Are your coping mechanisms healthy? | Dr. Andrew Miki | TEDxSurrey

Dr. Andrew Miki explores the intriguing connection between pigeons' learned behaviors and human mental health. Drawing on his experience in animal cognition, he reveals how our brains, like pigeons, reinforce coping mechanisms over time. Dr. Miki sheds light on counterproductive common coping habits such as procrastination and smartphone reliance, emphasizing their impact on anxiety and depression.
Through personal anecdotes, including his role as a father, he highlights the importance of developing self-confidence to combat mental health challenges. The talk encourages viewers to reflect on their coping mechanisms, fostering a dialogue about mental health, and inspiring a journey toward unlearning unhealthy habits for improved well-being.
Dr. Andrew Miki, a registered psychologist in BC, brings over 25 years of expertise in neuropsychology and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to enhance the lives of those grappling with stress, anxiety, and depression. Founder of Starling Minds™ in 2013, he pioneers digital mental health, reducing stigma and offering personalized support to over 4.5 million individuals. Holding degrees from prestigious institutions, including Queen’s University and York University, his clinical work and research feature in prominent scientific journals and publications like Forbes and Authority Magazine. Dr. Miki is dedicated to applying his knowledge to empower people for healthier, happier, and more fulfilling lives. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @dr___gonz5488
    @dr___gonz548810 күн бұрын

    Changing the habits to drive better mental health is the key. Thanks for sharing a personal story and tying it to your views as a psychologist. Perfecting timing for me as a new father!

  • @thisunistaken
    @thisunistaken10 күн бұрын

    Nice talk Andrew! Really resonates - you're right that we all fall into these cycles. Thanks for sharing!

  • @alanwarburton2719
    @alanwarburton271912 күн бұрын

    Lots of powerful lessons here, Andrew. Thanks so much!

  • @Tara_Achkar
    @Tara_Achkar8 күн бұрын

    What a crucial message! Thank you, Andrew, for sharing it! I hadn't previously considered the connection between self-confidence and mental health, but your talk is truly empowering individuals to take control of their mental well-being. I'm grateful for all the insights and reminders you've provided!

  • @amandaprelazzi5307
    @amandaprelazzi53075 күн бұрын

    Very helpful talk Andrew! This message is easy to digest and includes actions we can all put into motion. I'm sure this will help many people, me included!

  • @christophersturdy9536
    @christophersturdy95367 күн бұрын

    Nicely done, Andrew! Totally agree with you, especially the grunge from the 90s being the peak of music! But seriously, it gives us a lot to consider when we quickly reach for our phone.

  • @littleupchuckable
    @littleupchuckable22 күн бұрын

    This just made more sense to me than all of the books or other videos I've watched combined. Thank you. It's giving me a place to start by helping me explain it.

  • @abhijeetkumar5473
    @abhijeetkumar547320 күн бұрын

    Really social media may be adverse effects in our lives but also effect in good way when we use it in right 👍 way

  • @martini87c
    @martini87c23 күн бұрын

    I “absorb” other people energy too much - when someone get upset or angry around me it automatically makes me anxious even though it has nothing to do with me. I wish I could fix this about myself.

  • @VintageVigilante

    @VintageVigilante

    23 күн бұрын

    That empathy might be difficult in those situations, but it's also your greatest strength and what people probably find amazing about you when you channel it in the right ways ❤

  • @martini87c

    @martini87c

    23 күн бұрын

    @@VintageVigilante thank you I had few people tell me it’s strength too but I can’t but feel overwhelmed and moody because of that. I don’t know how to manage it in the right way.

  • @VintageVigilante

    @VintageVigilante

    23 күн бұрын

    @@martini87c That's where introspection and speaking with people you trust (or a therapist) could help you gain confidence, self-awareness and the ability to manage your empathy better.

  • @user-dmsh136
    @user-dmsh13623 күн бұрын

    Thanks! I find this TED talk very useful. I will try to implement advices in my own life.

  • @zorananairon6668
    @zorananairon666810 күн бұрын

    Excellent talk, Andrew! Really important considerations when raising the next generation and looking after our own well-being!!

  • @oliviameeres1910
    @oliviameeres191010 күн бұрын

    Fantastic Andrew! Always a good reminder to reflect within 🙌🏼

  • @joshuagreen3545
    @joshuagreen354516 күн бұрын

    Congratulations Andrew.

  • @stephaniedyer2639
    @stephaniedyer263920 күн бұрын

    Very helpful for me...brought a lot of clarity to how i deal with anxious thoughts...thankyou

  • @chingneo
    @chingneo24 күн бұрын

    I Just realised i use my phone way way too much when i am anxious about something and i am very very distracted during these episodes. This is my unhealthy coping mechanism which is getting worse day by day. I just don't know what to do. The uncertainty of certain things just cripple my brain. I am unsure what to do next. I have nobody to talk to about this too.

  • @levieleven908

    @levieleven908

    24 күн бұрын

    Samething is happening with me …repetitive manner but the only solution I found is keeping busy myself , spending more hours in gym basically you should try each and every activity which you find interesting than only we can change our neuroplasticity

  • @mazare1000

    @mazare1000

    23 күн бұрын

    Psychologists are there to help us!

  • @levieleven908

    @levieleven908

    23 күн бұрын

    @@mazare1000 are you a psychologist

  • @mazare1000

    @mazare1000

    23 күн бұрын

    ​@@levieleven908No, I'm not a psychologist. I'm attending therapy sessions, she listens to me and I follow her guidance.

  • @herasmaia1166

    @herasmaia1166

    23 күн бұрын

    Me too

  • @jalecf7
    @jalecf714 күн бұрын

    MUCHAS GRACIAS POR LA INFORMACIÓN ESTE Canal Es Perfecto ❤🎉lo Acepto ❤

  • @wellbodisalone
    @wellbodisalone15 күн бұрын

    Great speech!

  • @zpooky_x1004
    @zpooky_x100424 күн бұрын

    Very interesting!

  • @user-il5wo3uy9r
    @user-il5wo3uy9r24 күн бұрын

    Amazing talk

  • @ryanstgermaine5032
    @ryanstgermaine50328 күн бұрын

    Great talk, Andrew!

  • @fatimazahraserghini4287
    @fatimazahraserghini428724 күн бұрын

    Great talk

  • @kayreeve.author
    @kayreeve.author23 күн бұрын

    A very inspiring talk. I was creating a video today about talking to teenagers in a way that they change their own mind, without being told No. You said it all perfectly. 👏👏👏

  • @FVS7252

    @FVS7252

    13 күн бұрын

    Amazing talk

  • @bethaniel841
    @bethaniel84124 күн бұрын

    It’s as if you are describing my adhd riddled brain 😅 thoroughly enjoyed your words and humour ❤

  • @lakshaniwasana2142
    @lakshaniwasana214223 күн бұрын

    Amazing speech ❤️

  • @MikeTimms1
    @MikeTimms117 күн бұрын

    Great and timely message that I will be sharing with everyone I care about!

  • @jhb7230
    @jhb723023 күн бұрын

    I am watching this inspiring video even on my smartphone😂 and going to scroll down the screen when this video ends to seek assurance. Sigh😢

  • @abuhasanhumanity
    @abuhasanhumanity7 күн бұрын

    Love from Bangladesh

  • @urielortegatorres5932
    @urielortegatorres593224 күн бұрын

    Felicitaciones profe por su video y por su información

  • @bhumisutamajhi4854

    @bhumisutamajhi4854

    24 күн бұрын

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  • @Ssaphos
    @Ssaphos23 күн бұрын

    My coping method is taking shower doing skincare or taking a nap

  • @FVS7252

    @FVS7252

    13 күн бұрын

    Amazing talk

  • @deedieducati2272
    @deedieducati227224 күн бұрын

    Most adults cope by eating unhealthy foods and gaining weight. Sad.

  • @joelandes5089
    @joelandes508924 күн бұрын

    Good timing on this post. My grandfather was just put into a medically induced coma. They don’t make ‘em like him anymore. To me this is why faith n religion are important because they give us hope for the suffering

  • @bethaniel841

    @bethaniel841

    24 күн бұрын

  • @pamthepainter

    @pamthepainter

    23 күн бұрын

    Your grandfather is very lucky to have you as his family God bless you and your family

  • @1gocos
    @1gocos20 күн бұрын

    For me better self talk just didn't help that much. I had to start taking action. I started with the 1% rule. Everyday I'd try and improve by 1%. This helped move me out of depression and my self talk became better. However, I would recommend realistic self talk. Don't beat yourself down needlessly.

  • @harrypearle9781
    @harrypearle978119 күн бұрын

    HELPING - OTHERS to motivate ourselves, to keep trying...? (I believe that sharing ideas and concerns can be a great motivator) TNX MCH =================================================================

  • @jalecf7
    @jalecf714 күн бұрын

    Yo aprendo 100%

  • @Tasifahmed321
    @Tasifahmed32117 күн бұрын

    Love you english

  • @janklaas6885
    @janklaas688524 күн бұрын

    📍7:42

  • @trietdocalis
    @trietdocalis7 күн бұрын

    Wow wow wow

  • @user-wj9ev2tt7e
    @user-wj9ev2tt7e23 күн бұрын

  • @m_lkr
    @m_lkr23 күн бұрын

    did Natalia agree to be talked about her on stage? I'd be infuriated if in her place

  • @dewa130
    @dewa13020 күн бұрын

    🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:01 *🐦 The connection between pigeons' learned behaviors and human coping mechanisms* - Learned behaviors in pigeons can parallel human coping mechanisms. - Coping mechanisms like procrastination or smartphone use can lead to anxiety and depression. - Understanding and unlearning unhelpful coping mechanisms can improve mental health. 03:02 *📱 Impact of smartphones on self-confidence and coping mechanisms* - Overuse of smartphones can contribute to anxiety and low self-confidence. - Seeking reassurance through smartphones reinforces anxious behaviors. - Sitting with discomfort can strengthen resilience to anxiety. 06:01 *🌀 The danger of relying on coping mechanisms during challenging times* - Coping mechanisms may fail during perfect storms of stress. - Overreliance on coping mechanisms can reinforce negative thoughts. - Awareness and breaking patterns are crucial for improving mental health. 07:39 *🗣️ Breaking the stigma around mental health through open dialogue* - Talking about mental health issues is essential for uncovering unhelpful coping mechanisms. - Stigma surrounding mental health can hinder discussions and progress. - Encouraging open dialogue can lead to greater self-awareness and improved mental health. Made with HARPA AIcontinu

  • @jalecf7
    @jalecf714 күн бұрын

    En español Porfavor

  • @a.arushparjapati__
    @a.arushparjapati__24 күн бұрын

    Ted talk lovers attendance ❤

  • @sindhipoetry8716
    @sindhipoetry871623 күн бұрын

    I want to ask 1 question I'm not use Facebook or TikTok only KZread in order to improve my English communication skill it good or bad , only watch English videos and news. It will help me or not please guide me.

  • @faranmustafa6084

    @faranmustafa6084

    23 күн бұрын

    watch more

  • @lodila280

    @lodila280

    23 күн бұрын

    It's fine. It not coping, you are learning. You have a goal. That 's very different from endlessly scrolling to seek reassurance

  • @VintageVigilante

    @VintageVigilante

    23 күн бұрын

    This is such a good and healthy use of technology... For education!

  • @9847155426

    @9847155426

    14 күн бұрын

    I’m same

  • @ktcooki276
    @ktcooki27624 күн бұрын

    Poor Natalia!!

  • @Tasifahmed321
    @Tasifahmed32117 күн бұрын

    3:16

  • @melodyh4731
    @melodyh473123 күн бұрын

    So self soothing is a bad thing?

  • @lodila280

    @lodila280

    23 күн бұрын

    No, only if in the long term it has made you feel worse. Then it is an unhealthy coping mechanism.

  • @SurprisedFlowerGarden-th7pf
    @SurprisedFlowerGarden-th7pf24 күн бұрын

    Some one

  • @Omkar-221b
    @Omkar-221b9 күн бұрын

    Jai Sadhguru ❤

  • @Arvkrm14u
    @Arvkrm14u23 күн бұрын

    Interesting obviously and talking or talk out is tested advice but irony which floats n floating all over is to whom ......and then 1 entity with different names comes in reality n that is GOD......n here we hear what we say and what we say is we hear so the circles repeats....i am we and when we becomes I as whole then no one is alone......

  • @Geetanjali_Presents
    @Geetanjali_Presents23 күн бұрын

    Talk to whom ? Where everyone is toxic

  • @FVS7252

    @FVS7252

    13 күн бұрын

    Amazing talk

  • @Omkar-221b

    @Omkar-221b

    9 күн бұрын

    Geetu ...talk to me ....I will keep my toxicity aside for you and will always be there for you.

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    @Ankushtreanding2 күн бұрын

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  • @joycejones-ivey1236
    @joycejones-ivey123615 күн бұрын

    L

  • @animebln.official
    @animebln.official24 күн бұрын

    First one here I want a lot of likes

  • @saidavanessacamposaguilar1978

    @saidavanessacamposaguilar1978

    24 күн бұрын

    Oh noo

  • @artemishunter4242

    @artemishunter4242

    24 күн бұрын

    I liked it

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