Adrienne & Jordin Sparks On Why They Married Their Husbands: ‘He Was the First Person That Saw Me’

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From reasons NOT to get married to the reasons they said yes to their husbands, Adrienne and multi-platinum recording artist, actress, and guest co-host Jordin Sparks reveal why they married their partners!
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  • @ashlynnleray5640
    @ashlynnleray56402 жыл бұрын

    Jordin Sparks creates the same atmosphere on the show that Tamera did...I love her humility and aura.

  • @MindlessMisfit

    @MindlessMisfit

    2 жыл бұрын

    agreed!! I haven't tuned into the show or clips since Tam Tam left but I watched the ones with Jordin and she's honestly great!

  • @mamsawah9255

    @mamsawah9255

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yea they should consider her as a regular she is good

  • @BubuhleGobodo

    @BubuhleGobodo

    2 жыл бұрын

    True, very true

  • @godsgirl7201

    @godsgirl7201

    2 жыл бұрын

    Definitely not there two different people

  • @chanelmapendo3761

    @chanelmapendo3761

    2 жыл бұрын

    They give off the same energy 🥰🥰🥰

  • @mscstapleton
    @mscstapleton2 жыл бұрын

    I've really enjoyed Jordin Sparks on the show . She's so humble and her contributions have been nice to hear

  • @Anthony-fu6cl

    @Anthony-fu6cl

    2 жыл бұрын

    AGREED!! she'd make the perfect fifth co-host!!

  • @NellieKAdaba

    @NellieKAdaba

    2 жыл бұрын

    Love her too.

  • @mscstapleton

    @mscstapleton

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Anthony-fu6cl agreed!

  • @alannanance8414

    @alannanance8414

    2 жыл бұрын

    Totally agree!

  • @Anfani
    @Anfani2 жыл бұрын

    Whew! When Jordan said “he was the first person to see ME!” I almost cried

  • @marijamilenkovic4751

    @marijamilenkovic4751

    2 жыл бұрын

    me too.. 🥺

  • @kimseay7135

    @kimseay7135

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes! That was so deep... 😪

  • @FreeBird2.0

    @FreeBird2.0

    2 жыл бұрын

    So true 💜🖤

  • @susana01992

    @susana01992

    2 жыл бұрын

    I was holding back tears

  • @carlenes4451

    @carlenes4451

    2 жыл бұрын

    And that's what we need

  • @DML_81
    @DML_812 жыл бұрын

    In our belief system, we wouldn't have sex before marriage. So, when I met my partner, and it was clear that we were a match, we got married within 6 months. We just celebrated our 17 year marriage anniversary at the end of December. It has NOT been easy, but all these years and 3 kids later, here we are...

  • @janeking4059

    @janeking4059

    2 жыл бұрын

    In six months? Was it coz the sex was on hold until ...after marriage?

  • @Phenyo.M_

    @Phenyo.M_

    2 жыл бұрын

    love this

  • @kiamyal8698

    @kiamyal8698

    2 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations 👏 🎊 all continued God's blessings 🙌

  • @TheStarLaura

    @TheStarLaura

    2 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations on 17 years. What an accomplishment! Keep going, I promise there’s nothing out here 😂😂

  • @gingerjoy5836

    @gingerjoy5836

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is awesome, congrats!🙌🏼💗 My hubs asked me to marry him 2 weeks after we met, 6 months later, we were married. It hasn’t been easy by any means, but here we are with 2 grown kids and 27 years later😅

  • @jazzjade4844
    @jazzjade48442 жыл бұрын

    Love that Adrienne considers couple therapy as maintenance. The maintenance is always more important than the purchase.

  • @jocelynford4209

    @jocelynford4209

    2 жыл бұрын

    Love this metaphor!

  • @missnlahi

    @missnlahi

    2 жыл бұрын

    Beautifully said

  • @krimsonedit3272

    @krimsonedit3272

    2 жыл бұрын

    Well she better, she married a man who was a cheater big @$$ cheater, . cheater cheat because taht is that character, not the woman they are with

  • @diariesofkaiii2171
    @diariesofkaiii21712 жыл бұрын

    I cried when she said he sees the real me cause in the generation we live in today it's hard to find someone who sees you

  • @kingdomaffairs2373

    @kingdomaffairs2373

    2 жыл бұрын

    Facts

  • @BriaBarrows

    @BriaBarrows

    2 жыл бұрын

    They are definitely out there. Pray on it. ♥️🙏🏾

  • @mariekano9730

    @mariekano9730

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly 💯

  • @MsSugarlips21

    @MsSugarlips21

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes! Someone who sees you beyond how you look, beyond what people around you say, beyond your worldly attributes. Its not the one that calls me beautiful and intelligent that sparks light in my heart but the one who notices the snort at the end of my laugh, the face I make when I’m thinking, the fist I make when I’m anxious, the light I bring into a room with my calmness, my love for lights and flowers, etc! The good with the bad and loves me all that much more for it! And vice versa 🥰 that’s what I want! #WorthTheWait

  • @Jasmyne444

    @Jasmyne444

    2 жыл бұрын

    So true! I can’t wait to have this 🙏🏾✨☺️

  • @LittleMiss8897
    @LittleMiss88972 жыл бұрын

    Loni calling Adrienne munchkin is so cute 🥰

  • @AmandaWaseUK

    @AmandaWaseUK

    2 жыл бұрын

    Right? I love it🥰🥰🥰

  • @carolynbratton7827

    @carolynbratton7827

    2 жыл бұрын

    Haven't seen show in awhile, can't believe how much weight Loni has put on.

  • @antoinettekminor
    @antoinettekminor2 жыл бұрын

    Can we get a permanent cohost seat for Jordin? 5 ladies can still work!

  • @jyn88

    @jyn88

    2 жыл бұрын

    5 is honestly crowded. We won't hear from them all or it won't be in-depth. They'll end up rushing just for the next person to speak or to go into commercial break. I like Jordin too but I rather she is a guest or replace someone that quits.

  • @boardsoso
    @boardsoso2 жыл бұрын

    I haven't tuned into Jordin in years but seeing this I have to say I'm so happy for her. She went through a lot with Jason Derulo and she deserved so much better. She clearly got better!!!

  • @freedom4063

    @freedom4063

    2 жыл бұрын

    I agree.I'm so happy and Jason used her 😢

  • @rogers5622

    @rogers5622

    2 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely

  • @Simz199x

    @Simz199x

    2 жыл бұрын

    What did Jason do to her?

  • @freedom4063

    @freedom4063

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Simz199x cheated etc

  • @boardsoso

    @boardsoso

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Simz199x He had a near fatal accident that fractured his neck. Apparently he was almost paralyzed. Jordin basically nursed that man back to health. And he basically cheated and treated her horribly in the end. Even after she married and had her child, he was quoted saying how they aren’t friends. And this is after all she did for him.

  • @kekejefferson9219
    @kekejefferson92192 жыл бұрын

    I love how Loni calls Adrienne "Munchkin". 😂🤣♥️

  • @edithmariequinones5328
    @edithmariequinones53282 жыл бұрын

    Addriene hit it on the nail!! Its that simple!! My hubby of 32 years wasnt my bff but he is the love of my life beside my 3 kids . My heart still gets beating fast when i see him!! I also feel that for me.

  • @Thatcher8888

    @Thatcher8888

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oh my goodness! Reading your comment makes me want this! Lord I pray I get married to a man who still gives me butterflies years after we get married!

  • @LOLITA541

    @LOLITA541

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's so sweet! You are blessed!

  • @didinkwocha294

    @didinkwocha294

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's beautiful

  • @Simz199x

    @Simz199x

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Thatcher8888 Me too sis 😭

  • @Tan87ful

    @Tan87ful

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Thatcher8888 agreed 💯💯👏🏽👏🏽

  • @OlipaKatongoKunda
    @OlipaKatongoKunda2 жыл бұрын

    In most African countries dowry still exists and its a very respected culture

  • @lisebomarykotelo77

    @lisebomarykotelo77

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oh yaaaas it's our thing...

  • @Christian80806

    @Christian80806

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for saying this! I was gonna say the same. And in India too

  • @arnitaxavier9446

    @arnitaxavier9446

    2 жыл бұрын

    Honestly as a Zimbabwean myself, the whole thing makes me uncomfortable.

  • @JJ-mx3pd

    @JJ-mx3pd

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@arnitaxavier9446 each to their own I guess. Ironically, I treasure it more now even though I grew up in a western country 🤷‍♀️

  • @mwangiloise7164

    @mwangiloise7164

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@arnitaxavier9446 it's only uncomfortable if the whole idea is misused, like pple using it as fraud..but my dad says it was a tradition meant to 'take care' of the parents.and ofcos an event to make the two families from both sides one..

  • @MinaWest
    @MinaWest2 жыл бұрын

    What they said about why they got married was soooo sweet! I really got tears in my eyes

  • @lifeisbeautiful9455

    @lifeisbeautiful9455

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me too because the men that I dated or not dated it was always about them so I dumped them 😂😂. They didn’t see me and didn’t care to see me. I don’t waste my time…. I’m too celibate and single. These men out here be running game acting like they know me after a few days when they don’t and they married with kids or got someone. They are just focused on how quick they can attempt to use me but I don’t let it happen and they get mad when they can’t play me. 😐

  • @MinaWest

    @MinaWest

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@lifeisbeautiful9455 I pray you meet someone who see's you and loves you through it all. Someone you can be free with and you know always has your best interest at heart. I am with someone who makes me feel the same way they described and I feel so blessed. Celibate till marriage too x

  • @thegoddess5300
    @thegoddess53002 жыл бұрын

    I love that this topic came up especially that I got married 12/22/21 🥰. Marriage may not be for everyone but it is definitely worth the wait for the right person.

  • @dawncullen0214

    @dawncullen0214

    2 жыл бұрын

    Your wedding date is cool!

  • @DanielleMJones

    @DanielleMJones

    2 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations! Blessings to you, your partner & your marriage! 🍾🥂💛

  • @AA-bm3hf

    @AA-bm3hf

    2 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations!!

  • @jocelynford4209

    @jocelynford4209

    2 жыл бұрын

    Aww Congratulations!!💖🍾

  • @lindaf6274
    @lindaf62742 жыл бұрын

    Marriage is unique…. It’s not “the same” as a long term relationship.

  • @TheLbrown17

    @TheLbrown17

    2 жыл бұрын

    THANK YOU!!

  • @empowheressence

    @empowheressence

    2 жыл бұрын

    Linda, say that again!!

  • @JCarvalho8

    @JCarvalho8

    5 ай бұрын

    Totally agree

  • @MzJazzy123100
    @MzJazzy1231002 жыл бұрын

    I use to hope that I will be married in my 20’s . I am now 28, still not married. And I’m actually okay with that. It’s not a must. I’m glad that I am waiting on God to just bring me the right one. For me

  • @jaclynch6312

    @jaclynch6312

    2 жыл бұрын

    My husband found me when I finally believed that God's plans for me are "good." I married at 32.

  • @mariekano9730

    @mariekano9730

    2 жыл бұрын

    Don't rush marriage especially when you're young. Take your time to get to know and love the mate you're with. Grow with him/her. 30s to me is a nice time to be married cause you're at the stage of your life where you're mature enough to know what you want who you are

  • @MsSugarlips21

    @MsSugarlips21

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same! I’m 25, thought I’d be married by 28, and maybe I will be. But I also thought I would have been dating the person for 3-4 years prior to getting married and mathematically, that isn’t really possible anymore 😂 anyway, I pray that we find favor in Gods eyes always and our “Adam” or “Boaz” finds us. Remember to pray, walk in step with Gods words, and lean on Him and not your own understanding .

  • @thandiwethatchermkhatshwa2134

    @thandiwethatchermkhatshwa2134

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm 27 and a lot of people around me are getting married, sometimes I feel like I'm late but I know that God knows what I need and every time I get the opportunity to date I don't see what I am looking for. Gods timing.

  • @emefaahiable4852

    @emefaahiable4852

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same... thot I will be at 28. Rather got married at 31 to the loml 🥰

  • @MindlessMisfit
    @MindlessMisfit2 жыл бұрын

    seeing and hearing Jordin on the show is a breath of fresh air. it would be awesome if she became a permanent host as she adds so much to the convos

  • @Tiajones333

    @Tiajones333

    2 жыл бұрын

    I agree she could be the fifth person

  • @MinaWest

    @MinaWest

    2 жыл бұрын

    I agree! they used to have 5 people in the past, and she has a soft heart that reminds me off Tamera who i miss I think she would be a great addition

  • @leahjames6870
    @leahjames68702 жыл бұрын

    Being married and being in a "committed relationship" is not the same thing...

  • @mingona83
    @mingona832 жыл бұрын

    Same for me Adrienne and Jordan. When I got married I knew/felt this man loves me for me bad/good and he makes me feel safe and secure, I knew no matter what I want this man in my life.. We got married at 25 yrs old so of course things haven't been perfect but we have learned to grow together and I love him more today than ever (13 yrs marriage, 19 yrs together).

  • @gloryam7969
    @gloryam79692 жыл бұрын

    I love Adrienne's reason for getting married. ❤️

  • @ceeare12345
    @ceeare123452 жыл бұрын

    Because I’m a Christian, my views of marriage are biblical because I believe marriage was designed by God. With that being said… I’m 27 and have never been married. I’ve been proposed to and I’ve had 3 boyfriends WANT to marry me, but I won’t settle. I know what characteristics I need in a husband. I’d rather stay single than settle. That’s how much I value the sanctity of marriage.

  • @AmandaWaseUK

    @AmandaWaseUK

    2 жыл бұрын

    Are you JW?

  • @Denise-ob8dk

    @Denise-ob8dk

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amen!

  • @xxsnxx0037

    @xxsnxx0037

    2 жыл бұрын

    Do you feel pressured at all to be married?

  • @ceeare12345

    @ceeare12345

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@AmandaWaseUK I am a nondenominational Christian.

  • @ceeare12345

    @ceeare12345

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@xxsnxx0037 Oh yeah. People make negative comments all the time about how I have unrealistic expectations for a man and how I’m somehow running out of time to get married in my 20s. Especially when I mention how I’ve turned down the opportunity to get married multiple times.

  • @XoNathaliee
    @XoNathaliee2 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely love Jordin . I adore the idea of marriage but yeah I do feel like it has become Almost a rule in relationships after a certain amount of years versus identifying the reason for the union in the first place

  • @mariekano9730

    @mariekano9730

    2 жыл бұрын

    I agree I feel that before marriage couples need to embrace the definition of a union first and what that means

  • @XoNathaliee

    @XoNathaliee

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@mariekano9730 completely agree !

  • @Tan87ful

    @Tan87ful

    2 жыл бұрын

    Agreed 💯💯👏🏽👏🏽

  • @saly4762
    @saly47622 жыл бұрын

    Jordin is sooooo beautiful and that hairstyle is fire

  • @janeking4059

    @janeking4059

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ok

  • @ashleyrogers1930
    @ashleyrogers19302 жыл бұрын

    When thinking of getting married I always asked myself " Would I want a child that acts like him"? We can assume someone will be a good dad but we don't know that for sure. So you have to look at their personality good and bad.

  • @jerrseyy1088

    @jerrseyy1088

    2 жыл бұрын

    YES!! Thankyou! I’ve said this before.. do I want my future kids to embody my spouse’s traits?! Great point that’s not discussed enough. Some people think, oh they treat me nice and it’s been awhile so it’s time to be married. Ummm are they patient, morally sound, healthy? Those are more important.

  • @uatty1

    @uatty1

    5 ай бұрын

    wow this is a really good way to look at it but also how do we factor in like mental health issues into this thought process?

  • @brendanevarez2024
    @brendanevarez20242 жыл бұрын

    I like how Loni calls Adrian Munch lol

  • @bellaapple2166

    @bellaapple2166

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah it's cute

  • @sindilelisa9730
    @sindilelisa97302 жыл бұрын

    My aunt always says marriage isn't the it goal You should marry when you're ready and have accomplished your goals

  • @tryin2beehappygolucky431

    @tryin2beehappygolucky431

    2 жыл бұрын

    She's smart

  • @lexie02jones25

    @lexie02jones25

    2 жыл бұрын

    Your aunt is smart.

  • @Tan87ful

    @Tan87ful

    2 жыл бұрын

    Agreed 💯💯👏🏽👏🏽

  • @TheHonorableAngelinaNordstrom
    @TheHonorableAngelinaNordstrom2 жыл бұрын

    Jordin's reason for getting married is exactly what I want for me. And I can relate to Jordin on so many levels. This conversation reminds me of Jordin's song, "Worth The Wait". My favorite song from her hands down!

  • @zzsmile1

    @zzsmile1

    2 жыл бұрын

    Also a favourite of mine!

  • @walktalk_208

    @walktalk_208

    2 жыл бұрын

    I hope that happens for you! Keep believing and living 😊🙏

  • @TheHonorableAngelinaNordstrom

    @TheHonorableAngelinaNordstrom

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@walktalk_208 thank you so much for those amazing words.

  • @Chaptersaudio
    @Chaptersaudio2 жыл бұрын

    4:29 That would be my only reason as well. As corny as it may sound, I think we know who "our person" is. They are the ones that conversations comes easy. You get each others humor and quirkiness. And you are super respectful of each other. When you fight, you fight fair and make up quick. Those types of connections are rare. So when you meet your best friend committing to them and only them comes easy. The thought of anyone else isn't on the radar. For me, much like Adrienne, I would only marry my best friend.

  • @jaclynch6312

    @jaclynch6312

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's how it was for me

  • @cougarlady112
    @cougarlady1122 жыл бұрын

    Jordan Sparks is one of the kindest, smarter women in music today. We need a new album.

  • @BriaBarrows
    @BriaBarrows2 жыл бұрын

    Yea, if you are waiting for sex, don’t rush into marriage. It’s hard to wait, but building that trust and friendship is important.

  • @freedom4063

    @freedom4063

    2 жыл бұрын

    I agree I'm 36 almost 37 still single and never did that . Nobody talk to me becuz of it and I'm too religious . its such a shame. Men just want hoes

  • @ThatsJustMyBabyDaddy
    @ThatsJustMyBabyDaddy2 жыл бұрын

    I love how women are finally deciding to define their lives, their relationships, their marriages for themselves and only themselves.

  • @AmandaWaseUK
    @AmandaWaseUK2 жыл бұрын

    Loni calling Adrienne ‘Munchkin’ will never grow old 🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @heinchaldejongh3259
    @heinchaldejongh32592 жыл бұрын

    She literally looks like how she looked like in the music video for No Air 😍

  • @janaejones8709
    @janaejones87092 жыл бұрын

    I have to admit that I haven’t been watching the Real as consistently as I have in the past but….hey Producers, if you see this comment, if you hire Jordin Sparks I will watch everyday! She fits right in, she’s well spoken and I believe she will bring something fresh to the show 💗

  • @blairfamily9685

    @blairfamily9685

    2 жыл бұрын

    I agree, Jordin Sparks brings substance and that show NEEDS it. When Tamera left, I stopped watching. Tamera was classy, intelligent and well spoken. The show is very boring and feels old.

  • @melodyholt500

    @melodyholt500

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@blairfamily9685 the show is good now.

  • @blairfamily9685

    @blairfamily9685

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@melodyholt500 Maybe I will check it out. Thanks.

  • @CandyxXCain89
    @CandyxXCain892 жыл бұрын

    PLEASE KEEP JORDIN SPARKS !!! it’s great to have a younger but also mature Millennial in the group. Love this show love 💕

  • @rubymobz

    @rubymobz

    2 жыл бұрын

    They totally should keep her!

  • @nicolegalasso1050
    @nicolegalasso10502 жыл бұрын

    I want Adrienne’s sweater tho…

  • @DrineThePoet
    @DrineThePoet2 жыл бұрын

    Adrienne😪👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 And what Jordin said was beautiful "he saw me"😭😭😭😭✊🏿

  • @michaelsagoe-nkansah2417
    @michaelsagoe-nkansah24172 жыл бұрын

    If you find someone and believe that they are your partner for life...you should demonstrate that trust by marrying them. As a Christian man, I wouldn't like to cohabit with someone in a relationship for years...without sealing it with a marital covenant

  • @marylinehappy8504
    @marylinehappy85042 жыл бұрын

    From the initial question: the answer is no. People don’t take it seriously anymore.

  • @DrineThePoet

    @DrineThePoet

    2 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @tam5091
    @tam50912 жыл бұрын

    I'll celebrate 20 years this June. I love being married definitely couldn't do the 2022 dating scene lol

  • @britbritnicole9211
    @britbritnicole92112 жыл бұрын

    Wow, that’s so true that no matter what you’d want to maintain that bond and friendship 🥺

  • @lauretteekwechi9927
    @lauretteekwechi99272 жыл бұрын

    Dowries still exist in some cultures.

  • @tahmercynung2498
    @tahmercynung24982 жыл бұрын

    In my culture a dowry is extremely important. To us it symbolizes that you respect the lady , you value her and honor her. You’re saying to her family and your family that you have now become one big family.To us when no dowry is given it shows that the man is irresponsible. Of course dowry varies from family to family though there are some symbolic items but conclusively dowry needs to be given no matter how small or gigantic. I also think premarital counseling is very important some people call it couples therapy.

  • @idi.h5460
    @idi.h54602 жыл бұрын

    I also hate that Adrienne said “it’s very Bridgeton” as if Dowry’s aren’t a global culture that has existed for thousands years but yeah let’s associate it with this dumb netflix show 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @JJ-mx3pd

    @JJ-mx3pd

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, same lol. Typically reflective of viewing everything through the western lens - anything outside of the US and Europe (mainly Britain) doesn’t exist 🤷‍♀️ Also, wouldn’t be surprised if some people only just learned about dowry from Bridgerton lol.

  • @idi.h5460

    @idi.h5460

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@JJ-mx3pd literally how embarrassing, it’s even worse when it’s poc people like imagine if I said “it’s very Taco Bell” while talking about Mexican street food as if Taco Bell invented the concept 🤦🏾‍♀️ (yes I know Adrienne isn’t Mexican) it’s an example

  • @trinitycodance6107
    @trinitycodance61072 жыл бұрын

    Marriage isn’t about femininity or a women’s choice to be married. Marriage is an institution designed by God that reflects His Bride (The Church-The Kingdom, followers of Christ) and the love He has for The Bride, (and the coming together of both when Jesus returns) in the Earth. Marriage of The Lord is also an assignment and Holy Covenant. Last thing, and I say this lovingly, the choice to be yolked with a person with no regard of destiny in mind, going through the mundane “structure” of what society calls love and relationship is a waste of precious time that God has given all of us.

  • @moimeself1088

    @moimeself1088

    2 жыл бұрын

    Marriage is a contract facilitated by the state. Non-religious people also get married, and they file the exact same paperwork with the state. 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @lifeoflola2595

    @lifeoflola2595

    2 жыл бұрын

    Well Said! God bless you

  • @arnitaxavier9446

    @arnitaxavier9446

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@moimeself1088 Don't forget people who hold other religious beliefs too. Not everyone believes in the Christian God.

  • @tatianadaniel3569

    @tatianadaniel3569

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@moimeself1088 Anything made official, is put into documentation, right? Technically, you don't even exist without a birth certificate and a social security number. Of course, non-religious people get married. That doesn't negate any of what the initial commenter has written.

  • @tatianadaniel3569

    @tatianadaniel3569

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@arnitaxavier9446 Of course not everyone believes in Jesus. Nevertheless, marriage was still created by Jesus ( God in human form).

  • @amani5161
    @amani51612 жыл бұрын

    Love how Loni always calls Adrienne 'Munchkin' now. Too adorable.

  • @streamlinedbeautyhealthlif4817

    @streamlinedbeautyhealthlif4817

    2 жыл бұрын

    That was cute I love Adrienne too !

  • @janeking4059
    @janeking40592 жыл бұрын

    Yes Adrienne I have recognized u have been doing self care/therapy etc...the last two years since Covid...u have grown A LOT is wat I have been saying in comments...I can tell...huge difference! And yes couples therapy for maintenance...is great for the relationship!

  • @JizzyRizzy89

    @JizzyRizzy89

    2 жыл бұрын

    It kinda shock me wen she said unconditional love. N the horn beeped. That musta been a sign that wasn't true. Cause women and men don't unconditional.

  • @justisiempre4105
    @justisiempre41052 жыл бұрын

    People are changing the definition of marriage. We have evolved from civil marriage contracts to romantic marriages and everything in between. It's great to see folks marrying for not only love but a true partnership. I have friends who write their own marriage contracts so it's all on the table.

  • @missnlahi

    @missnlahi

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly. This is the definition of feminism. Having choices.

  • @theresalor
    @theresalor2 жыл бұрын

    Jordan is so dope. She seems like a genuinely sweet person.

  • @jeffrivera3612
    @jeffrivera36122 жыл бұрын

    Let’s not start the 5th cohost comments pls. If it’s not broke don’t fix it … this show is perfect just the way it is. Garcelle, Loni, Jeannie and Adrienne… we don’t need another one. Shall I continue to remind y’all how hard y’all vouched for Amanda ?

  • @fountainofheaven3547

    @fountainofheaven3547

    2 жыл бұрын

    Completely agree. I remember when Amanda was a guest host and the comments were saying she should join permanently. But when she did, she got so much hate😅

  • @0104brit

    @0104brit

    2 жыл бұрын

    Agreed! These days people are CONSTANTLY trying to change/re-cast shows. Jordin did great, show her some love and leave it at that 🙄

  • @damiagunbiade

    @damiagunbiade

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hold up let people just say how they feel. If they love Jordin and want her on the show then why not. I mean the same happened for Garcelle right and the show listened. This is exactly the same with Ana Navarro on The View. I agree maybe the show shouldn't jump head first but let them consider it at least. Jordin does jel well with the show.

  • @FreeBird2.0

    @FreeBird2.0

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@damiagunbiade yes but Tami would be a great addition to and so on. I love their co-hosts and think they should remain 4 regardless.

  • @riannarose5628

    @riannarose5628

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lmaaoo 😁😁😁😁

  • @LouisaJulie
    @LouisaJulie2 жыл бұрын

    Wow! This was deep!! Loni thank you for asking ❤️

  • @serenarolloh4819
    @serenarolloh48192 жыл бұрын

    Is it just me or should Jordin be more permanent on the show

  • @MajesticMyronn

    @MajesticMyronn

    2 жыл бұрын

    She is perfect ! I think many women have guest hosted and have been perfect fits… but she speaks with such clarity & is so soft spoken but gets her point across ! She’s not judgmental… she’s transparent , she’s vulnerable ! Like she to me is the equivalent of Tamera and I feel like if we had Jordin as a permanent semi host where she could fill in anytime a host is missing it would be perfect !

  • @bettynalujja457

    @bettynalujja457

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@MajesticMyronn True she's more like Tamera

  • @tboss3276

    @tboss3276

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@MajesticMyronn Jesus loves you!😊❤

  • @MajesticMyronn

    @MajesticMyronn

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@tiffaneysearcy9073 LaToya would have to guest host first to be added 😂 I think them having guest hosts enables to see what type of chemistry can be made on screen and see how the audience responds ! Versus just adding a host that’s never really been at the table or on the show

  • @deestevens2883
    @deestevens28832 жыл бұрын

    Loved this talk! This is a needed talk that is a must for men & women.

  • @clarrisawilkins7039
    @clarrisawilkins70392 жыл бұрын

    From my personal experience, I didn't take the time I needed to really get to know my now ex-husband, I ignored all the red flags. Now I am going at my own pace, and I find that we should really think about what We really want and it not be based on what we can get out of a person.

  • @mariacollins8150
    @mariacollins81502 жыл бұрын

    Great job on the show Jordan…Love it!!!

  • @victoriarenteria9853
    @victoriarenteria98532 жыл бұрын

    I know many people have already commented this but Jordan Sparks would be a great addition. I love this show and hearing different perspectives makes me more open minded.

  • @heritage.home.crochet
    @heritage.home.crochet2 жыл бұрын

    I chose him because he chose me. After years of being picked last by everyone in my life, he was the 1st one to choose me 1st.

  • @jyn88
    @jyn882 жыл бұрын

    I enjoyed this topic and chat.

  • @lanaesmart7009
    @lanaesmart70092 жыл бұрын

    I enjoyed these ladies talking about this topic!!!🤗❤

  • @sharmainekuilan9808
    @sharmainekuilan98082 жыл бұрын

    I love how she calls Adrienne munchkin. That’s their own special bond they have❤️

  • @Christian80806
    @Christian808062 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for bringing up marriage is good and beneficial for those who want kids

  • @natashathompson8800

    @natashathompson8800

    2 жыл бұрын

    A marriage can work even if you don't have kids

  • @arnitaxavier9446

    @arnitaxavier9446

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@natashathompson8800 I think her point that if you want to have children, it's beneficial for children that the parents are married.

  • @Christian80806

    @Christian80806

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@arnitaxavier9446 thank you!!! I’m not sure why it was misinterpreted lol

  • @sheilalofton2145
    @sheilalofton21452 жыл бұрын

    I just love seeing Jordin, she definitely is the example of , wholesome.... you know, like she's not the average young female celebrity, she hasn't been ran through by this rapper or that baller, she's just a nice young lady , and in Hollywood that can't be easy !

  • @amandatracey3287

    @amandatracey3287

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Day poor choices? Why do they have to be poor? She was just living her life. And if she hadn’t made those decisions, she wouldn’t be who she is today.

  • @joshuamcdowell9745

    @joshuamcdowell9745

    2 жыл бұрын

    She was only with three guys before her husband. Jason Derulo was the one who she lost her virginity to. I knew she regrets giving it to him.

  • @amandatracey3287

    @amandatracey3287

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Day no valid argument. Not surprised.

  • @nariosei4765

    @nariosei4765

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Day How was Jason Derulo an industry hookup? They were a couple for years and she lost her virginity to him in her 20s. Her music and image has always been wholesome. She’s drama free and married. All in all, she definitely doesn’t seem like an industry standard girl.

  • @theechubbyone

    @theechubbyone

    2 жыл бұрын

    You do have any insider knowledge of the very people you are putting down to compliment Jordin. Ran through, is a terrible way to describe women or anyone. Compliments focus on one person and what makes them wonderful, they are not a comparison to whatever others may have gone through/are.

  • @khadinephillip3449
    @khadinephillip34492 жыл бұрын

    Marriage is not just a commitment but a legal responsibility. Long-lasting and committed relationships can work just as well for many ,many years it is up to the goals of the relationship between the people that are in it.

  • @tintamanengu
    @tintamanengu2 жыл бұрын

    They talk about dowry like it was in the 1950s, my parents are still waiting on mine....lol.

  • @kingG314
    @kingG3142 жыл бұрын

    I don’t think I can get married. As a disabled man, I don’t have marriage equality. This is a huge barrier for my community: get married or keep our needed medical insurance to stay alive. It is so unfair but it is the reality. Yes, some people get married but most are already over qualified and already have lost those “benefits.” Most disabled people are in forced poverty. We still do not have true marriage equality in America! I hate this society requirement on marriage when it still isn’t inclusive.

  • @britbritnicole9211

    @britbritnicole9211

    2 жыл бұрын

    I am too, it’s so unfair but I’m praying and hoping for change.

  • @kingG314

    @kingG314

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@britbritnicole9211 a lot needs to change. More than people realize

  • @yeniajete8501

    @yeniajete8501

    2 жыл бұрын

    I feel you brother. My family is in that situation. But when theres love and God in your relationship... Everything is possible

  • @Uthiop

    @Uthiop

    2 жыл бұрын

    I don't understand what your point really is in simple words.

  • @yeniajete8501

    @yeniajete8501

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Uthiop hes saying he might not be able to get married because based on current marriage laws for disabled individuals, if they get married they lose their government assistance. Their partner has to become their sole caregiver financially.

  • @justtino4204
    @justtino42042 жыл бұрын

    Our generation forgets that marriage is a God ordained institution.

  • @noxxie1496
    @noxxie14962 жыл бұрын

    I'm just glad that Jordin choose herself over Jason Derulo. She really knew her worth when she decided to leave🥺❤️. Love her.

  • @faithybyfaith
    @faithybyfaith2 жыл бұрын

    Good discussion on the topic. I would have loved to see the perspective of a married woman who comes from a background that has arranged marriage and dowery requirements.

  • @TheSunshinefee
    @TheSunshinefee2 жыл бұрын

    if you didn't know the back history of Adrienne's husband you would think he is 'holy'. He cheated on his wife and has 2 kids fathered outside his marriage and he is still considered to be a catch by her. makes you think what kind of values she appreciates

  • @marieeleonaregeffrard81
    @marieeleonaregeffrard812 жыл бұрын

    I believe in marriage.I personally won't be in a long term relationship without that confirmation.But to each his/her own!

  • @streamlinedbeautyhealthlif4817

    @streamlinedbeautyhealthlif4817

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly it’s important especially for women.

  • @ericobioha7434
    @ericobioha74342 жыл бұрын

    I havnt seen Jordin on TV in awhile & I definitely think this could be something big for her. I would love to see her as a permanent co host on a show like this if not this one

  • @Tan87ful

    @Tan87ful

    2 жыл бұрын

    Agreed 💯💯👏🏽👏🏽

  • @mrsmincey9731
    @mrsmincey97312 жыл бұрын

    My husband and I just celebrated 10 years of marriage January 15th we have 3 children all girls I wouldn't change it for the world. Im 34 and he is 37. When you know what you want life it doesn't take long to know if marriage with someone is for you.

  • @marjoriecoleman
    @marjoriecoleman2 жыл бұрын

    Love Adrienne’s response! ❤️

  • @ArmandyLaPearl
    @ArmandyLaPearl2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing ladies. These are some of my reasons why I want to get married 😃😃🥰 I’m praying that I find the one God created just for me.

  • @LifeAskmarie
    @LifeAskmarie Жыл бұрын

    Right I have to agree with you ladies Once u know u got a good partner a good person stick by that person love that person unconditionally don’t get with somebody because of their money that wouldn’t end well that’s so true

  • @beedahh_
    @beedahh_2 жыл бұрын

    Dowry is still common in my culture. Sometimes I wish, the real had different ethnicity guests with different culture so we can see and have a little understanding.

  • @aleemaanderson6918

    @aleemaanderson6918

    2 жыл бұрын

    If you don’t mind me asking, what’s your culture? I find learning about different cultures fascinating.

  • @beedahh_

    @beedahh_

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@aleemaanderson6918 Hi! I am the same way about learning and embracing other cultures around me. I’m Hmong.

  • @idi.h5460

    @idi.h5460

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same and I’m Somali, majority of the world still had dowries

  • @babasolaosikoya5947

    @babasolaosikoya5947

    2 жыл бұрын

    Nigerian here, we still pay dowry.

  • @GermaineNimundel
    @GermaineNimundel2 жыл бұрын

    I love this!!!! This is such good tips to keep in check when I’m dating someone. Do I feel everything these girls are saying.

  • @riselle1
    @riselle12 жыл бұрын

    More Jordin Sparks please?!! Shes so sweet!

  • @chefnic4763
    @chefnic47632 жыл бұрын

    Married my bestie on 1/1/22 ❤

  • @freedom4063

    @freedom4063

    2 жыл бұрын

    Do you know anybody ? I'm 36 and religious . Men only want 1 thing

  • @chefnic4763

    @chefnic4763

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@freedom4063 Religious men want sex too! Find someone that wants your heart and your body ❤

  • @haroldabramsjr
    @haroldabramsjr2 жыл бұрын

    Jordan Sparks speaking voice is beautiful!

  • @prettyinpink1991
    @prettyinpink19912 жыл бұрын

    I can't help thinking that if Tam was asked this question, she'd be balling right now. Hahaha love that girl🤣. Great answers from the ladies. Is @jordinsparks guest co-hosting?

  • @susana01992
    @susana019922 жыл бұрын

    Marriage isn't for everyone so yes I completely agree with Jordan. "He was the first person to see ME" ugh yes I want that in my life 😩.

  • @tatianadaniel3569

    @tatianadaniel3569

    2 жыл бұрын

    Do you mind explaining what you mean when you say "marriage isn't for everyone"?

  • @susana01992

    @susana01992

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@tatianadaniel3569 there's people out there that say they don't want to get married cause it's not for them and that's ok. And if you want to be someone that doesn't want to get married and just be together. Than what's the whole point of being with someone if they don't want the same things as you do. That's what I meant when I said that marriage isn't for anyone.

  • @tatianadaniel3569

    @tatianadaniel3569

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@susana01992 So, if the same principals needed in order to sustain a healthy marriage are needed in any other romantic rrelationship, what exactly is it about marriage that you think makes people hesitant?

  • @peterssister421
    @peterssister4212 жыл бұрын

    There were some true gems 💎 dropped off in THIS segment..

  • @alexisking8495
    @alexisking84952 жыл бұрын

    Loni what’s the name of that book. I’m interested.

  • @crystalmasters8582
    @crystalmasters85822 жыл бұрын

    So happy for them 💜Together 12 years not married completely happy 💜

  • @consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688
    @consciousanfesiashapsnikof86882 жыл бұрын

    Jordin's comment is reckless as a married woman. She is advocating "shackin' up". Women who live with men aren't entitled to anything that isn't willed to them. She won't earn SSI credit from a live-in lover. Adrienne needs to be silent on the issue of marriage.

  • @prettychrissy
    @prettychrissy2 жыл бұрын

    Adrienne and Jordin have beautiful 😍 marriages 😍😍😍😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️☺️

  • @amberj3941
    @amberj39412 жыл бұрын

    Never get married just because you got pregnant, if you need health insurance from a spouse maybe. However divorce can be expensive, plus you brought the poor baby into something that wasn’t ready.

  • @-ad3157
    @-ad31572 жыл бұрын

    Jordin Sparks looks so good in that shade of green JS🥰🥰

  • @elaineosei4915
    @elaineosei49152 жыл бұрын

    Awww I really love what Jordan and Adrianne said

  • @DKDiva804
    @DKDiva8042 жыл бұрын

    Y'all see a guest in one video you like what they have to say now you're begging for them to be a permanent host ...like slow tf down! Lol no one needs to be added, let these guests have their moments and it be just that.

  • @Kefukids
    @Kefukids2 жыл бұрын

    Actually marriage started from the Bible. From God. That’s what marriage is. Now a days people has changed the true meaning of marriage.

  • @arnitaxavier9446

    @arnitaxavier9446

    2 жыл бұрын

    Well considering that the first recorded marriage ceremony happened in Mesopotamia in 2350 B.C, I not sure about marriage originating from the bible. Plus during that era divorces, dowry existed aswell.

  • @tatianadaniel3569

    @tatianadaniel3569

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@arnitaxavier9446 I think what the other person is trying to say is that God instituted marriage between a husband and his wife. Also, you didn't really contrast the other person's point given that the Bible doesn't only began at the birth of Jesus but starts off explains the very beginning of time as we know it.

  • @arnitaxavier9446

    @arnitaxavier9446

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@tatianadaniel3569 Well that's the Christian belief. The people of Mesopotamia weren't Christian and didn't follow the Abrhamic religions. They existed before any of the monotheistic religions came about. So the Notion that God instituted the marriage between a husband and a wife is ridiculous. Also non of my ancestors were ever Christian and yet the tradition of marriage have existed for thousands of years.

  • @tatianadaniel3569

    @tatianadaniel3569

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@arnitaxavier9446 I think I answered you under another person's comment. The ancient Mesopotamians believed in all kinds of gods. Jesus was not Iraqi (modern day Mesopotamian native). Jesus is Jewish. When reading the Bible, you have to know that it is a collection of books written, sometimes centuries in between one another. With that being said, Christianity ( the purpose of Jesus) actually began before the world began. This can get confusing , but if you're willing to listen, I wouldn't mind explaining it to you in a more simplified way.

  • @tharealjmatt9668
    @tharealjmatt96682 жыл бұрын

    I just adore Jordin 🤩 her life story has been a true inspiration to grow up beside through out the years

  • @DatVideoDoe
    @DatVideoDoe2 жыл бұрын

    The one thing I’m not looking forward to with getting married later in life is that my parents will have less time with my kids. And vice versa.

  • @maryfinkley4112
    @maryfinkley41122 жыл бұрын

    After that breakup joryn and Jason derulo glad joryn went to therapy and worked on herself b4 marriage that way she escape bringing a broken person to the marriage for another person to fix and make whole which is impossible

  • @CJ-wm4ij
    @CJ-wm4ij2 жыл бұрын

    Yes Adrienne 🙏🏽 speak on it.

  • @audreybeard9322
    @audreybeard93222 жыл бұрын

    I love being married! I’m 28 we are just about to celebrate 2 years! He is the love of my life, my best-friend, the first man to make me feel perfect the way I am and that no other woman comes before me! And our chemistry 🔥 he is it for me for life and God is in the center we waited until marriage 💍

  • @audreybeard9322

    @audreybeard9322

    2 жыл бұрын

    To clarify: We were Celibate while dating.

  • @7style0
    @7style02 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful collaboration 💜 of love of respect on the show brings a beautiful realm moment of genuine humbleness for women being naturally you and 😔 emotionally empower to have gifted life of hope for a marvelous lifestyle of quality." Amen,."

  • @2centsfreelancer
    @2centsfreelancer2 жыл бұрын

    I agree with Jordan, its weird when I see people asking people when they getting married, especially celebrities. When its good chance they don't believe in marriage. It's not for everybody, I know people on both spectrums and both are happy. Long as both parties agree on what they want 🤷🏽‍♀

  • @sandrapollard2541
    @sandrapollard25412 жыл бұрын

    Awww!!!,😪....I'm hoping to someday meet my forever gentlemen soon....this made me want to cry....I've never been married so this gives hope at 49🙏🏽💕 I want the butterflies in the stomach type feeling with great chemistry...

  • @MsSugarlips21

    @MsSugarlips21

    2 жыл бұрын

    If you don’t mind me asking, have you ever been in a long term relationship? If yes, what happened and why didn’t you marry him? I hope this doesn’t sound rude, I’m just curious and trying to learn from others where I can 🙏🏿

  • @sandrapollard2541

    @sandrapollard2541

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@MsSugarlips21 yes I have in fact we have three children together,its a long story and I'd rather not get into it....I've definitely had some childhood trauma that I've had to heal from....

  • @MsSugarlips21

    @MsSugarlips21

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@sandrapollard2541 I pray you heal fully and you’re heart desires, according to Gods will, are granted 💕 thank you for sharing!

  • @sandrapollard2541

    @sandrapollard2541

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@MsSugarlips21 thank you so much,that definitely means alot🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @MsSugarlips21

    @MsSugarlips21

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@sandrapollard2541 you’re welcome ☺️

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