Rejection legitimately makes you stronger . Especially if you approaching a lot girls because you'll go through it frequently . It numbs you after a while . It's liberating and makes you feel free . That's how I felt when I first face fear of rejection . Going through it a lot will numb you to pain period . That's if your self esteem and self worth is internal . Like you feel worthy because you a have a talent and gift.

Loved this Sam, suddenly I don’t feel as bad for getting rejected.. you’re an inspiration mate, more videos like this please

@FluidSocial

5 жыл бұрын

Life Travels good man. Keep going !!

thanks for normalizing rejection

@FluidSocial

3 жыл бұрын

Welcome. It is normal

thank you I needed to see this cause I feel so horrible whenever I get rejected 😔

@FluidSocial

3 жыл бұрын

Haha when the results start coming, the rejection doesn't sting the same

ok sam. Great stuff, and i respect ur guts.i just found u here on YT and this is what i noticed after watching about 12 of your vids.. When u are dressed in a t shirt, u score 19% success rate in getting the #.. And when u wear ur suit, nice shoes and shades, it goes up to 77%. I think it's time to get back to the suit. It's your go to outfit. Women love the suit on a man. It smells success and power. Keep up the good work, sam.

Good job mate. Keep up the good work 👍

I’ve been avoiding rejection for a while and only now am I realising that’s made me weaker not stronger.

Good video mate, thombs opp 😂👍👍

Rejecting is great because it helps you build up confidence for the next time. So when you talk to another Girl somewhere else. You will have better results

When that woman said, "I'm not really in the mindset" that was code.for not interested in Sam specifically. However, Sam is an attractive and confident guy sonthis rejection wont have phased him very much compared to a lot of other guys.

I always feel like it's a bad idea to follow up on their relationship if they say they have a boyfriend. I think it sounds a bit too personal and can make them uncomfortable (not sure though). I feel like if they say "I have a boyfriend" then it's a good idea to continue the conversation, but not continue it about her boyfriend with questions like "Do you want to break up with him?" etc. I might be wrong but execution is key. I'm not as experienced as you however

Holy shit 4:25, I'm scared of getting that extreme feeling of superiority over 90% of males that don't have the slightest clue of daygame and single digitslay counts. Did great man, just curious how tall are you Sam? Look about 5'11 next to James T

@FluidSocial

3 жыл бұрын

I'm about 5'10 on a good day. Thanks bro!

♥♥♥♥

I never see this young man from Fluid social talk to any Black women, Asian women, or even Indian English women. March 18, 2023.

@FluidSocial

Жыл бұрын

So you haven’t looked very hard

Bro you would have gotten a positive reaction if your were wearing classy

@FluidSocial

3 жыл бұрын

maybe, I doubt it though. only the first minute does she care about the superficial

At last, someone actually uploading an infield for a change! You could grow your channel tremendously by doing this alone.

@FluidSocial

4 жыл бұрын

Lilbizkit loads of people upload infields. I don’t want to grow my channel only, I want to produce authentic and educational content, not just visual snacks for hungry voyeurs

I like this video cos it shows the realty of daygame

@FluidSocial

4 жыл бұрын

Shoaib Khan word

This video is crazy !! Sam you were really having fun . Just have fun when picking up girls and they will enjoy your presence .

Yea it was the same day I went out. I was up central most of yesterday had some really good results. Text all my numbers last night and ain't had a single txt back, even the instant date I had hasn't got back to me lol. It happens though, I just say tomorrow is another day. Keep ploughing on

@KB1983.

3 жыл бұрын

did any of them ever text back??

Just done a lil lazy Sunday daygame myself so this was a fitting vid to watch. Very relaxed, can feel the "no agenda" easiness of it. "Food and meditation" was a great come back. It's always important to know when to bail. While a little persistence is good, I don't believe in this Pushing Through approach. It has to be smooth energy. Girl has to be comfortable. Might have a cup of tea, and hit some more sets, inspirational clip...

@FluidSocial

4 жыл бұрын

Joe Cassius thank you brother, I agree with all

That "back up plan" line is gold.

@FluidSocial

4 жыл бұрын

pritesh tailor haha I think I’m paraphrasing Ryan Gosling...

LOOOVE IT NICE AND REALISTIC RESPECT BRO

@FluidSocial

5 жыл бұрын

REBELLIOUS MUSIC thank you brother 👌🏼

We need more of these compilations especially in the same clothes because it shows that your approaches are done on the same day and not on different days.

@FluidSocial

5 жыл бұрын

jaysdangerroom it was all in 30 minutes!!

@kayeefu979

5 жыл бұрын

so where's the remaining part?

@jaysdangerroom

5 жыл бұрын

@@FluidSocial For real. I would thought it was a few hours.

@FluidSocial

5 жыл бұрын

Ka Yee Fu that’s it man

@FluidSocial

5 жыл бұрын

jaysdangerroom no it was actually about 25 minutes. I was waiting for a client before a coaching session.

Brilliant Sam. This is real shit bro. Cheers 👍

@FluidSocial

5 жыл бұрын

Rajnish Sharma welcome man

4:23 fierce

Nice Lacoste shirt bro

There is not enough talk about how being in game for long period of time and dealing with rejection affects men emotionally if you stick out it in very painful

@FluidSocial

4 жыл бұрын

Richard Boardman-Smith true. But why feed a problem ? Ideas are entities that feed off attention, why focus on the hardship when you can focus on the beauty of the process and be grateful that you’re bold enough to take the action? We all know it’s hard, that’s what makes it worth doing

@richardboardman-smith415

4 жыл бұрын

Fluid Social you obviously haven’t done enough solo Daygame🤣 and solo trips

@selfesteem1942

2 жыл бұрын

@@richardboardman-smith415 the guy literally does this for his job, what do you mean "you obviously haven't done enough solo daygame and solo trips" lol

Good work you fluid bastard!👍🏻

@walidghariani9415

5 жыл бұрын

Based on your comment, you're definitely watching street attraction on KZread

wats the quote say at the end. Suggested videos are blocking it. Great vid by the way sam

@FluidSocial

5 жыл бұрын

RKOSun god grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference

@lionemporor

5 жыл бұрын

@@FluidSocial the slide before that sam, We cant read the last 2 slides. "the truth is the ability to deal with....

@FluidSocial

5 жыл бұрын

lionemporor fixed

Hey, I don't want to be offensive or anything, but I just watched this video on a computer with a bigger screen (previously saw you on my phone) and noticed you have a lazy eye. I don't know if you've ever thought about this or not, or realized the significance of it, but you know when people look into your eyes, it gives a strange sort of psychological reaction, that I'm sure would make many girls feel slightly uncomfortable or un-attracted. To put it bluntly, eye contact is very important, especially when first approaching, and for developing an emotional connection with the girl. And especially the left eye, which is connected to the more emotional part of the brain. Anyways my suggestion is: have you ever tried wearing an eye patch? I bet your results with women would go way up, because it would eliminate that strange psychological reaction. Again I don't want to be offensive, but sometimes the things that people are most afraid to say are the things that most need to be said. You could also ask girls for their opinions and subjective reactions to your eye contact (although they might also be afraid to offend you, so you might have to dig for the truth). Anyways, just a suggestion, and something to think about, take it as you will. Good luck

@FluidSocial

4 жыл бұрын

Aaron Marchand hahaha thanks man, it’s an interesting idea. Actually I’m fortunate that my eyes are probably my greatest genetic asset and probably get me more success than any other. Though an eye patch would be pretty cool to wear. Also, I’d recommend trying to own the features that you are insecure about, and flaunt them more than any other. I used to be insecure about many aspects of my physicality, but I realised that it was only my insecurity that was unattractive, and not the features themselves. If you are insecure about your bald head, then joke about it! People will see strength in your attitude, despite the fact that you lack the genetic disposition to keep your head cool in high temperatures ;)

@aaronmarchand999

4 жыл бұрын

@@FluidSocial Ya I think you would look cool in an eye patch haha I totally agree with what you say in general, but sometimes things need to be taken care of as well, for example if you had really horrible disgusting breath, it doesn't matter how much you psychologically own it, it will still evoke negative reactions in others and have a negative effect on your ability to attract girls. For example, I used to wear contact lenses, but they started to irritate my eyes a couple years ago, and gave me very blood shot eyes if I wore them too long, and I could tell it was evoking negative reactions in girls when I first talked to them. Now I got laser eye surgery (which is amazing by the way), and the problem is solved. So yes I agree in general and in principle, but there are certain things that need to be taken into consideration as well, namely things that induce an automatic negative psychological responses in other people. But if you find that your eye doesn't hinder you, then all the better

@kifacorea

Жыл бұрын

@@FluidSocial how about being extra short?

Around 7:20 you approached and walked alongside her. All this time I have been thinking that it was bad practice to do this, and that we should swivel out in front and stop her with plenty of space, as you showed Dillon. Was this just you playing around and warming up, or do you think that it can be solid approach technique?

@MyGreeed

5 жыл бұрын

not in London. elsewhere yes.

@FluidSocial

5 жыл бұрын

It’s better practice to approach from the front, but sometimes you might feel like approaching and walking with her. There are no rules, only guide lines and ideas. Just do what feels most normal, but know the proper front stop as a go-to