A magician's guide to realizing your dreams | Derek Selinger | TEDxCapeMay

Lotteries are ubiquitous in our culture. They are accepted as harmless. They have been criticized morally but my critique is entirely practical. We are killing our dreams by wishing on impossible processes. Stop wishing on the lottery and start dreaming and pursuing your dreams. Ask yourself a big and important question about your future and start to actually take steps to discover the answer. Even if you discover that the particular dream you were dreaming is not possible for you, the process of attempting to make it come true will set you up for your next dream. It’s not “never give up on your dreams.” It is instead “never give up on dreaming.”
Derek is an award-winning filmmaker and created a number of short films that were screened at Film Festivals throughout North America. His original work on the music video honoring veterans, “Never Been to War”, won him multiple awards including “Best Music Video”. He is a passionate entrepreneur and is involved in several community causes.
Derek is also an award-winning illusionist, winning such honors as the 1st Prize at the Canadian Magic Championships and “The People’s Choice Award” at the world championships. He has performed around the world, from Las Vegas to Malaysia and on television, including his most recent performance on the CW Network’s hit show “Penn and Teller: Fool Us”.
In all aspects of Derek’s professional life he has sought to create excellence and to encourage and inspire those around him not only dream … but dream big. He realizes that no one wins on their own. And indeed … it all starts with a dream. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @thomastriumph
    @thomastriumphАй бұрын

    I had the pleasure of hearing this TEDx talk in person, and recall hearing the crowd in awe when the lottery ticket numbers were shown to have been predicted by the attendees. An excellent and inspiring talk, and one I will rewatch regularly as a reminder of the difference between a wish and a dream.

  • @derekselinger

    @derekselinger

    Ай бұрын

    Appreciate you Tom. You are the best kind of people. And if you are reading this and haven’t watched Tom’s TEDx talk on creativity… do yourself a favor and watch that next!

  • @elainesalima7434
    @elainesalima7434Ай бұрын

    He spoke directly at me😊

  • @Nuhemio
    @NuhemioАй бұрын

    Powerful speech.

  • @jfeghali
    @jfeghaliАй бұрын

    Amazing! Such an encouraging listen. Thank you for pushing me to dream again.

  • @derekselinger

    @derekselinger

    Ай бұрын

    And look at the dreams you have dreamt even up to this point! Much more to come Jer 🙏❤️

  • @itstommyh
    @itstommyhАй бұрын

    Brother, I could watch you perform magic and speak for hours. Take my money. Great talk ❤

  • @derekselinger

    @derekselinger

    Ай бұрын

    Haha. ❤ Here is to the future my brother!

  • @imagerythroughplay
    @imagerythroughplayАй бұрын

    I was so honored to be there in person for this fantastic talk. Mind-blowing and such an important message to share.

  • @derekselinger

    @derekselinger

    Ай бұрын

    ❤ so appreciate this. Everyone was so kind in the audience that day. Dream come true for me!!

  • @julainerysavy1589
    @julainerysavy1589Ай бұрын

    Derek's speech is inspiring but so is his life. Derek has been a huge inspiration to my family.

  • @derekselinger

    @derekselinger

    29 күн бұрын

    Ah Julaine. You are so kind. We love you guys and appreciate you. ❤🙏

  • @marjoriesoares6634
    @marjoriesoares6634Ай бұрын

    What an amazing talk! I'm sure gonna go after my dreams after this.

  • @derekselinger
    @derekselingerАй бұрын

    I was incredibly honored to be able to share this idea. The future is ours my friends. Dream! Dream big dreams! And don’t give up on the process! Much love to you all.

  • @zisanahmed8347

    @zisanahmed8347

    Ай бұрын

    Love from Bangladesh 🇧🇩❤️

  • @derekselinger

    @derekselinger

    Ай бұрын

    @@zisanahmed8347right back to you my friend.

  • @zisanahmed8347

    @zisanahmed8347

    Ай бұрын

    @@derekselinger Can I have a conversation with you ? That can be at any app you want, like iMassage or WhatsApp or something else. I would like to talk with you as I just find out that you are determined to help introverts 👍🏻

  • @zisanahmed8347

    @zisanahmed8347

    Ай бұрын

    @@derekselingerCan I have a conversation with you ?

  • @hermannzon7153

    @hermannzon7153

    Ай бұрын

    Truly inspiring 🙌

  • @Thomas-us4wq
    @Thomas-us4wqАй бұрын

    Watching this video was NOT a waste of time. 🤗🤗

  • @derekselinger

    @derekselinger

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you my friend. I value the time you invested watching. 🙏

  • @Bla274
    @Bla274Ай бұрын

    Damn. I needed to hear this! Insanely great talk, thank you so much.

  • @derekselinger

    @derekselinger

    Ай бұрын

    🙏. I appreciate you watching my friend. “What if…”

  • @lucybrowne62
    @lucybrowne62Ай бұрын

    Brilliant

  • @ariariga7
    @ariariga7Ай бұрын

    Oh my GOD - amazing!

  • @derekselinger

    @derekselinger

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you for your kindness my friend. 🙏

  • @josephbonheur3053
    @josephbonheur3053Ай бұрын

    Actually, the idea is incredible and life-building, thank you for sharing such a speech. I'm sorry but, did anyone discover how he carried out the Note magic trick!? It was absolutely astounding😂

  • @derekselinger

    @derekselinger

    Ай бұрын

    I love how you phrases that. “Life building”. What a wonderful thing to say. Thank you. 🙏

  • @andrehaykaljr
    @andrehaykaljr28 күн бұрын

    This hit DEEP, wow! Best TEDx talk I've watched. What if I... Thanks for inspiring me to dream bigger than ever before, Derek!

  • @derekselinger

    @derekselinger

    28 күн бұрын

    Thank you Andre. You are just getting started!!

  • @honeybearmusic3933
    @honeybearmusic3933Ай бұрын

    What a fantastic talk! Great content and well delivered! Thank you Derek, for continuing to ignite dreams!

  • @derekselinger

    @derekselinger

    Ай бұрын

    ❤🙏❤️

  • @amyallen2384
    @amyallen2384Ай бұрын

    Most excellent! Greetings from Darrel & Amy. Proud of you!

  • @derekselinger

    @derekselinger

    Ай бұрын

    Hey guys! Thanks so much! Darrel was my first speaking coach. The part I couldn’t cover in the talk is that we accomplish our dreams together. Thank you Darrel!

  • @delorasselinger9909
    @delorasselinger9909Ай бұрын

    Amazing,we all need that reminder

  • @derekselinger

    @derekselinger

    Ай бұрын

    You are the best. (Literally my mom 😂)

  • @mikaylaa.2202
    @mikaylaa.2202Ай бұрын

    Wonderful, so well spoken. Enjoyed listening to this!

  • @derekselinger

    @derekselinger

    Ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @chethakmp3

    @chethakmp3

    Ай бұрын

    Hi. Your profile picture is cute

  • @OneaeBlack
    @OneaeBlackАй бұрын

    Amazing message.

  • @derekselinger

    @derekselinger

    Ай бұрын

    I appreciate that very much. ❤

  • @OneaeBlack

    @OneaeBlack

    Ай бұрын

    @@derekselinger truly it is quite dangerous when people give up their own creative imagination practice because they become in threat to only live the life that people around them say, but what if everyone thought this way to only do or say what others say with no individual thought? Blind leading blind but at a global scale, people each are really capable of so much more wonder in the own lives with a little creativity.

  • @derekselinger

    @derekselinger

    Ай бұрын

    @@OneaeBlackI could not have said it better. Fantastic perspective. Appreciate you being here. 🙏

  • @OneaeBlack

    @OneaeBlack

    Ай бұрын

    @@derekselinger Want to see a different kind of magic, miracle Book Of The Holy Twelve Rabbi Vegan Christ, resurrection of The Christ was miracle healing on feet again after such brutality but good medicine nursing with medical support alkaline remedy had been proven recently by Dr. Sebi in supreme court to heal cure cancer disease all sickness lead to good health.

  • @sajithomas2158
    @sajithomas2158Ай бұрын

    Supper idea,so cool,very very practical

  • @edwardross8993
    @edwardross899319 күн бұрын

    Brilliant. Simple and Inspiring. Well done.

  • @learnenglishwithpallavianand
    @learnenglishwithpallavianand19 күн бұрын

    Lovely presentation dear speaker. Thankyou for sharing your insights! God Bless! 👍

  • @Maryvargas14
    @Maryvargas14Ай бұрын

    Lets dream

  • @derekselinger

    @derekselinger

    Ай бұрын

    I agree! “What if…”

  • @bukurie6861
    @bukurie6861Ай бұрын

    Truly beautiful❤

  • @derekselinger

    @derekselinger

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you friend. Really appreciate it. 🙏

  • @chethakmp3
    @chethakmp3Ай бұрын

    Thank you so much : )

  • @paulspilsbury
    @paulspilsbury28 күн бұрын

    A great talk, Derek-insightful and inspiring! Congratulations!!

  • @derekselinger

    @derekselinger

    27 күн бұрын

    Cheers Paul! 🙏

  • @EagleMiles
    @EagleMilesАй бұрын

    Fantastic job Derek. I remember the kind young man you always were

  • @derekselinger

    @derekselinger

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you so much. 🙏❤️

  • @ashutoshdan5141
    @ashutoshdan5141Ай бұрын

    Fulfilment of dreams are stranger than magic tricks 😊

  • @freesk8
    @freesk8Ай бұрын

    Thanks, TEDx, for another unbiased TED talk, with no left-wing propaganda! There are a few! Please keep up the good work! :)

  • @derekselinger

    @derekselinger

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you. I believe that this idea is a timeless one.

  • @zisanahmed8347
    @zisanahmed8347Ай бұрын

    👍🏻

  • @Connop_Corner
    @Connop_Corner28 күн бұрын

    Love it

  • @derekselinger

    @derekselinger

    28 күн бұрын

    Appreciate you!

  • @freesk8
    @freesk8Ай бұрын

    The lottery is a tax on people who are bad at math.

  • @derekselinger

    @derekselinger

    Ай бұрын

    The math really doesn’t add up does it. 😬

  • @freesk8

    @freesk8

    Ай бұрын

    @@derekselinger Nope. Either they are bad at math, or they are desperately poor. In either case, the lottery is not something the government should promote. It should be leading by example, instead of leading people down bad alley ways of behavior. Great TEDx talk! :)

  • @celestialcircledance
    @celestialcircledanceАй бұрын

    I was just thinking despondently t as he was rattling off numbers hat to really appreciate magic you had to be a math nerd but I'm glad I hung in there 🙂

  • @derekselinger

    @derekselinger

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks for hanging in there!

  • @Shiny-oq4in
    @Shiny-oq4inАй бұрын

    "The richest man in Babilon" - The book, you really need to read, And I will tell you even more In some great course, so you come in!

  • @akramtanwar099
    @akramtanwar099Ай бұрын

    Indian like me👍

  • @seesnap
    @seesnapАй бұрын

    What if I buy a lottery ticket

  • @gttddd
    @gttdddАй бұрын

    Man I love dreams, but my mortgage says otherwise. 😅😅

  • @talibulhaq4034
    @talibulhaq4034Ай бұрын

    Please show subtitle on videos please please please please please please 🥺🥺🥺😢😢😢

  • @derekselinger

    @derekselinger

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you for watching my friend. I think the subtitle will populate in a day or so. 🙏. So check back!!

  • @Ratgodx
    @RatgodxАй бұрын

    I just buy a ticket every week. Costs me $2. $104 a year in exchange for even atleast a small chance at tasting what this life truly has to offer seems reasonable.

  • @innerlocus
    @innerlocusАй бұрын

    One chance once in a while or you are not playing the lottery as much as getting played.

  • @mahadeeakbar8266
    @mahadeeakbar8266Ай бұрын

    1st comment ❤

  • @gracylou3464
    @gracylou346428 күн бұрын

    What the heck I think also 52 and she said 52😂

  • @derekselinger

    @derekselinger

    27 күн бұрын

    😂👊

  • @willrose5424
    @willrose5424Ай бұрын

    His voice mic volume is too loud.