He has a right to be close to his family too! She runs everything with her family and sometimes it doesn’t seem fair to Kobe and his family!

@antoinetteberry6003

3 күн бұрын

Maybe that's one thing his friend was referring to

@carolhenny2790

3 күн бұрын

Those are conversations to be had before marriage. They’ve haven’t even set roots for the family in the US yet. One thing at a time Kobe!

@stellag4301

Күн бұрын

Maybe so…but he chose to marry an American and come to America. 🤷‍♂️ A little too late for him to want to be back in his own country.🤷‍♂️

@topeo4710

Күн бұрын

​@@carolhenny2790Exactly!

I don’t wrong These kids really not gonna remember living there for two years.

@janehyden1652

2 күн бұрын

WTH I DONT WRONG?

Kobe knew he couldn't win this battle, and couldn't convince her he just gave up 🤣

@pattykochenower4222

2 күн бұрын

Sadly , he will never be heard or seen by Emily and her mom and dad ( she’s going to mooch off them forever ) ! 🙄

He's right it easier for kids to get used things when they are little and not in school...

@maggicurry-williams8440

3 күн бұрын

Too young to remember it

@user-en1zc5vd6y

3 күн бұрын

@@maggicurry-williams8440i seem to go back to the things I experienced when I was really young. Even without the clear memory of it, everything still comes out. It’s like you just get wired at that age

@topeo4710

Күн бұрын

​@@maggicurry-williams8440Absolutely what I am thinking. I am with Emily here, the kids are far too young to remember stuff like that.

everyone saying she should just give in and move over there would def not do it themselves 🤣

@rosee7256

2 күн бұрын

Then again she should’ve married an American 😂

@user-zp5oz6yh2z

2 күн бұрын

Idk in a marriage, you should both compromise

@rinabitoni3746

Күн бұрын

I would!

@stellag4301

Күн бұрын

And he should have married a woman from his own country…works both ways.

@mickeysweedhouse1430

Күн бұрын

and why not?

She'll never go .. she loves how its 3 against kobe in america ..

I think Emily made a good point! If koby actually wants to move temporarily! to Cameroon for the childrens benefit it would make more sense to make a move like that when the children are a little bit older 6 or 7 years of age like Emily said makes more sense, personally I think koby doesn't want to leave Cameroon because it feels good being back home & hes using the children needing to learn about their culture by living in their culture as a good excuse to get Emily to approve of his idea.

@BurtReynolds420

2 күн бұрын

See, and this is why it’s so hard to date an American. What he says makes sense. Save cash, the kids small can be with their dads family for the first 2-3 years. And stop it, when they turn 5 they’re coming back to America to get the better education. And when that happens, the chances of those kids seeing their family in Cameroon will be a handle full of times in their life. It’s the “American Way” to just ignore your partners culture. This proves it right here with this clip.

@pattykochenower4222

2 күн бұрын

She will never leave her mommy and daddy’s basement! I really feel bad for Kobe !

@loveylady7965

Күн бұрын

He should have married a woman of his own culture and race

@Vannigranni

16 сағат бұрын

No when he is older it will be more difficult what children are exposed to the first 5 years of life shape them forever after 5 not as much

@BurtReynolds420

16 сағат бұрын

@@Vannigranni Thank you! Even the children having pictures when they’re babies with their grandparents will shape them forever. When they grow up and look back at it, that will stay with them even if they don’t remember that moment.

Emily wants her kids to learn the language but doesn’t want them to live in Cameroon typical 🙄🙄

@rosalynbethea6421

3 күн бұрын

Don't blame her 😮

@user-en1zc5vd6y

3 күн бұрын

I can see where she’s coming from but this is what her life is now. Beautiful as a diverse relationship is, it comes with challenges also, like the idea of living in Cameroon

@bernelollab

2 күн бұрын

@@user-en1zc5vd6y yes I understand both sides but marriage is compromise hopefully they work it out good for their family

@bernelollab

2 күн бұрын

@@rosalynbethea6421 because you see it only from her perspective so hush 🙄🙄

@bernelollab

2 күн бұрын

And by the way he didn’t say permanent so please people chill out

I like how understanding and gentle he is , give him the 2 years!!!

She doesn’t realize how blessed she is. I’m African American, it would be a blessing to have a house in his home country as well.

This one’s tough, both points are valid. I can’t side with either one, they may have to compromise on the timing.

It’s a perfect idea, he can provide for his family and be an example to his children and family in Cameroon.

Lol Kobe is funny. What was he expecting 😂?

This is similar to Loren and Alexei wanting to move to Israel.

Shes not going anywhere she cant control everything over there! She feels comfort with her parents bc she can do nd say and be however wants and have her parents back her he doesnt feel like a man in control and he misses the love his family loves him and has his best interest at heart

@pattykochenower4222

2 күн бұрын

Exactly!!!!🎯

I think a good compromise is to move there for a bit once the kids are a few years older.

@GOTTA_RUN

Күн бұрын

Them kids are not gonna fit in at all if they stay in America a few years more

She like living with her parents for free, having her and her mom control everything!!

I agree with both of them being that I am Nigerian. However, she’s right they’re not going to remember anything at the ages that they are. A year indeed can change everything and the memories that I do have are from when I was 7. They can agree and regroup on this topic.

Yeah makes sense but, in a nice nice part of Cameroon. He misses his family and home. Indeed would be good but, medical should be considered.

@janassyjoachim1623

3 күн бұрын

Exactly.

@user-en1zc5vd6y

3 күн бұрын

Am sure they can work out all those details once Emily opens her mind to it

@stellag4301

Күн бұрын

Exactly. There’s a lot more to be considered than him being with his family and cheaper housing…totally different culture and economy.

i think they should build a house in cameroon and keep going for vacations every now and then. the kids are young certainly they wont remember anything now. vacationing in cameroon will help kobe get time with family too.

@pattykochenower4222

2 күн бұрын

But then Emily knows she can’t control Kobe and everything in Cameroon, his family and friends wouldn’t allow it … she CAN and has controlled him and everything since he arrived in the US and live in the basement of her parents home ! It’s ridiculous!!! Get off you butt Emily and move out … 3 kids and still in the basement and your mom and dad do everything for you ! She’s insufferable, so spoiled , poor poor Kobe … he will never get his way ever .

I can see both sides

I agree with him.

I'd honestly love to see a spin off show with these two living in cameroon. Would be way better than "the family chantel" 😅

Awww I think that's kind of cute! Do it before the kids have to start school!!!❤❤

as an american that would be a major cultural shock for me

@rosee7256

2 күн бұрын

Imagine how he felt when he moved away too . Idk why Americans love to marry into other cultures and then want the other person to forget about where they come from

She should compromise and move. He did! 1-2 yrs. Is just fine.

I believe that Kibe is right. He will ultimately want to live there full time.

@janehyden1652

2 күн бұрын

OMG HIS NAME IS KOBE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Of course, they have a great life in America, still living in her parents' home. I think they can compromise. Once the kids start school, no way she is taking them out to move to his country. Marriage is about compromises. IMO, while they are little is best, and then they can come back once they become school ago and spend the summers in his country. The kids get the best of both worlds. One of my best friends married a Nigerian. They made it work, and now their kids speak and write in three different languages and also know their dads extended family. They spend the summers in his country.

That’s a tough answer - time to think before answering and a huge sit down convo with a PowerPoint presentation lol maybe dual citizenship

Summers in Cameroon.

@TashMagesh

2 күн бұрын

Yeah, for now until they're the age Emily suggested. Then relocate until they are in their teens. Move back to America as late teens/young adults. They will become grounded adults.

This is a discussion they should have had before getting married.

America is not what it's cut up to be. No life work balance. You have make your own.

Start with moving within the US away from the maternal grandparents. Find a city with plenty of Cameroonian and other African expats 50/50 deal. What Kobe wanted in the beginning.

He just wants to build a house here in Cameron ..He know Emily will never move to Cameron .

He's sooo sweet heart,

He wants to be able to manage the cost of living. I wouldn’t do it, but it’s perfectly reasonable to request it.

Everything that happens until the age of 7 makes a big impact on a child. We think they don’t remember but research says otherwise.

A year or two???? Not bad AT ALL. It's doable but boss Emily would never agree to that

Love this couple

I agree cause I got rob from my culture not knowing how to write it or speak it.

She obviously wants to have the new baby with her own doctor and her mom around. When the youngest is 3 or so it would make more sense.

I don’t think it’s completely a bad idea they can def invest in making a house and atleast have it for vacation or in the case of an emergency they always have a home And back up in Cameroon even for retirement

The novelty of living in the USA runs its course

She didn’t deny him of the idea she’s just saying like right now it’s not the time they’re young. They’re not gonna remember that which is true memory doesn’t begin until the age of five for most children unless you have some type of crazy ass brain where you can absorb memory from the time that you come out your mama wound, but realistically has memory until the age of five and up

Check out the security situation in Cameroon. It is NOT safe place to live. Visit is one thing. Living full time there is quite another.

@Mandii271

3 күн бұрын

🤔

@TMYPiscesSunandMoonRising5548

3 күн бұрын

Like America is so safe 🙄.

@Kinana237

2 күн бұрын

America is more dangerous my friend. Have you even been there ? Americans, always clueless but so loud,

@gremlin633

2 күн бұрын

​@@TMYPiscesSunandMoonRising5548 africa is so dangerous that most of the things that happen to people over there we can t even write it on youtube. Please just google "cameroon" and "safety" to make yourself an idea. Not for anything they have the economy of middle age europe..

@aika9116

2 күн бұрын

Cameroon isnt safe??? How then Emily found him safe and sound

He has a good point but I don’t think it has to be instant.

I am with her on this!

She makes a good point tho. Why when they are babies. There's no point. They won't learn anything if that's his point to move there.

I'm so sick of people always attacking Emily. She has been more supportive than anyone else on this show of learning someone's culture, her and her family. He's an idiot. If you want your kids to grow app and live there to marry someone from there, obviously, no one in America is going to go want to live in that country. That's just a fact it's going to be hard on her. The kids are really little. She's right. They're not going to remember. Go marry someone from your country easy solution

@rebbybam230

3 күн бұрын

😂😂

@janassyjoachim1623

3 күн бұрын

She's annoying but she's a good wife to him and a good mom. The bashing is getting old. He loves his annoying ass wife

@Shitsngigz

3 күн бұрын

Exactly… Agreed 💯 💯

@user-en1zc5vd6y

3 күн бұрын

Wow dude

@carolhenny2790

3 күн бұрын

She’s a good wife and mother. No matter what she does, haters will be haters. Emily has valid concerns.

Maybe he should have brought this up in America- in her safety zone- not in Cameroon.

Could care less where they are living

I can't blame here 😮

@janehyden1652

2 күн бұрын

CAN U BLAME THERE?

Emily shouldn’t have said anything because honestly it’s only a wish let him have it ,it won’t happen 😂

Erg She Gets on my nerves just speaking . Way to Immature

@gloriaasuen

3 күн бұрын

So why are you following and watching her??? You clearly JEALOUS of her because you have NO ONE to love you the way Emily and her husband love each other 😂😂😂😂. Jealousy and envy is a very serious medical situation. Please seek medical attention very fast. And also the Bible calls it A DEMON. 😈😈

@pattykochenower4222

2 күн бұрын

Same !!! Poor Kobe !

@pattykochenower4222

2 күн бұрын

Same ! Poor Kobe

emily's right tho. she's not saying no. does anybody remember anything before 4? like she's just saying wait til they're older so they actually remember it.

Plus Kobe just wants to be the man in the household for once. It has to be emasculating being trippled teamed by his wife and his family every time they have a disagreement about something.

I think it would be great for the kids to live there for a year or two so they can learn more about their culture. Emily doesn't seem to be working anyways. Their money would go further in Cameroon so why not?

Not icy, just reasonable. And Kobe has the right idea too, it's just a timing issue. They should revisit this in ~5 years.

He misses his family and friends but how much money will they earn in Cameroon? He has to say, let's stay here for 3 months or lets work harder and move here for a year or 2 . Life in Cameroon is hard, better for kids but the US has better hospitals, let's agree on this one. Cameroon has 100% natural food, better air, more freedom...kids have to be at least 7 or 8, she has right but I understand him too

@JustMe-ug3mk

3 күн бұрын

He survived and turned out alright, so his kids will be alright. If they already decent savings, they can afford to rent a decent place for a year and still be okay. The cost of living is low. I'm sure Koby had already done the maths and is comfortable that the numbers add up.

@gremlin633

2 күн бұрын

You paint Cameroon like a disney movie 😂. Natural food? Fresh Air? You think is Greece or Portugal? In Central Africa you get garbage and pollution, misery, corruption, ignorance, tribalism, crime and lots of terr.. actually I can t even write what you get over there. Oh, and there s a bunch of malaria too, lost a friend years ago.

I agree with Emily

I don't think its going to be as easy as kobe thinks, they were already married with a child and it took like 2years for his visa. Also when you're still living with your inlaws 3 kids later maybe a house should take priority over culture and let them spend the summer whilst they're off school. Especially since till now its been emily trying to teach then french and not the native..

I unironically think the kids would be better off being raised there over America with it's rubbish education system.

People attack Emily but the fact remains that she knows what she want and most people don't like when a woman knows and get what they want...,

Girl come on go on an adventure with your kids and husband. Id be like heck yeah let's go. Opening up the kids to their culture. I'd be so down. Stop being so closed minded girl. You're fear will trickle down into your kids and will also become fearful. You want them to be fearless and open minded.

Maybe they can try going back more for offen for a vacation, or conopisine something 😊

They can move to a neutral area where both families can VISIT. There's no need to live with either family, they are a family and should focus on their roots as a family ❤

No say no

But why you dont tell this early, when you are not married and having kids!!!

I'm sorry but hell no!

He is right the American life is expensive

Can Kobe live closer to people from his home country in America? Then the children can learn more about their father’s culture.

@notsureiL

Күн бұрын

They talked about it in their first season. Kobe wanted to move to a bigger city with an African community. Emily wanted to keep on living in her parents basement.

@estheresther8934

15 сағат бұрын

@@notsureiL well, we can pray for them. They both have to agree on a solution.

Build a house for a "year or 2?" 😂😂😂... nice try! I knew this was coming! And she's not going to be easy on this! And people wonder why I have a hard time liking her! Shes fake!

I think they should stay in Africa for a few years.

I know Emily wants to be like , bro, I’ve been drinking bottled water for two weeks because your water system is sub par. No way lol

Cameroonian women, like all women, are the keepers of a culture so if culture was so important to him, he should’ve married someone from his country. He should just embrace his white Cameroonian children for who they are!

@ziao.1359

2 күн бұрын

He didn’t plan to marry her….. it was bc she got pregnant from one night stand they had and they decided to get married for their son

yea they live good in America, with her parents.support and living with them. still selfish Emily.

I absolutely cannot stand her 😅

I don't think she would be happy there

@pattykochenower4222

2 күн бұрын

She won’t be happy anywhere except her parents basement, they do everything for her !! Poor Kobe , he’ll never get his way ever!

Thats a big negative Kobe

Hell. No

Trust and believe they will be with her parents FOREVER. The only way is if her parents buy them a house.

If you wanted to be in Cameroon, you should’ve chosen a Cameroonian woman. Period. You chose what you chose so you got what you got.

If Cameron was good will you travel, kobe you can go alone, nonsense talk

too many hwoopings

American women allways the boss

That's why i wouldn't marry outside of my culture, it's easy to just move back home and i do not have to deal with this kind of drama.

@janehyden1652

2 күн бұрын

U PROLLY BEEN SMOKING TOO MUCH

😮😂😢

I can't stand Emily. She is so bossy

@Whynotcreate

3 күн бұрын

You seem nice

The third world is here in America bow too. So ...........

I cannot stand Emily!

He wants to be close to his family nothing wrong with that but we Americans can't live like africans but i guess they can meet each other halfway