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@efadfa3

5 ай бұрын

Why would you choose a pic of Finneas where he looks like Onision XDDD

@skarletcharity

Ай бұрын

I have said since the moment I saw Billie that she resembles young Scarlett Johansen. Something about her mannerisms and literally just her face. Now finding out she was an in vitro baby??? Omg

I’m lowkey sad that Trisha Paytas isn’t somehow connected to Billie Eilish 😢

@imagiraffe2848

5 ай бұрын

Well no but somebody else who always gets herself involved in every scandal is connected to Billie. Well...not really connected but Tana Mongeau invited Billie to her fake wedding with Jake Paul and Billie said "fuck no" or something😂 you just had to be there to witness two universes colliding

@abbypierce4196

5 ай бұрын

TBH I bet if we tried hard enough we could find a thru-line 😂

@Ollie_Unlikely

5 ай бұрын

Me too! 😢

@rainbowmonkey6483

5 ай бұрын

Did you see the ending? she's literally there 😭

@ranchintime2207

5 ай бұрын

The Kevin bacon game but it's Trisha paytas

when i saw ‘queerbaiting’ in the title i got a little nervous but THANK U for explaining that REAL PEOPLE CANT QUEERBAIT 🗣️ we are not entitled to know Anyone’s sexuality, whether they’re famous or not .

@zeenie5489

5 ай бұрын

the word "queerbaiting" literally makes me gag. like what a stupid gen z bored out of their minds term.

@hwoods-kg1jf

5 ай бұрын

It made me a bit nervous as well but this video was amazing!

@rachelr.5171

5 ай бұрын

Thank you for this comment. I’m sensitive about people being accused of queerbaiting and was scanning through the comments to make sure watching this video wouldn’t ruin my evening.

@bodacious6457

5 ай бұрын

​​@@zeenie5489 the term "queerbaiting" wasnt created by some bored gen z kid, its a term meant for analyzing media and how it portrays queerness. it was never meant to be used on real people.

@bibimbap5917

5 ай бұрын

Also she came out officially just a few days ago so this whole debate is pointless anyway. We are not entitled to anyone's sexuality and people can decide if and when they want to come out publicly

The Vanity Fair interview was really upsetting for me. The whole "I pulled him" thing is EXACTLY the type of shit I would say when I was 14 and being pursued by a 21 year old. I did not pull anyone, I was being groomed and it was disgusting.

@minirth.maggie

2 ай бұрын

My first partner was 23 or 24, and the older I get, the more I feel like the fact that I was 16 was a problem. I really winced when I saw that interview, wow that was painful. I could see myself so clearly, and I felt so bad for Billie.

@ihaventaname2686

Ай бұрын

same man, at the time it felt so cool to get an older guy… now i know

@Sadieakathespermcellthatwon

Ай бұрын

As a "The Neighborhood" fan (Jesse is the lead singer of the band) I will admit the relationship gave me the creeps, I'm not defending Jesse I'm just saying even I as fan of his music, do not have my head so far up my ass to realize the relationship wasn't the best cause I'm pretty sure there have been TNB fans that have defended him. Thank you for coming to my little ted talk

@frankie9373

Ай бұрын

The thing about all of this is, young teens dont know any better. they often think theyre cool and desired for 'pulling' way older people. A lot of the times theyre even enthusiastic about it and agree to the relationship wholeheartedly. The older people of the relationship ABSOLUTELY know better. They should not under any circumstances pursue minors. no matter how into it the minor is. it is your job as a fucking adult then to say "no. Im not going to do that." it's literally the bare minimum to not start a relationship with a minor. So yeah, minors often dont see it that way when theyre in the relationship, but adults know what theyre doing and absolutely should not be doing it. minors being positive towards the relationship does not make it okay.

@katc2040

Ай бұрын

​@frankie9373 okay?? Theyre literally just relating idk why youre ranting at them like they said its her fault

people losing their mind over a healthy sibling love is lowkey embarrassing

@Jack2729o

5 ай бұрын

exactly!!! one should be scared and so reluctant in this world for families who don't love their children …. Or siblings who don't love their siblings… THIS is NOT normal, this should scare in this world and NOT 2 siblings loving each other bc this is normal 😂 they also grew up as twins, because they were homeschooled and then now they see each other every day bc they work together. . And this is how every older brother treats their younger sister and vice versa, for me my younger sister is as if she were also my daughter because I raised her too, for me she is my world.. 😅 not only is she the my best friend but having been older I felt responsible for her and her life.. always! She is my baby too! This world is so over, you understand this when ppl behave as if love between siblings / your own family is not normal, these people must go to therapy because they must have serious family problems

@arctaex

Ай бұрын

*highkey

@andria8279

10 күн бұрын

Where’s my mindddddd

@bezakos3712

10 күн бұрын

I dont mind 🎶 ​@andria8279

@stellviahohenheim

3 күн бұрын

They're sleeping together though

THE QUEERBAITING THING FUCKING THANK YOU that take was so chronically online and I’m SICK of seeing it. WE ARE NOT ENTITLED TO SOMEONE’S SEXUALITY.

@InternetIsWild

Ай бұрын

Sexualizing wlw love for men does harm to the l and b community. Sincerely stfu thank you

I was groomed by my teacher when I was 15-16. At the time I thought I liked him, and that it was okay for me to be with him. He was 37. I am now 28, and for a long time I blamed myself for what happened, I was SO naive. I don't talk about this with anyone because it gives me a very weird and painful feeling. I know Billie's case is different, but what I am saying is: At 16/17 we think we know everything, and we know what we want, and we have good judgement, but it's not true. A 16 year-old is a CHILD!

@Beth-ux6jn

5 ай бұрын

This is so true and really horrible you had that experience. I'm so glad you've come to put the blame where it rightfully belongs, with the criminal pedo. Also, commenting to acknowledge that I accidentally thumbs down reacted while trying to like it so if you get that notif, I'm so sorry, it wasn't genuine 😭❤️

@spookyho5994

5 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry you had to go through that, that's horrible. I hope you're doing okay

@Kristianalexis1

5 ай бұрын

I’m so sorry that happened. It was definitely not your fault. I hope you’re okay

@abigailswick7141

5 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing your story. So many of us have our own.

@RealElongatedMuskrat

5 ай бұрын

sending you so much love. I had a different experience of abuse by a family member but I remember going between defending them (or at least, apologising to THEM for being distant at family gatherings when they were... being inappropriate towards me) and hating them so I carried a lot of guilt about what happened as well. At the end of the day, neither you nor I should've been put in that position.

Babes I’m BEGGING YOU to please get on that Ariana lore bc her cheating for SpongeBob was not on my bingo card- Isabella

@one-onessadhalf3393

2 ай бұрын

My favorite part of that whole story was people thinking that Arianna was cheating with Tom Kenny (voice actor for SpongeBob) instead of Ethan Slater (played SpongeBob in the musical adaptation)

@JacobyIsMyName

2 ай бұрын

You’re going to be a very happy viewer today, friend.

@kcr5962

2 ай бұрын

@@JacobyIsMyName I just saw her upload the lore I am kicking and screaming

@mag3nta_m4sk

2 ай бұрын

I bet you're pretty happy now hahaha

@charlottemoo9397

2 ай бұрын

@@kcr5962we got closure yall 😭🙏

Billie Elish came out publicly just a few days ago so the whole debate about her queerbaiting is pointless anyway. We are not entitled to anyone's sexuality and cannot force people to share such personal information. People should be able to decide if and when they come out publicly without any kind of pressure. Also real people can't queerbait. Thanks for explaining that in the video

@rosywaters3833

5 ай бұрын

Gen Z is hyper focused on labels and celebrity worshipping which leads to this kind of situation. Celebrities aren't your friends. They don't owe you their personal life. But sickos don't understand it. Same thing they do to Harry Styles. Harry doesn't owe you shit honey. He doesn't have tell you who you likes so stop with the speculation it's disrespectful af

@zarapuka4208

5 ай бұрын

Queer baiting is a made up word. Anyone who thinks people can queer bait believe in all the gendered stereotypes and think that people of a certain sexuality must behave a certain way. Absolutely regressive behavior

@Duhgel

5 ай бұрын

​@@rosywaters3833Disrespectful and dangerous, they may be celebrities but let's not pretend the fear of being hate crimed isn't real. Someone not coming out is totally understandable 1000%. Doesn't matter if they're gay or what, assassins are very much real and no one knows what crazy freak will do what.

@silverr2110

5 ай бұрын

Thank u for this but come on something told me that there wasn't queerbating so i never hopped on the trend but i was literally defending her while people went on a fuss with me.

@Kaile.28

5 ай бұрын

@@rosywaters3833 honestly it isn't a Gen Z thing, It's older gens who create things like queerbaiting irl or feeling like they are entitled to know who is gay, who is trans because they are scared their fragile self could find a queer/trans person attractive

Nicole literally carries our internet obsession in her cute little red bag

I know next to nothing about Billie, but you better know that I am gonna watch a 30 minute long video on her while procrastinating on writing my thesis

@WilliamBrowning

5 ай бұрын

It's been 11 hours. I hope you got to work by now.

@veeva99

5 ай бұрын

@@WilliamBrowning oh yeah, i did. Turned that 40+ page beast in as well to get some feedback on it.

@melowlw8638

5 ай бұрын

whats ur thesis abt?? if that's okay to ask good luck!!

@veeva99

5 ай бұрын

@@melowlw8638 of course that's okay to ask! I study government management in the Netherlands and my thesis is about citizen participation and how the local government can improve on that (get more people, especially between the ages of 16-30, to participate and stuff like that).

@oo4758

5 ай бұрын

​@@veeva99 goddamn, that's impressive 👏 I'm scared of getting a master's or phd because writing a super long essay about an original topic is intimidating to me

the whole Billie and Devon being friendly despite having dated the same guy thing is so funny to me because in the lesbian world that is so so normal 😭

@maralvrz

5 ай бұрын

LMAOO THATS SO TRUE

@singingwithbecca

4 ай бұрын

SO TRUE OMG

what has always pissed me off about people coming after billie for dating men SO much older than her is that grooming does that to you. being groomed even just ONCE (no matter how long you were groomed) changes your brain chemistry. you’ll be more susceptible to being groomed again or being SA’d again because of that. leave victims alone!!

@stuckinthelazycorneragain4016

5 ай бұрын

Agreed. And also the fact that people were going after her more than the old men?? So gross.

@dysmissme7343

3 ай бұрын

Ohhhhhh … that actually explains a lot Idk how I never put those pieces together

@xsammay

3 ай бұрын

@@dysmissme7343 i think it’s an easy concept to overlook. you won’t even know what you’re in while you’re in it because it’s easy and familiar. healthy boundaries and relationships are foreign concepts. i’ve struggled with this exact thing in my own life. you’ll want to go “back” to these situations subconsciously because it feels safe. it’s crazy!

@skullisgay5711

5 күн бұрын

This is tone deaf

@xsammay

5 күн бұрын

@@skullisgay5711 what is?

Nicole may not be pregnant but always delivers

@ladyhexton3773

5 ай бұрын

This is so funny considering her phobia of pregnancy😂

@Juupitrr

5 ай бұрын

I WAS LIT ABOUT TO SAY HAHAHA@@ladyhexton3773

@bogperson

5 ай бұрын

don't show her this comment lol

@biohazardg1rl

5 ай бұрын

girl…

@beanie8

5 ай бұрын

hide this from her quick

I LOVE THIS SERIES LMAOO you should do a chronically online girl explains all that beauty community drama from a few years ago that was just too good

@hwoods-kg1jf

5 ай бұрын

YES!!! As somebody who experienced it in real time, I would absolutely LOVE THIS!!!

@biohazardg1rl

5 ай бұрын

omg dramageddon

@biohazardg1rl

5 ай бұрын

and bye sister

@rayvv1601

5 ай бұрын

@@biohazardg1rl YES YES HAHAHA

@hew619

5 ай бұрын

She has one about the sister squad and mentions bye sister!

the obsession with labels is crazy. i'm queer in most ways but when people ask what i identify as my usual answer is like, a shrug and a "meh". just let people live!!

@quesseca7246

5 ай бұрын

Same! I wish there was a flag for « IDK MAN IM HORNY »😂 its what i tell my friends when they ask

@melowlw8638

5 ай бұрын

​@@quesseca7246 i propose a flag that just says horny in comic sans ms preferably for shits n giggles

@hartlaure

5 ай бұрын

Yes!! I love this mindset!

i will never understand the whole thing with her brother being creepy dating someone who VERY FAINTLY looks similar to her. Did anyone stop to think "he might not see her like that"?

@mahektanveer6357

5 ай бұрын

It was just one pic too, she acc barely looks like bille

@gutter_rabbit

5 ай бұрын

Yeah no even if they did look similar...it's not actually uncommon for people to date people who look like their parents, siblings, or even themselves. It's the mere exposure effect, we tend to be comforted by things familiar to us. Doesn't mean you want to bone your family.

@hue.main1

5 ай бұрын

@@gutter_rabbit yeah I’ve heard of that, but with like, personalities. I like a guy who can make me laugh because my dad has always been the goofball of the family. Familiarity is comforting.

@Jack2729o

5 ай бұрын

It’s common and it’s also so normal 😭 people should read more books before judging ppl life 😅 bc it’s normal .. same thing happens with daughters and their bff and their own father. It’s normal for animals. It’s how our brain works!

@lightworthy

5 ай бұрын

@@hue.main1for sure, my mom married someone exactly like her dad, my sister is dating someone exactly like our dad. anyone we feel safe and secure and loved with, we tend to look for in others.

Genuinely feel really bad for her with Jesse Rutherford. I can’t say I wouldn’t have taken the opportunity to be with my celebrity crush if I were in her position, to get publicly taken advantage of and mistreated is really difficult to see.

i love that ur doing things that interest u...but when you're ready..PLEASE fill us in on what the fuck happened with shane dawson

@rebeccac324

5 ай бұрын

lol i guessed shane dawson when she posted on ig asking us who we thought the next video was about 😭

@Vyvansetwink

5 ай бұрын

PLs I NEED THIS

@_sunchildd

5 ай бұрын

wdym what happened with him?

@singingwithbecca

4 ай бұрын

I watch Shane Dawson's videos... I did not know there was something that happened with him??? His podcast is so funny tho

@jetji00

3 ай бұрын

what HASNT happened with shane dawson

It's probably hard to control your child when they're the breadwinner.

@Ruth-of1ji

5 ай бұрын

But alternatively, the two parents were already well off. It’s not like they would been financially ruined if they didn’t have billie. Personally, I would pull my daughter out of the whole industry if I had to I’m order to protect her from predators - at the risk of her career and definitely losing millions of dollars to protect her while she’s a kid. Once she’s 18 of course, she’ll legally be able to make her own decisions.

@lightworthy

5 ай бұрын

@@Ruth-of1jithat’s the real risk though, you push too hard and you push them away and almost force them into the people abusing them, and then if they finally DO leave, they don’t necessarily feel safe coming to you for safety and help and love again. it’s common for it to come off like you left them when they were most vulnerable, because to be completely honest that’s kind of what you’re doing if you try to push too hard too fast. there’s a fine line of what you reasonably can do while ensuring your child’s safety, and actually keeping the door open for when they need you when it blows up, even after they legally aren’t your responsibility anymore and can legally be in those relationships now

imagine getting mad at a victim of grooming for dating a groomer. 😭 THEYRE THE VICTIM

@machinegirl03

Ай бұрын

i think where ppl go wrong is not understanding that just cause ur self aware about a personal issue that doesnt mean u suddenly resolve it. like u can be self aware about having a serious problem with addiction and still relapse countless times. plus a lot of victims have imposter syndrome and that makes it hard to acknowledge that ur falling back into a bad habit/mindset (like seeking validation from older men) because u feel like it was never a serious issue to begin with

@stellviahohenheim

3 күн бұрын

Stubborn children should be scolded not praised

as a 21 year old teenage baby girl with tourette syndrome, thank you for handling the tiktok tics thing with so much sensitivity I was bracing for the worst 😭

@quesseca7246

5 ай бұрын

Ur valid kind stranger🫶🫶

@magickaldust1213

5 ай бұрын

"21 yr old teenage baby girl" is far too relatable 💀

@lizzyblitz07

5 ай бұрын

Hahaha. I feel this relief as someone with a different neurological condition. Some girls really were making videos about tics when they didn't have the neurological condition - but it was psychogenic, not "faking." The stress of the pandemic, their whole lives turning upside down, possibly losing loved ones, and all the political turmoil was part of the cause. Then there were a lot of people talking about Tourettes and showing their tics. The combination of emotional distress and watching a lot of Tourettes attacks led some of them to have psychogenic Tourettes attacks. They got therapy and they're good now. It's fascinating. I say all this because psychogenic seizures and other attacks also happen. It's talked about more as years go by, but there's a big stigma around it. Usually psychogenic episodes/disorders are tied to trauma, and they eventually go away with therapy. But it's not "I'm stressed I'm gonna intentionally fake" it's "my brain cannot handle what is going on and is now going a bit haywire." The people don't know it isn't being caused by the actual disorder, because it's an uncontrollable thing their brain is doing without their knowledge. That's still scary I was incorrectly diagnosed with psychogenic seizures and I felt like crap. Partly because I knew they were wrong, but also just because of the stigma. It turned out I have Narcolepsy with Cataplexy. I still raise awareness about psychogenic illnesses because I don't want anyone that truly does have one to deal with that stigma.

@lifaen

4 ай бұрын

@@lizzyblitz07 This is very interesting, thank you for talking about that. I personally "got" tics at the start of 2019, so whole year and something before pandemic. It was so weird. I'm interested in mental disorders so once I got interested in tourette's syndrome. I started thinking like what tics I would have if I had that syndrome. Not wishing I would have it, just thinking what it would look like. Then one video about DID triggered me in a way I started to have tics. It was so weird, I kept thinking about like if I really have it and that I'm faking it and the more I was thinking about faking it and arguing with imaginary people in my head about not faking it, the more I had tics. As time passes, I have tics less and less. Now I'm self-diagnosed with ADHD, OCD and autism. One of autism symptoms can be also tics. I also learned that more people than I would think have tics, they just never talk about them. Now I'm curious if therapy will help me. But idk if I need help, like I mostly have tics only when I'm really stressed or uncomfortable, but also only if I'm between people I trust. I also heard that tics produce dopamine and like...I think that's why I felt like tics are my brain's coping mechanism. I always rather had tics than feel nothing and be depressed.

@henny925

2 ай бұрын

21 year old TEENAGE baby girl!? Girl! You better grow the F up! Calling yourself a teenage girl. Teenagers go to high school! You get arrested trespassing a high school!

It's always a good time when Nicole Nasty uploads lore that doesn't matter in the slightest but we absolutely NEED to know about.

honestly it drives me so crazy that people were mad at her and blaming her for getting taken advantage of by older men. like dude just bc shes famous doesnt mean shes not still a victim

@Lodinii

15 күн бұрын

@@nikkichavez8418 no no its not

@Lodinii

14 күн бұрын

@@nikkichavez8418 and neither do you

as someone who has been an avid fan of billie for about 5 years, to see people saying she is queerbating bc she said she was straight when she was like 14 is bizarre to me. sexuality is fluid and no one is entitled to know who you are attracted or not attracted to. it's a similar situation with harry styles and people always trying to give him a label when clearly he does not want to be labeled and he will like whoever tf he likes. people are NEVER entitled to know anything about your personal life whether your famous or not.

@bubbles4897

5 ай бұрын

sexuality inherently is not fluid. stop saying everyone’s sexuality is fluid

@nasimmason

5 ай бұрын

@@bubbles4897 i don't think they're saying EVERYONE's sexuality is fluid but sexuality itself is fluid

@lisaporter-smith676

5 ай бұрын

The issue with Harry Styles in particular is that his band mate has released statements several times saying he is straight, always has been, is married to a woman and has children, has never been in any sort of romantic or sexual relationship with any man, including Harry and he’s found the speculation around the two of them deeply hurtful. Harry has refused to verify that statement and many people see that as a purposeful PR move. Harry doesn’t need to confirm or deny his sexuality, but he could confirm that he has never been in any sort of relationship with his band mate beyond a friendship and working relationship.

@alpacafish1269

5 ай бұрын

sexuality as a whole CONCEPT is inherently fluid. As is *gender.* That's because humans as organisms are fluid.@@bubbles4897

@vallie764

4 ай бұрын

⁠@@lisaporter-smith676so because he didn’t talk about a creepy rumor that he fucked a friend you know his sexuality? Like what does one rumor have to do with anything?

you printing out these photos for these videos is the definition of a queen

@WilliamBrowning

5 ай бұрын

I like the low rent, lofi effort involved and the conspiracy theory corkboard vibe that it gives. She should get some red yarns and map out connections. Go full Charlie from IASIP.

6:04 I’m the third option because I am neither a Billie stan or hater. Just here to watch Nicole break down a topic I would have gone the rest of my life without knowing about

I think the most ridiculous thing about all this is that people are genuinely thinking to themselves, “we need to hold this person to what they said fleetingly when they were 14. Because famously, our thoughts, feelings, opinions, and understanding of ourselves is solidified by that age and should always be held as cannon.”

The comment on female artists being pressured to have eras defined by style/aesthetic is sooo true! Another example is MARINA who fans constantly ask about when she’ll return to her Electra Heart era when she has publicly spoken (!!) about how the Electra Heart persona was born from a terrible time in her mental health and she actively took a break to distance herself from it! Like the pressure to make a persona for an album release or an era is sooooo overwhelming and I’m sure lots of artists feel like they need to rediscover what they actually enjoy making and who they enjoy being :,(

@emilyyvette

3 ай бұрын

Not every artist has to have Eras. Not every artist is Taylor swift bro. It's her thing, it doesn't start and end with taylor but it feels like people are pushing the Eras thing on other artists because of her career. People's lives are not broken up into Eras. They forget that these celebs are born as people and live like people

Also speaking of, my childhood babysitter's dad was apparently the guy they based Mr Clean on. Or at least that's what my mom told me and I have believed it wholeheartedly ever since

@EF-kk3vh

5 ай бұрын

I will believe this too in solidarity

@SheepasaurusRex

5 ай бұрын

your mom is right

please never stop this series I feel so informed about pop culture

@AsterisSleeping

3 ай бұрын

Right? I’m barely online and just found the channel today so I’m glad to learn new things

During her teenage years, Billie has always been told that she looks and thinks so mature for her age. She was always smart but she was not mature, she was a teenager, behaving like a teenager, talking like a teenager. I think she started to believe that she is mature, because this is exactly what happened to my older sister. My sister had Billie's body type when she was 13 and she thought she was so mature and whatever... A bunch of older men became intested in her and eventually, she dated a 27 years old CREEP. Obviously, it was an intimate relationship and when my parents found out...they freaked. But refused to press charges against this pedo, because he promised them that he will mary my sister when she turns 18. So anyway, 2 years passed, my sister was 15 and she broke up with him because he was an emotionally abusive, DISGUSTING piece of shit. The moral of the story is, my sister grew up to realize that she had daddy issues and went to therapy for it becaude apparently, it isn't right to date old creeps. She's 30 now and she's doing just fine but the trauma is still there and it will never fully go away Do i think Billie needs therapy? YES!!!! Because she was sexualized and objectified by older men when she was just a kid and she doesn't realize that it fucked her up.

@Nothingnew227

5 ай бұрын

Why would you say this

@jolovesyou

5 ай бұрын

@@Nothingnew227 honestly it was worded weird but I think they don't have ill intention, I do think billie might've been more mature for her age as she's been through such an intense battle with mental health and was exposed to social media fame that young

@lisaporter-smith676

5 ай бұрын

There is no such thing as “daddy issues”. There is childhood trauma, which can sometimes be caused by the actions or neglect of a father, that’s it. The term “daddy issues” is used a stick to beat women with for being “psychos” or as a fetish. Men in their 30s who have a sexual relationship with a 13 year old kid likely have “daddy issues” too but we only ever use the term to describe young women and its gross.

@dabbeatles

5 ай бұрын

​@lisaporter-smith676 Yeah I was put off by their comment as well.

@imagiraffe2848

5 ай бұрын

​@@lisaporter-smith676 I get that my comment is weird but it's the harsh reality. And even though i can't tell Billie Eilish what to do, it doesn't mean that we should all just shut up and let it be. It comes with a long term side effect and a lot of people never get to heal from it. Normalize talking about it and making older people feel very, very weird about dating young people (especially teenagers) And yes, i agree that daddy/mommy issues is gross but this is the term people usually use to describe those relationships, if we can even call them that.

the hair thing is super common with KPOP and it’s honestly so wild. the commodification of people and artists is CRAZY

i relate to billie. i love women. do i want to date them at the moment? no. am i very attracted to women? YES. but am i entitled to speak on this to people? nah lmfao because i don’t even understand it either. i’m proud of her for trying her hardest to peacefully understand this part of herself for as long as she did

@lisaporter-smith676

5 ай бұрын

This is something I have wondered about for a long long time. I am exactly the same and I know lots of woman are. I’ve often wondered if it’s because we have been constantly bombarded with images of what a sexy young woman looks like since we were kids. Magazines aimed at girls and women almost always feature a sexy woman on the cover. Female pop stars with a 99% female audience were always over sexualised in a “for the male gaze” way despite it being young girls watching the music videos and going to the concerts. No wonder women grow up and think...that woman is hot, I think I fancy that woman...but don’t actually have any desire to be with the woman. Does that make sense? When you are constantly shown an image of woman with the message this is sexy, this is sexy, this is sexy and almost no images of men, no wonder we end up thinking women are sexy even if we date straight? I dunno.

@annakatrinagreen

5 ай бұрын

@@lisaporter-smith676 I could see this being a factor! however i grew up idolizing and being a stan of literally every male figure that was conventionally attractive or talented. it’s changed for me now as an adult. I love women because they are women. I had always said I’m straight as a ruler as well as she did but overtime I’ve just come to realize that attraction and sexuality is just apart of our human nature and our individual experience. it’s all about what fills your bucket 🥰

@_lynnloo9988

4 ай бұрын

literally exactly what i am but i can’t decide if that makes me bisexual bc i know id never date/marry a woman but ik they’re attractive to me it is very confusing

The first time I learned you lose your insurance when ur in ur 20s was while watching a chronically online girl explain Billie eilish lore (queerbaiting + age gap relationships)

I’m happy as a boy that I can feel like I too am but a girl. Hoping for chronically online girl explains Team 10!

@cnew5612

5 ай бұрын

YEAH LOL

@hartlaure

5 ай бұрын

Team 10 OMG!!!

u should do one on Gabbie Hannah cause that would be insane and so amazing

@Izzywildflowerr

5 ай бұрын

yes. i need this.

@g4uzy

5 ай бұрын

that would be too long of a video

@rachel5399

5 ай бұрын

Ew, no. Let her fade away. She's an attention seeking parasite who has had multiple mental health breaks documented on her online persona. Then she turned to what every dying KZreadr does when they're losing audiences, make mediocre music and terrible "poetry." She's not interesting. Her drama is so egomaniacal and repetitive.

the chances of billie watching this are actually not that low and i really hope she does, not that i think she hasnt thought about her own lore (lol) to death already or like isnt capable of introspection she definitely is and has shown that, but i still think its nice when celebrities get to hear from fan povs that are as neutral and fair and well-intended and light-hearted as you are!! yall would get along well i bet :)

@lupakajsalisa3652

5 ай бұрын

Ugh to be in a little girl friend group with Billie and Nicole

I feel so validated as someone who hasn’t defined their sexuality. There’s so much pressure to know what you are and I have no idea.

@alsomarielledelaine

5 ай бұрын

and even when you think you have an idea, later on in life you may get confused again lol, I used to be solidly convinced that I was bi, but then I was like no, I'm gay, then I was bi again, and now I'm like, meh maybe I'm actually asexual demi with a preference towards cis men but also like cis women but can't be monogamous with only women, can with men. which translates to: wtf i dunno who cares. lol.

The fact that Bille came out as queer months later just goes to show that we know nothing about other people. Her new album in my opinion, is essentially about her accepting her feelings and learning from them. I'm so happy for her. :3

as a 32 year lady who also loves pop culture and gossip but cannot keep up with it at all, i appreciate these videos. you’re doing the lords work.

@SobrietyandSolace

5 ай бұрын

31 same here lol

you are FEEDING us with this series but I would love to see you talk about the whole Justin Bieber Selena Hailey drama because the beef just never ends

As a 21 year old 6’2 man, you’re right, i am just, but a girl

ohhhhh i love your point about how female musical artists are expected to change their aesthetic and appearance for their “eras” like you kind of blew my mind with that

Being called a 24 year old baby girl made me unreasonably happy as a 21 year old man

@LifeMyAsJoana223

3 ай бұрын

21 year old baby*

I am so in love with this series like u don't even KNOWWWWWWWW - I even got my bf into inane drama lore purely bc Nicole is such a good storyteller

these lore vids are like taking a shot of straight lightning in the nicest way

i did get point-blanked asked “what’s your sexuality?” in real life, was definitely awkward to me, much prefer and agree with the way you spoke about it. You give what you want and you don’t owe anyone anything more.

@teresadunn903

4 ай бұрын

also just enjoyed the video overall, as a whole, well done 👌👌❤🤌🎉

hey!! i love the “chronically online girl” series and i’ve watched all of them, you should cover the try guys/ned rabbit hole, i would watch it immediately. i love the way you explain things and lay it out, cause it’s actually really easy to understand when you talk abt jt 🤗

So glad people are talking about age gap relationships more. I didn’t realize I was groomed at 17 until two months ago! And I’m 31!! Now that I’m putting the pieces of what happened to me together, so much of the turmoil of my early adult life makes sense. It’s amazing how society gaslights you into thinking it’s okay because YOU have the *appearance* of being mature. I wasn’t, I just had a childhood of trauma that made me seem wise beyond my years which also made me the perfect target for predation.

@ismaelcruz8337

2 ай бұрын

Hope you've been able to heal,sending some virtual hugs🫂

My way of rationalizing the Claudia/Billie thing is that a lot of people are just attracted to people that look similar to themself. So for straight couples their parent might look similar to their sibling because both partner and sibling look similar to the"gender swap" version of that person. (Also applies to Spongebob and Frankie Grande)

@haleyjadelovethatname

3 ай бұрын

spongebob and frankie😂

I HATE the way people talk about a brother and sister as if it's creepy. They are literally siblings and it's healthy to love your family.

One of the things I absolutely detest was when people SHREDDED Billie's physical appearance for that one photo, calling it a "mom bod", sexualizing her and being horridly despicable WHILE she was (I think) still a minor and too also add on the fact that what people were doing to her, was one of the EXACT reason's why she decided to wear baggy clothes. That fact of decision stood out, and hit most to me as someone that was (and still is) struggling with their body image, and to see Billie, a person I admired for that decision, be basically ridiculed relentlessly as a youngster for her appearance, made me feel even more insecure on my body image and appearance when concerning peoples perception of me. Like... that whole thing just made me fuggin MAAAAAAD!! on god.

@Eloraurora

Ай бұрын

That was such a weird kerfuffle. Okay, she's busty and kinda short, so what? That's an extremely normal body type.

As a fellow devoted strokes fan, I would love a chronically online girl explains The Strokes lore 👀

@TheQueenofNeckbeards

5 ай бұрын

they get the nepo baby pass i love em 💅

INTERPRETING THIS AS A PERSONAL HOLIDAY GIFT TO ME AND I AM SO VERY GRATEFUL.

The whole grooming thing happens too often in Hollywood to boys and girls and it’s sick I remember hearing stuff about the Billie thing and I felt so bad and the ‘queerbaiting’ thing always made me mad

@Jack2729o

5 ай бұрын

you think it happens too much there because there are few of them and it seems more frequent, but that happens everywhere unfortunately but ppl don’t talk about this , bc it’s almost normal in our society ... and Q and other men in Billie life was not from Hollywood, they were all unknowns and Q friends .. she has always hung out with people not famous

nicole i was playing this video outloud in my room with my sister and my sister said "she sounds like a mix of Blair and Jenny from Gossip Girl" and she's right you do

Wait so you're telling me that when I went to see her live, and a man was cleaning the stage and everyone was freaking the hell out... you're telling me that was her dad? I thought we were all just like.. really into the janitor? I thought it was like . Just this joke thing that we all did? Im dying rn

I was dating a 30 year old guy when I was just 20 because I thought he loved me. Turned out he already had a whole ass relationship and was nothing but a creep and a perv 🙃

Girl! Thank you for encouraging people to look into Tourette's. I have TS and there is so much misinformation on tiktok. I also encourage people to look into functional neurological disorder which is even lesser known but can mimic TS and some specialist believe the uptick in TS is actually people misdiagnosing themselves with TS when they most likely have FND. Tourette's is neurological, it's in your genetics and you have symptoms from early childhood on. FND can develop at any life stage but usually resolves with treatment as it has more to do with mental health and anxiety disorders (which is still a valid and legit diagnosis) FND can mimic other health issues too but it's basically when there isn't physically anything wrong with your body but something is causing your brain to think and act like there is. OMG this has gotten way too long but I had to do my daily advocacy for TS and FND because we need people to learn about both so accurate diagnoses and treatment can occur. You're a queen.

I don't know if this point has already been made, but IF I was in Billie's situation, I might not be ready to accept that I was abused and taken advantage of, especially in a relationship where I MIGHT (hypothetically) have actually felt good about feeling in control of my life. Especially if other people assumed you had "learned" a lesson (wrote the song power) and you have to live up to said expectations.

IM SO GLAD YOURE TALKING ABOUT THIS AHHHH

Your comments on queerbaiting were so validating. Sometimes when people ask me if I’m straight I’ll say “eh” or “I’m straight but not narrow.” Sometimes I feel comfortable enough telling them that I find women attractive but don’t see myself dating them, and sometimes I wonder if that’s problematic. But all in all, that’s something that I get to unpack and figure out and don’t have to decide right this minute. Demanding a solid answer about someone’s sexuality is never okay and I hate that people do it under the guise of calling out queerbaiting, even though you can’t even queerbait as a person as you stated.

that Mr Clean joke earned you a sub maam! edit: also I did see your video and come watch it cause you were so pretty

Well now that you've mentioned him, we're waiting for the Jefree Star drama video.

The amount of joy this video series gives me is unexplainable. I would literally kill to watch another 500…

Genuinely I love these videos so much, especially because the pictures help SO MUCH

you should do a “a chronically online girl explains…” video on the dreamsmp because i feel like people don’t really know what that actually was or the qsmp since it like ended recently or something

I adore how passionate nicole is when she’s unraveling the lore in these videos

whenever Nicole posts a new video, its like a breath of fresh air.

i know you wont be reading this nicole but i LOVE these videos. it doesnt matter if i already know about the topic i can listen to you for hours

NICOLE IM CRYING SCREAMING THROWING UP IVE LOVED ALL THESE INTERNET LORE VIDEOS THEY HEAL MY SOUL

nicole i’m so excited i’ve been WAITING for more of these

never stop this series PLEASE.

I LOVE this series so much its so informative about topics that i literally had no idea even existed????

I thank you for this video. I love how u talk about serious issues and do ur best to respect the ppl u talk about continuously acknowledging that they are just that - ppl, but also knowing how to hold ppl accountable

the great contribution you're making to the world with this chronically online girl series, seriously ✨

Nicole really doin the most for us, love u girl cant wait to watch this ❤

I know you've been doing this format for a while, but I gotta say the set with the photos on the wall and you standing up is so funny and cool to me

Never stop this series Nicole!

Living for the bag, queen. And loving that Ik the lore behind it from the podcast 🫡

this was not the addition to this series that i thought it was going to be, but it sure is the addition that i needed

i love nicoles brunette hair being her “chronically online girl era”

IM OBSESSED WITH THIS SERIESSSS lmao, internet/ celeb drama is so interesting to me

is crazy how everyone of your lore vids are my interests so excitedddd

Beautiful job. The bag works well, too. Here for it. I was guessing you might do a Kardashian chronically online video since you & Jake talked about it on the pod.

i think that the fact that her songs show that maturity in warning against older younger relationship and her dating history perfectly make sense, she shows a lot of maturity in her songs and that come at a cost, if you had to grow up faster than your peers its natural to gravitate toward older more mature seeming people instead of someone your age who might not be able to relate

I love how this has become a new series you are so good at it:)!

Stop Nicole I literally lovee these new series please keep em coming!!

Every time Billie made a comment about her sexuality, or said something like "I'm straight as a ruler" I kept quiet because as you said, sexuality is something that can continue to change and evolve for people. I'm proud of her for doing what she wants, and no one deserves an explanation. Glad I watched this video though, because I was curious to hear your thoughts!

Imma need an update now that hit me hard and soft is out!! So so much lore🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️

I just watched three of your videos simply because u popped up on my suggested and I fell in love on the last 3 hrs 😭

I know nothing about any of the topics she talks about, but I’m always entertained by the subjects. But what mostly keeps me coming back is her personality and the way she talks, very humorous and fun to listen to. Looking forward to the next video.

no bc i love the blonde era and will never understand ppl that hate on it. to me that whole album about was healing and growth. like the blonde fits so well and her aesthetic made sense for that time (clean girl trend uprising) i loved her girly aesthetic bc it was such a switch up and showed her being more comfortable in her body.

I do believe her parents trie to step in during her relationship with what’s his face when she was 16 because in the song happier than ever she actually says that he wanted her to push them away so she did. I think that’s why she ended up so depressed after that relationship. I hope for all of the best things for her!

you talking about billie liking your tiktok reminded me of when you liked a tiktok i reposted and i was VERY happy 😭

i was so nervous before clicking on this video, but everything you said is exactly what I think and it's perfect. thank you so much, i wish everyone would see this.

heard whatever song your intro is from in public and immediately was in a better mood somehow???? Nicole u are Pavlov and I am but a hungry dog

I entered an age gap relationship when I was 22, he is 6 years older than me. We are currently engaged and have been together for three years and I can tell you that even as a legal adult it is very difficult dating someone who is significantly older than you when you’re 18-23. You’re in different stages of life, there can be real or perceived power dynamics that affect your relationship, and one person is significantly less mature than the other. You’re still figuring who you are and what you want in life in your early twenties and dating someone older only works if the older person doesn’t take advantage.

I just got so excited for this. I love your wall videos. They make this life just a little bit easier