Abducted (Crime Documentary) | Real Stories

It’s every parent’s worst nightmare, a child snatched and smuggled overseas. The number of children abducted by an estranged partner has doubled in the UK in the last decade.
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  • @babayaga7027
    @babayaga70275 жыл бұрын

    I am heartbroken for Gosia. I wish someone would help her get her daughter back. She's basically being raised by strangers while the mother suffers.

  • @beauangele3033
    @beauangele30335 жыл бұрын

    The poor parents, the poor mother who lost her daughter at 3 months...so heartbreaking

  • @MyMscullen

    @MyMscullen

    5 жыл бұрын

    I can not stop crying over this woman she seems so heartbroken 😔 I wonder have she got her baby back I really hope she has

  • @texasjaco9385

    @texasjaco9385

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm just so sick in my heart for that women. I couldn't imagine only having my child for 3mos. I pray someone is kind enough to reach out to her, and help her to get the baby back.

  • @joangroulx8312
    @joangroulx83125 жыл бұрын

    My daughter was abducted in 1984 by her father she was 13 months......he took her to Greece...it took 10 years before we located them....it is a long story....when she had her first child in 2011 ....she realized how profound it was to become a mother and had to find me .....she found me through a website that we had created in hopes she would find me one day...we have been communicating for 8 years ...she still lives in Greece but would love to come to Her birth country Canada with her family....we are working on meeting one day soon.....I have two beautiful grandsons....

  • @Libbathegreat

    @Libbathegreat

    5 жыл бұрын

    Joan Groulx Damn...I’m an American living in Greece. I’ve been all over here and I can understand how easy it would be for someone who knows the country to drop off the radar if they don’t want to be found, even nowadays and even with a child. That must have been an absolute nightmare for you. I’m very glad that you’ve been reconciled with your daughter and hope you’ll soon be reunited for good.

  • @randomvintagefilm273

    @randomvintagefilm273

    3 жыл бұрын

    So glad I never had kids because I would have killed my husband if he did that

  • @urashimahanako9965

    @urashimahanako9965

    3 жыл бұрын

    I lived in Athens Greece exactly in 1984. I really liked it there and I had so much fun, Greek people were nice to me and I can’t believe sad thing like this was happening around me. I really hope you will reunite with your daughter in very near future.

  • @multifariousgemini

    @multifariousgemini

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤯🤯🤯

  • @amberdusk

    @amberdusk

    2 жыл бұрын

    My heart goes out to you. My own now ex-husband (Iranian in this case) abducted our then five-year-old daughter to Iran in 1987. I had gone to an out-of-state (I'm American) family funeral and had no idea he would do this. From Iran, he told me I'd never see her again unless I, myself, also went to Iran - but I had to promise to "behave" (ie: put up with abuse and be the submissive wife he felt he had been cruelly denied by marrying me). I said without hesitation I would go to Iran but had this crazy idea that I would be able to escape with my daughter in a year's time - I was a naive 27-year-old! It took 4 months to convince him to let me come to Iran - and it took ten years for me to escape with both my kids (my son was born there in '89). But there were many times he almost sent me back to the US without them, and he almost decided against allowing me to go to Iran in the first place. I experienced the heartbreak of my daughter being taken from me and not knowing where she was (she and my ex were missing for two weeks before he called me from Iran), not knowing if she was being treated well, if she was crying for me and confused, what she was being told, if she was being abused, and so on. But, I was reunited with her four months later. I could not imagine how painful it was for you all those years without your daughter, and especially her being taken when she was an infant!. I hope you are able to be reunited with her soon and you get to meet your grandchildren. Thank you for sharing your story and I hope for the best in this situation.

  • @Eveningwake
    @Eveningwake5 жыл бұрын

    How selfish of them to keep that little girl in Libya while a civil war is going on 😡

  • @lilblacklamb222
    @lilblacklamb2225 жыл бұрын

    This is so sad...children are not to be fought over like a toy..poor child will be so traumatized

  • @deepashinde4621

    @deepashinde4621

    5 жыл бұрын

    Parents who commit such crimes are insecure to the core. These selfish people always have egos as big as a mountain. They just need to feel secured and their egos should be at rest that's all these bloody people want.

  • @ameenarahimi6460

    @ameenarahimi6460

    3 жыл бұрын

    Actually the little girl turned out to be extremely happy to be with her daddy , you should think about how the mother snatched her and never let her to see her daddy again , just bc he’s the father he has rights too ... this little girl is so happy with her dad she told how she was abused by the mom and her grandparents...

  • @NayLouise24
    @NayLouise245 жыл бұрын

    Wait, the dad was imprisoned, the kid left in a foreign country with grandparents and STILL NOT BROUGHT HOME? Thats disgusting. Thats on the British government.

  • @jadehuynh184

    @jadehuynh184

    3 жыл бұрын

    @hollyapple777 I think what the comment above meant is that since the UK Is so well established and powerful, that there should be some kind of diplomatic relations to help bring back her daughter. You’re speaking about a corrupt government, why would they put in resources to hand over the girl?

  • @finnsnow2495

    @finnsnow2495

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jadehuynh184 Unfortuntaly the UK can't just use it's power and control to go do whatever it wants in other countries. That girl is also a citizen in Libya. Don't you think its a bit problematic if they stared doing that to all countries that didn't let them have say or power. I think its on the Libyan goverment for sure and the UK can't really do much when the country refuses to work with them. That's why you should of red with caution when in those countries or in relationships with people from there.

  • @rozpillay6522
    @rozpillay65225 жыл бұрын

    This is a dangerous trend. Kids are NOT a possession!

  • @be6388

    @be6388

    3 жыл бұрын

    that's true! 'long long lost family' shows, what may happen later...

  • @wonkydonkey8349
    @wonkydonkey83495 жыл бұрын

    first time i've ever seen a father's point of view. interesting...

  • @riverdeep399

    @riverdeep399

    5 жыл бұрын

    Interesting point. I found it harrowing.

  • @larahilton7417

    @larahilton7417

    5 жыл бұрын

    Loreena Fan Absolutely. When a relationship breaks down the children still need to have a relationship with both parents. Its got to be about what is best for the child. It’s wrong to whisk the child away without warning and deny the other parent of any relationship whatsoever. Thats not your decision to make. Unless there’s abuse of course. But to hide them away, somewhere like Pakistan for example, the father not knowing whether they are alive or happy, without any discussion, is extraordinary. Absolutely extraordinary. I can’t believe anyone would argue that was fair. Once you’ve had children with someone, unfortunately, whether you like it or not, you can’t just live where you want to live. It has to be somewhere where you can both have access to the child, so you can BOTH raise the child.

  • @YONCE8701

    @YONCE8701

    5 жыл бұрын

    Very much so

  • @xyg6543

    @xyg6543

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sadly, I think that too many father's stories are not heard.

  • @jasbirnicholas3876

    @jasbirnicholas3876

    5 жыл бұрын

    It gets potential dangerous when people marry to Arab countries, or other Asian countries, easy to fled away , and very hard to get that kid back

  • @gilliansanderson4830
    @gilliansanderson48305 жыл бұрын

    That poor guy not only loses his daughter but then has to pay 90k in legal costs possibly making him bankrupt. All because he lost in the high court fighting to see his daughter. This documentary is so powerful. Why does this happen in 2019. Highly disturbing.

  • @nora4981

    @nora4981

    4 жыл бұрын

    Gillian Sanderson he should’ve stuck to marry a regular Brit girl... not some third world reject.

  • @nicolegonzalezmarrero629

    @nicolegonzalezmarrero629

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@nora4981 you’re right, that comment will DEFINITELY erase all of the suffering....🙄

  • @frozenboot68

    @frozenboot68

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@nora4981 let me tell you in words you can hopefully understand: that third world reject is a doctor. So she’s not the reject you are.

  • @Kimmm1984
    @Kimmm19845 жыл бұрын

    If the other parent would have been violent or a threat to the well-being of the child, I can totally understand taking your child and run. But if this is not the case, how can you keep your child away from their own mother or father who love them and want to be there for them. I really believe this will backfire in the end and the child will resent the parent who kept them away from their other parent or sibling. Unbelievable and so heartbreaking to watch, there should be way more help for these people.

  • @Kimmm1984

    @Kimmm1984

    5 жыл бұрын

    That's horrific. As a mom myself I can't believe a parent would do that to their own child. How incredible selfish.

  • @ThePatches08

    @ThePatches08

    5 жыл бұрын

    You are bang on in my case Kimmy. My mother abducted my sisters and I. Telling everyone that the father was abusive. Thankfully the distance between my two parents ended up only being 8-10 hours driving distance. However growing up.. My mother attempted to brainwash us to convince us to hate our father. When the truth came out.. All 3 of us kids walked out and moved in with the father. This isn't just a UK/Europe issue. It's happening all over the world.

  • @valeriecarpenter4631

    @valeriecarpenter4631

    5 жыл бұрын

    Kimmy ~ sometimes it will never backfire because the child is being fed lies about the absent parent that the parent did not want them and abandon them very sad

  • @fatcatfunnies6216

    @fatcatfunnies6216

    5 жыл бұрын

    I feel bad things must be happening to this child. The father doesn't look mentally stable.@AI AC

  • @fatcatfunnies6216

    @fatcatfunnies6216

    5 жыл бұрын

    @AI AC I feel really bad for this mother.

  • @ididntknow0587
    @ididntknow05875 жыл бұрын

    It’s heartwarming to see fathers who love their children when there are so many fathers who could care less about the children they brought into this world

  • @Sassydivaa1990

    @Sassydivaa1990

    5 жыл бұрын

    Teresa Mcallister yeah and so many mothers whom could care less about their children

  • @gilliansanderson4830

    @gilliansanderson4830

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hear hear... Far too many fathers who deny their children, casually continuing in some cases to have more then have the heinous audacity to pass the blame to the woman or anyone but themselves. To kill someone doesn't always include murder. The law should change.

  • @shelbyregisterrn108
    @shelbyregisterrn1085 жыл бұрын

    Gośka just really breaks my heart ❤️ I feel for all these parents. She was soul wrenching...all that raw emotion.

  • @larahilton7417

    @larahilton7417

    5 жыл бұрын

    Shelby Register RN it had broken her. As you say, all the cases were heart wrenching but she was just on the edge.

  • @leece_6702

    @leece_6702

    5 жыл бұрын

    absolutely heartbreaking, and just so wrong

  • @shawnafisher7812

    @shawnafisher7812

    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @jmlnursing1084
    @jmlnursing10845 жыл бұрын

    This breaks my heart. People are disgusting.

  • @Johansen1000

    @Johansen1000

    5 жыл бұрын

    confictura j do you have kids? who says one parent has more right than the other, no one will willingly give up the rights to ever see their children again. and if it comes to it people will go to Great lengths to get them back.

  • @Sara-pe2hv
    @Sara-pe2hv2 жыл бұрын

    This happened to my cousin. His daughter was taken from the US to China by her mother at 2 months old "just visiting family." She was homesick. They disappeared. He's suffered for years.

  • @bladegriggs4090

    @bladegriggs4090

    Жыл бұрын

    Did he ever find her?

  • @josephine6382
    @josephine63825 жыл бұрын

    Talia's mommy is so sad. Terrible!

  • @Luubelaar

    @Luubelaar

    5 жыл бұрын

    I was fighting back tears for her at so many points. As a mother myself, I can't imagine what she's going through. Heartbreaking. :(

  • @thefuzzypenguin778

    @thefuzzypenguin778

    5 жыл бұрын

    yes. her sorrow broke my heart.

  • @helianabanes4875
    @helianabanes4875 Жыл бұрын

    Snatching a child that doesn't know you at all, out of their known family's safe haven and everything they know, even if they are your child, and you have the court on your side, is absolutely monstrous. I feel terrible for Crystal, she will be traumatized for life.

  • @mikaeelb.

    @mikaeelb.

    Жыл бұрын

    Blame the abducting parent. They put the child and the other parent in that position.

  • @helianabanes4875

    @helianabanes4875

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mikaeelb. I do, but who I blame doesn't change the affect it has on the child.

  • @mikaeelb.

    @mikaeelb.

    Жыл бұрын

    @@helianabanes4875 do you know the effect parental alienation has on a child? Keeping the child away from their other parent? It has a huge emotional abusive impact on that child and the child will end up growing up resentful towards the abducting parent. You've seen how the child warmed up to her father immediately. He was no harm to her. You sound like you're siding with the mother who illegally ran from the law and stole the child from her father.

  • @helianabanes4875

    @helianabanes4875

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mikaeelb. I am not, it is a horrible horrible thing to do to a child, the mother was extremely selfish, if she cared about her child AT ALL, she would have never taken her away and not allowed the father to see her. It is sick and I feel horrible for the father. I don't think there is any good solution and regardless of who's at fault, the child ends up the victim 100% of the time. I am not saying there is necessarily a better way, I am saying, snatching a young child, when you are essentially a stranger is a SUPER traumatic thing to do to a child. If one parent decides to pull this BS and kidnap the child or alienate the child, no matter what happens next; the child is the biggest loser. I totally get why he would want to do that, it doesn't mean it isn't super harmful.

  • @mikaeelb.

    @mikaeelb.

    Жыл бұрын

    @@helianabanes4875 I guess the father felt he had no choice. It's not like the mom was volunteering to meet at a restaurant or somewhere.

  • @ketakigoraksha3613
    @ketakigoraksha36133 жыл бұрын

    Seeing the two sisters reunite is♥️🥺

  • @lv7118
    @lv71185 жыл бұрын

    In South Africa no parent may leave the the country with a child without documentation signed by the other parent...whether the parents are happily married or divorced,there must be documents signed before a commissioner of oaths presented at the airport.

  • @lv7118

    @lv7118

    5 жыл бұрын

    Even for a vacation the forms must be signed...my husband(we're married)is travelling overseas for 10 days with our 11 year old son soon and I had to fill in and sign forms before a commisioner of oaths. But I am sure that if you want to take a child illegally there will always be a way.

  • @neisci

    @neisci

    5 жыл бұрын

    In Mozambique too. Doesn't matter the reason you are traveling for, parent consent is a mandatory document .

  • @reubenparies6678

    @reubenparies6678

    5 жыл бұрын

    This was not the case 6 years ago when my ex left the country to go and crew luxury yachts with her husband and my then 18year old son. The South African 'justice system' is an apathetic abyssmal mess with no care for parental rights and especially for paternal rights where there is generally absolutely no f@#ks given except if you have money. It will be 14 years to the day on his b'day on 29 April 2019 that I will have seen and spoken to to him last.

  • @reubenparies6678

    @reubenparies6678

    5 жыл бұрын

    He was 18 when they left the country. But she stopped me from seeing him from the age of 10 when they were still residing in SA.

  • @janetdonald9801

    @janetdonald9801

    5 жыл бұрын

    Soulivanh Xayaphet no, they would have to commit forgery.

  • @venessalizabeth
    @venessalizabeth3 жыл бұрын

    Talia’s father is an evil monster. My heart breaks for that poor woman 😔 get her baby back to her for Christ’s sake!

  • @m.k.wallner3145
    @m.k.wallner31454 жыл бұрын

    The judge who sentenced him to 6.5 years had no vision. Instead of sentencing him to a finite time, he should have sentenced him to spend 10 days in prison for each day his family in Libya refuses to return the child to its mother.

  • @pennysue8849
    @pennysue88495 жыл бұрын

    I really pray that poor woman gets her little girl back .. I can't imagine the pain also I don't know since her ex is in prison that she can't just go take her baby!

  • @pennysue8849

    @pennysue8849

    3 жыл бұрын

    @HollyApple777 you could have made your point without the sarcasm and being so condescending?.. try and have a nice day

  • @jaamtart3755
    @jaamtart37555 жыл бұрын

    the one with the polish woman is deep :c

  • @opdjasin
    @opdjasin3 жыл бұрын

    So the Polish mother who kidnapped her child has received multiple court orders to asking her to return the kid to the father. She refused and nothing happened to her. Damn justice system in Poland must be really really bad.

  • @jasz6797

    @jasz6797

    Жыл бұрын

    So is the one in Cyprus that gave custody to an abusive father of two children- one only just 14-months-old...

  • @deborahnieling2315
    @deborahnieling23155 жыл бұрын

    How hard is it to try to talk to the mother of the abductor in Lybia, no chance...HER SON IS EVERYTHING, that is the culture there! The mum have no chance! Sad and bad!!!!!

  • @tonyaboggs5367
    @tonyaboggs53675 жыл бұрын

    I dont get why anyone is aloud to leave the country with a child unless the right documentation and if they do it illegally....they should be able to gef the children back!!!!!

  • @Libbathegreat

    @Libbathegreat

    5 жыл бұрын

    Tonya Boggs Getting them back is a diplomatic and legal minefield, and frankly just not a priority for the various governments involved. The important and relatively simple thing would be, as you say, to prevent them getting on planes out of the country in the first place. It boggles my mind that there’s no alert system in place to prevent parents getting on an international flight with children they don’t have custody of. They make it so simple for them and then cry about how often it happens.

  • @katjakittenland9689
    @katjakittenland96895 жыл бұрын

    In the Netherlands, when you are travelling alone with your child, you need to carry an officially signed approvaldocument from the other parent, ortherwise you're not allowed to board a plane. Sadly of course they can't check the travelling by car, but at least it diminishes the childabductionratings.

  • @larahilton7417

    @larahilton7417

    5 жыл бұрын

    Katja Kittenland That’s such a good idea. The Netherlands are always ahead of the game with things like that.

  • @agricolaregs

    @agricolaregs

    5 жыл бұрын

    Katja Kittenland interesting. What if there is no other parent. Dead or single parents?

  • @katjakittenland9689

    @katjakittenland9689

    5 жыл бұрын

    agricolaregs, you would have to show a deathcertificate if the other parent is dead or the certificate of sole-custody if you're the only caring parent.

  • @agricolaregs

    @agricolaregs

    5 жыл бұрын

    Katja Kittenland interesting. Is it common knowledge that one needs this, bc in America I would never think to have a death certificate on me to prove something like. It seems like a great idea though.

  • @katjakittenland9689

    @katjakittenland9689

    5 жыл бұрын

    agricolaregs. Dutch people don't usually carry deathcertificates around in their handbags, haha, but, yes, it is common knowledge that you need prove that you're 'allowed' to take your child abroad, so in that case you should.

  • @taemeister9302
    @taemeister9302 Жыл бұрын

    This is a recount from a friend i had in college talk about his most dark, secretive experience of his life. Nobody believed his story in full, but he's glad he is still alive today. My friend was only 7 years old. He awoke bewildered and dizzy by himself in a clean, comfy, cozy room with teddy bears imprinted on peach walls in a bed plush with pillows and velvet blankets. Next to his bed was a tray with Oreo cookies, a big ham sandwich, and a glass of milk. The milk was still cold and the sandwich was tasty. He could hear children laughing distantly downstairs. When he finished his sandwich, a nice old woman with plumo features walks in and lovingly congratulates him for finishing his meal and gently takes the tray away and asks him to come downstairs to meet his friends. My friend goes downstairs and sees about 10 other children in front of a huge tv screen and were playing Super Mario Bros 3 on a Nintendo. Each kid had a tray of snacks and chocolate milk next to them as they gleefully played Nintendo. He was still pretty tired from the ordeal he experienced hours ago when he felt a hand with a cloth clamomped over his nose and mouth as his consciousness faded away. After about an hour, my friend started to let go of what happened in the morning and started getting into the fun atmosphere with his new buddies as the housemaid said it was time for dinner. There were 6 girls and 4 boys in total including himself. Dinner was a delicious-smelling plate of meat and soft veggies drenched in a brown sauce. He didn't know what it was, but everyone loved what they were eating. The kids talked about the games they played and asked my friend where he came from. They told him tomorrow they will watch movies and play nintendo all day and maybe go to the beach later. They were doing all the things my asian friend rarely got the privelage to partake under his stict parents. His anxiety quickly started melting away as he wolfed down the delicious food laid before him and listened to the excited chatter of the other children. It seemed everyone was so happy to be where they were. Maybe his abduction was really that bad. Maybe his parents knew about all this and that he was at summer camp or something because school was out for two weeks and it was early July. My friend enjoyed everyday of his life at this strange new home. It was more of a comfy mansion designed for children, it seemed. There were swings, slides, jungle gyms, and many ither recreational stuff you would see in parks. The ocean was calm and peaceful. The only thing that seemed to be of stark contrast to all this was that the entire property had a tall white wall surrounding it. The ocean area had two green fences on it's sides stretching a good distance into the ocean. It must've felt like an entire summer that he was there. Everyday involved nothing but fun activities, good food and snacks, and daily sleepovers with the other kids. More kids joined the ranks almost every day. There were abut 30 kids in total by the time he ended his story. Although newcomers came nearly daily, about half of that number of kids left the premise and never came back. Nobody knew where these kids took off to, but they just simply were gone when the kids gathered to have breakfast in the spacious kitchen area surrounded by ornate furnitures with strange frames of symbols on the walls. Other than the pictures on the walls, everything else in the mansion seemed like nothing out of the ordinary. The kids at night usually got together in a room under blankets with flashlights and told ghost stories. After his first night, my friend stayed in a huge room with 5 other kids in spacious bunk beds with frames shaped like the moon. Most of the stories were about the kids that were gone from the home. Everyone wondered where their new buddies went. Most of the kids thought they went back home, which further fueled their optimism that everything was fine and that this was a special treat from their parents. One night, my friend woke up in the middle of the night heard a child screaming from a distance. It wslas a blood curdling scream that ended in something slamming. Most likely the sound of a car door being shut. He thought for a moment, and decided yo shrug it off and go back to sleep. Maybe one of the kids had a nightmare. One night, someone turned on the lighrs in the middle of the night and gently told him to get dressed and come outside. My friend got dressed and followed a huge man dressed in a black suit downstairs and was led in front of what he remembered as a cadillac in front of the mansion. The mansion stood by itself on a cliff overlooking the ocean with no neighbors. When the door opened, there was a strange, creepy-looking old man in a dark brown suit and hat at the rear passenger seat. The man adoringly encouraged him to sit beside him. My friend got spooked at that point. In his mind, he wanted to know what's going on before he got in. The vibe was very disturbing. My friend reluctantly got un the car. The old man put his arm over my friends shoulder and kissed him on the right side of his head and kept caressing his head and shoulders. My friend said he was getting very nervous and anxious and wanted nothing more than to get away from this man. The only thing my friend remembers after this was that he awoke by himself naked in a forest somewhere in northern california. He didn't remember anything that happened after he got out of the vehicle. He had bruises and little bloody scars all over his body. Most notably his genitals. A group of surveyor happened to discover my friend early when it was still dark. One of the surveyors were frantically telling the police something while giving my friend a reassuring look every now and then while telling his story. My friend's devastated parents rushed up to hug him, crying. They lo a ded him in their car and they drove home. My friend says that his parents told him nothing other than the fact that he was abducted and missing for 3 months. They didn't tell him exactly what happened and who his abductors were. Whenever he asks, his parents would hush him up and angriliy tell him that it's over and he doesn't have to remember anything. It seems to me that my friend's parents, the surveyors that discovere him, were silenced from speaking out aganist what happened to him. Over 100,000 kids in the US alone go missing every year. Some, like my friend, are lucky enough to be found. Many are never seen again. My friend says he considers himself very lucky to be alive today and he's thankful that his parents never told him what happened. Maybe it was for the best that he didn't remember what happened to him to prevent any PTSD. I learned one thing from my friends story: Some people are completely exempt from the law no matter what they do.

  • @poppyfield1619
    @poppyfield16195 жыл бұрын

    no one asked crystal if she wanted to go...omg how harrowing for that child to be grabbed in the dark away from the people she loves and knows..poor kid

  • @finnsnow2495

    @finnsnow2495

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes the two year old CAN make her own descions. And I was also really concerned for her adjustment but literally in a few hours she was sleeping and smiling kissing her dad. I was happy he also spoke her language and she must have recognized him. It sad they had to go to such extremes because of a selfish mother

  • @frozenboot68

    @frozenboot68

    3 жыл бұрын

    I have to agree that it looked awful, hopefully she will forget. Children don’t have memories before two or three anyway.

  • @jasz6797

    @jasz6797

    Жыл бұрын

    She was literally screaming that she doesn't want to go...:(

  • @jomama5186
    @jomama51865 жыл бұрын

    This is so sad. Adults are so cruel and never stop to think what's best for the kids. It seriously messed them up. They have to know both parents to know who they are or they are only half a person. I never kept my 1st child from her father OR his family-they were half of her-part of her. I couldn't deny her that no matter what I thought personally about her father. His parents-were wonderful and I still have a close bond with them to this day. He passed a couple years ago.

  • @poopsydo8052
    @poopsydo80523 жыл бұрын

    As someone with children & their father does not want a relationship with them I cannot understand what someone gets out of shutting the other parent out. A child deserves the right to both parents if it’s safe to do so & you cannot just erase a parent for whatever reason

  • @juanitarichards1074
    @juanitarichards10743 жыл бұрын

    If I was Mr Khan I would refuse to pay the 30 grand. He is the custodial parent and his daughter should have been returned to him forthwith.

  • @elegantlywasted5447
    @elegantlywasted54475 жыл бұрын

    Goshia is so heartbreaking

  • @larahilton7417

    @larahilton7417

    5 жыл бұрын

    Elegantly Wasted utterly broken.

  • @Nassim2fun
    @Nassim2fun5 жыл бұрын

    Its so sad.... these babies could have had both parents in their lives if it wasn’t for one selfish parent taking them away!!!!

  • @oxyjenn8089
    @oxyjenn80895 жыл бұрын

    This is heartbreaking. I would lose my mind if my child was abducted even by the other parent. I wouldn't stop until I got her back that's for sure. Prayers for you all.

  • @beautifuldiva0208

    @beautifuldiva0208

    2 жыл бұрын

    I agree

  • @dawnlizmc

    @dawnlizmc

    Жыл бұрын

    Special prayers for the children. Talk about being torn apart!

  • @creamycreamu2843
    @creamycreamu28435 жыл бұрын

    NOBODY ever wins in the end... Once a home is broken the child/children suffer in the END!

  • @donnamarie783
    @donnamarie7835 жыл бұрын

    Omg it broke my heart watching this. I am so glad Craig got his daughter back and I cried when he finally got her. If only all dad's we're like him. You have 2 very beautiful daughters ❤️

  • @Pau1ina21

    @Pau1ina21

    3 жыл бұрын

    what about the mom they both need to know how to work together for the kids no matter what country they choose to live in

  • @finnsnow2495

    @finnsnow2495

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Pau1ina21 That's true but remember she made the choice to leave and run with Crystal. Instead of be a good parent she was selfish and wanted them for herself as it makes it easier no long travel or coparenting. She has to face consequences for that. Unfortunately her daughter's will also face consequences of not having a mom. Cass literally has no seen her mom in years and will likely not for very long. I agree, both parents should be involved but it's going to take even longer and be more painful due to her choices. The best thing is for the dad to give them a stable life together and eventually the mom get to see and visit them

  • @mareek2007

    @mareek2007

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@finnsnow2495 Did you see the update?She was telling the truth about Craig and he has two other sons prior to his daughters that he abandoned.

  • @finnsnow2495

    @finnsnow2495

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mareek2007 Where are these updates?

  • @jasz6797

    @jasz6797

    Жыл бұрын

    @@finnsnow2495 You do not know the mother's reasons. She claimed that the father was abusive. What I saw, the way he kidnapped his daughter, who did not even remember him makes me believe that she was right. But that does not really matter, the little girl was about 4 years old when her own father decided to traumatize her. Since she was 14 months old when she left Cyprus, she simply could not remember neither her father or Cyprus- given her young age. He also presented her as a present for her older sister. Just listen to how he presents her to the older child 'Look what I got for you'. The "father" only thought of his own needs and interests, not the young child's. I was deeply disturbed by what I saw, and how shocked the little girl was when she was literally snatched from her home and family. That "man" is filth and a real child abuser.

  • @skunkrat01
    @skunkrat015 жыл бұрын

    Jesus Christ, I don't think my heart has ever thumped as hard as it did when they were grabbing Crystal. This is so evil, and they sad it right at the start, it's using the child as an object to punish the other party. Sick, sick people.

  • @hearme4581

    @hearme4581

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly that’s why the mother left in the first place. The dad went too far, which shows his extreme personality.

  • @randomvintagefilm273
    @randomvintagefilm2735 жыл бұрын

    It's safer to date within your culture, same religion and raised in same country. With divorce over 50% it is too high a risk to have kids.

  • @You_can_do_itt

    @You_can_do_itt

    4 жыл бұрын

    Exactly!

  • @jewelkim6374
    @jewelkim63745 жыл бұрын

    Holding back tears while watching. It breaks my heart that a spouse has to abduct their child for personal reasons that doesn’t even include the child. Culture or divorce aside, we should learn to accept each other or each situation’s fate. Let’s think of the rights of our child not ours. I do hope the polish mother will meet her baby soon. I am a mother myself and seeing her fighting back the tears during the interview makes my heart bleed.

  • @Angie_Slay
    @Angie_Slay28 күн бұрын

    I was assaulted and kidnapped stabbed and jumped from a car going over 55mph to get away in 2016 by my ex boyfriend which left me permanently disabled. And I almost killed my self after this happened but then I met someone just 3 days before I planned on taking my own life and he was a great friend to me actually my only friend and still is my only friend . Now he’s my husband. ❤ He saved me

  • @leelila8379
    @leelila83795 жыл бұрын

    And why does marta only want custody of crystal and not her other daughter?

  • @finnsnow2495

    @finnsnow2495

    3 жыл бұрын

    She did. Remember she tried to come back and abudct her but the father stopped it.

  • @saram2446

    @saram2446

    3 жыл бұрын

    she wanted for her other daughter too they said. She also tried to abduct her but it did not work out

  • @cccc72
    @cccc725 жыл бұрын

    To see Goshia pain is extremely sad.

  • @katytaylor681
    @katytaylor6815 жыл бұрын

    And Talia's bereft mother - simply heartbreaking.

  • @irinagrimble2813
    @irinagrimble2813 Жыл бұрын

    My heart breaks for Gosia 😢 not sure if it’s a possibility for her but at this point I’d have gone to a “child recovery” ..3 years is just too long… a child needs her mother

  • @janylabuck5652
    @janylabuck56525 жыл бұрын

    This is so sad

  • @julianbell9161

    @julianbell9161

    5 жыл бұрын

    justjanylathings love Alexa can you play Despacito

  • @user-oq2po4mj5i
    @user-oq2po4mj5i5 жыл бұрын

    My child have been abducted on 29/08/2017 in Russia. I never had any private time again with my son.i never played with him alone, I never had any moment with him private, I am always victim of violence. I wish him health. He will understand...

  • @DebraBing
    @DebraBing3 жыл бұрын

    I just pray that these children will one day be able to access social media and will know the truth about how hard their parents fought for them. It matters.

  • @carrieparamore-mccannon6332
    @carrieparamore-mccannon63325 жыл бұрын

    If my husband and I were to separate, I could never not allow him to see our daughter. She's his daughter too. She loves him very much and he feels the same for her. The only way I could keep a child from their father is if it was for the child's safety...like if he was abusive or something like that.

  • @Senura101
    @Senura1015 жыл бұрын

    Wow just wow 😮 Humans are a pure mix of demons and angels but the problem is the angels are outnumbered 😞

  • @mynameislove7605

    @mynameislove7605

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sad but true 💔

  • @VeganJustToAnnoyYou

    @VeganJustToAnnoyYou

    5 жыл бұрын

    demons and angels are made up.

  • @andrewvos2156

    @andrewvos2156

    5 жыл бұрын

    Possibly but Angels are 100 times stronger.

  • @andrewvos2156

    @andrewvos2156

    5 жыл бұрын

    Reed Tardio No they are real. Seen a Demon. And my exgf seen an Angel

  • @VeganJustToAnnoyYou

    @VeganJustToAnnoyYou

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@andrewvos2156 idiot

  • @avi10000
    @avi10000 Жыл бұрын

    If one parent abducts a child back again, then the child is still lacking a parent. Not only that, the child is snatched out if the environment they got used to. OMG, what a mess...

  • @brooks3545
    @brooks35455 жыл бұрын

    Children should never be a pawn this is horrible

  • @jacquelinenack573
    @jacquelinenack5735 жыл бұрын

    We need a no fly list for kids🤔❤

  • @valeriecarpenter4631

    @valeriecarpenter4631

    5 жыл бұрын

    Jacqueline Nack well it is that away if you have a child and the other parent is actively and their life and on their birth certificate and it's established that they're the parent you cannot take that child out of the country without the other parent's approval. That is how it is in America anyway

  • @crispydyslexic6628

    @crispydyslexic6628

    5 жыл бұрын

    That is true with the USA. One European woman wanted to travel to USA with her teenage grandchild and needed even a clearance letter from both of the parents to get the teen a flying ticket. Very good. They had a nice two week stay and came back accordingly.

  • @atlflgirl9634

    @atlflgirl9634

    4 жыл бұрын

    In the United States some states will keep from parents from crossing state lines!

  • @finnsnow2495

    @finnsnow2495

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@valeriecarpenter4631 See that's the issue with these international relationships because a lot of them have split custody or visitation so they are approved to leave by both parents so they can visit one. But, what usually happens is that the parent goes into hiding and refuses to bring the kid back or flees to another country while in another forgin one. That's why these abroad relationships are such a risk. Because you want both parents to be involved but every time you send your kid to see your ex they might never come back, it's all on trust.

  • @christineclarevilgos-mitch1955
    @christineclarevilgos-mitch19555 жыл бұрын

    Awww, did Crystal remember him right after she calmed down? She looks so happy to be with her daddy

  • @anjab4475

    @anjab4475

    5 жыл бұрын

    Because it's fake. She wouldn't even say a word in English. And in the car; she is not speaking Polish properly. Just three words repeated with very strong English accent.

  • @bisexualsmoothtalker1270

    @bisexualsmoothtalker1270

    5 жыл бұрын

    Anja B Maybe because she’s been in Poland for 2 whole years and was pretty small when she was abducted? Of course she might not know a lick of English!

  • @anjab4475

    @anjab4475

    5 жыл бұрын

    You missunderstood. She spoke English too well. But not Polish. Too fake

  • @fatcatfunnies6216

    @fatcatfunnies6216

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes something is very wrong. She kissed that man that was helping the father get the daughter back. That was just out of no where . Like what child does that? What child kisses a complete stranger and smiles....@@anjab4475

  • @anjab4475

    @anjab4475

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@bassettt3660 You missunderstood. She didnt speak Polish in the car. She sounded like an English actress pretending to speak Polish.

  • @painfreesunrise
    @painfreesunrise5 жыл бұрын

    I hope somebody who sees this will be able to help Talias Mum! I feel deeply sorry for her. And I would let the ex husband rot in prison until she gets her daughter back ! Girls, better think twice if you wanna have a child with a man from certain cultural backgrounds!!!

  • @Libbathegreat
    @Libbathegreat5 жыл бұрын

    One thing I don’t understand: when the abducting parents show up to the airport with these children, without their legal guardian, how is there not some alert not to allow them to board a plane? It seems like when there’s a divorce where one or more of the partners is a foreign national, it would be very simple and sensible to put some sort of alert system in place to not allow a parent to abscond with a child they don’t have custody of, especially in this age of national security mania and no-fly lists. I really wish someone would enlighten me about this.

  • @jadaiswhatimcalled

    @jadaiswhatimcalled

    3 жыл бұрын

    Usually because both parents are on the child’s documents. All of these kids were born in “loving” families & homes before being abducted and taken abroad. You can’t predict that your child will be abducted and taken literally thousands of miles away...

  • @roxannevugts672
    @roxannevugts6725 жыл бұрын

    So sad, children are not possessions they deserve both parents. I can't imagine what they go through.

  • @YONCE8701
    @YONCE87015 жыл бұрын

    Her children are her life? Yeh ok.......sisters are so happy to be 2gether! All that matters

  • @chassaucer4995

    @chassaucer4995

    4 жыл бұрын

    i was wondering that too... she is still fighting for crystal in cypress well what about cassie this whole time?and she still isnt bothered.. she has two daughters but for some reason is ok with only having the one and could care less if the father keeps the other.. well the father has it correct he has 2 daughters and he wants them both and wants them be together... the way it should be.. abd they are sooooo very beautiful btw!!!

  • @SKC193
    @SKC1935 жыл бұрын

    Anyone ever see the movie with Sally Field, “Not Without My Daughter”? It’s old but based on a true story.

  • @poppyfield1619

    @poppyfield1619

    5 жыл бұрын

    yes I have seen that story it was very sad but the girl grew up to be a very strong woman and did not hold a grudge against her father for abducting her

  • @kimmy4714

    @kimmy4714

    3 жыл бұрын

    @ bchlovr oh yes I actually read the book before I even watched the movie & reading the book was even more intense than the movie portrayed. The deep descriptions of torment, torture, fear & so much more was so heavy to read & especially given that you're reading a reality that so many women& children have endured & continue on doing so left me heartbroken for those who have found themselves suffering the same experiences.😢😢

  • @picelbud
    @picelbud5 жыл бұрын

    It’s super traumatic for the child so I’m split between him having a relationship with his child and his child being traumatized because all she’s ever known in life is now gonna change. But now seeing the end of the video she’s super happy realizing she’s with her daddy.

  • @OakleyGamerGirl
    @OakleyGamerGirl5 жыл бұрын

    The mother who wrote that letter need get the guy who had saved crystal to do same for her. Same with the father who still don’t have their daughter.

  • @larahilton7417

    @larahilton7417

    5 жыл бұрын

    CosmicSoCraftie Absolutely, but where her husband had taken the child they favour the father. It’s a different ball game getting a child out of a country like that. She was unrecognisable from those pictures, it had almost broken her. There should be more help for parents in this situation. Thank god for the charities like REUNITE.

  • @dawntaylor4210

    @dawntaylor4210

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes I totally agree ,that should happen ,poor woman !!!

  • @hypatiaserena5695

    @hypatiaserena5695

    3 жыл бұрын

    No, she doesn't. I feel for her, but this isn't the way to do it. Not only will the child be scarred for life, they may also end up with the wrong parent. Read this update on Craig, Crystal's father, and judge for yourself: www.news.com.au/entertainment/tv/drugs-and-desperation-in-60-minutes-case-as-lebanon-saga-continues/news-story/6dcda4e6997c93022c7595e46be9c056

  • @chassaucer4995
    @chassaucer49954 жыл бұрын

    i feel gutted for those parents missing their babies.. its so sad.. Gotchia is so pittiful.. id like to know what happened with her and the other dad (omina's father)

  • @SJ-lt6yf
    @SJ-lt6yf5 жыл бұрын

    This issue caused by not sharing custody and using the child for revenge

  • @gigilovesgod8825
    @gigilovesgod88252 жыл бұрын

    18:45 What kind of Mother separate their own children 🙄🤔We all have Choices in life, normal people make choices that is good for all!!!

  • @lynkent677
    @lynkent6775 жыл бұрын

    That ittle girl must of been very unhappy with her mother ? 6hours and she is kissing her Daddy who she hasnt seen for 2years.....She looks so happy with her sister and Daddy....One story with a happy ending.....Very sad for any Mother/Father who have their child taken.....

  • @gina2190
    @gina21905 жыл бұрын

    so sad when this happens, my partner he never even got to see his baby the lady ran away just b4 the child was born, all because the nan {girls mum} never liked him. Its caused a never ending pain for my loving kind hubby. A truly NEVER ending source of heartbreak.

  • @moya9331
    @moya93315 жыл бұрын

    So touching

  • @Barbara-vk8gf
    @Barbara-vk8gf3 жыл бұрын

    I am so tense waiting for Crystal and the grandparents to come back and I have looked at the comments and I know how it turns out. I cannot imagine how the dad is handling it.

  • @TheHighPriestessStudio
    @TheHighPriestessStudio5 жыл бұрын

    This is heartbreaking, I am divorced and have children, I have never ever prevented their father contact, sadly by his choice he chose to chase other women rather than spend some quality time, let alone contribute one cent toward them.

  • @MummaMia5
    @MummaMia52 жыл бұрын

    I realise I sound like a jaded person when saying this and my heart breaks for these parents, but this is why I did NOT end up continuing my relationship with a man from the Middle East. This has been a very real problem for decades and will continue to be.

  • @theo9743
    @theo97435 жыл бұрын

    These documentaries are amazing

  • @RamonaRayTodosSantosBCS
    @RamonaRayTodosSantosBCS5 жыл бұрын

    There's a fine line between giving up and letting go. Sometimes one is forced to let go.

  • @angielagou

    @angielagou

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ramona Ray like the biblical story where the king knew who the real mother was simply because she let the baby go to relieve it from feeling pain.

  • @celineho5213
    @celineho52135 жыл бұрын

    I really hope the court will give the full custody of two girls two the girls father in my opinion. Not all mothers is angels .

  • @larahilton7417

    @larahilton7417

    5 жыл бұрын

    celine ho She’d proved herself to be completely untrustworthy. Completely. You couldn’t co parent with someone that had effectively tried to remove you entirely from your child’s life like that. However much it would benefit the children to see their mother. There’s nothing to say she wouldn’t try it again. When asked for a comment by the documentary makers at the end, it was all about HER needs, HER devastation. But it was no different from what she’d been comfortable putting her child and their father through. He’d been devastated too.

  • @sewsed

    @sewsed

    Жыл бұрын

    Agree. Seems she was being brought up by the grandparents anyway mum was hardly there!

  • @katieg7718
    @katieg77183 жыл бұрын

    thank you for showing the fathers side. fathers are scrutinized by media and the general consensus is that moms can take better care. thats not true. i have so much respect for these people, and especially the fathers in this situation that dont get the help they deserve just because they're men.

  • @bisexualsmoothtalker1270
    @bisexualsmoothtalker12705 жыл бұрын

    Who abducts their own child to a country in war/civil war?! That person just sees their kids as property and not their children!

  • @neisci
    @neisci5 жыл бұрын

    Having children with immigrants is a huge risk. When you split or if the other parent wants to go back home, nobody knows what can happen. I live in a 3rd word country and I would never have a child with an immigrant who has not saddled in my country. By saddle I mean having a good job or business things like that. People who don't have nothing to lose are capable of anything. Ps:In my country you can't take a child out of the country without the other parent's consent. I don't understand how those parents are pulling it off.

  • @persethea6611

    @persethea6611

    5 жыл бұрын

    foreign or not having children with someone is such a risk anymore.. relative of mine cried out for help as her bf the father of her baby was abusive to her. her and the baby was rushed out of the home middle of the night in pjs nothing more.. cps got involved and took her son away from her and placed him in his grandmother on dads sides care.. she has been fighting over a year they tell her all these reasons why she cant have him back which she either proves she met all there requests or that their information is wrong.. she had a woman who was running the parenting class tell her even if she did everything she was asked they wouldnt even think of returning him till he was 3 or older and then they would argue that hes well adjusted to his new home and if she loved him she wouldnt tear him away from the only family hes ever known so they would try to convince her to give him up :(

  • @marcianaanthony1798
    @marcianaanthony17985 жыл бұрын

    I would die if someone took my son he is 10 I would travel to the ends of the earth till I found him

  • @starlight_44
    @starlight_445 жыл бұрын

    Awful parent being selfish and stupid to another parent😞, only the children suffer, from not knowing the other parent.👎👎👎

  • @lk4429

    @lk4429

    5 жыл бұрын

    That is the best reply, no one is thinking of the kids, I know my parents ruin me for the rest of my life.

  • @suzetteslinkard3432
    @suzetteslinkard34325 жыл бұрын

    My heart goes out to these families and the one's trying to help them

  • @Kryptongurl84
    @Kryptongurl845 жыл бұрын

    I’m so glad the father got Crystal back.

  • @larahilton7417

    @larahilton7417

    5 жыл бұрын

    Kryptongurl84 So am I. She destroyed the trust you need to co parent. It’s so sad. You’d be unlikely to share custody with someone that effectively tried to remove you from your child’s life. The father would, quite rightly, be scared she’d try it again. I watched a documentary years ago about Fathers for Justice. One of the saddest documentaries I’ve ever watched. One father watched his son sleep all through the night as he hadn’t wanted to miss a moment of the time he was allocated with his son. His sobs as he tried to speak were unbearable. His wife had remarried to an Australian and so she had taken the children there. Effectively leaving him cut out of their lives and a new husband raising them. The courts were so steeped in favour of the mother that his role in their lives had been seen as a mere footnote.

  • @annaconway313

    @annaconway313

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm not, look into his background

  • @UsernamesForDummies
    @UsernamesForDummies5 жыл бұрын

    Just heartbreaking. This is so very sad.

  • @simonesimone1101
    @simonesimone11015 жыл бұрын

    Omg how evil 💔 I would go to their house and bring all of my family and not leave that country until my baby was in my arms. Absolutely disgusting . That poor women writing a letter to her mother in law that she should not have too, she is the mother not the gran. Horrific !

  • @nadiar6848

    @nadiar6848

    4 жыл бұрын

    You'd just get arrested

  • @angML1
    @angML15 жыл бұрын

    Don’t have a child with some if you plan to leave the country. If you have a child, you owe it to that child to stay close even if you are not with the other parent. Each parent should stay close together while apart because the child deserves that. Don’t take the relationship between either parent away from a child. If you are not someone strong enough to do that, don’t have any children at all. In the end, that poor baby is the one that will be most hurt and that hurt will come back to bite when they’re older. Somehow, someway. If you love your child, find enough love in your heart to make sure they are able to know both parents.

  • @You_can_do_itt
    @You_can_do_itt4 жыл бұрын

    Woman stop dating foreginers. Different religion, culture is always causing problems. Or you want lost your child at least like this woman from this documentry.

  • @chriscook460
    @chriscook4605 жыл бұрын

    they need to get an international private investigators

  • @Danielle97165
    @Danielle971655 жыл бұрын

    What !!!!!! This is heartbreaking why would anyone do this 💔

  • @angiemarie1667
    @angiemarie16675 жыл бұрын

    My heart is crying

  • @curlyjen350playsroblox6
    @curlyjen350playsroblox65 жыл бұрын

    Who’s cutting the onions?

  • @Abdullah-dr8xs

    @Abdullah-dr8xs

    5 жыл бұрын

    ur mum probabely

  • @riverdeep399

    @riverdeep399

    5 жыл бұрын

    Curlyjen350 Plays Roblox I suspect I will by the end!

  • @afraaldhaheri9427

    @afraaldhaheri9427

    5 жыл бұрын

    Idk

  • @rankispanki
    @rankispanki5 жыл бұрын

    2:50 omg clean up your desktop ahhhh

  • @BhappyD

    @BhappyD

    5 жыл бұрын

    I don’t know how I didn’t see that until reading your comment. At first when I saw your comment, I thought you were referring to the top of her actual desk, and I was thinking that was strange because it didn’t look that messy to me, and then I looked up at her *computer* desktop... Holy cow! That would drive me mad! I don’t know how she can work like that. The file icons aren’t even organized into rows and columns, it’s just a jumbled mess. I just don’t understand how it even gets to that point...🤨

  • @foxylady9110

    @foxylady9110

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hahaha ...glad I'm not the only one that thought the same thing..

  • @riverdeep399

    @riverdeep399

    5 жыл бұрын

    Justin Rankin OCD?

  • @bobos07

    @bobos07

    5 жыл бұрын

    lmao

  • @ownerofshop844

    @ownerofshop844

    5 жыл бұрын

    thank goodness someone said it

  • @nora4981
    @nora49814 жыл бұрын

    It’s sad when these kids are abducted to barbaric countries ... especially girls.

  • @milenaivanova6062
    @milenaivanova60625 жыл бұрын

    So sad ;(

  • @kaarntaylor306
    @kaarntaylor3062 жыл бұрын

    Such a sad situation either way! Heart wrenching!

  • @aureenzaka8991
    @aureenzaka89915 жыл бұрын

    My baby daddy is Brit, he dint ever wanna see our girl being born....so i hope he doesn't one day come and kidnap my little one here in the US.

  • @Libbathegreat

    @Libbathegreat

    5 жыл бұрын

    aureen zaka I think I can put your mind at ease there. In the US there are measures in place to prevent parents getting on international planes with children they don’t have custody of, whereas it seems in Britain they make it very easy for them. Not saying it wouldn’t be possible to happen some other way, like illegal border crossing or something, but that would take far more of an effort than your baby daddy seems to have exhibited up to now.

  • @BhappyD
    @BhappyD5 жыл бұрын

    This is just heartbreaking. The children, the parents, the families, nobody really “wins” in the end. Especially the children. I can understand a parent wanting to protect their child if the other parent is abusive, but with no proof, the last thing you should be doing is abducting your own child and hiding them in another country, away from everything familiar to them and away from everyone they know and love. That’s abuse in and of itself, and is no better than what you claim to be protecting them from. Nothing good comes from child abduction. A child doesn’t deserve to live a hidden life of fear and lies, forced to be separated from one of their parents. That is no life for a child. The only thing this comes down to is selfishness on the abductor’s part. If you decide to have a child with someone, you have to accept the fact that you will be closely connected to that person for as long as you or or child is alive, even if you decide to end your romantic relationship with them. In the case of abuse, there are protocols that need to be followed to ensure you obtain the proper evidence needed to keep your child safe and secure. *Never* take the law into your own hands. If you’re truly trying to protect your child from abuse, you need to think about the fact that you can’t protect your child when you yourself end up in a prison cell. Your child deserves so much better than that. Every child deserves to have their mother and father in their lives, as long as both parents are capable and willing to love and care for that child. As a parent, it doesn’t matter what your feelings are about your ex. They may not have been a good romantic partner to you, but that doesn’t automatically make them an unfit parent. So many of the worlds biggest problems would be solved if adults just started acting like adults. A child is not an object you possess. They should never be tossed around and used as leverage between feuding parents in a tug of war, like a piece of meat in a dog fight. It is absolutely infuriating that parents, *grown adults,* behave this way. Children always come first. *Always.* There are no excuses for child abduction. God bless those precious babies, as well as the parents they were taken from. I also pray for the other family members caught up in the cross hairs. There’s nothing easy about a situation as complex as this. Ultimately, the full blame should be placed on the abductor. While I don’t necessarily agree with the other family members assisting in the abduction and hiding of the child, we also have no idea what they have been told by the abductor. They may not even realize the gravity of the situation at hand, and probably feel that they are doing what is best, based on the information/lies they are being fed. The screams of the grandmother when Crystal was rescued said it all. That was chilling. And again, I reiterate that *nothing* good could ever come of this. Nothing but pain and heartache for everyone involved. I’m glad that there are people like the man in this video who are fighting on the front lines to physically be the one to bring these kids back home. The fact that he pled guilty and spent 10 weeks in prison, just to immediately return back to the same line of work just tells you how genuinely passionate he is about it. God bless him, as well as the other organizations fighting to reunite these children and bring them back home. They are the real heroes.💕

  • @roxannevugts672
    @roxannevugts6725 жыл бұрын

    Heart breaking

  • @mariebelle3493
    @mariebelle34933 жыл бұрын

    I totally understand!🙏🏼 it take alot of courage

  • @netasezan9300
    @netasezan93005 жыл бұрын

    The sadest thing i ever saw

  • @lk4429

    @lk4429

    5 жыл бұрын

    I am sorry to tell sadder events with children happen everyday, and I mean everyday

  • @CherieDeDieu
    @CherieDeDieu3 жыл бұрын

    I am a family lawyer who sees a lot of this every single day. It's sad that when a couple disagree or separate, the greatest victims are the children. 😥 I have one where when the father was given custody, he sexually assaulted the child. #Horrible

  • @wendyweiss4469
    @wendyweiss44695 жыл бұрын

    So the mother takes the girl, then the father takes the girl.........bet mother will take the girl again. That poor child is going to be traumatized. They are acting like babies. So disgusting.

  • @dawntaylor4210
    @dawntaylor42105 жыл бұрын

    Oh my god that poor polish girl ,who has lost her baby daughter since she was 3 mths, the woman who is suppose to help her makes her feel like the bad one ,because her ex is in prison for 6 yrs ,his family has lost a son and brother ,"boo hoo " is all I've got to say ,and then she goes on write a letter ,as the family think she is angry with them !!!! Wtf ,she has every right to be ,that baby will not even know her mum ,because of these monsters ,the whole thing is disgraceful ;!!!!!!!

  • @antoshkin_domik4511
    @antoshkin_domik45115 жыл бұрын

    Look at these heart-broken devastated parents, who can barely hold their tears in front of the camera. And then look at Madeline Mccains parents...