When you adopt, you have added another member to your family for the rest of your life. I believe Adam Pertman was exactly accurate when he stated, "Adoption is NOT child rental...". They sent this young boy back to Russia all alone. I hope this young boy is OK; let us have compassion for this young boy!

@aspenrobinson8797

6 жыл бұрын

Leslie Wheeler you have a year , just like any other adoption or they would not of taken him back.

@QUEENBEE200384

5 жыл бұрын

Aspen Robinson then if they have a year, then birthparents should have a year too.

@chancejaxson551

4 жыл бұрын

yep. You take on a child and all of the good bad and ugly.

@amarmrkulic1389

3 жыл бұрын

@@chancejaxson551 no if hes psycho.

@kit2130

3 жыл бұрын

How many children have you adopted Leslie? And Chance??

It no longer matters. Russia banned all US adoptions after this incident.

@duckquack1032

7 жыл бұрын

D S that's crazy ... to think . bc my husband was adopted from Russia...

@DortyDennis.

6 жыл бұрын

God bless Russia then.

@xtcrider8270

5 жыл бұрын

69th like

@QUEENBEE200384

5 жыл бұрын

Good for Russia then. I don’t blame them one bit. It’s their job to protect their children.

@babygoose8716

5 жыл бұрын

Trvrr Zbsky this! Yes yes yes!!

If I was in her place I would seek professional help, clearly the child is suffering of some kind of physiological trauma and he is just a child... That's how parents deal with such situation.

@biscoitond4656

4 жыл бұрын

@Kendy Hernandez children with psychopathy may also lie about this kind of thing but what they did to him was horrible and he was certainly traumatized (I don't know how he is now) the right thing would be that he got a psychic treatment and new parents who would give a lot of love and affection for him and the creation that every child deserves

@adamantiuscloudcat1799

4 жыл бұрын

@Rhett Butler lll someone should drop the atomic bomb everywhere so there are no more wars.

Yes adoption isn't child rental. Quote

This kid is 17 now. I wonder how his life ended up.

@logiic8835

4 жыл бұрын

BellaUwU Same, any updates?

@swiftycline4308

3 жыл бұрын

Stupid kid

@logiic8835

3 жыл бұрын

@@swiftycline4308 he's mean?

@user-on2bt2kb8r

3 жыл бұрын

His life is just beginning. He is in 9th grade. Next year he is new to the EMERCOM college. The Moscow government presented him with a Moscow residence permit and an apartment . He is okay.

@user-on2bt2kb8r

3 жыл бұрын

@@logiic8835 He didn't care what you think of him. He doesn't think about the USA at all. He feels good in Russia. However, he has American citizenship.

As a teacher here in the USA I can say amarican children are just as violent but in no way do we give up we try other ways to make a connection. Mothers who give up shouldn't hav children period.

@madisonlambert4716

8 жыл бұрын

most mothers EVERYWHERE try to make it work with everything they can do but sometimes they have to give up for the child to have the best life possible due to money or the child not connecting with the family to where he/she is happy

@samikov5460

8 жыл бұрын

a mother should have a heart of a mother, a child isn't some toy that you can play with and give back. Clearly you have no idea what real mother feels, when nothing and I mean nothing will change the true love you have for your child.

@LPJ2

7 жыл бұрын

It is just a matter of love, children didn't receive it simply wouldn't be able to have it.

@MrBignick88

7 жыл бұрын

try exchange teaching in Australia the schools have no need for metal detectors the worst that can happen here is an innocent prank like superglue on your mug handle or eggs on your car graduating classes might throw water balloons at you once a year but that is mainly it

@natashadefoe2048

6 жыл бұрын

Exactly! These kids have weak points, you have to find them.

That boy is doing pretty well today. He was placed in a good home, and his foster mom seems like she cares a lot about him. He even calls her mom. He didn’t have any behaviors problems, his foster mom said.

This lady actually lives down the road from me. After all this happened she got so much criticism that she had moved out. Her house is currently vacant.

He wasn't an illegal immigrant, the moment he stepped foot on US soil as an adopted child he became a US citizen.

@Enthalpy--

2 жыл бұрын

There is no such thing called US soil or any other nation soil.

@KFrost-fx7dt

Жыл бұрын

That's not how it works.

That poor boy. My brother was "crazy" he constantly got into trouble at 7 and was dangerous to himself and our family, but we didn't give him away....we got him help.

@patsywill8309

10 ай бұрын

Adoptive brother?

She should not be allowed to adopt ANY other child ANYWHERE. This is heartbreaking 💔

@rycerzwiary2779

Жыл бұрын

You don't know the whole story. Basecally this kid has a psychological disorder, so he always said to Hannah that he wanted to kill her, burn a house, and when he was trying to beat his aunt with 1.5 killogram statue. So orphan basically tricked this woman to adobted this monster, by saying that he doesn't have any psychological issues. In Russia everyone did understand that this kiddo was sick, and it was just a cirkus on TV

@lizf1353

Жыл бұрын

She should be charged with endangering the welfare of a minor, child abandonment, and any other charges that could stick! She adopted that child legally he should have automatically become a U.S. citizen and they do now at least, but regardless of if he was or wasn't she is his mother and has a legal obligation to care for him and protect him that she didn't do and if any of us sent our biological children by themselves to another country with a letter that we don't want them we would absolutely be charged with a crime!

Russian TV clips: childs face blurred, no names given in any report. USA TV: no blurring, child face displayed through the majority of the programme, childs name given, confidential document between adopted parent and government body published etc. What the fuck is wrong with that country?? Not everyone and everything is your play toy.

@asianmelb

4 жыл бұрын

Love this cos it’s soooo true

why adopt from Russia yet there are so many less privileged, unfortunate, needy and poor kids in America?

@zomb33ni

7 жыл бұрын

Muniira Ali idk about adoption laws from other countries but I know in the states they're super strict on adoption you have to make so much a year, have to own a house, pass a background check and even then they put you on a waiting list because they match you with what you are looking for.

@MrBignick88

7 жыл бұрын

my adoption happened before those laws came in i was adopted by a drunk and his wife i was beaten by him with a belt while my arms were strapped to the clothesline a good reason why adoption policies are so stringent

@zomb33ni

7 жыл бұрын

Nicholas McNamara sorry you went through that :( but yes. it's exactly why laws are so stringent.

@ameliaweights

7 жыл бұрын

Muniira Ali because in the US the ultimate goal of child services is to keep all children with their biological parents. this means no matter how much a sperm donor or birth vessel screws up, beats the kids, starves the kid, is addicted to drugs or poverty stricken they will just keep returning the kid to the bio parents. by the time they finally decide that the child is better off in a loving home he's 10 or 12 and has suffered his entire life so he has a slew of behavior, health, mental and social problems. now he's "difficult to place" and they can't find him an adoptive family. the process to adopt in the US can cost up to $50'000 and take 5-15 years depending on the age, gender and race of the child. that's why people are drawn to foreign adoption

@mihailable6695

7 жыл бұрын

ameliaweightsHe was 7 year old when he returned from the US. Now he is a 14 year old teenager. He has been living in the Russian foster family for 7 years. T. Hansen pays him alimony. Russian adoption was not cheap. In addition, a lot of paperwork and 2-3 trips to Russia. It is not less than $ 60 000. Adoption in Russia was the second most popular after Chinese adoption. Russian adoption was the most expensive and very popular. The reason is absence of the requirements to adoptive parents and lack of control over the families of adoptive parents. Therefore, there was lawlessness in relation to Russian children and many children suffered. Children died from incompetent actions of adoptive parents. This should be due to the huge profits overshadowed by the organizers of this slave trade. They did not spend money on improving the preparation of adoptive parents. They did not spend money on monitoring families. But they fought for more free access to Russian orphans and simplification of the adoption process in Russia. They wanted faster, easier (without red tape) and without state control. They found a gold mine and wanted to work at full strength. American adoptive agencies were scattered all over Russia. If you adopt an American child ... you will receive him with the help of his mother who will systematically fling your nerves. If you adopt a child from Russia ... you get unlimited power over this child and lack of control. BUT .... but Russian children they are great experts in the bashing of others' nerves. In addition, as a rule, they find the opportunity to publicize the unlawful actions of the adopter. I mean ... they will not be afraid and silent. If they reach the police ... then the help of a psychologist is not required. They will tell everything in the smallest detail.

Here's my thought.. You must protect your family first, always. But, when they adopted him, he became family too. They had a responsibility to him. If he must removed from the home, fine. But that means it's done so in a way that actually benefits him. People who have children with extreme violent tendencies can't just give them away. If they cannot handle it, or they or their other children are at serious risk, the child is put in hospitals or other wards of the such, where they receive treatment and begin getting reintroduced to the family unit. Which the family is VERY present in.

@danieloneal6994

7 жыл бұрын

Adopt one of these severely damaged and sociopathic kids and make a difference

@meheretoday6968

7 жыл бұрын

Daniel stop hating, this child isnt hurting you

@user-lb4nf9nx8w

7 жыл бұрын

exactly! sending him back there will have horrible impacts on him and he will not receive the medical help he needs

@danzbutrfly

7 жыл бұрын

Who gives a shit!

It's sad how she keeps mentioning him in the letter as "this child".

Thank God I adopted my son from Russia or rather Kazakhstan where I spent 5 weeks living with my son there. He was 5 years old when I brought him to America . He is and was a dream come true!! The kindest most generous loving human being and today he is a 25 year old young man with big hopes and plans for his future. Nothing less than a miracle! I am the lucky one but he claims he is I guess we both are. Couldn’t have had a better experience and I was a single mom with a good career.

@Vampybattie

2 жыл бұрын

Lol Kazakhstan and Russia banned child adoption

@nope4454

2 жыл бұрын

I was adopted from Kazakhstan too. Im 23 was adopted at a year and a half. What part of Kazakhstan did you adopt from?

@maryfitzpatrick2738

2 жыл бұрын

@@nope4454 hi my son is 25 and I believe it is Near Urask please my son would love to connect with you. R u in a happy home? Where or what state if u live in America r u now? I know too many questions but r situation went so well I hope the same for others as well. We r in Ct and have been since returning from Khazakstan

@nope4454

2 жыл бұрын

@@maryfitzpatrick2738 i am in new york state right now. Western new york area. I would love to get in contact also. I had a difficult life growing up but its okay now. Thanks for asking!

This is a sad story. Six months is by NO means enough time to undo the emotional damage this child has been caused OR to address any neurological problems he may have. It disgusts me that anyone would adopt a child, make a commitment to raise this child, and then, return him six months later as if he is a damaged toy. I hope the boy has a home now and the love and attention he deserves.

@miahleissa9599

7 жыл бұрын

Daniel, you assume so much.

@meheretoday6968

7 жыл бұрын

Daniel why so much hate? What did this child do to you? what did Miah do to you? Goodness she was trying to be nice and all you can do is hate? this child came from an orphanage right, well guess what only an uneducated woman would adopt a child from an orphanage and think it wont have problems... if you want to hate then hate the fact the mother didnt research the situation better herself..dont hate the mother just her lack of research prior to adopting. Gracious and calm down

The children do not know where the adoptive parents come from either.

As the mother of an adopted Russian child I would NEVER even think about returning her like a pair of shoes that don't fit. Adopting a child from an orphanage is hard work, takes patience, love and persistence. How could she do this? It just gives the Russians more ammunition in their quest to stop Americans from adopting Russian children.

@sharonlangford5689

4 жыл бұрын

What about AMERICAN kids??? Charity starts at HOME!!!

@raccoonchronicles5134

3 жыл бұрын

@@sharonlangford5689 Agree!

@delia_watercolors8186

2 жыл бұрын

@@sharonlangford5689 people get called to adopt and the form it takes varies. I know some ppl adopted from Russia because, while they are Americans, they are culturally Russian/speak Russian. Not everyone has the same path.

russia needs to improve their orphanages. these children suffer from detachment issues. i dont agree with HOW she did it, but i can understand

@lecoeur1231

6 жыл бұрын

exactly

@DreamBelief

4 жыл бұрын

Even when you adopt from great foster systems they still frequently have these kinds of issues due to the trauma they've been through. It's nice to imagine a good foster system can remedy that, but that's only a fairytale.

@peppersalt5335

3 жыл бұрын

No excuse for her actions.. crazy.

they should have seeked medical treatments... these people disgust me

@danieloneal6994

7 жыл бұрын

you would do the same

@joedriver9985

7 жыл бұрын

Maranda Nelson ... instead of going off mainstream media why don't you do a little research into why they sent the kid back and what they did try to resolve the issue instead of opening your mouth and let some garbage spew out

@beybey384

7 жыл бұрын

How? She wants to send the child back for her and her familys safey. The orphanage also mislead her with his mental health. Whats so wrong with that? So shut yr mouth before more trash spews out

@beybey384

7 жыл бұрын

ow? She wants to send the child back for her and her familys safey. The orphanage also mislead her with his mental health. Whats so wrong with that? So shut yr mouth before more trash comes out

@danieloneal6994

7 жыл бұрын

Adopt one for yourself and see how great it goes.

Im russian and THIS HURTS!! 😢

17 year for beating an 2 year old to death what! 🤬

I worked with a lady who had 3 biological children and 3 adopted children from Russia. Two were sisters. One was a young teenager when she came to live with them. They kicked her out at 17 because she didn't follow the rules of the house. She doesn't even consider her a daughter anymore. The girl was even homeless at one point, but the lady was a control freak....it was horrible even working with her. I always felt so bad for her kids.

I have been coming accross a lot of these stories where people adopt and then give up the child or children. its disgusting.

I can't imagine how hard it must be for that boy, they act out for a reason.

@TG-sf9bl

4 жыл бұрын

Wait until he grows up.

My only child was taken away from me. No one gave a damn about my pregnancy. There was a risk of him being born disabled. No one cared. And then he was taken away from me one day before his 7th birthday. Only my lawyer charged me 10,000 dollars in one second. And then the police gave me so many tickets. New Jersey ruined my health, finances, relationship with my child. The worst part was everybody was asking about my then husband. That thing for married man. Horror. No one cared about my child. Just to take as much money as possible and the husband was the centerpiece. Horror. Whoever did it is the worst trafficker ever.

Exactly "Adoption is not child rental" She assumed full responsibility when she finalized the adoption. At that point, this child became a resident of our country, and CPS should have stepped in, demanded she have the child returned and our Country's child welfare system step in and assess, and remove if needed.

The first lesson here is NEVER expect gratitude from a child....they expect because they are not matured enough...second u cannot return them like a puppy from a pound! If its a bio kid this woman would do EVERYTHING to get them help! When u adopt its like GIVING BIRTH!

Poor kid evil people

They should be charges against this woman. only 6 months and abs gives up? It's not that easy. Parenting is difficult. What a horrible woman.

These kids are severely neglected in russia and suffer from sever Attachment Disorders. The adopted parents have no idea how hard it is to parent this kind of childhood trauma. She did the best she could. Russia's care system is to blame for it however, another rejection for this child just might do him in. So sad. People shouldn't condemn another if they don't know what they are going through. I have two kids like this I've adopted and it is some HARD stuff to work through Attachment disorders with them, you have no idea at all.

@seriksson927

10 жыл бұрын

If you want a perfect child you shouldn't take the risk to have children, ever.

@dominiquepilon9315

9 жыл бұрын

You are absolutely right these kids have emotional problem and it's not their fault. You can't adopt a child then send them back like their garbage .People today are fucking idiot like the adoptive parent of the kid they knew better but there fucking idiot negative triple IQ

My parents adopted 3 of my siblings from Russia they do have their issues but what do you expect they have gone through so much being in an orphanage which was not the most loving place. It isnt like foster care. This is awful

says a lot to me that the mother did not care enough to travel back with him. he’s around 18 now, and i really hope that he is doing alright.

This boy grew up in a foster Russian family. He grew up without any problems. He turned out to be a good guy. This year he enters the EMERCOM College of Russia. besides, Artyom is a patriot of Russia. Thanks to T. Hansen. She taught him to love and value his homeland

@avonlady3671

2 жыл бұрын

Great to hear and hope it's TRUE. I apologize for this supposed Mother who did this to a child. As people here said "adoption is NOT child rental." So sorry for the boy who had to endure rejection!

THIS CHILD HEALTHY. He is absolutely healthy. Falsely Torre HANSEN lost the trial.

1:37 I feel ashamed of being a american now. Those poor children 😭

how do we know that the adoptive mum is telling the truth for all we know she could be making it up because she doesn't want him anymore?

@danieloneal6994

7 жыл бұрын

Adopt one of these psychotic russian children. When that child starts drawing pictures of your family burning don't send that child back. Allow it to happen with your fantasy/reality logic

@meheretoday6968

7 жыл бұрын

You keep on hating Daniel....ease up mate before people start thinking you are psychotic

@sepdafodils

5 жыл бұрын

Rachel Clack That makes sense; spend so much money, time & efforts to close an adoption then just lie and send the boy back! 🙄🙄🙄

This lady literally lives right next to me. I remember when all of this was happening.

@Mr-im5hu

4 жыл бұрын

Who was wrong her or the kid was extreme?

The way she treated him shows she is the unhinged one. His foster mother sees none of these psychopathic problems he has seen specialists too they have not notice anything. Glad he is happy now and with a lovely foster mother he call mama.

First u adopt American children.

@christianbyers891

7 жыл бұрын

Well my parents are adopting from China and this is their first time adopting.

@juanitamanis5147

7 жыл бұрын

Why? I don't mean to provoke, I just don't understand the logic. The borders you were born in shouldn't dictate your fate.

I fell sad about that boy 😭. May God bless him.🙏🙏

I am glad i helped the lawyer that was looking for her to hold her accountable. Hope she is paying support for the rest of her life. Tory should be ashamed of what she did

Over the past 10 years, US citizens have killed 20 foster children from Russia. A few more small Russians died as a result of accidents and illnesses. A number of children were tortured, beaten and sexually abused, at least 20 were placed by foster parents in a special shelter, some number of foster children from Russia - "transferred" to other families. Their exact number is unknown. The fate of thousands of previously adopted children, the American side could not say anything at all, despite the official requests initiated by the Russian side.

Oh my Gosh !! 7 ???? They arent puppies. They are CHILDREN in need of Love Patience and Understanding. Or Dont Adapt a child older than 3 !!

Someone that do something like that should be put in jail for child abuse

@MooseMeus

Жыл бұрын

you say that til the little bastard spits in your face and tries to stab

this is heartbreaking, you would expect some problems to deal with. a strange place to adjust to at the least

1. The consumption of alcohol in the Russian Federation does not exceed the level of the USA, Europe and other continents. 2. This boy is absolutely healthy. 3. This woman has not made any attempts to establish a relationship with this child. She did not seek help from psychologists. 4. In the United States, a beastly attitude towards Russian adopted children. No monitoring and no protection. 5. Over the past 10 years, US citizens have killed 20 foster children from Russia. A few more small Russians died as a result of accidents and illnesses. A number of children were tortured, beaten and sexually abused, at least 20 were placed by foster parents in a special shelter, some of the foster children from Russia - "transferred" to other families. Their exact number is unknown. The fate of thousands of previously adopted children, the American side could not say anything at all. 6. For 20 years of adoption, we very rarely hear about Russian children who were adopted and made a successful career in the United States. In Russia, hundreds of successful orphans and dozens of famous ... but in the US for 20 years ... only Jessica Long. The US does not give a chance for Russian orphans. 7. In Russia there is a contest for orphans YOU ARE SUPER! Children from orphanages and foster families demonstrate their talents. The competition is huge. Thousands of children compete for the right to participate in this musical show. Google : «Ты супер!». Финал в Кремле // Видео НТВ.Ru

Where's his parents? what about their responsibility to him?

Heartless and cruel

That boy could have been seriously injured or kidnapped or anything on that plane alone...What the hell is wrong with people...

@mihailable6695

6 жыл бұрын

If this boy was American ..... then this woman would be in prison. But this boy was adopted in Russia. Therefore, people talk about how bad and dangerous this 7 year old child was. Biased attitude and double standards. A woman is good because she is an American. The boy is flat because this boy is from Russia. Is she good because she wanted to help an unhappy child from Siberia? Is it? What did this boy get in the US? 2 unmarried women constantly suspected him and controlled him. From the window of his room was a graveyard. Very cheerful life with this child? What good did he see in the US? He saw two abnormal women who were locked up in his room and were not allowed to play with their nephew. These women are robbed this motherland of their child, their native language. They are severed by this child's relationship with friends and relatives. They brought this child to hysteria and then threw it away. Then they came up with a terrible story to justify their deed. GREAT !!! And what about Russia? Russia met this child with love and compassion. This boy has been living in a foster for 7 years. There are no problems ... But why are adoptive parents needed? To break down a child's life and brand him with false diagnoses? How good that Russia does not depend on the United States. Russians absolutely do not care what does this woman say and what is fairy tales she tells about this child.

Imagine doing the same thing during the war between Russia and Ukraine

Putting a 7 year old on a plane by himself with a note should get them child abandonedment and neglect charges. One thing to give him back but no reason for her to do it in such an irresponsible childish sneaky way.

To me this is the ultimate worse case scenario when adopting, that you get a psychopath. Most studies suggest that we all know a psychopath because it's statistically fairly common, and just imagine one in your home drawing pictures of your house on fire. It would be terrifying. Many parents of sociopaths spend their lives terrified, and there are even schools for such kids where the staff has to deal with their organized outbreaks of chaos and destruction. It's really hard to know what the right thing to do with such kids is, but research says that they need love (that they can't return themselves) in order to stay out of the prison system, but who knows if that just taught them how to be expert criminals who know how to manipulate but will never know empathy.Think about how much control someone like that can have if they just don't care what happens to others. Isn't that what most companies want in a CEO? I find it quite disturbing, and I believe we have to do far more research on how to deal with such people. If it's a product of evolution like some claim, this issue may be getting worse.

@seriksson927

10 жыл бұрын

Of course it is hell if you have to deal with a sick child, but even our own biological children can turn out wrong and we cannot send them "back". At least the child should have gotten treatment provided by his mother. It is the risk you take when you have a child. You might not like your own children. The problem here is that the woman did not want to be a mother if the child wasn't perfect or well or loved her.. You can never be sure to have a perfect child, even if you gave birth to it yourself. People here commenting (not you especially) doesn't seem to remember that.

0:25 *shows face* 0:28 *pixelates face* EPCI FAIL

@thomaswright1657

4 жыл бұрын

Sully Orchestration the clip from :28 was from Russian TV

Russia needs to take responsibility as well

The birth mother gave the child up for adoption, why should it be a crime if the adoptive parent places the child for adoption? Obviously it wasn't ideal, but you cant expect the adoptive parent to live a life under constant threat and fear for her life. Obviously the boy doesn't want to be there either so why force everybody involved to be miserable?

@amys7849

6 жыл бұрын

Blanca W stupid read up on the full story before commenting!! She knew he had problems and was hard to deal with. A person should not adopt if they cant love the child as their own and be there for him or her. She sent him alone like a package smh...evil bitch!

@3auka88

6 жыл бұрын

Well.... It is a child not a pair of shoes that can be given back after the buy....he was only 6 months in America.... I bet he even never understood even one word they had talk to them.....of course he was disturbed.....

@shoneywilliams4453

6 жыл бұрын

michelle zoey. I agree with u. That poor child is disturbed from some reason and needs therapy and someone to be his guardian angel. I think he has been traumatized by a deeper issue and that could be why he acts out. Sending him back alone wasn't going to help him with this. It taught him abandonment

@shoneywilliams4453

6 жыл бұрын

michelle zoey. He needs someone to show and tell him they love him and mean it 💝

@jessicamendoza1936

6 жыл бұрын

michelle zoey ur a moron, of coarse he shouldn’t have been sent back like a package, she def went about it the wrong way. I commend people for even attempting to adopt unlike people like u or I who could never. They shouldn’t be penalized like the natural parent for realizing that they cannot handle it and this child is not happy and is abusive. Wouldn’t u think it would be worse if both weren’t happy in the situation and his resentment grew? He needs therapy and lots of it before being adopted, that’s was the fault of the Russian adoption Agency

Hi from Holland. My parents adopted a 3year old from Korea. So he was my little stepbrother. This child never felt safe or loved a single second of his life. Had turned the child into a monster. Irreversible. 😢 Getting rid of a small human is pretty bold ,still I'm empathise... She must have been destroyed 😢

These orphanages need to be honest during the process

This woman should be jailed for ruining this childs life...

The so called mother should be charged with abandoning her child

This came up when i googled "forcibly adopted mimic".

I don't know what caused this woman to decide that she could no longer keep her adopted child, but how she transferred custody was wrong. When she adopted this boy she became responsible for his welfare. She should have not only made sure that he had a place to go, but should also have personally escorted the child there to deliver him to his new residence. Anything else is not only illegal, but immoral as well!

@mihailable6695

6 жыл бұрын

mihail able mihail able 2 секунды назад Of course it is immoral. Is it possible to have a twofold opinion? The woman endangered the life of this child .... but in court she began to portray herself as a victim and unsubstantially blame this child. But is there no psychological and social assistance in US? In US there is no police? In US there are no doctors? Why did this woman personally diagnosed this child? Is she a doctor? Maybe she is a lawyer? Why does she blame this child but does not produce evidence? Who suffered in this family? 10 year old Logan? NO ! He's fine and he's on Artem's side. Can a cat or hamster be hurt? NO ! Maybe a horse or an elephant died in this house? NO ! no and no! .. All are alive and well. Maybe the house burned down? NO ! The house is in perfect order. Maybe Artem killed a frog or a fly ??? NO ... he did not offend American frogs, flies and skunks. He did not hide the Kalashnikov assault rifle under the pillow. He did not hide the Su-57 fighter in the garage. What the hell .... this woman blames him? She did not like the children's drawing? She saw that the boy was writing Russian letters and decided that he was an agent of the KGB? Children's drawing is a scrambled map of Tennessee. Russian letters ... is it a secret cipher? OMG !!! How many fools in the US! Thank God this boy is back in Russia and he is safe. Horror for T. Hansen from Russia kino-ussr.ru/1663-skazka-o-malchishe-kibalchishe-1964.html

Wow. When you adopt a child expect them to have baggage. Even babies can have issues. After they saw him drawing those images they could have done so much more rather than send him back like this. Alone. If they abused him I get why they didnt send him to counseling or provide the necessary services he needed. This is so sad.

I would never adopt from Russia, I don't know what crazy stuff goes on in Russia but the children turn out violent and with many problems

@mihailkonyukhov7068

7 жыл бұрын

Russia has banned all Americans to adopt Russian children ... I do not know what is happening in the US but the US adoptive parents have a low level of intelligence, obesity and a variety of mental health problems.

@yourmajesty7012

7 жыл бұрын

ok, I forgot they had some type of chemical spill and it affected the children, people are still affected today

@duckquack1032

7 жыл бұрын

need job that's not true .. my husband was adopted from Russia ... and he sure does not act like that

That’s a parent willing to GIVE UP her child.

Adoption is very complicating and very risky.

Sometimes people want to "save" kids n be their heroes.....I found out by fostering children not to expect gratitude.....it has to be done out of unconditional love in the literal sense...

What would she have done if this was her biological child who she thought was violent and had mental health issues? Most likely she would have gotten him into therapy and whatever else he needed to help him. An adopted child should be treated no different. How sad for him

This happens a lot.

I really can't believe people would do something like this...I got married at the age of 15 and my husband had a child before we met...since the day I got married I have took care of him...his mom doesn't look for him I am now 23 years old...and still watch over him and to other little ones that God blessed us with and I couldn't imagine not being a family of 5 😇🙏

I cannot believe that bitch sent him back to the same shithole he was being abused in. This kid simply wasn't shown true unconditional love from a parent or guardian. You can't show a kid that overnight. It takes years of effort to earn. It takes consistency and diligence. The problem is these people who adopt are doing so in order to fill a void. They think that as soon as that child is handed over, they will be happy and it's happy ever after. If you adopt a child as your own you take every single possible scenario that could possibly lead come into play. Dogs are treated better when they're rescued. That's essentially what this woman doing. She was rescuing this little boy and she failed him and sent him back like she was returning a purchase from Walmart. It's crazy to me at the "level of fucked up" people on this earth can be.

Well, it is anti-social personality, it is expected if he is adopted, the remedy is simple: love him enough, he will be normal.

@TheYasmineFlower

7 жыл бұрын

Love is not everything. If you truly think love can heal everything, please never adopt, because you would completely ruin an innocent child's life. That boy was ripped away from his country, culture and language, and likely from friends too! Of course he was going to act out - he wasn't a baby anymore, he knew that he lost something huge. And then he ends up with people who kick him out. Seriously, there is no possibility whatsoever that they were not abusive before they threw him away. You can't just expect to rip children away from their bloodlines, countries, cultures and languages and have them be normal and without any problems or with problems that can easily be fixed. Love doesn't solve everything.

@LPJ2

7 жыл бұрын

TheYasmineFlower I DIDN'T say love is everything, and there is no 100% cure, good chances are he will still be anti-social, but probably less violent, but since the adopting mom is obviously a heartless bitch, the kid is doomed with her anyway. And you are right about kids would be scared by experience like that, but love do helps, and the only way to help.

@mihailable6695

7 жыл бұрын

Children remain children even in war if next to them are loving adults who provide love and protection for these children. This child did not have the love and protection of the American family. He was one away from family, friends and native culture. He was away from Russia. Now he is at home. Now everything is fine. Everything will be fine . //my.mail.ru/mail/shal-ta/video/_myvideo/1.html?related_deep=1

@LPJ2

7 жыл бұрын

Bunny Panama It is not to be taken easily to adopt a kid, you would need to give more then raisiong your own child if you are not "lucky", every kid has his/her own feature, growing up the same way isn't the excuse of excusing somebody else is born violent, nobody is born violent or bad, some are more unfortunate then others but love is always the way, supposely, easier said then done of course.

@meheretoday6968

7 жыл бұрын

Bunny this happens in normal families too...one child is fine and the other one has issues... it isnt just an issue with adopted kids... all you can do is love your kid and this means having enough love to get what ever help is out there for them, if it works good, if not at least you did everything you could. its better to give love and heaps of it than to deny them love too

Reactive attachment disorder

These are humans not inventory. You cannot just return kids. This is sad. U know there may be some issues when u adopt ANY kid. Please take responsibility of the parent and teach these kids and love them

I would send the child back as well.

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Russia is right to ban all adoptions to the USA. They should adopt and care for their own little Russians.

@projectdcb7525

3 жыл бұрын

you should care for your africans you have in the states a bit more

This is Heartbreaking 😢💔💔😢 How could you sent this precious Poor Boy back on his own? 😢😢 He is just a Child and I knew for sure that if it was your biological child who did this to you, you won’t even give up on them cause they are yours. So inhumane 😢😢😢

@diyoregonnowtexas9202

Жыл бұрын

Easy to say for you, but if the kid was in YOUR house spitting in your face, beating your natural children, vandalizing your home and threatening you, you would have a different opinion.

Agreed. It's become the thing to do. And it's difficult to adopt a child in America. Anybody can have a baby (most anyway) but trying to adopt they put you through the ringerThere are many group homes with children that are waiting to be adopted and I've never understood why people go out of the country when there so many needy children that want family right here. Should take care of our own before we head to other countries to adopt . Many needy families here in the United States that are struggling just to feed their kids. Let's take care of them before we branch out to other countries

Before you adopt a child, you should be fully informed of any physical or mental illnesses that that child has so that you can make the right decision for your situation. Additionally, there are plenty of children here in the US to adopt the need good homes. Perhaps the whole thing could’ve been avoided by taking that route.

Omg I can’t believe this 🤯

He is a Child , Not a Microwave Oven !!! You Don't send a child back !!! She is an Awful person !!!! If a child is troubled you get them help ,you don't abandon them.

Ok but like even if they say he is fine at the orphanage Not to be rude but It is ignorant or just stupid to assume that the kid is totally stable- even if he was fine bevore- kids change, just like other people do too.. so whatever child you adopt or have yourself you need to be prepared for the worst So I get that maybe you can't handle a child and then it is better for someone else to help him grow up but to argue that "you were lied to a t the orphanage" is really disgusting Because that is exactly like saying "this is not what I bought"

I feel SORRY for that little BOY!!! for his young age! He feels REJECTED!!! u dont know how he feels.He needs love and care! even his parents allow him to be adopted.we know that he has a negative attitude even at his young age! we cannot blame that boy. in the first place he does'nt feel the LOVE of a parents.they just allow this kid to be adopted by someone else! so this kid has a bitterness & hatred in his heart.so he just show on his attitude! we must think if we're on his position! What we will think & feel! 1st we must think b4 having a child. are we gonna be a GOOD RESPONSIBLE PARENTS!!!

@alena3146

4 жыл бұрын

@Rhett Butler lll you literally know nothing about the child. Based on a piece of paper. What an idiot xd

And people are defending this boy ? Why none of you adopted him? Take to your home...

Poor kid

us adoptees are pretty much screwed, adoption causes a lot of people ptsd etc in later life, if you also are an adoptee and have any issues please get counselling it really helps

@mihailable6695

6 жыл бұрын

The reason for the incorrect preparation of the adoptive parents. In every Russian child, American adoptive parents see RAD and FASD. In the US, an erroneous opinion about Russian orphans has been riddled. Biased attitude. Such adoptive parents can not help the child to adopt and assimilate. Such adoptive parents are able to destabilize and embitter the child. It will be better and safer for children if Americans do not adopt them. The prejudiced attitude of Americans towards Russia should not maim the lives and destinies of Russian orphans. Of course you can think that all children in orphanages are spoiled and inadequate. But children should not suffer from American anti-Russian myths. We see problems. but we do not demonize children. Americans can do what they want, but not with our children. In the US, there are no fewer orphans than in Russia. Let the Americans adopt American orphans. Russian orphans need love and protection, but not in demonization. Russian orphans: kzread.info/dash/bejne/dWam1pimo5C6pdY.html

Hmm, wonder how he turned out?

Sending him back to Russia by himself with nothing arranged for him there is unimaginable. Now because of this case many children will not find loving homes in the USA. Have two relatives that adopted children from other countries. This has resulted in loving caring parents and children who go on to have happy home lives.

Why blur the face of him than show it. Never saw that before.

@thomaswright1657

4 жыл бұрын

Eloise Odom that was Russian TV blurring his face

If he was a terrible child she did the right thing on sending him back. I would not put myself or my other family at risk for a kid that back stabbed me when I open my arms to be his mom he is not worth it!

@gc9192

Жыл бұрын

She knew he was a difficult child lol Americans always send kids back like they're objects

@michaelschneider8201

7 ай бұрын

People like you are the reason why it was a right thing for the Russian government to ban US people from adopting Russian children. You really think that it was a right thing to put a 7 year old on a plane and dump him in the center of a city where he has no relatives or home? If your own little child becomes violent and dangerous - will you just dirve him to Mexico city or Ottawa, drop him off in the middle of the streets, and never return?

@user-yg6tl7dq9u

6 ай бұрын

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Either way what was he supposed to do when he got back to Russia since he was alone. How common is it for someone to adopt a kid then send them back we’re they came from

Why the hell would l ever import a problem from afar and then urge to get rid of it and be criticized and condemned by the whole world cause l don't fancy juvenile psychopaths? Crazy...

These people do not deserve children. I’d have taken the little fella and do my best to learn Russian.

@thepatriarchy7303

2 жыл бұрын

wow you are very kind

I remember that one.

How old is he now?

She adopted him so why you send you "new" child back?

Aren't there enough children in America who need homes that we have to import from overseas? Charity begins at home! This is tragic but complicated because of the overseas connection.

Sickening