What Happens When Pride Gets in the Way of Your Happiness
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Does pride ever get in the way of your own happiness? Plus, which is a more important trait - having a strong sense of humor or being a brainiac?
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I love Loni’s self awareness of her in past seasons. I know it doesn’t come easily or naturally to her but she’s opened up a lot more in recent seasons, and I appreciate her more serious and intellectual side.
@InspirationalSmiles
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah she’s very smart not in just what she knows but the way she goes about presenting information
@Anas-rx1he
2 жыл бұрын
@@InspirationalSmiles Yes you’re right, especially when it comes to presenting news and factual info, she has a way of simplifying it which makes it easy to follow.
@jasminefranc5889
2 жыл бұрын
Yes yess!! This!
@eneshastringer323
2 жыл бұрын
We love you Lonnie !
@TravelingOnStardust
2 жыл бұрын
I do as well! People forget that she comes from an engineering background and she should get props for that!
Pride will cost you everything but leave you with nothing.
@dilciaenid57
2 жыл бұрын
Yup!
@TravelingOnStardust
2 жыл бұрын
So true!
@brooklynforever1990
2 жыл бұрын
Truth
I am so glad Loni embraced the decision to just wear flat shoes. This is really major and I don't know anyone else on TV doing that other that Whoopi sometimes.
@katy5362
2 жыл бұрын
And Wendy Williams
@janejustin1788
2 жыл бұрын
true,,,, i see even pregnant talk hosts wearing very high heels and wonder whether they aren't uncomfortable
@carolanncraig3398
2 жыл бұрын
@@katy5362correct!!!
I'm exactly Adrian when it comes to pride, I get embarrass easily so my pride don't allow me to put myself out there in fear of embarrassment
@jaydecampbell3499
2 жыл бұрын
Being shy is tied to Pride and the fear of embarrassment around people that you stay to yourself
@mrexecutive
Жыл бұрын
Adrienne
Loni is really growing! Love it. Garcelle has changed the hosts and the show in general. Best addition ever!
@hav5959
2 жыл бұрын
Garcelle really fits the dynamic of the show! She vibes so well! Love her!
“girl you 45 now” has me cryingggg😭
If you’re reading this I hope this year you wholeheartedly believe that you are worthy & enough
@tryin2beehappygolucky431
2 жыл бұрын
❤️
Pride is something that will easily make people sway away from you if have you too much of it ! Too much pride to apologize , to not have humility , to not remain humble… lemme tell you something having too much pride is the death of things that mean most to human heart !
@dilciaenid57
2 жыл бұрын
🎯 pride is the reason I’m divorcing. Meaning the highest on the spectrum. A Narcissist can’t be married.
@ingrid8994
2 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
Loni’s growth is beautiful I simply love her!!!
Loni’s take on the funny topic was interesting because the first person I thought of was her lol she definitely had a issue with knowing when to stop the funny and just participate in the conversation . Sometimes that can be overbearing because it seemed like it was her way of deflecting during deep conversations
Mannnnnn these girl chats be giving me life!! Thank you ladies for starting off the New Year with amazing topics!!
Pride comes before the FALL and the sad part is prideful ppl be so prideful they don't know they falling 💯 😪
Wow Adrienne just explained me,I feel like I have miss out on so much just cuz I don’t want to come off looking dumb.The slightest detection am off.
I promise Adrienne and Jeanie's stories get me everytime LOL
Adrienne really hit home with this one
There's a difference between Having Pride and being Prideful. I truly pray that Adrienne gets delivered from fear 😔 I love Loni!!! She's amazing this season
Come on Loni !!!!!!! Loving your journey
Pride is a fool's best friend.... Great quote!
Adrienne and her "FUN FACT" 😂 There's a big misconception that smart guys are socially awkward and nerdy, the funny/witty guys are usually smart anyway - most comedians hold degrees from prestigious universities
@Joejoyoyoyo
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I know one with a masters in computer science… Loni herself used to be an engineer
@theoneandonly0099
2 жыл бұрын
You have to be smart to be able to think on the spot and make good comparisons between current affairs etc
Pride is unhealthy period. We can’t mix it up with self worth, dignity and principles it is not the same. The Bible warns against pride, so there’s no such thing as I have a healthy amount of pride. I love Loni’s perspective…
@ItsNicckster
2 жыл бұрын
*pride offers a sense of protection from people hurting you. everybody has a little portion of it subconsciously. now if you live by it, then that’s unhealthy and can turn into ego and conceitedness. it’s good to have an even balance of humbleness as well*
Loni has grown soooo much! We love you Loni!!!
I think common sense and street smarts can be helpful in everyday life but I don’t need a teacher or a mentor I need someone who can bring ease to my life and sometimes when time gets tough u gotta laugh to keep from crying so having someone in my life that can make me laugh… I’ll take that over anything else ! Laughter heals the soul
Yaaaaas Loni! Knowing your worth is important, pride comes before a fall! 💃🏽
I love how Loni kept it real about that first season. But we weren't mad that you was telling jokes. We were just mad that the jokes didn't seem true. 😂
@anonnona6433
2 жыл бұрын
Hahahah. Personally I was mad because the jokes would be made at the wrong time/ moment 🙃
character is what will take u a long way in relationships. funny is a cherry on top
I would have really loved Jeannie’s perspective on this! She expressed before that she’s a sapiosexual and is attracted to intelligence and I relate to that
Adrienne described insecurity not pride.
@TT.3123
2 жыл бұрын
The two are intertwined in a way
@llthompson07
2 жыл бұрын
@@MJ-wc6nm This is true. My insecurity rooted in fear & shame that stemmed from childhood. It probably came off as being prideful. Haha...I don't know Adrienne but love the conversation that she's sparked.🙏🏼
@TT.3123
2 жыл бұрын
@@MJ-wc6nm you nailed it.
Richard bay and then jerry springer were my favorites!!!!
I always start my day off with the real, this show is amazing
I have been feeling Loni for a HOT minute!!! I can relate with her 100%! I am very much appreciate a SMART person! I also love funny, I will take them combined but I am attracted to smart! Sorry very much not sorry. 😁🤣🙌
'Pride cometh before a fall' is also in the Bible.
@semmungrei4197
2 жыл бұрын
I thought she was going to quote proverbs. It definitely is in the bible.
@ages6592
2 жыл бұрын
It’s in The Book of Proverbs (Hebrew: מִשְלֵי, Míshlê (Shlomoh), "Proverbs (of Solomon)"), which is a book in the third section (called Ketuvim) of the Hebrew Bible (The Hebrew Bible is the same as the Christian Old Testament so it’s in the Bible because it’s an old Jewish wisdom and the Old Testament is the Jewish texts).
Reading the room is important
Uff that was eye opening, I never thought it was about pride too only imposter syndrome. This gave me a new perspective on my own issues lol. 👏🏾
Thank you for the longer videos!
I was a child when Richard bay came on...he had slime on his show that's what made me watch as a kid
Loni has really grown as a host. I’m eally loving her insight this season.
Yup different strokes for different folks 😂 I loved that Loni I’m both funny and smart Also Adrienne’ you should encourage your husband to go to jeopardy
There’s a lot different kinds of intelligence and smarts. For example I think ade is so socially intelligent, she’s relatable and funny and just so good at being engaging and knowing what to say to connect well. That’s a type of intelligence
Adrienne your getting pride confused with fear. It's your fear that stops you not pride. Fear of being embarrassed for example. In my opinion
@llthompson07
2 жыл бұрын
Fear and insecurity
@djidjine5082
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly! Pride would be if she thought she’s too good for the Masked Singer
It’s the run for me 🤣🤣🤣 Yass I remember Adrienne was on there
I remember Richard Bey. He would hold a Mr Puniverse contest and a Ms. Big Butt. It was hilariously low budget but entertaining. Keep up the good work ladies. I love The Real!
But Loni, I enjoyed your humour in the first season! Loved the first season.
Ad doesn’t sound prideful, she sounds insecure. Loni did make so many jokes in earlier seasons. It was too much. I’m glad she recognized that.
@takimahowze
2 жыл бұрын
Yessss 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 and Full of fear which makes me sad for her for real.
@jaydecampbell3499
2 жыл бұрын
To me, it actually sounds like fear of embarrassment which is Pride but it can also be insecurities because in order to fear embarrassment, you gotta care about what others think abt you at least subconsciously
@SuckerPunch92
2 жыл бұрын
@@jaydecampbell3499 agreed
Loving Loni's look right now 😍 Your makeup and color is bomb 💣
Reason i married my husband! He is hilarious 🤣😆😂
I think I prefer smart people too. I value someone with views and emotional intelligence.
LOVING THESE GIRL CHAT TOPICS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yes. Life is to serious to be taken Seriously. Learn to LAUGH!
Happy 2022 😊 Smile! ❤️
Y'all been dropping a word in these videos
The tresses on Giselle,so luxurious looking😍
Great topic
Loni's sneakers are always dope mannnn!!!
Arsenio Hall was always a blast, It felt like a party 🎉
It’s the “woow” at 8:32 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀💀
“You shouldn’t be a shamed of your tv guilty pleasures”. This show is my guilty pleasure
Adrienne is a fashion Icon , she look amazing.
i love loni, s comments.
Loving Loni ❤️
This was a word!!
You should Def have a good level of Pride , but not too much where you don’t learn and grow or unintentionally hurt yourself or someone 🙂 !
This show is my guilty pleasure
I can’t get past Adrian’s outfit 🤣🤌🏽 maybe a cute Bob with this look.
Loni!! I love your outfit. You’re just so beautiful.
Pride & Ego are the worst traits lol
I definitely understand what Loni says about comedians or people who are extremely funny, not knowing how to read the room.
Pride vs prideful is a conversation
It’s not an “ancient Hebrew proverb,” Loni. It’s a Bible scripture found in Proverbs 16:18. 😊💕
@ages6592
2 жыл бұрын
The Book of Proverbs (Hebrew: מִשְלֵי, Míshlê (Shlomoh), "Proverbs (of Solomon)") is a book in the third section (called Ketuvim) of the Hebrew Bible (The Hebrew Bible is the same as the Christian Old Testament so it’s in the Bible because it’s an old Jewish wisdom and the Old Testament is the Jewish texts).
i love just the three of them
Lmfaooooo this was a great segment
My guilty pleasure is any cooking/food show.
@dilciaenid57
2 жыл бұрын
How is that a guilty pleasure?
i want Loni’s outfit. she looks so comfy!
And you should have won Mask Singer Adrienne. Just I have put my pride aside and taken my current role..and now I'm pushing for and going to get my what I deserve
Actually what Loni is talking about is not intelligence as in IQ but she's speaking about Emotional Intelligence, which self awareness is a part of. Being able to read a room and know when to quit is a combination of both IQ and EI
Yes, 90 days fiancé. Love that show
Adrienne, my sister and I would watch Richard Bay during the summer break.
I remember Richard Bey!
WOW! Garcelle is so so so stunning
Noooo never let Pride go❣️ There's Pride , and there's ego. ~cheetah g@y 🌈
I miss the old Maury . Paternity test and cheaters are all it shows now. I remember so much the man or woman episodes out of control teenagers . Jenny Jones is a throwback ! loved it !
Adrian that is me all day.
I remember the Richard Bey show.😭
Loniiiii 😍❤🙌🏽💜👑👏🏽
I just love this show lol
OMG if the real has an episode like morey had with little nas x
I was on Maury too doing re-enactments.
90 day fiancé is an organized hot mess , Issa yes for meeeh 😂 !
Adrienne wears all her Dads suits so nicely. Every damn time
Thats a great thing Israel did for Adrienne but on the flip side that is EXHAUSTING. I dont want to have to force my spouse to go for their dream. You need to be self motivated & i can add to that but if i have to do ir for you. That is exhausting. That is a job for a father not a husband.
Richard Bey is from Queens and lives in Midtown Manhattan according to Wikipedia.
The gold nose on Loni is distracting me!!! 😩🤣🤣🤣
I have a prideful sister. She’s an expert on everything.
Gm edagdwg thanks you tube for sharing this story of ego takes over your thinking be thankful and wait god bless you with pay attention to what you do and say Linda j. Peace knowing god for yourself is a real gift from god only
I like a "smart man" not a "smart ass" know the difference 😉😉
pride and self-worth aren't in the same vein.
Me too Loni. I really need a smart man because intelligence is definitely sexy.
Bring Tamera back!!!! All the ladies are great but I miss our sister we grew up with!!!!!
Loni is beauty and brains though too with her engineering degree lol but I'm with her I like smarts first 🤷🏽♀️
I think a sense of pride is okay but having too much pride is definitely an issue. 😳
Is Adrian pregnant she’s been wearing a lot of big suit jackets if so I’m so happy for her
@TT.3123
2 жыл бұрын
She addressed this a few months ago saying she wasn’t pregnant and she just likes baggy clothes because they are in style. But I keep hoping that she’s wearing baggy stuff so that when she eventually does get pregnant, she can hide it until the pregnancy gets to a certain stage.