My best advice for parents who are drowning in problems. DO NOT ADD PETS TO THE EQUATION. It won't end well and the animals end up neglected.

@georgielancaster1356

Жыл бұрын

Pets can be a huge comfort to people and especially children who cannot turn to an adult. It can be their only form of affection. To deprive them of that can lead to a very sad life of not being able to show or understand emotion. Alexithymia. Someone in the comments section has it.

@Laura-je2uw

Жыл бұрын

@@georgielancaster1356 in this (and a lot of other cases with similar situations) it leads to the kids having to sleep in cat urine drenched mattresses and i am quote sure that the animals are not getting the proper care (food, changing litter boxes, medical visits) they should get. How is this good for the kids or the animals?

@mollyfarrell-savage9492

Жыл бұрын

@@georgielancaster1356 give them stuffed animals. Actual pets are living, breathing beings with needs of their own. They do NOT exist solely to “provide comfort” that adults refuse to give their own kids. Don’t advocate for child neglect AND animal neglect wtf

@critterc0rner

Жыл бұрын

@@georgielancaster1356 animals are not toys they’re a lifelong commitment just like children, if you or your children are unable to afford or clean up after the animal don’t get one. People especially kids can get comfort in other things like toys. I would not find comfort in a living thing if I knew I can’t properly take care of them and are forced to live in squalor. I would think they’re miserable and it makes me feel bad.

@trinityoflove21

Жыл бұрын

I need that advice right now. 🎉

This was me in 2015. I'd finally managed to escape an extremely abusive relationship. Whilst my ex was at work, I got my 3 babies together, packed a few suitcases, and left. We had nowhere to go, so we were homeless for a while, then we got a spot in a women's refuge. My health was at an all-time low, I desperately needed surgery (my ex broke my jaw and smashed all my teeth, but I wasn't allowed to seek medical treatment at the time, so my entire facial structure was a mess) and I became addicted to opioids (pills) because I was always in so much pain. I managed to rent us a house, and that's when I completely broke down. At my worst, I didn't sleep for 3 weeks straight, so I'd started hallucinating - it was bad. Our house ended up exactly like this one, bar the cat related issues, as we didn't have any pets. Even though I was finally free, I wasn't free from the trauma, and it brought me to my knees. My kids suffered greatly, and I don't think I'll ever forgive myself for that. One of my neighbours could see that I had totally spiralled, so she made me accept her help to clean up the house (she was Swedish, and very persistent lol.) We got it done over a weekend, and things started looking up. I sought help for my mental health, and my insomnia issues. I eventually got myself off the opiates and also got the surgery I needed, then I went on to move and get a great job. It was a long road, but I got there. These days, I sleep well, I clean, I garden, I paint, and I live my life everyday with the goal of doing everything I can to support my kids; they are who I get out of bed for. I'm just about to go back to full-time work after a hiatus, and I no longer live in a waking nightmare. I have hope. The point is, people often think that once someone is out of a bad situation, that's it - they're fine. A lot of people didn't understand why I had a complete breakdown *after* I got out. What we don't talk about enough is the aftermath; the after effects of traumatic experiences, the fear, the energy it takes to push through that fear, the nightmares, the stress, the hopelessness, and what it actually takes to get back on one's feet after living in abject misery and fear for years. We don't always just bounce back, sometimes we land even further down the gutter. It takes monumental effort to escape abuse, and we're often left absolutely empty once we go through getting out. It takes time to build those energy reserves back up, and in the meantime, everything can - and often does - fall apart. It's wonderful to know that there are people out there who are empathetic enough to look beyond the overwhelming mess in front of them, to see into what the problem really is, and to just help. We all need a little help sometimes.

@jasminebambury5841

Жыл бұрын

All the best to you. What a survivor and warrior for the babies♡☆

@sheilam4964

Жыл бұрын

@Christy Zee Aquarianated - 👍👍👍👍👍 Thank you. You put into words what I could not, of my own experience. I too was abused by my violent Mom as I grew up and later in a violent marriage. I left the marriage every year for 5 years but would be physically dragged back. After 5 years I finally was able to get over 360 miles (580 kms) away. Far enough he couldn't find me. Before that I didn't have a vehicle and his was always locked with the key in his pocket. He was also a light sleeper. That was back in the 50-70s with my Mom (my brother and sister say they don't remember "that") and 70s with my husband. Anyone I went to for help would tell him where I was when he phoned or dropped by. He keeps harassing them or playing the pity card over and over again till they give in. I'm sure they thought they were helping, even though I told them what he was doing to me. People, even family and friends, really do not want to be involved and when confronted will give up information to avoid being harassed by an aggressive person or even if they find him to be a GREAT guy, best buds, right. Makes it hard for them to believe he is so violent towards you. Even if you end up in the hospital. He down plays it or right out says it was your fault. Who are your friends and family to believe. They don't want anything to do with figuring out who is telling the truth between a nice guy and an obviously "upset" female. A female who is in shock from what has happened and in fear she will be found. Found and be taken back into the place of abuse. BUT you put a lot of my feelings and behaviour into words that I am unable to express. Once you are out nothing is fine. You are no longer fine. You are soooo broken. It is PTSD. We are just learning what that is and still don't know how to fix it or how to deal with it. Survivors just have to 'deal' with it. Your mind will not stop trying to 'deal' with it, figuring it out; how do you avoid it happening again. How to live with the nightmares. How to you silence or stop the memories that play over and over again in your mind no matter what you are doing or where you are. You are never safe from your memories or "out" of there. in you mind. Just like happy memories that pop up at any time, the nightmare memories do too. Good memories are triggered by the darnedest things. So are bad memories. Something so simple as seeing a happy couple definitely brings up THOSE memories and couples are everywhere, all the time. Memories are next to impossible to forget and it takes time to be at peace with them. This is how your day plays out. Every day. For years. Thank you for your words, Christy. They helped me.

@littlestbroccoli

Жыл бұрын

I wish everyone could see this comment, you've done such a good job of explaining what trauma does to us, and it's truly, truly shameful that society usually just looks the other way when they see someone is suffering. Leaving us to do it all on our own. You are incredibly strong, as is the mom in this video. Best of luck and wellness to you, incredible story

@gailhickman743

Жыл бұрын

I dont know you but I'm so proud of you! 😙🇬🇧

@maileevyne5000

Жыл бұрын

💓

Anyone complaining about using too much water/product has never smelt a home like this, of course you dont want to hose your house down everyday if it's not built to do so, but over cleaning a house in this condition is a good thing, you want to knock out as much bacteria as you possibly can, and even have some fun with bubbles because keeping good mental health through a clean like this is just as important. So happy we have people like you in the world to help families and people to move on from hard times.

@danielapearls1491

5 ай бұрын

The people complaing about how she cleans. The water etc are just the sillest people. Its maddening how petty and stupid people can be. They need to stay in their own life and just get lost!! Of course you need a lot of product and water to clean these places. Its a once of industrial super clean!!!! She does such a wonderful job. So happy these children can have a better home♥️

@bingusslingus7020

2 ай бұрын

There’s always experts in the comments haha

As someone who was a teacher for 20 years, thank you for helping these kids. I taught middle and high school kids, and it was amazing how many of them were in this kind of situation. One of my students told me he had no bed. Their apartment was filled with 8 mattresses and his parents rented them for 8 hours to anyone who could pay, so often he had nowhere to sleep because all the mattresses were rented. God help us. Also, great job on getting the kids mattresses. That's a GIANT help. Someone needs to keep checking on this family to keep the mom accountable. We didn't see the mom's room or bathroom, so I'm guessing she had to clean those herself. It's great that she cleaned her bathroom. This apartment was a health hazard, for sure, and the children deserve better.

@sherylturnerturner1352

5 ай бұрын

When I saw those mattress's my heart broke, favorite part of the video when the girls brought out new ones. Everyone deserves some dignity.

@16watch

4 ай бұрын

Oh my lord! I can’t imagine renting out mattresses and leaving my kids without. Talk about a dangerous not to mention unsanitary situation.

@yesiownfrodo

4 ай бұрын

@@16watch I have seen so many horrific things it left me with ptsd, and and I am not joking. My mother, too, was in education, and this week when I was over there we were talking about the nightmares we can't stop having, and we've both been out of the classroom for a decade.

@christinelanmon2852

3 ай бұрын

It's unfair to the kids and the cats. No one deserves to live like that.

@ekaterinabulla1560

25 күн бұрын

Почему все говорят про мать??? Где их отец??? Почему нет мужской помощи!!!!!

This video was very hard to watch. This happened to my family. We kids were sleeping in beds with cat urine and fecal matter, and our carpets were full of fleas. We had no hot water and had to boil it on the stove to wash ourselves. My mother was an orphan who suffered from abuse and neglect in her own life and eventually turned to alcohol, as did my father, to cope with stress. Thanks to people like yourself, we were assisted in various ways (house cleaning by church friends, cats were removed by an aunt, new transportation was donated, etc.) and slowly my parents got back on track. They spent the last 20 years of their lives sober, happy, and in control. What you do matters! (Adding a note here because several people have asked about the cats. We had about 25 cats when feline leukemia broke out and a majority of the cats got quite sick. My aunt paid a veterinarian to come to the house while we kids were at school and he fixed and vaccinated the cats who could be saved, and euthanized those who could not. It was one of the worst days in my life, but it was a huge help to my parents and it was all done with the best intentions.)

@tryphenarose384

Жыл бұрын

That's amazing to hear. Sorry you lived in such horrible conditions, but so glad your parents were able to turn things around. For their sake as well as yours. ❤

@marvelous3112

Жыл бұрын

OMG so sorry you've had to go through that horrible condition as a child, now I'm sure you are a great strong person with a brave heart. Praise God your parents are sober and your family is healed 💕

@sellyourhomenowbook

Жыл бұрын

Hugs and kisses. I survived an alcoholic father. It's very hard.

@bellababooska4181

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your story ❤️

@nourjamous947

Жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️❤️

when you say you’re the best cleaner in the world, it really is true. You cleaning for those that can’t, not judging, and for free. You’re an amazing person with a beautiful soul

@oniestyholder8746

Жыл бұрын

Though she kinda was judging throughout the video she was saying that the kids probably get bullied cause it stinks so bad and everything yet she says she’s not judgmental, no hate I’m just pointing out some facts

@frogmoment

Жыл бұрын

@@oniestyholder8746 tbh none of those are judgmenets they are just opinions

@andicantu6490

Жыл бұрын

@@oniestyholder8746 judging would be like saying someone is lazy for not cleaning. She never calls anyone lazy.

@veeemm3278

Жыл бұрын

Wow! I love reading about people's experiences and that must have been so hard growing up with. I am glad to read though they are sober now. Abuse has so many downstream effects.

@nissaini2104

Жыл бұрын

@@andicantu6490 u explained it very nicely. Not everything someone says is meant nagative ❤

Omg those poor babies having to live in such filth breaks my heart 💔 when you showed the pee soaked mattresses I wanted to cry. I know the mom is struggling but the children should not be in that environment unless/until she gets better, I pray social services keeps tabs on her and makes sure the home stays clean and safe for them

@devynhayley6411

3 ай бұрын

Yeah exactly …

@bobjoanstaudenbaur1979

2 ай бұрын

You are very kind helping such helpless people but you need to protect yourself. You should be wearing a mask because you are handling hazardous material. You can get very sick. 🤗

I grew up in a similar situation. Thank you for helping these kids! I wish someone like you had come to our apartment growing up. They will remember this the rest of their lives ❤

Just want this mom to know the first and hardest step is getting help. You got you and your children out of an abusive house, You've stopped drinking, your house is clean. These a huge, huge, huge steps and you should feel super proud of yourself. I know I'm proud of you and so many others are too. Now it's time to enjoy your boys and to love yourself. You deserve a clean space. You deserve to love yourself. ❤️

@paulamadison9877

Жыл бұрын

❤

@YTFlove4ever

Жыл бұрын

Such a lovely comment. Made me tear up. Thank you for showing kindness to this person who deserves all this love and more.

@rachelmartin3631

Жыл бұрын

Mom, there are going to be lows but there is also light at the end of the tunnel. I know from experience that getting away from an abusive partner is HARD. Thankfully I don't have kids. Kids just make it harder to get out, so HUGE applause. Congrats!

@georgielancaster1356

Жыл бұрын

Well said

@tico_balls

Жыл бұрын

Pero no mato las moscas nunca .🤮🤢

The fact that people have anything to say about how much product or water you’re using…you’re a miracle worker, just do your thing omg

@dantosinferne

Жыл бұрын

that threw me too lol like, really? she's using too much water? really? lol

@Feminazi1dc

Жыл бұрын

she doesnt even use too much water. im stingy about water usage and she literally uses just enough.

@repentandbelieveinJesusChrist3

Жыл бұрын

Repent to Jesus Christ “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” ‭‭Isaiah‬ ‭41‬:‭10‬ ‭NIV‬‬ Ty

@oldsoul4762

Жыл бұрын

@@repentandbelieveinJesusChrist3 wrong place to post this.

@haileyfuentes6785

Жыл бұрын

THANK YOU! There are people out there making videos where they fill a sink or toilet with like 7 full bottles of product just for the color or foam. She’s literally just DEEP cleaning.

I help single mothers who are struggling…with their home, clutter, cleaning & organizational skills. Not a business, I just help…I’m a retired nurse. I know I leave Huge impacts in their lives and in their children’s lives. Love what you do Auri - luv. We are energetic sisters in many ways. 😘

Speaking as someone who struggles with hoarding tendencies, depression, and anxiety, you really can’t understand the depth of what an amazing person you are for helping people. For saving them. I’ve managed to turn my life around mostly, thanks to the help of people like you, and while my home isn’t perfect, it is in such a better state. If someone reading this is struggling, i know how embarrassing and disheartening it is, but please seek help. There is hope on the other side. It takes a lot of work, but i promise you it is worth it. My heart goes out to this mother and her children. No judgment here. I pray you were able to turn your life around.

Your an Angel. Im crying. I lost my Son 3 years ago this month so I know heartbreak and depression and what it does to people. What you're doing is such a gift. Im a mother of 4. Three here and 1 in Heaven at the age of 31. If no one has told Im so proud of you.

@kayeb7809

Жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry for your loss. ❤️

@sassyslsgrl

Жыл бұрын

So sorry for your loss....hugs

@jaynenicol1427

Жыл бұрын

Lost my son 41 years ago this week. So sorry for your loss.

@heythenameisash

Жыл бұрын

I just turned 31 yesterday. I also have three kids here (twin boys and a girl) and one in heaven. It's 9 years this month that my first daughter passed (Nov 8th). The grief never ends and the way it affects your life is devastating. The home turning to chaos is just one visual aspect. Auri is so amazing 🥺

@angelica3744

Жыл бұрын

I am so sorry for your tremendous loss. Thank you for being here!

For those people who criticize Auri (using too much water or products, if she says trashes or squeewee...) DO BY YOURSELF EVERYTHING SHE DOES FOR FREE AND THEN COME BACK TO SAY WHATEVER YOU WANT. GET A LIFE!! She's an AMAZING PERSON who do incredibly work and literally she saves someone's life by giving a new fresh start!

@JesusForTheGays

Жыл бұрын

@Zita There is no garauntee as to the condition of the house longterm. You are ascribing outcomes to strangers online based purely off of dogmatic responses, not through logic and reasoning using scientifically and statistically proven estimates of probability of outcomes, but through dogmatic beliefs of brutal honesty without any actual honesty, and pessimism disguised as realism.

@niteflytes

Жыл бұрын

Zita, you don’t know that. Auri has heard back from people she has helped telling her they have kept their home clean. And saving someone’s life can be metaphorical and not literal. This kind of negativity is unnecessary. If everyone had that attitude then no one would ever help people in need and nothing would change. People need hope, a fresh start and help in order to change. Yes, it might get dirty again, but that doesn’t negate any of the effort made to help someone. Sometimes change happens gradually and a person needs a lot of help. My mom tried to quit smoking seven times. Even though she started again 6 times she never gave up and we encouraged her every time.

@nikkisowell3263

Жыл бұрын

I miss her saying squeegee. English is not her first language so it never bothered me. I thought it was cute and even started pronouncing it like she does. Her attitude gives me so much joy.

@ssp4795

Жыл бұрын

@@JesusForTheGays you've used a lot of big words to sound intelligent, whilst at the same time calling the writer "dogmatic" based on your own "dogmatic" beliefs. . 🥨 the science DOES support the idea that unless someone makes the decision to be better, they will fall back into old habits. this one clean won't fix anything without effort from the mum.

@JesusForTheGays

Жыл бұрын

@@ssp4795 1. I purposefully use words people will understand. Most people know what dogma, scientifically, statistically, probabilty, and every word I used mean. All of those terms are actually really common in debate, especially politics. I'm sorry, but if there are terms that I feel best represent what I'm trying to convey, I'm not going to dumb the words down to seem like I'm not trying to come off as smart; Especially if I have reason to believe people understand the terms I'm using. 2. The science doesn't support a guarantee of anything. Saying something WILL just happen again as though it's certian fact is inacurate. There's probability, no actual "This is the way and only way it's going to play out." 3. If you can understand what I mean then I fail to see how "I'm just pretending to be smart". I did what I set out to do; Which was to convey the message that I wanted to send. 4. You're ignoring context to this situation to make the mother come off worse than she actually is. She escaped a physically and mentally abusive spouse, realized the state of her home and called for help from a proffessional cleaner who would know how to clean such a toxic environment to work in better and safer than she could, cleaned the second bathroom herself and did just as good of a job as Ari judging by the photos (The second bathroom looked far safer to work in than the rest of the house judging by the before photo, and was far easier for an overwhelmed single mother tp handle), and got in conact with as well as worked with cps afterwards. She 100% had the drive to change, ya'll are just ignoring that to arbitarily force her into a box based purely off your predisposed beliefs towards this sort of thing. Using "big words" doesn't make me intellegent, but you two ignoring the nuance in this situation doesn't make you right either. 5. Calling someone out for dogmatic responses to complicated issues that should be taken on a case by case basis does not make it so that I'm basing my arguement on dogmatic beliefs. This persons whole "It'll just get trashed again" spiel is absolutely something I see all the time and is a dogmatic response to all situations like this regardless of context. 6. I find it interesting that you specified "someone who isn't motivated to change and doesn't put effort in" , implying that this logic applies to this case. When the latter is lying and the former is something you not only failed to prove but then ignored the blatant contradictions to in this case. I'm not even upset that you didn't provide sources of the science, I'm more baffled at how you twisted the situation to make your assertian of what the science says apply instead.

I'm glad to hear you talked with her and she did some cleaning too. I pray this motivated her to be diligent and do the work to keep it safe and clean for her family.

As a solo mom too, i understand the struggle. I broke into tears when you entered in the kids room and found out the mattresses... Thank you, for all what you do.

IF THE MOM WATCHES THIS VIDEO AND READS MY COMMENT. YOU ARE AMAZING AND YOUR FUTURE IS BRIGHT. I can tell you almost gave up on yourself. Someone as resilient as you has the power to do ANYTHING they want

@sabaidris2996

Жыл бұрын

I second that. There are many hard comments for the mom, but just stay positive and good luck

@marenslife8181

Жыл бұрын

❤ ❤️❤️I Hope the mom reads your comment

@SevenHunnid

Жыл бұрын

on my KZread channel i do food reviews while I’m super high 💀

@1977dharris

Жыл бұрын

I second that!!!! Don't give up. Healing from what you lived through is hard and it takes a long time. Keep going and keep fighting. You can do it. The people in the comments judging you have no idea what you and your children have already endured. You saved yourself and them once before and you have the power to do it again.

@mariapaulagl

Жыл бұрын

Amazing How much stuff wr actually forget in the fridge and cupboards.

I don't know if you've heard this tip before but if you are cleaning a home with a lot of cat litter/urine scent everywhere, place a large mason jar of hot water and white vinegar in the room about an hour before you go in and leave it there while you clean. It helps neutralize the scent and makes a huge difference in air quality I swear

@lamiakhaled582

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the tip. I will try it

@nord8140

Жыл бұрын

It's a very interesting idea and very usefull for Auri as it is not the first time she cleaned a house with cars.

@isiIwen

Жыл бұрын

There's also microbial cleaners, they contain beneficial bacteria that will disintegrate the urine

@lesyarosa8091

Жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot, that's eco friendly. We never know when we may need 👍⚘

@YTFlove4ever

Жыл бұрын

Is this only for the smell of cat urine or any other outdoors too?

It’s so nice to watch someone identify a problem and choose to help ❤

@Rachel-ul8et

5 ай бұрын

Great point

@CleaningExpert800

Ай бұрын

👍👍

Just saw this.. was amazed at your generosity in buying mattresses and new bedding for kids. I appreciate what you do to help those who can’t seem to help themselves. You have also helped me learn how to clean better! And I already love to clean!❤️

Can you imagine those kids on the future telling their histories to their families and commenting about a “woman” who helped them to change their lives? It means, This funny and kind girl will live forever on each person that she stand for! It’s amazing how she’s building her legacy on this planet! ❤❤❤❤❤

@casaljovem123

Жыл бұрын

Oiii me chamo Silvia comecei a gravar aqui a pouco tempo , queria te convidar para vim conhecer meu cantinho e me ajudar a realizar meu sonho de reformar minha casinha aonde moro de favor em quintal de família tenho sonho de ter minha casa própria mais um passo de cada vez 💗🙌🏽💖❤❤

@TheMantaRae

Жыл бұрын

An Angel came

@axolotlemadsolotle743

Жыл бұрын

There’s no cat urine though

@snsn3673

Жыл бұрын

Angel Auri😘

@kayingthao5072

Жыл бұрын

❤

The kids must be overjoyed with their clean room and beds. I am so happy for them.

@jamesjackson5020

Жыл бұрын

It's great that you can see the positive side.... Hearing that this is two children under the age of ten were living brought out nothing but anger in me. That itself is abuse.... to have 2 children living in that mess.... It is absolutely shocking that the care that you would feel for your children would not be enough to make her clean the house..... I would have some incredibly harsh words for her

@lena6827

Жыл бұрын

@@jamesjackson5020 she was most likely depressed and you never know her children could of been one of her motivation to ask for help it would of been real abuse if she continued to have her children live like that moms are allowed to go through harsh times and her mental health was declining but at the end of the day she asked for help and she even cleaned up the other bathroom I know her and her kids are doing just fine and obviously let’s hope her and her kids don’t have to live like that again any time soon.

@j.p.1492

Жыл бұрын

@@jamesjackson5020 Its good Auri made sure they were put in contact with CP services to make sure they will keep an eye on the situation. The mom has shown she has changed and will receive the help she needs to keep it that way.

As a single parent with severe depression, i know the absolute crushing guilt: I love my kid, I want the best for her, but sometimes I can't even brush my own teeth. I clean as much and as often as I canz but sometimes I truly cannot

There are so many humans in so much pain. Watching these videos makes me more aware. Nothing is 2 dimensional so we must look beyond what we see with compassion. I’m happy this mother got some help with her home and I hope this gave her the opportunity to start from new. I hope she manages to maintain it for herself and her children.

The fact that child protective services weren't called way before this is mindblowing! Those children must have reeked and the teachers should have picked up on that. So happy they got help and hopefully the mother is able to recover. You are a saint

@8luvbug

Жыл бұрын

We're those poor kids even going to school?

@pomme2903

Жыл бұрын

Yes they were. You can see their room is the only "clean", ok one. They have toothbrushes etc they were taking care of the child at least

@granmabern5283

Жыл бұрын

All this mess built up over only SIX MONTHS, she says it in the video. Scary quick. The mother must have completely tanked. 😢

@8luvbug

Жыл бұрын

@@pomme2903 Disgusting you call that being well taken care of. They had to sleep on cat pissed sheets for Pete's sake. You nimrods need to stop making excuses and defending child neglect.

@pomme2903

Жыл бұрын

@@8luvbug Yeah, sorry. I didn't reach this part of the video when I wrote the comment. That was bad af

I used to think you simply joke when you say you're the best cleaner in the world. Because of you I saw a bunch, And I mean a WHOLE BUNCH of cleaning videos, cleantok etc. I then realized you are NOT JOKING. YOU REALLY ARE THE BEST CLEANER IN THE WORLD AURI

@jamiecollins5012

Жыл бұрын

What is cleantok

@nuriaxdsousa

Жыл бұрын

Cleantok is so annoying. They just use so many unnecessary products just for the views :(

@nuriaxdsousa

Жыл бұрын

@@jamiecollins5012 its tiktok videos related to cleaning

@calicocritterscrafts886

Жыл бұрын

Agree! I’ve seen a few others who claim it but they just don’t come close!

@Lyla-rl5bk

Жыл бұрын

she is the best cleaner in the world, she do it alone(or maybe one or 2 partner),normally this kind of house professional cleaners do it in a team,she do it for free,and even bought them gifts, she respects the people she help, like she won't throw away things that people don't want her to

I know this is a serious situation but When I’m lazy to clean I watch couple of these videos and it get my cleaning motor pumping 😅

As a single mum of 3 who struggles with mh and other illnesses this hit close to home I have had issues with my home and like this mum I reached out for help and got myself back on track it's the hardest thing to admit your not doing good enough but the best feeling when you come out the other side your amazing for helping and giving her chance to have a better start in her ne life

My house looks like this and I am binge watching your video for motivation. Within a span of 2 years my dad had a stroke and a heart attack I was trying to take care of him, but I had school, then I was diagnosed with ADHD and a bad Hoarding habit. I was so scared about my dad I stress ate, put my physical and mental health and my home on the back burner I have already cleaned half of the rooms in my house thanks to you! My first room I cleaned was my cleaning closet so then that became SO useful when cleaning the other rooms!

@nadulamb4141

Жыл бұрын

You go!!!!!!🎉

@jf8200

Жыл бұрын

Congrats!!!!! Somehow the first couple of rooms are the most difficult so good on you! I bet it's so satisfying to walk into a previously messy space and appreciate how nice you've since cleaned it.

@gyongygyongy1314

Жыл бұрын

You can do it.👏

@christyinthecarolinas

Жыл бұрын

Daniel I'm just wanting to check in and see how you're doing. I know it will come in waves of feeling overwhelmed, but don't give up! You can do it. Just remember, it didn't happen overnight and you won't fix it overnight. Take it a day at a time, or as they say..how do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time. You've got this!

@jacquelineb7056

Жыл бұрын

Daniel, I'm so proud of you! It's hard work and you're doing it. It's ok to take a break when you're overwhelmed but you deserve to live better so don't give up! One step ... one item ... at a time. I know you can do this! You already are! You're worth it!

These videos are both hard and uplifting to watch. I went through a brief period like this when I was 20 and my kids 6m and 18m. My home never got this bad but it was bad enough, I was alone, so very broken from the trauma of a violent relationship with my kids dad and literally catatonic most of the time. I didn’t even drink or take drugs, I think I just went into shock. No one came to help me and watching you help these people moves me to tears and inspires me to do the same, because I know, I remember how it felt - what you’re doing is so special. Thank you! To anyone watching and judging these people… I hope that you never know the agony of losing yourself in this way.

@bellag2864

Жыл бұрын

I went through that too when I escaped an abusive situation while pregnant and with a 7 year old. I'm glad you escaped, and you're right no one should be judging unless they walked a mile in their shoes.

@laminage

Жыл бұрын

Yes. When I look at these houses I cringe and shake my head. When you hear the "Stories" behind these houses it's heartbreaking but they are doing their best to change for the better. Asking for help is something that alot of folks still have a problem with. The Bible says Pride Goeth Before A Fall.

@thetruthwillsetyoufree5567

Жыл бұрын

@@laminage It's not asking for help that is the problem actually, it is the receiving of help that is severely lacking!

@violalanceolataviolaceae1403

Жыл бұрын

Catatonia.. Thanks for telling me. I had no idea how to describe what happened to me when I left an abusive situation. I was severely catatonic for at least two weeks. I wouldnt eat or drink or move. I wouldnt even change positions in bed. I would stare silently at the wall for days. Sounds crazy looking back but in my head it took everything for me to drink water after that. Its messed up but I recovered! and now Im with someone that is incredible. 😊

@sgdsingh9123

Жыл бұрын

I wonder what the best way to offer help is? Because I’m a lot like Auri, and would LOVE to clean and organize for people, but I always find myself instead pretending that I don’t notice the mess so they don’t feel worse…😔💔

Managed to clean a living space for 2 of 3 people that was nearly identical to this - the third person is a senior citizen and their space is even bigger and not opening the door to allow me in. Oh boy. You are a GREAT INSPIRATION It makes lives just a little bit better when we help one another.

I went thru the worst health crisis in my life. Was on the brink of death. For 2 years I struggled to do bare basic for my kids. I needed so much help and became dependent on my family. It was so hard. This is hard to see, but I am thankful because I could have been in this situation too if I didn't have help. You are an angel. My health is good now and I am grateful. Love your videos.

So impressed with her cleaning that last room herself. I hope she gains confidence and motivation from this experience.

@donnalynn3588

Жыл бұрын

yous done brilliantly 👏 👏 hopefully the mum will be able to keep on top of it for the kids sake. She needs to get a litter tray for the pissy cats.

@restinwalken

10 ай бұрын

​@@donnalynn3588is a liter tray different than a liter box? Curious? I assume no but.. Because they had one. Cats just won't use it if it's dirty and they will find cleaner things to pisss on. In this case the beds. Poor everyone there. My cats would go in my dirty or clean clothes laundry basket if they deemed to liter box dirty. I hope that this help got the push/ability to maintain. It's the getting past the mountain that is the hardest

@yesiownfrodo

10 ай бұрын

I hope she also cleaned her bedroom! Let's hope.

@junglekutz5625

10 ай бұрын

The energy that this woman brings with her cleaning these peoples home can only influence them to be just as, if not more positive and productive. Replacing the children's mattresses was a desperate plus. As I'm confused as to why the cats chose to urinate in their beds.

I appreciate the non-judgement, but I am still worried for the children's physical and mental well-being. I really hope the mother gets all the support she needs to provide a healthy and safe environment. Thank you for doing this. The mattress situation nearly broke my heart. I have two boys (4 and 7) and sometimes I feel guilty about cleaning when I should spend time with them or I feel guilty for not cleaning enough. Being a mom is always hard, but this was really tough to see.

@lauravaldez3829

6 ай бұрын

Being a single mom is crushing. Yes you are filled with guilt cause someone is raising your child. While you work your ass off to make ends meet. Then when you get home you are exhausted. Barely have enough energy to make food for your kids and your self. Then, if you decide you want to spend more time with kids time at work slows and so does money and do you are destitute. It’s a vicious cycle of chaos, work, rush rushrush rush. Not sure how but I found a husband who is the best provider and I get to spend what little time o have left with my son before he goes off to college.

My heart goes to them.. as a single mom, if I didn't have my support system.. that would be my life. Thank you for helping them, in some way, you helped me too. This level of compassion and kindness brings me so much hope ❤

I wish you could do a follow up later on to show if things got even better and the family loves their place now. It was awesome to see the room the mom did on her own afterwards.

This was my reality as a child... My mom's house was way worse. It still is. I'm now a 28 year old mom with my own house and responsibilities and I had to teach myself how to do everything after I moved out. I'm still learning better ways to do things because I refuse to let my children go through what I did.

@ariannahwilder3982

Жыл бұрын

I watch hoarding videos as a way to kind of piss myself off and get myself in manic cleaning mode. 😅

@thea7826

Жыл бұрын

@@ariannahwilder3982 I didnt have it this bad, but my family definetly liked to keep stuff instead of getting rid of it. As such I told my self to never allow my home to get into bad state, and I cleaned all the time so I had maticulous home, I didnt bring me happines, just stress. So from this prespective, I just want to advice you to sometimes give yourself a break, having mess doesnt eman you will become your mother, or your home becoming her house. :) Stay happy

@mehwishasad5079

Жыл бұрын

Arianna my mother is reverse she is too much organised I m get sick of that :D

@barbarakosloski9260

Жыл бұрын

@@mehwishasad5079 Your mother may be OCD which is just as bad. Be sure you keep yourself in check or you could become like her. It took time for me to be okay leaving a cup or plate in the sink before bedtime. Sounds silly but, unless you've been there, you may not understand how hard it was to train my brain to think it will not lead to hoarding.

@mehwishasad5079

Жыл бұрын

@@barbarakosloski9260 haha nope she is not I m little lazy now I m also a mother of two son n I also make sure to provide them hygienic environment

I say this with kindness and empathy, maybe the children should stay with relatives (temporarily) until the mother gets serious help for her depression. It's obvious she's overwhelmed and needs intervention but it's not fair to have young children living like that.

Dear Mom of 2 kids, you did an amazing job by asking Auri for help and getting things going. Life is tough and we all struggle with something. ❤❤❤ You are not alone and you can do this! Things will get better, I promise. ❤❤❤

@ukisa3rdworld586

11 ай бұрын

Things won't get better when mental illness is concerned

@rahzo8712

6 ай бұрын

@@ukisa3rdworld586Ofc but with a clean environnement it will be easier to

I love how positive and understanding you are, Aurii. I don’t think I could deal with broken glass and cat pee in the kids room and not be angry.

I just want to say Auri, that seeing you getting overwhelmed with the obstacles and showing how it's okay for even you to ask for help is very nice and inspiring. You are a beacon of positivity! Keep up strong!

My Dad was a drinker. I would clean the place he lived with his girlfriend and her children. Every weekend it was back to being the same mess, the baby was dirty and in dirty clothing. I would take on the job of looking after the other kids and the cooking and cleaning. It was terrible. We were so vulnerable. Bad people hurt us because they could get away with it - we didn't have an adult or anyone to protect us when I was at my Dad's place. Thank you Auri for doing what you are doing. I just hope these children have people who will show up and look after them long-term, the mother needs a lot more help.

@Lourdes-nc3sp

Жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Yes I'm just a stranger but I am so sorry. You should have been treated with love and respect 😞

@florencecavallaro4599

Жыл бұрын

YESSSSS THIS MOTHER NEEDS LONG TERM HELP/IF SHE DID THIS IN CT>SHE WOULD BE IN JAIL/CHILD ABUSE/ANIMAL ABUSE/ABUSE TO THE LANDLORD WHO GAVE HER THE RENT//NOT FAIR AT ALL NONE OF THIS//

I got tears in my eyes when you changed the mattresses and bedding. I'm so glad you are able to donate things they need. It must be fun to go shopping, especially for children. I respect the privacy of the families you help, but sometimes I wish I could see their faces when they come home to their clean spaces. Of course, don't think I'm suggesting you show them! They deserve their privacy, but, oh, the joy! That mom did an amazing job on that bathroom! The title says "ashamed single mom of two." I hope after this cleaning and your help, her new title is, "proud and happy single mom of two!!"

You're a blessing. I hate to see that children are being subjected to that. I battle with depression and I know how hard it is sometimes just to get up but no matter how bad or down I feel I push through it for my kids bc they don't deserve that, and that's my motivation

I feel badly for the cats too. They're such clean animals and loathe filthy litterboxes. This poor mom. What you and the helpers did was absolutely wonderful.

I love her confidence, the way she says; "I'm the best cleaner in the world"! She's definitely great at this & has a wonderful heart!!!

@repentandbelieveinJesusChrist3

Жыл бұрын

Repent to Jesus Christ “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” ‭‭Isaiah‬ ‭41‬:‭10‬ ‭NIV‬‬

@maddyg2320

Жыл бұрын

@@repentandbelieveinJesusChrist3 Keep yout cults away from me. Thank you!

@shakeyrasmakeupofbeauty

8 ай бұрын

​@@repentandbelieveinJesusChrist3amen

Thank you for celebrating the art of cleaning! I also clean for others and like you, love to transform dirt and chaos into a work of art. Many people refuse help out of shame, and think that spending money on help is a waste of money, or that the act of cleaning is degrading or exploitive. But beauty is essential to our well being.

As someone who works in an animal shelter, I can definitely vouch for the smell of a place like this. I’m not talking about the “I know animals live here” smell. I mean when anything or anyone pees and it’s left, especially on fabric, it’s like fermented ammonia. When I do laundry at the shelter, even if the dog bedding has only been sitting for one day, when you pull the top blanket off the bin, the ammonia smell hits you like a truck and it’s suffocating. Add that to the rest of the garbage in this home, and all I can say is NO human or animal should ever have to live like this. I am so beyond grateful there are people like you who help these families restart their lives ❤️

I have bipolar disorder and am currently battling depression. My family knows about all of it but doesn't know the details about my living situation. Yesterday I had the courage to ask for help to clean for the first time, since my house was a mess and I was really ashamed about it. I've always made sure NOBODY sees it or knows how bad it is. Today me and my grandma cleaned together and managed to clean about 1/3 of the house. Your videos were a huge part of my decision to ask her for help since I've been too scared and ashamed of mysefl before. You're doing a great job and help a lot more people than just the ones you actually clean for.

@yooein

Жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️

@mayamagination

Жыл бұрын

Well done!! 💗

@SvetlanaRenee

Жыл бұрын

Keep being brave. From one bipolar to another, I’m going thru the same thing right now. I’m done with organizing half of the house. It didn’t help that i moved here a few months ago with two houses worth of stuff-during the worst depression… there is Still so much more to go. I just spent a ton on kitchen stuff due to Black Friday mania, but it was needed cuz all of my pots and dishes were rusted from not washing them for so long 😢 it’s so hard, keeping goal in mind, Piece by piece ❤️

@narva6772

Жыл бұрын

@@SvetlanaRenee thank you! This comment actually made my day since I've had a huge mental breakdown about people not understanding me (irl, I mean). I wish you good luck with organizing and also to keep your strenght during all of this.

@jackieo8693

Жыл бұрын

Keep up the good work!!!

Any time I want to clean but need a boost of motivation I watch these videos. Usually halfway through I get the urge to get up and clean!! ☺️ Then I sit down after, in a clean space, and watch the rest of the video. Makes me grateful I have the ability to be able to clean my space 🤍

@charlenedealmeida859

Жыл бұрын

This is literally what I have done this Sunday morning :D **fistbump through the internet **

@akaCONSTANTINE

Жыл бұрын

@@charlenedealmeida859 yesssss!! 😄 🤜🧽🤛

@FhtagnOphelia

Жыл бұрын

I take a break in my work, and started watch this video. In the middle I had to stop it, because I needed to deep clean my cat's litter boxes. Motivation aproved ^^

I love seeing you make a difference in someone's home! 🎉I also clean with you at times, so thank you for being my cleaning buddy!

The fact that you look at every item before you toss it out is incredible. They are lucky that you helped them.

My home isn’t as bad as the houses in these videos, but I still feel overwhelmed. I’d much rather clean someone else’s place than my own. I watch these videos for a little motivation.

@Jesse-ri5ud

Жыл бұрын

I wish you the best of luck, I know you can do it! It may take a long time but you WILL get things clean eventually - step by step, bit by bit! 👍

@JessMurgatroyd

Жыл бұрын

I'm the same. I'm a cleaner....but I'm determined. New house and its getting organised now. Binned loads when we moved

@thecommentpolice

Жыл бұрын

Would it be possible to do a "house swap" with someone in a similar situation as in you both clean each other's home?

@helpinghands17

Жыл бұрын

Try to do it by taking little steps. Like creating little objectivs cleaning a little part of a room each day. (Sorry for my English).

@wifeoftheparty9839

Жыл бұрын

Same

This video really "hits home" for me. I remember growing up in a house like this one. We had three cats though. I would constantly go without food or hot water. And there was urine and excrement from the cats everywhere. Even in the shower. I couldn't have friends round, I stank constantly. To this day my mum still lives like this. We had manyyy people come and help us. But it never stuck. I'm almost 24yrs old now. And I struggle with keeping a clean home. I've suffered from psychosis for almost 5yrs now. And am finally coming out the other end. Thankfully I haven't let it get to this level in a few years now (after moving out of my mums) but it's still not tidy. Now that I'm coming out the other side, I'm getting better at cleaning. And one of my goals for this year is to keep a tidy flat. I'm putting on your video today as cleaning motivation. So that over the next week I can get my place to a point where all I have to do is KEEP it tidy. Rather then doing a lot at once. I know for some people your help can be inspiring. And for me, I have found that in your KZread channel too. So, for everyone that gets help from your videos, we thank you. Have a lovely New Year! Goodbye for now. :3

@nadulamb4141

Жыл бұрын

You will walk out of this victorious!

@HereIAm247

Жыл бұрын

So glad you are getting out on the other side!

@Jojomo564

Жыл бұрын

Keep motivated. You can do it ❤

@education461

Жыл бұрын

Poor cats!

@amymccarthy5591

Жыл бұрын

I am beyond proud of you for not giving up! What a very traumatic childhood with that level of neglect, you are so strong to get yourself to where you are today! ❤️

To the people complaining about her water and cleaning supply usage;just stop. To The lady who lives in this apartment. You are amazing and you have already been so brave by reaching out for help. You are stronger and beavers than you know. Keep looking ahead, and moving forward. ❤🎉

You are so amazing for allowing her a safe space to reach out. Also Incredibly amazing for the work you do! This is no small accomplishment on either side and you did it in such a non judgmental way! Keep up the work you do! Not all heroes wear capes! 🥰🥰🥰

To the person that helped her clean up te kid’s room And lifted the couch up : Thank you for helping to make the world a better place! ❤❤❤❤❤❤

Those poor children would have smelled when they went to school. Here in Canada, those children would likely have been apprehended by children's aid. God bless you for helping this mom and her children start a new chapter. The most important thing is for the mom to have support in her sobriety. So glad you have helped her in that area. You are amazing!

@ilove6kies

Жыл бұрын

Fellow Canadian here. I agree with everything you said. Poor kids.

@kaylariggs5188

Жыл бұрын

They should have been if in an unhealthy, unsafe and dangerous environment.

@kristopherjensen2513

Жыл бұрын

As they should have been

@Sarah-ft8jr

Жыл бұрын

@@kaylariggs5188 maybe it’s better to just help families rather then take a child away, Which not only doesn’t solve the issue, it creates new issues and just punishes and traumatises the child further.

@audreyhertz301

Жыл бұрын

@@Sarah-ft8jr I agree! Taking the children away is not always the best option.

What you do in two days for these families is amazing! You are a God send.

my heart goes to these kids and this mom. It’s absolutely tragic that such young kids and animals had to live in these conditions, and I think it speaks VOLUMES that this mother looked for help and cleaned up. that is something my parents couldn’t do. they were too ashamed and too prideful to let others know the life their kids were living, and to this day we’ve been left traumatized because of it. not to mention the immense guilt I personally feel for the pets we had. there is still time for these kids; the shame doesn’t need to last forever. I understand people being mad at the mom, but too quickly do we jump to blame women for situations like this. I can’t even begin to imagine the pain of being physically and mentally destroyed by your husband while trying to care for TWO kids. even as a mother, that can break you. massive props to her for quitting drinking and not letting this go on longer than six months, to be able to do all of that despite her circumstances is absolutely astonishing and I believe she deserves so much credit for it. as a victim of both abusive family, an abusive partner, critical neglect, and maggot filled nightmare homes like this-I can’t describe how proud I am of this woman. I hope that since this she’s been able to get more long term support and healthy coping mechanisms, not just for herself, but her kids and cats too.

I was so glad you mentioned child protection at the end. These kids need to be in a clean, safe home. I hope the mom has gotten more help and the kids are doing well

Shout out to the ladies who showed up to help Auri. Thank you!

For fast microwave cleaning my husband taught me to use water in a plastic cup; only fill it halfway or the water will explode 😂! Microwave it for 2 to 3 minutes and the steam makes everything so easy to just wipe away with just water😊

@user-zu3wi2gi1z

9 ай бұрын

Yup😮

You are amazing!! This pulled on my heartstrings so much and I was so thankful you were there to help that family!!

As a Mom of 2 with depression I appreciate this videos and you SO much. You deserve the world and beyond and i wish everyone in this situations can get the help they need cuz once in a while it gets to me too and I know how hard it gets!

@lyndamcleod2242

Жыл бұрын

Why did the social work allow children to live in this squalor? There is no excuse for this! The mother is disgusting ,and the children should be taken from her !!! Then sterilised!

@colleend2977

Жыл бұрын

Hang in there and keep going. Right now my house is a mess, no where near this disaster and I will get to it when I can. It’s a lot to even make the bed when all you want to do is crawl under it

@clairemason5922

Жыл бұрын

@@colleend2977 Great words off wisdom 🍀

@raquelcarvalho3859

Жыл бұрын

@@colleend2977 Thank you for your words, hope you get better as well, and that you and yours have happiness forever!

@raquelcarvalho3859

Жыл бұрын

@@lyndamcleod2242 let me ask, do you have depression? and or kids?

Seeing how the mom cleaned the bathroom is amazing!!

@georgielancaster1356

Жыл бұрын

It shows the immense relief of help really does inspire people to try more, themselves. I think if there is a cleaning help through the government, even for a few months, it will help her break old habits.

@evefreyasyrenathegoddessev4016

Жыл бұрын

Nada ‘amazing’ or ‘cIean’ about it - it’s the least a br2ed2r could do! And these homes will never be cIean, since humnz lived or live in them! The misused big terms amazing and cIean only reflect me, and must be edited out!

@evefreyasyrenathegoddessev4016

Жыл бұрын

The misused flower dpi must be changed - it’s beyond disrespectful to flowers when womyn misuse flower dpi or flower names etc, and only I the pure / sacred being reflect flowers! Flowers & trees etc are sacred and pure non-moving beings who only reflect me, and they should have always been protected from humnz! Also, plucking flowers and _ing trees and mowing the lawn etc are harrible _ / zynz against nature!

@evefreyasyrenathegoddessev4016

Жыл бұрын

Also, all should use the terms ‘washing’ something or ‘wiping’ something etc instead of ‘cleaning’ or ‘clean’ etc, to avoid term misuse! Technically, something can be washed or wiped etc, but it doesn’t make it cIean - humnz / mammaIz etc are moving objects and are uncIean by nature aka eempure (so no amount of washing can fix that) and, non-moving objects (items) are only uncIean by contamination, as they were made from cIean materiaIs that come from nature, so those items or at least the materiaIs they were made from were once cIean / untchd by humn hand before they were tchd / handled / misused by humnz etc! While we pure beings (me & my pure protectors aka the alphas and flowers / trees / plants etc and birds / bees / butterflies etc) are cIean / pure by nature and we are cIean even when unwashed, which is why we do not have unpIeasant smeIIs!

@evefreyasyrenathegoddessev4016

Жыл бұрын

Purity is associated with good smeIIs or no smeIIs, while impurity is associated with unpleasant / harrible smeIIs! So the more unpleasant something’s natural smeII is, the more eempure it is! I don’t even like to misuse the word natural in that way, but by ‘natural’ I mean ‘personal’ - they should definitely create a better word to describe it that does not have any nature related terms in it!

You and all the people that cleaned are so so amazing for helping this family. And kudos to the mother for starting over and being brave enough to get help for her and her children. It so heartbreaking to see people's lives so torn apart like this from abusive partners. Its horrible that someone could terrorize their partner and their children to the point they have to flee for their physical safety. Hurt them so much mentally that it could leave them in shambles this way. I feel so bad for the mother and children that had to escape a dangerous situation to then still feel trapped from mental anguish so bad it turns to a terrible situation again. You all really helped them have hope again and a true fresh start. Plus she cleaned the hell out that bathroom too. Wishing everyone the best!

As a single mom with two kids at the same age, i feel alot of empathy for the mom here. You are doing an amazing job, and i hope the mother gets the help she needs, to persue a more structured life. Ive got ADHD, depression and mental burnout but im seeking help and has been getting help all of 2023..wish her and her family all the best, and happy new year ❤

Aurikatariina really is the best because she's there to HELP. not to shame the people into "doing better" she's here to help and provide a nice starting base. For many of us, cleaning the home alone is a major task. One that can seem impossible after a certain point. I'm so proud of this mom for asking for help and I hope to be a bit more like Aurikatariina as I grow up

@casaljovem123

Жыл бұрын

Oiii me chamo Silvia comecei a gravar aqui a pouco tempo , queria te convidar para vim conhecer meu cantinho e me ajudar a realizar meu sonho de reformar minha casinha aonde moro de favor em quintal de família tenho sonho de ter minha casa própria mais um passo de cada vez 💗🙌🏽💖❤❤

My heart hurt for this family. To the dear mother, I hope you are proud of yourself for the two VERY DIFFICULT + BRAVE steps you have taken. First, leaving an abusive relationship and second, recognizing that drinking was not the healthiest way to deal with the pain. You are so strong and wise. There is nothing like a fresh start to put the difficult past behind you. May you always remember your courage. Your children will always remember the braveness of your journey together. Love from NYC 🖤🖤🖤

@jessicaleerandall

Жыл бұрын

If there are any Moms or Dads in this situation + need help in nyc-I’m here for you. Reach out-I am a non -judgmental person capable of this kind of cleaning.

@chrisarbon8200

Жыл бұрын

What a lovely and understanding person you are. My son recently died through his depression, he had alcohol dependency, the only time he was happy when drinking. He was the kindest soul, never abusive. His end was horrific to say the least, his last words to me were "I'm so sorry mum". That broke my heart. His neighbours were like his brother and sister, their granddaughter is heartbroken her best friend is gone, they too are beyond sad. I thank you for your good 💖💓

@jessicaleerandall

Жыл бұрын

@@chrisarbon8200 I am so sorry 🖤 As a mum-I can image how you must miss him. It’s really just so sad when someone isn’t able to get to a better place before it’s too late. My sincerest condolences. Replay his beautiful memories as much as you need 😉.

@chrisarbon8200

Жыл бұрын

@@jessicaleerandall Thank you for your kind words. It is very hard especially knowing I could not reach him to help heal his mind. Help here in UK is not very forthcoming, so much more should be done. He, according to his neighbour, repeatedly played Help me Faith. When I listened to it I understood more. It is heartbreaking. Thank you again. Much love to you 💗

@milly3119

Жыл бұрын

@@jessicaleerandall I’m in NYC and I’m a hot mess! I can’t even find words to explain to you all that I have overcome but I exchange one problem for another and am learning to stop hoarding by shifting shit from one side to the other and I’m stuck in this cycle.

We need SINI products in the US 😍 you’re amazing Auri!! You’re so kind for replacing their personal products that needed replacing. We see your kind soul and good heart ❤️

I’m very glad to hear that you mentioned and discussed child protection. Well Done to the mum for working On the last bathroom. I hope the family and kids have the life they all deserve

You have changed the trajectory of these children's lives. The mother also did by reaching out for help regardless of the shame. This is the best motivation for cleaning I've ever seen you are wonderful :-) and so are your helpers*also I have found enzymatic cleaners like bio klean, or any other brand specific to pet urine works amazing, even on items that can't be washed. It's also important to use so the cats don't return to the same areas

@luzyluciernaga

Жыл бұрын

Enzymatic cleaners are The best for The smell, The stains and for The cats not repeating in The same áreas. Even Cats and dogs. You don't have to wash sometingh. Only spread It over the affected area. Ca

@HB-pr2tq

Жыл бұрын

Enzymatic cleaners, good recommendation. But as far as new matresses, sheets and blankets for the kids (and the mom, if the cat peed there too) that's a given no questions asked.

@CC12398

Жыл бұрын

@@HB-pr2tq Yes definitely & that was sweet

@sarahpeyton1640

Жыл бұрын

I would wear a mask!

@CC12398

Жыл бұрын

@@sarahpeyton1640 I think we have all learned masks don't do diddly 😂 but it would cut down on the smell

I would recommend wearing a good mask in future for any sort of job like this. You never know what you might be inhaling that is unsafe. We want you to stay healthy and safe so you can keep doing your work. 🙂

@redwoodtrail

Жыл бұрын

I would wear PPE for certain. Between all of the cleaning chemicals and the hazards of waste in the home and lack of maintenance in these type of homes are often dangerous with mold and termites. I’d be careful for sure. Never know what you might encounter.

Thank you for helping this family. Its heart warmimg to see and I love that the Mum had cleaned the last room. I hope it gives her the boost she needs in life to look after herself and her children 💞

I love your enthusiasm and no judgment! Blessings on you, your helpers on this clean. I know how hard it can be to clean like this. You are truly an earth angel in the work you do. Thank you!!! ❤❤❤❤

I am sure that it was stressing for the kids and the mom, but I want to point out that if the cats were peeing in the beds its a sign that they were under stress too... I'm so glad there is people like Auri willing to help !

@mariafox9226

Жыл бұрын

Plus cats are creatures of cleanliness.

@thecommentpolice

Жыл бұрын

The cats also had nowhere else to pee since their boxes were full.

@mariafox9226

Жыл бұрын

@@thecommentpolice not blaming this mother in anyway but rather just putting it out there so that people know, cats no like-y when litter box no clean-y. And this is why it’s important you clean out the litter box daily and change the litter once a week depending on your kitty.

@Silveirias

Жыл бұрын

Apart from their litter boxes being dirty, cats really do pee in places like beds (or dirty laundry) when they are scared or stressed. It's because by peeing there they are putting their own smell there, and that makes them feel safer. And putting their own smell somewhere that already smells safe makes them feel even safer. You spend hours in your bed every day, so it's probably the most you-smelling place, and thus the safest place in the cat's mind, in the house. So this cat probably deeply loves the kids and feels safe with them and wanted to make the place even safer in the middle of all this chaos. My own cat has peed on my bed when he's been under a lot of stress (when he was ill and came back from the vet and after being left alone overnight which I had never done before). You can clean a mattress from cat pee if it's not as bad as on this video. Soak the spot thoroughly with a cleaning product (ideally disinfecting). If you can, rinse after having let the cleaning product get properly absorbed. Make sure the mattress is properly dry before putting it back to use, and use baking soda for absorbing any remaining chemical smell. 👍🏻

@irenemorley75

Жыл бұрын

@@mariafox9226 It is important to clean a litter box every day Maria.

This was so hard to watch as my Mind was just on the kids. Big kudos to the mother who reached out and so much love for Auri for doing this. This is a truly heroic act of service and empathy. We need more of this in the world!

@brightpage1020

5 ай бұрын

Agreed it was so brave to reach out! So brave! She was probably terrified to be reported but of she tells on herself and corrects it like this she'll be monitored but likely in helpful ways not to take the kids. That was a good move, Momma, to protect your kids from continuing this.

@devynhayley6411

3 ай бұрын

If you are this unwell you should let the kids go

@christinelanmon2852

3 ай бұрын

My mind was on the kids and the cats!

That’s incredible! Thank you for helping this family. ❤️

You are awesome! Thank you for being such a blessing to others ♥️

I’m so happy you bought new mattresses and bedding for the kids. When I heard that the mattresses had cat urine, I admittedly hoped you found a way to replace them and was so glad you did. Future tip, put protective plastic sheeting under bedsheet/on top of mattress incase the cat returns to old habits. Then they can just wash the sheets and wipe the plastic sheet (good for bed wetters too) and the mattress will remain in good condition. Loved their rug. Wish I had the same. Very proud of the mum for asking for help

@susannecarter2341

Жыл бұрын

I've had to do this on my own bed and lounge. I sometimes foster cats and they do sometimes pee on my bed and even my own cats have had accidents when they're sick or accidentally locked in a room. I learnt my lesson the first time but luckily the pee had not gone all the way through to the mattress. I immediately went out and got a waterproof mattress protector and something similar for the lounge. It has saved my bacon a few times since then

@clwhite1127

Жыл бұрын

Or cover mattress with hospital pads that are washable

@amys5669

Жыл бұрын

@@florencecavallaro4599 Yup. Poor cats litter boxes were so gross cat didn't/couldn't use it. The maggots. And, sharp lids everywhere (top of cans). Don't think most people can just 'stop drinking' alone especially given how many liquor bottles were on top of the trash as she cleaned. Hope social workers monitor this family and make sure it doesn't get back to that unsafe condition and that the kids/pets are well cared for.

@taja6950

Жыл бұрын

You still need to vent this as much as you can, since where you put plastic it can get moldy..

@buffalokay

Жыл бұрын

They have whole mattress covers that are waterproof. The good ones are about $100. But they’re worth it. They keep out allergens as well. If something spills on the bed, it doesn’t seep into the mattress. You just unzip the cover and toss it in the wash.

This reminds me so much of a girl I met in junior high and was friends with through high school. Her mother was al alcoholic and their home was almost exactly like this. Just garbage everywhere and her mother would throw everything everywhere. Most of her free time was spent cleaning up after her own mother. I felt so much for that sweet soul! She was determined to try to HELP her mother up until graduating from high school and needing to get her own life together. She joined the military, trained to be a nurse and now she is out with a job in a hospital. Her mother is pretty much still the same person, heavily drinking on a regular basis which is so sad but no one can help us if we won’t help ourselves. So thankful my friend had the strength to get away from her mother.

I imagine those kids come to school one day , being clean and tidy, no smell of pee and something, clean clothes and clean hair…. I just get so happy for them❤

This was so hard to watch as my mind was just on the kids. Big kudos to the mother who reached out and so much love for auri for doing this. This is a truly heroic act of service and empathy. We need more of this in the world!

I can't believe anyone would be so rude as to tell you how much product to use or any other judgmental comment, because after all, they haven't been doing what you're doing and you always do such a great job!! Ignore the opinionated commenters and know that the majority of us are amazed at your dedication and mad cleaning skills!!

@casaljovem123

Жыл бұрын

Hi my name is Silvia I started recording here a little while ago, I wanted to invite you to come and see my little corner and help me fulfill my dream of renovating my little house where I live in a family backyard I dream of having my own house one more step away from each time 💗🙌🏽💖❤❤

I hope they were getting help beyond cleaning. This family needs social services so it doesn’t happen again. I lived in filth as a child, and it’s horrific. Thank you for helping the !!

@tashascales3174

Жыл бұрын

At the end of the video she speaks on the services the mum can access such as social services

I am so happy that you were able to help this woman and her children! What a blessing you are to people who need you!

Wow! That is an amazing transformation. I'm so glad you had helpers

I'm happy for the mom who was able to wake up after so long. It must have been hard for the kids too. Not just to see their mom like that, but coming back home to all that mess. Mom, you were brave to ask for help. And what ever everyone says, everyone makes mistakes. And what's done is done. Now you only need to move forward, and move forward in the right way.

@EmmelineSama

Жыл бұрын

I hope the mom can get the help to try start with cleaning routines both for her and for the kids, too. You ARE alliwed to take a step at the time, also rest for a bit. As long as the goal to get a room clean. The most important is the love. But it is also love, to have better cleaned home.

@mari0182

Жыл бұрын

It’s not just hard for the kids. It was neglect.

having been in abusive relationships, dealt with addiction and alcoholism myself, and just overal mental health issues, I am very impressed at both the mother for having the strength and determination to overcome and you for doing all you can to help give them that fresh start to help her keep moving forward

@jamesjackson5020

Жыл бұрын

It's great that you can see the positive side.... Hearing that this is two children under the age of ten were living brought out nothing but anger in me. That itself is abuse.... to have 2 children living in that mess.... It is absolutely shocking that the care that you would feel for your children would not be enough to make her clean the house..... I would have some incredibly harsh words for her

@malyacelle9096

Жыл бұрын

This poor woman was abused and suffered from alchoolism...and yet she had the strengh to leave with her kids, stopped drinking, and got help when she realised the situation was terrible for her kids... She is more deserving of praise than angry words

@beatrizbueno3016

Жыл бұрын

@@jamesjackson5020 would you have some harsh words for the father first, who put them in that situation to start with? I don't see how attacking people who are going through major life crises solves any problem...

@sassyslsgrl

Жыл бұрын

@@jamesjackson5020 I do understand, and it is very likely she was even more angry and disgusted with herself than you are at her....what is shocking is how deep trauma can go, and how debilitating it can be when you cannot break free from it....getting free from the abuser does not automatically free you from the abuse, it stays with you a while, in your thoughts and emotions, even physically draining you. add those unhealthy coping mechanisms, like addiction....sometimes it is the only way you can survive a thing, to make it to the other side. I would rather them have a memory of a few months of squalor than a trauma of mom's suicide and a life lived without her.

@thealltimemasterofairchess9871

Жыл бұрын

@@beatrizbueno3016 whoever had the choice to let that flat get to that point and was responsible for the children.... Hope you have a nice time living in your rubbish tip 👍👍 I'll carry on cleaning my house and looking after the people that I am in care of

Thank you for doing this for this family. I praise God for this help that you have given them. ❤

Aurii is amazing. Depression can really destroy a person’s normal functioning. Thank goodness the mom got help.

It’s nice to see almost zero negative comments judging the mom. Life is stressful and that mom is probably doing the best she can with what she has. I hope this is the first step in her getting back to a normal cleaning routine and her kids can have friends over. Sending her and her babes love and light. ❤

@buffalokay

Жыл бұрын

I can imagine a situation like this could quickly spiral out of control, especially when you’re exhausted, depressed, and hopeless. Where to even start? You know? No judgment here. I’ve been there. Not to this extent, but I suffer from severe chronic, mysterious pain that none of my doctors seem to know the origin. There were a few years there that I felt utterly hopeless. No hope of a future of any kind and no light at the end of the tunnel. I don’t know what happened, but I must have slowly snapped out of it and now I’m doing much better, thank the lord. So I truly get it.

@zazaiwon87

Жыл бұрын

Yes but come on! There are 2 kids living in this filthy mess. The cat pissed and pooped allmover the place and these poor kids are living and sleeping in it

@vickyfearnley9477

Жыл бұрын

I get that situation can be difficult and overwhelmed and things can spiral very fast but this one seems like no one dose anything which is not healthy

@rebeccafitzgerald3456

Жыл бұрын

Yep I’ll chime in and be a negative Nelly here and say , no, no ok that children love in this filth! That’s appalling that those kids were sleeping on a pissy mattress. I don’t think she’s mentally sound to be parent.

@Lili-zk7st

Жыл бұрын

@@zazaiwon87 Pretuzno ali i u toku ciscenja se vidi da je to ciscenje samo povrsno Ali hvala Bogu bar se nesto pozitivno pokrenulu u toj zeni

I grew up in a home almost this bad. By middle school, I felt humiliated bringing friends over and felt completely isolated and neglected in my own home. The only clean space in the home was my room (thank God I at least had my own room that I could make my safe place). However, my parents developed an animal hoarding tendency, and I often went to school probably smelling like dog (especially if we currently had a foster with mange). I have four kids now, and I have been through serious depression, but I absolutely could not do this to my kids. I pray that this mom doesn't go back to her old ways, but if she's anything like my parents, this is a way of life that doesn't go away, and it can destroy family ties over time.

@GotAnUmbrella

Жыл бұрын

That's the same exact situation as my partner. They grew up in a house like that and his mom has a shit ton of animals now.

@ItsOKtobeNormal

7 ай бұрын

I've gone thru depression as well but I couldn't do this to my kid either, unless I was physically unable to move and even then I would give her up to a family member because she deserves better than this, all kids do.

Wow. You are a God send!! Thank you for your awesome, compassionate work.

When an individual has mental health issues, it can be very difficult for them to be motivated to clean. I'm so pleased that the Mother took the massive step to ask for help. You have done such a fantastic job. The house looks organised and fresh ❤ 🇬🇧

I love that you always keep the kids in mind when cleaning here. You’re such an angel😭❤

@tabathia7633

Жыл бұрын

I love your, NO Justments, is so good, and in this case the best way to be. I think they have been judged too much already. I personally know about that and I'm trying to correct my thinking and attitude on that fact, to accept, but praise what I'm really about, all the good things. I hope these videos will also encourage people to do the same, Lova Ya. 😁😁

@OP-1000

Жыл бұрын

Hi, did your username suddenly changed?

My house looked like this growing up. I'm 33 now with 3 children and get terrible anxiety over any clutter in my home. I used to "rage clean" when ever there was any clutter and just throw everything away. I don't do that now (it's not healthy either), and my home still stays clean. I used to resent my mom for letting us live in filth, I always had to keep my area, I didn't have a room, clean. I thought I could feel germs on my body... but now I realize my mom was a struggling single mom and she was likely horribly depressed and overwhelmed. Thank you for helping these people.

Hi, I found one of your videos in shorts few days ago and I'm absolutely impressed! You do a great job and with so wonderful positif energy! Thank you so much for sharing!

You are an angel. God bless you for showing such compassion on this family.