Jim is most definitely a winner of a guy. I'm glad that he found you, Jess. I'm a better guy because you two are part of my world.

Great share! If more people were open and honest about how they feel about each other we would have a better world! I am sure you tell Jim every day but to have made that declaration in front of thousands of people I am sure will mean the world to him. Well done!

Wow, what a beautiful tribute to Jim! Thanks for allowing us to get a glimpse into your life and challenges, and allowing us to see Jim through your eyes. ❤️❤️

To heck with those haters. Block them if it bothers you. You and Jim are good together. Have a great day Jessica.

Jim, you can shut off the flow to that pipe by getting a rubber ball attach it to a stick lower it down on the inside of the tank and put it on the outlet hold it there till you cut the line. The pressure will hold the ball in place while you could a put a valve there

@coyotech55

5 ай бұрын

Good idea!

@PatricesProjects

5 ай бұрын

This is a great idea.

@joshuatinkham3703

5 ай бұрын

Good idea I was thinking a wet towel would work tied to a rope

@johnbroge7839

5 ай бұрын

You beat me to it, was going to suggest the same thing.

@professordeb

5 ай бұрын

Wow, here I was thinking he shoud drain the tank to fix the pipe properly! The best solution is too obvious sometimes! But those pipes do deserver better protection and valvles right at the exit point for a long-term solution.Thankfully the whole pipe didn’t simply fracture….what a mess that would have been. Would love to see them try this ball-stop method.

Jessy your a very brave person telling everyone about your problems. By doing this you'll be helping people who have the same issues.

Thanks for sharing Jess. I was not diagnosed with Autism Spectrum disorder until I was 63. It is so much easier now that I can better understand why I interact with the world differently then some other people. Being Neuro-spicy, as a fun term for it, has its advantages too. You and Jim are doing an amazing job on your homestead. I love watching.❤

Every relationship is different. If you two have found something that works for you and makes you happy, then that is the perfect relationship for you. Jim is a good guy. I can tell that he's trying to include you and give you tons of attention.

@lauriesmith7517

5 ай бұрын

Elegant!

Thanks for sharing, now I understand why there won't be any children to leave all your hard work to. It was a brave decision to share this with us. You do well, and thank goodness for Jim being a happy chappy, he brightens my day too🌻☺️🐕

Jesse, that was probably one of the sweetest, most intimate and honest disclosures I think I’ve seen on KZread.

Im so proud of you for sharing about yourself. Weirdos unite! 🖐️💐

Thank you Jessica for sharing yourself in the most vulnerable and genuine of ways. I have always looked at you as having wonderful gifts ….you are so creative, your love of animals and nature , compassionate towards others and a devotion for caring for the land. You and Jim compliment each other, I’m so glad you both found a relationship that gives the very best of who you are. You are loved💕

You are beautiful. Thank you for your transparency and your kind words of appreciation.

I just want to say that your sharing with us made me feel warm inside. Thank you and any body that watches any number of episodes could never say that Jim doesn't love you. You two belong together. Just do for each other more than you do for yourselves.

@ourselfreliantlife

5 ай бұрын

Wow, thank you!

Jess, Jim.. out of all your videos this is one I've loved the most. Thank you so much for sharing this.

@ourselfreliantlife

5 ай бұрын

Wow, thank you!

@0livelanette859

5 ай бұрын

Ditto ! 💕 🥰 ~ Grandma 0live 🕊

@user-helloworld308

5 ай бұрын

Such a powerful love full of respect, consideration, commitment and partnership is as RARE as a pink Buffalo. Hearing you express yourself was like listening to the sun rise.

@soulshiningOffGrid

5 ай бұрын

I agree... not sure if you all realize just how much of an impact this video will make on people struggling.

Very sweet and nice to hear spouses / couples that support each other. Life is complicated and a great partner makes all the difference in life. I was lucky to find my wife and we compliment each other and lift each other at key times as well. Thank you for sharing!

What a lovely video, thanks for sharing with us, Jess. It is so clear to us that Jim loves you. Your words brought this gruff old guy a sense of how beautiful and unique love can be.

You just seem like a beautiful soul . I wish the majority of the population was like you and Jim . God Bless the two of you .🌵☦

Dearest Jess, That heartfelt thank you was the nicest I’ve ever heard. You made me feel special too! I want to just hug you on your depression and pain! Your appreciation and caring for Jim is such a relief as I had worried on your stoicism. I’m so glad you “opened” up and let us know! That was just so wonderful. Thank you!

That was some deep inner reflection. I have seen your moments of uncomfortable times in some vids. We appreciate both of you. I think you absolutely compliment each other. My wife has some quiet depression times, and she loves me being a cut-up, and being funny. Its helped her cope. You guys are awesome. Thanks for being you.

I really love you and Jim. Keep taking one day at a time. Know that you found someone who loves you for who you are. That kind of love is rare. God bless you and Jim.

Perhaps pump the water in the poly into the cistern temporarily, make the repair, then pump it back (or leave it)? Just a thought..

@haroldwarner8980

5 ай бұрын

As a plumber that was my idea also! Then put the valve as close to the tank as possible. I know the cistern is for over flow and future use, but it is also your back up tank right now, so to speak. No need to buy another tank.

The fact that you can speak directly into the camera openly and candidly speaks volumes to the benefit that your experience has brought you. I know it would be completely different in front of others, but nonetheless this is a wonderful step. The two of you are lucky to have such a cohesive relationship.

I'm seeing that your brother may be in the same boat just by his demeanor. Take care of your minds and heath guys. Thanks for sharing.

Feeling honored, you had the courage and trust in your fans to share your personal story . Jess and Jim, you are my favorite couple. Thanks for believing in your follower...we certainly believe in you. ❤

Jim is truly a phenom. It's impossible to watch this stuff and not see what an incredibly hard-working dude he is and how much he adores Jess. And I suspect he's not just acting for the camera when he shows just what an upbeat attitude and outlook he has for everything. I recently heard a phrase that applies perfectly to him: golden retriever energy. The world would be a better place if we had a lot more Jims to go around!

A loving way to honor your husband! Jim loves you and we know that you love him.❤❤

Jess, so brave of you to share so much. I can appreciate you wanting to change where you can, but remember you are wonderful just the way you are. So glad you two found each other!

Hi Jess and Jim, this is an example of how you both have grown together over the years. Jess, you are who you are and the main thing that I suggest is that you work with what the stumbling blocks are for you. You know yourself and awareness of the condition is helpful but doesn’t define you. God bless you both. I enjoy sharing these with you and have been following for a while. Jim, on the water tanks, when I installed my tanks I valves each before connecting pipes. I also admire your alignment with Jess, the way you accept, respect and negotiate your way through what we see of your lives. You both are in my prayers and I look forward to each video. Stay safe and healthy.

It was so nice of Jess to share the dynamic relationship between the two of you that we, the viewers, aren't aware of and how living in the dessert is a peaceful place.

I hope this helps for something i injoy watching your videos keep making them Thanks!

@ourselfreliantlife

5 ай бұрын

Thank you very much for all the support!🙏

@HazelDavidson-jf8ux

5 ай бұрын

Jess, you are truly brave to be so candid about your personal health challenges and I applaude you. Jim seems to be that guy who thinks always in your best interest. This makes for a relationship that lasts a lifetime and more.

Girl you have blossomed from when I first started watching you. You are doing amazing! I understand the artist in you. It is hard to explain to people who don’t understand it. But I get you… and you are doing great! ♥️

Jess, not only are you incredibly artsy, but also so big hearted! Opening up about some of those things is difficult; glad you did it. Always look forward to Jim's positive attitude and sometimes corny humor. When you find yourself in the boat of life, keep paddling.

This channel is currently my most favorite, because you folks are not pretentious. I'm rooting for you both and 🐕. Looking forward to next vid, Best regards from Los Angeles California.

Very brave to share unconditional love is hard to find. Respect keep being you

It takes alot to share like that, but to share make the world a better place. The world is better off that your in it. Im sure you'll be an inspriration to people with autism. For what its worth, my son is austistic and I had you clocked from the start :D Truely beautiful people

Jess, You stepped up today and were very, very clear and concise. Kudos to you for having the confidence and bravery to share that part of yourself with us. Kudos to Jim as well!

Respect to you to speak so open and clear. Your words about Jim warm my heart. Good Job!

Jessica, I applaud you being so vulnerable in this episode. One of the reasons I've become so interested the OSRL journey is the obvious love you two have for one another. Not that you owed any one of us an explanation, the additional details you provided today only reinforced how great I think you guys are. Keep up the good work and continue living your best lives 💜🖤

Your tribute to Jim and honesty about yourself gave me goosebumps. Thank you for sharing not only your adventures in building and being self reliant, but for your words about yourself and Jim. 😊 Much love and huge hugs ❤

You're doing great Jess, WE LOVE YOU!!

Thank you for sharing! We all have our challenges in life and it would be great if more people shared. You both are great together and Jim really is a great guy and you both are so good for each other. Kudos to you both for everything you are accomplishing. ❤️❤️

You have always seemed so relatable to me Jess! Jim is amazing, a really good man! I love both of you! There is No Normal! What a great team! I always think, that Jim is one lucky man! And then of course, I realize it’s not luck at all, he is a really amazing man! Both of you are so admirable, carving out a home in the desert, literally changing your environment, one day a little oasis!

That must have been a hard share to make - as a watcher of your channel for a few years it means a lot that you trust us with your personals - I know you're sharing your life but you're sharing your internal thoughts and challenges here and not a lot of people are up for that. You're right about Jim - the optimism of a puppy sometimes. I bet he has taken the flack for your moods more often than not.

Your bravery is commendable Jess, because you face your challenges head on. One day at a time. Love your creativity and honesty. Jim is a goofball and I love it! I love your videos and watch every minute. Thank you both for having each other back and the love you show. See you next time!

Thank you for sharing yourself. We love how you and Jim interact with one another. Some people are not in a spot in their life to understand. Peace

Thank you for sharing!💖I never assume I know what goes on with others, you are wonderful couple this is why I love watching your videos. What your are doing is really exciting!💖 Hope you didn't lose to much water.

Hang in there Jessica! As a 3 stroke survivor and now a wheelchair fund person i understand how important a husband like that is. I am glad you have Jim! Keep going!

Jessica, what you shared was beautiful. There are a lot of adults in the world that are on the spectrum. Many have never been diagnosed, but still the evidence is there. I've suspected that I was autistic for a while now. However, at 60+ years old, no one really cares about it or other things like diseases take precedence. Anyway, social awkwardness is something I know a lot about. So excited for your new build. Can't wait to see it. ❤❤❤

@AnnBurgess00

5 ай бұрын

Same here. And you tend to wonder whether a diagnosis would be a disadvantage in some way, with higher insurance premiums and restrictions being placed on you. Much as I would like an official diagnosis, I decided not to further burden our broken British NHS with it at the age of 66. I have, instead, completed a load of online tests, and have never had one that placed me less than halfway along the positive outcome scale. Many autism channels on YT post links to such tests in the descriptions.

Can you pump the leaky tank into the cistern? Then after fixing you can pump the water back if you need to.

It is so important for a highly sensitive person to have some place and somebody to calm down. I broke into tears as I listened to you, Jess. I am an autistic and synaesthetic guy and I know much of your problems, like, difficulties in communication, not showing very much facial expression, overwhelmingly strong sounds, impressions etc. I think you both can be glad to have each other. Thank you for letting us partake in your life.

Jess you are a very beautiful and special woman! You and Jim are just meant to be together!

Thank you Jess. We love you just the way you are!

Thanks, Jesse, for sharing! I'm sure you have inspired many people! And what a sweet message for Jim!

Aww thanks for sharing your personal journey with struggles in general. You’re such a sweet young woman. Jim is a wonderful guy handing you the torch on your daily routines, with no expectations. What a caring gentleman you have. That is the sweetest gift you can give to him by sharing how wonderful he is. Happy valentines to you both❤

What a lovely couple you are together! Wishes you all the best! Thanks for sharing the awareness of autism and the reality of having to deal with it! I always looking forwards to your videos!❤️❤❤🇸🇪

Jess I’ve noticed a positive light shining thru you and a better level of happiness. I’m so glad you understand yourself and Jim’s way to support you. What a delight seeing a supporting couple living their dream. Take a day at a time and enjoy each life moments you live be it good or bad.

Thank you Jess for being vulnerable; very helpful. My son experiences life in the same ways. As a mom, my heart hurts for him but at the same time, his creativity, gifts and occasional genius are changing the world for the better. You and Jim are too!

Thank you for sharing. I know it is not easy. My wife struggles with fibromyalgia and D.I.D. It had been a struggle for us on our youtube channel. Good luck and keep pushing through.❤❤

Thanks for putting yourself out in plain view, Jess! It’s good to hear from real people who have difficulties like the rest of us.

Jess, I just want to say how much I admire your willingness to open uo and share with us. You are courageous as well as creative.

The best relationship is when an introvert and an extrovert fall in love. 👍 Also can you pump the water into your cistern and then fix the tank?

What a great team you guys make. If we all had the same strengths and weaknesses, that would make relationships even more difficult. It's good to see you both appreciate each other's differences.

You never cease to amaze me. I am glad you were able to share with us. I have a grandson in his twenties that struggles with the same diagnosis. The fact that you have continued to put yourself out there is a big deal. Glad you have Jim, and very sure he’s glad to have you. Keep on keeping on.

Awe Jess, that was sweet. I’m glad you explained that.That’s what a good relationship looks like, you get each other,your kind to each other.

My youngest daughter had sensory issues when she was younger, similar to what you mentioned. She's 27 now, and has learned to deal with most of it but still has problems occasionally. Take care, keep the videos coming.

Jess you n jim are one in a million. I really really mean that! Ive known what you suffer from since youre show began and have been pleased watching you grow through it. Im proud of you both

I think you(Jess) and Jim are perfect for each other and are very lucky to have each other. You two are living my dream.

I love both of your personalities. You seem to be the perfect fit for one another. Thanks for sharing. I always look forward to your videos.

Challenges is part of life. You and your husband is teaching us what love, compassion, human drive should look like. We all strive for better. The key for me is to enjoy the moments of imperfections and live laugh and most importantly love love love Thanks for sharing

I have a great grandson who is autistic, and he’s very introverted, he’s 9 years old, plays alone. He is not good connecting with others kids, and even the family. Still I can see the love he has for my granddaughter, his mother. I can see the Jim is always looking for you and trying to make you happy! Kudos for him and for you for sharing that with us!

Jess, it is so lovely to see how beautifully you two are matched. Two unique people, wonderfully crafted by our Creator to encourage, inspire and be an example for others in working through life's challenges and savoring in its beauty. Thank you for sharing your lives with us all! Lot's of love from this side of the Atlantic.

What a beautiful Valentine to Jim! Wow, this touches our hearts!

Jess, you and Jim are fantastic! You both complement each other. Thank you for sharing ❤❤❤

Very fortunate to have the support with encouragement from your partner Jim. Remain grateful and you will grow old happier, you are the couple the Divine chose to walk and love together. 💕

Love the unique build you two are doing. Sharing challenges can help you build a support circle. I too moved to the country (Colorado Rocky Mountains) to get a slower-paced life where others were not infringing on my comfort. God Bless the two of you and your build.

We value and appreciate you, Jess. And yes, Jim is a blessing for you and I enjoy his humor as well. Best wishes on the next part of your build.

Thanks Jess for sharing with us, you both do an incredible job together and I really enjoy your videos. I shall remember you continuely in my prayers ❤🙏 kind regards Stephen from South Wales UK.

Y'all are getting things done even with unexpected things popping up. Keep it up, y'all got this.

JESS, thank you for all those who do not know how or have the means to share such intimate insight. your courage to share was helpful.

Well done you two, since you can only change what you are conscious of. Owning things like this is the best part of changing things. You can now both adjust how you respond, to each other. My complements on looking at both you personalities honestly !! It’s as good as it gets !!

Jess, your thoughts and expressions explain why you enjoy the quiet of the desert and sensitivity to the cold. You are gem with Jim! 😊

Thank you for being you! I understand we all have our struggles. Please keep going with your project, blessing for you and Jim..

WOW Jess, that took courage and thank you for sharing. You and Jim are very fortunate to have each other you both work so hard. I love watching your videos and seeing the progression.

Thank you for sharing yourself and some of your struggles with us. It's not easy being upfront with personal issues. I'm so sorry about the water leak, hopefully your fix will work. It's exciting to see the first ditch going strong.

You're very brave, Jessica. For sharing and for living with these difficulties. I appreciate the time it took to explain. Sometimes talking about personal difficulties is the hardest thing about having them. Bless you. And bless Jm for being exactly what you need. I hope people will be more sensitive in their comments from now on.

I absolutely love when rain clouds blanket the mountains. Its great that you get each other and make one another happy!

Thank you for sharing your frailty--it's a blessing to understand better--and your appreciation for your husband. Love your channel even more now! May all your efforts prosper and, above all, God be with you.

What a brave thing to tell your viewers Jess ..thankyou..you take care ..and keep on smiling …

Thanks for sharing. Stay encouraged. Keep up the AWESOME work!

It was great meeting you Jim at the Opt Out expo yesterday. You and Jess are an inspiration to a lot of folks who aspire to be self sufficient. Jess, I admire your courage to share you experience with us. keep on keeping on! Love you guys!

I'm so happy for you that you have a great man like Jim. He couldn't have picked a sweeter person than you and that he is there to support you through it all. I also understand your health struggles. I was diagnosed in 2001 with Fibromyalgia and Sensory Overload issues. I too am living a pretty solitaire life away from chaos. May God watch over you and give you peace.

jess, we love and respect you alot. Jim is a rare gem and we all love him also.

Jess, you have been very blessed to have Jim in your life. I know it took great courage to share your physical and mental situation. God Bless you both in your life and home build.

@victoriafisher6934

5 ай бұрын

yes a GOOD MAN IS HARD TO FIND!

It really comes across how much Jim loves you Jess. There is no need to apologise for who you are. You do you.😊❤

You are both beautiful inside and out!!!! Remember both of you together are loved , I'm a older widow and never had the love and relationship that y'all have!!! Working together and listening to each other's dreams are truly a blessing and a gift from GOD 🙏🙏🙏

I see Jim’s love for you - I see it in every video. It’s obvious that you are his priority in life. You are both absolutely beautiful!!

Thank y!ou Jess for such a heart felt openness and being able to share your thoughts. Jess you are a real person, with real health issues and a very positive attitude. I would love to be more like you, you are very loved and appreciated!! You and Jim make my day when I can watch the progress you make, the way you two handle challenges and how you support each other. What a blessing you two are to all of us

I love these heart to heart videos. It gives such an insight about you both. For myself, it helps with self-reflection. Love the channel, and the best part is seeing two people supporting one another ❤ Prayers and praises to you and yours 🙏🏾

Enjoy the journey. Deep breath, smile and feel the love. Be yourself and keep moving forward in your time. You can do this! We love Jim too! 💘