Best part about this is she literally could not give a shit about anything we say.

@daviderickennedy2194

10 ай бұрын

Funny, I think I understand why this comment was popular, be so nice not to care what others think right? In real life they are monsters, BTDT. This woman needs to play it up in a palatable way that people somehow "respect" her. She is selling a video and books.

@lizjane1349

9 ай бұрын

Based on the fact she doesn't care what I say, I've got a lot to say believe me! I can't stand the fact these well intentioned materials completely downplay the massive potential for violence and abuse that is ever present in psychopathy. I appreciate not every psychopath has completed those actions to an illegal degree, and that many without psychopathy have. The point though, is that if a psychopath commits violence or abuse they are guaranteed to have zero emotion about it, be more prolific in those actions, be completely unresponsive to any law enforcement methods of controlling such behaviours, be very unlikely to stop due to zero empathy, guilt, anxiety or conscience about it plus very high levels of dopamine when committing such acts. Those are some pretty strong risk factors, and 30% of the prison population (approx) have psychopathy versus just 1% in the general populous - that's the ones who get caught, and there is a much a higher likelihood that psychopathic criminals won't get caught due to high IQ attributes plus planning and lack of emotional response. That is significant, so please stop cotton candying this disorder like we're being judgemental to think of these things.. how horrible of us. NO just no.

@nightmareofsolomon

9 ай бұрын

Exactly. So, when I say that psychopaths should be aborted or euthanized, the only people that will get upset are normies; not the psychopaths themselves

@Megaritz

9 ай бұрын

@@lizjane1349 I'm not sure who is cotton candying anything here, or who this comment is directed against. Sociopathy is a serious set of problems, I'm not sure that anyone denies this. However, I think it is valuable when people who have serious personality disorders (sociopathy, narcissism, borderline, etc.) can be open about it, so that better therapies and social structures can be developed to help them live better and engage in less hurtful behavior. It would be better not to have the personality disorder, but given lack of a cure, it's good to do evidence-based damage control.

@theinventor7027

8 ай бұрын

@@daviderickennedy2194 at least with her she is a monster that is not afraid to hide behind a mask

I love that there’s upbeat prescription commercial music in the background while someone describes what it’s like being a psychopath. Lol.

@pro-socialsociopath769

4 ай бұрын

😂😂

@kessmybutt

4 ай бұрын

so strange! first thing I noticed as well

@nickycalvert2602

4 ай бұрын

I think because most people that are listening to her.😵‍💫...and we need the music to calm us or distract from her story.

@n3v3r1s4

3 ай бұрын

it's a bit of a stretch to mention this here because the channel I'm mentioning isn't *strictly* psychopathic (a little more lunatic in its own way I suppose) but if you love this, you should love these @skycorphomevideo xD

@aretee3

3 ай бұрын

Hahaha right?

The combination of her cheery attitude and the upbeat music are hilarious.

@jasreallySUCCS

3 ай бұрын

BUWAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

@Muck-qy2oo

Ай бұрын

Like a job interview presentation or something like this. "Here now become a psychopath with this training course."

@user-yw8qf8cc3t

Ай бұрын

They're trying to normalize it

A lawyer? Perfect career for her 👌🏽

@mikhailklimov3289

10 ай бұрын

No jokes, it is.

@jaimeheard9202

10 ай бұрын

#2 after CEO

@Christrulesall2

7 ай бұрын

Psychopath: Lying? What's that?!

@sharingan847

7 ай бұрын

@@Christrulesall2 sounds like a career. 😆

@Christrulesall2

5 ай бұрын

CFO waiting for an opening o throw the CEO under the bus.@@jaimeheard9202

I guess this is why ethics classes exist for lawyers.

@kamilaktulu9045

4 ай бұрын

Do you really think ethics classes can change sb personality? I don’t think so.

@Maxime_K-G

4 ай бұрын

@@kamilaktulu9045 I would hope so... But yeah, I always thought it was a bit ironic. Couldn't believe it actually when I first heard about it.

@misterhair66

3 ай бұрын

They don't work

@whateverimake9350

3 ай бұрын

​@kamilaktulu9045 lmao do you think ethics is about changing personality? Ethics is literally science of rational decision making in hopes for ethical or good result. Nothing mvm

@asdfghyter

3 ай бұрын

@@kamilaktulu9045 i don't think it needs to change the personality to be effective. by changing it into a rational decision making you can make it understandable for psychopaths as well

“I asked what’s empathy, and he started describing it, and I thought yea I definitely don’t do this” 🤣🤣🤣🤣 she’s fkn hilarious dude I like her. She spitting facts.

@flies9244

2 күн бұрын

The uplifting music while she says it makes it that much better

@cadebrown2092

2 күн бұрын

Psycho 🚨

She's a lawyer - of course she is, its the one job someone like her would be most qualified for.

Is it just me or do u notice in all her interviews that 90% of the time she is looking away from the camera when she speaks.

@nesanerves9197

11 ай бұрын

A little spooky

@0xAdam_

11 ай бұрын

Actually I think she is just recalling past events, but I am not a specialist. Also looking at the camera is weird, if you never done that.

@liamsouthwell27

10 ай бұрын

I was fascinated by her eye-accessing cues. Assuming the video isn't inverted (a good assumption when working off film or video), then 90% of her eye movements are to the right side which is 'construction/abstraction' rather than left side which is 'recall/access'. This was an immediate data point for me because even when she's talking about things that sound like they should be "remembered" (more upper/mid-left) and she's locked hard over to the right. Very interesting.

@rufuscollins2834

10 ай бұрын

She is looking to the books in the shelf. They are her best friends who help her through her crisis.

@Megaritz

9 ай бұрын

@@liamsouthwell27 This body language analysis stuff is bogus pseudoscience.

The background ‘muzak’ feels painfully inappropriate here haha

I am glad she is "harmless". Her smile on the other hand is scary. Greetings from UK

@AABB-px8lc

5 ай бұрын

Kind of sarcastic, they are very good actors and play anything they want except very complex emothional like cry (looks very scary as many details very wrong).

@poopsmcgee2k6

4 ай бұрын

Watch the other parts. She ain't harmless.

@IloveJesus777j77

Ай бұрын

​@@AABB-px8lcJesus is coming back. Believe He died for your sins and rose again then repent to be saved.

@IloveJesus777j77

Ай бұрын

​@@poopsmcgee2k6Jesus is coming back. Believe He died for your sins and rose again then repent to be saved.

That joker smile of her. No wonder she went to law school.

@IloveJesus777j77

Ай бұрын

Jesus is coming back. Believe He died for your sins and rose again then repent to be saved.

@Acoustic-Rabbit-Hole

12 күн бұрын

@@IloveJesus777j77 Are you telling that to US or to her? Because clearly this a directed statement. (Roman Catholic here).

It's great to hear the honesty because it sheds light on things we really can't understand with our own thinking we need to take their word for it

@varunpathak2678

9 ай бұрын

Don't trust her, psychopaths can never be fully honest, Life is literally like a video game to them, and people are like NPCs to them, they will use and dispose on need to use basics!!

@theinventor7027

8 ай бұрын

@@varunpathak2678 nobody can be fully honest it is not just psychopaths that lie

@jwilleseries7764

7 ай бұрын

Wait? Why can't you understand with your own thinking? I could understand her perfectly with my own thinking

@selinaogorman8380

5 ай бұрын

I would take her word and appreciate her honesty however I wouldn’t trust her because you never know what there capable of and sadly a lawyer with no empathy or compassion so it would be terrible for someone to hire her and have her in court for a case because she lacks empathy to the core crying can be both negative or positive depending on the person.

@jwilleseries7764

5 ай бұрын

@@selinaogorman8380 Honestly, you just convinced me that she is an excellent lawyer because she won't let guilty people get out of thier punishment they deserve by crying so I would prefer her as a lawyer becuase she does not let emotions cloud her work

You can tell right away, at least I can, that there's something off when she talks. The expression in her eyes is not fully in sync with the way she smiles and moves her face.

She's nowhere near as bad as I've seen. She at least seems interested in the fact that she may be a psychopath. My experience with a psychopath is that she knew very well she enjoyed hurting ppl. So much that she tricked ppl into thinking she was kind and had no idea she was abusive. That way she could keep her victims stuck. This woman actually genuinely seems clueless that she's hurting ppl. There's a difference.

@ParmyJan

10 ай бұрын

Well psychopaths aren't born with the same emotions as us so that's why I think she seemed so clueless about "hurting" people

@hgbgakdflndbz6921

9 ай бұрын

Read this lady's book... she seduced her female coworker and abused her until she became skeletal and lost her hair, then months later wrote a heartfelt email "apologizing," gleefully caused her to breakup with her girlfriend, then nonchalantly describes how that woman tried to kill herself many times. Every psychopath does this. When they say they manipulate people, believe them

@ParmyJan

9 ай бұрын

@@hgbgakdflndbz6921 thanks for sharing. That's so disturbing

@jwilleseries7764

5 ай бұрын

@@ParmyJan Empathy is not just feeling with others but also being able to understand what other people are feeling, thus it is easy to hide your emotions from a psycopath and that is good to know when dealing with a malignant psycopath

@emanuelevasina1813

5 ай бұрын

Probably manipulating...? I guess

I swear you can always tell if someone’s a psychopath by looking at their eyes. I have no idea how to even describe it but I feel like it’s almost nature’s way of trying to give us clues to avoid predators. Kinda like how you can sense someone’s staring at you even if you’re not looking at them. I can imagine being alone in a room with her would feel super intense

@AABB-px8lc

5 ай бұрын

exactly, in childhood (4-10 yrs) was very upset by few actors, get goosebumps, hearthbeat, just like wave throu skin ( they playing evil in movies), and few years ago i finally got it. Eyes moves exactly same as my mom. I suspect i have similar as learned, that strange "stops" not related to what she say. Now I absolutely sure they are psycho, I read books, actor colleges describe they have very strange things like laugh in case of dramatic event or do very disgusting jokes just with ppl on streets even kids.

@Kerry.moynihan.intellectual

4 ай бұрын

Stop listening to what your beloved narcissistic Media is telling you about psychopathy. Psychopaths are not necessarily "predators", "sadists", etc. Many of them just perceive the world like a chess game defined by critical thinking skills as opposed to an emotional journey defined by interpersonal connection. Again: consider the fact that you -- I am sure -- are an advocate for the fellow Cluster B personality type of Narcissistic Personality, as that personality type is heavily embraced and encouraged by American culture. In many ways, narcissists can also be predators. What makes narcissistic behavior moral, precisely?

@laurenj6771

4 ай бұрын

@@Kerry.moynihan.intellectual Narcissistic behavior shouldn’t be celebrated or embraces. Not every person with a cluster B personality disorder is a predator, but they all have the potential to be which is why certain traits make people weary as avoiding potential predators is an instinct many creatures have. Just like to many small animals, we human beings are predators. Does that mean every single one of us is going to hurt a bunny rabbit or chipmunk or bird we pass by? No, but because the animals have no way of knowing which ones of us are good or bad, they view us all as potential threats until we have proven ourselves as trustworthy

@skycloud4802

3 ай бұрын

Can tell Bipolar mania with the eyes too

@asdfghyter

3 ай бұрын

@@Kerry.moynihan.intellectual they are dangerous still. they will absolutely use you for their own gains and your harm if they get the chance. i don't know why you would think people are advocates for Cluster B Narcissistic Personality though? I am certainly not

"When they cry I get angry" So you DO have feelings.

@zilch2653

11 ай бұрын

They do experience all emotions except guilt or remorse, empathy and fear. Anger/rage is one of their more heightened emotions and is harder for them to manage, generally speaking.

@MarshallTheArtist

11 ай бұрын

@@zilch2653They don't feel sadness either. They only feel two out of four basic emotions.

@rosabengali

8 ай бұрын

@MarshallTheArtist. They do fell sadness bruh.

@tastyDungeon

8 ай бұрын

A psychopath feels emotions, just not in relation to how other people feel or how they make them feel. So they might get angry when somebody pushes them but they can't feel that same anger when they see someone else getting pushed. Nor will they feel guilt after gaving pushed someone themselves

@HighSpeedNoDrag

4 ай бұрын

I would surmise she is bothered by others crying because she does not cry.

i kinda love her self awareness and honesty about all these things that we consider very shameful, and that she knows she might be better off hiding.

@Acoustic-Rabbit-Hole

12 күн бұрын

I feel this is the new value of the internet. We can sell our souls to Satan with Katie Perry, or we can SPEAK to the devil face-to-face. She is truly a responsible adult. (And, yes, also responsible to her victims. Ha).

Thank you for sharing all of this. I´ve seen the 5 chapters. Thank you because it helps others to understand people like you. It´s a very valuable thing when you can´t understand why some people act so different and how they are able to do it with no remorse. I hope you find your way to happiness. Thanks again for being so brave.

@petor95

5 ай бұрын

Definitely agree, she did a very brave and useful thing. She's probably helped many people understand this and ultimately do better for each other 👍🏾

@doofsdoofs

5 ай бұрын

You just took a psychopath's story as truth... @@petor95

@Acoustic-Rabbit-Hole

12 күн бұрын

Yes, she's heartlessly given so much. God Bless (or God help) her...

This is a great video. I’ve always been curious about how other peoples brains work 99% of the population our brains work differently but it doesn’t mean that there’s a true way perceiving reality.

@TheRaveJunkie

4 ай бұрын

So you‘re saying it‘s not true that 99% of brains work „differently“, since we can‘t „truly“ perceive reality?

@Acoustic-Rabbit-Hole

12 күн бұрын

@@TheRaveJunkie As a Christian (Roman Catholic) I don't believe we perceive "reality" though our senses. I'm not an empiricist. I believe we act and feel from BEYOND our senses.

Say what you want, but her blunt honesty is refreshing, but that lack of empathy/emotion is very unsettling.

I'm curious that her colleague told her she might be a sociopath. I've known people who I am pretty sure are sociopaths and _wouldn't dream_ of telling them.

Her eye shift is to the extreme right when recalling stories from the past

It's good to be self aware even if you're cray cray.

@that-one-guy4747

3 ай бұрын

U think we just, decide, to be like that?

Crying is a manipulative tactic omg

@TomasPetkevicius94

11 ай бұрын

It is well known and established fact. Babies cry to get what they want. Adults cry for different reasons, but the point still stands.

@TomasPetkevicius94

10 ай бұрын

​@@OceaNOfficialAcc Indeed. Due to different brain chemistry to her this seems like a fact.

@EMYoutube1225

9 ай бұрын

Sometimes crying is a manipulative tactic.

@jimmythe-gent

8 ай бұрын

It can be manipulative… sure… But I’ve made sure I was alone and that no one was around when I broke down crying about my dog dying - and I’ve cried maybe twice in the last 20 years. So it seems to be a bit more complicated than that

@selinaogorman8380

6 ай бұрын

Sometimes crying can be manipulative sometimes to it can also be because of betrayal and heartbreak yes sadly a sociopath and a psychopath wouldn’t understand because they lack empathy and sympathy so on this level they won’t understand I have had several things happened to me I got betrayed and lost people I love due to death so for a normal person like myself it really hurts so yes it’s a real raw emotion and I cry because a scene to a movie made me cry both good and sad it’s due to high empathy so definitely psychopaths and sociopaths will have a difficult time understanding these emotions until maybe they become more self aware!

This lady is the most cold-hearted person I've ever listened to. When someone I'm close to cries (usually been a girlfriend) I hold them. I can't imagine being annoyed by someone's broken heart. That's just evil.

This is pretty fascinating stuff. It's not like you cross some magic line and then you're quote-unquote "a psychopath." She just has a collection of traits and tendencies that, together, push her out to the fringes of humanity instead of closer to the middle. She's self-aware enough to be able to look at those tendencies objectively and realize that's she's not like other people. She also understands that something is going on with other people, internally, and that she'll never experience that thing (and can't really relate to it), but that it's closer to "normal" than whatever she is. I heard a story about a professor who gave his class a test for psychopathy and he also took the test (just for fun), and when the results came back there was only one obvious psychopath in the class, and it turned out to be him. And he had a stable life with a wife, children, etc. But he described a mindset very similar to this individual.

I wish I was friends with you! I could learn so much from you. It is not healthy to have no control and all the time caring about everyone. Emotions are eating you like the same feeling real hunger hurts the stomach. I think you are astonishing woman. Thank you for explaining the truth.

My ex husband is like this but far more lethal. Thanks for the confirmation. It explains so much.

@noma_es_sebas

4 ай бұрын

oh

Psychopaths can only cry for themselves.

@SRBOMBONICA86

10 ай бұрын

They cry from anger , frustrations ,not sadness

She's a psychopath. And if that wasn't bad enough, she's a lawyer!!!

i have way too much empathy. if she wants some im happy to share...

I swear to God i'd stay away from this woman 500 feet.

@etherealmoonlight67

12 күн бұрын

Same man shes scary

@VLanes-op9vv

8 күн бұрын

This woman seems nice enough. She practices cognitive empathy or whatever that word is for when you logically know you should empathize, and at least she is outwardly friendly. U should make friends with her!!

@ryiningZolzz-qt3wn

2 күн бұрын

why? she's not unpredictable criminal or junkie.

to be fair, people do use crying as a manipulative tactic

This is Gold.

So good , in my opinion, being able to articulate and very brave to speak about. people who suffer from this more than often dodge and disassociate themselves from this problem probably to protect the ego or from previous trauma. This very helpful I think for those people having this and those that care for them . Ie family , friends. I’m not formally educated on this subject and hopefully I could articulate clearly. Best of everything to all. The end

Man you can tell she's thinking to make sense and rationalize her actions - based on societal expectations. Quick on her feet to make an argument that we can all somewhat understand.

3:45 This was a perfect example of how Psychopaths can come across just moronic rather than malevolent. She is expressing a profound stupidity of a simple concept within the world around her and she’s not embarrassed or alerted by this weakness…she reacts with dismay, just stuck in an unsolvable puzzle that most kindergartners could grasp. More than superficial charm, the biggest red flag I notice when interacting with someone with these traits is how profoundly stupid they can come across in relation to their education or profession. This is amplified because they have so little understanding of their deficiencies, interactions are peppered with a startling experience of disinhibited idiocy coming from the psychopath even when the expressed purpose of the interaction demands the psychopath presenting with the upmost competence. Like a meeting with an attorney. Ironically, Neuro typicals would likely have enough empathy to understand that they need to do “the more dishonest” thing and conceal their true anti social reactions. Maybe present a false compassion, empathy or priority to another.

@edanridge3023

6 ай бұрын

It’s not really stupidity, they were just born without empathy a Nuro typical toddler was born with empathy so of course they can conceptualize what to do.

@DevinDTV

4 ай бұрын

@@edanridge3023 it can accurately be described as stupidity since they lack the intellectual capability to understand something that is simple to a normal person it's not like she has to feel emotion to understand (on an intellectual level) the concept of mourning, yet she still couldn't get it

@ysesq

4 ай бұрын

@@DevinDTV its not stupidity, its annoyance. she understands mourning. she just doesnt like it and wants to distance herself from it. its like someone who is bleeding. do you want blood all over your shirt ? no. you just walk away and avoid the issue. its stupid to assume someone with an IQ much higher than yours is stupid.

@Acoustic-Rabbit-Hole

12 күн бұрын

My mother is a quite cruel Narccisit (not diagnosed, but I'm a musician and writer who have lived thru her was all of my life). I've noticed that, similarly to the psychopath, she has not understanding of her own behavior. She also doesn't notice when people are seeing right through her. (Which is not always, because he is a calculating manipulator).

Your book was great, learnt a lot

It’s good she’s learned to recognise her condition

@ojjoooooo

5 ай бұрын

Probably just because she sees an advantage in that.

To be honest it sounds like a really honest and healthy management of relationships and self-awareness. Not having the capacity or desire to engage in a social situation and not making excuses or petty lies about it sounds like a better world.

The first thing I thought of when starting this video was this makes total sense. I’ve seen psychopathy in quite a few wealthy and successful people. Although she does come off as if she takes great pride in her psychopathy as a justification of her successful career.

Dude, I was DYING when she talked about making a joke about the little disabled kid 🤣🤣🤣 This woman has a higher level of self-awareness than most people, I'd ride stolen bikes with her!

@AutomaticDuck300

4 ай бұрын

I want to know what the joke is.

@DuendeCaughtOnTape

4 ай бұрын

Another psychopath spotted, scary that these things live among us

@user-bp3lg4gv3m

4 ай бұрын

​@@DuendeCaughtOnTapenot a psychopath, just some edgy child

@Michael-qh1ip

2 ай бұрын

@@DuendeCaughtOnTape 1% is 1%. We come across them more than we think.

@IloveJesus777j77

Ай бұрын

​@@DuendeCaughtOnTapeJesus is coming back. Believe He died for your sins and rose again then repent to be saved.For it is written, As I live, says the Lord, every knee shall bow to Me, and every tongue shall confess to God [acknowledge Him to His honor and to His praise].

A lawyer, California. It all makes sense now.

@purplemist7

3 ай бұрын

It doesn't, but whatever helps you spread your propaganda, right?

High functioning

Find it weird she doesn't like looking at the camera. She'll look for only a few seconds but otherwise she looks off to the left. Weird.

I taught myself to cry as little girl because my mum screamed at me for not crying when Old Yeller died. I was like geeze it's just a movie.

@AABB-px8lc

5 ай бұрын

my mom never cried, just imitated, it is awful and literally scary. She trying to pretend. Dont do it, it have no sense, nerve "waves" sequence so complex you never do it proper way. Just please be gentle with ppl, at least I know you are not evil in general, just do not understand few things you see.

That is one creepy smile she maintained though out the video

Notice her smile seems forced and her eyes don't smile

@warmwatersloth6188

6 ай бұрын

It is really seductive.

@anonymous.2727

6 ай бұрын

@@warmwatersloth6188 it's creepy she is smiling but you look at her eyes and they look neutral

she was smiling while explaining how she couldn't handle her friend being too emotional about her dad dying. damn, i'm like here with no friends.

Bro it's so scary and fun to watch at the same time, I wonder how the relationship with colleagues are since she's openly psychopatic. I guess if she is still employed that maybe people around her have been able to make negotiations with her

@AABB-px8lc

5 ай бұрын

my mom is same, I thing i can describe how it looks from colleges POV. Very bright boss workaholic, when she come everyone get double check is is ok to maximally decrease chance she note something wrong. Dont even mind do something you should half way or slow, punishment is just unavoidavle. NO mercy, literally, but not to bull someone but by usual professional workflow, like biorobot. If her workflow is cut head it will be cut in time and with quality (literally, psycho dont give a shit about feelings, instructions says - she do). She best mate if you talk about arts, painting, music, cariere, ballet, sinigers, but dont even try to ask about cute dancing hungry kittens or crying kid or someone illness .

Her name's Jamie Lund, but I think she now used the name Townsend. She's right that psychopaths find emotions burdensome. I knew at least three kids growing up who had all the traits of psychopathy, and they all found other people's emotions annoying.

grad school is rife w these wonderful characters

bruh, my ex girlfriend had this thing about hating when people were crying too, thinking they would be trying to manipulate her even though it's obvious they were just upset.

@anayarey

2 ай бұрын

That shit is sooo weird to me. I knew a person like that too. Somebody could be soul crushingly crying and they thought it was manipulation. How sick can one be

Well at least she's not a killer psychopath those are a totally different breed altogether

Jamie Lund/ Townsend

I am a narcissist. I knew I had issues with people all the time and I genuinely blamed other people for a long time. Eventually, I realised that it had to be me. I have some help and I read a lot and studied a lot on narcissism and it was awful as it all unfolded. I'm the sort of narcissist with low self-esteem. I thought I had low self-esteem because my father treated me very badly as a child and so I just thought I needed to feel secure in relationships. I do care massively what others think of me and so because of that I never considered I was a narcissist. I thought narcissists thought they were better than everyone and didn't care what anyone thought about them. I didn't know narcissists can have incredibly fragile egos and this is why I feel like I'm a victim of other people. Really they are not hurting me, I just think they are. Finding out really helped as I now know what to look for. I know when I am manipulating others but it is still my go-to behaviour. I don't date anymore as I don't want to hurt any more women. Emotionally not physically hurt them. I'm very lonely and suicidal but I don't think I will kill myself. Thinking about suicide all the time and having grandiose thoughts about my life and things that are all part of it. I know people hate narcissists. This makes me sad. I am human and I want to be loved. It's very difficult as everyone goes away. They eventually see me as I do not see myself. I was attractive and dated a lot of women and I even understand now that my lack of inhibitions is a part of it. I did experience what is called a narcissistic collapse. A realisation that I am not really important to anyone but myself and that I have nothing and am nothing. But I cannot tell someone "I'm a narcissist but I am trying to be better". So I cannot have friends or lovers. I'm going to die alone. But I also know people don't feel sorry for narcissists. Fck me! I was just being manipulative right there. See it? It's hilarious as I didn't mean to start being manipulative but then I saw it as I was doing it. That is so crazy. That is what I'm talking about. I was being honest and then started trying to manipulate you the reader into feeling sorry for me. What a piece of crap I am. Yep, I need to be alone.

@doofsdoofs

5 ай бұрын

This is out of place attention-seeking behavior in a KZread comments section, see a therapist.

@ayembic7933

4 ай бұрын

Realising you have npd is very painful because its another massive blow to your ego but if you can survive it you will eventually emerge from the self pity with new resilience and commit to practising listening, gratitude and humility truly as skills. Its extremely difficult. Eventually with help from a skilled therapist you may be able to have compassion for yourself and how you grew up and then possibly learn to have compassion for others . For others reading this, by compassion i pointedly do not mean empathy. Obviously I recommend the book "how to stop being a narcissist" and the series on npd by the youtube channel "borderlinernotes" theres lots of great insight there with more sympathetic approaches for the pwNPD. (Again to others reading this, please dont go there and spout more pop psychology swill about abusive exes because we are sick of reading it. Npd is a traumagenic illness and pwNPD need to have a space to talk about their trauma and issues without being excluded for once. Thanks) Hope that helps. Youre not alone

@user-oy9zy4ds9m

4 ай бұрын

I remember hearing a guy said that narcissists are formed two ways. One way they became a narcissist is they were just born that way , but the other more interesting reason is they may have been neglected or worse as a child, so as a ‘defense’ the brain would provide itself with artificial validation instead of the normal healthy way of receiving some externally for doing good things that actually help people or provide real value. He could be wrong but it made sense.

@DeviantBris4nce

4 ай бұрын

​@@doofsdoofsThat's pretty much what he just frickin said my dude!! 🤣🤣☠️

@doofsdoofs

4 ай бұрын

If he's cognitively aware of the fact that he shouldn't be posting it, he shouldn't post it. That's pretty much what I just frickin said my dude!! 🤣🤣☠ If you're aware that you shouldn't post something mid-typing, it shouldn't be posted. Not a hard concept to grasp-delete the post. @@DeviantBris4nce

So why do they seek revenge on people who crossed them if they genuinely don’t care about anything? I know life is a game to them since there’s nothing else more interesting to do. But what’s their motivation behind seeking out revenge under certain circumstances when it’s irrelevant to achieving their goals and they can’t process anger.

@AABB-px8lc

5 ай бұрын

they are very cary about anything except empathy, shame and conscience, dont misunderstand. Usually same brain area responce for pain level, and they are have very high pain threshold (my mum literally barely care she broke her arm, and dont give a sht when I broke arm as kid on ski 40 yeras ago "you say it hurts? Cmon, dont play drama queen, go hospital yourself and stop nod"). She is not evil, just thinks other ppl same like she is and cannot believe we have pain. Thay are very smart and useful, help many ppl (if instruction say they must). But, if she see someone intentionally do something wrong to her, she go "Monte Cristo" mode (btw, one of her prefer books), like do anything, even many years think plan, collect information, prepare scene and strike. In my case, only by words, hopefully.

@Acoustic-Rabbit-Hole

12 күн бұрын

@@AABB-px8lc You are a very wise person, AABB. Please come and see my work here at _The Acoustic Rabbit Hole_ where I discuss my color-shape associations with the musical notes and how I have developed this into my "Theory of Pitch Psychology." Your, _Acoustic Rabbit Hole_

I have a respect for her forthrightness. It reminds me of the movie The Invention of Lying. "Your baby is ugly." "Yes, it's true. I have an ugly baby." I relate how confusing it is for her to state her mind and getting backlash for it. There are thoughts that pop into my head that I have struggle not to verbalize. I rarely verbalized them because I'm not a psychopath. However, standup comedy is a great outlet for that. Simply saying "Jesus died for your sins so I think you can have your daddy's baby" wouldn't fly as a solo statment. However, put in the context of a comedy routine it can be very effective.

Psychopaths always think they are much smarter than they actually are because of their inherent narcissism. Shes smarter than most and is able to manipulate easily. The avoidant eye gaze is interesting.

You are as described

dafuck 100% my mom. In every sentence. Especially crying. Thanks for sharing. She is not evil, just not understand what is cry and sometime curioisly observed me (like kid looking at cool bug, gently touching it to se does it continue to crawl or open wings and fly away), in worst case trying to shame me like I am imitating to get some privileges.

I once tried to act this way to a doctor since i have theater classes. They froze up. One asked a other to check for a PD. Behaviour confirmed 😂

why on earth 5 videos of few minutes instead of one video lasting about 20 min?

I believe there’s a great miscommunication here about what a psychopath is and what a sociopath is. Starting with the claim that she (a self-proclaimed psychopath) wrote a book titled “confessions of a sociopath “. These two are very different from each other.

Thank you; this was very interesting and enlighten! The only thing that made a bit irritated was the music. Why is it music? Such a interesting subject could be without background music because the topic talks for itself. If you are from outside America and English is not first language then you really want to hear what the person has to say; she talks fast enough anyway... Thank you for this big information!

The lawyer friend diagnosed her like a professional must be a lot of them among the lawyer friends.

Based queen 👸🏻

You see, my children, there are many roads in life to take. HER soul has taken the psycho path.

Me being a huge people pleaser, it's so frustrating to listen to what she's saying.

@milamaximova8288

7 ай бұрын

Yes!!!!

@naelpontes8444

7 ай бұрын

Ikr, these are practically opposites on the empathy scale lol

Thank god she is harmless donf harm anyone gurl

Yeah, she's in the 99th percentile. Smartest person sitting in that chair.

Whoever choose the background music is definitely trying to make me a psychopath 😂

Maybe if she wanted to change she could really work on this part of personality. It might be a real revelation if she experienced empathy. it would make her a better person.

no wonder they blame their victim for all the pain they caused them.

Professor

She is charming too, they say that is also a trait. She is very frank here. If i was in a lot of trouble and needed a lawyer i would probably want a psychopathic lawyer to make sure they do whatever is necessary to get me off!

@scofield321

4 ай бұрын

Don’t you realize how "whatever is necessary" sounds like? It‘s almost like you‘d be okay if she, or who ever, did murder to help you.

@Parasmunt

4 ай бұрын

@@scofield321 Yeah, i guess it was not my intention for the comment to be taken so deep.

She at least is being honest and is trying with therapy. I have known people I thought were friends who are nowhere near the level of being aware of their deficiencies... in fact they enjoy them...

This actually looks like a mockumentary

Psychopaths lack empathy. So, blaming her for not having empathy for her friend (even if it did hurt her friend) is like blaming a blind person for not catching a ball shot against their friend (even if the ball does hurt their friend). She was sincere to her friend and told her that she couldn't handle it. It would be worse if she stayed by her side and treated her in a cold way. What psychopaths CAN do is play by the rules/laws and be sincere and that's really what society can hold them accountable for. No wonder why she loves the law. It provides her with rules to follow, because she cannot trust her absent empathy. And I think that all of us have met psychopaths in our lives but didn't realise it. Not everyone is a killer or abusive. Many just follow the rules.

So I found these videos a few months ago. At the time I was coming to terms with the reality that I'm a narcissist. I was wondering if I might have antisocial personality disorder and when I watched these videos I said, ya I can relate to a lot of this but I definitely have the ability to feel fear so there's no way I'm a psychopath. Cut to present moment, I'm convinced I'm a sociopath and I'm trying to get a psychological evaluation to find out. These videos helped me a lot to understand what antisocial personality disorder is. I'm hoping to have the evaluation soon and I'm excited and nervous to see what the doctors say. At this point I would be shocked if they said I don't have it. But I'm literally a crazy person so what do I know.

@fran791

10 ай бұрын

Keep us updated

@SRBOMBONICA86

10 ай бұрын

You feel fear ???that's VERY rare for sociopathy

@bornmad_diemad

10 ай бұрын

@@SRBOMBONICA86 interestingly enough, it's psychopaths that usually can't feel fear. Psychopaths are born with an inability to feel certain human emotions. It could be because of physical characteristics of their brain or body that makes them unable to feel fear, remorse, regret, or empathy. Sociopaths, on the other hand, are born with more normal emotional capabilities but, because of trauma, develope an inability to feel certain emotions. I was intensely traumatized for my entire childhood and into my adulthood. I can't feel guilt, I rarely feel remorse, but I have an anxiety disorder and I feel fear almost constantly. I just went and had a psychological evaluation today to find out if I have ASPD. I would be surprised if they don't think I have it.

@SRBOMBONICA86

10 ай бұрын

@@bornmad_diemad you don't have it ,anxiety is impossible to feel even in ASPD

@bornmad_diemad

10 ай бұрын

@@SRBOMBONICA86 that is not true. People with aspd can experience many different emotions, including anxiety. People are complicated. If you're interested in this topic I would encourage you to read from some medical sources about it, you can easily find the diagnostic criteria for aspd online.

Maybe the real treasure was the tactless jokes we made along the way

This woman is amazingly reflective. She understands that she's an outlier. A fascinating examination. It's like she's searching for wisdom.

@chelseaweber3311

4 ай бұрын

I really hope she never has a child or partner, she seems aware enough to know that wouldn’t work though

What's with the uplifting music?

What do you feel have psycopathy m.e thomad?

I am a music major 🔥🔥🔥

My problem is I keep trying to get revenge with my dad

I ❤ law career

shes hilarious

Shes perfect. ❤

My queen

The real question is, can they love? Can they have a functioning family? Do they love their family members? What feelings do they have?

Oh i'm ryan riley i'm a schizophrenic

Climate change activists or any activists these days would have a really hard time convincing her about anything.

says she's in the top 1% of pop for intelligence, but had to look up what a sociopath was.... righto

@baguettegott3409

4 ай бұрын

Intelligence does not equal knowledge. The most intelligent person is not just the one who has memorized the most facts and definitions.

I like her….

@Tim18

13 күн бұрын

You're not the only one.

the eye contact or ack there of

That thing should be put out of its misery.

@warmwatersloth6188

6 ай бұрын

Naaa she is a queen , you the lame.

She sounds like 99% of people now a days

@user-lc1lm7cq8h

20 күн бұрын

I know right. Real facts 💯

So, is she a sociopath or a psychopath? There is a difference.

Did not answer... No talk about mom or dad as persons or parents.