If you're reading this I pray something amazing happens for you today.🙏🏼💗

@TamicaBoer

5 ай бұрын

sweet❤️🧋🫶

@JourneywithGigi

5 ай бұрын

Aww love this 🙏🏼💗 Right back at you!! 💕❤️

@MandyJRoss

5 ай бұрын

@@JourneywithGigi thanks be-you-tiful soul 💕🌸🎀

@Agi1111

5 ай бұрын

Likewise ❤

@lyyna777

5 ай бұрын

Thnk you 😭🫂

proof that insecurities are genuinely all in your head is that i didn't even notice tam's breakouts until she began talking about them. PEOPLE AREN'T FIXATING ON YOUR INSECURITIES IN THE WAY YOU ARE!! people see you as a whole person not as just one thing you have!

@calmcorner305

5 ай бұрын

So true!!

@ritubhoite218

5 ай бұрын

exactly !! the nose thing ? I think it's perfect omg

@mnnday

5 ай бұрын

Even I feel that there's nothing wrong with her nose, it's perfect the way it is.

@Avniii_

5 ай бұрын

you're really pretty tho

@ecstasy3692

5 ай бұрын

@@Avniii_ i appreciate that but i'm literally wearing a filter girl 😭

just know that i.. 1 love your hair 1 love your forehead 1 love your eyebrows or lack of I love your eyelashes or lack of I love your eyes 1 love your ears I love your nose I love your cheeks 1 love your mouth 1 love your laugh I love your teeth or lack of 1 love your chin I love your neck 1 love your shoulders 1 love your chest I love your arms 1 love your hands I love your tummy 1 love your hips 1 love your thighs I love your knees I love your shins 1love your feet (not in that way.) l love your moles/marks I love your scars 1 love your voice 1 love what you do 1 love your personality 1 love you on your good days I love you on your bad days 1 love you when you wear makeup I love you when you don't wear makeup. I love vour skin I love you when you're sad 1 love you when you're mad 1 love you when you're happy I love you when you hate me I love you when you love me 1 love you when you forget me I'm proud of you for getting some sleep I'm proud of you for trying to sleep I'm proud of you for waking up I'm proud of you for getting up I'm proud of you for brushing your teeth I'm proud of you for doing your hair I'm proud of you for washing your face I'm proud of you for doing skin care 1 love you for doing your makeup (if you wear it) I'm proud of you that you got out of your room I'm proud of you for getting dressed I'm proud of you TRYING to eat breakfast. I'm proud of you for being clean I'm proud of you for trying to be clean I'm proud of you for being alive I'm proud of you for being a good friend I'm proud of you for trying to be a good friend 1 won't judge you for your looks 1 won't judge you from your race I won't judge you for your life 1 won't judge you for your family I won't judge you for your past/childhood I won't judge you for your body 1 won't judge you for your tears I wont judge you for your age I won't judge you for your sexual orientation 1 wont judge you for your gender 1 wont judge you for your money 1 won’t judge you for your religion I won't judge you for where you come from I won't judge you for your language You aren't ugly You aren't too fat You aren't too skinny You aren't annoying You aren't mean You aren't evil You aren't crazy You aren't weird You aren't worthless You aren't scary You aren't selfish You aren't too feminine You aren't too masculine You aren't too young You aren't too old You aren't disgusting You aren't a doormat You aren't a toy You aren't a monster You are beautiful You are pretty You are handsome You are kind You are cool You are everything you want to be You aren't perfect, nobody is, but you are perfect in my eyes 1 wont judge you for anything Im so proud of you love you this took hours, dont be insecure

@Kamirolio

3 ай бұрын

@e2lif

3 ай бұрын

This made me smile & almost cry this is so pure n cute ! Tysm 🤍

@ishikagupta3158

3 ай бұрын

Thank you soo much for this

@ilakshitasharma

3 ай бұрын

🎀

@annaelisabeth3028

3 ай бұрын

Thank you!Just as you said, you too!

mother always knows exactly what we need 😭😭❤️

@dmvmeu7140

5 ай бұрын

FRRRR

@HariniSentha-ip9bx

5 ай бұрын

She is 🥰🩷

@daliafina

5 ай бұрын

Why did u use this word "mother" a333 she still in her 20 u can't say that just say that she's amazing..ect 🤦🏻‍♀️

@Avniii_

5 ай бұрын

@@daliafina gurl chill it aint that serious

@Anna-yf9tv

5 ай бұрын

​@@daliafinacoz of her maturity and not her age

Tbh I think the fact that your nose is NOT the 'perfect upturned skinny nose' makes it more beautiful because it's not the same. You remind me of Princess Jasmine, you're literally so stunning ♥🥰

@tamkaur

5 ай бұрын

Oh thank you!

@BlowYourMindd

5 ай бұрын

The jasmine girl who has a KZread channel?

@SudhaBairagi-yz6rk

5 ай бұрын

​@@BlowYourMindd Nah disney princess

@BlowYourMindd

5 ай бұрын

@@SudhaBairagi-yz6rk ohk😂 i thought jazmine

@sarvaepc

17 күн бұрын

@@BlowYourMinddoh that jazzy is good too

I just spent 30 minutes crying because I made an insecurities Pinterest board, and I realized how many beautiful women that are out there that love their body, so why can't I? Thank you Tam, you have helped me so much in all aspects of my life ❤

@anissasaleck9037

4 ай бұрын

Woahhh ur so beautiful btw

I pray every woman that sees this video changes into her best self as soon as possible❤❤

@yasiruh.3522

16 күн бұрын

you are so keuoot!

The people doesn't how much grateful I am for find her and watch her videos

@Jack-fd3gl

5 күн бұрын

Worry about your ETERNAL soul and not about your temporary life. Ask for the kingdom of God , and God will give you anything that you need. Your eternal life will last much longer than anything you could get here.. Jesus said: Jesus said "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?" _ Matthew 6:26-27 “ Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable-if anything is excellent or praiseworthy-think about such things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me-put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you. _Philippians 4:6-9 "For I, the LORD your God, hold your right hand; it is I who say to you, 'Fear not, I am the one who helps you.” _ Isaiah 41:13 “For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” _ Matthew 6: 32_33

Please like this comment, so i can watch this over and over again. These tips are liquid gold.

What's mine is mine, what's yours is yours. I don't want what's yours and I am content with what's mine.

I seriously can't express my deep gratitude, Tam. You're the big sister I never had. You can't even imagine how much your videos have changed me. Stay amazing, queen 💗💗💫

it's so easy for yt influencers to post "glow up tips" and being confident, and so much nowadays is based on appearance and how to look better. i feel like because tam has genuinely had similar experiences and gone through so much as a young adult, she knows what we needed. she really filled the gap in the market. i've always felt strong in my core mentally and have felt the same things tam mentioned in her video. i'm so glad there's someone popular who's getting this to girls our age. been watching her videos since last summer and they're still so thorough!

"I think we are given insecurities for a reason" That is genuinely the most smartest and amazing thing I ever heard. I never thought of it that way! You are seriously a blessing, thank you!!! ❤️❤️❤️

The timing of the video 😭💗💗

@mzniaa

5 ай бұрын

EXACTLY HONEYY CUZ THERES THIS GIRL THAT MADE ME FEEL INVALID AT SCHOOL SO THIS WAS DEFINITELY GOOD TIMING 💗

@simrankarale4471

5 ай бұрын

ikrr

@rashiarora4778

5 ай бұрын

ig we all are similar and experience this,i am glad these feelings are normal !

@marthykasele

5 ай бұрын

It's perfect

@jesusismysevior305

5 ай бұрын

Yaaaaa

Tam is literally the older sister I always wished to have. I love you Tam

Who says prayers don't come true!!!! I prayed to God to bring a person in my life who will help me to grow authentically and see Tam is here in my life now 😌💯

My insecurities (specially the physical appearence ones) have stopped me from doing so many things, have ruined so many experiences and moments of my life, the habit of finding something wrong every time I look in the mirror was so deeply rooted a year ago. But since I discovered your channel last March I've been working on these insecurities, and it has been a really slow process but this video has confirmed to me that I've made so much progress! A year ago this message felt so unnatural to hear, only your sound logic made me listen, but today I hear you and it feels RIGHT. And with this video I have so much more to learn, so many specific practices to target my insecurities and keep shifting my mindset for the better, I'm so thankfull 😭😭💜 You gave me hope for a better life and your example gave me the bravery to try for real . Thank you Tam, for helping and inspiring so many people 💕

my new affirmation: “it doesn’t define who you are, it’s such an insignificant part in all of the amazing pieces of what makes you, you.” cried at this cus i’ve been battling my insecurities for years and it’s been especially hard this month and i needed this, absolutely love u and what u do, thank you Tam♥️

The concept of the "Portfolio of Proof" has been such a game changer for me. Any time I feel my thoughts and insecurities growing louder, I remind myself I've done scary things before, and this is just another hurdle for me to overcome. Thank you so much for the lesson, Tam! ❤

My nose is not that big and never in my life I was insecure about it but two girls of my class were talking about big nose and one of the girl said nashra's nose is big and laughed I heard it I went home looked at my nose and felt so insecure about it since then but watching your videos really helped me realised that My nose really fits my face even if it is big it looks good in my face and I am healing because of you as I have more insecurities thank you so much I love you I feel like you are my elder sister ❤

@krisha5660

Ай бұрын

Gurll if that's you in your profile pic then omg you're stunning! I literally have no idea what those girls were on about if I looked like you I would never feel insecure

@nashrakhan9780

Ай бұрын

@@krisha5660 omg thank you so much this made my day

@nashrakhan9780

Ай бұрын

@@krisha5660 thank you so much this made my day honestly I hope by watching her videos you are feeling good about yourself thank you for uplifting me I genuinely appreciate it:)

everyday I listen to your “self obsessed” podcast before going to college and it makes me feel like a badass 😎

The mindset shift part made me realised how much i have grown in past year. Like literally last year changed so much in me in such a good way. OMG. And the credit goes to you.

Love this, Tam! No one is perfect so we have to stop thinking we have to be. Time to be confident in our imperfections!

your videos are genuinely changing my life thank you so much Tam

Girl! I’m 43 I have been watching you & your on point with all your videos and you give me confidence to rebuild me Keep the videos coming

i was feeling super insecure yesterday and mother delivers at the perfect timee

I've been saying this under every video and I'm gonna say it a million times more... You are the most amazing woman and your videos are a comfort to me everytime I feel bad or stressed. Love from India❤

@incum.1

5 ай бұрын

You are so beautiful

@samdrishtichandna

5 ай бұрын

@@incum.1 thanku and so are you

@duttaprachi

5 ай бұрын

Sach me inke videos bhot amazing hote h .. she is like my elder sister ❤😊

Heyyy, i've started my health journey or whatever you want to call it 3 months ago. Since then i have deleted all my social media, read a lot of books and warched/listened a lot of content about self growth, but i must say you are the literal best person i've found. I love all of your videos so much and feel like i can feel your spirit and good energy trough the screen. It's crazy haha. Keep up the amazing work and thank you so much💕

This is not just surface level advice, this hits deep. You broke the code of healing girl. 🎉❤ Thank you for all the amazing content !

Back to back videos, so grateful for the frequent uploads!!

Hi Tam!!❤ I just wanted to tell you how much you and your videos mean to me and so many other other women, but not only that, you helped me as a teen who has a big problem with my body image, as well as many other teenage girls. Im at an age where all I see in a mirror are my flaws, things I'm bad at and things I can't change. It's the age where you sometimes have no control over your own thoughts and actions and I want you to know that you are one of the reasons why I was able to be at peace with myself. You're words and actions made me question this time that we live in and made my realise that am not the problem. Now I'm 16 and i quit sugar for good and I take care of what i eat, how i look, who I spend my time with and what i focus on in my day to day life. So thank you from the depth of my soul for breaking this sick and made up picture of self worth that was pushed on us!!! Love you girll❤🎉 Nika

She is the best honestly,she helped me with my social awkwardness

YOU SLAY GIRL I found out about your existence a month ago after I felt absolutely devastated by the breakup with my ex but since I'm watching all your videos religiously now I'm feeling so much better about myself 10/10💛💛💛

Omg! Thank you! I’ve been keeping up with this channel since August and my insecurities were long GONE! But just gaining some new knowledge was very helpful and peaceful for me. I especially enjoyed the part where you mentioned that we should see every day as our “Day 1”. It’s actually so amazing! I’m all about improving myself and loving myself and I feel like this advice will help me achieve more on my journey, Ty! Now, I gotta admit, something you pointed out on the lifestyle shifts chapter, about doing what you said you’ll do….I promise you! I do DO the things I plan, all except my studies 🫠. And a homework that I would need to complete is to set boundaries with myself, have some self respect, and do the damn work at the time that I plan to. Lmao! Ty for reading my rant. Love you Tam! (Also, ur actual name is SO PRETTY! Tamara is so cute! But I respect your current name and love how you decided to be your own person). I pray for many blessings to come your way 🧸💕

I'm so thankful every single time I think of something and at the same time "the queen" showed up everytime 🙌 ❤

Your videos always brighten my day! Keep up the fantastic work.

This is literally EXACTLY what I needed😭 idk how you always manage to post the perfect videos at the perfect time

I've never felt like acne ruins someone's beauty. As a child, in some strange way, I actually thought it made people look prettier with red blush cheeks. Acne definitely doesn't hide people's beautiful smiles, and to be honest, everyone is beautiful in their own way.

This is what I’ve been needing so badly lately omg!!! Tam u rlly changed my life u have no idea 💗💗

It’s actually crazy bc others don’t even see our own insecurities . For ex. You with your nose I think it fits perfectly to your face when you wouldn’t have said anything about it we wouldn’t even recognized and that’s with all our insecurities 🤍❗️❗️

i have watched this video so many times, you are speaking directly to my soul. whenever i start to feel myself retreat i think about this. you have no idea how much of a big help you’ve been in my life Tam. Thanks for all that you do!!

Hands down, the most healing , helpful, authentic, structured, uplifting channel I’ve ever come across ❤❤❤❤❤

Tam ♡, you have no idea of how much your words have enriched in my life, your words are always comforting, inspiring and full of wisdom. THANK YOU so much, love you 🩷🫂✨️ and I wish you the best of best in life 🫶

Tam is literally growing me...I'm so grateful that I found this channel

Girly pop thank you for posting these amazing videos!! And the fact that these videos pop up around the same time I'm dealing with something that's mentioned in the video is A SIGN. A sign to get rid of things/mindsets etc that are hurting me and to start a new journey. Thanks Tam from the bottom of my heart

You are the definition of THAT GIRL!!!! I LOVE YOU SO MUCH TAM❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Tam you are one of the bravest soul who can talk about so boldly and fearlessly about all the things you are talking in this video. May god bless you ❤

Told my friend about this channel 2 days back and now she can't stop watching ur videos while studying and sending me screenshots.... I'm sooo gladddddd I could do that. Also she's that one 'manifested' friend I found in this new city I moved into a week back. Haven't met her yet but ah she's so adorable. Can't wait to see her.😄😄

Thanks so much for this video Tam because I really really needed it♥️

She posted when I needed her the most. Thank you love. ♥️

Thank you for this detailed video tam!! I like how you mentioned the change of name helps with the change of mindset shift!! For me I used "the sims" game this year and made another version of myself and it helped me sooo much because I agree on the part where you said "it's just a silly avatar we can customize; try new outfits"; it also helped me so much on the body positivity and the possibilities i could have done and be!!

I love you so much im so happy to have a role model like you! ♡

I'm so glad you share all this. I feel more enough as I am and content and like I don't have to get somewhere to feel ok but to think I already am and I can always improve a little everyday instead

i'm 15 and you are the big sister i need. thank u so much tam, i don't think i can ever explain how much you help me ❤

I learned from you that even the focus on the compliments people are giving I shouldn’t focus on it and it’s a really good lesson from you thankyou

i love how you include homework for us and my fave lesson was definitely the not looking at the mirror so often and showering while thinking how i can better my day instead of shaming myself and all the examples youve used to show how i can take baby steps like talking to a stranger for whom i held the door

THANKS TAM❤️, i was sooo insecure about my nose my body my eyes my lips after watching your video i have realized that i have literally the most unique nose that nobody have it every model get plastic surgeries to look perfect and most of those model have cosmetics shope and Want us to be perfect while they are perfect with plastic surgeries i used to me insecure about my body but i realize when i was fat everyone said eat less etc etc (like everyone barks) when now i got thin people are like "oh my gosh you have became so skinny do you even eat" this made me realize that peoples aren't happy in anything YOU ARE LIKE BIG SISTER THAT EVERYONE WANTS YOU HAVE HELPED ME TO OVERCOME MY INSECURITIES AND I'M WAYYY MORE CONFIDENT THEN I WAS IN PAST LITERALLY EVERYONE ASK : HOW YOU BECAME SO CONFIDENT I'M SOOOO GRATEFUL THAT YOU EXIST❤❤😂

your hair looks beautiful i love it!!!!!😩✨💗

Thank you so much, Tam. As someone possibly about twice your age, coming out of a divorce, your videos are so, so valuable. You’re teaching me things I should’ve always realized myself. Thank you 🙏🏻 ❤

Within a matter of 2 months, your channel has completely changed my outlook on everything in my life. I wish I found your channel sooner.

so many things you say are so true. i am a 22 year old guy, and i had watched enough self improvement videos mainly from male creators and its so refreshing to watch your videos, unlike those videos which always talk about bringing women and wealth into your life you tend to motivate people to improve for themselves without having an ulterior motive of attracting someone or something in your life. those things will come eventually but that thing is not the goal. the goal is the live the most fulfilling life for yourself. thank you tam :)

SO excited to get your book, Tam!! You’re the best!! 🤩✨🌟

I like the videos without background music it really emphasizes your message!

Tam, I just had a horrible day and this video changed my evening completely. Thanks for everything you do. YOU ARE SPECIAL

anytime you feel bad about yourself, just remember "why would you try to blend in, when you are born to stand out" - wonder

Thank you soo much Tam! Your videos were something that I needed and many other people need. I am glad to have found you ❤

I HAVE TO SAY THIS!! I'm sure we've all seen those self love gurus, confidence builders, saying "you are beautiful as you are and you don't need to change anything" while looking like an epitome of these days beauty standards [it's like a really fair skinned person saying to a colored person, don't be insecure about your skin, i used to be too but now i'm confident, you could be too. when being white was use to be considered superior and the other colors as inferior obviously the superiors don't get the problem], but my girl tam, i'm not saying she's not pretty cause she is, its just that she shows her insecurities not for the popularity but she actually turned them into her confidence, and i wanna believe her.

Thank you for putting these videos out there, they truly make the bad days better.

THANK YOU LOVE THE ALTER EGO THINGG

Thanks for this! I used to show my face on youtube but now I do faceless asmr since I got to shy! I needed this video ❤❤❤🎉 thank u!

the "you see the diffrence??" woke me up!

I was just rewatching how to radiate feminine energy then I see a notification, I love you... thank you for thisss❤

When this was recommended I was looking at a girl's insta. I lost a role I wanted to her, i convinced my self it didn't matter, but internally, it still hurt bc, well, let's say she wasn't the nicest person. But honestly, this video put into perspective that it TRULY doesn't matter. Thank you for bringing that confidence inward.

I’m actually going to cry. I never realised how bad I am talking to myself about my body and how I look like. I’ve been struggling with my weight since I was a child and was taking several hormonal tablets which never helped in the end. Now I’m close to 30 and I’ve gained weight again over the years and everytime I look in the mirror I question why is my partner even with me. I look ugly. So of course my body never changes because I don’t appreciate it. I am never kind to myself and acknowledge everything my body went through and it’s still keeping me alive. Thank you Tam, for making us realise that we need to be kind and appreciate the body we are in. I will practice the self talk in front of the mirror every morning and be grateful that I am in a healthy body, I can move, I can get up each morning and it is keeping me alive. ❤

YESS ON THE RIGHT TIME AS ALWAYS! Universe is by our side and Tam posted ♥️!!

@JourneywithGigi

5 ай бұрын

seriosuly!!! every video she posts always boosts my mood exponentially 😁✨🌟

You’re so close to 1million subscribers!! 🎉 I’m rooting for you, you’ve definitely helped me learn so much about myself. You definitely deserve it! ❤

'she is more precious than jewls, nothing u desire can compare with her..' this is a verse I learn from a long way of many years of being insecure, and mind u wat attracts is not ur body its ur confidence, authentic self, ur energy, how you love your self, and ur achievements, so who ever insecure person reading this wat we should fix the inside and our souls. after that we look in the mirror and observe if u will see any flaws..no gal u wont since ur more than that... thanks tam for this vid.

I can't wait to see you finally hitting 1 million subscribers 🥳🥳🥳 You are my favourite KZreadr💖💖

Tam you have changed my life!!!! I recently had gotten out of a situationship when I found your channel and I’ve noticed such change in my everyday life. I am THAT GIRL and working towards the best version of me every day 🥰💞❤️✨💕💘🌷 Sending love 💅🏻

you are a life changer and a mindset changer. so impressed by your youtube and podcast. it really changed me for the better.

ALWAYS POSTING JUST IN TIME

THIS WOMAN CHANGED MY LIFE 🙏🏻

This video has helped me a lot , so really thanks , from the deep of my heart❤, I’m finally healing after years of being people pleasing and rejecting my opinions and desires over someone else opinion, I hardly could say “no” , and feel anything that happens it’s my fault , and nobody will accept me for who I’m and how I look, but watching your videos I realized that’s true, like it’s just my perception that’s how I see things to be and I have the potential to change it altogether, I’m still healing, it’s been a hard processes but I trust I’ll embrace all these negative emotions that I feel

OMG TAM almost 1 million subscribers I am so happy for you girl 😍💘

tam has such a way with words. i can't wait to see what you conjure up in your book

thanks god people like you exist, thank u so much Tam

I randomly experienced an existential crisis and felt super insecure afterwards, this video is just right on time! Thank you Tam ❤

Thank You So much Tam💘✨ You are making my life better & brighter, you are my Angel! ✨

The mindset shifts were just so positive and motivating ❤

I seriously needed to watch this. Thank you so much. Discovering your channel today has been amazing for me.

Wake up girliesss TAM POSTED!!

The reason I am confident and secure and this happy is tam I literally adore her so much seeing you talking about things that really a person need it's just ❤️❤️❤️❤️ thanku so much tam for making my life even better ❣️

Being confident not because of how I look, but because of how I live is an important lesson. Thank you! 🥺💘

Girl.. that's exactly what I needed to hear today. I am such in a phase of questioning everything. You're a bless! Have a wonderful week too 🌠🙏

I am so enjoying your videos That I just jump back to your videos as a comfort whenever I don’t feel good Thanks Tam Such a game changer 😌

SHEE BROUGHT THIS VIDEOOO JUST ONNN TIMEEE OMGGG I LOVEE HERRR

I'm literally studying but your video popped up and i had to watch youu🥰🥰

thank you for making this! I really needed it 💗

THANK YOU so much i literally searched for this yesterday

I randomly came across your channel, and now I am in love with your channel 🥰❤️ thank u so much for guiding me and other girls like me !!!