Once I stopped caring about others' opinions of me and became vocal of the logical points I would bring up, especially whenever others would let their emotions take over, THAT'S when I really noticed the general respect I would receive from most others. Keeping a level head can confuse even the biggest (ego, physically, whatever) of ppl

Your personality isn't intimidating because you want it to be. Your personality is intimidating because that's who you are. You don't think or contemplate how to act in order to be you. You naturally act the way that feels natural to you.

@BigBadJerryRogers

3 күн бұрын

I actually hate that about myself, although admittedly I have used it to my advantage at the same time in life. But I know for a fact it's kept people from trying to get to know me, even when I have tried to show that's not necessary and I'm open to it.

@vincev4630

3 күн бұрын

Intelligence is intimidating. Intelligence is always growing because you want it to therefore, you can be intimidating because you want to be.

@neolion8150

3 күн бұрын

@@vincev4630 Lol yeah I hear people always talkin about how intimidating nerds are saying fuck man is he smart best leave it with him or he’ll slap you with some knowledge 😂

@vincev4630

3 күн бұрын

@@neolion8150 - The intimidating ones are not loud. You've probably got played by a dozen nerds already and don't even know it 😂

@neolion8150

3 күн бұрын

@@vincev4630lol 99% sure your American . You do know words have actual meaning. Not what you feel they are. 🤡 Best look in a dictionary if you know what one is.

I was at a bar alone once, every girl would just walk past me and not even smile, then one of them came up to me and said "3 of my friends think you're really hot but very intimidating" I was shook lol whole time I was thinking I was just really unattractive 😂

@TheMedicineMan_29

5 күн бұрын

I used to think I was very unattractive too but learned its that STRONG intimidation vibe.. especially when I use my eyes to communicate, maybe you do the same too. Honestly it was the biggest wake up when people finally starting admitting to me that initially I seemed/seem intimidating

@TomRados

4 күн бұрын

yep im intimidating bc i call the bullcrap out in people one thing im realky good at is reading people and some things you can only learn on the streets what people fail to realize i been therr done that at age 12

@TomRados

4 күн бұрын

atleast now i can go through the proper channels and get all the perverts exposed

@TheMedicineMan_29

4 күн бұрын

@@TomRados what you mean? I'm not connecting this what you expressed above.

@BigBadJerryRogers

3 күн бұрын

​@@TheMedicineMan_29this person is trying to make this about something that it's not. That right there is a red flag always. People in bars always find me intimidating. You either have to not care or you have to employ tactics consciously to not come off that way.

Practice the art of not giving a toss with certain reservations.

I have been pushed away by many people since I was little, and as an adult. I didn't feel lonely, or depressed, because I never got happiness from the external environement. I just did many things with my time instead. I completed my educational goals. Graduated from High School. Graduated from College. I got more involved into visual Arts. Creating Art, Photography. I also compose music for movies, television, and videos. I'm also an author. I spent my time wisely, and don't spend time on things that don't benefit me. I have a lot to do, and I'm never bored.

@afrolatinobeats

5 күн бұрын

This is literally me, I have done each and each and every thing you have written in this comment except being depressed

@jarthurl1615

4 күн бұрын

You are a HUGE inspiration. Any advice for someone who wants to pursue similar endeavors?

@MarthLuna-wq3ny

4 күн бұрын

That's called having a stoic life. Not a moment in life wasted or unused.

@BigBadJerryRogers

3 күн бұрын

You know, I find this contradictory though. If you have pursuits or a career that relies on collaboration with others like much of that has to for success, how much can you truly be solitary?

me: i have an intimidating personality *actually just autistic*

After 59 years, I’ve never had this pointed out to me. So I’ll continue being unapologetic.

I'm actually glad I gave this video a chance.

What a lot of people don't understand about this topic is that while you may be intimidating to some people, you still may be intimidated by others, yourself. There's levels to it. In fact, you can track your progress in life by counting the various demographics that either you intimidate, or that intimidate you. I'm at the level right now where the average, somewhat unsuccessful person is clearly intimidated by me, but entrepreneurs and up are not, and they may even intimidate me instead.

I am hated and suspect. I tell them if you’re not feeding me, fing me, or paying my mortgage, why would I be concerned with what you think……fyi started out life as a people pleaser.

You are intimidating to certain people who have too much to hide. Civilization talks about entitlement vs. spiritual communities honor spiritual gifts.

The problem with this video is everyone who watches this may take a couple of things from it they see in themselves and so then think yes it's me. That can be very ego inflating in an ignorant and self absorbed way. Being completely disagreeable and having a belief that you are right can often be a disadvantage as you close up to the idea your way is the correct one. It prevents growth and learning and can make a person become stale and set in their ways

@BigBadJerryRogers

3 күн бұрын

I've noticed a pattern with a lot of these videos and a lot of these behaviors are also prominent in personality disorders. It's not healthy to be a selfish egomaniac or a narcissist, and there's a fair bit of crossover here.

Intimidating people don’t need this video, we know and some of us have come to accept it and wish it wasn’t the case. But people are weak.

@PhillipFelix-kw3zi

2 күн бұрын

People suck, no moral compass or they are just plain worthless.

I go with the crowd but I am relaxed unfazed yet quick to correct authority figures as I see them as equal to me which causes conflict.

I wonder how many people said “ya that’s me” in their head and everyone actually thinks they’re weird or annoying

@ultimatewafflegaming1018

5 күн бұрын

tbh tho thats the reaction people get for going against the norm so people gonna think their weird as if they were normal they wouldnt have the traits in the video, but the annoying part is pretty spot on if someone is just being a dick and loud kinda guy usually their idiots and will say theyre just "intimidating" or the person on the receiving end of people like the description in the video is insecure and is simply projecting making them perceive them as annoying.. its a layered concept

@futokarin9745

4 күн бұрын

Loud wrong answer buzzer

@BigBadJerryRogers

3 күн бұрын

​@@futokarin9745not necessarily. People who are weird are intimidating because people are for the most part tribal and not being part of a tribe can be considered unsafe. But the term weird is a very large umbrella and there's degrees.

@Stress_._Free

5 сағат бұрын

ME ASF 😂😂

I like how you mentioned Schopenhauer quotes. 🎉

Usually these videos are toxic. This one is good

@BelieveNothingAllLies

2 күн бұрын

How can videos be toxic i think your over sensitive

@TheTAEclub

Күн бұрын

Dummy

@SuperMIKevin

3 сағат бұрын

People with low intelligence think most ideas are toxic.

@BAsed_AFro

38 минут бұрын

@@BelieveNothingAllLies Oh, in many different ways.

@BAsed_AFro

36 минут бұрын

@@BelieveNothingAllLies Think of how the subject of NPD is trending so heavily today, and how most everyone says to just "go no contact" with them? Now, think of how there are all kinds of videos up about that you are a "Chosen One" if you do this/that, right? So NPDs believe that they are "special, privileged... chosen". Therefore folks that go by I'm a "Chosen One!" will likely often be referred to as a NPD. Know what I mean?

My clients have always loved me but my coworkers generally did not like me. Clients say he's so smart. Coworkers say he thinks he's so smart. I regret wasting years trying to make it work in a corporate environment. I'm self-employed and much happier. I do admit that there's more money to be made if you can work well with others.

About a week ago my brother told me I scare people. About 10 years ago a cycling buddy who was much older than me told me other people were intimidated by me. He then told me I was one of the nicest guys he had ever met. Back to my brother... All I could say was it's not on me that they're intimidated easily. I don't posture I'm not rude, friendly and outgoing.

@user-cp3kp5fs2k

4 күн бұрын

I was in prison for 12 years😂 my mom thinks I'm mean.. no.. just no games..real man overcommer.. im 39 my gfs all say I act better.... I can't be acting I tell them I just am

@BigBadJerryRogers

3 күн бұрын

These discussions are meaningless unless you include the info as to why you scare them or intimidate them. That's missing here from what your brother had to say.

@stellarcreations7378

3 күн бұрын

@@BigBadJerryRogers my brother never said why people are scared but I can only imagine It's because I usually see through people's bullshit. In other words I don't give shit and I don't take shit...

@stellarcreations7378

3 күн бұрын

@@BigBadJerryRogers and I would disagree with this... People are simply trying their best to relate to this video and share some of their experiences..

@BigBadJerryRogers

3 күн бұрын

@@stellarcreations7378 well actually since you put it that way you just sound like you're very into yourself. So why would anyone want to bother with you? That's also missing here.

This gives one to ponder about oneself. Subbed!

Tons of value here, thank you so much !

Definitely resonate with this video.

I`ll keep that advice in this video in mind thoughout this life thanks for this video good day.

I'm 42, how do these younger generations define "Intimidating" when the majority have no social skills to begin with? What do they consider "Sociable" & "Approachable"? 🤔

Oh we have awaken 😮

Great video

I got this at work years ago when we were doing a 360° test for managers (ask people around how they see you), and it surprised me a lot, because I always tried to be as kind and considerate as possible. Turns out the intimidating factor was mostly people knew they couldn't fool me, and it wasn't specially negative, more just because I'm a fact-checker and truth-teller. At the same time, it brings trust and respect, because people also know you'll have their back if needed. Just, I think, never pair intimidating and condescendant, being intimidating is not something to 'use', more a natural consequence of who you are, and doesn't mean people don't like you.

I resonate with all 8. Good to know, thanks!

@philhanna7619

5 күн бұрын

Yep, I feel dumb right now too!

I'm on the edge of all of these. Dang.

I love being intimidating :)

Life as an INTP. I’m good in me. Others are noted, but are secondary to priorities.

@ultimatewafflegaming1018

5 күн бұрын

me too and im infp i am me and theres no one else id rather be

@candyrosepetals

4 күн бұрын

ENTJ and this is gospel for us NTs! We do what we want and need. I am exactly who I am and make no apologies for what I do.

@nickcavini

Күн бұрын

INTJ

Normies watching this, being inspired and carrying on making the same mistakes

I’m 63 and I’ve always been this guy, although until I was middle aged I didn’t realize I was intimidating to people. Back then I was baffled by the powerful fear and intimidation people felt by me. I’m tall, quick-witted and funny. I’ve read thousands of books and knew since I was 12 that I have a very high IQ. So I didn’t get it before, but now I completely get it. Most people are incredibly insecure and I’m not at all. I’ve learned to be non threatening to put people at ease. Again the humor and wit helps a LOT.

I know I intimidate and I like it😂

The first sign is that I don't need you to tell me. BYE! Good Luck!

If you stand up for unpleasant truth (over comforting lies) you will be seen as intimidating.

I got eight out of eight....😊😊😊

Yeap , that's me.

People are more trouble than their worth

Mankind, revisited.

I cannot be bothered by an unimportant person opinion of me

I think it’s just my face 😂

The problem i have is people jealous of you cant mind their own goddamn business and look for your flaws to make their ego feel better because you have qualities that they can never have this could be looks or intelligence or talent or any combination of the sort.

I don’t need your “go ahead” to go ahead

#5 irritates me. Our society only wants to make small talk, or discuss a TV series, or past week's game. No one has real conversations anymore, and having a conversation with any actual meaning seems difficult for the average person.

I am what I am .....

the wrose part about this today is i feel the need to hold back and be more gentle, its annoying

@BigBadJerryRogers

3 күн бұрын

Being gentle is respectable in some ways, as long as who you apply that to is doing no harm

Here comes my narcissistic personality again, telling me that I do all those things,🙃

@slaughterkvng3886

6 күн бұрын

Are you diagnosed?

@stonedvillain79

5 күн бұрын

Selfishness is inherent of mankind, and comes as a natural instinct to protect, care for and believe in oneself. Narcissism, like every other psycological attribute is on a spectrum, rather than a definitive, yay or nay. The fact you are able to recognise it means you are low on the spectrum.

@BigBadJerryRogers

3 күн бұрын

​@@stonedvillain79I think a big problem today is that narcissistic behavior has never been so rewarded and encouraged in human history.

no wonder im not approached in public lmao

Never alone with Jesus Christ in your heart and mind.

No I’m not

Well its not my job to humble myself.

@MagnusDudus

3 күн бұрын

It actually is in order for social cohesion

Soft society. That's all.

@BigBadJerryRogers

3 күн бұрын

Soft people. Hard society.

2. Is just plain stupidity

Itbwouldnt be jealousy or envy. You could be an asshole.

Why is the Black lady the “intimidating” woman…. Have to check those unconscious biases

@ElDrom_Belle

7 күн бұрын

Was also peeping that.

@unknownfilmmaker777

6 күн бұрын

You should take your own advice and stop assuming that everything is racist or biased. Your comment is ridiculous.

@stonedvillain79

5 күн бұрын

I think you missed the point, and didn't listen to the words that were said. She isn't intimidating, she is perceived as intimidating by weak people, who lack morals and follow the crowd. Just like some weak minded people call everything racism, when they are unable to perceive the truth .

@onyiiilo378

5 күн бұрын

​@@unknownfilmmaker777 You just proved her point. Maybe develop some empathy and stop being too dismissive about people's experiences/reality!!

@AnradTheUnvaxxed

2 күн бұрын

Woketards: Black people deserve more representation. They should be in every movie, TV show, commercial, on the board of every company, in more positions of governance, have more university places etc... Also Woketards: How dare you a black person in negative way, check your unconscious bias

I tick all 8 of these personalities.Apparently this makes me intimidating.Interesting.I am stoic as well and control my emotions.I guess that plays apart.🤔