good newwws! In addition to the physical deck, I’ve just dropped a digital copy of my “i’m listening self-love deck” journal … perfect for anyone outside of the U.S. or anyone who wants to have it on their phone.. find both here: www.tiffanylaibhen.com/shop

“Everyone is actually doing the best they can at their level of emotional maturity.” Sheesh this is rich 👌🏾

Listening to this In the morning while showering was the best decision I’ve made✨ now I’m gonna get dressed and take myself out on a date and buy myself roses✨✨

@ariannacamacho4150

7 ай бұрын

Self love is beautiful

@TiffanyTV

7 ай бұрын

this made me smile so big 😌 have a beautiful day!

@ayo3070

6 ай бұрын

I will do the same….let’s start from there 😍

Girl, I needed this because I was barking all morning, and I just sat down and started crying. I'm crying as I'm typing this. The lack of love I've been showing myself looking for it in others lately is disappointing. I feel like I've lost myself lately. Thank you for these words. I needed them. It's always up to me

@TiffanyTV

5 ай бұрын

I’m a bit late but I’m sending you the biggest hug girl because I gettt it! praying your able to make a few shifts to find some more inner peace.. you’ll start to see it reflected on the outside 🤎

Literally just went through a breakup last night, that was completely unexpected so now today I have to move out after 2 years together. Thank you for dropping this. I love hearing your messages.

@S00DamJazzy

7 ай бұрын

Stay strong sis ❤

@baisinbu98

7 ай бұрын

Hugs 🤗 and kisses. You got this. 🤍💚

@chichimweetwa

7 ай бұрын

You got this sis❤️ your gonna love finding yourself again

@iesheamahogany3785

7 ай бұрын

Sending lots of love your way❤❤❤

@SadeCeara

7 ай бұрын

Going through a break up right now with my boyfriend of almost 8 years & my now child’s father as I am currently almost 7 months pregnant and it sucks. But through out this process I need to just focus on my baby & I! Stay strong sis! We got this

This was especially difficult for me because I couldn’t even define love, let alone give it to myself. I looked to 1 Corinthians 13 4-8 and my life has changed. Now I treat myself how the Bible defines love to be. And I’ve never been more full.

@emmarampf7354

5 ай бұрын

Thank you

Self-love is a different ball game if your single...You have 1 choice+ that is to LOVE YOURSELF ..it's hard but the journey is priceless+ empowering✌️✨💖

Am I the only one who has it the other way round. I just want a relationship. I’ve been single for so long. I know how to look after myself be by myself, go out with myself, push myself to do better motivate myself, but sometimes I just want a shoulder to cry on or some support to keep me going 😢

@asamara673

6 ай бұрын

@@user-st9fs6xu5yI’ve just said I don’t need someone to keep me going. I’m comfortable pushing myself and doing things on my own. BUT I WANT a partner. I don’t NEED one

@sandrasteward2059

3 ай бұрын

That's real. We are taught on one hand that we are strong black women, we can make it on our own, trust in God & keep it moving. All of that is true but we are human & we were NOT made to work everything out alone so we need to be loved, held, talked to & cry with by other humans. I do agree that the work starts with self bc "no man is an island"

I was totally in this deep funk because of this very reason last week. I cried constantly all week. Thank you for this 🙏🏾💖

Tiffany!!!!! As a mental health professional I want to thank you for your energy and your support to empower others to seek self-love. Self love is sooooo crucial to your mental wellbeing. I have shared your video with my clients as a source of motivation. Keep up the work mama! It’s truly healing to others.

💕 Steps start @ 15:48 💞

@kimiko_111

4 ай бұрын

Thank you 😊

Ah, how synchronized... self love has been the center of my awareness lately. Thank you for this video ❤

FINALLY someone who explains self love in a way that I understand bone deep. The idea about finding the void and filling it yourself is gold that I can practically apply straight away. Your content is excellent instant sub thank you 🙏

@einaj9

4 ай бұрын

Your comment really is the cherry on top to this quest of self love 🥹🥹🥹🥹 your comment has truly blessed me indeed❤ thank you

I used to give love and care to everyone but never giving it to myself I still have lots of insecurities but I'm trying my best to put me first this time it's a hard journey for me so please everyone pray for me 💙✨ and thank you Tiffany you've always been there since day one of my healing journey 💙✨

@MJmamita

5 ай бұрын

Same here

Another home run. This is beyond impactful, this is exactly where I am. Thank you once again for sharing. I am speechless and taken back by how well you managed to deliver this message. This is an amazing starting point for healing ❤😊 You are so amazing 🙌🏿

Tiffanyyyyy, ! Shouting amen amen amen .. at my big age Lord knows you have reminded me to wake up! Hug myself ! Love myself, be okay ! Build me. Recognizing individuality, regulating boundaries, my family reminded me. I am the common denominator and I need to show up for SELF and not always allowing people to be codependent or vice versa. Lord I really have some cleaning up. I am not for everyone. You may have just saved 50 percent of my mental health😢.. thank you

@makeitcount8164

7 ай бұрын

Yes! To be honest I still get kind of iffy and listen with precaution when being told to continually love myself I do think however that you have a good balance

@TiffanyTV

7 ай бұрын

I’m tearing up reading this. sending you a big hug 🫂🤎 we love aha/realization moments 🙌🏾

@kathlynroach566

7 ай бұрын

​@@TiffanyTVthank you .. everyday has been a challenge.. I pray for strength and positivity energy 🙏

@kathlynroach566

4 ай бұрын

Thank you sooo much for you all your feedback...I am continuously praying for the guidance and strength on my life attributes.. work everyday and push towards abundance. Today is February 1st and I inhale/ exhaled

“Is this really about him”😮‍💨 we truly project unhappiness onto others in the form of nitpicking. I’ve been guilty of that. Learning to go within and be content with self has done so much for me! Great video Queen🫶🏽

@TiffanyTV

6 ай бұрын

that part! thank you love 🤎

Yes you shouldn’t look for happiness or joy from others. It should come from within. However, just like someone can add to your happiness and joy they can also take from it. Your surrounding influences your mood.

I’ve realized this as well and I’m glad you said it so I know I’m not crazy. Whenever I feel unloved it’s due to a lack that I started slipping on ❤❤❤

Don’t know how I found this video, but I’m so happy I did. My husband and I had a major argument three days ago. He asked for space but it’s been three days. I’ve been keeping busy for the last 72 hours waiting for him to talk to me( I’m anxious attached and semi- codependent). After watching this video, I’m inspired to work on myself, love on myself, take the time to pour into me. I’m so use to “us” that I’ve been forgetting me 😢

@TiffanyTV

3 ай бұрын

I relate to this alll too well… it’s almost impossible to fix things in a relationship before we’ve healed what’s going on within ourselves. sending you love + and big hug on this part of your journey + praying for health in your marriage 🫂🤎

@chantelleg5529

3 ай бұрын

@@TiffanyTV thank you very much !

I definitely needed this ! thank youuu

Wow, I needed this today. Thank you Tiff💜

Thank you! This video came just in time. I really needed to hear this

Thank you for this! Love your words of wisdom ❤ keep shining!

Thank you for making content like this for us

Thankyou so much! Everything was very well said !

Ok so why is it that every time you drop a video it's exactly what I need! Thank you sis!❤

I needed this!!1 SO HELPFUL

i needed this.thanks alot 💖💖

Your videos have truly aided me so much in my journey. Thank you so much.

Girlll I be watching your videos wishing I has friends like you lol. I just feel like you’re so self aware about your actions and how your behaviors can contribute to how you feel and your environment. I loveee that about this channel because it’s hard to come by people who are self aware about themselves. Honestly even I have to work on being more self aware myself and it’s harder than it seems, so I don’t blame anyone who has a hard time doing that. It’s a lot easier said than done, and takes baby steps and a lot of time to fully understand it all. But anyways this is so true, keep up the great work ❤

This was everything I needed. Here goes!!!

Talk about perfect timing!! I really needed to hear this today 🥰

Thank you Tiffany… this video was just what I needed now ❤ 🙏🏼

I’m so in love with your channel ❤️I can truly say it has helped me a lot.. continue changing lives lots of love

This is literally what I needed to hear for today. Thank you so much ❤

I absolutely love your videos ❤

Your videos always hit at the right time. Thank you!

You never miss Tiffany. Thank you.

Okay but I loveee!! I had a tough moment yesterday with work and I needed to hear this! Know your someone I look up to when it comes to growth! ❤️🙏🏼

Absolutely love you !!

Absolutely love this! Have to fill up your own cup because it's not anyone else's responsibility 🤞🏾

Thank u so much for this video! It was a perfect reminder and I needed it!!! Have a nice day🧚🏻‍♀️🩷💌

Much needed video, thank you!

Thank you for being the big sister I never had but always needed❤️

this was such a beautiful & needed video ✨ thank you!

I love your positivity! I just wish I could be like this

great way to start the morning. thank you so much!

This is so powerful! Self-love

I needed to hear every word of this omg😫

Love love love this !!! Keep shining beautiful

This video was right on time! Thank you for your wisdom Tiffany! 🙏🏻💕✨

THE WAY I AM CRYING......😭😭 Thank you!! this was a real blessing. ❤

Thank you for this video ❤

Hands down, the best cideo I've ever listened to about self-love. Thank you!

I appreciate this channel ☺️

You're amazing and helping me through a tough situation.

thank you for this message

This was an amazing video - really helped me x

This helped me so much , thank u

Tiffany!!!! Oh my....you was in my head!!! I needed this!! I will be rewatching and writing down notes!! Thank u

Still healing from my last relationship I truly needed to hear this. Thank you.

Love it Tiffany, keep it up! 💝💝💝

This is a very great timing❤

Thank you, Queen 👸🏾💖

Yes Ma’am. Well said. May God continue to bless you

This video is how I found you and I’ve been binging ever since! This was so good and just what I needed to hear as I found myself questioning a few decisions.

Girl U just got a subscriber 🎉🎉🎉🎉am here for this girl 😊😊😊YASSSS baby

I’ve been focusing so much on this lately and maintaining my self awareness like this and it’s been game changing for me and those around me. Thank you for the confirmation and additional tips 🌸

Thank you for the reminder to continuously look inward when heavy emotions are arising in our relationships. I needed that perspective shift. ❤

Oh I love this! My biggest problem is me not getting enough alone time and I can take that frustration out on others sometimes. This is something I’m currently working through and have been working through for a while. Thank you for this video ❤

WOW! I needed this video. And the way you say is everything is exactly how I need to hear it. I’m going to need to rewatch this a few times. And I just subscribed ❤

Thank you for sharing with us. I am sitting at work, working listening to this!! ❤❤❤

U said a word..Love your messages ! Please keep going and I pray God blesses u

This is by far one of the most important and beneficial videos I have ever seen on KZread. ❤ Thank you so much.

I just want you to know your words go a long way.. truthfully I needed to hear this because lately I’ve been relying on others for my happiness and it never works out in the end. I’ve been depressed for a long time but I’ve been watching your videos and I swear it’s my therapy. I’m becoming a better and smarter women every day. I feel your words really touch me. Thank you ❤️

Your voice is so soothing ty for sharing and spreading this message ❤

I started back buying myself flowers yesterday. Each week I’m promising myself to do that. Also taking a least one day to do all self care things for myself. I also really enjoy cooking so that helps too. Don’t forget the gym!

Another amazing video as always ! Loved this , especially from a married woman’s perspective ❤

This video is everything. Thank you!

I loved the actionable steps you gave to sit with how I am feeling and take responsibility by implementing what I need for myself ❤

beautifully said ❤

Wow Tiffany this was so timely ❤ thanks for sharing your experience. I look forward to your videos ✨ they’re part of my morning routine when you drop ☀️

Im so glad i found you🥰

You’re speaking to me!! I am reclaiming my power and learning how to communicate directly. Getting to the root of what is, what I’m feeling, what I need, has helped me so much 🙌

I’m literally in a relationship where I have to love on myself because I’m definitely feeling like I’m not getting it in the relationship. But like you stated maybe it’s me. And that’s the mission I’m on to find out. Thank you for this video, right on time.

This was so enlightening and beautifully articulated 😌 Thank youuuu 🙏🏾 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

Thank you for this.. I'm saving it to revisit when I need it again. You're amazing.

GOD BLESS YOUR BEAUTIFUL SELF!!!! THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO… CHANGED MY LIFE!! I’ve shared this video with sooooo many people & they’ve shared it. Everything you’ve said is so true. THANK YOU… please continue to make videos like this because our sisters need to know. I’m now watching all your videos now😊

Thank you for this ❤

she brings out the best in me is swear

beautifully said, thank you!

Girrrrrllll… i can’t believe this video was right on time fr. I had a whole melt down yesterday. I was feeling alone (my brother passed a year ago and all my family lives far away I was feeling so heavy balling my eyes out) Sometimes I rely on my man too much to make me happy. Now I’m realizing i do this to all my loved ones, our kids even too. I was crying and he didn’t know what to do but I also wasn’t communicating well. I definitely rely on others too much and my healing journey has taught me I am still learning. Thank you so much for this message I am definitely applying these lessons to my life. 🥹🤍🤍🤍🤍

@moeokoye9915

7 ай бұрын

Much love, you got this! 🙏🏾 ❤

Mmmmm thank you so much for this video Tiffany 😊

You did so well with this video Tiffany! This video literally came at the right time and I am going to put everything you said into practice and actually journal!

Wow! I’m so glad I came across this. Thank you. ❤

Wow!!! Thank you so much!!! This was amazing and much needed!! You are beautiful! Thank you for sharing this with us!! God bless you! 🤎

Tiffany!!! You are highly appreciated for sharing this video! 🫂 you have spoken on this topic so honestly & elegantly 👏🏾💎✨ Wishing you all the best & look forward to working with you 🫂

This was another beautiful said reminder to fill my cup before anything I do. So that I can feel loved and good within myself and be able to pour out positive and loving energy with others. This was really really helpful for me, this week was a struggle and listening helped me see what I was missing. Thank you truly again for another impactful message! I truly believe god is working with you to help our generation ❤

wooowww this is good! Thank you!