mate i love it haha. Straight up, got me cracking up, Youre a legend!

@FluidSocial

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks bro! glad you enjoyed the vibe

Quality content, cheers mate.

@FluidSocial

2 жыл бұрын

welcome brother

Love your stuff. More sincere and honest than alot of pick up out there

@FluidSocial

2 жыл бұрын

That's because it's not pickup ;)

You are the best Sam! I learned a lot, thanks to you, about what I have to do..

@FluidSocial

2 жыл бұрын

Good man

I love this vibe, man. I'm from Brazil. would love to be ur client someday. want to do some approaches xD

@FluidSocial

2 жыл бұрын

Feel free to book a call bro! Link in description

Very good

@FluidSocial

2 жыл бұрын

thanks

Brilliant video my friend 👍

@FluidSocial

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks man

Sam, do you intend to come back to Brazil eventually? I would like to do a bootcamp with you if you run one around here

@FluidSocial

2 жыл бұрын

Man get in contact at the contact link in the description

Beautiful

@FluidSocial

2 жыл бұрын

thanks mate

I'm all for the "it sounds less interesting then what we could do together " but I think in that daytime situation it maybe a bit much. At a night club I would totally give it a go

@FluidSocial

2 жыл бұрын

Depends on how you say it/your vibe/her vibe

London is beautiful, so is my brother

What does it mean when a girl isn’t saying much in conversation?

Where are you live?

In addition to being direct with the girl, what do you think about moving her to an instant date? It could be a nice video

@FluidSocial

2 жыл бұрын

Yup

I think the situation with the girl sitting down with her dog then her bf coming in has quite alot to do with non verbal. We didn't see the whole interaction and you're right he was relatively chilled and open but anyone with a little self awareness can see he's capable of menace/aggression & potentially violence. It's not so much that he handled the situation really well as you said, but more the fact that you knew fairly instantly not to muck around with him. It's interesting cause I remember one of your other videos where a guy and girl were clearly together and you probably felt superior to him/not threatened so ended up taking her number which came across as a bit harsh in all honesty to the poor guy. I suppose it is a dog eat dog world though.

Love your content, but I like your more indirect approaches, I think it has an advantage on the psychology of most women. I don't want this comment to be misinterpreted like I know something you don't. I find that women, like a mission and when they know too much, they loose interest, they enjoy a pursuit. Who knows- just a thought-big fan of your lovely content! Keep soaring!

@FluidSocial

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks mate. Understand and agree. The important point is that you have to move with the energy you have. if you are inspired, you should not stifle it, if you are tired, you should not act as if you are not, you should carry your energy through. So the journey and the way you communicate will/should change based on where your mind is. Not about getting the right outcomes, about taking the right action

@harlemtrades5023

2 жыл бұрын

@@FluidSocial This is true, I find that a lot of the time we as humans tend to put on a show. I think that is just something we’ve evolved to be good at to navigate within social ranks and to survive. Dropping this “show” is hard to do when your not in the company of just yourself. That’s why I think it’s wiser to do with people we feel safe around. This quote “never reveal your neck to those seeking to chop it off” just came to mind. As I said this comes from programming, especially growing up in a busy city where things can go 0 to 100 real quick. That’s why the feeling of being in nature is the most liberating feeling and feels most aligned to the truth. Appreciate you taking the time, to engage in a bit of conversation, as I said, keep soaring! Appreciate the lovely content!

Guys jus correct me if am wrong .. this coach is a good looking dude and top of that hes white . So he doesn’t know the blockers or how minority are treated in dating … so whatever he says on channel may not apply for minority people ..if u really wanna develop your channel and make it reachable to all the races I recommend that u pick a not very good looking minority with zero skill or sub par skill set and coach him for 2 months or so and let him give his testimonial and let the world know what he achieved with your mentoring .. then we will trust your skill set in game … ..

@FluidSocial

2 жыл бұрын

We come from different worlds. You are not my client, and I cannot help you. Not because you are from a minority race, not because you are asymmetrical, but because you have already confirmed your own failure. None of my clients, not the Indians, not the east Asians, not the short, not the assymetricals, none of them speak like this, none of them limit themselves with such words, and so all of them make progress. Your mindset and the language you use is what stops you, not your race. You can find countless examples of every type of man who has achieved every success in their life (not least with women).

Do you think it’s harder for Indian/Asian men to approach in comparison to English guys, seeing as a lot of Asians have bad stereotypes?

@FluidSocial

2 жыл бұрын

Can be harder at the start, yes. Demonstrate you do not conform to the stereotypes and it will no longer be hard

@MistahUnknown

Жыл бұрын

@Ritchie N You've been watching Sam's videos for at least 10 months. Your mindset hasn't changed. I've seen your comment on one of his recent videos pretty much saying "Its harder for South Asian men". I say it's time for you to work with Sam if you haven't already gone out and done approaches.

11:43 Mogged by Tyrone

@FluidSocial

2 жыл бұрын

This guy handled the situation like a boss. really cool guy. If I wasn't filming i'd have hung out with them for the afternoon

I dont get how you get rejected lol, like why would girls not want someone who confidently approaches them in the day.

@shutting88

2 жыл бұрын

There would be so many reasons like some girls have so many options. However, it doesn't matter.

@eshw23

2 жыл бұрын

@@shutting88 options? There's that many people that have the confidence to approach during the day??

@PhysicsEnemy

2 жыл бұрын

@@eshw23 In the UK, cold approach is quite taboo and women have lots of options both online and offline. So it's a big numbers game.

@Paddehj

2 жыл бұрын

Tons of reasons. You clearly don't understand female attraction. Women are naturally pickier due to their innate biology so it takes more than just walking up to them confidently to get them. 1. Maybe they don't like your face / race. 2. Maybe they genuinely have a boyfriend that they have a strong attachment to. 3. Maybe they're socially awkward & just can't handle the situation / find it overwhelming. 4. Maybe your technique was wrong (came over too strong, stopped them too close, etc). 5. Maybe they're not looking to date at the moment / can't be arsed with it. 6. Maybe they're lesbian. 7. Maybe they sense you're not in the same social sphere as them. 8. Maybe they're staunch feminists who don't like being approached full stop. Endless reasons. It's irrelevant though. You won't be everyone's cup of tea. The answer = more sets. Sam is extremely direct here though. I preferred the way he used to do things in older videos, it was a bit less intense.

@MR27e

2 жыл бұрын

@@Paddehj Absolutely. To be honest, a little of analysis of your interactions is fine, but don't over analyse. The reasons you mentioned are valid. Often in the day, people in general are not expected to be talked to, so usually the rejection has nothing to do with you. You just caught her at a moment where she doesnt feel like talking so that's perfectly fine. Also I think that approaching girls at night or even the evening can be better due to that they kind of accepted that guys talking to girls is the norm. Especially around central areas in a city (near bars, clubs and pubs) Personally I think approaching 15-20 ( minimum) girls a week is enough, just got to focus on the quality of the interaction, that's what matters next. Would rather have 1 phone number out of 20 that very likely converts to a date (75-80% probability) than to have 10 numbers out of 20 approaches that 9 go nowhere and 1 is 50/50 ish. I personally don't want lots of numbers on my phone that go nowhere, unnecessary clutter Lol. Quality beats Quantity most of the time in my view.

I haven't even started my cold approaching yet, but nevertheless, I have my two cents on this particular exchange. I appreciate your calm demeanor, and that you aren't trying to fill in any possible gaps of silence with unnecessary words. I hope that I could eventually be this calm and relaxed in cold approaching. My only real critiques are that it does come off to me a bit gimmicky, like you're playing a role, of sorts. I think it would be better to be more authentically you, as if you were talking to friends, but obviously, simultaneously, expressing your appreciation for her beauty, and flirting a bit. I think that flirting in a soft playful way, leaving her wanting more, is best unless and until the woman starts playing along, or demonstrates an appeal to it. Also, to me it felt like you were being a bit pushy on you wanting to get together with her. My thoughts are that when approaching these interactions with the mindset that you're going in to connect with the woman, and then you subtly make a hint or 2 that you're attracted to her, ... but, then you allow her to join in & equally contribute to the direction that the interaction goes; then, she will feel less pressured, and more a willing participant, because she's freely formulating her own desire to participate in wherever the interaction goes (including, if it leads towards swapping numbers, etc). This way, you're just going in to meet the woman, hint at your attraction towards her, and forming an authentic connection, (even if brief), that developed naturally and genuinely together, with mutual participation. This will put tremendous ease and comfort on the woman, and give her the freedom and space to decide for herself, which can leave her wanting more. This also demonstrates a sense of patience, social intelligence, respect, trust, and authenticity. This not only allows the woman to genuinely invest in the interaction, but moreover, it "requires" the woman's investment. Always try to leave her wanting more, by not giving too much, only teasing with flirting and giving her the open space to return the ball. Like a game of singles tennis, it requires two people to equally participate, tit for tat. And, in this way, she'll know that the if she doesn't make her own contribution, every step of the way, that the game will end.

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@FluidSocial

2 жыл бұрын

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@MistahUnknown

2 жыл бұрын

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She has a beautiful phone...

@FluidSocial

2 жыл бұрын

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Do a video Sam, where you're walking around and just continuously hitting on hot girls constantly one after the other, you'll rack up numbers so quickly, trust!

@hotsteamy6571

2 жыл бұрын

Even better, you do the video to show us Da X

@FluidSocial

2 жыл бұрын

not looking for numbers, I approach the women I'm interested in/who have a nice energy

She’s got a beautiful pair of jelly wobblers