What Happens When Pride Gets in the Way of Your Happiness

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Does pride ever get in the way of your own happiness? Plus, which is a more important trait - having a strong sense of humor or being a brainiac?
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  • @Anas-rx1he
    @Anas-rx1he2 жыл бұрын

    I love Loni’s self awareness of her in past seasons. I know it doesn’t come easily or naturally to her but she’s opened up a lot more in recent seasons, and I appreciate her more serious and intellectual side.

  • @InspirationalSmiles

    @InspirationalSmiles

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah she’s very smart not in just what she knows but the way she goes about presenting information

  • @Anas-rx1he

    @Anas-rx1he

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@InspirationalSmiles Yes you’re right, especially when it comes to presenting news and factual info, she has a way of simplifying it which makes it easy to follow.

  • @jasminefranc5889

    @jasminefranc5889

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes yess!! This!

  • @eneshastringer323

    @eneshastringer323

    2 жыл бұрын

    We love you Lonnie !

  • @TravelingOnStardust

    @TravelingOnStardust

    2 жыл бұрын

    I do as well! People forget that she comes from an engineering background and she should get props for that!

  • @desireev8798
    @desireev87982 жыл бұрын

    Pride will cost you everything but leave you with nothing.

  • @dilciaenid57

    @dilciaenid57

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yup!

  • @TravelingOnStardust

    @TravelingOnStardust

    2 жыл бұрын

    So true!

  • @brooklynforever1990

    @brooklynforever1990

    2 жыл бұрын

    Truth

  • @IsabelleMN11
    @IsabelleMN112 жыл бұрын

    I am so glad Loni embraced the decision to just wear flat shoes. This is really major and I don't know anyone else on TV doing that other that Whoopi sometimes.

  • @katy5362

    @katy5362

    2 жыл бұрын

    And Wendy Williams

  • @janejustin1788

    @janejustin1788

    2 жыл бұрын

    true,,,, i see even pregnant talk hosts wearing very high heels and wonder whether they aren't uncomfortable

  • @carolanncraig3398

    @carolanncraig3398

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@katy5362correct!!!

  • @stephanieshelton5813
    @stephanieshelton58132 жыл бұрын

    I'm exactly Adrian when it comes to pride, I get embarrass easily so my pride don't allow me to put myself out there in fear of embarrassment

  • @jaydecampbell3499

    @jaydecampbell3499

    2 жыл бұрын

    Being shy is tied to Pride and the fear of embarrassment around people that you stay to yourself

  • @mrexecutive

    @mrexecutive

    Жыл бұрын

    Adrienne

  • @kwynkaq
    @kwynkaq2 жыл бұрын

    Loni is really growing! Love it. Garcelle has changed the hosts and the show in general. Best addition ever!

  • @hav5959

    @hav5959

    2 жыл бұрын

    Garcelle really fits the dynamic of the show! She vibes so well! Love her!

  • @madison.amariiii
    @madison.amariiii2 жыл бұрын

    “girl you 45 now” has me cryingggg😭

  • @Kassandra_016
    @Kassandra_0162 жыл бұрын

    If you’re reading this I hope this year you wholeheartedly believe that you are worthy & enough

  • @tryin2beehappygolucky431

    @tryin2beehappygolucky431

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤️

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn2 жыл бұрын

    Pride is something that will easily make people sway away from you if have you too much of it ! Too much pride to apologize , to not have humility , to not remain humble… lemme tell you something having too much pride is the death of things that mean most to human heart !

  • @dilciaenid57

    @dilciaenid57

    2 жыл бұрын

    🎯 pride is the reason I’m divorcing. Meaning the highest on the spectrum. A Narcissist can’t be married.

  • @ingrid8994

    @ingrid8994

    2 жыл бұрын

    💯💯💯

  • @LiahB
    @LiahB2 жыл бұрын

    Loni’s growth is beautiful I simply love her!!!

  • @mayalicious203
    @mayalicious2032 жыл бұрын

    Loni’s take on the funny topic was interesting because the first person I thought of was her lol she definitely had a issue with knowing when to stop the funny and just participate in the conversation . Sometimes that can be overbearing because it seemed like it was her way of deflecting during deep conversations

  • @MrLoyalty2me
    @MrLoyalty2me2 жыл бұрын

    Mannnnnn these girl chats be giving me life!! Thank you ladies for starting off the New Year with amazing topics!!

  • @lerayshaaen
    @lerayshaaen2 жыл бұрын

    Pride comes before the FALL and the sad part is prideful ppl be so prideful they don't know they falling 💯 😪

  • @Queenblessful
    @Queenblessful2 жыл бұрын

    Wow Adrienne just explained me,I feel like I have miss out on so much just cuz I don’t want to come off looking dumb.The slightest detection am off.

  • @rechemaroberts7031
    @rechemaroberts70312 жыл бұрын

    I promise Adrienne and Jeanie's stories get me everytime LOL

  • @nolyssa
    @nolyssa2 жыл бұрын

    Adrienne really hit home with this one

  • @takimahowze
    @takimahowze2 жыл бұрын

    There's a difference between Having Pride and being Prideful. I truly pray that Adrienne gets delivered from fear 😔 I love Loni!!! She's amazing this season

  • @music-gs7qo
    @music-gs7qo2 жыл бұрын

    Come on Loni !!!!!!! Loving your journey

  • @christianrobinson8451
    @christianrobinson84512 жыл бұрын

    Pride is a fool's best friend.... Great quote!

  • @raejae5565
    @raejae55652 жыл бұрын

    Adrienne and her "FUN FACT" 😂 There's a big misconception that smart guys are socially awkward and nerdy, the funny/witty guys are usually smart anyway - most comedians hold degrees from prestigious universities

  • @Joejoyoyoyo

    @Joejoyoyoyo

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, I know one with a masters in computer science… Loni herself used to be an engineer

  • @theoneandonly0099

    @theoneandonly0099

    2 жыл бұрын

    You have to be smart to be able to think on the spot and make good comparisons between current affairs etc

  • @oriade1889
    @oriade18892 жыл бұрын

    Pride is unhealthy period. We can’t mix it up with self worth, dignity and principles it is not the same. The Bible warns against pride, so there’s no such thing as I have a healthy amount of pride. I love Loni’s perspective…

  • @ItsNicckster

    @ItsNicckster

    2 жыл бұрын

    *pride offers a sense of protection from people hurting you. everybody has a little portion of it subconsciously. now if you live by it, then that’s unhealthy and can turn into ego and conceitedness. it’s good to have an even balance of humbleness as well*

  • @NaijaGirl94
    @NaijaGirl942 жыл бұрын

    Loni has grown soooo much! We love you Loni!!!

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn2 жыл бұрын

    I think common sense and street smarts can be helpful in everyday life but I don’t need a teacher or a mentor I need someone who can bring ease to my life and sometimes when time gets tough u gotta laugh to keep from crying so having someone in my life that can make me laugh… I’ll take that over anything else ! Laughter heals the soul

  • @sh1659
    @sh16592 жыл бұрын

    Yaaaaas Loni! Knowing your worth is important, pride comes before a fall! 💃🏽

  • @ThatsJustMyBabyDaddy
    @ThatsJustMyBabyDaddy2 жыл бұрын

    I love how Loni kept it real about that first season. But we weren't mad that you was telling jokes. We were just mad that the jokes didn't seem true. 😂

  • @anonnona6433

    @anonnona6433

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hahahah. Personally I was mad because the jokes would be made at the wrong time/ moment 🙃

  • @vuyon5317
    @vuyon53172 жыл бұрын

    character is what will take u a long way in relationships. funny is a cherry on top

  • @liana1019
    @liana10192 жыл бұрын

    I would have really loved Jeannie’s perspective on this! She expressed before that she’s a sapiosexual and is attracted to intelligence and I relate to that

  • @llthompson07
    @llthompson072 жыл бұрын

    Adrienne described insecurity not pride.

  • @TT.3123

    @TT.3123

    2 жыл бұрын

    The two are intertwined in a way

  • @llthompson07

    @llthompson07

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@MJ-wc6nm This is true. My insecurity rooted in fear & shame that stemmed from childhood. It probably came off as being prideful. Haha...I don't know Adrienne but love the conversation that she's sparked.🙏🏼

  • @TT.3123

    @TT.3123

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@MJ-wc6nm you nailed it.

  • @lillyc5805
    @lillyc58052 жыл бұрын

    Richard bay and then jerry springer were my favorites!!!!

  • @rubykanja
    @rubykanja2 жыл бұрын

    I always start my day off with the real, this show is amazing

  • @goldenbeautytejeda6700
    @goldenbeautytejeda67002 жыл бұрын

    I have been feeling Loni for a HOT minute!!! I can relate with her 100%! I am very much appreciate a SMART person! I also love funny, I will take them combined but I am attracted to smart! Sorry very much not sorry. 😁🤣🙌

  • @ronwilliams5907
    @ronwilliams59072 жыл бұрын

    'Pride cometh before a fall' is also in the Bible.

  • @semmungrei4197

    @semmungrei4197

    2 жыл бұрын

    I thought she was going to quote proverbs. It definitely is in the bible.

  • @ages6592

    @ages6592

    2 жыл бұрын

    It’s in The Book of Proverbs (Hebrew: מִשְלֵי, Míshlê (Shlomoh), "Proverbs (of Solomon)"), which is a book in the third section (called Ketuvim) of the Hebrew Bible (The Hebrew Bible is the same as the Christian Old Testament so it’s in the Bible because it’s an old Jewish wisdom and the Old Testament is the Jewish texts).

  • @josephlovely7759
    @josephlovely77592 жыл бұрын

    Reading the room is important

  • @maryjane2965
    @maryjane29652 жыл бұрын

    Uff that was eye opening, I never thought it was about pride too only imposter syndrome. This gave me a new perspective on my own issues lol. 👏🏾

  • @MaryBieber7
    @MaryBieber72 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the longer videos!

  • @lofisis7271
    @lofisis72712 жыл бұрын

    I was a child when Richard bay came on...he had slime on his show that's what made me watch as a kid

  • @brooklynforever1990
    @brooklynforever19902 жыл бұрын

    Loni has really grown as a host. I’m eally loving her insight this season.

  • @jamarbooker8573
    @jamarbooker85732 жыл бұрын

    Yup different strokes for different folks 😂 I loved that Loni I’m both funny and smart Also Adrienne’ you should encourage your husband to go to jeopardy

  • @hiboahmed8876
    @hiboahmed88762 жыл бұрын

    There’s a lot different kinds of intelligence and smarts. For example I think ade is so socially intelligent, she’s relatable and funny and just so good at being engaging and knowing what to say to connect well. That’s a type of intelligence

  • @lerayshaaen
    @lerayshaaen2 жыл бұрын

    Adrienne your getting pride confused with fear. It's your fear that stops you not pride. Fear of being embarrassed for example. In my opinion

  • @llthompson07

    @llthompson07

    2 жыл бұрын

    Fear and insecurity

  • @djidjine5082

    @djidjine5082

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly! Pride would be if she thought she’s too good for the Masked Singer

  • @britbritnicole9211
    @britbritnicole92112 жыл бұрын

    It’s the run for me 🤣🤣🤣 Yass I remember Adrienne was on there

  • @alissabillings2292
    @alissabillings22922 жыл бұрын

    I remember Richard Bey. He would hold a Mr Puniverse contest and a Ms. Big Butt. It was hilariously low budget but entertaining. Keep up the good work ladies. I love The Real!

  • @belunu4980
    @belunu49802 жыл бұрын

    But Loni, I enjoyed your humour in the first season! Loved the first season.

  • @SuckerPunch92
    @SuckerPunch922 жыл бұрын

    Ad doesn’t sound prideful, she sounds insecure. Loni did make so many jokes in earlier seasons. It was too much. I’m glad she recognized that.

  • @takimahowze

    @takimahowze

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yessss 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 and Full of fear which makes me sad for her for real.

  • @jaydecampbell3499

    @jaydecampbell3499

    2 жыл бұрын

    To me, it actually sounds like fear of embarrassment which is Pride but it can also be insecurities because in order to fear embarrassment, you gotta care about what others think abt you at least subconsciously

  • @SuckerPunch92

    @SuckerPunch92

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jaydecampbell3499 agreed

  • @aizac.1979
    @aizac.19792 жыл бұрын

    Loving Loni's look right now 😍 Your makeup and color is bomb 💣

  • @tryin2beehappygolucky431
    @tryin2beehappygolucky4312 жыл бұрын

    Reason i married my husband! He is hilarious 🤣😆😂

  • @roni6752
    @roni67522 жыл бұрын

    I think I prefer smart people too. I value someone with views and emotional intelligence.

  • @user-os3gp6pv5h
    @user-os3gp6pv5h2 жыл бұрын

    LOVING THESE GIRL CHAT TOPICS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @CrystalDatingCoach
    @CrystalDatingCoach2 жыл бұрын

    Yes. Life is to serious to be taken Seriously. Learn to LAUGH!

  • @tryin2beehappygolucky431
    @tryin2beehappygolucky4312 жыл бұрын

    Happy 2022 😊 Smile! ❤️

  • @Lauren_Heather
    @Lauren_Heather2 жыл бұрын

    Y'all been dropping a word in these videos

  • @bunkeeze1184
    @bunkeeze11842 жыл бұрын

    The tresses on Giselle,so luxurious looking😍

  • @wayNAY87
    @wayNAY872 жыл бұрын

    Great topic

  • @theimpactspacewiththeblack6999
    @theimpactspacewiththeblack69992 жыл бұрын

    Loni's sneakers are always dope mannnn!!!

  • @tryin2beehappygolucky431
    @tryin2beehappygolucky4312 жыл бұрын

    Arsenio Hall was always a blast, It felt like a party 🎉

  • @santhy9963
    @santhy99632 жыл бұрын

    It’s the “woow” at 8:32 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀💀

  • @lalaycoco9467
    @lalaycoco94672 жыл бұрын

    “You shouldn’t be a shamed of your tv guilty pleasures”. This show is my guilty pleasure

  • @pinkcherryworld7073
    @pinkcherryworld70732 жыл бұрын

    Adrienne is a fashion Icon , she look amazing.

  • @lydiamesfin2139
    @lydiamesfin21392 жыл бұрын

    i love loni, s comments.

  • @michelleh.3326
    @michelleh.33262 жыл бұрын

    Loving Loni ❤️

  • @keba773
    @keba7732 жыл бұрын

    This was a word!!

  • @LockedInNOW
    @LockedInNOW2 жыл бұрын

    You should Def have a good level of Pride , but not too much where you don’t learn and grow or unintentionally hurt yourself or someone 🙂 !

  • @ria_pseudovev0386
    @ria_pseudovev03862 жыл бұрын

    This show is my guilty pleasure

  • @mercedesamour4611
    @mercedesamour46112 жыл бұрын

    I can’t get past Adrian’s outfit 🤣🤌🏽 maybe a cute Bob with this look.

  • @taneshareedkinard8144
    @taneshareedkinard81442 жыл бұрын

    Loni!! I love your outfit. You’re just so beautiful.

  • @ValarieNZ
    @ValarieNZ2 жыл бұрын

    Pride & Ego are the worst traits lol

  • @tyeishamccaleb5520
    @tyeishamccaleb55202 жыл бұрын

    I definitely understand what Loni says about comedians or people who are extremely funny, not knowing how to read the room.

  • @CatzWach
    @CatzWach2 жыл бұрын

    Pride vs prideful is a conversation

  • @kendracosey
    @kendracosey2 жыл бұрын

    It’s not an “ancient Hebrew proverb,” Loni. It’s a Bible scripture found in Proverbs 16:18. 😊💕

  • @ages6592

    @ages6592

    2 жыл бұрын

    The Book of Proverbs (Hebrew: מִשְלֵי, Míshlê (Shlomoh), "Proverbs (of Solomon)") is a book in the third section (called Ketuvim) of the Hebrew Bible (The Hebrew Bible is the same as the Christian Old Testament so it’s in the Bible because it’s an old Jewish wisdom and the Old Testament is the Jewish texts).

  • @moneytalk1987
    @moneytalk19872 жыл бұрын

    i love just the three of them

  • @EnterGalactica
    @EnterGalactica2 жыл бұрын

    Lmfaooooo this was a great segment

  • @JasmineJones-wh1tv
    @JasmineJones-wh1tv2 жыл бұрын

    My guilty pleasure is any cooking/food show.

  • @dilciaenid57

    @dilciaenid57

    2 жыл бұрын

    How is that a guilty pleasure?

  • @colette5413
    @colette54132 жыл бұрын

    i want Loni’s outfit. she looks so comfy!

  • @sattasana7753
    @sattasana77532 жыл бұрын

    And you should have won Mask Singer Adrienne. Just I have put my pride aside and taken my current role..and now I'm pushing for and going to get my what I deserve

  • @TheSMILive-fk3sp
    @TheSMILive-fk3sp2 жыл бұрын

    Actually what Loni is talking about is not intelligence as in IQ but she's speaking about Emotional Intelligence, which self awareness is a part of. Being able to read a room and know when to quit is a combination of both IQ and EI

  • @semmungrei4197
    @semmungrei41972 жыл бұрын

    Yes, 90 days fiancé. Love that show

  • @CSBTelevision
    @CSBTelevision2 жыл бұрын

    Adrienne, my sister and I would watch Richard Bay during the summer break.

  • @Deerych
    @Deerych2 жыл бұрын

    I remember Richard Bey!

  • @teomt6015
    @teomt60152 жыл бұрын

    WOW! Garcelle is so so so stunning

  • @ColibriDuNord
    @ColibriDuNord2 жыл бұрын

    Noooo never let Pride go❣️ There's Pride , and there's ego. ~cheetah g@y 🌈

  • @HabitualMender5
    @HabitualMender52 жыл бұрын

    I miss the old Maury . Paternity test and cheaters are all it shows now. I remember so much the man or woman episodes out of control teenagers . Jenny Jones is a throwback ! loved it !

  • @markoushayes2233
    @markoushayes22332 жыл бұрын

    Adrian that is me all day.

  • @tracibarnett2058
    @tracibarnett20582 жыл бұрын

    I remember the Richard Bey show.😭

  • @minianoiz6492
    @minianoiz64922 жыл бұрын

    Loniiiii 😍❤🙌🏽💜👑👏🏽

  • @truthfullytiggy5860
    @truthfullytiggy58602 жыл бұрын

    I just love this show lol

  • @meaganbianca2978
    @meaganbianca29782 жыл бұрын

    OMG if the real has an episode like morey had with little nas x

  • @lifeisbeautiful9455
    @lifeisbeautiful94552 жыл бұрын

    I was on Maury too doing re-enactments.

  • @tikawiththecurls
    @tikawiththecurls2 жыл бұрын

    90 day fiancé is an organized hot mess , Issa yes for meeeh 😂 !

  • @keenahizuagie3306
    @keenahizuagie33062 жыл бұрын

    Adrienne wears all her Dads suits so nicely. Every damn time

  • @BigbossBonita
    @BigbossBonita Жыл бұрын

    Thats a great thing Israel did for Adrienne but on the flip side that is EXHAUSTING. I dont want to have to force my spouse to go for their dream. You need to be self motivated & i can add to that but if i have to do ir for you. That is exhausting. That is a job for a father not a husband.

  • @tryin2beehappygolucky431
    @tryin2beehappygolucky4312 жыл бұрын

    Richard Bey is from Queens and lives in Midtown Manhattan according to Wikipedia.

  • @icandi804
    @icandi8042 жыл бұрын

    The gold nose on Loni is distracting me!!! 😩🤣🤣🤣

  • @newnana9070
    @newnana90702 жыл бұрын

    I have a prideful sister. She’s an expert on everything.

  • @doneecemcneil7826
    @doneecemcneil7826 Жыл бұрын

    Gm edagdwg thanks you tube for sharing this story of ego takes over your thinking be thankful and wait god bless you with pay attention to what you do and say Linda j. Peace knowing god for yourself is a real gift from god only

  • @lerayshaaen
    @lerayshaaen2 жыл бұрын

    I like a "smart man" not a "smart ass" know the difference 😉😉

  • @Msladyrae92
    @Msladyrae922 жыл бұрын

    pride and self-worth aren't in the same vein.

  • @CJ-dg3bm
    @CJ-dg3bm2 жыл бұрын

    Me too Loni. I really need a smart man because intelligence is definitely sexy.

  • @katherynrivera6336
    @katherynrivera63362 жыл бұрын

    Bring Tamera back!!!! All the ladies are great but I miss our sister we grew up with!!!!!

  • @jeanetteh.8393
    @jeanetteh.83932 жыл бұрын

    Loni is beauty and brains though too with her engineering degree lol but I'm with her I like smarts first 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @tashawilliams8093
    @tashawilliams80932 жыл бұрын

    I think a sense of pride is okay but having too much pride is definitely an issue. 😳

  • @kcarjelly
    @kcarjelly2 жыл бұрын

    Is Adrian pregnant she’s been wearing a lot of big suit jackets if so I’m so happy for her

  • @TT.3123

    @TT.3123

    2 жыл бұрын

    She addressed this a few months ago saying she wasn’t pregnant and she just likes baggy clothes because they are in style. But I keep hoping that she’s wearing baggy stuff so that when she eventually does get pregnant, she can hide it until the pregnancy gets to a certain stage.

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