and considered the offer. If she genuinely was a No girl or a maybe girl and genuinely has a bf she would not have paused to consider it.., only perhaps a YES girl might. So I think overcomplenting might have a bit of potential.., as it's rare for a No girl to become a maybe girl and consider the offer. although you do come across a lot different to me when you overcompliment ..just due to our different styles/personalities. If it can turn no girls into maybe girls then in theory it should be able to turn a few maybe girls into YES girls.
@FluidSocial
Жыл бұрын
Cool, please like and share to help me make more 👌🏼
@HarryRLees
Жыл бұрын
Cool show us how it’s done then, make some videos
@ANM21985
Жыл бұрын
@@HarryRLees I never claimed to be an expert, but As it happens I did make a dating themed video on my second channel: "seeds of sanity" around 5 months ago. However youtube would not serve thumbnail impressions to anyone even though i used a lot of relevant keywords and my video basically got no views. Maybe 2 or 3 views were from others who found my video from reddit but all the rest of the views was me viewing my own vid lol. As a video editing rookie It actually took me an enormous amount of time and effort to put that video together and I was so discouraged at getting no views that I didn't make another video. I do plan at some point to revisit the channel and hopefully include some footage of cold approaches i've done myself and also some analysis and also techniques i use but i'm not sure when. It's not top of my priority list atm and that's mainly due to lack of people viewing it and no positive feedback. If you are interested in seeing more videos please consider subscribing and whacking that bell notification on, otherwise when i do drop a vid i probably wont even make it to your home page as im such a small youtuber and youtube will just let the big channels take those spaces....
Read and LEARN 🥸 After watching this video today. In the evening time I went to town and I start stopping girls but not a single one stopped I dress up nice but Now I will not gonna approach girl who do not even know me
@FluidSocial
4 ай бұрын
And so by giving up so easily, you give a tenacious, courageous man a better chance with the women who you will now never meet 👍🏼🫡