Everyone is talking abt how the boy isn't worth it. It's not about the boy! If you listen to her, she's really crying out against the lack of freedom.

@hollz1843

2 жыл бұрын

Very very true.

@trish7080

2 жыл бұрын

I agree. I also think people putting down this young man is rude . These type of religions are like cults, they have to much control.

@urmumisgay599

2 жыл бұрын

@@trish7080 all religions are cults.

@Abluntforuu

2 жыл бұрын

Yess

@shinske3564

2 жыл бұрын

@@urmumisgay599 so are democrats and dome republicans

Her family speaks to her like that and then wonders why she wants to leave? Go be with your man, he respects you more than your parents ever did.

@christineperez7562

2 жыл бұрын

Lol you do not know that.

@shenamason5822

2 жыл бұрын

Mine does the same to me and I am trying to get back to the love of my life to feel normal again!!!! They wonder why I want to be with him and it's because he doesn't see me like "How much can I get out of her now/again?". He loves me even if I doubt it myself sometimes of why he loves me!!!!Even here in the English world that's a tough thing to have to live up to:being"perfect" when you're a preacher's kid. I have been around enough of them to know them personally. I would imagine it's even harder for an Amish preacher's daughter. Good luck to you Barbie!!!!

@theirbrotherhoodandfriends6101

2 жыл бұрын

@@shenamason5822 So sorry to hear this. I hope you do great with your love♡.

@kriegermaria9923

2 жыл бұрын

It isnt that easy parents love their children myparents went crazy aswell than i told them i needed to move somethere more far away because of a Job they were sad but we have whats up and other modern things to stay in contact and i visit as much as i can from my Job vacations

@kriegermaria9923

2 жыл бұрын

So hmm well its kinda like that all parents are like that sone rarely are surportive the fear of losing a child is extreme but well the parents make it harsh for them selfes not giving your loved daughter a blessing and the rules

I live in Amish Country (I am not Amish tho) and I can say that this is really how life is for them.. Sadly the women do chores, birth babies & listen to their husbands 24/7 that's their whole lives. Many Amish are leaving nowadays, they're tired of being suppressed.

@kait4586

2 жыл бұрын

I’m in central PA which is also Amish country and its the same here. I’ve read stories from ex-Amish about the a*use they endured. It’s so sickening and sad.

@Unknown16537

2 жыл бұрын

My cousins live in Amish country too. We went to visit them and they were using horses and carriages to buggy around. We learned that women sit closer to the road in case of a car accident.

@gabriellebraswell3306

2 жыл бұрын

OMG that's horrible

@jodeedugger7570

2 жыл бұрын

I hate to say The Amish are another cult. I don’t like saying that but it’s true God gave us free will in hopes we would choose to follow after him and Jesus his son but God wants us to laugh cry make mistakes and grow and do good in the world. God never said we couldn’t have fun in this world even Christians get caught up in legalistic views today.

@loko7914

2 жыл бұрын

@@Unknown16537 omg!!! I did not know that! That’s messed up!

My heart goes out to Barbie. She seems like such a sweet girl, but just isn’t ok with all these rules and expectations set on her and she wants to live freely. When she said “why would my dad say that to me? That wasn’t my dad”. Her dad wasn’t thinking as her dad at that moment and was thinking more like a preacher and what his community would think about him if she left

@kriegermaria9923

2 жыл бұрын

Thats it the rules of community he didnt think it through thanhe talked to his daughter in phone parents love their children no matter what atleast mine do

@PROVOCATEURSK

6 ай бұрын

They don´t use logic. If god was mighty and just why would 99,99% of the world be in Satan´s hands? Just a small amount of people are right and good and 8 billions are evil? They are just pathetic cultists.

The sister was only crying because she'll be in this same situation one day.

@kremepie6705

2 жыл бұрын

The sister is crying because she told her beforehand and said goodbye. Before it was not certain - now it's a death.

@martymcfly5764

2 жыл бұрын

@@kremepie6705 it's probably for both of those reasons, so you're probably both right.

@Adam-om9si

2 жыл бұрын

She's crying because her sister wants to go down a path of selfish degeneracy in new york

@JB-pe2yn

2 жыл бұрын

@@Adam-om9si 🤣😂🤣😂

@NFL626

2 жыл бұрын

This probably wasn't meant to be funny, but gosh! I just had a good laugh!

emotional blackmail is a terrible thing, beit from an abusive husband or your 'family', I hope she leaves this controlling way of life and starts actually living.

@kriegermaria9923

2 жыл бұрын

Her parents arent evil the rules are just not for everyone the lifestyle

@HurlingMongroach

7 ай бұрын

@@kriegermaria9923nope u wrong its just another set of religious toxic crazies all religious people r crazy to some extent

@annaleft9726

4 ай бұрын

@@kriegermaria9923nobody said they were evil, they said the family is abusive. there are amish who let their children leave because they see it the same way you do; it’s not for everybody. but berating your kids for wanting to leave is not a requirement of the amish, just a common behavior. it doesn’t make it any less awful; most parents in the US used to beat their kids for bad behavior before it was illegal. it’s now commonly accepted as abuse. beating kids was always abusive, it just wasn’t seen as such until it became legally recognized as unacceptable behavior.

The way she described she has to choose between the love of her life and her family just confirms she is in a cult

@e.w3935

2 жыл бұрын

@Margie uhn, Jesus literally said to love your neighbor as yourself, you got smtg wrong

@venitawilliams9625

2 жыл бұрын

What Jesus said is, do not put anything thing or anyone in front of Him if you do that you are dishonoring the Creator we are to be obedient to him regardless of the outcome and also one of the commandments says honor thy father and mother show them respect and love but if they wants you to disobey some command of God you have the right to query. She needs to point out somethings to her parents respectfully it's a sin to try with man-made laws to force anyone against their will l hope the Amish remember God give everyone free will he did not create robots he does not force anyone to obey He lovingly ask us to. check John 3.16

@adelyenjustin2596

2 жыл бұрын

@Margie lol which bible did you get this phrase? Stop spreading stupidity

@karissmanava1731

2 жыл бұрын

@@adelyenjustin2596 is does say this though? Not in the exact words but yes break it down to this, yes it’s in there

@loveislove-le5nj

2 жыл бұрын

Not true. My now husband his family wasn't so fond of me in the beginning. 1. I'm not Korean. 2. Did not finish college 3. Did not want all of us ( mother and father in law and his grandmother and grandfather all live together in the same house. 4. Parents are divorced

Nobody should ever feel like they are going to lose their whole family just for saying they want to live somewhere else or just for falling in love with someone who lives somewhere else.

@jamesparson

2 жыл бұрын

Happens all the time. Pick the wrong religion, or no religion at all and the sh*t hits the fan.

@christineperez7562

2 жыл бұрын

A lot of families are like this.

@lady4191

2 жыл бұрын

It happens all the time

@musicj

2 жыл бұрын

You are trying to make sense of a completely different culture and compare them to the culture you know. This is how they live and it's normal for them.

@billybob-ro6qf

2 жыл бұрын

@@jamesparson It's NOT about religion. It's all about having a personal relationship with Jesus our Lord & Savior.

A REAL dad would Never say that to his daughter

I am born and raised in Lancaster County. While I am not Amish I see and hear about this all the time. The Amish community is one face-covering away from being as controlling of women as the Taliban.

@RoyalTea54

2 жыл бұрын

That is So Very Sad. It's Still Bondage.

@mynameis......23

2 жыл бұрын

Really you comparing them to the Taliban

@jamesstotz3412

2 жыл бұрын

@@mynameis......23 when it comes to the diminished freedoms the women have? Yes I am.

@natalierozean5989

2 жыл бұрын

Well said .... very well said?

@Miller98k

2 жыл бұрын

That’s inaccurate. Amish women are free to leave unlike women under Taliban rule. Sure there are unique challenges in the Amish culture but all cultures have pros and cons. The Amish authority operate in a secular Western political system (US, Canada) and cannot legally (unlike the Taliban) force their women to stay.

Poor girl, hope she finds peace wherever she ends up. She's done the right thing, emotional blackmail and servitude is no way to live.

@marykettle2097

2 жыл бұрын

Father is a monster

@theirbrotherhoodandfriends6101

2 жыл бұрын

Right. I'm wishing them the best.

@amyjones3177

Жыл бұрын

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@Ericstroman100

10 ай бұрын

She looks very healthy though good upbringing she definitely isn’t a brat and it will go long way

So sad that a father can treat his daughter in such a way. My prayers go out for her❤️

@nicolassmith1278

2 жыл бұрын

Hi pretty lady. How are you

@mistystafford8113

2 жыл бұрын

Considering how the rest of the world treats each other is there really much of a difference?

@christineperez7562

2 жыл бұрын

I understand her father. She will realize the world is cold.

@theirbrotherhoodandfriends6101

2 жыл бұрын

@@christineperez7562 It's better to know the harsh truth and reality of the world than to be imprisoned with fantasies. Everyone has the right to know what they should know.

@kriegermaria9923

2 жыл бұрын

They have rules in the amish community but yeah its hard to outcast your own child she still loves god andisamish she just lives more modern and i guess not amish but you can still go to church and to god

Her dad is manipulative

@cultfiction3865

2 жыл бұрын

Her dad is brainwashed Amish obviously teach things that cannot be found in the bible

The hardest thing to grieve is to grieve for someone who is still alive.

@karenemahar1724

2 жыл бұрын

Like my first son who is still living but has disowned me and l don't know why never had a fight or fallout.its a complete mystery, also hasn't seen his little brother for ten years too.and lives one town away.heartbroken

@rosemerrynmcmillan1611

2 жыл бұрын

Many families live with this heartache not just Amish who leave. Christians whose children leave the Faith also suffer this grief continually.

@darleenmccauley9037

Жыл бұрын

@@karenemahar1724 happens to alot of us I'm alone too. Wasn't even asked to granddaughters wedding. As hard as it is sometimes a.stranger treats you better than blood.

@angelasikorra1541

Жыл бұрын

@@karenemahar1724 your not alone I have a brother who moved across the country and stopped communicating with all family as soon as he turned 18. Once and a while we hear from him and knows he is alive but there was never any fallout or fighting or abuse or anything crazy and he just went off too be totally alone. He's in his mid thirties now, never married, no kids, and just stays by himself and we will never know why unless he tells us one day :( . When I was a little girl I used to love having a brother and it's been like a death over the years having to realize that I will never really have a relationship or know him because he just doesn't want too.

Dang her entire life is so controlled, no wonder she wants to leave. These people use religion to keep their children under their thumb. I hope she leaves and thrives in the “English” world.

@26MECH

2 жыл бұрын

Facts ..smh...the damn ENGLISH world lol

@joanmcnulty2221

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with you 💯!!!

@theirbrotherhoodandfriends6101

2 жыл бұрын

Many children are going through the same. I'm speaking from experience, though my parents are far far far far away from hers, I don't have the freedom to choose what I should believe in. My parents are Christians and they expect us to be the same. I want to tell them that I am an Atheist but that would mean breaking my great relationship with them. It's really sad. I have nothing more to ask of them if not because of our differences in religious beliefs.

@yallarewrong942

2 жыл бұрын

You are so wrong I'm Amish myself and so obviously I know a lot more about them than you do. The Amish are a lot more lenient than she says. If you don't know anything about them, I suggest you keep your comments to yourself!!!

@kriegermaria9923

2 жыл бұрын

@@yallarewrong942 that maybe it but i think you have more than one amish group maybe hers was abit diffrent amish people life worldwide i guess

Shes beautiful. I hope she chooses freedom shes obviously thirsting for it , and I wish her nothing but good things, happiness and success in her choices.

The shaming and guilt tripping... I have no words. There is no love in that family.

For a Community that supposedly believes in Christ they literally have NO FREE WILL, that is NOT what the Lord wants for his children, when you literally control EVERYTHING someone else does in their daily life , that's not loving, caring or doing anything God wants, you're just keeping power over others , I can guarantee they don't have to do any of what they put on others , they have Freedoms these woman and girls do not (nor the men and boys) It's only those at the top that get to CHOOSE their own lives, NO ONE wants to be controlled 24/7 that's just ABUSE not love.

@katelynkingston8267

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly God gave humans free moral agency. Shutting your kids up may seem like a good way to protect them from harm but as we can see from these shows it teaches them nothing about their moral accountability. They get out and go crazy when their parents aren't in the picture. They aren't doing things to please God they are trying to please their parents.

@MinhaFamiliaAQBJJ

2 жыл бұрын

Yup. People get so caught up in the rules of their Christian cult. Christianity is a cult. Being Christian has a completely different meaning now. Back in the days it meant something..it meant you followed Christ. Now its just people who use 3 or 4 parts of some verses as slogans, their congregation buildings are full of people who ignore the laws of God...especially celebrating man made holidays like xmas, Halloween, etc. They use the excuse that they are saved by grace blah blah. Jesus said he was not here to abolish the law. But since it isnt convenient to them and they want people to give more money to their crap congregation.

@sisterskateboarders_9358

2 жыл бұрын

Even Jesus Christ doesn't heal someone before asking if they want to be healed. Force is not the way

@christineperez7562

2 жыл бұрын

We are not suppose to live worldly.

@lil_weasel219

2 жыл бұрын

@@katelynkingston8267 So "follow my rules and conjure up love for me out of nowhere, or go to hell for eternity" is free will in your head? Fantastic mental contortions. Splendid

Don't take it to hard what your father said ,he's just angry. Your sister may follow suit one day and you'll be there for her.

Dads comment says it all, she made the right choice. It’s not about a boy it’s more than that. Hope she finds peace :(

I want to hug her so bad. You can never go too far to be forgiven. ❤️ I hope she’s found happiness and peace. Poor sweet thing having to give up her family.

Daddy’s emotional abuse is so cruel.

My great grandma had one of these black irons and to this day since i saw this video i thought it was just for decoration and it's probably still in my garage/shed,but boy do i miss her

@debfox

2 жыл бұрын

Awe I’m sorry! I know the feeling.

@cherylharewood2549

2 жыл бұрын

@Brandon Garcia those irons do a great job.

@jennydelosreyes6343

2 жыл бұрын

in the Philippines its an antique

@psingerman4778

2 жыл бұрын

My mom used these before we got electricity. You don't lift it without a potholder!

@happywifehappylife2739

2 жыл бұрын

@@jennydelosreyes6343 it's an antique in America too.

barbie is beautiful. I hope she find happiness

@kimberleyike2168

2 жыл бұрын

She could be a top model shes so beautiful.

@shinske3564

2 жыл бұрын

So are you..

Jesus Christ. These people. I'm the father of a daughter. I couldn't bare my little girl feeling like this. Daddy loves her no matter what!

Poor girl or any people that lives like that. I mean when you cant choose nothing.. you have to say yes for everything...

She's 22!? All that work has definitely aged her! Poor girl

@davidbarahona5550

2 жыл бұрын

You’re right, she is pretty but I was kinda shocked when I heard 22 I didn’t think much but yeah it’s definitely that hard work. Easily looks 25 with 35 year old Lester

@bretbarefoot1097

2 жыл бұрын

Doing chores doesn't make you look older...her Amish bonnet and clothes make her look older.

@pinkpugginz

2 жыл бұрын

@@bretbarefoot1097 uhh hard work day in and day out ages you. carrying hauling cooking baking raising kids

@bretbarefoot1097

2 жыл бұрын

@@pinkpugginz not at that age...sounds like you don't like working lol

@bretbarefoot1097

2 жыл бұрын

And she doesn't have children

Everyone has a right to be happy. I hope she finds it.

The father used her sister as part of a bribery tactic-this girl will never get what she wants

@nicolassmith1278

2 жыл бұрын

Hi pretty lady.

@nievessuarez9934

2 жыл бұрын

Not true!

I feel her when she's crying about her sister and her father; I am close to my own dad and my sister, If I had to leave them for this reason it would crush me too. Still, I can also understand her need for freedom of choice, I believe everyone deserves to have that kind of freedom regardless of their family's opinion. I really hope that maybe her family will warm up and accept her decisions over their reputation in the community.

I’m a Christian and I’m not Amish. For me living my life I know God loves me unconditionally no matter what.

@patriciagruteke6033

2 жыл бұрын

Amen

My family treats me like that. I shunned myself and Im not even amish. Moved 5 hrs away.

@EmmieTuesday

2 жыл бұрын

they shun back home in maine. it is part of strict religious groups

@jens9782

2 жыл бұрын

Did the same...

@loko7914

2 жыл бұрын

I hope you’re doing much better now and feel/believe you made the right choice by choosing yourself and your happiness. Although they were abusive towards you, I can’t imagine how hard that must’ve been for you to make that choice. You’re a very strong person!

@theirbrotherhoodandfriends6101

2 жыл бұрын

I hope you are doing great and you will find happiness.

I feel so sorry for her. What her dad said was awful.

I'm the grandson of a reverend my grandfather met me when I was 16 years old and he told me then do what you have to do to make your life easier I know your parents raised you the best they can and I know you're the black sheep of the family but I still accept you for who you are if your father can't accept you for your decisions to leave the Amish figure out what you want and leave then that ain't a man that's a coward he's hiding behind whatever he wants to hide behind he should never disown his own child that is ridiculous I wish you nothing but the best of luck

@elizabethschreffler9182

2 жыл бұрын

I agree...

@pegihaider813

2 жыл бұрын

I agree too.

That trauma and confusion is so real. I feel for her so deeply. It was like hearing my parents speak all over again.

@karengayehammat4199

2 жыл бұрын

The demeaning name calling happens from parents who aren't religious to daughters who aren't promiscuous too. I guess it's just plain narcissistic they refuse to allow any happiness that isn't all about them .

He needs to man up and face her parents. For her. To support her!

I wish this brave couple the very best of luck.

This girl has right to chase her dreams. The world has so many opportunities available for this girl. God bless Barbie and her boyfriend.

Any community that says 'you cant leave us or you will be a whore' needs to be left.

My realtor friend was raised Amish but chose not to join the church. He’s doing fine on his own. It’s hard to leave behind everything and everyone you’ve ever known.

That is just painful to watch.. the conversation with her dad. Breaks my heart

You can tell from her demeanour that she will love the English world and thrive in it.

Him: I don't want to go in there with you, but I'll wait outside. Boy, bye. That right there says he's not worth it.

If she was to speak to some other girl from the middle East that doesn’t have a “choice” I assure you they would tell her to run not walk away. She’s letting her heart tell her what’s right, and instinctively to be controlled like an object is wrong & her parents KNOW IT!

@nicolassmith1278

2 жыл бұрын

Hi pretty lady.

@JungkookwifeN

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah! Girls in the middle east are living way worst than her too unfortunately, at least she can have a boyfriend and leave if a girl did this in the middle east they'll kill her immediately, I hope she lives happily and a better life away from these toxic people!

@Mylifesuckslol

2 жыл бұрын

Everyone here is free everything is perfect

It’s not “why would family treat you like that”. It’s that they want their offsprings to be in the same faith and community and they know bad and vulnerable city life is. Unless matured enough, going to a city life is totally different. One can be deceived and get into many off stuffs.

That is a really sad situation. People should not have to make a choice like that.

Best thing an older sister can model for a younger one is leaving! My older sister having left gave me the courage to do it too. God bless!

I’m so sorry barb! I hope you’ve found healing from this and don’t let those words hold you down

Dad was her best friend only as long as she was completely under his control.

This young lady is one of the bravest persons I've seen. You have to find your own way in life. If her parents are going to have a problem with that I guess they'll just have to have a problem with that.

@myrthasmascary4086

Жыл бұрын

The pain in her face

@adlihkristopher2906

Жыл бұрын

Correct

I worry that even though he left the Amish, that he still retains some beliefs regarding women. Their relationship will be a lot different married and living together instead of sneaking off to hang out without being seen. I just hope she finds happiness and freedom.

Being called a wh*re by YOUR dad is probably the absolute worst feeling in yhe world. That's horrible. Especially since she was super close to him when she was growing up. I'm so glad that my dad doesn't treat me like that.

@saynotohookups

3 ай бұрын

She didn't even want to sleep around she was considering marriage with her boyfriend.

sounds toxic.. my heart goes out to these individuals who want a different path in life. We should be able to decide our future. Nobody else.

The guilt the family puts on her is awful. All they care about is how they look in the eyes of the community and think nothing about their child and what they’re going through.

God Bless you both. You should not be treated, so bad...family should support. Good or. Bad...love you both.

Good luck and you got this and you are making the right choice praying for you and have incredible new adventure 🙏🏻❤️ unbelievable incredible beautiful queen inspiring person.

“I’m not comfortable with cameras”…. shows hella selfies and pics of her in full English attire with make up, clothes, hair, earrings lol

@Breathe-In-and-Out

2 жыл бұрын

Having a photo taken with the snap of a flash is a lot different than a video camera pointing at you for a time.

@alexismalinowski8768

2 жыл бұрын

That's what I came on to say

@janet-lanecaldwell8789

2 жыл бұрын

I think it’s also the fact that she has to talk to the camera and look at it directly. I even feel awkward making videos 😂

I feel for these kids. 😥

She speaks perfect English. The ones I saw in the US Penn state, they kind of spoke broken English and scored very low on the standard education test GED

Lord bless this girl mightily and show her who You are and Your love for her. Keep her safe from all harm and guide her into all understanding about You and Your word and truth.

This is incredibly heart breaking. This culture has part of the truth of God, but they are decieved into thinking that God wants rules to control you. How crazy confusing it must be to have part of the truth and still be so far from God's real heart for people.

My heart broke for her.

@nicolassmith1278

2 жыл бұрын

Hi pretty lady. How are you doing today? And how is everything with you?

Emotional Damage 💔 no dont do it this guy is selfish he should come with you to your parents

They’ve should’ve been able to tell She’s gonna end up leaving the Amish you can tell by the way she talks and act and feels it’s jus not in her heart

I really hope I could hug her and tell her that she isn't wrong at all for wanting to choose a different path. Surely, the pressure on her and her sister are really heavy. And there's the guilt because you don't want your parents to look bad in the eyes of others because you love them deeply. I know the feeling. I really want to meet her and give her my support. You're really courageous. I hope parents would be able to understand that their children are not them. What they believe in is not their children's belifes. Please understand us. As a family, we should be accepting.

Responsible, Fair, and Honest parents don't force their children to live in a religion they did not choose, once they are of age to make their own decisions,,, I did not force my children to follow my adopted religion or get out of my house

@theirbrotherhoodandfriends6101

2 жыл бұрын

I salute you Ma'am. I hope every parent would be the same so no kids would feel imprisoned by the religion of their parents. I hope you're doing well^-^.

I wanna hug her she deserves better all her life she's been told that she's only good for being a mother theirs a whole world out there to explore

Its the right transitional thing to do to grow up and leave your parents and a sign the parents have done a good job raising their children to stand on their own too feet.

I feel so bad for her, that was messed up what he said to her. I get he was worried about how it would look, upset with his daughter leaving, I get how they might see it as "being unequally yoked" part, but the W word was unncessary.

I'm also a preacher daughter but in my denomination I was not allowed to have any choice at all !!! So I had to run away. Yes, children must obey parents but when they grow up, they take responsibility and have choice too. Most religions make the same mistake, which brings into this. Kid's should be taught me shows what is good and what it bad so they can see the difference long before they reach their age when they cab run away to something they never seen or seen so little and have no idea what's that. Also, youth must have choice to date before decide if they want to marry this person or not. Choice is what is taking from those community, that's why there are such problems. Teach kids to make right choices from their childhood.

Its immature of your father not realising children leaving home to marry is healthy.

If you truly love someone with your whole heart nothing else matters its between the two people there love for each other will over come all obstacles

I feel like even an Amish parent should want there children to follow there heart and do what they feel is right even if that means leaving and experiencing the worlds

"The English World" still gets me lol

She is absolutely beautiful!!

This is an interesting season of this show - her nails have peeling, neutral-tone nail polish 💅🏻 (thought that wasn’t allowed?), her dad has a cell phone for his business (a bit hypocritical?), and her eyebrows appeared plucked. Not things we saw in the other episodes before they left home.

@skzchill

2 жыл бұрын

It's probably not a cell phone. It might just be a home phone that's only good for calling. I've seen lots of amish use the phones at restaurants to call their rides or something. And the nail polish and eyebrows were probably just the makeup crew getting her ready for the video. I mean if she's leaving the amish anyways it doesn't rlly matter if she plucks her eyebrows or wears nail polish. Just gotta hide it from her parents I guess

@blessed4737

2 жыл бұрын

fun fact :im related to these 2 and shed left the amish 2 yrs b4 this was filmed and she left w a diff guy but is still w lester today. also mun ky is not the strictest community no amish tell you what to eat lol dont believe tlc

@skzchill

2 жыл бұрын

@@blessed4737 we never implied that they tell you what to eat? Ik the amish don't tell you what to eat. They can eat anything

@beepbeep9043

2 жыл бұрын

@@blessed4737 is she allowed to see her family

I live in Kentucky and some of the Amish people here are some of the sweetest kindest people you will ever meet . If she was to move to cave City or Glasgow I think the Amish community here would be more accepting . I know you don't have to be Amish or any other denomination all you have to do is love the Messiah with all your heart and keep his commandments and do his will .

You feel trapped and don't know if you can or should try to do something about it. I am not studied in the lifes of Amish culture or rules. I hope and wish you the best in your journey in this world that is harder to recognize anything that was right and now its considered wrong.

Wish her the best for her future

The Amish life might be fun for a while but it gets boring a few years later

You should enlist in the military really freak him out

Hope They will get a good life together🙏They both seems like nice people

We left them too , we know the feeling! So heartbreaking 💔

God bless her. I wish her all the best. I used to have one of these black irons. I have some Amish ancestry on my Father's side.

I live near a Amish community and I’ve met some of the Amish kids and they are going through the same thing. They put it bluntly it is an cult. The religion does not make scents.one of them goes to my church

Sweetheart, the fact he isn’t man enough to talk to your parents with you is really all you need to know!! I don’t know the history of this show, but she’s making huge mistake leaving for that dude! Marriage won’t last!!

@victorbryan5482

2 жыл бұрын

No mistake, its best she leave anyway

@juls41056

2 жыл бұрын

That's what y'all are missing I think. She's not leaving for him. She's leaving for herself. For her own freedom. If she was leaving for him she wouldn't even be worried about New York. She's going to new york without him. When he asked if she would come back ready to marry him she didn't really answer. Idk. I just think people aren't giving her enough credit.

@morningdove20

2 жыл бұрын

@@juls41056 Exactly. Also it's Nobody's business to judge her

@themanofconstantsorrowelia1929

2 жыл бұрын

Hes left already. He knows at the end of the day she has to be the one to make the decision.

I'm going to watch but only for entertainment as I love watching about Amish life. But as for the Judging her? Naah... Why wld I do that when the Amish have enough judging of their own going on. So for entertainment, yes. But to sit on a throne and Judge her when we know absolutely nothing about their lives, or the inner struggles that some of them go through, No. It's Not for any of us to judge her, or any of the Amish.

How can her little sister be listening in when she just explained that her parents may only have one phone in ther garage . How fake !!!!

@kathleenoverton3263

2 жыл бұрын

They might have meant that she was over listening. Like sneakily around a corner. She s old enough to understand what her parents were saying and to whom.

@wendydania4899

2 жыл бұрын

@@kathleenoverton3263 they asked are you on the phone 🤣

Being German and being able to understand them talking to each other without subtitles shows you how stuck I time time they are. It's like they just stopped moving forward. Almost like in some areas of Columbia and Africa. It feels weird.

@hilarikeen

2 жыл бұрын

Do you know what type of German dialect it is? Because can I speak Hochdeutsch (High German) and though it does sound a bit similar I understood almost nothing, just a few words.

Barbie seems to already know the IG poses😁 and she's camera ready!!

that's family for you they can and will treat you bad in so many ways its sad but true I hope you find life out there and see the big old world we have outthere for you and do you what you want in life.

I feel the same way in the English world. There's really no difference when we have such traditional families. I'm back in with my parents and they are a godsend for me to have.

for someone uncomfy with cameras, she sure has a lot of selfies

@BraidsbyElon

2 жыл бұрын

I too am more comfortable taking photos of my self but I am so uncomfortable with my photo being taken

@LadyT06

2 жыл бұрын

Tell me about it😁!

@elizabethrennick9407

2 жыл бұрын

None of your concern

@sunchabbee

2 жыл бұрын

She’s probably getting used to phone cameras but a giant TV camera could be very overwhelming if she’s never seen it before

@tmts9633

2 жыл бұрын

Well, given what we have seen from earlier shows, these guys really aren't practicing Amish anymore, just playing a role for TLC

She not sinning at all when too people like each other it’s called love just like how her dad loves her mom

I lived in NYC and trust me being a paster’s daughter among amish community seems so much better.

The way she talks it's like a date with the devil to go talk to her parents

@CalipsoCareline

2 жыл бұрын

Some parents are just like the devil. Talking to my mother is like visiting hell

Good luck young lady...you will be fine

I'm literally sitting right next to Lester's son and Barbies stepson, he's telling me all about how this was faked

“I dont want to be in there when you tell them.” -Lester Girl, run! From the Amish and from him!

@adalovelace13127

2 жыл бұрын

He's a shunned Amish, him being present for the conversation would not have made things easier or better for her. The whole issue would be turned on him. He said he would go and he sat with her for the whole thing, it's the best he could've done.

She definitely needs to leave that cult!