Stop. I am literally laying unmotivated and sad about how alone I feel AND THEN I SEE THIS NOTIFICATION wow I needed this.

@fra.c

3 ай бұрын

same

@superstudentpk

3 ай бұрын

You too?😭😭😭😭

@fifiella8710

3 ай бұрын

I just searched exact videos like this today and then she posts this😮

@FirstName-xt1gk

3 ай бұрын

We’re all together in this rn?🤝🏼

@fifiella8710

3 ай бұрын

@@FirstName-xt1gkYeah😭😭😭

I literally cried while watching this video- I just left a toxic friend group and am now alone in the school bathrooms half the time like a stereotypical teen movie. I watched this video and it made me shed a tear- Tam, you’ve given me hope and made me genuinely start to feel comfortable with being alone.

@tanvi.k.8

3 ай бұрын

as someone who's been through the exact same situation - trust me, it gets better. you'll either find a lovely, energetically positive friend group, or you'll be content by yourself. much love

@sunvavachi

3 ай бұрын

I've been there. It'll get better. Keep to yourself and work on you. Weight lifting kept me sane during a similar experience.

@bhavyasharma2255

3 ай бұрын

I m literally dealing w the same situation trust me it is just for good!

@nandini.y

3 ай бұрын

been there for a long time like this as i moved to so many schools, but trust me its for your good. maybe rn it doesnt feel right but it gets better, either u learn to do things by ur own and u have yourself or you will get good people later. hoping for positive things and love for you 💗

@Yoon_Entertainment111

3 ай бұрын

I spent half of my year alone too. 🫂🫂

Everything happens for a reason guys. Hard periods of loneliness (it can be positive for many btw) teaches you, that you only got yourself at the end of the day. Everything whats meant for you will find you, but you have to find and know yourself first, without other people influences.

@SubtleAnd

3 ай бұрын

You can say that a thousand times, being alone makes us re-discover our purpose in life even though it hurts sometimes.

@joannajfhf1322

10 күн бұрын

I've never seen wiser comment. It really shifted my reality. Like reaaally. Tysm i hope every good thing in life finds you

THE ELDER SISTER EVEREYBODY NEEDS

"What was I made for" always makes me emotional. Having it play in the background along with this topic really hits deep. Thank you for a great video 💛

@iolanda04

7 күн бұрын

As I huge billie fan I can approve 🫶🏻

You’re my safe space 🫂🥹

@tamkaur

3 ай бұрын

😘😘😘😘

@anvitayadav1201

3 ай бұрын

literally!

@Manno890

3 ай бұрын

Fr

Literally clicked so quickly that my screen froze

@tamkaur

3 ай бұрын

😂😂

@ShiAnniii

3 ай бұрын

DAYUM 😮😂

@desibish

3 ай бұрын

@@tamkaur Tam, do you have telegram or something because I keep getting notifications from a non verified acc to converse with them about a request that i made,

I am just 17 years old and the thought of being alone, having no partner, being judged beacuse of some past mistakes.... i was feeling lonely and not understood by anyone.. cause of this i began overthinking too... really needed this at the time. THANK YOU ❤

It's nothing bad to be alone, but honestly it would be nice to have just one friend with whom I could go out and do girly things. I have never experienced such friendship and I would love to have a bestie like a sister 🎀

Who's cutting onions?

Hi sis I'm a high school girl from India.... And i was feeling so depressed and lonely in class coz I seat alone and eat lunch alone I really needed it Thank you so much sis❤ Love yaa!!

@avareadss

3 ай бұрын

me too- if I saw u sitting alone I would definitely come say hi. You seem rlly sweet, i’m sorry we’re both alone; it’s not forever

@Luccccccccccci

3 ай бұрын

Hi queen I know this message wasn't meant for me, but just remind you that diamonds weren't shaped in sunlight and gold, but in shadow and dirt. Yet they are the most treasured, most beautiful, most loved. This will be your destiny, and you may be lonely now, but that's because you are a sun surrounded by planets. Just because you are alone, doesn't mean you aren't needed or loved. Remember this❤

@dhayapooranee.s1401

3 ай бұрын

@@Luccccccccccci oh my that was good...

@Luccccccccccci

3 ай бұрын

@@dhayapooranee.s1401 thank you🤍

@Keiron-pw6sl

3 ай бұрын

​@@avareadssI sometimes wish I was gone even when you try to talk to family your still alone I basically stay in my room everyday

Leaving this comment here , so that i can look back at how much progress ive made on loving myself and my own company

"to people in their twenties" meanwhile here I am, turning 33 in a month, 2 years ago I realised I have cptsd, so I'm literally only now figuring out who I am, what I want for myself, after a breakup, temporarily living at my mom's place, paying off old debts and basically isolated from the world and possibilities of meeting new people like a hermit. Guys, it's never too late to figure out your life and everyone has a different timeline, there's no expiry date on that. Thank you Tam for this video, it was much needed as recently I often have this thought that I'm wasting the best years of my life and I needed a reminder that in fact, I'm preparing for the best years of my life 💖

@MonikaDaddarwal

3 ай бұрын

more power to you, you absolute amazing:)

@paigecombs6005

3 ай бұрын

yes there’s other lessons youve learned in your 20s though that others in their 20s haven’t. now’s your time for this one!

@andreinam5531

3 ай бұрын

Exactly in the same boat as you. Thanks for helping me feel like I’m not alone ❤

@peachesandpoets

3 ай бұрын

37. Same here. Don't discount the arrested development from trauma. You were trying to keep yourself alive. Sending love.

@DiablaHikaru-Ness

3 ай бұрын

33 here myself. I'd like to say it's not too late for us

I needed this....just a divine timing ❤

Needed this. I left my fiancé of 5 years, my home, my friends and my town all in one weekend. It’s been so lonely but it’s amazing to be reminded it’s for my higher self. Thank you so much for everything you do, Tam!!

@letticiamutama6860

3 ай бұрын

I remember this was me 3-4 years ago.

@mercedespastoor5177

3 ай бұрын

wow ur so strong ❤

@diyuxo

Ай бұрын

how are you now???

@lin3378

9 күн бұрын

@Rajveerkaur34

5 күн бұрын

More and more power to you girl!💙

I was feeling alone today but instead of staying in bawling my eyes out about it i went out with my own self

Am I the only one that feels lonely rn even tho I have so many amazing friends and family ?

@jujuyun4796

Ай бұрын

me too sometimes I just feel so disconnected with reality

@lazybooklover8167

14 күн бұрын

Yes so true I have friends but I feel lonely like no one is here for me

@AddyIbbotson

14 күн бұрын

@@lazybooklover8167 I hope it gets better for u🫶🏻🫶🏻, when I commented that, it was 2 months ago, and now I feel sm better!! I feel loved by the ppl in my life and I’m so grateful. I rlly hope u stop feeling this way, and I hope yk how amazing u are💕Have a great day

@elisa-asile

7 күн бұрын

yep. i have amazing friends and have a supportive family. yet i feel so lonely and like im falling behind. all my friends have great relationships & i sometimes feel envious of them. sometimes i also realize that i tend to suffer in silence and i never share my burdens with my friends because i don’t want to overwhelm them. after watching this video it made me feel a lot better though. they’re my friends for a reason and i’ve realized that they’re there for me even when i don’t seek it out

I feel like the longer I wait, the bigger the blessing that I’ll get ❤

The "living in one of your answered prayers" resonated with me the most.

This video made me cry, ugly cry. I really needed this. Ever since my breakup, I have been feeling so alone and like my life is falling apart. This was such a comfort. I stopped and took a moment to appreciate all of the things I already achieved, all the progress I have made. Ive been good with being alone in the past, but this loneliness is even stronger now and more intense, which only means my life will become even BETTER than in the past. If you're reading this, you are not alone in being alone. Lets all take this period of our life to become the most strongest version of ourselves

you helped me sm through being stronger and saved me . sending all love to you!

the way i manifested a ''watch this when'' video from you a few days ago and u actually uploaded it. u have no clue how much i needed this. thanks for such comforting videos tam!

I read most of the comments and that people are sad and lonely. And for them, i'll say it will get better, it always does. But today, i'm so so grateful that i'm happy.. I have felt lonely in past but rn i have myself and some of the best people. I actually lost a very healthy friendship 2weeks ago but bcs of tam i have put it in past and is healing very fast! ❤ I just wanted to express my gratitude and gratefulness for the happy moments i have in life today❤ Even though i'm so sick today and haven't been productive this week, i'm still happy and grateful❤

@musicismydna

Ай бұрын

❤❤❤

I honestly started watching this video not really thinking it was super necessary for me, and now i'm finishing it with tears in my eyes

this video made me emotional. i understand myself, i learn from my past, my experiences, my intentions and how i seek to change my mindset, my lifestyle, how i treat myself with self-love, with the motivation to move on and work through our pains and struggles. we have the power to change our lives by accepting ourselves for who we are.

I was genuinely crying a sec ago on my trauma your video seems a giant hug . Thanks Tam 😊

Thanks a lot. I started my solitude phase a bit more than half a year before and I am learning so much about myself and what is more important: learn how to love and accept me. You are helping me a lot. I see you every week looking for inspiration and motivation. As you said in one of the videos, you are part of my closest five people. Thanks for everything

i literally needed this right now

Being a single child you feel like an elder sister to me who always understands me 🫂

omg literally perfect timing 😭 I had just broken up with one of my friends, I thought I was feeling fine with it, but today I was sitting in a class with 2 popular girls who were talking about their friends, it reminded me that I still hadn’t “fit in” and that i never will anywhere, this video popped up right after school today and Im feeling so much more at peace right now.

loneliness just randomly hits me thank u so much for posting this

Her timing is unmatched ❤

This video feels like a hug, thank you!

you're right about being by yourself is a beautiful thing, i used to be such an extroverted person like not even extroverted just mad crazy, then i started working on myself and my goals, it distanced me from people, from my friends, but it's a good feeling, knowing you can work on your goals without anyone bringing you down constantly, is a great feeling but a great sacrifice.

@jiyag2707

3 ай бұрын

still i'm just 16, i miss going out with friends, ik it's mostly superficial but when i see people with their friends on social media it makes me yearn for it too

That's exactly what I needed right now. Thank you so much for helping me and many many other people going through a tough time. We love you ❤

divine timing so real

I was writing a letter to my younger self who went through so many heartbreak and was lonely her whole teenage but i was struggling what to write and how to comfort her and then i saw this notification, i am crying right now this is what i needed the most thank u so much for this and i love u sooo much ❤

I can't thank you enough and I was amazed how you posted this right when i needed it. crying watching this

I was just watching your video on "feeling sad" one and than you posted this you're always at the right time ❤❤

I'm re-watching this video after 3 months but this time it hit me differently I almost cried. Love you Tam.

Even at 30, Im still feeling lost and lonely. Thank you for the wisdom you shared.

You’re such a beautiful person inside and out. This video helped me so much. I love your content

I feel like I manifested this video into existence. I am so happy this found me, my heart feels so at peace and I feel seen. Thank you.

you are helping me to heal everyday, from the bottom of my heart thank you, Tam

the timing is so perfect tam! Love you!

It's EXACTLY the RIGHT VIDEO at the RIGHT TIME . I was literally feeling lonely and I noticed how much I called other people and then I thought to myself I need to do some inner working and to learn how to love myself again and feel comfortable with myself and take myself out on a date or try new things or learn something new. And I take this video as a sign.

thank you so much, I'm a girl in my early teens and your videos have helped me gain so much more confidence in myself but I can't help but have these thoughts sometimes. This video was so reassuring to me and really helped me, although I've only been watching your videos for a short time your videos have had such a big impact on me, you might be my favorite self improvement creator so far. You really are like the big sister I never had

i love your mindset and energy, you always give me such a good vibe 💗

At first I didn't even realize how much I needed to hear these words. I'm a freshman in college, 300 km away from home and it all hit me SO hard that now I feel like I know NOTHING. And this hurts so bad and now it seems that everyone expects me to just read in stars how to solve problems I wasn't really aware of/didn't think might be problems (if that makes sense) and that made me isolate and feel more lonely than ever and the thing is it wasn't even the "productive" isolation/loneliness. I'm a bit relieved that I'm clearly not alone in this and hopeful that I'll be able to make use of your inspiring words

I actually started taking care of myself & spend time with myself thanks to you! Tam you truly changed my life. Thank you so much & sending love to you❤

i cry while watching ur video - today i feel of low,wasted my time ,insecure,and feel like im not their were i want to be but when u said im feeling live for first time and still growing and that im just a teenage and its ok to do things worng its my firts time to try somthing new and every thing is for my better ----- thank u tam sis i wish u get more love , happens,success in ur life

absolutely perfect timing i’ve been waiting for another one or these

you are special. hope you’re getting all of the blessings that are meant for you in this world. thank you.

You don’t know how much you have helped me lately, thank u with all my heart for being here ❤

came across this when i needed it most. thank you tam

Tam, you are so so wise. Normally I am totally fine with being alone, I enjoy my solitude, but today somehow I felt like I was completely alone in this world although I have friends and families. And your comment that my body has something to tell me when feeling like this hit me hard! Also I'm actually always with myself when I wish I had someone, what a realization ha. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom. I'm way older than you but learning a lot from you.

Wow this came at the perfect time! Thank you for articulating realistic perspectives of loneliness, I have been having a tough time trying to find ways to soothe & coach myself through this period of my life! Being someone in their 30's and finding myself without friends or a partner has made me acutely aware of my loneliness but I know it is just a season, not a permanency.

omg I was literally crying at the beginning of the video, but then I didn't realize when I started to feel calmer than ever

It’s so crazy that you uploaded this video when I am feeling exactly like that. Thank you so much, I wish I could hug you right now 😭💓

This got me hugging and apologizing to myself for the shit I put myself through this week 💔 I’ve been on a self love journey for the past couple of months and this week has been rough and I acted like a hurt little child and that was coming from a place of trauma and insecurity and I dont blame her for showing up every once in a while she’s been through a lot and expecting her to heal completely with a few months of inner work would be unfair. I’ll be there for her forever. Thanks Tam.❤

The part about ‘letting people adopt me’ hit hard. Been thinking it for a while but you articulated it really well. Needed this today, thank you.

Tam! You’re like a sister I never had. Thank you for giving a beautiful perspective towards life 🤍

You’ve changed my life. The way you express your advice and the around overall just ENERGY, that you channel and video give has changed my entire life. I’ve moved out , I’m living on my own for the very first time, and the anxiety that’s controlled SO MUCH of my life is settling down and I 1000% believe that you have a been a huge part of that. Thank you very much for your content ❤️

Tam, I have alr turned into a young adult, 18y/o. And I've learned so many things from you, this has boost into loving myself much more and believing that there're more to come for me. As a Kaur myself, I'm so glad you're willingly sharing these motivation videos for us all. Thank youuu 💓✨

This is so beautiful. You really made me feel i really have come so far. And its all because of the times i stayed alone and figured my emotions. Thank you.

I'm literally crying right now, because of your words that touched me so deeply. Thank you so much, Tam for all of the effort you put into helping others. You're angel ❤

Tam, thank you for everything, your channel is literally my comfort place. Everytime i feel like i'm hearing big sis advices, love you.💖

thank you so much for this. i needed to hear it ALL.

Thank you so much for making this video! I'm going through a huge transition in my life and loneliness is something I've been struggling with. You're amazing and inspiring me to be the best version of myself💓

This is insane ! I felt so lonely and sad the whole day and this popped up

I am 28 years old and I took a massive change last year by removing friends who I have been friends with for 10 + in my life who know longer align with me. I am currently in transition period and it feels so good and I have never felt so much peace and I am so excited to have done all of this before I am 30.

I was feeling very lonely lately, and this video came on the perfect time! Thank you Tam!❤

This video feels like a hug. Thank you🥰

being 15 an already being lonley an had an experience ALREADY about friends an just being cute an happy on my own because im loving my own vibe atm friends or not i like just staying an keeping to myself. Ily tam

Clicked on this video when I was feeling nobody understands my situation. Grateful to come across this ❤ Thank you

You’re the big sister I never had. I really needed this video…Thank you!❤

طبيعي اني دمعت؟ 🥹 يا الله هالحكي اشقدّه مطمئن ومُريح ومنطقي🥹🩷🩷 شكراً من قلبي وممتنة لوجودك🫶🏽

@rosemary5989

Ай бұрын

مرحبا ❤😊

I'm on my healing phase. My inner child and out growing friendship and being secure with myself. This video is so overwhelming and amazing. Luv yuh ❤

I had a panic attack last week and I've been feeling really sensitive lately. Thank you for this video, it gave me comfort.

Wow! This meant the world to me Tam….. I’ve been praying to God to find good friendships because I’ve been feeling all alone and the friends that I thought I had are not who I thought they were. This video changed my perspective so much and I’m so thankful that God placed your videos in my life at this moment in time. Thank you for doing what you do🩷 I’m beyond grateful and wish you nothing but more success!!

I feel like you were speaking to me, Tam!💗I'm 25 and I often feel behind in life compared to others my age. Love the reminder that our lives are just beginning in our 20s and there's so much room for growth and optimism about the future. Love your videos🥰

Thank you so much for this video, I was thinking for a long time, that there is something wrong with me, when I realized that I am not anyone favorite... I am just an option when someone can't... And now, I am trying to see myself as my favorite, thanks to your videos 🥰

Thanks,Tam. Watching this is 2024 and I love myself. I have a long path to cover but I love my growth. I do not seek external validation because I know at the end of the day I love myself fully knowing how I have evolved. I will pray for everything I get. I get it all. I am grateful.

I see myself in you ..that’s why I connect with you ❤❤

I clicked soo quickly I need this badly. Lately I’ve been feeling so lonley I keep seeing people in relationships and I just really want a companion and not just any but a actual good person who actually cares abt me . From hearing the intro I started crying thank you Tam for making me feel seen . I’ve been feeling like I’m the only one who feels lonely seeing the comments I don’t feel that way anymore ❤

Watching this while i'm eating lunch alone at my job.. My dog died few weeks ago and because she was my only friend, it's been very hard since then.. I feel lonely more than ever.. Thinking about it, I actually never really had friends like others, but this video made me realize I stopped chasing male validation and dating just to not feel alone. That's an achievement on my side for sure.

You’re the best, Tam. Your videos helped me so much after a horrible experience in my personal life. I’m 35 years old, but I wish I had had the insight and wisdom you have when I was in my 20s. You have taught me so much. Thank you for being such a positive influence. ❤

Thank you. I have been moving frequently between different countries in the past few years and it has been great, it did a huge impact on my professional life and self growth. However, it has been socially difficult at times. It is hard to make friends with this lifestyle. I could not count how many times I felt the weakness of loneliness and I thought about reaching out to my ex-friends because I knew they would reconnect with me but I always would remind myself the reason why I moved on from them. I am so glad I never slipped and only kept these ideas in my thoughts. I did not have standards when I was younger, it was a huge lesson, I met all kinds of people and some of them taught me why I shouldn't be friends with just anyone. I'm fine alone, I travelled alone a lot. I learned to talk with my family, I used to never talk about my life with them, I would look for strangers to tell about myself. It was not easy to open up to family, but it surprised me that they were actually supportive even thought I never in my life would have thought they would be.

you're so kind... i hope all the good things happen to you and god makes your life better, thankyou so much really.

First comment I’ve made on your videos. I’ve been watching for a few months now and always enjoyed the inspiration and learning. When you said 25 it hit me and I started to cry. At times I feel like I’ve already lived so much of this life but your words about how this is only the beginning let me step back and breathe for a moment. Love you Tam! Keep shining and glowing ✨

" All that you've always wanted , is within you, get ready to receive it " 🥺❤️

TAM YOURE ALMOST AT ONE MIL I'M SO PROUD

The way you worded everything that if plainly said can sound cliche, but you perfectly put it

Thank you so much for this Tam. I cried so much listening to your words, it trully felt like a hug. I feel myself spiraling back into depression again and it feels lonelier than before, because on the outside it looks like I have everything figgured out and I'm really happy. The reality is that I feel more lost than ever. And I also have this feeling like I should be able to get through this by myself, because my friends are too busy with their own lives. But your videos make me realize I am not alone, I am with myself and I get so much help from you. Thank you Tam. Thank you so much ❤

Tysm. Im in 8th grade and I moved a year ago. With my trust issues, it’s so hard for me to make friends. With this and all your self help videos, I feel like I’m getting so much better. ILYSM 🫶🏼🫶🏼🎀

She is everything I live for !!! You have no idea how you changed my life .Love you as alwaysssss

Thank you so much for creating this video, it means a lot, I’ve been working on myself a lot lately, I’ve been through some heavy stuff lately and I’m taking the time to work on myself and to grow as a person and I’ve always felt alone, but I think now I feel like I can finally love myself, it may not be perfect but I’m trying and I’m proud of myself for doing so and being the one there for me, I appreciate you making this, it means the world!

Your video has spoken into the most painful period of my life. I cannot thank you enough, for the comfort this has spoken into my life. Thank you, thank you and bless you.

Omg you have no idea how much I needed this right now. I appreciate you so much❤️❤️❤️

Binge watching Tam kaur and Tam kaur vlogs. Love her! Her solo trips and self care dates are literally my dream life!