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@HypnoticHollywood

4 ай бұрын

A woman can make her own bread working from home so if you would have asked men if they prefer a stay at home wife or a wife who works outside the home, all the men would've agreed they prefer a stay at home wife.

@LindsayMelrose

4 ай бұрын

I’ve been a SAHM mom for the last 18 yrs- I’ve worked on and off as a mindset coach, counselor, writer & only just now stepping back into FT entrepreneurship because before babies I was a young successful Ad executive and I loved my job but being able to stay at home was something no amount of money could replace.

@kwilson4125

4 ай бұрын

@HypnoticHollywood “Stay at home” and “work from home” are 2 different things. Most people define “stay at home” as not working a job for income but instead focusing on the family and household.

@LindsayMelrose

4 ай бұрын

@@kwilson4125 very true- I’ve been raising my children who are preparing for college - I’ve been a ghost writer, content creator & mindset coach on and off because being a mom and sacrificing the second income was priority- they are def two diff things!

@sueeland5675

4 ай бұрын

​@@kwilson4125..so true to stay at home with no side hustle.... did that Mmmm will rather stay at home with a hustle

Masculinity has to be earned and femininity needs to be protected. ❤

@NBnNC

4 ай бұрын

Golden! billboard worthy on every major US interstate

@TJ-015

4 ай бұрын

Spot on!

@12Messenger

4 ай бұрын

Amen

@ojames1983

4 ай бұрын

"protected and preserved."

@lesliealvarez1606

4 ай бұрын

Wow where can I find a man like that. I was married for 16 years. I was a real estate investor I located property my husband remodeled we were a team. We shared money. Divorce happened. Now I'm with a boyfriend for 3 years. He was a drug addict I didn't know. Found out them helped him start 2 profitable business. He's making 150,000 a year now. Went from cleaning headlights at liquor stores and crack cocaine to 150,000 a year in 1 year. He saved his money and bought a house cash for 200,000 dollars in San Miguel de Allende. Rents it out ! I have my own business but my business has slowed down for some reason and suddenly my boyfriend doesn't want to send me the 120 dollars he sends every Saturday to me. We live together I wash clothes clean house communicate with his clients. I set up next door app, Venmo zelle Instagram everything for his business shirts business cards I bought him 2 huge A sandwich boards signs , tools, even found his work truck for cheap. Now he's suddenly says I only made 1000 dollars this week so I can't give you your 120 weekly. We pay rent 50/50 electric, internet, Netflix. He has no bills just stacks his money has over 100,000 in bank and past 3 weeks stopped giving me 120. I didn't stop washing or cleaning or helping him with his business. What's going on?

I'm a stay at home wife. I cook homemade meals every day. i do dishes and laundry every day. I keep the house clean and cozy. I am calm and happy and well rested so I am pleasant company. When I worked full time I was overstimulated, didnt have energy or interest in cooking or cleaning or entertaining a man. Staying home gives me feminine energy to be a pleasant wife.

@kayjeffs3741

4 ай бұрын

And probably a husband who treats you right as well

@LMcBee

4 ай бұрын

What happens if your husband leaves you one day, or dies and kids grow and move away? Being a stay at home wife is good when it works but the amount of women who are screwed over when it doesnt is tragic

@AishabintIdris

4 ай бұрын

I love that for you ♥️

@simba8665

4 ай бұрын

@@LMcBee not every stay at home mom is broke or has zero skills. I don’t see anything wrong if the woman has a say on how the household income is managed/ distributed. Not everyone lives the life in constant fear of a divorce.

@warlord1207

4 ай бұрын

@@LMcBee won't be hard for her to date if she wanted to

“She could be a nurse or a teacher, but anything else is too stressful” two of the most stressful jobs 😂

@juliea.

15 күн бұрын

That guy was an idiot.

@outsidethebox8406

6 күн бұрын

Yes they are. Just shows how clueless some men can be.

@TsvetelinaTsaneva

5 күн бұрын

Sooo am I getting this right? He is the only one allowed to generate and bring home stress?

@asmaj.631

5 күн бұрын

​@@TsvetelinaTsanevawhy have two ppl bring home stress when it's not a necessity?

@Humanaut.

5 күн бұрын

@@TsvetelinaTsaneva If he is the main breadwinner then yes

Has anyone noticed that all of these older men are physically fit

@simbathomas5075

3 ай бұрын

Right 😂😂😂

@user-vg8ez9cu6u

3 ай бұрын

Yes, money, personal chef, and trainer make that fairly easy to do!

@nyecore

3 ай бұрын

@@user-vg8ez9cu6u also there might be a correlation between discipline and wealth

@spolch9482

3 ай бұрын

Yes, they have a personal slave.

@forward_ever_ever2595

3 ай бұрын

​@@spolch9482sound like a feminist...the seed of jezebel

That first guy holy shit! "Masculinity need to be earned femininity needs to be protected." This man for president!

@Rosemary46840

4 ай бұрын

Y'all easy and cringy

@marciejade1408

4 ай бұрын

Grow up!

@as2223

4 ай бұрын

Rare find especially in soft OC. Real men rule!

@caribbeanladyz7965

4 ай бұрын

Very true.

@CL-do5eq

4 ай бұрын

He’s a true Alpha

This is a perfect example of the mentality of successful men. They are not "women belong at home and I'm the king" They all recognized the value and sacrifice of their women staying at home, and still mentioned their women are hard working and intelligent.

@IAmPhasion

4 ай бұрын

Yess love it

@glendakeirn6230

4 ай бұрын

YES!!!

@glaeli1184

4 ай бұрын

Exactly! Staying at home is a job as well, if one makes enough money for everyone than the other can work to manage the family’s life and lower everyone’s stress level. Granted it’s an opportunity that only comes with high individual income or the money’s scarcity would be much worse in terms of stress levels.

@LuvsTruth

4 ай бұрын

Where were those compliments you speak of?

@blesstalks

4 ай бұрын

Nah overwhelmingly majority wanted a stay at home. Take your ass at home and raise your kids, fuck outta here.

This interviewer’s approach is so respectful, personable and the questions felt neutral (no hidden agenda). You can see the pleasant facial expressions of the men when answering him. He was also able to read into them. Basically he knew when he needed to make it quick or when he could expand on the questions. This was refreshing to watch 🥰

@Holistretch

3 ай бұрын

Agreed! ❤

@outsidethebox8406

6 күн бұрын

So true. Love this guy. This channel is gold.

I was a stay at home mom for 8 years. We ended up divorcing & it set me back in the career field for a few years…but I still have ZERO regrets. That was the best thing for my kids at the time & money comes and goes, regardless. I’d still much rather budget and be at home vs trying to juggle a job, kids, the home & a man..only to be completely frazzled & not the best “me” for my family.

@gailainsley6939

3 ай бұрын

Why didn’t you have something in place incase of a divorce? Like alimony or something?

@myurbangarden7695

3 ай бұрын

​@@gailainsley6939Alimony is only granted 10% of the time. Also it is for a finite time period. It's easy for me to skip out on alimony and child support. It is a very sad reality.

@GoldenWave

3 ай бұрын

@@gailainsley6939 When you're trying to keep your marriage and family together, sometimes the last thing you're worried about is planning for alimony "just in case"-- sometimes you're just trying to hold it together and putting all your eggs in the only basket you have and hope for the best.

@Lavenderrose73

3 ай бұрын

​​@gailainsley6939 Maybe because people generally don't plan on getting divorced? Women are generally not at the altar saying "I do," while thinking about how they can survive a failed marriage. You have a lot of audacity, shaming that person for not being prepared for something like that!

@Lavenderrose73

3 ай бұрын

I'm sorry your marriage fell through; I'm glad you were able to pull through for yourself and your children, though.

The more broke a guy is the less he wants her to stay at home. The more he has his life together and the more accomplished the more masculine hence the more he wants to provide for her, naturally.

@jermainemyrn19

4 ай бұрын

The more money you have, the more you want to have your wife stay home. The more broke you're, the more you need to work, especially because you're fighting against inflation at all times.

@jermainemyrn19

4 ай бұрын

@@ladybug3380 tone deaf

@ladybug3380

4 ай бұрын

@@jermainemyrn19 it’s true though. If you can’t afford a family don’t have one it’s that simple.

@jermainemyrn19

4 ай бұрын

@ladybug3380 I disagree, I was raised with money. My parents were gone all the time, so we never got close. It's not all about the money, and everyone deserves to have their own kids if they want to. It's not anyone's fault they're broke because there are a ton of systemic issues

@nicolelewis6312

4 ай бұрын

​She's right. Don't have children if you can't afford them.

You don't have to be wealthy to support a family. You just need to choose a woman whose lifestyle is in line with what you can afford to provide.

@marte1376

4 ай бұрын

Exactly, that's the point many men miss. Hypergamy is not about choosing the rich, who said that? All women in the world are in different circumstances and positions in their lives and the same goes for men. Each individual chooses the one for its kind, that's it.

@brooklynforever1990

4 ай бұрын

You get it!

@RearviewWisdom

3 ай бұрын

THAT PART ! My husband does construction and we gross 70k. I’m a simple woman and in some aspects I’ve even become more simple to accommodate me being at home with our kids. We live in NY btw….. But if you want a trophy wife be prepared to pay the price and don’t complain. I rather people say they loathe traditional family structures than to blame their reasoning for rejecting such on the other gender.

@user-vt2ce2jc4r

3 ай бұрын

I'm sorry to say but I don't agree when some PPL say you don't need so much money just a wife who can live by what you earn...............a certain amount of money is required to live atleast well enough....if you want a women to do the best at home you also need to be a good provider and hardworker....the best you can provide..... not saying you have to be a millionaire but sufficient to be comfortable....... If you earn so very marginal how can you expect the wife to do the best....hungry stomach can't work hard at home and do good housekeeping

@Mouse73

3 ай бұрын

@@user-vt2ce2jc4r while I agree that a man's job is to be a good provider, a woman's job doesn't just consist of housekeeping and raising kids. A man can expect and lead a woman to do far more than just those things. A woman can tend gardens, take care of livestock, hunt and fish, forage for food and medicine, find deals at the grocery stores, and manage the budget. Even if they live in a city, she can still participate in these activities. Perhaps she has a creative hobby she enjoys that can also supplement family income. Many people who are poor find ways to manage even with many children, so I'm sure that the rest of us can too.

As a couple’s therapist I don’t think I could be in a relationship where, if it (the relationship) went away, I wasn’t set up to earn on my own. If I had a husband who earned enough where I could stay at home I’d happily do it but would never stop studying the science of psychology, painting, writing, and engaging with my passions.

@NurtureSarina

4 ай бұрын

My ideal life would be a SAHM with a money making hobby! I’ll get a job if sh*t goes down. Thankfully I keep my savings account where it’s at no matter what in case of a divorce. (Single mom rn but hopefully a SAHM eventually)

@jorjapeach2068

Ай бұрын

I so agree with this !!

@krzysztofprusakowski3386

Ай бұрын

My aunt is a stay at home mom and wife, but she runs a business and she is the boss so she has plenty of time for kids and taking care of the house. She is also not the educated one with university degree. She is just smart with money and hires other people/subcontractors to do the work for her. She of course knows something about the industry but she has specialists for the job and also husband who is her "employee". You don't have to get any degree to be successful. You just have to set up a business and find clients or other companies that provide new clients for you and you also have to provide value to keep them with ya. She earns much more money than most of the people in the country.

@ebonywilson1999

15 күн бұрын

I’m with you on this completely! I would want to be in unity with my husband while also having the ability to be independent.

@andreanease4215

14 күн бұрын

You’re going in to a relationship with a lack of trust and expecting failure. The only thing that ends marriage is death. Have life insurance, and don’t let divorce be an option. I can’t imagining marrying someone thinking it may not work. Red flag to begin with!

As a mother and a wife I was blessed to stay home until the youngest was 12, then I just worked part time. Thank you to all those who help mothers make that happen 👏

@evarkf5303

18 күн бұрын

Thanks for this. I feel less guilty as being stay home mom for past 10 years, my youngest is 10.

Here's some solid advice my father gave me before his unexpected death: Always be able to make your own. It's fine for your husband to provide because as a man, that's what he's supposed to do. But always be able to make your own. I was in my early 20's at the time, so I didn't really get what he was saying. But in my 40's, I totally get it. It's nothing wrong with being a SAHM, but have a skill set where you can make money if you need to (unexpected illnesses of husband, unexpected death of husband, divorce).

@mantyxxx

4 ай бұрын

Well said, underrated comment. Its like one of men said in the video. You can be a nurse, teacher, etc. and after raising kids or/if something unexpected in life happens you are not left wiotheout source to live.

@nate2759

4 ай бұрын

Amen!

@bemilie2841

4 ай бұрын

This happened to someone I know and she struggled taking care of herself and 4 kids because she married young and her husband was against her studying and working. Learning and doing that once you’re on your own and responsible of 4, it’s truly tough. So even if you choose to be SAHM, learn a skill or few just in case.

@Boogead

4 ай бұрын

Your so pretty

@kikoma4551

4 ай бұрын

This! 👍🏻

You can see the amount of respect the first man has for his wife based on how he asked her to come on camera when asked if he prefers his wife to stay at home.

@rociolu1422

4 ай бұрын

yeah, the only one who understands that is up to her, not him (from those who have a stay at home wife)

@chinaboss6683

4 ай бұрын

But i thought behind every successful man like bezos and gates was a divorced woman! 😂

@mineandmine4528

4 ай бұрын

@chinaboss6683, Funny how those women stood by them when they had nothing and now that they are the two richest men on the planet, they both divorced the women that stood by them. 😂 Like the saying goes, a woman’s loyalty is tested when there is nothing, a man’s loyalty is tested when there is everything.

@mineandmine4528

4 ай бұрын

@chinaboss6683, Funny how those women stood by them when they had nothing and now that they are the two richest men on the planet, they both divorced the women that stood by them. 😂 Like the saying goes, a woman’s loyalty is tested when there is nothing, a man’s loyalty is tested when there is everything.

@chinaboss6683

4 ай бұрын

@@mineandmine4528 Thats a fun fact isnt it? Heres another fun fact for you: what is the origin of the word 'test?' Its is testes, testicles, or testosterones. Hence, its a mans world.

“If she gonna have a stressful job she gonna carry the stress home” I FELT THAT!

@ecclairmayo4153

3 ай бұрын

But then he suggested women do the most stressful jobs on the planet: nursing and teaching😂

Dude. I'm a women in the field of architecture. It's a very demanding intense field. I work from home full time. The stress it causes me to have at home is real. As a woman it's so hard not to involve your emotions in your job. Also the amount of work you have to do with young kids is tremendous. Doing both can really break a woman. I'm trying to pull myself together as we speak and not sure how. This is a real conversation that needs to be had. It's really hard being a career woman and take care of the home. It's like working two full time jobs. Even if you work from home like me. Especially if your career is intense like architecture.

@InspiredByEbonyLove

4 ай бұрын

Hire some help!! So you don’t have to focus on the mundane tasks

@shereeburks9549

4 ай бұрын

Agree!!

@ginam2817

3 ай бұрын

You have several options babe… Daycare while you’re on the clock to allow you to focus if your kid(s) are not school age yet. Hire a cleaning service to come in several times a month to help maintain your home, and take a mandatory 30 minutes of solitude after work everyday to wind down. You’ll be surprised at how much better you feel after decompressing. Also, if you have a separate office in your home that you work in, close the door when you sign off from work. If you don’t have an office buy a room divider to put in front of your workspace; so that you don’t have to stare at it each time you walk past it..

@khadejah.moussa4430

3 ай бұрын

The truth is. It is impossible to do both well. Something has to give. And I really do believe feminism has ruined society telling a women she can do both we cannot our bodies are not made like mens bodies we cant handle high pressure jobs for extend amounts of times and we go through so many hormonal changes in a week let a lone a whole month.

@fitwithbrittany2706

3 ай бұрын

Women can’t help but to make their job their baby

Guy with the neon yellow shirt had the best answer. He appreciated his well educated career woman wife when she stepped away from her job to raise their kids and when she returned to work. Also mentioned that they were fortunate to be in that position to do that!

@truehappiness4U

4 ай бұрын

He’s clueless, she sacrificed her job for the kids. He did NOTHING. There was no father figure in the lives of the children, because he wanted money and not his children love. No wonder many children prefer their mothers over their fathers. Both parents should have just worked part time if they were rich enough.

@LovelyVibrations

4 ай бұрын

You are right. He had the best answer!!

@STak-ju7gx

4 ай бұрын

It's quite funny that the first guy approaches relationships as a competition and not necessarily as a sincere relationship between two people. Apparently, it's only out earning a woman that keeps the woman from leaving to another person. That's not a healthy view on life, lol. And this is why I don't like money obsessed people. Everything, even what should be a sacred human relationship, is all rooted in money.

@angeliquemaez5569

4 ай бұрын

I agree, he had the best and sweetest answer!

@happilydivorced3235

4 ай бұрын

I loved him too and the next one after.

People don’t actually realize how much work being stay at home is kudos to the trader

@user-fz2yp1ig9w

4 ай бұрын

That one guy said ,” she brings home the stress from work , it’s not worth it “ Thank you , you are so right,!!

@dinajones2761

4 ай бұрын

Hopefully those kids don’t put their parents in a nursing home

@spacebar9733

3 ай бұрын

@@dinajones2761 their parents are well off so they will retire early and live freely until they pass. No retirement home necessary.

@VBoo459

3 ай бұрын

That doesn't mean anything at all. Many people put their parents in a care home when they start to suffer neurodisorders with age. So its not about "living freely", you need to wake up. I know wealthy people who were put in a care home because they were mentally aging (not their choice!) and in the end that was selfish of the children. SO, your response doesn't mean a thing.@@spacebar9733

@rose-yeah

3 ай бұрын

We know but we also know that danger of that .

Am I the only one who noticed a massive contrast in the energy of men saying they want their woman to work and the ones saying she should enjoy being a homemaker? The guys who wanted their woman to work and be a competent wife/mother/ homemaker seemed less confident, nervous smiling, shifting and fidgeting all of a sudden and avoiding eye contact but the men who appreciated their wives staying home had BOSS energy, full of quiet strength and confidence.

@FreedomofSpeech865

10 күн бұрын

I noticed that too!

@tianna1116

10 күн бұрын

Uh I didn’t notice that at all, they all seemed like nice men to me. If anything the first man gave me alpha energy and not in a good way but I am hesitant to judge from such a little clip

@user-fn6vm5tb8p

9 күн бұрын

@@tianna1116 We all see things differently, and just wanted to make the point that I’m not judging them as people. I’m merely looking at body language alone at those moments when specific questions are asked. Psychology and behavioural studies nerd here 😊

@tianna1116

9 күн бұрын

@@user-fn6vm5tb8p yea I feel you. That’s funny you said that, I study psychology too! I l graduate with my bachelors in 1 more year, currently preparing for grad school applications. Idk how I stumbled across this vid but I’ve never seen this channel before. Alas, psychology is everywhere

@Natttttttttt

7 күн бұрын

I noticed that it was a black guy, they mostly don’t have a good example of what a good family unit is due to the problems in the community, I mean look he didn’t even seem sure of his answer. Not attractive at all

I'm a stay-at-home wife of 2 and pregnant with #3. I worked to provide for myself for 6 years before I met my husband and stopped working when I got pregnant. I always wanted to stay home and care for the children and the home so I am living my dream. Bonus is that my husband cooks everyday!!! ❤

I'm a stay-at-home mom. My children attend a private college prep school and the vast majority of mothers are stay-at-home moms. We put so much into our children and homes so our husbands can work hard to provide.

@littlebeluga2537

4 ай бұрын

Your comment is backwards to me. I think your husband works hard to provide so you can put effort into your children and homes

@carolynwebb8726

4 ай бұрын

Mom's need to be with kids, we see what happens when mom don't have time for kids. Women need financial support and emotional support so finding a good guy is important if you go this route. Woman are better off not having a man's kids and house work to slave away and be broke when kids are grown and husband retires nicely or leave them for someone young and fresh. FT

@Yosoydom

4 ай бұрын

@@littlebeluga2537I agree. The sahm role is very important but it can’t be done without the man’s initiative to provide for his family.

@kfrb1

4 ай бұрын

​@@littlebeluga2537it's a partnership. These wives help their husband continue to progress. That is unspoken rule when these relationships are successful.

@She_lives_in_color

4 ай бұрын

@@littlebeluga2537no I think she meant what she said. She’s taking care of home and kids so he can go out and focus on working knowing that’s taken cared of

I'm a stay at home mother of 4. My husband works his butt off to provide for our family and I appreciate him SO much! I am so grateful that I can be here to raise and teach our children, cook and clean. There is no place I'd rather be.

@lindsey5365

4 ай бұрын

Ummm you suck

@terrycrews1760

4 ай бұрын

I’m so confused right now bc my wife has been a stay at home mom to our son for 2 years and she complains that I don’t help her out enough. She cooks once or twice a week and cleans occasionally making it seem like she can’t handle it then there’s other women here saying they do it all. I’m pissed and confused at the same time.

@HSHeart723

4 ай бұрын

@@terrycrews1760 Not every woman is right for being a SAHM. It is hard work and at times feels like an exhausting, thankless job. Managing about 100 people was actually easier for me, IMO(my career before children). But, I have always dreamed of being a SAHM and, I want my husband to be happy and feel his peace at home. Make sure you thank your wife for what she does do, that may encourage her to do more. And, if your child is young(1-3YO) those can be exhausting, trying, sleepless times for her. She may be in a season of life that she is struggling through and in those times, you need to give her grace. Being angry won't solve any issues, those you've got to talk through.

@HSHeart723

4 ай бұрын

@@terrycrews1760 Also, her priorities may be different then your expectations, so make sure you are on the same page. I homeschool 3 of our four children, 4-5 days a week. It usually takes me from 9am-2 or 3pm, I do get a small amount of house work done during the weekdays(mostly dishes and picking up) and Saturday is my cleaning day, bathrooms, floors, laundry, etc. I do cook at least 6 days a week, but I Really enjoy cooking! If I didn't, cooking would feel like a burden. It takes meal planning for me and a little time to put my lists together and make sure I have what I need. When our youngest was an infant, I was cooking about 3x/week as breastfeeding had me sitting more during those times. Every family's needs and expectations will be different. No body's wife can literally do it all, but some of us try really hard to!

@Hurtin_Albertan

4 ай бұрын

​@@HSHeart723I have six kids. Of course it can be exhausting. Being a parent requires you to be selfless and people want to be indulged and spoiled. Cooking and cleaning a handful of times a week is insanity. It is easier to be work than be a SAHM , but I didn't have children to farm them out for someone else to raise.

This is beautiful. I was a stay at home wife for 5 years with my late husband while we tried to start a family, when he unexpectedly passed away, I very easily re-entered the work force and was able to "fend for myself" for 10 years until I remarried. I am a working wife now, but my money is purely "my fun money" and can for sure say that staying home makes it easier to flow the feminine energy.

@crystalzacarias1829

3 ай бұрын

​@@williesullivan3985 are you honestly mocking a widow?

@KBMac-tu2mg

2 ай бұрын

Are you white ?

Yes yes yes 👏🏽 Masculinity needs to be earned, femininity needs to be protected! Where are these men at?

@forward_ever_ever2595

3 ай бұрын

Already taken by good women & today fastly leaving for women who have strong traditional values.....your country laws have created very "entitled minded" females

@stellaazubike5376

2 ай бұрын

They are taken..lol

@jdemille79

2 ай бұрын

Not on dating apps or at the clubs. We're working.

@jesusisking3814

2 ай бұрын

Jesus Christ wants a personal relationship with you through the Holy Spirit, not religion and blind faith. You see, we all have sinned and deserve punishment but God saved us from the eternal punishment of our sins by sending His Son Jesus Christ, fullness of God bodily, a perfect, sinless sacrifice to pay the penalty for our sins by shedding His blood on the cross. He died and rose from the dead so that we may have everlasting life. It is all finished and now for you to accept the free gift of grace you must believe from your heart in Jesus Christ, that He paid the price for your sins, that He is risen and alive. Don't trust in your own goodness but transfer your trust to Jesus and follow Him, get to know Him personally. By faith you will receive the Holy Spirit, become born again, know Jesus personally and He will transform your heart and clean you from the inside out. Believe in Him, read the Bible and pray for the Holy Spirit to fill you and change you, obey the Word. Much love and God bless you!

@SB-gq7fp

2 ай бұрын

@@jdemille79 you say "we" but im pretty sure none of those men bitterly comment on youtube videos. The first person is right. THOSE men are taken. You wouldn't be on the market long if you were genuinely that guy..and they're probbaly too preoccupied with their women/ families after work to be watching something like this on youtube lol

The most beautiful thing another person can give you is the gift of 'CHOICE'. I like the men who said that they didn't care, as long as she is happy-and actually meant it. Those are the men that I would make it my mission/business to keep happy.

@nate2759

4 ай бұрын

Yes, to me that is the right answer.

@Jkd_77

4 ай бұрын

Facts

@Neo-jty

4 ай бұрын

but keep in mind women will never give that gift of "choice" to men, so who ever could recive that gift from men should be greatful

@RJ12347

4 ай бұрын

Men should focus on their own happiness... God didn't put men on this earth to try and make women happy

@Akadolledup_

4 ай бұрын

Yes, I love this 🥰

I worked as a prominent lawyer for 16 years before becoming a full-time SAHM. I initially worked part-time after our children were born but both my husband (also a lawyer) and I could see the value of my staying at home to raise our young family. Every jurisdiction I'm aware of places a high monetary value on the non-monetary contributions of SAHM in family court proceedings so as long as a woman is educated or skilled and can re-enter the work force at a later stage if need be/things go bad/she wants to, it's not problematic. The only people who have a problem with SAHMs are men who can't provide sufficiently for their families or women who are jealous. Of course the role of an SAHM is desired, valuable and critically important. Great interview question.

@BoyMama87

4 ай бұрын

Love your comment and insight!!! I'm also an educated SAHM. Just wanted to add that staying home is a temporary thing for most moms. Eventually, they grow up and leave. Then I have plenty of years to work outside the house more. But we don't get these years back with our kids that are so critical in their development.

@LilPoopsie

4 ай бұрын

I don't think I could ever be a stay at home mom. I already hate cleaning, I don't want to have to clean up after more than just myself. I would literally rather go to work everyday 😂 I'm tired of women being "expected" to want to be around their kids 24/7 or else they're "bad mothers".. I don't even have kids yet and thinking about it makes me want a break already. I told my bf I'm not gonna be a sahm and I will have some kind of job outside the house. He's fine with it.

@user-mf9hx9qd7f

4 ай бұрын

@@BoyMama87 I love your comment and insight too! So many have expressed shock that I've "abandoned" my career but I don't see it that way. This is just a new chapter during a new season. I also don't feel it's a "sacrifice" of my career because, as you've pointed out, there are many years later to return to that. I'll add that I've had many career highlights and now I want to focus on enjoying family highlights! One thing is for sure, the years with our little ones are so quick, it's kind of scary!

@user-mf9hx9qd7f

4 ай бұрын

@@LilPoopsie 🤣 I understand about the cleaning and needing a break. When I was working part-time with my first born, work felt like a holiday even though I had a demanding career. However, even if you're both working, there will still be a lot of cleaning after the kids for you both. And cleaning is just a small part of raising children. It's intense! But also the best thing that'll ever happen to you. I don't believe you're "expected" to be an SAHM at all, if anything it's counter-cultural these days. Like everything else in life, it's a choice. And there shouldn't be any judgement either way.

@shea5542

4 ай бұрын

Great response

“Masculinity has to be earned and femininity has to be protected and preserved”. A REAL man!☝🏼

My dad opened his own business making over a million dollars a year by the time he was 34. He went to college but never used his degree. He was a water well driller working for his parents, he branched off and opened his own. It was back breaking work and I knew we grew up wealthy however I wasn’t aware just how wealthy we were until I was old enough to help with taxes. I was blown away by the numbers I was looking at. Seeing how much my parents were making made me want the same for myself as an adult so I asked him is there any advise for my own future career/business ventures. He said to follow your passions but if you want to make money money then to get into something (start for someone else and open your own) with things people need, not want. Things people need such as water, food, housing etc. best advice he ever gave me.

@socialservice576

6 күн бұрын

Thank you for sharing.

I really like the guy early in the video who talks about how grateful he is that his wife stayed at home with the kids and made a sacrifice. What a gentleman. He saw it for what it was. I’m sure she’s also grateful but I love hearing his perspective. He acknowledges that that was a sacrifice on her part.

@Trseay

4 ай бұрын

Same❤

@leveragelunchbreaklive

4 ай бұрын

It is a sacrifice and SAHM is truly challenging as well!

@mikesolns1364

4 ай бұрын

It's not a sacrifice. It's part of what she brings to the table

@sunnyrays2281

4 ай бұрын

@@mikesolns1364 agreed, it is part of what she brings to the table. I say sacrifice to represent the fact that women who could often have very successful/high earning careers often choose raising a family. It is a trade off. When a woman gives up the chance to make her own money, it is a sacrifice. In some cases, she stops being her own person in the eyes of the world and just becomes the wife of the person who makes the money. Women are obviously so much more than just “somebody’s wife.” I think a lot of women give up so much to stay at home. To me, it is admirable and I also feel like it’s very important for a healthy society to have a parent at home when kids are in the house. With that being said, staying at home is a luxury for most. It can be achieved for some families with very careful budgeting and choices on lifestyle/location for living, but in general, it is certainly a privilege to get to have only one parent working outside the home.

@zerotolerance2026

4 ай бұрын

⁠@@mikesolns1364 Your comment is the main reason women initiate divorce 80 -90% of the time. Men see what the man does for the family as a sacrifice, but what the woman does isn’t. Pathetic.

Love the first guy (the contractor/builder). He had it all together including his business, family, health, etc. We need more men in this country to think similar to him and build strong families and have strong character.

@bcollins745

4 ай бұрын

He was also highly insecure.

@jasmineestafia

4 ай бұрын

Amen! My sentiments exactly! We need more like him

@viviennedunbar3374

4 ай бұрын

@@bcollins745well for a highly insecure man he is fine and very masculine.

@nattypatty3667

4 ай бұрын

Why does everybody say we need better men but nobody says we need better women when 75% of women are overweight, have 8 sexual partners and earn 45k in their prime working years. Sounds like we need a lot more better women too.

@myronbourne6937

4 ай бұрын

@@bcollins745 cope

Love everything they said was very mature and wise. It wasn't selfish or rude. They didn't view their wives as beneath them, they viewed their wives as their partners. ❤

Dang, I admire my mom. She was not a stay at home mom like ever. Dad had a very demanding job often traveling all over so she not only worked, she picked us up from school, cooked, clean… dad did not do anything domestic whenever he was home..mom was present, nurturing and literally did it all. Now both are retired (retired early) and in their mid 70s with more energy than any young person I know. We had nanny’s but after work my mom was pretty on it with us. She is AMAZING. Not knocking down any SAHM but I am just realizing just how much my mom did. My dad wanted my mom to stay at home, but she chose to do both. I love my mom.

@sophien5416

2 ай бұрын

Your mom sounds awesome and your sense of gratitude for mom is wonderful. I think the challenge is when women don't have the privilege of choice. My mother was always a working mom but had no energy for domestic duties nor was emotionally supportive of her children. I had to step into the mother role at a young age for my siblings. No matter is a woman works, it's clear that a woman who is supportive in general plays an important role in the family.

@alm8bob

Ай бұрын

I have hope. I wish my kid will see this when he grows up. Thank you for this comment. You have no idea how this has helped me ❤

@jasmineali5699

2 сағат бұрын

Great you appreciate her but it sounds exhausting as a woman. Maybe if I never had to worry about bills and my husband was an amazing and supportive lover.

Business owners said they prefer stay at home wife or whatever she wants. Employee said he needs help, she should work. Interesting 🤔

@Victoria-ox4dc

4 ай бұрын

Cool 😊

@ME-js5hd

4 ай бұрын

Good observation!

@DwainWilsonJr

4 ай бұрын

How is that a interesting. It's no secret that that's how life works... that's why there's classes... trouble with these days, nobody wants to accept and be content where they are anymore... it's all about reaching until you get to the sky... well what if you just simply not meant for that

@user-vd2ph7rg9f

4 ай бұрын

Bc employees don't understand "investing." A good wife is a high value investment. Mind you, I said a "good wife." Studies have shown men with a stay at home wife out earn men without one with the same exact qualifications. Having someone take care of your daily needs, so you can focus on work is a high value asset to have. Not to mention the constant emotional and physical support. It's priceless, really. 🙏

@kwilson4125

4 ай бұрын

@user-vd2ph7rg9f Well said. People are resistant to learning new concepts. They want to reap the benefits of what other people are doing but they aren’t willing to try the things that those people do that contribute to their success . If you emulate successful people, you become more successful. Stubborn people stay stuck.

I was a stay at home wife for 12 years. My advice for all women make some sort of income. Don't give up on your passions. You don't know what the future holds. I didn't believe in divorce. Now I am divorced and left with nothing. Back to square one with 3 kids. If you are a stay at home mom and people tell you don't go back to school, don't do this or that don't listen just do it for yourself and your family. I know some women don't need this advice and have a great relationship or whatever. You just have to be smart and think about the what if's. I didn't think about the what if's. Actually I did think of the what if's I just didn't take head to my intuition and go after what was going to help me in the future. Anyway, hope the best to everyone. XOXO

@msadventure49

4 ай бұрын

You have a great point. And, not only divorce, but, what if the husband dies? You need the other skills in that case also. Make sure he has life insurance, too.

@kittykattmcgee6375

4 ай бұрын

@@msadventure49 I agree 💯!

@marriejames01

4 ай бұрын

My friend was a stay at home wife for 10 yrs. Now she’s divorced and living off welfare. Her husband was in the housing market and hasn’t been much of an income to pay any support. She’s working temp when she can to build up her resume.

@MsFirletka

4 ай бұрын

@@msadventure49 U're right!! 👏

@mk_waterfalls3470

4 ай бұрын

Agreed, risk management thinking is necessary for contingency planning in life. Own your wealth and assets- leave more time for love, family and aspirations!

Femininity does not mean laziness and dependency. A woman’s work does not mean that her husband will not provide for her. A woman is a human being with a mind and ambition that she seeks to achieve, just as you have dreams and goals ( maybe she want to be a doctore , or A lawyer, or a businesswoman... and all of this does not prevent you from being the provider or protecting her. She does not have to be of a lower degree in order for you to feel that you are complete.) , and you must support her just as she supports you. Also, raising children is the responsibility of the mother and father together.

I wasn't financial free until my 40’s and I’m still in my 40’s, bought my third house already, earn on a monthly through passive income, and got 4 out of 5 goals, just hope it encourages someone's that it doesn’t matter if you don’t have any of them right now, you can start TODAY regardless your age INVEST and change your future! Investing in the financial market is a grand choice I made.

@CharlesWalker-jb1yl

3 ай бұрын

yeah investment is the key to sustaining your financial longevity but venturing into any legitimate Investment without a proper guidance of an expert can lead to a great loss too

@Dukaamoses

3 ай бұрын

wanted to trade, but I got discouraged with the market price fluctuations

@Dukaamoses

3 ай бұрын

Can you recommend a guide for me?

@JephthaRamsey

3 ай бұрын

Haven't you heard of Expert Chrissy Barymoer ?

@adakkristinn

3 ай бұрын

I would highly recommend Professional Chrissy Barymoer

My father was a truck driver, we weren’t rich growing up, but he never wanted my mother to work. He said if a man can’t provide for his family, he’s not a real man. He just wanted a nice clean house, a hot meal and fresh clothes. He worked very hard to make sure we had what we needed.

@MamaBulgaria

3 ай бұрын

amen

@lazvegaz

3 ай бұрын

Your story got me teary-eyed

@spolch9482

3 ай бұрын

He wanted a slave.

@xmochix604

2 ай бұрын

@@spolch9482look at this broke joke. Probably gonna get married and make his wife work her ass off to support this loser

@1user-2023

2 ай бұрын

😂lol damn bro ​@@spolch9482

My husband asked me to leave my job to be a full time house wife. I gladly said yes. I LOVE to serve my husband and family. I LOVE being his helpmate in this life. ❤

@dorino9057

4 ай бұрын

To each their own

@HH-kg4fq

4 ай бұрын

That is because he makes it EASY for you. Real men who are truly capable will make it EASY for the woman to say yes.

@sweetness_k

4 ай бұрын

I love it gud for you!

@AnnM0824

4 ай бұрын

That’s wonderful! May I ask, was it difficult for you to leave your job? At least in the beginning? My wonderful husband lovingly offered for me to quit my job a few years ago, but I have a fear that ppl would either shame or judge me… haven’t been able to make the jump.

@Fitmom312

4 ай бұрын

@@AnnM0824You should do it if you want to! It's your life, not theirs. :)

As a women, it's not always about "getting my own money". Although money is an important part but alot of times, these talented women are just too passionate and so much in love with what they do.

@xmochix604

2 ай бұрын

Agree. Their identity is wrapped in their career. No thanks. When you get older you realize family is everything

As a woman, it’s a lot less stressful to work a job than it is to be a stay at home mom. These men know this. I’d rather have a job and take care of myself. Just like these men do.

@dinajones2761

4 ай бұрын

I hate working… I’d rather be home with my dogs

@nottoday7801

4 ай бұрын

​@@dinajones2761 dogs are easy to take care of, kids are a whole nother level 😂

@alvinjenson3320

4 ай бұрын

Being a mom while working is harder than being a stay at home mom

@meganr9280

4 ай бұрын

@@nottoday7801dogs are easy to care for? They stink and they make a mess. I would rather be with my boys. They at least have grown out of the making a mess stage.

@FreeBirdee

4 ай бұрын

Facts!! My job is a sit down 8hr a day thinking job. 6 figure, ample time off, unlimited sick, pension, 401k, etc. Once the work day is over I can close my PC and go on with my day if I choose. This is not the case as a stay at home mother..it is a 24/7, 365, no days off job…smelling poop, piss, vomit, dealing with sickness, tantrums and a host of other problems as the children grow. Women definitely have been bamboozled.😂😂

We need more men in this world like the first guy. Wow. "masculinity has to be earned and femininity needs to be protected." Well said.

Im an RN, recently divorced. I just had this conversation last night (literally not even 24hrs ago) with a group of other professional women who basically shamed me for saying I would give up my career as a nurse if my new man wants me to when I meet him. This group of "energetically masculine" beautiful women, literally shamed me for saying I'm okay with my job being the feminine nuturer and allowing him to lead. I was going back and forth about that conversation this morning and VOILA! I magically manifest this channel I never seen on my feed before, with a video discussing the very topic! Thank you thank you thank you for the synchronicity and the confirmation! I am deeply grateful 🙏 ❤

@joelrojas1236

4 ай бұрын

The law of attraction

@lakeishagraham753

4 ай бұрын

I'm a registered nurse too and will be leaving my job next year when I get married.

@chrisharris2367

4 ай бұрын

it's not something that is typical in this society and there's alot of risk with quitting your job marriage is also not what it used to be, and I think that's why they are saying that unfortunately most women get more faithfulness and consistency from their job than their husband I also know what you are going through; I am going through something similar at this point I'm trying to figure out how to be my own bob the builder and build my own bag I hope you find that good provider man though; I believe black women deserve to be taken care of just like every other race of women

@themiseducationoftheameric7407

4 ай бұрын

Surround yourself with other women who "ARE" who you want to become, or "WANT" to become what it is your looking to be in the future. Surround yourself with other feminine woman, and you'll get scooped up quick! But you gotta leave certain people behind and leave certain people alone.

@PageTurnerr__

4 ай бұрын

Your phone listens to your conversations, that’s why this video popped up in your feed. All mighty KZread algo is always listening

I had an entire career before I came home to raise my children. My babies were born when I was 37 and 40 - and I left my RN career without hesitation. Raising my children, and being a homemaker, is not easy. It’s hard work. So I really liked that second man who said “if she doesn’t do a good job at home, put her out to work”.

I’ve never seen your videos before, but I really liked this one. I love the fact that these ladies with the support of their husbands are able to put their families first and still have options. After the kids grow, there’s still time for you to pick up where you left off or keep working at it. Kids grow too fast and if you’re able to take care of them yourself, do it because you’ll never regret it!

I have been a stay at home wife and mom for many years. It benefits our whole family and I enjoy it so much. I have a college degree and am a linguist, but my true joy is in making our home a soft place to fall. We have budgeted carefully and made sacrifices and it has paid off well.

@alanakasem1723

4 ай бұрын

i like that 'a soft place to fall'...i can visualise your home is so welcoming for your family

@dtor2048

4 ай бұрын

who can deny when you are "Team Family" your totally there to serve the family and make life better. I think a good wife is "more valuable than rubies"!

@Leathergirl76

4 ай бұрын

Not to be argumentative, but why were you the one who had to sacrifice your career? Not saying there is anything wrong with being a SAHM but your degree and skillset are nothing to sneeze at why walk away from it?

@ykk239

4 ай бұрын

@@Leathergirl76 that's a great question. I worked in corporate America for a few years, but was so excited to be a full time mom and wife after I had children. To be honest, I had always dreamed of being a homemaker but also loved studying languages and studying abroad. It worked well that my husband supported my hopes and it was a marriage of like ideals. My children have done very well in school as I enjoy encouraging them academically. Using my affinity for creative outlets has been so fulfilling in my home. I hope that you have a wonderful weekend and I appreciate the question.

@Leathergirl76

4 ай бұрын

@@ykk239 Thank you for answering so thoughtfully. It’s really refreshing to see things from this perspective

Best thing ive heard this month so far: "Masculinity has to be earned & femininity has to be protected & preserved" Its classic

Interesting and as a woman that has a college degree and is a stay at home mom even after divorce when ex moved and remarried after I became sick..I think it’s reckless to not have a career when married because it can set you up for hardship and the divorce rate shows how loyal humans are so it has made me stronger and once I’m able a job is in my sight but it has been hard with so many problems as I have no support yet we have 50/50 parenting and no extra financial support and he worked for my father and made bang so I say DON’T ever relia on another human being! Class is gone!

@ecclairmayo4153

3 ай бұрын

Exactly. Its a lesson I wish women would learn nowadays. It's seems our thinking is going backwards on this subject. I hope your situation gets better. You are doing so well already.❤

This video gave me hope. It’s the opposite of social media complaining and calling women with anything beyond minimal expectations gold diggers

@PerrisN

2 ай бұрын

Exactly it’s so contradictory.. they want traditional women & if the woman wants that too they get accused of being gold diggers? I think those men secretly want the woman to work bc they can’t afford it which is fine but they don’t want to admit it. But they cannot expect home cooked meals & the perks of a stay at home wife bc they simply don’t have one.

It seemed like there was a common theme where you heard the men that made enough money to support the family by themselves prefer their women to stay home while the children were being raised. Then after the children were old enough to do their own thing mom could pick a career that she always wanted to do. This seems like a very good plan

@sammygotham

4 ай бұрын

Perfect

@jules8910

4 ай бұрын

I agree. However, one of the first steps in taking down a country is to destroy the family, so as they caused the cost of living to raise, more taxing, the oncoming of the early “women’s movement”, combined with our growth in materialism, the average couple needed a 2 income home and women didn’t have a choice. It’s refreshing to find these attitudes, but as noted, these are wealthy men.

@Biscuitflipper

4 ай бұрын

@@jules8910 yeah well now we're starting to get into the realm of all the ideological subversion that they started implicating on the people around World War 2. I believe one of the first pieces of propaganda that they put out like that was the old World War 2 poster of the woman wearing the bandana where she was flexing her muscle. That was about the time they started pushing the angle of getting women to go to work. That being compounded with the devaluation of our money makes for a challenging situation. I was actually watching a video about an old Pontiac concept car that never made it to production. One of the things that I noticed in the video that threw me off and was distracting me for the rest of the video was, at about two minutes into the video they talked about how in 1956, Pontiac brought in some new faces to reinvent the brand and they started competing in NASCAR and other things like that. Well one of the people that they hired got hired at an impressive $16,000 salary, which they said today in 2023 would be equivalent to $180,000. So back in 1956 the average man with a career like that could afford to pay for a home in full within three to five years. // Here is the video about the car if you wanted to look at it: kzread.info/dash/bejne/h4Fqp4-kncywk6w.html

@sarahp.3772

4 ай бұрын

True, but by the time the kids are grown, the mom will be most likely too old to start a new job with no experience.

@spacebar9733

3 ай бұрын

@@sarahp.3772 that’s your own limiting belief and it’s just not true. Especially because the husband has great connections.

In my opinion, a housing market crash is imminent due to the high number of individuals who purchased homes above the asking price despite the low interest rates. These buyers find themselves in precarious situations as housing prices decline, leaving them without any equity. If they become unable to afford their homes, foreclosure becomes a likely outcome. Even attempting to sell would not yield any profits. This scenario is expected to impact a significant number of people, particularly in light of the anticipated surge in layoffs and the rapid increase in the cost of living..

@tomaszcz_k

4 ай бұрын

A recession as bad as it can be, provides good buying opportunities in the markets if you're careful and it can also create volatility giving great short-time buy and sell opportunities too. This is not financial advice but get buying, cash isn't king at all at this time..

@WiolciaMrozowska531

4 ай бұрын

Many ppl are choosing AMZN as their "Stock of the yr" I agree it has a chance to be. But my question is what stocks can be the next APPL in terms of growth for the next decade? I have $250k ready money to invest for long term gains, and my goal is to retire comfortably rich.

@AnnaFed015

4 ай бұрын

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@AcaradaRiquezaHUB

4 ай бұрын

John Desmond Heppolette truly appears to be knowledgeable in this field. After conducting a Google search of his full names, I thoroughly reviewed his web page, including his resume, and qualifications, which were truly impressive. I took the initiative to leave him a note and have booked a call session with him....

@Windarti30

4 ай бұрын

Sir John Desmond Heppolette's approach is crucial for succeeding in online commerce. His management group has been exceptionally effective. I also love his KZread page.

Such a great video! Let’s bring back the traditional qualities! As a woman I’m happy either way too but let’s normalise it being ok to be home with the kids and household duties 💜 there is just something so special about it

One thing I noticed is that the men all seem to be in relative good shape even though they’re older. Thats a great sign.

As a SAHM who lives in San Diego CA most men here would prefer to have their women stay at home to care for the kids and house. Hubby is an engineer and even though I have an education as well we chose to go this path, we wanted to raise our 6 kiddos in a positive environment and without strangers.

@lindas.7083

4 ай бұрын

Good for you! Your kids are better off for it.

@missede96

4 ай бұрын

Wonderful!

@_briesofia

4 ай бұрын

You’re living my dream lol

@desdior1207

4 ай бұрын

I always wanted to move to San Diego

@lindaramirez9370

4 ай бұрын

You're blessed!

I was a substitute teacher for a few years loved working with the kids but the politics sucked. Decided to stay home until our youngest went off to College but researched and invested in Real Estate. Our forever home in a great neighborhood was foreclosed on. We paid a little over 400k for it and it peaked at $1.2 million. We also invested in a home at the beach that has more than doubled in price in 5 years. Also Invested in crypto early. Have been a Stay at home wife for years now. Have hired professionals for our two homes and done a fair amount of work myself like painting rooms, sanding, staining floors and replacing light fixtures. I’m now CEO of our non profit that helps houseless populations in our city-on the ground and out in the highways and byways.

@pauljohn6017

4 ай бұрын

toxic feminism will destroy the west. Make your woman stay home.

@Victoria-ox4dc

4 ай бұрын

Wow 😲

@ladybug3380

4 ай бұрын

How did you start your non profit. I have an idea for one but idk where to start.

@candyluna2929

4 ай бұрын

That's a biblical woman right there she seeks to enrich and enlarge that of her family. So while your husband was working you were also learning and bettered what you could. I love this! I admire you.

@bossladymsp2885

4 ай бұрын

Congratulations! This is a truly inspiring post!

A narcissist will try to wil control his wife through finances (along with other things) control where you go, your education ect I know several who weren't "allowed" to have a phone because wealthy hubby paid the bills, and if they needed to make a call, they had to "ask" hubby to "borrow" his phone, and answer WHO they are calling, and why. Having to BEG to join a gym 🙄🙄 "no, I rather you not go to a gym, you can ride a stationary bike at home, I'll buy you one" You need a new pair of shoes? You say those hurt your feet? Hmmm, I'll take you shopping, I'll decide which shoes you'll wear because I'm buying " That will be a hell no for me. My depressed unemployed wealthy friends are treated like children. Hell no, hell no, hell no.

Here is a big difference between living in USA and Europe. In Europe, we dont stay at home. We go to work every day, we cook every day, clean house/appartment... THAT IS NORMAL in our country and NOT staying at home (expect if you are ill or you can not find a job...)

Heidi is a lucky lady and he is the man everyone should emulate. Total respect to that family.

@klopcodez

4 ай бұрын

She’s not lucky she earned it..they met when both had no money

@viviennedunbar3374

4 ай бұрын

@@klopcodezthat’s true. We have been happily married for 27 years and got married 12 months after meeting when we were in our 20s. I have a degree but was happy to be a SAHM as my husband’s job was very demanding and I didn’t want our kids to never see us if we were both working. They never went to daycare. When they were teens I went back to school and am now a Master Esthetician. Where I work our straightforward facial is $350 and services add up from there. Men may be unaware but even young girls in wealthy areas doing waxing are making over $100k a year. As they can do a waxing service in 15 minutes and make $100 and up for that 15 minutes. There is a lot of money in the beauty industry, I am surprised he doesn’t speak to more female entrepreneurs in that area, because I am sure there are a lot of businesses catering to 50% of the population (women) who are making incredible amounts under the (male) radar. I make a lot of money and I choose to work part-time.

@DistractedDaisy

4 ай бұрын

@@klopcodez 39 people didn’t think this was negative and i didn’t mean it negatively!!!!! But you are very correct! That’s your point right! Plus yes she is lucky she met a good man… so many meet the wrong man! As a matter of fact he’s lucky too!

@DistractedDaisy

4 ай бұрын

@@klopcodez and yes she is lucky and so is he! They each could have met a negative Nelly!

@klopcodez

4 ай бұрын

@@DistractedDaisy There is no luck here these folks are blessed who have worked hard. The fact they met when they had nothing shows you that this was a true relationships based on genuine intentions with that being said she earned it and so has he…But life could have turned in a different way as well and they wouldn’t have much money but they would probably be still together even without money and that’s a genuine relationship

My mom stayed at home and my father did really well financially but when we grew up he encouraged her to find hobbies and do things so she would be happier. He was the best father and I’m really lucky I also found a man who is successful and provides a good life so I can stay at home with our children. You really should try to show your children what to look for by living the life you want them to get themselves.

@empresszoe9351

3 ай бұрын

Your dad sounds like a great guy. He actually cared about your mom's happiness as it should be when you love and appreciate someone.

@katehudson6490

6 күн бұрын

So true!

As a person who comes from a family of successful matriarchs and men it depends. It depends on where you are at when you find your partner and your inherent values. For instance it was modeled by the women in my life to seek higher education (masters and doctoral programs) and find worthwhile industries to contribute to. It’s created abundance for my aunts and my own mother. They live freely and are able to live well without depending on anyone but themselves. What their partners bring in, adds to the overall communal wealth of their family but is not the sole source of income. Everyone’s experience is different. It just comes down to what an individual feels their purpose is in this world regardless of gender and social norms. If a person is compelled to make a difference working in their chosen field let them. Find a may to make it work. Great kids can still be raised with two working parents who are passionate about their callings. 😌

I love when SnewJ cuts through the ambiguous statements like "You have to have passion." HOW DID YOU DO IT!

Pay attention on this girls! The guy who said he wants a women who makes money too because nowadays if you want to enjoy life you need two incomes. He obviously don’t make enough for his women to stay at home, and he didn’t talk about children just about enjoying the good things of life. The truth is, broke men who don’t see as his responsibility to provide for a family, an probably don’t even want kids, those are the ones who want the girl bosses. What kind of men do you want? All the other guys who had children and made good money prefer women to stay home or to have a flexible job. I like the one who talked about the stress that it brings to the relationship when both work full time. Those men also want a women who have time to take care of themselves, physically and emotionally.

@ms.b9555

4 ай бұрын

Yes unfortunately a lot of black men have this mentality. Hence the rise of so many of us black women and others who choose to date them having the mindset of independence. It's nice to be able to rest in your feminine sometimes.

@Empathy_17

4 ай бұрын

😂😂😂women and their obsession to call men broke when they are the ones advertising themselves to get someone to fund their lifestyle. As a woman it’s your responsibility to work and contribute something tangible in your home not just be an expense

@thetoughgroup

4 ай бұрын

​@@Empathy_17Facts. I encourage my stay at home wife to develop a business based on her skillset. I look forward to enjoying the success with her 😄🥂 Contributing to the family finances and investments doesn't automatically mean a 9 to 5 on the clock job. It's about building and growing legacy. It's chess not checkers.

@mayataylor5743

4 ай бұрын

Making 200k and he is broke. The Delulu . 200k is plenty but maybe not a fancy like with kids

@mahabilal3222

4 ай бұрын

The men who want SAHMs are also in the top 1% of earners.. the system is designed to grow the gap between the wealthy and poor. nowadays even $200k isn’t enough to provide for a whole family, even though it’s a salary that most Americans would never see. doesn’t mean he’s broke.

I used to work in office, then resigned after getting married.. I have been blessed with a wonderful husband.. been married for 14 years more to come.. love being a stay home wife and mom.. Yes I do love cooking, baking, sewing.. I cook healthy delicious food for my husband and kids.. We live happily and comfortably .. I'm so grateful for my husband.

@thetoughgroup

4 ай бұрын

Love you, from husbands worldwide 😊

The first guy: THAT'S a man who has deconstructed patriarchy and knows how to keep a relationship in check! Kudos to you!

I've been stay at home for 14 years after having my first baby, now after inflation has done a number on our family's financial security I took a weekend job and we put my whole paycheck as small as it is into debt payments.

My mother was a-stay-at-home wife. My father was not rich, lower middle class, but still they both liked it that way. He loved the idea of his beautiful wife waiting on him to come home. When he came home, he wanted the appartement clean and dinner on the table. She was excellent in this. She was a shy and hypersensitive person who never fully overcame severe childhood trauma. She benefitted from his will to provide and protect her.

@katherine777

2 ай бұрын

Beautiful ❤

@2cswaeka

2 ай бұрын

❤

@YataWellness

25 күн бұрын

😩🥹🥹🫶🏽

I’m a wife, and stay at home mom. My husband is the head of our household and it’s never going to change as long as we are still living.

@IrisP989

4 ай бұрын

Would you become a part time working from home stay at home mom? We are in a very expensive area and everything is getting more expensive so I think that I should get a part time job in order to bring some income when the kids go to school. I would still be there for the kids.

@Kingrjelix

4 ай бұрын

@@IrisP989yeah get the job me personally I wouldn’t want a lazy wife😂(disclaimer not calling you lazy)but also you gotta think about it like this what would you be doing if you didn’t have a husband to survive?

@IrisP989

4 ай бұрын

In that case, I would not have had small kids to take care of (so not lazy and not just sitting around relaxing haha) and would have had a full time job in my country. Regardless, I wouldn’t be surviving. I would be just working and living my life.

@faerydae29

13 күн бұрын

Until he divorces you and you’re out in the street

My man said “am I going to prison?” 👀😂

I'm a stay at home mom and my husband works. I can tell you that we both WORK hard. I'm home with the children, 24/7 it does not end. Day and night, work. My husband works hard too but its different. He loves I'm at home, taking care of our kids, making sure I'm there when they are sick, there to take and pick up from school, incorporating our values in our children. You can not put a price on those things. We gladly sacrifice income to gice our children what matters most. I think having a parent at home is a wonderful balance that goes a very long way.

Update: The general consensus is that high net worth men ($1M+) prefer stay at home mothers. Lower net worth men prefer a woman with a stable career. There are exceptions to every rule, for example religious or cultural ones, where men are traditionally the workers/breadwinners for the family and the mothers are the home makers, and rear the children up or (homeschooling). The other exception would be the age of the couple, and/or if they do not have any children yet.

@mizzmolly7649

4 ай бұрын

As long as the family isn't struggling to make ends meet, which creates stress in the home.

@dustinryan9671

4 ай бұрын

I make under $500k a year my wife has always been home.

@dustinryan9671

4 ай бұрын

​@@mizzmolly7649it's the mans responsibility to take care of the money no matter what that is our burden to bare.

@mizzmolly7649

4 ай бұрын

@@dustinryan9671 He said net worth, not income. Theoretically, you could make just 45k and still have a net worth of 500k, depending on how you've invested.

@klopcodez

4 ай бұрын

Only about 1% of people make 400k and if we get to 1million that’s like 0.0010% of the population…you must live under a rock to not call 200k a year plus high net worth

Guess what, a stay at home wife relies entirely on her husband for anything. Her phone subscription, her car, her clothes. She needs his money for everything, even the most basic needs. Try to get away from an abusive partner when you don’t own anything on your name and don’t even have an individual bank account that your spouse doesn’t have access to. Off course stay at home wives are a convenient asset to rich men but from a woman’s perspective it’s a huge risk and if a relationship turns bad (cheating, abuse etc), these women turn a blind eye and keep up with the bad situation because they practically cannot leave (and the husband knows it). The first man in the video even said it out loud in full honesty. For some this constellation works well and I don’t want to generally condemn it, but it also puts women in a very vulnerable spot …. It depends I guess.

@leveragelunchbreaklive

4 ай бұрын

This makes a GREAT case for why marriage has to be ordained by the one that created it. All the what ifs in your passage clearly highlight why it would be a sacrifice for a woman to be a SAHW or SAHM. It requires trust in the one(s) you consider yourself accountable to. I am accountable to God, furthermore my husband would also have to be as well. In the best world, we would both have a mutual circle of "accountability partners" in our faith that would be able to "check" us (in a healthy way) so that the chances of abuse and manipulation are drastically reduced or all together eliminated. SAHW or SAHM does not equate non income earner, it more than often means that you report to "work" from home. Albeit investor, content creator, author, etc, in ADDITION to house duty (if the woman so chooses). Most importantly, one must understand who originated marriage (meaning WHO originated the first marriage EVER) because that same being must be forever centered in ALL marital decisions. Don't we always consult the MANUFACTURER when our materials malfunction??!! Why aren't more marriages accountable to the MANUFACTURER? Faith and Sacrifice is a MUST!!! I agree with men who understand God's order for a home. Blessings y'all!

@IrisP989

4 ай бұрын

That is messed up. A stay at home mom should definitely be on the home’s title and have a back account with money that the husband transfers into (if it’s financially possible of course).

@Fitmom312

4 ай бұрын

Do you think a man would want his wife to stay with him because she's forced to? I think by and large they'd prefer a willing participant. I understand why women are concerned, but it doesn't make sense to me that women should settle for their plan B (working and being more masculine/not letting a man lead) because plan A (being a SAHM/wife) is too risky. If you're concerned, you can always set yourself up in your VERY early 20s to have a career to fall back on, but women are most desirable to men around age 22 so it makes sense to be looking for a husband around that time and not focusing on career.

@Foomanlol

4 ай бұрын

It's not black and white. Lots of stay at home mom's had prior high paid jobs they gave up to be stay at home mom's. They still have skills and can get back to work if need be. They are still entitled to alimony. When a man marries a women and he has his children he is also making a huge risk. That woman can break his life into pieces and destroy things that money can't repair.

@ItsWhoIAmItsHowILive

4 ай бұрын

@@Foomanlolactually that’s not true. In my field, if you been out for a minute we can tell. Man or woman, they’re usually a train wreck.

It’s a happier life for the family when the woman stays home and works no more than part-time. I like all the honesty by these men. My working professional mom friends were the most stressed out, and developed health problems. Yay for Fashion Island.

That 3rd guy saying she can be a teacher and then saying she should have a “non-stressful” job?? Lol😂 He’s living at least 15-20 years in the past … teachers be living with SO much stress nowadays. And it’s not the kind of job where you can just come home and “leave work at work” 🤦🏻‍♀️

As someone who earned over $300k before I retired…I prefer a stay at home woman. This allowed me to be 100% at work allowing me to always be at the top of my game. I never had to worry about the daily domestic issues.

@minervarose7664

3 ай бұрын

As a successful career woman who enjoys her job and earns a pretty good salary, i also may consider staying back home sometime in the future. Not completely giving up my income but doing freelance work, for instance. But if me being home was a reason for my husband to be "100% at work" and "never worry about daily domestic duties" (which is a very real possibility i suppose) then i would feel isolated, alienated and ultimately, resentful. I'd much rather have a participative spouse than one who is just throwing his money at me and expecting me to be happy about it. If it was a case of money, i'd much rather be alone because i have no issue earning my own money. That's just me, of course.

@buildingbuildercip8292

3 ай бұрын

@@minervarose7664 I can understand that. My x wife was and still is a career woman, and that works for her too. My girlfriend is the total opposite and was willing to happily leave her career, to care for the house, raise her young son and thank god…she is super traditional and a great cook. We now spend the majority of time together, and really are the best of friends. I am really grateful for having a woman like her. These are definitely the happiest days of our lives. Money is definitely important, but having a traditional woman is what makes every day that much brighter. I may not marry her, but she is definitely in my living trust and will.

@claudiaring8934

3 ай бұрын

As someone who earns like that now I can be 100% at work and share household duties with my man who also runs his own business. I never need him to take care of everything to be at the top of my game and neither does he

The 2nd guy being cut off 😂

@sunshinedoesit8272

4 ай бұрын

😂😂 I laughed about that too 🤣

@CWalthallBrand

4 ай бұрын

I bet dude went on a tangent😆😆😆

@ddfelder2

4 ай бұрын

@@CWalthallBrandyou know he did 😂😂😂😂😂

@sovka8394

4 ай бұрын

he ain’t wrong. if she’s pretty and she can cook. DEAL SEALED!

@Yangmang

4 ай бұрын

He was going on the right direction though

Respect to the guy in the neon shirt who respects women either way and seems way more supportive of them having careers- and the men after that.

Love the answers they gave. Seems like they have the appreciation and respect for their women and the sacrifices they made to stay home and raise their kids.

Currently my husband makes way less than these guys but he totally supported my decision to stay at home when we had children. I work from home part time, but I know that my husband absolutely doesn't mind fully supporting his family❤

@dakiller5957

3 ай бұрын

What does he do for a living

@kimclark399

3 ай бұрын

Something to think about is when we first had kids my husband barely made enough to make it work for me to stay home. Over time, because he was able to focus on his job w/o distractions and stay late/go in early, etc. because I was always with the kids is what got him promotions and led him to be where he is now in his job. To all you other at home moms out there, this is a huge part of why your husband can do his job and why you shouldn't feel "guilty" for being home. Even if my husband had not advanced, I still believe me being home was the right thing.

@lisarichardson2812

9 күн бұрын

Same!

Ha The funniest part of the 3rd interview was when he said I don't mind if she wants to be a Nurse or a teacher, but other jobs would be too much stress..Those 2 Jobs are literally the most stressful jobs out there!!!

@latazialane3383

4 ай бұрын

Literally .

@carriemartin4837

3 ай бұрын

Right!!

@ecclairmayo4153

3 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

As a latch key kid I always said when I had kids I would stay home to raise them, so I homeschooled all 5 who all went onto college with two working on Phd's. My husband worked 4 part time jobs at one point. Now that we're empty nesters it's my choice to stay home, at 50 I decided to learn woodworking with the intentions to start a business but I've had some health setbacks but am now back at it. I just didn't want to have our kids look back and remember an empty house when they came home after school like I did.

@yeshalloween

3 ай бұрын

Nice! I was a latch key kid as well. Now, like you, I’m a SAHM of 5 who homeschool! My husband provides financially but my work for our family is invaluable and he’ll be the first to say so.

@sable747

3 ай бұрын

Same here! Latch key kid turned Sahm (stints of homeschool).

Im a stay at home mom of 2. My husband is an electrician and currently in school for his second ticket in carpentry. I love the life we've made, and I appreciate the hard work and long hours my husband puts in for us, however, being home and caring for our daughters and making our home a home is dam hard too. We both have hard struggles, they're just different. Its why we need eachother. Its so important to have both, masculine roles and feminine roles. My husband says a mother is the heart of the home. ❤

Amen to this. Ladies we can rest in our femininity with the right man. It takes alot to run a household, take care of kids, and maintain our gorgeous looks. 🎉

@ethiogirl310

4 ай бұрын

Absolutely!

Great to see the men understand & appreciate their stay at home mons. Someone has to raise children, & have a lovely home .

@AmberColeman-gq1wn

4 ай бұрын

Fathers don’t raise children?

@peggymutabaruka241

4 ай бұрын

@@AmberColeman-gq1wn they do too.

@berrymckockiner5883

4 ай бұрын

Wmn need to be a vrgn, fit and under 25, should stay sngle. It's slim pickings for high value men

@anatoliagolden-hall4553

4 ай бұрын

@@berrymckockiner5883I’ll bet you typed your comment with Cheeto-encrusted fingers.

I love the conversations.. just chill talking and very diplomatic .. ❤

excellent question! that deserves to be explored.

I’m not sure if you noticed a lot of wealthy men look for teachers and nurses! Key words caring, patient and empathy! Many teachers find a good husband who is wealthy or well off and they stop teaching. I saw this at my sons school over the last few years! Go teachers and nurses

@berrymckockiner5883

4 ай бұрын

Fellas avoid nurses like the plague, they're for the streets

@The-Oneness11

4 ай бұрын

Also a teacher values education and as a result she will effectively educate their children.

@Jazzrib

4 ай бұрын

Nurse here who is married to a successful lawyer. I don’t have to work anymore if I don’t want to.

Loved listening to their answers to this question!

@ecclairmayo4153

3 ай бұрын

Especially the answer at 17:07❤

Pretty much unanimous with the men. Now go to the daycare centers and ask all the babies.

My mom was so frustrated that she couldn’t stay home and raise her children. She firmly expressed her need to be home with her children (there were three of us). So, I knew that before I married I would need to express my hopes and desires to my future husband so there wouldn’t be a struggle there in our marriage. Fast forward 14 years later and we have 4 kids, I stay home and care for the house, cooking meals, baking treats, care for the kids, wake at night to care for the sick, take people to doctor appointments, dentist appointments, sports, and extra classes that need to be done. Just thinking about getting a job on top of that work load is stressful. I feel like I would be abandoning responsibilities I took up. Thankfully, my husband doesn’t ask me to look outside the home. Maybe when the kids are grown and gone I’ll pick up a secondary job to stay occupied. Or, I might fill my time with volunteer work. We’ll see. I do have a sister-in-law that just could not stand to stay home. She wanted to work when her kids were little. That’s okay too. I think staying home has a lot to do with personality and expectations. Some people are very extroverted and staying home can be a struggle.

@emilyarocho

10 күн бұрын

Yes! As the daughter of a working mom I always felt alone. One year she took it off between jobs and it was the best year. I ain't having kids if I'm not home

I had my own cleaning business and I was a single parent mom I met a man and long story short got married when my son was nine my husband wanted me to be a stay-at-home mom so that's what I did. It was the best thing that ever happened to me and my family.

Women love staying at home and being appreciated for it, having their hard work recognized. It’s a very consuming thing at times, it never ends.

I think finding the right women who is partner to build with. She was with me before I made money. She has been stay at home since we had our first child. Aline gave me two beautiful children and busy with house,5 pets ,pays bills and manages rental property in Nantucket. We have been married for 20 years this June. I really enjoy coming home to see her beautiful smile and laughing. She helped bring my dreams to reality so I built her a home in Brazil to visit close to her family was her dream. Thank you! Aline ❤

@mtngrl5859

2 ай бұрын

Lovely comment. Clearly you are doing well to own properties in Nantucket.

@icouldntthinkofaname.1188

2 ай бұрын

@@mtngrl5859 Yes, I love Nantucket and have kept home since 2005. We go there after Labor Day every year

This was a great video. Personally i have been married for 34 yrs. We have 4 grown children now. We did decide it was best to quit my job as an insurance adjuster to stay home and raise our first son. After that it was a no brainer to continue to stay home to raise the others. I did go back to work later after my oldest was 13 but i work from home so it was like the best of both worlds. As your children get older i think its good for them to see mom work and come to know her as something more than just a caregiver. My oldest son has a baby daughter and his wife if blessed to work from home and has someone come into the home a couple days a week to help out and my other son has a son and his wife stays home 100% to care for their baby. I hope and pray my 2 daughters will be blessed to be able to stay home when they have kids. It’s important today more than ever to raise your own children and strengthen the bond.❤

@Lucky-gk7ez

4 ай бұрын

Too bad your husband cheats on you. 😅

@rachelthis4295

4 ай бұрын

@@Lucky-gk7eznah it’s too bad that no one loves you so you have to resort to trolling decent people on KZread for a little scrap of attention.

@truehappiness4U

4 ай бұрын

Selfish, because they don’t have a good connection with their father now. Better both parents to work less to take care do the children. Not only one gender

@Psychiatricnerd

4 ай бұрын

@@Lucky-gk7ezwow projecting much. Insecure perhaps.

@girlwiththecurlyfro2552

4 ай бұрын

Congratulations on your 34 years of marriage and family ❤ you both set great examples for your children .

I was a full time nurse until I had my son. Now I'm a full time mom and we wouldn't want it any other way. We see how much benefit there is for me raising our kids.

@faerydae29

13 күн бұрын

Until he divorces you and you’re out in the street

@summerchild5141

13 күн бұрын

@@faerydae29 She's a nurse, she definitely won't be out in the street! 😂 It's one of the most stable and essential jobs.

I loved the guy that pointed out the “stress” you would bring home isn’t worth it. So true!!

Excellent advice. Loved the responses. Also loved the lady in the silver puffer jacket who said that time goes so fast with kids. It's good to be there for the small things & to be there for them. Nice that there's so many supportive men.

I'm not a millionaire but I'm in the upper middle class, so comfortable. My husband has been the provider. I can promise you one thing: you'll never be comfortable if you refuse to work. You have to be willing to work hard when you are in your 20's. Then you have to save your money so you can buy a business or make an investment. In order to save money, it would be good if you would live with relatives instead of wasting your money on rent. Be a good houseguest. Mow the lawn, pay the electric bills, wash the dishes. Then your relatives won't mind having you. Save $$$. Then in your 30's make some business moves.

@Yosoydom

4 ай бұрын

Awesome advice. Currently in my 20’s now and I always tell my peers this. They think it’s time to travel and mess around bc we’re young and beautiful and won’t get this time back. I say it’s time to work because we’re young and healthy and won’t get this time back. The time for travel and being beautiful is when I’m older and can afford it 🫶🏽

@TheTheg0

4 ай бұрын

Exactly!! 🔝I lived in my parents house, I studied, I worked, I saved. I run the family business and always I was feminine. In my late 20’s, men intimidated because they knew they had to provide more than average and that I had options, if I wanted. True Men don’t fear alpha women, little boys do. My husband don’t compete with me, we are teammates who support each other

@lovelysmith275

4 ай бұрын

True, certain cultures especially Italian parents prefer you live with them forever to save money. Thankfully I have the type of parents that if I decided to move back home, my parents would never charge me or even ask me to do anything lol. I would still help if needed though.

@mamachicken4602

4 ай бұрын

@@Yosoydom Very wise for your age. Even if you are working hard, you are still beautiful. People at work will notice your beauty and admire it. Just because you are young and beautiful doesn't mean you should travel and spend money. Keep your weight down and you will still be healthy and beautiful in your late 30's and 40's. In your early 30's, you will be building your business or investing. But all the while you are working hard or traveling or building your business, you can still be beautiful and healthy. While working, you may meet a nice gentlemen who also shares your goals and you can get married!

@mamachicken4602

4 ай бұрын

@@TheTheg0 That's great!

Please don’t cut the guy off saying he wants a good cook. It’s the best part of this video. Can you do a part 2 and let him finish

@realestudergroundsou

4 ай бұрын

exactly

@DwainWilsonJr

4 ай бұрын

That's what I was thinking.. like, did he follow that up with something outlandish... 🤷‍♂️

@Dymsx86

4 ай бұрын

I have a feeling he might have said something offensive and it was omitted.

@zigalisjak

4 ай бұрын

hahah, the cut was funny initially, but I expected him to cut him back in at a later point and let the guy finish... the fact that he didn't made me dislike this shit.

@kwilson4125

4 ай бұрын

@AuntieFairy He did abruptly cut out that guy mid-sentence when he said he wants a good cook. Maybe his comment was R rated. Lol

I am blessed to be in a situation where we decided before getting married what our goals were and how to execute with each part of the relationship. We have had to tweak and change it up a bit at different seasons within our 27 years of marriage but have always been on the same page. EXCELLENT questions & thoughts!

Love this video and I loved that you wasn’t pushing an agenda or your own narrative to achieve a certain outcome ❤