Ask a Psychopath - What are some things you've done?

What are some things you've done as a result of your psychopathy?
psychopathyis.org/
Confessions of a Sociopath: A Life Spent Hiding in Plain Sight
by M.E. Thomas
Available in Paperback and Kindle
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TRANSCRIPT
What are some things you've done as a
result of your psychopathy?
Sometimes when I think about these
stories, these Guilt stories, I don't know
what people would feel guilt about so I
do have a little bit of mind blindness
There. You know like I I've never lived
the life of somebody who feels this
empathy, this guilt, and so I don't
know what might trigger it.
I've never
really felt anything for animals
you know. I've never had a pet or
ever felt like a connection to animals.
I've never tortured animals. I
know you know some Psychopaths do torture animals for
various reasons but I never was
one of those that tortured animals. There was, however,
one time I was teaching swimming lessons and
I went out saw that there was this baby
opossum in the water. It was
just struggling to try
to get out of the pool and I thought the
baby opossum must have fallen in the
pool during the night or in the early
morning and now he's trying to get out.
But I also thought an opossum is a
pest and I don't want this opossum around me.
If I fish the opossum out then who
knows what he's going to do. Even domesticated animals can kind
of turn on you especially when they feel
like they're kind of in that fight or
flight kind of moment so I was like, I'll
just drown the opossum. What I did is I
just got a hose and just kept
hosing him so he's trying to get up
and I'm just trying to drown him
with the hose and I do that for
five minutes and he's he's actually a
trooper this baby opossum and so I
thought, this is not working. I figured I'll just
cancel the swimming lesson and just go
off and do something else, you know, go to
the beach for that afternoon.
I think maybe that seems cold-hearted to
people the way I went about it
but that's just kind of an interesting thing too - we're
socialized to certain things.
Different things are cold-hearted to different people and I
guess I am just immune to socialization
in general.
Another
example that stands out to me is
I was living in Los Angeles and it
would have been a
12-unit apartment complex. It was kind of
a nice apartment complex and I was an
attorney at the time and I was
making well into the six
figures and so it was very
comfortable for me to pay the rent. But I
noticed that my neighbors across from me
were driving like 1980s 1990s
Civics. Both of them were driving these
old Civics and I thought
I wonder how these people are paying
rent? I thought of it sometimes and I also
noticed, since they parked
right next to me, that they had these two
bikes that were collecting dust. I had
a friend visit me one weekend and I
thought let's go biking. And I thought,
well I have my bike but I don't have a
bike for you and I don't want to have
to drive somewhere and rent a bike because it's very inconvenient. I figured we should just
take my neighbors’ bikes. So I went down
and I pumped up the air and the
seats had dust on them - I mean they
clearly hadn't been ridden for years and
they were just little cheap Schwinn bikes
you know probably $100 or something.
So we bike and we come back several
hours later-we bike to the beach and it was great, it was fun. And then in
the evening I get this knock on the door
and I go answer it. Luckily it was me who answered and
not my roommate at the time because I answer
it and it's my neighbor and she said: you
know my bikes were missing earlier and
we were looking all over for them
and then we noticed that they were
replaced. Do you know what
happened with the bikes? I said yes, I
borrowed your bike and I
took it to the beach with my friend. Color drained from my neighbor’s
face-she was so angry at me. She
was like, why would you do something like
that and I'm gonna call the police and
that's theft. And I said it's probably
not theft technically - if anything it's
conversion, the tort of conversion, and
you'd have to sue me in small claims
court and I don't think the damages
would be very high because I just took
the bikes for several hours.
That was kind of my reaction but she
was livid.
The thing that people
find most shocking about the
book is when I say that I'm probably
smarter than the person reading the book. I find that to be an unusual
reaction for that to be the
most shocking thing in the book. It
surprised me, I didn't understand why
people would feel that way because that's
just statistically true. I mean I score
in the 99th percentile on all
standardized tests. Maybe there's been once or twice when I haven't
scored the 99th percentile
even on graduate school tests.
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  • @simsface
    @simsface2 жыл бұрын

    "ive never tortured an animal" **describes how she tortured an animal**

  • @divestedkonservativekarame4269

    @divestedkonservativekarame4269

    10 ай бұрын

    That's not torturing an animal torturing animals like chasing it and strangling it with your bare hands or something

  • @chibi_okami

    @chibi_okami

    10 ай бұрын

    @@divestedkonservativekarame4269 But drowning an animal is also a torture... Animals and people don't die easily when they drowned

  • @jamiekenleyuk

    @jamiekenleyuk

    10 ай бұрын

    If you eat meat you kill anaimals and torture then for a 6 mknths to 2 years.

  • @beastman8269

    @beastman8269

    9 ай бұрын

    She’s lying she’s done a lot more to animals

  • @elrambo2175

    @elrambo2175

    9 ай бұрын

    ⁠@@notu1529but she killed the animal? It’s still an act of killing a random animal

  • @fazbell
    @fazbell7 ай бұрын

    This woman should run for Congress. She would fit right in.

  • @ellecapone1337

    @ellecapone1337

    6 ай бұрын

    She was an attorney- seems like a very appropriate career choice already lol

  • @jwilleseries7764

    @jwilleseries7764

    6 ай бұрын

    She would... and arguably be a lot better than many of hte ones already there... that is more a comment on them than on her XD

  • @caralho5237

    @caralho5237

    4 ай бұрын

    Literally kamala harris lol, even the fake upbeat attitude

  • @svensvensson2724

    @svensvensson2724

    4 ай бұрын

    No, she's telling the truth. Can't do that in politics.

  • @calldwnthesky6495

    @calldwnthesky6495

    4 ай бұрын

    i'd bet money A LOT of people in positions of power are something like her. it's part of the reason the world is the way it is... that is, not great.

  • @jamesprivet
    @jamesprivet4 ай бұрын

    The fact she is an attorney explains everything. Morality and justice, truth means nothing to her, only maximizing her personal gain no matter at what expense.

  • @bunkerman99

    @bunkerman99

    3 ай бұрын

    BS has nothing to do with being a lawyer. Lawyers represent people, corporatiuons, businesses, the State and individuals charged with crimes. I can assure having been a lawyer for 34 years I was not out molesting children or torturing old people or killing deer out of season etc. All of these entities needing help with the legal system got themselves into the messes they are in; not the lawyers navigating the system for them.

  • @adods9824

    @adods9824

    3 ай бұрын

    Yep! Sums them all up. Avoid like the plague !!!!!!!!

  • @adods9824

    @adods9824

    3 ай бұрын

    ​​@@bunkerman99No argument there. And once they've 'retained' a legal eagle, it's the lawyer's job to Hoover as much $ out of the client's account as possible .... A good outcome for said client is optional ...

  • @pisceananarchyvortex7223

    @pisceananarchyvortex7223

    2 ай бұрын

    But the law and morality have little to do with each other. It's difficult for most people to imagine not being emotionally tormented by defending murderers and corporate criminals, etc.@@bunkerman99

  • @mariusskrupskis2042

    @mariusskrupskis2042

    2 ай бұрын

    or maybe she just like a job with strict rules, where its clear what and how to do :DD

  • @erikc8284
    @erikc82842 ай бұрын

    I don't blame her for the way she was born (she could not choose not to have empathy) but it gives me goosebumps that people like her exist and are all around us.

  • @izdotcarter

    @izdotcarter

    10 күн бұрын

    I look at the gaze, it’s terrible. Evolutionary outlier tho

  • @GirlVersusWild

    @GirlVersusWild

    9 күн бұрын

    Luckily there are not that many people like this compared to the numbers of people who do have empathy.

  • @user-eg9yy2cx1z

    @user-eg9yy2cx1z

    7 күн бұрын

    I think it is utterly insane how these people are allowed into high responsible jobs, while they have zero empathy for life of animal or human alike. That's scary, irresponsible and hugely unethical. She teaches swimming lessons? What in the hell is she doing when a kid drowns? Starring at it with curiosity and thinking: well childrens are pests anyway.

  • @helenivanova5440

    @helenivanova5440

    6 күн бұрын

    Well, one thing that terrifies ME much more than the fact of existing people like her is the fact of existing sadists who enjoys other people's suffering and huge amount of people of that kind. This woman doesn't enjoy anybody's suffering, she just doesn't care. She can do a lot for her benefit but she won't make harm just to get pleasure form the suffering of smb she hurts.

  • @helenivanova5440

    @helenivanova5440

    6 күн бұрын

    ​​@@user-eg9yy2cx1zin Russia where i am from psychopats are even allowed to work as psychologists. Nobody just gives a damn. There was a woman on one of popular russian psychological forums who spoke overtly about having much points in psychopathic scale. She even boasted with her psychopathology and like to chat about her liking to hurt people "for the sake of merriment". And do you think many people on the forum condemned her? Maybe smb tried to get her evicted from profession? Nothing of the kind. More than that, smb really admired her for her "not fearing to be bad", love for herself ( she was terribly in love with her own nasty personality) and speaking what she wanted without caring of other people's feelings..

  • @kungfupanda1705
    @kungfupanda17052 жыл бұрын

    "I don't hurt animals" - describes torturing one "I'm not a thief" - explains how she is a thief "Some people think I'm narcissistic" - only those that have met you or seen this video 😂

  • @voodookitchenmama

    @voodookitchenmama

    2 жыл бұрын

    She SMILES as she says it.

  • @oscarmaidana9294

    @oscarmaidana9294

    2 жыл бұрын

    The part when she said "I earned way over 6 figures by then" got me thinking.

  • @DuckiesDad08

    @DuckiesDad08

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes, but let’s not discourage people from helping us understand things that are mysterious to us.

  • @Umbrellagasm

    @Umbrellagasm

    11 ай бұрын

    She said she didn't torture animals, as in for amusement - she described trying to kill an animal in a pretty brutal and painful way, but I've heard worse stories from people raised in farms

  • @stevehowe7237

    @stevehowe7237

    11 ай бұрын

    @@Umbrellagasm Drowning a baby opossum... totally not torture.

  • @oskarlibelle1769
    @oskarlibelle17692 жыл бұрын

    The way she TALKS about trying to drown a possum is SCARY

  • @ChloeElizabeth-cf3ch

    @ChloeElizabeth-cf3ch

    10 ай бұрын

    I KNOW REALLY LIKE HOW SHE WAS SMILING WHILE SAYING IT

  • @anonymoussomeone7513

    @anonymoussomeone7513

    10 ай бұрын

    This lady is Asperger’s not psychopathy, literally zero percent psychopathy she’s the complete reverse

  • @divestedkonservativekarame4269

    @divestedkonservativekarame4269

    10 ай бұрын

    I don't see that as much of a big deal we literally run over possums take them and their dead body and put them in the stove possum's don't even have as much empathy from people as dogs do. And I don't even think people are required to have empathy two dogs it depends on what environment you grew up in.

  • @socks4639

    @socks4639

    10 ай бұрын

    hey guys, found another psychopath

  • @saltyfry4328

    @saltyfry4328

    9 ай бұрын

    @@divestedkonservativekarame4269 I agree, its just a rodent.. Same people whining about it probably eat meat that was inhumanely harvested on the regular lmao.

  • @andypower5531
    @andypower55312 ай бұрын

    The music tries to make it not creepy but ends up making it more creepy.

  • @1981Antman

    @1981Antman

    Ай бұрын

    Spot on 😂

  • @jamie-zk1sz

    @jamie-zk1sz

    2 күн бұрын

    uncanny valley, they're trying to humanise something that's not human.

  • @attiylanen
    @attiylanen4 ай бұрын

    That smile tells a lot. She doesn't have a doubt in her mind that she is better than 99% of people.

  • @urmo345

    @urmo345

    4 ай бұрын

    Some are. Depends on what.

  • @shoobidyboop8634

    @shoobidyboop8634

    4 ай бұрын

    That and the weird constant stare off-camera, to the right.

  • @MichalNowierski

    @MichalNowierski

    4 ай бұрын

    well, at the end she added that she is more intelligent than 99% of people, at least according to some testing standard. So she was quite precise there, she never said she was "better" than others. However she has also picked this very attribute of her, which may in fact suggest that she in fact thinks of herself in a narcissistic way.

  • @PygmalionFaciebat

    @PygmalionFaciebat

    4 ай бұрын

    @@urmo345 But she isnt. She didnt even realizing the contradictions she makes ''i dont torturing animals'' , and then explaining how she tried to drown an oppossum. If she were really more intelligent than 99% of people, as she claims, than what am i, to found her contradiction ? So am i more intelligent than 99,9% of people ? I dont think so , and i am quiet sure, you also dont think so about me ;) Which proves my point about her.

  • @user-mc2kk8yf5z

    @user-mc2kk8yf5z

    4 ай бұрын

    how do we know that these people are just talking shit ie lying through there teeth.. i do this all time talk shit like this but never really mean it usually joking

  • @CANCELMEE
    @CANCELMEE2 жыл бұрын

    Imagine you waking up at night and she’s in your face smiling

  • @marlanaferro1481

    @marlanaferro1481

    2 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @shelleyallison5748

    @shelleyallison5748

    2 жыл бұрын

    Nightmare

  • @leapinglynx

    @leapinglynx

    11 ай бұрын

    Horrifying

  • @PLOOPYBOY

    @PLOOPYBOY

    10 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😅

  • @emilyashley4820

    @emilyashley4820

    10 ай бұрын

    Her smile reminds me of the disturbing smiles from the movie, "Smile".

  • @Parisroam
    @Parisroam2 жыл бұрын

    The fact that she really sat there and considered that her neighbors might be struggling to pay their bills and then continues to steal their stuff 😭

  • @SRBOMBONICA86

    @SRBOMBONICA86

    9 ай бұрын

    That's classic sociopath lol

  • @pagecollector4856

    @pagecollector4856

    9 ай бұрын

    @@SRBOMBONICA86 she is diagnosed with psychopathy.

  • @Fabian6980

    @Fabian6980

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@pagecollector4856it's the same

  • @ssths

    @ssths

    9 ай бұрын

    @pagecollector4856 sociopathy and psychopathy are the same thing, which is a disorder of empathy, along with some specific cognitive deficits or disorders. those two terms are outdated and basically useless nowadays. its like saying someone has autism vs aspergers. Aspergers doesnt exist. its all just autism spectrum.

  • @pagecollector4856

    @pagecollector4856

    9 ай бұрын

    @@ssths Sociopathy and psychopathy are both severe ASPD but not the same. Sociopaths can feel empathy sometimes, psychopaths cant. Over than that, this conditions evolve differently, look it up.

  • @samwright6853
    @samwright68534 ай бұрын

    she's constantly got the widest grin on her face and it never once reaches her eyes

  • @dowright5645
    @dowright56453 ай бұрын

    that Joker smile.. truly terrifying

  • @knutlager2671

    @knutlager2671

    Ай бұрын

    She learned that people responded positively to smiling. That's why she does it,. That's all there is to it.

  • @thevisitor1012

    @thevisitor1012

    26 күн бұрын

    @@knutlager2671 Alastor moment.

  • @Winkle-Dinkle

    @Winkle-Dinkle

    19 күн бұрын

    Yeah her smile is really weird. It’s like a pastiche of the real thing

  • @DanielGomez-ei7yx

    @DanielGomez-ei7yx

    7 күн бұрын

    Just a fuckin smile. Jeez

  • @theloniouscoltrane2082
    @theloniouscoltrane20822 жыл бұрын

    She seems so cheerful and charismatic. I can see why violent psychopaths can go undetected so long. Very interesting

  • @christianneabella1340

    @christianneabella1340

    2 жыл бұрын

    I honestly don't get it. The thumbnail alone sent alarm bells for me lmao.

  • @glasshalffull2930

    @glasshalffull2930

    11 ай бұрын

    It’s their ability to lie without showing traditional tells that makes them very dangerous.

  • @anaa5718

    @anaa5718

    10 ай бұрын

    She seems awful

  • @thejoe9065

    @thejoe9065

    10 ай бұрын

    She seems like a robot. Noone smiles like that, the whole time, especially not with such topics.

  • @mrselfdestruct1180

    @mrselfdestruct1180

    10 ай бұрын

    It’s the eyes that give it away. I work with someone that has all the hallmark traits. It’s the same. The eyes and facial expressions are off or heavily animated.

  • @j3licat
    @j3licat2 жыл бұрын

    She's exceptional at rationalizing and explaining things away.

  • @j3licat

    @j3licat

    10 ай бұрын

    @LaylaRehabSing I probably would too.

  • @luna-mt7sf

    @luna-mt7sf

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@Lygjugujkh9876it is a compliment

  • @mryamahapro12

    @mryamahapro12

    10 ай бұрын

    She sounds like a good lawyer lol

  • @nikibronson133

    @nikibronson133

    10 ай бұрын

    This

  • @drrisen-9442

    @drrisen-9442

    8 ай бұрын

    That’s just literally what she believes. It’s her actual mental process, she just doesn’t take empathy into account, because she doesn’t have any. It’s not out of any particular malicious intent, she just doesn’t care.

  • @loudloveen
    @loudloveen4 ай бұрын

    She's so clever yet she doesn't know it's not normal to smile when you're confessing to have tried to kill an animal or having misappropriated your neighbour's bike.

  • @TheAgentAssassin

    @TheAgentAssassin

    4 ай бұрын

    That's why they call them psychopaths.

  • @bobby-and2crows

    @bobby-and2crows

    Ай бұрын

    She may be playing with the food

  • @lolakuty-to9io

    @lolakuty-to9io

    Ай бұрын

    She did not display a single attribute which you can call clever. It is just your bias of associating intellectual soundness with psychopathic traits clouding your judgment.

  • @jerkchickenblog

    @jerkchickenblog

    Ай бұрын

    i really dont find her clever

  • @VeNuS2910

    @VeNuS2910

    Ай бұрын

    worst thing that could happen in this planet is - psychopaths attaining high educational level and degree in the society.

  • @lnroche5
    @lnroche53 ай бұрын

    imagine this psychopath giving your kids swim instructions....

  • @Wnuwk
    @Wnuwk2 жыл бұрын

    Weird… Her mouth smiles but her eyes don’t.

  • @caseinnitrate2005

    @caseinnitrate2005

    10 ай бұрын

    ⁠​⁠@@DubbzRHandleladder

  • @apontutul

    @apontutul

    10 ай бұрын

    Exactly

  • @catherinekipp3246

    @catherinekipp3246

    10 ай бұрын

    I notice that to

  • @Jewelssv

    @Jewelssv

    10 ай бұрын

    Light are on but no one is home

  • @mlogsdon1740

    @mlogsdon1740

    10 ай бұрын

    @@Jewelssv don’t fool yourself, if she is a true psychopath then she is probably smarter than you and fully willing to recognize and exploit any weaknesses she sees in you.

  • @moonriver7682
    @moonriver76822 жыл бұрын

    Here she is explaining how she tried to drown the opossum with a big grin on her face while I watch horrified…

  • @edwardbrown3721

    @edwardbrown3721

    7 ай бұрын

    Remember that grin means absolutely nothing, she's not implying she enjoyed it

  • @chocolatecream5593

    @chocolatecream5593

    4 ай бұрын

    @@edwardbrown3721I wouldn’t say it means “absolutely nothing”. It is a common psychopathic symptom to smile a lot. She’s trying to manipulate people who see her into thinking that whatever she does is not that bad

  • @igvc1876

    @igvc1876

    4 ай бұрын

    its just a pest relax. do you react the same to killing spiders

  • @CTimmerman

    @CTimmerman

    3 ай бұрын

    @@igvc1876 Possums kill ticks and spiders kill gnats. Don't you think bloodsucking parasites are worse than the creatures that protect us from them?

  • @Migos347

    @Migos347

    3 ай бұрын

    Yeah, it's like when a non-vegan buys meat and dairy. In both cases, you're essentially supporting the process that causes animals to suffer and die in painful ways

  • @FoodNerds
    @FoodNerdsАй бұрын

    The fact she on camera talking about this shows her complete lack of shame, sensitivity and compassion

  • @jtmajorx
    @jtmajorx4 ай бұрын

    "I was an attorney at the time" I immediately thought "... yeah that DOES track."

  • @shonwest1539
    @shonwest15392 жыл бұрын

    Every time she fully smiles, I get The Joker vibes

  • @n0426

    @n0426

    9 ай бұрын

    Humour gains people’s acceptance. No empathy is needed to be humorous. But many people get triggered because their humour lack’s empathy. You need to have thick alligator skin around these people.

  • @HighSpeedNoDrag

    @HighSpeedNoDrag

    4 ай бұрын

    I was thinking a little Sam Kinison smile.

  • @agnidas5816

    @agnidas5816

    3 ай бұрын

    she is just reading from the book - she didn't do it

  • @uvsa2833

    @uvsa2833

    3 ай бұрын

    Really the first thing that came to mind for me. She's absolutely got that Jack Nickolson as the Joker Smile going. Can't be a coincidence

  • @korn5308

    @korn5308

    3 ай бұрын

    Me to the Jack Nicholson one

  • @susanam.826
    @susanam.8262 жыл бұрын

    This was actually scary, even though she was smiling throughout.

  • @leapinglynx

    @leapinglynx

    11 ай бұрын

    The smile itself only adds to how scary she is.

  • @sofiyasujad7099

    @sofiyasujad7099

    8 ай бұрын

    YES! And even with the cheery background score lol

  • @axgelbxnny

    @axgelbxnny

    7 ай бұрын

    she smiles also at all the wrong things, like she doesn’t know where she should try to add levity in a discussion by smiling, like talking about torturing animals should not be accompanied with a smile and yet she does accompany it with it

  • @Withnail1969

    @Withnail1969

    4 ай бұрын

    I thought it was hilarious.

  • @spoofer20

    @spoofer20

    3 ай бұрын

    Shes not actually smileing, thats why its creepy to most people. Psychopaths emulate smiles because they believe people will regard them better for it but they dont realize that to a lot of people it looks really weird. Smileing is actually very hard to replicate for psychopaths, its just a better version of a fake smile for a normal person.

  • @shueevon
    @shueevon4 ай бұрын

    Several things come to mind: 1) People who do well on standardized tests aren't necessarily model citizens. 2) She disassociates her actions from her description of herself ("I don't torture animals", but doesn't realize that slow drowning is torture). 3) Smiles constantly, maybe in an attempt to convince herself / others that she's not a monster - goes to desire to manipulate. 4) Looks drastically away, avoiding eye contact. Probably means she can't connect / relate to another person - goes to lack of empathy. It's scary that such people live among us.

  • @User2jn

    @User2jn

    4 ай бұрын

    I have accidentally wondered into the dark side of the internet. Ive found creepy fandoms that idolise serial killers and post fuked up snuff memes. Its acary to think that the degenerates on the internet are the same ones hiding within our society.

  • @User2jn

    @User2jn

    4 ай бұрын

    It actually makes me sick thinking about all the twisted people lingering around

  • @francozubiria5362

    @francozubiria5362

    3 ай бұрын

    "eye contact" bro its a camera

  • @shueevon

    @shueevon

    3 ай бұрын

    @@francozubiria5362 bro, she's looking at the ceiling.

  • @JeffreyMarciano

    @JeffreyMarciano

    3 ай бұрын

    Yeah don't quit your day job that's a horrible analysis

  • @InfernalPasquale
    @InfernalPasquale3 ай бұрын

    ''I've never tortured animals'' ''So I hosed down this drowning baby opossum for, like, 5 minutes. BUT IT JUST WOULDN'T DIE'' Wow.

  • @mikewho822
    @mikewho8222 жыл бұрын

    So basically she’s just as capable of ruining someone’s life as a lawyer and feeling zero remorse. Who’s to say she didn’t completely drain someone’s bank account who was a client just because she knew she could get away with it. She’s also capable of committing murder and feeling zero remorse. She just lied about torturing animals. She literally tried to drown one. I really don’t feel that she should be allowed in any position of power or authority, especially practicing law.

  • @leonfa259

    @leonfa259

    11 ай бұрын

    Don't worry, basically all people in power are either narcissistic or psychopaths.

  • @loveandletlove8529

    @loveandletlove8529

    10 ай бұрын

    Well some feel guilt but then justify,minimize and deny…my borderline mother did just that…

  • @mikewho822

    @mikewho822

    10 ай бұрын

    @@tailslapguru no it’s not, she literally wrote a book about her condition and life. It is very much real.

  • @mikewho822

    @mikewho822

    10 ай бұрын

    @@tailslapguru whatever you say dude

  • @rainhahahaha

    @rainhahahaha

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@loveandletlove8529Are you aware that borderline (probably BPD what you're referring to) and ASPD (including psychopathy) are two very different conditions, right? You should educate yourself a bit before commenting about something you don't know much about...

  • @CherryJuli
    @CherryJuli8 ай бұрын

    I feel kind of sorry for her that she doesn’t have empathy. At the same time I hope nobody ever has to deal with a psychopath in their lives. These people can break you.

  • @Mister.Meeseeks

    @Mister.Meeseeks

    6 ай бұрын

    Belive me, she is not sorry, she is sorry for us to have empathy...

  • @LordVestik

    @LordVestik

    5 ай бұрын

    Having empathy is weakness.

  • @autisticmonkeyboi6820

    @autisticmonkeyboi6820

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@LordVestikwithout empathy we can't have a functioning society. If nobody can think about the greater good, society won't advance.

  • @LordVestik

    @LordVestik

    4 ай бұрын

    @@autisticmonkeyboi6820 I understand your point of view, but I am diagnosed ASPD and that is how I think of empathy. My mom is "normal" and I always see her stressing over the smallest stuff and caring about everything, it's too much stress so why even bother?

  • @autisticmonkeyboi6820

    @autisticmonkeyboi6820

    4 ай бұрын

    @@LordVestik because, empathy is what helped bonding communities together in difficult times. Wich increased the survival rates by a whole lot. For exemple, a "normal "man would do whatever it takes to ensure that his family survives a dangerous situation. Now apply that to a wider scale, and you have empires and nations, wich are pretty much families on a massive scale.(in principle). Without empathy there would be no such thing as the roman empire, 1 civilization united under 1 way of life that advanced humanity in many ways, we still use some of their discoveries to this day. None of this would have been possible if everybody was devoid of any social skills and emotional empathy. All we would have is chaos , we see how survival of the fittest works for animals, all their care about is food and mating . We would have no art, no social medias, no literacy, you would not even have access to therapy. Really, your mother stressing over things might be unpleasant, but then again, she experienced the joys of loving you and her family, the pleasure of feeling the rewarding joy after a good action, or the joy of seeing the happiness around you... the empathetic feeling is a double edged sword, can be a pain as much as it can be the greatest pleasure that you can experience. I think you're truly missing out on a very important aspect of human existence, unlike solitary animals like Tigers etc , we are social animals made to feel, we evolved because of it. Suffering and pleasure are both part of life, i think you can t truly be alive without experiencing both in a lifetime.

  • @MaximoPrime
    @MaximoPrime3 ай бұрын

    That's the single weirdest smile I have ever seen. I wouldn't trust this lady for one second. It's rather scary that she's a lawyer

  • @bluepuke

    @bluepuke

    Ай бұрын

    You only say that in the context of knowing she is a psycho. What if she was just a regular person and that was just her smile.

  • @IloveJesus777j77

    @IloveJesus777j77

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@bluepukeJesus is coming back. Believe He died for your sins and rose again then repent to be saved.

  • @robertgreenland386
    @robertgreenland3863 ай бұрын

    She’s trying to say the worst thing she ever did was borrow her neighbour’s bicycle without asking, yeah right.

  • @yolandaponkers1581

    @yolandaponkers1581

    21 күн бұрын

    I definitely feel like she’s withholding a LOT

  • @williammorris3815
    @williammorris38152 жыл бұрын

    The only emotion she expressed is happiness over others sufferings.

  • @user-zc4sx9ig6p

    @user-zc4sx9ig6p

    10 ай бұрын

    They dont feel happiness They just smile to make others comfortable

  • @n0426

    @n0426

    9 ай бұрын

    @@user-zc4sx9ig6pyes happiness is an internal state. they are good actors. You can feel it. Her eyes are bland. Too much on performing the smile to feel acceptable and humorous/human.

  • @edwardbrown3721

    @edwardbrown3721

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@user-zc4sx9ig6pthey mimick how most people talk because that's how they learned to talk

  • @Ajesen

    @Ajesen

    8 ай бұрын

    What are u on about

  • @AABB-px8lc

    @AABB-px8lc

    4 ай бұрын

    usually my mom smile in very strange way just before she goiing to say extreme lie (that gaslighting things), and she absolutely sure lie will work and we are no chance to counter it. I read in some forum psychopaths always do it, as it joy of anticipation of success after hard work to select proper arguments, planning weird complex logic tricks and covering of lie.

  • @ivyssauro123
    @ivyssauro1236 ай бұрын

    "I don't torture animals" Literally waterboarded a Opposumm, what

  • @DavidCurryFilms

    @DavidCurryFilms

    3 ай бұрын

    And she didn't even get any useful information out of it. Top 99% intelligence my ass 😂

  • @tobsternater

    @tobsternater

    3 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤....and thought about her duty!! llololololooooooololol!!

  • @zacharysherry2910

    @zacharysherry2910

    3 ай бұрын

    He was going to turn on her!

  • @paizleedayze

    @paizleedayze

    3 ай бұрын

    🤣

  • @yellowchartreuse

    @yellowchartreuse

    3 ай бұрын

    I wonder if you saw a different video? In the video I saw she didn't waterboard an opposum. She sprayed it with a hose.

  • @stonehengemaca
    @stonehengemaca3 ай бұрын

    That smile!! Pause it when she smiles and look at those eyes! There's a complete disconnect.

  • @AmaroRay
    @AmaroRay4 ай бұрын

    I love the lighthearted, infomercial music in the background, as she talks about drowning a possum.

  • @1981Antman

    @1981Antman

    Ай бұрын

    @AmaroRay astute observation. 😅

  • @SamanthaFicarro

    @SamanthaFicarro

    3 күн бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Cards646
    @Cards6462 жыл бұрын

    Lol “I haven’t tortured animals or anything, but I did put a hose on a drowning opossum to keep it from getting out of the pool”

  • @ram_bam

    @ram_bam

    7 ай бұрын

    For *FIVE* minutes. Poor little creature went into the wrong person’s pool.

  • @TaysonPlaysGuitar

    @TaysonPlaysGuitar

    4 ай бұрын

    i mean she is a psychopath and they are known to be incredibly deceitful. as she was describing that story she had to stop herself from smiling and laughing so that really tells you how she felt about doing that.

  • @c.eb.1216

    @c.eb.1216

    4 ай бұрын

    She isn't capable of empathy, so she isn't capable of understanding how it's torturous the drowning is for the animal. All she knows is her perspective, that she's not acting out of sadistic impulses. It's a kind of cognitive deficit that those tests don't measure, but it's still a deficit in a very necessary sort of intelligence to operate in the world without causing mayhem.

  • @NothingIsArt1

    @NothingIsArt1

    3 ай бұрын

    Most people pay people to kill and torture other animals in slaughterhouses. It certainly takes a cold-hearted person to kill other animals. But from the victim's perspective, people who pay for slaughterhouse workers to do their job are just as bad as them or the person in the video.

  • @CTimmerman

    @CTimmerman

    3 ай бұрын

    @@NothingIsArt1 Killing for food > killing for not having the empathy to help.

  • @MimiMadness94
    @MimiMadness942 жыл бұрын

    Her intelligence may be high in some aspects but it’s obvious she has zero emotional intelligence. Also, shes a lawyer, how does she not see a difference between passively letting an animal die (for her perfectly reasonable reasons) and actively participating in killing it by intentionally trying to drown it? Or why someone would not be ok with you using their things without permission? For someone who is such a high achiever things like that should be onvious.

  • @linkytunes2133

    @linkytunes2133

    11 ай бұрын

    Wouldn’t killing it faster be merciful?

  • @MimiMadness94

    @MimiMadness94

    11 ай бұрын

    @@linkytunes2133 drowning is not a quick or merciful death. Are you kidding?

  • @4haruchan

    @4haruchan

    11 ай бұрын

    Yeah i think she just doesnt give a fuck about that animal. Most humans are psychopaths towards animals to me the way they say they capture or kill pests...

  • @NotCthulhu

    @NotCthulhu

    10 ай бұрын

    Wait, where was she remotely reasonable in that instance?

  • @lesleykippersluis5739

    @lesleykippersluis5739

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@linkytunes2133Thats exactly how she manipulates people. She got you thinking drowning an animal is the right thing to do

  • @voiceofomiej7722
    @voiceofomiej7722Ай бұрын

    I have a psychopath father, you ignore such people, don't worry about what they think about you because they still think you are someone else, someone without empathy, just like them. They don't feel this empathy, so they don't see it in others. you are different to her than you are to your friend or loved one

  • @matthewhopkins7042
    @matthewhopkins70423 ай бұрын

    "We're socialised to think different things are cold hearted." as if it's a bad thing. The apologetica for people doing truly evil things is purposeful.

  • @sinistersoul7238
    @sinistersoul72382 жыл бұрын

    Opposums arent pests, they are actually fairly clean and disease free. They also eat actual pests.

  • @HYDROCARBON_XD

    @HYDROCARBON_XD

    11 ай бұрын

    Well rats also eat pests such as cockroaches or worms

  • @sinistersoul7238

    @sinistersoul7238

    11 ай бұрын

    @@HYDROCARBON_XD rats will try and live in your house, opposums are happy to live outside and maybe get in your garbage from time to time.

  • @MarlonValcq

    @MarlonValcq

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@@sinistersoul7238I would do the same with such pests

  • @pinkforeverlove1

    @pinkforeverlove1

    3 ай бұрын

    She just wanted to justify killing an animal lol

  • @danfield6030
    @danfield60302 жыл бұрын

    She's wrong, we are not "socialised to have empathy". It comes from within.

  • @konstantinfrerichs1354

    @konstantinfrerichs1354

    2 жыл бұрын

    No, she is correct. Empathy is a modern construct that came with and supported the development of an orderly social structure.

  • @HYDROCARBON_XD

    @HYDROCARBON_XD

    11 ай бұрын

    Then how do you explain prehistoric humans literally had no remorse for their prey and ripped their guts out with their spears? Or that medieval people liked “criminals” being horribly tortured

  • @godofdogs6198

    @godofdogs6198

    11 ай бұрын

    @@konstantinfrerichs1354 Have you ever heard of mirror neurons? Empathy is innate.

  • @NotCthulhu

    @NotCthulhu

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@HYDROCARBON_XDA consistent number generation after generation likely did have empathy and remorse, just like us today, but those that did likely often died -- but we've evolved enough to be able to survive consistently with morality. Although it's still an uphill battle trying to weed out those that don't have morality from unchecked positions of power.

  • @autumncaudill9592

    @autumncaudill9592

    10 ай бұрын

    The fact that this is her perception of empathy shows how little she knows about it.

  • @siomaras161
    @siomaras161Ай бұрын

    id rather feel occasional anxiety and heartbreak than be completely and utterly soulless

  • @johncocksmith2693
    @johncocksmith26933 ай бұрын

    "Im just willing to own things" ..2 seconds later: "I'm 5'4.I weigh... whatever I weigh..."

  • @SlipMahoneyBowery
    @SlipMahoneyBowery7 ай бұрын

    Everything that comes out of her mouth is an effort in manipulation. Even her openness about Psychopathy. She is playing a completely different game than us. She is a predator to humans. That’s her survival. Scary

  • @Yumicpcake

    @Yumicpcake

    7 ай бұрын

    Lmfao. Spoken by a person who obviously doesn't have much of a background in psychology.

  • @xadion6866

    @xadion6866

    7 ай бұрын

    @@Yumicpcake psychology is a branch of literature. psychopathy belongs in the category of biological anthropological neuroscience. absolutely nothing to do with any literature whatsoever.

  • @Polina-ji4fe

    @Polina-ji4fe

    6 ай бұрын

    Psychopaths can't explore themselves, you think?

  • @SlipMahoneyBowery

    @SlipMahoneyBowery

    6 ай бұрын

    @@Polina-ji4fe I think that’s correct. Whereas most people can apply feelings and emotions during self examination, a psychopath cannot get beyond a clinical observation of themselves. They understand the difference between right and wrong, but nothing feels right or wrong to them. Without legitimate emotions or feelings they live in a different world and only Pretend to be human.

  • @Polina-ji4fe

    @Polina-ji4fe

    6 ай бұрын

    @@SlipMahoneyBowery I'm happy for this lady that she's exploring herself in therapy. It's the most healthy way for dealing with things. Especially because it's so rare for people with a personality type like hers. Although it's mostly women who go to therapy, unfortunately. If more people of psycjopathic organization went there and especially if psychopathic men went to therapy, we'd probably live in a different world. Or not. You never know about those things.

  • @mishi144
    @mishi1442 жыл бұрын

    She's still covering it up and making it seem nicer than it is.

  • @Sara-tr2gh

    @Sara-tr2gh

    9 ай бұрын

    They simply can’t see it nicer or worse than it is, to her it’s probably just is, they don’t really analyze things the way normal people do, it’s like explaining how the computer works to a newborn

  • @edwardbrown3721

    @edwardbrown3721

    9 ай бұрын

    She's not covering anything up, she's mimicking how non-psychopaths talk because that's what she learned people talk like, it looks like there's emotion in her voice but there's not

  • @existentialchaos8

    @existentialchaos8

    7 ай бұрын

    I mean yeah, why wouldn't she?

  • @dreamland923

    @dreamland923

    4 ай бұрын

    and this is what she learned from socialization. i'm interested to see how she separates wisdom, intelligence, and knowledge. there's a great deal of humanity in all three and i would personally say that they're difficult to break down logically.

  • @bradford_shaun_murray

    @bradford_shaun_murray

    3 ай бұрын

    0:39 😜 👀

  • @bennewey5483
    @bennewey54833 ай бұрын

    Jesus christ. This woman literally set off my flight or flight response, I unwittingly shifted position in my seat to get out quick and clenched my fists, my missus just asked me what was going on because my body language just went into self defence. She lit up every red light in the warning centre in my brain.

  • @pho3nix-

    @pho3nix-

    2 ай бұрын

    Same

  • @FoodNerds

    @FoodNerds

    Ай бұрын

    Yes

  • @IloveJesus777j77

    @IloveJesus777j77

    Ай бұрын

    Jesus is coming back. Believe He died for your sins and rose again then repent to be saved.

  • @IloveJesus777j77

    @IloveJesus777j77

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@pho3nix-Jesus is coming back. Believe He died for your sins and rose again then repent to be saved.

  • @IloveJesus777j77

    @IloveJesus777j77

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@FoodNerdsJesus is coming back. Believe He died for your sins and rose again then repent to be saved.

  • @rayashleigh494
    @rayashleigh49427 күн бұрын

    I feel very uneasy watching this.

  • @MassiveGamingBeast
    @MassiveGamingBeast10 ай бұрын

    “we’re socialised to think certain things are cold hearted and i guess i am just immune to socialisation in general” no you’re not. you are one of the few people who learn what’s wrong & right exclusively through socialisation, other people learn most through their emotions. eg, ‘there is a baby possum in the pool drowning, something in me feels guilty & sad about letting it drown therefore i think it’s cold hearted to let it die’

  • @freddybaumgartner3096

    @freddybaumgartner3096

    8 ай бұрын

    Absolutely. But I don't think she'd be able to truly understand this.

  • @anamuraro

    @anamuraro

    7 ай бұрын

    @@freddybaumgartner3096 Nope, she's not that smart.

  • @unhappytrai1

    @unhappytrai1

    5 ай бұрын

    i could not believe she said that

  • @LambentIchor

    @LambentIchor

    3 ай бұрын

    Society and culture are emergent properties of human nature. A lot of culture is just evolved mechanisms to sublimate our natural aggression so that we can cooperate. And having the ability to cooperate and empathise is a big part of what makes us successful. The more we can cooperate the more complex we can learn to be. But there are people who are born who don't have the same makeup as others. With psychopaths, it seems that they can get along in society by learning the rules. Maybe they don't have the same moral sense, but if you look at society without sentiment you'll see that most of the evil in the world is there precisely because of morality. People harm others all the time because their personal morality tells them it is right to do so. Christians had no problem burning people to death for imagined evil like witchcraft. Whole families used to come along, as if it was a fair day, and picnic while others were hanged. Look at Israel bombing and killing thousands of people because they believe their god gave them that land, and the Palestinians who believe it's right to murder Israelis because their beliefs say so. It's easy to sit in judgement on psychopaths who just happen to be born different. But people who supposedly have the full complement of what is supposed to be human act horribly every day. And then point the finger at these people.

  • @1bhitte

    @1bhitte

    3 ай бұрын

    The thing that got me was her actions don't even make sense. Just take a pool net, the long handled ones every public pool has, scoop it out and toss it somewhere. Way less bother then either solutions. As for the bike just lie its way easier then wasting your breath on anything else.

  • @pennyforyourthoughts9264
    @pennyforyourthoughts92642 жыл бұрын

    That "smile" is haunting.

  • @JAnx01
    @JAnx014 ай бұрын

    This is just GOLD with her smile and cute music.

  • @HighSpeedNoDrag

    @HighSpeedNoDrag

    4 ай бұрын

    What about her blouse?

  • @IloveJesus777j77

    @IloveJesus777j77

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@HighSpeedNoDragJesus is coming back. Believe He died for your sins and rose again then repent to be saved.😊

  • @Ancient7778
    @Ancient77784 ай бұрын

    Her bike story is actually funny af

  • @LegionL-A

    @LegionL-A

    9 күн бұрын

    In a civilized place (Canada) with neighbors who aren't Karens, people could give less than 2 shits about someone borrowing your bike if you brought it back. She even pumped the friggin tires for her neighbor, who as mentioned hadn't been using it in years. She literally left it in better shape than when she borrowed it. Here is what an adjusted reaction to that situation would have looked like: "Oh, we hadn't used them in years so I get why you thought of simply borrowing it. Would you mind simply checking in with us next time if you want to borrow it? Thanks for pumping up the tires by the way!" Apparently being too emotional can be just as bad or worse than being psychopathic. Balance FTW!

  • @zerosoma33

    @zerosoma33

    8 күн бұрын

    Yet she still wouldn’t ask next time because taking the time to consider someone’s feelings would be too much work and unnecessary time wasting.

  • @michaelfleming8490
    @michaelfleming84902 жыл бұрын

    Thinking that trying to slowly and torturously drown a possum is cold hearted is not something you learn for socialization. That’s something that is part of having humanity about you. This woman is tremendously unhealthy and has even convinced herself that the fact that she isn’t bothered by trying to torture an animal to death is somehow a positive attribute because she’s “immune from socialization.”

  • @luna-mt7sf

    @luna-mt7sf

    10 ай бұрын

    She doesn't understand sympathy so she observe others , little psychopaths know is it's impossible to fake humanity all the time Now although this is impossible, it's actually SOOO easy to manipulate people , cuz most of us , no offense to anyone , we're actually like sheep , we see someone on media doing charity ,feeding an animal , telling people what they wanna hear ,BAM all of sudden we see them as angels , faking empathy is actually so easy most of times

  • @divestedkonservativekarame4269

    @divestedkonservativekarame4269

    10 ай бұрын

    @@luna-mt7sf the thing about the opossum thing is definitely not psychopaths a because you can't have sympathy for an animal that is headless in your fridge.

  • @pagecollector4856

    @pagecollector4856

    9 ай бұрын

    Well, she is a psychopath, not a psychologist. Psychopaths obviously don´t feel empathy, so why would she?

  • @sophielvenskiold9089

    @sophielvenskiold9089

    5 ай бұрын

    The thing about psycopaths is that they see their diagnosis as a positive thing, since they’ve probably never had empathy it’s hard for them to imagine why it’s good to have it. In their eyes it’s a weakness since it doesn’t do anything good for them. So when she sees the possum, all she can think about is how annoying it is that it’s ruining her plans. It’s very scary:(

  • @karamthomas777

    @karamthomas777

    5 ай бұрын

    She is definitely sick(o).

  • @kikithepupper6774
    @kikithepupper67742 жыл бұрын

    it's like these psychopaths literally skip like several steps on how to get something they want. they just take it. a normal person would think about how to work and save up the money, but these psychopaths are like, "just take it."

  • @SRBOMBONICA86

    @SRBOMBONICA86

    10 ай бұрын

    Lack of impuls control

  • @Withnail1969

    @Withnail1969

    4 ай бұрын

    She needed a bike on the spur of the moment, she borrowed one. No big deal.

  • @chupacabra9357

    @chupacabra9357

    Ай бұрын

    Wouldn't that be more sociopaths? I thought psychopaths were more methodical

  • @user-cb9ke4xs3y
    @user-cb9ke4xs3y3 ай бұрын

    Can you imagine working with a person like this?

  • @CrisTina-tp2jg
    @CrisTina-tp2jg4 ай бұрын

    Some people think in very black and white. Steal means to take (another person's property) without permission or legal right and without intending to return it. In her mind, she intended to return the bikes, so it was not stealing. We could get philosophical about this. Is taxation theft? Who decides what is theft? Taxation can be viewed either as theft by a collective agency or as the charity of private agents ( although it is non-voluntary and coercive). Some may consider their tax too high because they do not have enough to live on because of the rising cost of living; therefore, they may consider a proportion of their tax as theft. Who says the amount they pay is appropriate? Appropriate, according to whom? Yes, I know it's according to the government. But is the tax in the proper percentage? Just because it's the government deeming it doesn't mean it's appropriate.

  • @rmulley1800
    @rmulley18002 жыл бұрын

    This person is really damaged. This is what concerns me; she is damaged, does damaging things to others, gets approval for her behavior from commenters, and just goes on. She can practice law, she can be a company CEO, she can function well (relative term) in life and make a good living. Heck, she would make a great Mega Church pastor. This tells you a lot about what our society understands to be successful and someone to be emulated. She is obviously, someone you don't want to even be around; it's all about her. If that excites you, you have problems.

  • @mitchellbracey5234

    @mitchellbracey5234

    2 жыл бұрын

    There are strong arguments that many institutions are structured to elevate people like her. She might even agree with such a position.

  • @harrymartin684

    @harrymartin684

    10 ай бұрын

    If you wanted a defence lawyer, you'd want a cold blooded psychopath defending you, if you could afford one

  • @diorsuave217

    @diorsuave217

    8 ай бұрын

    💀who cares, its her life

  • @junepassingthrouthegate8810

    @junepassingthrouthegate8810

    5 ай бұрын

    ​@@diorsuave217Most people in positions of power, including world leaders, are like her. It's not only about her, it's about everyone like her that has decision-making power at a global level...meaning it can affect you, me, and everyone else.

  • @lennertcornette

    @lennertcornette

    4 ай бұрын

    @@diorsuave217 'Who cares she ruins people's lives, as long as it's not mine.' Haaaah, the land of Ayn Rand, egocentric people are a pest.

  • @ioandes
    @ioandes2 жыл бұрын

    Well of course she is narcissistic, this particular video screams of it. She is very proud that she is so different than the others. Then again, this is a self-narrating video. Any expert on psychopaths would have a lot of follow-up questions like, I don't know, how would she feel if somebody "borrowed" her bike and invade her personal space. It's not that difficult to get to her. Eventually she would crack that fake,calm, self-assured face of hers

  • @Jewifer333x2

    @Jewifer333x2

    8 ай бұрын

    Im thoroughly convinced she's not an actual psychopath because any comment refuting her claims on quora gets deleted and post-blocked.

  • @edanridge3023

    @edanridge3023

    7 ай бұрын

    Well, she is a psychopath it makes total sense with the bike thing. Remember the whole thing is psychopaths don’t have empathy so her taking someone else’s bike and invading their personal space has no relation in her head to someone doing it to her, the whole reason we don’t do things like that is because we know we wouldn’t like it if someone did it to us, that doesn’t even enter mind. And she’s not a narcissist, but she definitely is narcissistic we’re all narcissistic but it’s tempered by our, not wanting to be arrogant or make others feel inferior or uncomfortable, she doesn’t have that, and it’s not her fault she just wasn’t born with it.

  • @AABB-px8lc

    @AABB-px8lc

    4 ай бұрын

    @@Jewifer333x2 my mom phycho, and she definitely same so much it damn scare. Especially cry things. My mom say it different words, but... And eyes moves, facial musclus moves, DAMN SAME. I bet she is real. I am not an expert, just 50+ experience,we live 3 ppl in appartments, and my mum just outrage to dad minute ago because he did not clean his plate fast enouth. To entertain herself and keep us "on tonus and let them know who boss here".

  • @vladimirofsvalbard9477

    @vladimirofsvalbard9477

    4 ай бұрын

    Psychopaths are essentially RAW internally. They mimic society and social customs in order to function within it's constraints. However, you have to remember that they are predators. Not all of them are violent (obviously). But they will do what they can to get what they want. Lying and manipulating are the name of the game. If something can be proven; they won't do it. Integrity, loyalty, and honesty aren't in the vocabulary.

  • @sallythompson5364
    @sallythompson5364Ай бұрын

    I have a sibling who is a psychopath. All I ever wanted was to get as far away from him as possible. I succeeded. I haven’t seen him or spoke to him in years and never plan on seeing him again

  • @gunsmokesue82
    @gunsmokesue82Ай бұрын

    I couldn't watch it past the first story. Like oh you tried to drown a baby animal instead of helping it and you just left it struggling in the pool, yeah I've learned enough about you. That's the opposite of what I'd do. I can't relate at all and I'm glad I don't know this person.

  • @ahzaraqilla3145
    @ahzaraqilla31452 жыл бұрын

    Her eyes. She has the eyes of the narcissists I've met in my life. I can tell this lady is lacked or doesn't have empathy.

  • @dododecoco

    @dododecoco

    2 жыл бұрын

    Can you try to explicitely describe the features of her eyes that make you say that ? I'm very interested

  • @sirkermitthefirstoffrogeth9622

    @sirkermitthefirstoffrogeth9622

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@dododecocolack of eye contact to the camera, her eyes don't change in different expressions like smiling.

  • @amnbvcxz8650

    @amnbvcxz8650

    10 ай бұрын

    She barely looks in the eye of the observer. Is that what you mean?

  • @Ajesen

    @Ajesen

    8 ай бұрын

    I can bet u my kidney that if u didnt know she is a psychopath, you wouldnt say this

  • @PomidorowaArmata

    @PomidorowaArmata

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@Ajesen Not true, her smile is extremely creepy, unnatural and learned.

  • @deviklovecraft3835
    @deviklovecraft38352 жыл бұрын

    Well, she’s in the right profession I reckon

  • @Bananaquit23
    @Bananaquit233 ай бұрын

    Very nice of her to share her experience with people and go under the microscope to benefit science.

  • @MaribelGarcia-pg7sv

    @MaribelGarcia-pg7sv

    3 ай бұрын

    Very nice? I'm sure there's a better word for that. I also doubt she sees it that way. In fact, I doubt she does anything for the benefit of anyone but herself.

  • @unclearnuclear

    @unclearnuclear

    Ай бұрын

    It is refreshing to see your comment. I think it was very praiseworthy of the people who filmed, produced, and posted this video to share this with us. There are al ot of people here who maybe can't appreciate the value - they'd rather just make fun of the woman for having a mental illness. But this truly is valuable for increasing the public's scientific knowledge. So, thanks!

  • @MantisShrimp80
    @MantisShrimp804 ай бұрын

    Thank you for opening up and improving our understanding of the condition.

  • @barrydaly7174
    @barrydaly71742 жыл бұрын

    Half the CEO's in the world shout " Go Sister!!"

  • @Terra_Lopez

    @Terra_Lopez

    3 ай бұрын

    Yeah, apparently, statistically, they are overrepresented in CEOs.

  • @GlennForbes20

    @GlennForbes20

    3 ай бұрын

    Only half?

  • @IloveJesus777j77

    @IloveJesus777j77

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@GlennForbes20Jesus is coming back. Believe He died for your sins and rose again then repent to be saved.

  • @IloveJesus777j77

    @IloveJesus777j77

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@Terra_LopezJesus is coming back. Believe He died for your sins and rose again then repent to be saved.

  • @Terra_Lopez

    @Terra_Lopez

    Ай бұрын

    @@IloveJesus777j77 I'm curious -- what made you pick *us* to tell this to?

  • @melindadgw2587
    @melindadgw25872 жыл бұрын

    She reminds me of certain politicians who have that permanent grin & blank look, their affect never fits their words or the circumstance. it's off-putting & odd, but a great indicator that something isn't right & that maybe they are not to be trusted.

  • @tomtyler7058
    @tomtyler70583 ай бұрын

    Wow! Breathtaking! Lie after lie after lie!

  • @bokehintheussr5033
    @bokehintheussr503328 күн бұрын

    I find this interview quite funny. Its amusing how jolly she seems while clearly having a shallow range of emotion experience. She actually chuckled while talking about psychopaths torturing animals, as if it sounds like a silly little pastime 😂

  • @ACDBunnie
    @ACDBunnie4 ай бұрын

    Her possum story. I read the first part of her book. She describes herself as much more attractive. I stopped reading because she kept mentioning instances where she put in so much effort for things that didn't really matter (like trying to drown a possum, failing, and canceling a swimming lesson where she could have made money instead of just chucking the live one over the fence). It made me realize psychopaths maybe don't have all the answers.

  • @ArimaSenne1

    @ArimaSenne1

    4 ай бұрын

    iduno bro cant you get a disease from touching a possium? or a parasite

  • @yahiiia9269

    @yahiiia9269

    4 ай бұрын

    @@ArimaSenne1 Usually, intelligent people just use a long stick and let it crawl out from a safe distance.

  • @c.eb.1216

    @c.eb.1216

    4 ай бұрын

    Of course not. It's a type of cognitive deficit. She might be in the 99th percentile because she has extra brain power from unused social and emotional processing parts of the brain, same as how a blind person might use the extra neurons for super hearing. Doesn't make them less blind and always able to figure out what's what.

  • @immortalscapegoat6548
    @immortalscapegoat65482 жыл бұрын

    The constant smiling seems to be something shes doing to seem friendly. But it's like an attempt to gaslight I feel. I felt myself being drawn in by her charisma, but thinking, those are awful things to do.

  • @Solar.Geoengineering.Advocate

    @Solar.Geoengineering.Advocate

    13 күн бұрын

    you call that charisma? jayzus i think she's one of the most revolting people i've come across

  • @cvc2907
    @cvc29072 ай бұрын

    These people run the world. Emotions will hold you back.

  • @jla8070
    @jla807026 күн бұрын

    I read that M.E Thomas book and that opening scene with the baby possum in the pool is chilling, left me with a gray feeling. Their weak spot is thinking they're smarter than anyone. Creepy smiles in the wrong places

  • @allhailmegatron86
    @allhailmegatron862 жыл бұрын

    Stay away from these type of people, full of them self and would snap at any moment and would probably cover her tracks well

  • @microapple97

    @microapple97

    Ай бұрын

    I wish I'd read this 2 years ago before I invited one into my life who proceeded to lie to the court in an attempt to restrain me after she damaged $7,000 of my personal property, and this is after months and months of my trying to work with her and be there for her because she really convinced me of her sob story. She was 20 years older than me, by the way. And yes, they cover their tracks well. She literally fled the country. At least that's what her lawyer told the court after she "cut all ties" with him. "Highest rated criminal defense attorney in Seattle." That's who she hired in a protected order case against me. I don't think I'm ever going to be done processing this.

  • @the_hellion6765
    @the_hellion67653 ай бұрын

    The jangly guitar music in the background is a riot

  • @Tim21189
    @Tim2118927 күн бұрын

    She smiles when she’s talking about other psychopaths who torture animals. That’s extremely disturbing.

  • @kolash74
    @kolash742 жыл бұрын

    Wow… thinking that psychopathy is far more common than we may think.

  • @bj666rn
    @bj666rn6 ай бұрын

    After seeing interviews with genuine psychopaths/sociopaths, and having real life interactions with people who exhibit the same behaviors, I no longer trust people who are overly charismatic...

  • @lolitavine9616

    @lolitavine9616

    4 ай бұрын

    One day I met a very charismatic man. He joked a lot and generally looked funny. But I felt very uncomfortable around him, even to the point of anxiety and an inexplicable feeling of fear and danger. Although he hadn't done anything wrong to me, I could see that his lips were smiling, but his eyes weren't. And my intuition told me that I didn't need to communicate with him. That's exactly what I did. I ended the conversation and felt very relieved. But the feeling of fear that I felt next to him, I will not forget to this day. By the way, I also saw his mother. And she had the same cold eyes as him, which made me wary and forced me to stay away from this family.

  • @rainmanj9978

    @rainmanj9978

    3 ай бұрын

    ​@@lolitavine9616you know I've had a similar experience. I just felt fear of one Uber driver. I felt a presence of like evil or something. It could of been my mood but who knows. I guess we will never know.

  • @elwarofficial
    @elwarofficial4 ай бұрын

    Respect to you for unmasking intentionally and honestly

  • @paulmaxwell8851
    @paulmaxwell88514 ай бұрын

    A fascinating interview. Psychopaths and sociopaths are everywhere in society, so we would be well advised to understand them a little better.

  • @DuckiesDad08
    @DuckiesDad082 жыл бұрын

    I understand she contradicts herself multiple times, but let’s not be harsh in our criticisms. It’s important that people like her can continue to express taboo topics openly. It helps us understand them. Lastly, we’re all a little off in some way. It’s not as if she’s not a person, or that she chose to be who she is. She can’t help being her any more than you and I can ourselves.

  • @billcipher3946

    @billcipher3946

    11 ай бұрын

    That is the truth agree

  • @keidwyn

    @keidwyn

    8 ай бұрын

    Except she is dangerous very dangerous, she feels no guilt ,she is opportunistic ,in her world letting something suffer is no big deal so if she is the only human around and she sees a child not breathing ,she might decide nah I'll let it die kids are are annoying, it looks poor so its not like it can be a benefit to anyone or anything ,bit scary now isn't she I mean IT

  • @aster_nova

    @aster_nova

    7 ай бұрын

    Why should we extend empathy towards a person who cannot extend it towards us?

  • @DuckiesDad08

    @DuckiesDad08

    7 ай бұрын

    @@aster_nova feeling empathy shouldn’t be dependent on the subject’s ability to give it back. If you feel things for others solely based on the expectation they’ll return it, you’re not feeling it for genuine reasons. It’s like being an advocate for a disadvantaged group, but rescinding your support because one of the group was mean to you. This doesn’t mean you should express empathy in the presence of someone who can’t feel it, and may use your feelings to exploit you. Empathy here is best applied at a distance. They are human, afterall. They didn’t choose to be wired this way.

  • @yamiscape

    @yamiscape

    5 ай бұрын

    @@DuckiesDad08this is a well reasoned comment. My half sister is a psychopath and for all her faults, she’s my best friend to such an extent that we refer to each other as sisters and would do anything for each other. I also have low empathy, so I understand her thought process and I was always willing to support her crazy schemes even though as the older sister I really should have tried harder to stop her. I don’t know if this is due to sociopathy (we didn’t have a great childhood) or just how I am. It’s definitely to do with how I was raised but many people say I come off as autistic. I don’t think that’s the case.

  • @manassurya2019
    @manassurya20197 ай бұрын

    In some way I feel sorry for literal psychopaths like this. They didn't choose to be born without the ability to feel empathy, sympathy or any deep emotions. For some reason nature has seen fit to have a small percentage of the population be psychopaths. But that doesn't mean we can ever go easy on them or be off our guard.

  • @vetiverose128

    @vetiverose128

    7 ай бұрын

    Agree with you.

  • @autisticmonkeyboi6820

    @autisticmonkeyboi6820

    4 ай бұрын

    TheY are dangerous, don't feel bad for them and stay on your guards

  • @CRYZTALSUBZZ

    @CRYZTALSUBZZ

    4 ай бұрын

    @@autisticmonkeyboi6820 It’s not their fault they’re suffering from a terrible disease

  • @CRYZTALSUBZZ

    @CRYZTALSUBZZ

    4 ай бұрын

    @@autisticmonkeyboi6820 many psychopaths aren’t dangerous, only because someone’s suffering from that condition doesn’t automatically make them monsters. They just have a fee parts of their brain that isn’t functioning as they should.

  • @Gigusx

    @Gigusx

    4 ай бұрын

    Man, this reminded me of an episode on Tim Ferriss or Modern Wisdom (I think one of them, anyway) about psychopaths, but I can't remember the main points. I think for survival it just made a lot more sense to be psychopathic (so more of them survived and reproduced), if I remember correctly. Makes me want to find it and listen to it again haha, I remember it presented some really scary numbers.

  • @brooksadcock639
    @brooksadcock6393 ай бұрын

    For whatever reason, I found the attempted reproduction of a smile to be the most interesting. The muscular engagement is wrong, but what you might expect a robot to produce if you fed it pictures of people smiling. If you look at the context of when the smile occurs, it is also fascinating in that it fits kind of conversational tone and timing, but not context.

  • @liebstmohnbroetchen
    @liebstmohnbroetchen2 жыл бұрын

    She seems to be very proud of herself

  • @yxinz
    @yxinz2 жыл бұрын

    She could have asked for permission to take the bike. It’s just a matter of having no manners or responsibility.

  • @enermaxstephens1051

    @enermaxstephens1051

    3 ай бұрын

    And for being so "smart" she could have lied and not created an enemy right there on the spot. "No I have no idea, I didn't even know you had bikes"

  • @Zoe-dr5ps

    @Zoe-dr5ps

    3 ай бұрын

    ​@@enermaxstephens1051She wanted them to know she took the bikes. Not dumb. Very deliberate.

  • @enermaxstephens1051

    @enermaxstephens1051

    3 ай бұрын

    @@Zoe-dr5ps How do you know that? Apparently they usually try to blend in, and not get caught.

  • @Zoe-dr5ps

    @Zoe-dr5ps

    3 ай бұрын

    @@enermaxstephens1051 sometimes they like a reaction. It's not a big enough thing to hide anyway. They love some trouble

  • @bikinibandit2398
    @bikinibandit23983 ай бұрын

    Life without emotions is Heaven on Earth.

  • @jjsandow9882
    @jjsandow98823 ай бұрын

    Thank you for being so honest about your feelings.

  • @mashal2567
    @mashal25672 жыл бұрын

    It so weird how she smiles during times she Dosent need to smile… like when she talks about never liking animals and smiling so much…

  • @adammuscat5086

    @adammuscat5086

    2 жыл бұрын

    She's learned that smiling makes you seem more friendly but she doesn't understand actual social queues which would make a person smile and therefore uses a smile to try and make a horrible statement seem more normal

  • @user-ij6py2zi9b

    @user-ij6py2zi9b

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@adammuscat5086 This is correct, Psychopaths at birth don't understand normal human function so they have to learn over time to blend in the crowd of society.

  • @jaguarenduda
    @jaguarenduda10 ай бұрын

    i feel for those who can't really feel. as kind of the opposite of a psycopath, BPD, I struggle a lot with my overwhelming feelings, but I wouldnt ask to be any other way. lacking emotional range isnt a gift, it is a disability. she may be cunning but she has no clue how emotionally dumb she is. also shes so narcisistic i bet she reads these comments to this day. hi joker smile dead eyes lady, i'm sorry u cant experience one of the most fulfilling parts of human experience, thank u for helping me understand your kind better, i hope we never ever meet

  • @SRBOMBONICA86

    @SRBOMBONICA86

    10 ай бұрын

    No omg ,I envy her lack of anxiety lol I don't want this anxiety,it ruined my life 😅

  • @vetiverose128

    @vetiverose128

    7 ай бұрын

    Me too...But I kinda feel bad for these people coz they were born that way and have no control over their condition. Having said that, I would never want to meet one either lol.

  • @dopex89

    @dopex89

    4 ай бұрын

    @@SRBOMBONICA86 you would have more success living with your your anxiety, or controlling it, than she would experiencing the positive sides of being human. Don't give up! There are proven methods that can help you, whether in the form of therapy, mediation or pharmacological treatment. She has no hope, unfortunately.

  • @AABB-px8lc

    @AABB-px8lc

    4 ай бұрын

    how did you can KNOW that you "struggle a lot with my overwhelming feelings" ? One cannot judge it from "inside". Many ppl, even strangers, keep talking you "why you so much react to usual things"? If one have disorder from beginning, all experience is normal to him. Example, my mom psychopath, and in addition have extreme high pain threshold. So, she cannot believe other ppl struggle from pain. Yes, even 80+ experience she still sure me and dad imitate that we sick and play "drama queen" just to annoy her. Aftter damn 80 years of live experience, being pro medic (provisor), she cannot believe other ppl have pain. I think she give up and threat us (any ppl who scream or make gesture of injures near her) as morons, and as good girl, she let them do it, looking from above, scorned.

  • @igvc1876

    @igvc1876

    4 ай бұрын

    it makes no sense to feel bad for someone who doesnt feel anything lacking. in fact she probably would feel bad for you. these people certainly experience feelings, and they might be much happier than most

  • @WeRoutoftheirleague
    @WeRoutoftheirleague21 күн бұрын

    You just need to find your right purpose, your right fit. I explained earlier that although I personally know I can’t hurt other living things without it affecting me, then it creates a thing I need to heal, but those that are able to be the one to “put an animal down so it doesn’t suffer in pain” and not have the thing happen where it affects you, those people are important and needed, and I’m grateful for those people too. You have some similarities with me.

  • @JusWendell
    @JusWendell2 жыл бұрын

    If this was a casting for the office I’d believe it

  • @iammaxhammer

    @iammaxhammer

    4 ай бұрын

    lmao

  • @danvincent2600
    @danvincent26002 жыл бұрын

    That’s just awful, killing a baby opossum is vile

  • @hdshjs

    @hdshjs

    7 ай бұрын

    Killing adult animal also is vile. Not only 'sweet' and 'cute' animals suffer pain and dread. Just saying😉

  • @starpixelproduction7571

    @starpixelproduction7571

    7 ай бұрын

    ​​​​@@hdshjsNo arguments detected❤ You are not defending the adult animals here,but the psycho's mindset and actions. You thought that we wouldn't notice,hm,didn't ya? P.S:try better next time. Oh,and last but not least: Seek clinical help 😘🤗❤!!

  • @igvc1876

    @igvc1876

    4 ай бұрын

    is killing a spider or a cockroach vile? is killing a chicken or a pig vile?

  • @CTimmerman

    @CTimmerman

    3 ай бұрын

    @@igvc1876 Spiders eat disease-carrying mosquitos, cockroaches are pests, and chickens and pigs are food.

  • @Migos347

    @Migos347

    3 ай бұрын

    Just as vile as paying for animals to be abused and murdered in the meat, eggs, dairy, wool, and fur industries

  • @dytallixx1268
    @dytallixx12683 ай бұрын

    her smile says it all

  • @nr7000000001
    @nr70000000013 ай бұрын

    You have got all it takes to live happily and succesfully on this world, congratulations!

  • @HumanoidMachine
    @HumanoidMachine7 ай бұрын

    I think I had psychopathic tendencies when I was younger but one thing that helped me develop empathy is imagining that it's me suffering instead of someone else. If I see someone get killed in a movie, I think "what if that were me?". So now, I cannot stand to see someone else suffer.

  • @Gavlon

    @Gavlon

    7 ай бұрын

    I think that's pretty normal, empathy is something that develops over time in children, children are innocent because they don't fully comprehend the extent of their actions whereas adults do(or at least should)

  • @RhythmAddictedState

    @RhythmAddictedState

    4 ай бұрын

    You were never a psychopath in the first place.

  • @lucia-di-lammermoor

    @lucia-di-lammermoor

    4 ай бұрын

    Psychopathy is a certain form of neurodivergence, you can't develop it beyond the fetal stage.

  • @AABB-px8lc

    @AABB-px8lc

    4 ай бұрын

    No, they are have no idea at all what we all talking about, as it is physical "disconnect" in head of some "blocks". There is no such objects in their universe, as completely blind ppl cannot imagine what is color nuances or we barely can imagine how is spider think about bitcoin. You are definitely normal person.

  • @MuantanamoMobile

    @MuantanamoMobile

    4 ай бұрын

    @@lucia-di-lammermoor Sociopath is environmental as well, and can result from abusive, negligent or violent environments a child is brought up in.

  • @trugangsta4real
    @trugangsta4real9 ай бұрын

    Its people like her that rule the world

  • @kasperpetersen9204

    @kasperpetersen9204

    8 ай бұрын

    100%

  • @vetiverose128

    @vetiverose128

    7 ай бұрын

    yes, unfortunately.

  • @zentriceggofficial
    @zentriceggofficial3 ай бұрын

    Attributes for a formidable defense lawyer. No empathy for victim clouding her mind, and a desire to win at all costs for her defendant because it proves her intellect.

  • @twistednerve444
    @twistednerve4444 ай бұрын

    I find it fascinating how she described in detail slowly drowning a defenseless animal and then smoothly flips it around by concluding that some of us are "socialized/conditioned to believe that certain things are cold-hearted." No, no. I understand you're a psychopath, but please hold yourself accountable. We do not believe that killing a defenseless animal is cold-hearted because someone told us that it was bad. A lot of us discovered on our own that it inherently does not make us feel good when we hurt another living thing because we wouldn't want that to happen to us. And I guess that's precisely the crux of a psychopath's issue: their inability to put themselves in the shoes of the person, place, or thing they are hurting/disrespecting. Either way, her chirpiness is unnerving as hell and I can see how easy it is for them to gaslight, invalidate, or manipulate someone by her claiming that her decisions were based on "logic" because they weren't. She honestly made things more complicated for herself by drowning that animal. First, she wasted her own time by trying to get creative and using a hose. Now there's an animal inside of an infected pool that's got to be cleaned out. And now you've cancelled classes which is highly inconvenient for all of those families and people paying for that service, probably really looking forward to their activity of leisure and learning just for you to fuck off to the beach and enjoy your day after taking a life, no matter how seemingly insignificant. These people are DANGEROUS.

  • @QuidamByMoonlight
    @QuidamByMoonlight2 жыл бұрын

    I’m at least encouraged to see that her view of her intelligence is backed by evidence. The way she explains it I could not attribute that alone to narcissism or egocentricity. Not surprised she is a lawyer, though.

  • @jellycone

    @jellycone

    8 ай бұрын

    What evidence? Saying you scored 99th percentile is not proving you scored 99th percentile.

  • @98vuxs70cigxocp

    @98vuxs70cigxocp

    8 ай бұрын

    @@jellycone Keep coping on 1 year old comments

  • @hydraman007

    @hydraman007

    8 ай бұрын

    @@98vuxs70cigxocp I don't get your point?

  • @alil6547

    @alil6547

    7 ай бұрын

    Online iq tests are bullshit just saying. Hopefully she took one with a professional aka actual iq tests

  • @LordVader1094

    @LordVader1094

    4 ай бұрын

    @@98vuxs70cigxocp How is it cope to point out that someone saying something =/= it being true.

  • @warrior-me9ps
    @warrior-me9ps2 жыл бұрын

    I like how she called the baby possum a trooper

  • @zonuphaon
    @zonuphaon26 күн бұрын

    The fact that most people currently live in societies that give these people the agency to have unproportionate power is society is very depressing. Oftentimes ending up in law or politics, these people ironically are allowed to leverage the very laws that allow them to continue being rewarded for doing bad actor activities simply because they understand they can get away with them. This is one of the biggest dangers at large to a developing or established society.

  • @ericdennett1384
    @ericdennett138422 күн бұрын

    What a true perfect lawyer 😂

  • @t.w.8174
    @t.w.81742 жыл бұрын

    she seems so strange, and that remark about her IQ is classic.

  • @thelonelypigeon9554
    @thelonelypigeon95542 жыл бұрын

    Even as a hunter, you put down animals quickly so they don't suffer. Hunting can be for the safety of others or for sustainance for one's self and others.

  • @enermaxstephens1051

    @enermaxstephens1051

    3 ай бұрын

    Can be, but how many hunters do it just cause they "want to"? It's almost all of them in the west. If you consider poorer countries then yeah, your comment makes more sense.

  • @andrewellard7254
    @andrewellard72543 ай бұрын

    There is no end to some people's selfishness. I worked in mental health for over 40 years and understand the DSM's jargon well but simple descriptions of observation are equally useful. An elderly Psychiatrist I worked with once said, "sociopath , psychopath, narcissist, what's wrong with the words, 'a bastard'..."

  • @CTimmerman

    @CTimmerman

    3 ай бұрын

    A bastard is a person born out of wedlock, which is a sin in some cults. A sociopath hates random people due to trauma, and a psychopath was born with the warrior gene which means they are soldiers of fortune, like Wagner.