Mate, you need to stress this, and have more posts about this. Seriously

@charliecharlton9782

Жыл бұрын

Mate you need to leave Sam Vaknin alone. YOU ARE A TRUE MALIGNANT NARCISSIST.

@theoriginal7727

Жыл бұрын

It would help those of us who have had their life train wreck by these pieces of shit… Especially the high functioning ones, like my ex BPD/NPD. Seems to get away with it for years and years afterwards!

@dblack8141

Жыл бұрын

Its false. Look at john and tony and all those others. 100s and 1000s and millions and billions. Theyre going down but theyre not going down fast enough or first. They will all go. True

@kiv_daniels

Жыл бұрын

These narcissistic people have enablers who are willing to stand by them because of the benefits they get. Sometimes they tell you “oo she’s your Auntie she only wants the best for you, family will always be family” and so on because sometimes the narcissist doesn’t treat them how they treat you (might be close but not exactly the same) which sometimes makes me feel crazy. When I stopped being a supply to my narcissistic sister she got a new supply almost immediately but the new supply isn’t going through most of what she put me through. They seem to always have supportive people on their side. They go down but sometimes even good people go down so what makes the narcissistic person’s special. We all won’t be here forever.

@Pin4Sine

Жыл бұрын

Eventually? He’s not playing cards. He’s playing chess with my life. In my Family Law court case, in the United States it’s called a “simple dissolution.” I’ve been attempting to flee his NPD/DA/CC (coercive control) for over a decade. My eldest 2 children aged out, (turned 18, hit universities and never returned). My youngest is nearly 17. My legally separated spouse calls me, “#3, the wife head count.” #1 is missing and #2 took her own life. He sadistically whispered in my ear at his company’s holiday gathering, while he smiled through his gritted teeth and had his arm tightly around me, squeezing into my shoulder so tightly it left bruises. “#1 and #2 dying embodied too much finality hon. I’ll toy with you like a cat with it’s prey until you’re too exhausted to fight me. There’s much more arousing ways to take a life that don’t end with a toe tag.” I am exhausted, physically, financially, emotionally. My older children are separated and far away to stay safe. The court can’t see the insidious chains he’s chosen to perpetuate abusing me. He has two firms retained. I have to represent myself. He stole every marital asset and uses it all to keep me his. He’s had me almost two decades, it’s the court actors assisting him. How do I ever break free?

My shock is how many Narcissists there are out there. The world is infested with them.

@freddysquirenaranjo4859

Жыл бұрын

They are everywhere!!!

@freddysquirenaranjo4859

Жыл бұрын

They are everywhere!

@lydiapetra1211

Жыл бұрын

Been thinking the same it's definitely more than 5% of the population...

@yougotgroove

11 ай бұрын

@@lydiapetra1211 the reason why the number is growing is because we enable them

@lydiapetra1211

11 ай бұрын

@@yougotgroove sometimes for decades you don't know that one is a narc. ..

The sad thing is the amount of good people that a narcissist will bring down before they self destruct

@jselenatan9834

10 ай бұрын

It's truly sad.

@allenone6970

10 ай бұрын

Its like jumping off a skyscraper. They dont hurt until they hit bottom. Meanwhile, it's a hell of a ride for them.

@alevela9309

10 ай бұрын

Misery loves company.

@kathleensmith8365

9 ай бұрын

For so long Narcissism was hidden. Now there are bright lights shining on it. There are many online resources both professionals and those who have experienced narcissists cruelty. The best scenario is to raise mentally healthy children. But first we can starve the narcissist's of supply. I almost would like to tag them and ship them to Guantanamo.

@GaryRSpicer

9 ай бұрын

It's like a house surrounded by dynamite.

They HATE HAPPY people 🖤

@Breakthrough11112

Ай бұрын

Omg so true 1000000000000000000000000000

@shelbyjuice

Ай бұрын

They cannot conceal their delight when you tell them things aren’t going well for yourself. Ive tested this out on people, even made up fake bad news to see how they would react (nothing crazy, just like “ohhh Ive been drinking too much, I need to get it together”) then they all the sudden feel an unconcealable buzz of happiness

@livingwell5892

Ай бұрын

I've noticed this too. I'm a pretty joyful person but I make sure I'm extra Joyful in front of the miserable narc and she explodes and slanders my name. But I believe her lies will only come back to bite her in the butt. The God I serve is bigger than any narssy. I've accepted that it's not my job to expose them, tgat has only lead me to more trouble . It will all be exposed one day, but that's out of my hands.

@Apocalyptiseptical

26 күн бұрын

@@livingwell5892 ❤❤ love this

@bodakdacreatormusiq2024

25 күн бұрын

​@@shelbyjuiceyep i made up plenty of lies to my ex and he always has tbis nervous laugh thing but im like nah if I tell u I always died why u wanna know so bad with a smile laughing.. saying ur not laughing HAHAHA sounds like laughter mf guess wat I lied! Then they be feeling exposed vulnerable and empty lmao

Pretending not to suffer is what I see. Pretending they’re fine with the outcomes they’ve produced.

@ecb1979

3 ай бұрын

Agreed. It's odd.

@myutube5882

2 ай бұрын

Pride

@siennarodriguez6735

2 ай бұрын

This!

@JlovU2

Ай бұрын

Exactly this, no emotion towards those outcomes. As if torpedoing their family, hurting innocent people, jeopardizing careers and emotional well being is all acceptable and was justified.

@wambamthankumam

Ай бұрын

​​​​@@JlovU2 I think it's because in their own mind, it is justified. And that whatever negative consequences they face as a result are someone else's fault. They're dishonest with themselves and everyone else to avoid feeling like they've done anything wrong. Taking accountability would break the illusion and that's the absolute last thing they want.

I'm not a vindictive person, but this gave me a small feeling of peace knowing justice will be served one day 😌😔

@hotties3v3n

Жыл бұрын

Me too.

@gogogetter

Жыл бұрын

NGL.. me too!

@zurigee6

Жыл бұрын

Me too,they destroy and move on happily.

@GoOutside321

Жыл бұрын

I can only hope…

@svetu9411

Жыл бұрын

It's just sad if you are there. Narcissists in my family. It's not pretty.

As one person said before, “People get very boring once you realize they are a narcissist.”

@notsure2696

4 ай бұрын

They are just clones of each-other. No genuine authenticity, only facades.

@ericorozco7946

4 ай бұрын

My ex. Pretty face. Had a decent mom bod but boring as shit. She's an evil narcissist.

@JustNit-Kidd69

3 ай бұрын

I am a boring person. I have no personality. I put on facades so ppl will like me. I don't want ppl to hurt my true self so I have a decoy personality they can attack just in case.

@thoughts_empty

3 ай бұрын

FR

@aminaahmet1025

3 ай бұрын

Wow! So true. After seeing that what you've been looking for in a person isn't there, it's empty...it gets boring.

Especially in old age they go down. because when we age, our bodies get weaker, our looks fade, we return to a childlike state where we are dependent - dependent on other people’s goodwill and kindness and care. And since narcissists treat people like shit, people leave them over time, and they grow old alone. What goes around comes around.

@bm5_5_5

3 ай бұрын

Also as we age our inner beauty shines through more. As narcissists don’t possess inner beauty their ugly inside shows more on the outside. I always think of the portrait of Dorian Grey when I think about this effect.

@cateyu5547

3 ай бұрын

@@bm5_5_5 totally agree 👍

@redhead8777

2 ай бұрын

Totally disagree - don't become what it is you disrespect (vindictive). Just DO NOT attach emotionally to them. We must learn to love them without a loving attachment which is very difficult, but most times necessary to avoid abandoning a human. You cannot treat a human worse than an animal abandonement or act as if they are inanimate object by abandoning forever without second thoughts. How does that make us any better than one who abandons an animal or child? No, we must learn to accept it is what it is - a "different kind" and the exact opposite of us. I believe possibly this is exactly the situation when & why Jesus said turn the other cheek(?). Only God can help these people come out of their fog if he sees fit to save them. Pray hard for them if you have any humility/humanity left! I wonder what the church is advising on this subject? Are there any clergy out there willing to comment in u2ubeville?

@jedcollings3624

2 ай бұрын

​@@redhead8777Okay, well, Christianity also declared 3 or 4 crusades against an entire religion and legimized the conquering of most of the world at some point., so I don't see what you mean when we say we "should" do anything. I'm assuming you mean we should do that in order to undo evil in the world and make it a better place, but someone who disagrees with you is just going to say that you're gonna make everything worse, that you could save countless lives by crushing them and making sure they can never hurt anyone ever again, that you could save a little girl just like the one you lost to a narcissist who lashed out? It doesn't mean we should enjoy it, but in case you haven't noticed, we don't let alligators walk around anywhere they please, we control them or eliminate them.

@aparnamehta7036

Ай бұрын

No wonder narcs say they hate old age and old people.

It's really tragic. Narcissists are usually born out of abused, neglected, traumatized children who go on to lead lives with lonely, miserable endings. People, love on your children, set healthy boundaries, teach them to be kind, their entire future is at stake

@DanceArchives24

27 күн бұрын

Thats whats so tragic and heartbreaking about it. Theyre just hurt, traumatized children. And thats what gets a lot of us drawn into them bc we want to help/protect the child version of themselves, if you're privy to what theyve been thru.

@jhavajoe3792

24 күн бұрын

@@DanceArchives24 Even sadder- they have a faulty program running where they don't appreciate your help, sacrifices or support. I learned the hard way- you can't help everyone and especially when they'll drag you down. Way down. No Empath is that tough.

@reneehoward358

3 күн бұрын

So so true

@everylastinchofmescoveredw5629

15 сағат бұрын

I used to make this excuse for my N mother as well, but it's BS. I had a shitty loveless childhood too, but I was able to self reflect and face my demons. If I can do that at 28, why can't she at 55? Empathy is wasted on most people, but especially narcs.

The reason why people feel like the narcissist “got away with it” is because the narcissist did many wrongs and left before anyone that they hurt could get justice. The narc does not give closure. They are cowards that hit and run.

@fdog4533

4 ай бұрын

I agree. You know who disagrees? The Narcissist.

@iced2st083

4 ай бұрын

100%

@mariet4687

4 ай бұрын

Your closure is when you walk away from them. It's a very hard thing to do.

@WhatsMyLane

3 ай бұрын

True, the ones I know played the game, look like they have won and are still playing I their game, but they are miserable...Good. The main one(s) in my life, who were VERY close to me even tried to cut me down and make me seem the black sheep, despite years of not talking as soon as they heard I'd inherited a tiny bit of money from my nan, phonecall from hmrc checking how much I git and where it went it could be a coincidence, but the phone call I recorded of him saying he was going to do exactly what ended up happening kind of gives weight. Ironically, everyone who thought they were great and lovely people, and that thought i was scum, have seen the real them after they got inheritance from a family member and ran off with it, stating they would give nobody anything. The house they bought with the £190k> is now becoming a money pit, they've burnt all bridges with family that they'd made hate me...the extended family have apologised to me and now try to actually stay in touch. A little too little too late but I appreciate it and see them semi regularly.

@arenetheeducator

3 ай бұрын

100 truth! That is why you have to let them go and be glad. you are no longer with them!

This is true. I’m an atheist, but in my decades of life experience, “karma” always catches up with narcissists. They fuck over the people who care about them, they alienate their friends (because everyone is disposable), and if they have kids, the kids probably hate them. If I were a nicer person, I’d pity them - but I’m not a nicer person anymore.

@janicemailhot5014

Жыл бұрын

No, you're STILL a nice person, but they've taught you that THEY don't Deserve Niceties

@benvergus1573

Жыл бұрын

@Janice Mailhot Well said, the way they deal with niceness is usually a great tell tale sign imo

@arhafrench5319

Жыл бұрын

This guy said "To a narcissist, compassion is supply. When you show compassion to a narcissist, you only make them sicker." I've been romantically involved with SEVERAL of them and they always end up making moves that take them down from 50 to 0 at some point.

@lorrainem8234

Жыл бұрын

​@@janicemailhot5014 💯

@len1045678

Жыл бұрын

Same here.. I know a borderline NPD who now still live with my mother.. And his sons don't care to have nothing to do with him, and I'm sure if he passes they would not show up, and is the very same way I feel about him and he knows it but will never admit to why we hate his ass. He never support none of us

Imagine the total damage they do to our society. It's immense.

@debbier9555

3 ай бұрын

I read awhile back that top corporations purposely seek out to hire narcissists as top executives because their ruthlessness grows the business quicker.

@lucyrivera487

3 ай бұрын

But they do more to themselves they just pretend they not in pain

@Yukomiya

3 ай бұрын

So you've never done anything wrong in your life. Got it.

@user-ji1yr1qs1n

2 ай бұрын

I smell narcs here 😊​@@Yukomiya

@LaMesaC

2 ай бұрын

​@user-ji1yr1qs1n 😂

This brought me so much peace. God will cut him down. My job is just to heal ❤️

@preyonce

5 ай бұрын

Amen, good luck to you ❤

@SunnyWithNoChanceOfRain

5 ай бұрын

It says that in the book of Psalms..that they will wither away like grass.

@alexam6959

4 ай бұрын

They all age… they all die… they will never admit it, because they feel invenceble, but age might be their worst enemy…

@ebonylo.

4 ай бұрын

Amen

@corysmith3447

3 ай бұрын

the guy who coined the term narccistic abuse sam v, says god religions people are delusional.. like you

Misery is an understatement. They’re literally tormented to their core. They can fake a smile, fake a laugh, fake happiness but when you know, u know. They’re suffering inside. It’s sad the lives they live

@nessauk2786

Жыл бұрын

Truth

@hazy9785

Жыл бұрын

Yes true. Also so sad the lives they destroy

@hazy9785

Жыл бұрын

Evil should suffer

@sweetrose813

Жыл бұрын

I beg to differ! I've never seen them miserable unless they were out of supply. Their happiest when they can poke and prod and hurt others

@MegaLadylove2012

Жыл бұрын

@@sweetrose813 True. They definitely can put on a happy face but ever seen them alone? Ex: alone at home or in their cars? These humans be winning fights in their, throwing punches in the air and having road rage like nobody’s business. Get around ppl and it’s bk to happy face. All an act

The narcs I deal with are at this point. People are catching on to their dirty tricks and want nothing to do with that.

@user-gm7bo5ne5p

16 күн бұрын

I had both parents who were narcissists. So when I came across one at the gun club, he tried to ruin me, and in the process, he lost his gun license. Four years later, he got his license back and came for me one week after getting it. He went nuts on the range and wouldn't leave. He lost his license again and was charged with trespass. He had no ID and didn't sign in so when he said who he was I said no way, you look old as fuck, he's about 45. He looked stunned, I could see it hurt him. I asked if he was on drugs and it took 40 minutes to make him go. He seems to be becoming unhinged.

I think by now, most of us have heard "when they show you who they are, believe them the first time."(Maya Angelou).

I've tried to take my mind off the narc entirely. If things go good the rest of his life, if things come crashing down - I'll never know. I don't want to know anything about him anymore.

@feliciajohnston4877

Жыл бұрын

I am glad I don't know either , but when people tell me he will go down that does not feel good in any way. Sure when someone betrays you it feels foolish to want them to not have consequences but I don't want to know he still is miserable 😖

@chelssss

Жыл бұрын

@@feliciajohnston4877 I very much relate to that. I think our heart just hurts for them. Whether they deserve it or not.. it's better for us not to know, than to get sucked back in and start feeling sympathy for them.

@feliciajohnston4877

Жыл бұрын

@@chelssss , for me it's his salvation if he is living his life for the Lord and repents I don't care if he's doing better than me or happier than me not trying to be bitter anymore , but the things he did if he isn't truly doing the self reflection i don't care about the appearance I feel like I need to know but that's selfish I guess. I'm still hurting and it's been a year.

@irinasp3723

Жыл бұрын

Exactly, I don't care anymore even if they live happily ever after I'm so indifferent

@nancydoherty796

Жыл бұрын

@@feliciajohnston4877I found a helpful a book on attachments by Tim Clinton!!! So Good for my recovery from my narcissist husband!! I’m the only one who can change my and become a healthier and holy woman of God. God bless you and your journey 🙏🏼🙏🏼💯✝️😇

Life has a way of humbling all of us, and if life doesn't humble us then death certainly will.

@davidroberts4248

Жыл бұрын

TRUTH!

@MrJeffrey938

Жыл бұрын

Average life span of a sociopath is about 45 years.

@sadiarahman3050

Жыл бұрын

How do u know that?

@CrystalLake108

Жыл бұрын

@@MrJeffrey938 That would surprise me. All the peopel I would consider sociopathic are older. How do you know?

@didi-bc1xs

Жыл бұрын

And death is their biggest fear!

I have seen this to be true 100 percent. They seem to make the same mistakes over & over again throughout their life without self control or wanting to change. Because they don’t see what they do is ever an issue. There’s so many consequences on this earth for treating ppl poorly. You can’t just get away with that.

@jent6476

3 ай бұрын

Amen! I've often wondered if it is a learning disability? But the twisted manipulations and lack of empathy remind me that the problem goes much deeper. I think they are ultimately very weak people who allow themselves to be controlled by the wrong spirits

@marguskiis7711

2 ай бұрын

Madonna does.

@TomRipley7350

Ай бұрын

@@marguskiis7711Not really. She’s shunned and ridiculed now because she’s delusional. She’s acting like she’s 25 when she’s 65. Her narcissism makes her think she’s entitled to evade aging. The result is that song with Sam Smith which is an embarrassment for both of them.

@israelbenisrael5130

29 күн бұрын

💯

@DanceArchives24

27 күн бұрын

@@jent6476 This is SPOT on!!

My ex ended up leaving me a very sad voicemail. I almost felt sorry for him as I deleted it. I have no regrets. Every day away from those people is a better day.

@bellejour559

4 ай бұрын

@@user-us9py1jg3z no need to do all that. Just leave. Go find your happy place.

Biggest fears of narcissistic person: 1st : death 2nd : abandoning them 3rd : exposing them I've came to conclusion by observing my narc abuser.

@naiyalexic

Жыл бұрын

"My narc abuser..." Like they're a pet rock. A poisonous worm in a jar. Just sit back and watch, until they go down in flames. I can't wait until my narc abuser goes down. I'll be there, in the second row, eating popcorn and drinking soda.

@earthrooster1969

Жыл бұрын

Interestingly each narc thinks they are so unique. But here you go listing the 3 points they all fear!!! They fall in a very predictable category, something they will vehemently deny!

@carolinesalv

Жыл бұрын

Exactly 💯

@dakota743

Жыл бұрын

Yes 💯 all 3 I have witnessed to be true! Sad 😔

@TheDeSantisVan

Жыл бұрын

Covert narc told me he fears getting ill. And here I am battling stage 4 cancer like a champ for 7 years.

They never find peace being alone. They are NEVER on their own they are codependent cowards.

@corysmith3447

3 ай бұрын

"they" is you, your one of them, as sam V puts it anoyone who enjoys insultings narcs or self called empaths are narcs themselves

@jessa555

3 ай бұрын

@@corysmith3447 are you triggered and seeking attention? Does it help you find/feel peace with yourself attacking multiple people in comment sections? Best of luck to you.

@corysmith3447

3 ай бұрын

that is gaslighting, i am simply pointing out that sam v who coined the term narccistic abuse says people who call themselves empaths are really Covert narccists, and you can see that by seeing the way they talk on empath forums, sadistic delight in tearing who they deam a narccdist down weather its their x who may or may not be one or others..@@jessa555

@MatiaSmith-en7vb

3 ай бұрын

That is so true. They'll use their children also.

@jessa555

3 ай бұрын

@@MatiaSmith-en7vb they sure do.

A lot of narc abuse survivors are missing one vital piece of information... The narcs are missing out on a real relationship with you. You're probably a sweet, kind, empathic person - YOU'RE GOLD - and the narc misses out on you when you walk away. Plus they never got to experience and amazing relationship with you. That's their tragedy.

@sylvieb5498

6 күн бұрын

I totally agree !! Thank you for reminding me. 🙏

@coffeebaconandeggs

3 күн бұрын

That's a very narcisistic way of thinking

@FabulousCucumber-ip9hu

3 күн бұрын

​@@coffeebaconandeggsNo-one with NPD would dream of issuing a message of hope to others if there's nothing in it for them. Your logic is that noone struggling with the effects of abuse is allowed to hear that they have value and deserve love. THAT'S narcissistic thinking.

@coffeebaconandeggs

3 күн бұрын

@@FabulousCucumber-ip9hu Attention seeking is a sign of narcissism

I'm was a victim, but ALMIGHTY GOD delivered me. TO GOD BE THE GLORY AMEN

They pretend to be happy and joyful but underneath they are not happy because they can't feel emotions like we do.

@arenetheeducator

6 ай бұрын

Thats what I keep emphasizing to people. This dude is not sad because of the break up because he was never into me like that! He is sad because I am not into him and his comfort of coming to the house he w=used to sleep at to insult me it no long available. the people who have empathy think he feel sadness for the loss: they have even forgotten that he beat me to file for the divorce because he always wants to win.

@juliaaap922

6 ай бұрын

So true!! 😊

@MaryJoMatey

6 ай бұрын

So they are hollow ..w no soul.... Yuck ... demons

@hix9306

5 ай бұрын

@@MaryJoMateyso you have a soul and haven’t done anything wrong in your life ?

@hix9306

5 ай бұрын

Who’s we

They selfdestruct. And blame you, their target for all their misery.

@neomaredi5922

10 ай бұрын

U became the abuser. Stationed on the otherside of the planet in the middle east.

@MzMoney_

10 ай бұрын

So true

@malwads1836

9 ай бұрын

But in turn you get to enjoy a big bag of 🍿 if you happen to catch a glimpse of that👍🏻.

@amyl7072

9 ай бұрын

Actually it's proven that almost 97% of them get away with all their abuse

@SmoothOpe_

8 ай бұрын

@@amyl7072where did you get this stat from ?

Miserable people, absolutely horrifying

My therapist refers to that Johnny Cash song often. She also says that for every bully, a bigger bully eventually comes along.

@shebakali6

5 ай бұрын

I like that. That comforts me!

@TheCrossPearls

Ай бұрын

@@shebakali6me too ❤🙏🏾❤️‍🔥

Every narcissist I know has a strong fear of death, maybe this is why

@len1045678

Жыл бұрын

I know a malignant narcissist who kill somebody, but always hiding. Basically they will do others they fear the most

@loverx3488

Жыл бұрын

​@@len1045678 I know a narcissist who is planning terrible crimes. No matter how many times I try to change his mind he is firm that he is his own God and that he will get double life in prison then he will hang himself. He already has an attempted murder charge and says he actually tried to kill the person, and that he "knew what he was doing" Smh I cannot understand his mind! 😪

@Jane-rc2rk

Жыл бұрын

Always said he’d live till he’s a 120! 😂😂😂

@Anna-ic5pt

Жыл бұрын

My ex is so scared of death...because he knows he's gonna have to pay the pied piper the ultimate price.

@len1045678

Жыл бұрын

@@loverx3488 all Malignant Narcissist should be either incarcerated for the rest of their existence or 6 foot under the ground im sorry.. as for him I wouldn't be trying to change his mind I would leave him do whatever crime he wish and let his ass go to jail or someone take his own life cause most of the time they will hurt or kill somebody without a valid reason

Living well, decently, humbly, and joyfully is the best revenge.

@misslanapaulford

Жыл бұрын

Been trying my best to do exactly that for the past 8 years..

@josiecat8080

Жыл бұрын

🎯

@ThePossumone

Жыл бұрын

Well said

@mavenblue

10 ай бұрын

I needed to read this comment

@marguskiis7711

2 ай бұрын

They don't care much. I gf left her narci ex but the ex has continued sending her sweet relaxed messages like nothing happened. He still asks her to meet up and go on with "beautiful" romance although my gf has said several times that she has very good life now without him.

This is true I bet my narc had no idea I would change my phone number they thought I was just gonna keep putting up with their disrespect, funny how they always say “no drama just wanna see if your ok” normal people don’t start a sentence with “no drama” they know they’re toxic that’s why they say this

@TheCrossPearls

Ай бұрын

Master Manipulators. Literally demonic.

How true! Left a narc ‘friend’ after about 10 years. Perfect example of her: going on and on about this friend and that friend, calling them ‘crazy b*tch’. At one point, I turned to her and asked, “So…how many times do you call me a crazy b*tch when I’m not around’? We eye-locked and there was dead silence. I looked her in the eye after a few beats and said, ‘thought so’. Left her facility shortly afterward. And I lived Happily Ever After.

Narcissists always end up losing, always

@smohammed2821

Жыл бұрын

Ameen

@toniwilson3827

Жыл бұрын

Yep Siobhan mcfadden & not going back to them , hurts them more

@kttleelee802

Жыл бұрын

They lost the ability to give love and receive love - they are corpse alive.

@projectbirdfeederman5491

Жыл бұрын

I never see it though... they live long lives controlling the wealth of the world and dodging the corrupt law.

@fredcrane8723

Жыл бұрын

Trump didn't

Love when they try to spin things to make everyone else the narcissist. Perpetual victims.

@josephmyatt7382

Жыл бұрын

Had that played on me still blamed for everything and all the other hell goes with it

@myopinion6092

Жыл бұрын

absolutely just Dropped a so called friend of 48 yrs. and now I feel free and happy.

@justacoginthefkery

Жыл бұрын

No joke! Everyone does have & display narc tendencies from time to time, but the second I hear someone start labeling ppl around them as "mentally ill" over 1 thing, it's a pretty big red flag in my book.

@osmankovacevic6135

Жыл бұрын

@@justacoginthefkery I understand where you are coming from. I also found that the easiest way to know if someone is showing any forms of toxicity is pretty simple. They usually care a lot about being right or wrong. You don't. You just want to share experiences. They don't, they will sit and wait and change the conversation into who's right and who's wrong with anyone and usually once you enter that dynamic they will accuse you of being difficult and give you an option to stop the convo or they will leave "no they won't"(they will only leave once you are silent and do what you want to do) and they accuse you of always wanting to be right or have it your own way. It's never pleasant to be around these people.

@donnahaynes2325

Жыл бұрын

Ikr?? LOL! I had not EVER seen anything like it before! They were so full of BS I couldn't connect the dots at 1st because none of 8t made any sense in my head, plus a lot of it were things he seemed to just pull out of his a** & were never true to begin with. Very confusing 4 me at 1st. Then I kinda became amused by it all. I would wait till he went into a rant or rage over something, yet waited in anticipation to see what he was going to come up with this time! LOL!

I have no interest in vengeance on the narcissist who hurt me from the past. I actually wish they would just stop bullying themselves.

@carlorizzo827

18 күн бұрын

I will always feel like a simp for not seeking revenge. But she's a suicide risk and I don't want that on my conscience. Yep she's deeply unhappy & fearful of death

@Intellectual-Warrior9

18 күн бұрын

@@carlorizzo827 People see you focusing on your happiness goals and dreams they pull on your hair to distract you from it. In my opinion giving anger hate vengeance to someone you don't want to be part of your life in the next 5 years is Simping. Putting that energy towards loving and caring for yourself and the people you want to spend time with in the next 5 years. My priority is the people I love and cherish not people Id be okay with never seeing again.

@carlorizzo827

18 күн бұрын

@@Intellectual-Warrior9 Great reversal! Thank you

I so agree. And they leave a trail of people that know who they are. It’s stains everything about them. It’s stinky.

My therapist always reminds me that they really cannot be happy. Like the rest of us view happy.

@tisaac8037

Жыл бұрын

Yes, they don't know what peace actually is, or how to find it within.

@hix9306

5 ай бұрын

@@tisaac8037 and you do ? Explain how you do ?

@tisaac8037

5 ай бұрын

@@hix9306 Because I'm not a narcissist. Narcissism is the very antithesis of peace. The narcissist is running from themselves instead of facing their junk. This is indeed triggering for you. Triggers are good. They show us where we can begin the work on ourselves. I'm glad you're watching Mr. Grannon's videos. That's a good place to start.

@hix9306

5 ай бұрын

@@tisaac8037 I don’t watch the dudes he’s a narc himself claiming to be something else . What type of junk are they running from to be exact ? How do you know these people are not at peace ? Not triggering me I’m trying to ask because I’m tired seeing comments bashing people who have a disorder

@tisaac8037

5 ай бұрын

@@hix9306 Learn about narcissism. Then come back here.

"They're kind of losers." 🤣🤣🤣💀

I really like to see more posts like this. It helps the victims of narcissism feel a little bit better . Made my day ❤

@incognito595

2 ай бұрын

So We know we are not the only victims.

No matter how high they climb the career ladder, no matter how much money they make (things on the outside of one’s inner self), they’re miserable - not successful in life.

Narcissists don't have feelings for anyone but themselves!

@markavatar1296

11 ай бұрын

This is just not true.

@ladytammy6886

11 ай бұрын

@Mark Avatar Oh yes, it is!!! Like it or not, a narcissist ALWAYS talks shit....

@kevanthekevan

7 ай бұрын

i'm a narcissist (don't tell me i've still got hope. i literally have been diagnosed with the disorder.) this isn't true.

@KigurumiAlice

7 ай бұрын

They don't blame themselves, but shift the blame🎉🎉🎉

@KigurumiAlice

7 ай бұрын

​@@kevanthekevanget help😅

Narcissists eventually fuck around and get found out and called out. I do have some empathy, but they created their situation.

@jenbodhi1133

9 ай бұрын

I have zero empathy for their garbage anymore

@donavonmacallister3101

9 ай бұрын

I could care less. No sympathy or empathy for me.

@traceybiles2061

9 ай бұрын

They will cry victim..others are crazy lying

@marguskiis7711

2 ай бұрын

Not all of them

I don’t wish bad to anyone but I truly believe that eventually we pay for the bad things we do in life in special for making people life’s miserable.

Evildoers do not get a happy ending.

Narcs can reach success and have it all; they just can't keep it. Every narc I know has self-destructed and lost it all.

@silverlakegirl9078

9 ай бұрын

Wow..... that's my ex, right there!

@greypupofficial

7 ай бұрын

No abilities of self awareness, self discipline, so they self destruct themselves into the ground

@VIEWING303

3 ай бұрын

That goes for everyone not just narcissists nothing in life goes up forever

@marguskiis7711

2 ай бұрын

Madonna anyone?

The narc in my life always got away with it. My mother told me I promise you he will reap what he’s sewn. It took 8 years but Karma has caught up with him. My mother was right!

@EMVelez

6 ай бұрын

Sown

@arenetheeducator

6 ай бұрын

What happened; may I ask?

@7prudent

28 күн бұрын

What happened?

"They do what they say they would never do" Story of life!!!

They succeed when those around them support their lies. Say no, and see them falter, see their truth.

@appletvaccount1364

14 күн бұрын

if they have money then there’s no shortage of codependent monkeys to serve them and receive their abuse

Even when you think they’re doing good, look into their soulless eyes there’s nothing there and eventually they self sabotage.

@MattyNelson-rs3ik

4 ай бұрын

I saw the eyes of defeat in my then 80 year old sister,I was looking at a photo of her,she was with us,in the photo, Her eyes very,very far away,like looking back in the past. My friend saw it,then I looked.

@janelikeaj

2 ай бұрын

Soulless eyes so true

Facts! I've Seen this Personally. It was said, "God, has a different type of way of dealing with Narcissists." They are dealt the hand they Lead with!

That's the consequences of their evil deeds by hurting, playing and manipulating the life of some innocent people.

It’s true, it gets them in the end. It gets them when they need someone to carry them because they don’t have the strength anymore. Age erodes the lies

@TheCrossPearls

Ай бұрын

And yet they stay evil & wicked.

I was married to her for thirteen years, it was like watching a train wreck in slow motion. For years I tried to help her finally I realized I had to get out of the way and save myself. She finally had breached my trust and I filed for divorce. That was four years ago, I still suffer with flashbacks and rumination. She recently died so I guess they'll never be another Hoover. The whole experience has forced me to learn a lot about myself. I cannot imagine that this will ever happen to me again.

@jennifere4641

Жыл бұрын

I left too, best decision, no regrets.🌈💗🐦

@irinasp3723

Жыл бұрын

At least you're hoover free 👍🏻

@lauradelregno99

Жыл бұрын

How did she die?

@brianreed8271

Жыл бұрын

@@lauradelregno99 I had heard through the grapevine that she had cancer back in October. At the time I couldn't be sure if it was true. I couldn't trust the information because she often used health scares to keep me on edge and worried about her. Kind of like the boy that cried wolf. Word come through the day after Christmas that she had died. The information got me way more upset than I thought it would.

@FreeBrunoPowroznik

Жыл бұрын

​@@brianreed8271 Yeah, it was bound to upset you mate. After all, as unable as narcissists are to bond with us, we still wanted to love and bond with them.

Howdy hi hi, Something I've realized is that emotional empathy in mammals is the primary pathway for endorphin release into the cerbetral environment. NPDs suffer from trauma that blocks signals from mirror neurons and prevents them from reaching the HPA axis so they don't have this pathway open to them. But and this is important, they will still benefit if they can make emotions match. But they can't go to where their victim resides emotionally. So they work to move their victim to where they are emotionally. When this happens, the NPD feels elation AKA supply, AKA endorphins. But their empathic blockage prevents them from feeling bad for their victim. So the NPD just leaves the victim there. Which makes sense since it is much easier to make the victim feel bad, if they are already down to begin with.

@jhavajoe3792

Ай бұрын

Excellent. From me- a layman and no Brain Rocket Mechanic-- I figured their mirror neurons were just fogged over and they couldn't relate. The endorphin radiator hose clog never dawned on me. I'm going to guess, Evolution has it, feeling empathy for fellow cavemen means you get to go out, hunt with the boys and get to eat and survive. The Cave Narc has to use deception.

They seem to be thriving from where I'm sitting and I'm getting destroyed by their lies.

@judithparris1818

5 ай бұрын

Yes. They are like cats and seem to have 9 lives and always land on their feet but eventually life catches up with them. Just wait it out. They'll self destruct one day. Get the popcorn ready😊

I was blindsided and betrayed in one of the worst ways by someone I've not only known for 5 years, but I also helped when they were down. I ignored the signs. The bitterness, the insecurities ... how they went from being a perpetual victim when they were down to a machiavellian, egotistical jerk when I helped pick them up. He not only betrayed me and stabbed me in the back, I found out he took credit for some of my work, he "stole" my story and in the end, he set me up and set me up to be destroyed.... and I was too trusting to see it. I couldn't understand why until I thought of the last few weeks. We were watching the game together, we were having a good time and having a few drinks ... He gets drunk and says "You're an idiot. I'm better than you, smarter too. I never needed you" and so on ...he said things like this sometimes if we were playing games ...but lately he had become more argumentative... attempting to turn any and every discussion into a debate and his insults becoming more common ...comparing everything from bank accounts to clothes ....it was bizarre. And then the final day when it happened. He played it so cool. The night before, I picked him up from work, we shared a few laughs ...and then the next morning ...I was hit with everything and all was revealed ...from second-hand sources. I realized he used me, became resentful of me and then finally ...he not only discarded me because he no longer had use for me but attempted to destroy me to boost his own insecurity-fueled arrogance. He was never my friend, was he? But I know he'll ultimately fail again. He'll end up in the same position I found in him ...when I let him into my home, sleep on my couch and treated him like family. People like him always do. It was less than a week and I already began rebuilding. I have friends and I'm credible. He will drink himself stupid, he'll continue to hurt himself with each betrayal and in his laziness will self-sabotage until he loses it all again. Afterall - people like him never get anything on their own. They rise by using others, briefly impressing people with their acts or garnering pity ...and then they get comfortable, the mask falls off and they're exposed as they ruin everything for themselves and hurt the people around them. Don't hold onto the bitterness. Don't let them corrupt who you are or fill you with resentment. They are empty people. The only thing you should give them (if anything) is pity. If you've been used and/or hurt by someone like this, simply learn from it and move on. That's what I did. Don't let them live rent-free in your mind. Let them go and free that space up for productivity.

@kathryndeighanodonnell6668

Жыл бұрын

NEVER hold on to the bitterness! It only hurts you in the end. Don't give them that power. They already think they have ALL powerful over you as it is. Hold on to your sanity & get out quick as you can. 👍💞🤗😘🙏🙏🙏

@JohnDoe-gq3tm

Жыл бұрын

"how they went from being a perpetual victim when they were down to a machiavellian, egotistical jerk" - This happened to me with an online friend. Most mind Fucking thing I've ever seen. I didn't understand any of it until long after the fact. I knew all about Narcissists but still didn't see it! Be careful who you pity. Stop to consider if people want actual help or just constant validation. Do they want a solution to their problem. Or do they just want attention for even having a problem.

@victoriasegall3404

Жыл бұрын

@@JohnDoe-gq3tm exactly! Thank you! 😊👌

@annathomas8937

Жыл бұрын

​@@JohnDoe-gq3tm Yes, reminds me of an unforgettable quote I read recently. Be very cautious about who you let in and Enable. Some are treacherous and Takers in Disguise, who come to Destroy!

@victoriaveitch6234

11 ай бұрын

Hun, I'm very sorry you went through that. Please read my reply, the world has a funny way of repaying them in an overwhelming way

People who are thriving, feel good and actually love themselves don't need to bring others down. Narcissists act like angry wounded children because inside they are angry wounded children. You don't need to let someone have access to you or maintain a relationship with them to be capable of feeling pity for the sad and isolated life they've created for themselves out of fear. Be grateful you don't have to be them.

@Xenlacasa45

4 ай бұрын

Key word you said their “access” the narc just wants access to us because they know we’re empathetic

@janelikeaj

2 ай бұрын

True that

It’s sad all you can do is pray for them ✝️

@TheCrossPearls

Ай бұрын

After a while u might need to stop, especially if it’s keeping you tied to them.

@malindaallen718

Ай бұрын

Don't bother

I saw her walking at 3 am in someone elses neighborhood, looking like she'd been beat up (ironically, she tried to have me beat) . Something made me get up , drive over there and see this for myself. She puts her head down when I go past. Narcs put on a good show, people catch on eventually. Find out she's been "narcy" to tons of people, not just you.

Very true. Nasty and miserable people who always shoot themselves in the feet or get exposed because they can't remember their own lies and deceit. The curtain eventually gets pulled back. I've never met a happy one either. Nothing is ever enough.

@judithparris1818

5 ай бұрын

Yessss! My narc dad finally and completely self destructed at 83 yrs old. Soooooo many lies exposed. Extensive financial crimes, pretends to care for our mother with alzheimers but does not, grandiose stupid ideas, etc. No contact with 3 of his 4 children AND grand kids due to his rude behavior, has to live in his "flying monkey" daughter's house bc of terrible monitery decisions and no contact with other family. He could care less. Too bad. Don't care anymore. We're very happy not to have to deal with his bs! Good riddance. Learned it from him, the master of the silent treatment😊

@fdog4533

4 ай бұрын

i'm just DAMN tired of being punished for crap thats not even my fault because of the narcissist.

@corysmith3447

3 ай бұрын

your cold, like a covert narcist who enjoys tearing epople down, most are self called empaths as sam V the leaser in narccism points out@@judithparris1818

@chellotrevino7323

3 ай бұрын

@@fdog4533SO STAND UP FOR YOURSELF 😂

@ct6852

2 ай бұрын

@@fdog4533 That's why they're so toxic. Always punishing someone else for their character defects instead of putting some work in. It's enraging after a while.

The more aware we become the less tolerant we become for people who suck our energy.

@rahmasamir909

7 ай бұрын

Exactly and its Amazing to wakeup and to understand ❤

@tw8464

Ай бұрын

Exactly

My brother, a marriage and family therapist, is a vulnerable narcissist. He destroyed the relationship between me and my sister. I’ve been no contact with him since then. Six years later, he sent me a sad, sad letter telling me about his divorce, the death of his cat (which truly saddens me), and how our parents really messed him up. He said that he wished he was a better brother. And he asked that we get together to talk things through while he was in my town. What’s so telling is that he never said that he “wanted to be” a better brother. That told me everything I needed to know.

This is so true. They may run on for a long time but sooner or later their lies will strike them down.

As they don’t care about other people and have no empathy, they do seem to carry on as if nothing has happened when they leave a wave of disrupted lives and devastated family members and friends behind them.

@martinliu7244

9 ай бұрын

Exactly what just happened to me...

@melindasmith3713

8 ай бұрын

Yeap

@candace8200

8 ай бұрын

Seems like they always benefit from the ones they crushed collecting the positive the stole and use it for new prey. It's gross.

Yes, and on a smaller scale, their overconfidence and lack of listening to others often means they make mistakes. I learned not to trust their advice, even on simple things like car repairs because overconfidence is dangerous ⚠️.

@arenetheeducator

3 ай бұрын

They cannot be trusted on anything! I mean anything. They make things up about others to boost their egos!

@1stBorn538

3 ай бұрын

Overconfident & being habitual liars are dangerous

@redhead8777

2 ай бұрын

Cannot trust anything coming out of a narc. It's all about lies covering up more lies/manipulations/abuse. It is demonic where I come from (Bible). Loving and praying from a distance (unfortunately) because I must protect myself from the satanic abuse. It definitely goes against everything inside me & my heart to feel a need to do this. It is heartbreaking. Being kind and polite without emotional attachment - it's really rough. In these last days, God is exposing evil to our very eyes to see and ears to hear!

Yes - leave them to God. He will punish those demonic spirits dressed in human body suits. Evil never wins. Gods punishment is them destroying themselves.

It is absolutely true in our case. My narcissist Mother in Law lives alone. Her children have gone 100 percent no contact. No one visits her for the holidays. No one sends her a birthday card. No one calls her. She has created a lonely hell for herself. The TV and her doctor, her only companions.

@BelindaMatlock

6 күн бұрын

This is so so sad 😢😢😢

@lmb1931

6 күн бұрын

@@BelindaMatlock It is.

Their game doesn’t age well. And their prey becomes more savvy with age.

This is very, very true. My x was everything these videos are saying. He was so book smart, had a great paying job and was going up, up up. But there were 2 sides to him. The other was he was a loser. Wouldnt do anything in our marriage. Wouldnt help with the bills, fix anything, Clean up after himself, do any chores like mow the grass or even shovel. I had to do all of this...pay all the bills with MY money, fix or pay someone to anything that broke, clean the entire apartment by myself, mow and shovel. Anything extra like a car repair even if it was his car I had to pay I also paid his car insurance. While i am being run ragged hes out with his money and any money he beat out of me( yes he was a wife beater and proud of it) going to bars with his friends and doing cocaine. If we were together and ran into a friend of his he'd mock me and cut me down in any way he could in front of them. I was told later by some of his friends that he said I deserved every punch I got from him because I was a loser. Yes, me I'm the loser. I clean cut career woman. No drugs, no bars, dont smoke cigarettes or anything else. Cooked home cooked meals, kept an exceptionally clean house. But as he kept telling me(screaming on top of his lungs into my ears) 'you're a loser'. I lost 40% of my hearing in my left ear and as I am getting older it's getting to be more. I couldnt let this 'person' because I couldnt call him a MAN touch me sexually. If any woman out there is living with THIS kind of narcissist you cant let someone like that NEAR you let alone be with them in a romantic sense. Well he raped me 2x in one night. Then after the 2nd time kicked me so hard between my legs I bled for an hour if not more. Couldnt urinate it put me up on the ceiling from the pain. Well I got pregnant. I was so very afraid to tell him. But eventually i told him when I was going into 4 months. He stood there and tore me to pieces verbally. Then when I walked by him to go to the kitchen he sucker punched me so hard in the stomach I went down like a ton of bricks. While he did this he yelled at me saying i told you ( blank blank) I dont want no efin kids. I passed out for I dont know exactly about almost 2hours. When I woke I was still where he hit me and in a pool of blood and a watery fluid. I got myself to the bathroom and I saw I had miscarried and cleaned everything up including the rug. Saw my doctor 4days later and he said I would never be able to have a child. He came home from the bar and never said a word. The next morning while we were getting dressed for work he threatened me ( as he always did) throwing me up against the wall with a knife held onto my juggler vein that if I was thinking of leaving him he will hunt me down like a dog and kill me. And the look in his eyes said he wasn't lieing. So I figured...why should 'I' leave. Went to city hall, got a restraining order, he was served...the whole time him yelling at me hes going to kill me in front of the cops serving the order and escorting him from the apartment. Yes, he came driving by later yelling and 1 time broke my window, threw my trash all over. But he was OUT. He would drive by for a while almost 2 years and call names etc. But he was out of my life somewhat. He was still in my head though. However, I always asked God why, he was going up, up and up with his career and I was doing ok but not fantastic. Well he had a massive HEART ATTACK at the age of 40 and DIED 9 years after I had him removed from the apartment. As a matter of fact almost right to the day. So, yes, I am agreeing with this man 100% about the narcissist...they have their 'time' and then they go DOWN. They fool you when they are trying to reel you in that they are the ONE. The man you are looking for. Our honeymoon was the first time he beat me...he couldnt WAIT to CONTROL me. if you are with someone like this PLAN your way out...dont tell your friends or any family members that he may talk to... Be careful...

@b.blue111

Жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry you went through all this. And I admire your strength. You are amazing. You deserve Love and Light. I wish you peace. God bless you.

@essenceoflove1069

Жыл бұрын

Very powerful story. Thank you for sharing! Continual blessings!❤

@angeld6811

Жыл бұрын

Jackie leen, wauw what a story. I admire your strengt I wish you love and joy!❤️

@margaretsanfran7410

Жыл бұрын

SAME STORY LAZY IN THE HOME...NEVER AT HOME WORKED AWAY A SMOKER DRINKER GAMBLER PORN ADDICT ALWAYS SHOUTING & SCREAMING IF HE HAD TO DO AN ODD JOB IN THE HOME I DID EVERYTHING IN MY HOME WELL HE GOT CAUGHT CHEATING BACK 2016 REST IS HISTORY DRAMA POLICE CALL OUTS LIES TO POLICE WAS WANTING ALL ASSETS TO RUN OFF WITH A LOW MORAL FIBRE WOMAN 10 YEARS HIS JUNIOR & TWICE MARRIED LIES DENIAL HAD ALL THE EVIDENCE HE ASSAULTED ME & SPAT ON ME LIED TO POLICE SAID I ASSAULTED HIM ...LIST ENDLESS WELL HE COMES INTO INHERITANCE MONEY LEAVES RENOVATES HIS LATE DADS COTTAGE NEXT DOOR TO HIS BROTHER HE HAS NOW REINVENTED HIMSELF IN A SMALL VILLAGE 8 MILES FROM ME LAST SEPTEMBER HE EVICTED ME ONTO THE STREET FROM THE FAMILY HOME OF 26 YEARS MEANTIME HIS COTTAGE IS ALL DONE UP GOT MOST OF THE DIVORCE SETTLEMENT MONEY IVE WORKED ALL MY LIFE IN A REWARDING IF LOW PAID JOB HE TOLD EVERYONE I ASSAULTED HIM LIES...OH & I WAS AN ALCOHOLIC MY GP LAUGHED IVE WORKED 12 HOURS SHIFTS ALL MY LIFE IN A HOSPITAL HES 6FT TALL WORKS ON A BUILDING SITE IM 5FT 7 INCHES SO HARD TO ASSAULT HIM ALSO ALCOHOL IS PROHIBITED FROM MY WORKPLACE MORE LIES TO SUIT HIS AGENDA HE WAS SMILING OUT THE LOCAL PAPER LAST WEEK AT A FOOTBALL GAME MY WORDS YOU WILL GET WHITS COMING TO UNU BAD BAD BAD MAN ...

@barbaraspector6689

Жыл бұрын

I love a happy ending. Be careful those kind are all over the place. Get a pet.

My bro died with a hero’s parade. It was quite fd up. He bragged about ppl he fd over or terrorized in one was or another. When he spoke of it he had such an accomplished happy tone. Very proud of himself. He used to beat or humiliate me so I stopped going to family functions. My family used to say I was out drinking and partying with my friends and that’s why I never went to family functions and they gave alienated me from them. Then you see him be given a farewell parade by firefighters that just was laughable.

@7prudent

28 күн бұрын

They usually present themselves as "angels" to other people. It's the fault of other people, though. They easily like strangers and come to consclusions about their personalities.

@Anonymous0996

24 күн бұрын

It’s incredibly frustrating when it’s your sibling too, so I know how you feel. My sister is my narcissistic bully. The only ppl who’ve seen her narcissistic side is her husband, my mom, and me. Cousins, aunts, and friends have never seen it. I cut ties with her, so she started hosting during holidays without inviting me. It feels like the rest of my family sides with her in the end, and that I’ve lost all of them as a result. It truly feels like they’ve won and that they will never be exposed

@jhavajoe3792

24 күн бұрын

I've seen that before. The whole world can glorify the Narc with the Golden Mask- no problem- I know differently and that's what counts.

@karencloutier3236

23 күн бұрын

@@Anonymous0996 exactly! I’m sorry you’re going thru that.

@karencloutier3236

23 күн бұрын

@@jhavajoe3792 you’re the “enemy” cuz you see thru it.

He hides behind a business that has constant new supply. Outwardly fake smiles , behind closed doors pure evil. Healing from that took 1.5 years I got out very injured physically and all the rest. It’s pure torture. Karma seems like it evades the privileged with allies & $$$.

@MattyNelson-rs3ik

4 ай бұрын

Actually, that is what seems to be true in the world at large.

@fifilafleur5555

4 ай бұрын

@HempyHeals… yes, I agree. They go on down the road… living their best life… while their target becomes isolated and very sick. I got metastatic cancer. They came back wanting me to set up my will where they get my assets. Disgusting!!!!

True.. They are nasty, miserable and cruel people and eventually everyone walks away or dies and they hate being alone.

@alinedupuis6717

Жыл бұрын

and that's exactly what they deserve

@TheCrossPearls

Ай бұрын

@@alinedupuis6717AMEN.

I 100% agree. Narcs will lose their youth and charisma which plays a big role in luring in their victims. Eventually people will have enough of their BS and everyone will move on. Narcs peak very early in life. Usually in their 20s. Eventually they end up alone probably addicted to some type of drug.

@KM-jp6hm

Жыл бұрын

Very true, the one I dated was 20 years older than me and used me for an ego boost. He comes off as Herbert the Pervert because his old tricks don’t work so well.

@williamhopkins4459

Жыл бұрын

So true, So true their addictions we put up with really floored her. When my leaving exposed her behaviors to all because she had to take her anger out on them Funny thing is the family always knows and dreads when they lose supply.

@joywebster2678

Жыл бұрын

Their addictions change over time. They wear out their liver from boozing and partying. Then as they age they start being addicted to overeating and they get so big, impacting their health and looks as they are older. And misery increases. They don't improve.

@262charlene

Жыл бұрын

So true about their youth and charisma. They use it as a tool to hide their ugliness inside. When they age they just look so ugly.

@brainbomb.

Жыл бұрын

​@@joywebster2678 They age like milk.

My ex is a narcissist. Cheated multiple times,would fake accountability, and feeling bad when caught, but even just a few hours after the conversation, i could see it was fake. And she was not taking accountability. I gave her everything, I literally gave her a new life, and took care of her, it cost me SO much, financially, mentally, and physically. But its also put her in a position, she has no where else to go, no money of her own, and she already doesnt own much. Lost a good bit in our first break up, not just items, but all her own friends, and credibility. Wish i had stayed away then. So when its finally over, shes dug herself into a hole she will probably never recover from what shes done to herself. And my life will improve in so many ways.

Went through this with an ex, love bombed me , got engaged, got scared of commitment, broke it off, got back together then I turned them down once and they couldn't handle it. Best way to heal is go no contact completely

They fall on their own sword eventually

@redhead8777

2 ай бұрын

True, everyone does.

@LaMesaC

2 ай бұрын

Yeah

To everyone who has dealt with a narcissist in their life do not let them rub off on you and you become bitter and evil yourself is just as bad as them. You have to heal forgive and move on.

@endoraismygma

7 ай бұрын

This is so true. Took me years, a lot of therapy and getting sober to cut the cord. They can imprint. Important message, thanks for sharing.

@arenetheeducator

6 ай бұрын

Thanks: the flying monkeys are really something

@tonyrandall3146

6 ай бұрын

I think personality disorders can be kinda contagious. Well said Fred.

@juliaaap922

6 ай бұрын

amen!

@LADlifeafterdivorce

6 ай бұрын

Amen

Right?! Thnx so true my ex narc had it all - didnt want to give up alcohol or drugs or teasing people! He always called the cops kicked me out and Now he is mentally ill homeless and incapable of caring for himself! All that smarts out the door! Be nice to yourself and others no matter what- god and life has a path waiting for you!❤❤❤

What’s sad is when you are surrounded by narcissistic jealous people as well and they all bash you and then say you’re the narcissist. That’s always interesting.

Miserable people , Hurt people Hurt people once you get away FROM THEM you start to forge a new way a better way

@kryptonica

Жыл бұрын

"How much distance can I put, between the music and the dance? How many lines must I write to ease away the past?"

@psychoholiday-ju1cp

Жыл бұрын

I absolutely HATE that oversaid "Hurt people HURT people" mantra. It's like a subliminal suggestion to tolerate BAD people out of sympathy. (I wonder how many empaths have gotten killed by believing this nonsense?!)

@psychoholiday-ju1cp

Жыл бұрын

I absolutely HATE that oversaid "Hurt people HURT people" mantra. It's like a subliminal suggestion to tolerate BAD people out of sympathy. (I wonder how many empaths have gotten killed by believing this nonsense?!)

@Movieclips_101

2 ай бұрын

💯

I dated a narcissist and yes he was his own worst enemy.

@justasiam6863

Жыл бұрын

Same

I agree . when they play their games . just hold in there long enough you see them trap themselves in their own lies . and then it is comedy how they squirm .

My abusers are all doing well. They have money and seem to be living the good life. Maybe they’re not NPD but just high on the spectrum. Only 1 is for sure NPD and he’s living a nice life with his new supply. I just don’t see them suffering in any way whatsoever. Me, their target, I’m struggling with illness and I have isolated after so many years of hurt & harm by these individuals.

In my limited experience, I've only seen narcissists get away with things.

@debracappiccille6485

5 ай бұрын

Me too but when you think about how horribly miserable they really are. They gives me some comfort.

@judithparris1818

5 ай бұрын

I felt the same way watching my narc father for years but now at 83 years old, he has received his comeuppance! Complete self destruction at his own hands too. No real money, no family that cares (except his flying monkey daughter), "friends" all deceased, wife has alzheimers. Nobody cares what he says and does anymore🤷🏾‍♀️ So just be patient...

@pavithra-7429

3 ай бұрын

God notices it. They will fall with same experience from another narc.

@AL-sg2jd

2 ай бұрын

Just understand this. You can’t treat people poorly and be a happy person. They already have their karma by being who they are. You don’t have to wait for it. The misery is already inside them. You just can’t see it

@marguskiis7711

2 ай бұрын

​@@judithparris1818 old age and death catch us all.

Amen! Once they get exposed, they are finished. The Bible says " a man who cheats on his wife is a fool, they will be covered in shame forever"

@climatescientist

3 ай бұрын

I agree and this also applies to the hundreds of thousands of priests and clergy that have gotten away with molesting and raping children the past 30 years. less than a 2 % prosecution rate. just remember that everything is relative

@marguskiis7711

2 ай бұрын

Madonna not

@LaMesaC

2 ай бұрын

Hope so, witness here

This is very sad news when the person is your Mother.

I already see my ex narc self destroying himself. He got bad anxieties, he keeps moving from one job to the next and he keeps moving from state to states. 😳 He is so confused 😕🤔 doesn't know what he wants in life. Always changing his plans. I honestly feel sorry 😔😐 for him. If I was aware of his ways I wouldn't have never gotten married to him... 😭 😢 SAD!

You can see it in their face.

@fumarate1

Жыл бұрын

yes you can see the hiding disgruntlenes anger,sadness,ect ect.

@loverx3488

Жыл бұрын

What about when they cry? My narc ex said that I said some things that hurt him to the core and he cried a little over this past weekend. I want to know if those tears were sincere or not I'm leaning on not 🤔

@HonestyIsAVirtue7

Жыл бұрын

​@@loverx3488 The only tears they cry are when they feel sorry for themselves. That's all they care about is themselves. They blame everyone else for what they do, and then they cry because people won't take the blame for their games they play. They want everyone to pat them on the back, and hug them for being mean. It's 4 sorts of CRAZY!

@dajanamuse

Жыл бұрын

They age like bananas

@ahenwaa5133

Жыл бұрын

​@@dajanamuseVery very true. They live their life all high and mighty, forever putting their nose in other peoples business to the point they actually feel invincible. That is the very cause of their downfall, thinking they will never age, fall seriously ill or lose their looks. Before long, they are weak, decript and bitter.

narcissists need to end up in psych ward or prison -theyve lost the priviledge of freedom to roam the country

@tanyawatts3896

Жыл бұрын

Totally agree

@LieutenantJops

Жыл бұрын

Criminals & the mentally ill are locked up because they’re a danger to society. I think what narcissists do to people deserves the same. Many sound minded people go through unimaginable trauma but they don’t hurt other people. If you need to hurt people you belong behind bars. Simple.

@LieutenantJops

Жыл бұрын

Great news! 😉👌

@somedude3443

Жыл бұрын

It'd be nice... but they might lie their asses off to avoid the charges. Narcissists are experts at creating a façade

@tjradmila

Жыл бұрын

My words !!!! Swedish laws in psychiatry suck!!!! All that equality and liberty. And what about us who had to suffer these bullies. No justice. Shame on you Sweden.

It feels like they win every situation. This is why we have this perspective. We know they will lose in the end, but this lasts 20 30 years until we invite the next one in.

This brings me peace. He struts along, while I limp, puffs himself up as I wither, acts like he did no wrong, as I struggle daily to pull out of the fog. Knowing this gives me that peace of God beyond all understanding.

Karma never forgets an address

I don't care if she's having a good life! All I care is to see myself doing well. She's in my past now!

@jselenatan9834

10 ай бұрын

Good for you! 🎉

Escaped him 2 months ago, he was searching out new supply within 48 hours if not before and now posting pictures of a phoenix.

@elect.asmr.crunch

4 ай бұрын

Yep they start their search pretty quickly. It kinda hurts but why should we even care? We are much better off without them. I wish we could warn the next supply and they take heed but unfortunately they just tend to think we’re being a jealous hater. So instead, they will just have to find out the hard way. Hopefully sooner than later though.

They end up alone because they never cared for anyone else.

This is so true. My abusive, textbook narcissistic mother divorced my dad and completely abandoned the family when I was a teenager. Years later she tries to come back to the life she once had because she’s alone and miserable but the bridge was burned long ago. Your now (fully grown) kids hate you and won’t speak to you under any circumstances, your spouse has since moved on and is now happily remarried, you have no friends (because they all eventually see the truth), you can’t hold a serious relationship, and have missed all of your children’s milestone life events. It must be a next level of torment and defeat, but I don’t care. They earned it with pride.

@kb847

7 ай бұрын

Hope this happens to my ex spouse that abandoned me and my kids.. Narcissist pos!

@carmenbit9663

7 ай бұрын

That’s exactly what happened to my ex.

@livelife5947

5 ай бұрын

She’s probably fine. She sounds schizoid to me, which means she prefers her own company. Also she’s probably dissociated & forgotten you exist anyway. As the old saying goes “out of sight out of mind”. Relationships aren’t everything. Also, you sound like a really nasty person, she’s better off without you tbh.

@MattyNelson-rs3ik

4 ай бұрын

Pride goes before a fall.

Seeing this happen now. He ran and played and hurt many, but now he is at the bottom and no one to help him. Guilting me bc I don't come to his rescue. Sorry, I'm not obligated to help someone who cheated, lied, and tried to break me and so many others, all while professing his eternal love to me. Yet, with God's help, I rise.

Wish I could agree with you: The abusive, perverted, sadistic rich narc who victimized me, my sister, and my family is a pillar of the community, able to smear me and my family with his lies, while he is adored, and getting more so as he ages. Trust is God's judgement, and don't wait for karma for these demons. They seem protected in this world.

It's a longer fall the higher you climb I always say 🙏

@MattyNelson-rs3ik

4 ай бұрын

When you are a narcissist, yes

Social media feeds into this. They don’t even have to leave the house for validation/ supply