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@mare4599

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the video

@-UsaNee-

Жыл бұрын

Dude please give me advice! My friend told my crush I like them but I’m not sure if they like me back, what do I dooooo?

@endobrosfin5880

Жыл бұрын

Can you tell me a small tip on how i could become a better listener?

@muhammadasyraf5234

Жыл бұрын

Oo

@frenzy_gideon2801

Жыл бұрын

​@@-UsaNee- if she/he still talks to you, they are also starting to OR already have feelings for you

Nothing worst than being able to flirt with almost everyone but the person you actually like 😭

@aaronmills4290

11 ай бұрын

Amen! 😂

@veronikanagy1643

10 ай бұрын

For real 😂

@Cutiejuliya

10 ай бұрын

Yep

@horacestorm13

10 ай бұрын

Why is this so real, though 🤣

@2313rafa

10 ай бұрын

I really thought that I was the only one with that dumb problem. It sucks so much.

It’s embarrassing how fast I clicked on this video

@d0m0arigatomrr0boto

Жыл бұрын

come on the most funny comment ever

@unreal.commenter

10 ай бұрын

Same 😂❤😂😂😂😂 😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳

@isisant1792

10 ай бұрын

Same😭😭

@giovannyvangestel8425

10 ай бұрын

Man. I feel u

@kjfootballerz9855

10 ай бұрын

same 😭😭

"smile slowly" proceeds to smile very slowly, thus activating your flight or fight response

@user-0vsoghw9

Ай бұрын

yo no way only 34 likes bro/ hella good comment

@aliray7833

Ай бұрын

Chandler from friends was the master of smiling slowly

@essentialist12

Ай бұрын

@@aliray7833 True

@leonardorolingstella8554

Ай бұрын

When I read “smile slowly” I thought of that meme with the troll face slowly going from a frown to an evil grin

@essentialist12

Ай бұрын

@@leonardorolingstella8554 lolololol exactly my point

im dying alone

@Killa_north

Ай бұрын

same

@philigator3302

Ай бұрын

Broh, this comment killed me for 10 straight minutes 😂

@VicksVepora

Ай бұрын

Me too 🙂✌️

@Justhere203

Ай бұрын

Kind of breed who's gonna die alone

@fredex10x

Ай бұрын

Same 😀

This advice misses the key detail that you have to pay attention to how the other person responds to your advances. Understanding when to escalate and when to pull back is the real trick that nearly all dating coaches miss. When they say "be yourself" they mean be your best self who's easy going and just generally fun to be around. When you're in the vibe of just enjoying life that's when you're also most enjoyable to be around. And don't sweat being a little awkward, that shit is adorable as hell and most people understand.

@ja4309

Жыл бұрын

Big Amen. You can't do any of these tips to anyone who aren't comfortable with you

@Psych2go

Жыл бұрын

You bring up a very good point! It's important to pay attention to the other person to see how they react to our behavior. In your experience, what is the best way to learn how to "be yourself" and relax so that you're in the vibe of enjoying life?

@ja4309

Жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go I just wanna butt in here XD but to me, it's knowing that whoever will like me for who I am are the best people to be with while those who don't aren't the best to be with. With that said, I can just be who I am knowing that I will eventually bring in the people who will like me for me

@inf1ni7y

Жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go boxing 😱😂🎭

@VisabilyFresh

Жыл бұрын

Imagine enjoying life, wish it was that easy just have emotions bro

Fear of rejection is still a fear that we need to overcome. No matter the circumstances

@anu.6066

Жыл бұрын

Yeh

@simoneracioppa5733

Жыл бұрын

I don't fear rejection anymore, because I know that I will be rejected no matter what I do. Better not play a rigged game and play something else.

@mrsticky005

Жыл бұрын

Says who? Why is fear of rejection such a bad thing anyways? Ever think that maybe we have fear of rejection for a reason? Maybe the person that you are infatuated with isn't actually right for you and that is what fear of rejection is telling you.

@simoneracioppa5733

Жыл бұрын

@@mrsticky005 if you like to be rejected you also like to be hurt. The more you like a person the more is the fear of being rejected, so it's not like you say, fkin j*rk.

@SidorovichGaming

9 ай бұрын

Worst she can say is "eww".

1. Stand with your back straight and shoulders back. 2. Glance around the room confidently as if you know everyone there. Don't be afraid to make eye contact with a handful of people and even give them a quick smile. 3. Keep direct eye contact with your crush when talking to them. 4. Nod and lightly smile when they talk to you (don't overdo the smiling) do more of a smirk rather 5. Give them one small compliment like liking that color on them, or liking their new haircut. 6. AFTER complimenting them, bring attention to something about yourself too like saying "I found that this haircut works best for me" or "This color is what suits me best" 7. Don't be afraid to make a joke or 2 at your own expense (this will open up the floor to teasing & sharing embarassing stories) 8. Once the floor is open to teasing each other, you can pretty much joke about everything

@playerbutnot265

4 ай бұрын

Sorry I forgot to bring a crown for you

@tanlimgreendaless2839

4 ай бұрын

slowly smile and small glances is bullshit tho. I ended up turning him down because I don't want to deal with his nerdiness, it felt like I was dealing with one of those cringy anime cosplayers on tiktok.

@rylanlunnon9640

4 ай бұрын

​@tanlimgreendaless2839 Were not talking about exaggerated or highly intentional movements. Glancing is extremely natural in downtimes.

@tanlimgreendaless2839

3 ай бұрын

@@rylanlunnon9640 I meant doing the slowly smile and glance at the same time. It just seems very off even if it's not exaggerating. Glancing is okay for me tho.

@PacVan12

3 ай бұрын

Nice roadmap we got here

The fact that nobody talks about the book Casanova Playbook of Magnetism speaks volumes about how people are stuck in their dating life

@Nemesis0513

Ай бұрын

Please explain

@lsm_optix3176

Ай бұрын

Yeah frs could you? Explain...

@Nemesis0513

Ай бұрын

@@lsm_optix3176 thank you homie back me up we need answers

@VILLAINOFYOURDREAMS

Ай бұрын

Seriously? Literally just go read that book. Lazy *ass*​@@Nemesis0513

@VILLAINOFYOURDREAMS

Ай бұрын

​@@lsm_optix3176read the darn book he mentioned, dummy.

Flirting can be a fun and exciting way to show your interest in someone, but it can also be nerve-wracking, especially if you fear rejection.

@tweekzc0fy

Жыл бұрын

Yeah

@tdagz20

Жыл бұрын

Nerve wracking for me for sure

@_the_eversor_lad_

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely nerve-wrecking. You constantly fear you might do something wrong and ruin everything...

@markh.6687

Жыл бұрын

@@_the_eversor_lad_ ...I save time and just figure it will all end in tears no matter what I do/say or don't do/say.

@_the_eversor_lad_

Жыл бұрын

@@markh.6687 I know that feeling damn well my friend... But if I really like someone i won't give up until there is nothing more I can do, until I have no choice but to give up or it is completely pointless to go any further. I just don't like the idea of me not giving my best to obtain what I want. But it doesn't matter what you do, you will most likely get hurt as finding that ONE person is a hell of a difficult task...

You all clicked to impress them, didn’t you?

@isaiahvoss

Жыл бұрын

Never have. Never will.

@luanatics

Жыл бұрын

how'd u know😔

@ichigokurosaki5237

Жыл бұрын

Nope i dont even have a crush just here to teach my friends if they ever need it

@nahumjohaardien50

Жыл бұрын

For "next time"

@CptnCobblestone

Жыл бұрын

N-No >~

I think it’s important to flirt without the intention to flirt or expectation to where it will get to. Coz the process is like getting to know a friend and we act very naturally when showing interest to a person as a friend than a crush. So I just keep telling myself I would like to know this person better as if I want to be a closer friend with them. And have fun with them!

@lucianareis3512

6 ай бұрын

❤

@fryoungtrad

Ай бұрын

Yes! This is called "leading someone on" and it's a great way to hasten the demise of this dystopia so we can start afresh.

@LucasFerreira-et4mg

11 күн бұрын

Beyond cope this one. You can do whatever you want in your life (even k1lL), but your reproductive/romantic sucess will still be dictated by, or have these as necessary components: physical looks, neurology and resources.

I'll do a push up for how many likes this gets

@Hyldassims

2 ай бұрын

Unfortunately thats only 4 at the moment of this comment

@loganturner7113

2 ай бұрын

Do 30

@mileslee8941

Ай бұрын

37

@DimL.

Ай бұрын

🤖

@GuyJustCool

Ай бұрын

Your pecs are ded.

✨ Timestamps and Major Points ✨ 1. 0:59 Flirtatious Facial Expressions 2. 1:26 Smile Slowly 3. 1:55 Brief Glances 4. 2:22 Feather Light Touch 5. 2:54 Mind Your Appearance 6. 3:28 Tickle Their Funny Bone 7. 4:00 Be More Yourself 4:36 Outro/Summary Remember that you don't need to change for someone to like you! Don't change who you really are just so that one person you like can like you back. They should like you for who you really are. Don't get lost in the love and be true to yourself. Only change if it's for your own self-improvement. Also, most importantly, even if that one person doesn't like you back, don't be sad! I know firsthand it sucks, but you must be strong. Even if you think there's no way you can get over them, know that one day there will be someone you will love with all your heart and they will love you back with all their heart, too. One day you will find the one! Don't lose hope! Love always finds its way.

@Psych2go

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for including the timestamps!

@Inaccessorized

Жыл бұрын

Being yourself is pretty damn important, but if "yourself" is someone who is not very agreeable or not easy to get along with, then you should realistically try to improve on how you act, or put on a facade.

@jeusmarcomascarina4102

Жыл бұрын

it's also helpful to know how not flirt accidentally

@jeusmarcomascarina4102

Жыл бұрын

@Pan Kaszkieciorz Being yourself is what you have and not what you think is the best way to be not another version of someone because you not trying to imitate any body you will not be or get disappointed once you not meet the expectation.

@KhoiruunisaRF

Жыл бұрын

I think change is ok as long as it's for my own development and not just for pleasing someone else and matching their standard. For each has their own faith. If someone didn't like me, then it's just they didn't choose me and that's all. There will be somebody else for me for sure. Move on.

I clicked on this video because: 1: the topic is something I am lacking on 2: I have a crush rn 3: I know how her microphone and voice sound. Extremely satisfying.

@IR_Cheesy

6 ай бұрын

I clicked on this video because: 1: I have a crush too. 2: I wanna help people in the comments too. 3: I dont wanna make dumb and awkward mistakes in life.

@missinglinks-gz7pf

Ай бұрын

I have a huge crush on someone at school, I don't really care if they like me back, (cause we're sorta friends anyway) I just want them to know.

@willyp1905

Ай бұрын

Good luck boys

@fredex10x

Ай бұрын

I clicked on this video because: I am bored

@tsutako_tomioka1

Ай бұрын

1. Have a crush 2. My friends are trying to get us together 3. I'm the only person he has spoken to abt his past 4. Bitch I love him 5. I love flirting with him for no reason

Me tryna flirt by smiling slow: 😐…🫤…😏…😀…😈👹

@ExonimyxYT.110

Ай бұрын

Bro i try it and, i do look like a missing clown

@ccchain9498

22 күн бұрын

this made me giggle

I can't with how soft the voice is, this is my ASMR

@Psych2go

Жыл бұрын

How do you like Amanda's voice?

@Ackerman6281

Жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go Absolutely ✨beautiful ✨

@Ex-pq6rl

Жыл бұрын

weirdo

@RyanSchembri-sg8vo

Ай бұрын

facts

I am not afraid of rejection, I am afraid of getting called names for harassment because 'I am not attractive or just aint good enough'

@classysubliminals4121

Жыл бұрын

I think it takes a real heart to see you for how you wanna be seen. Rejection will happen to u because the ones you want can't see you so it hurts u. When someone loves you they prove it to you. When someone wants you they prove it to you. You dont feel like yull fond the one now, but remember that feeling your feeling is only for a time and place in your life. Eventually the right one will show up in your life.

@toxictric5ter155

Жыл бұрын

@@classysubliminals4121 Haha I appreciate your concern but you know I feel this a real social issue nowdays, like.. Chad: Looking good Susan Women: Aw, you're sweat Average Joe: Looking good Susan Women: Hello human resources

@BB-te8tc

Жыл бұрын

In a similar-ish boat. I don't know if the woman who catches my eye has been dealing with unwarranted male attention all day, so I err on the side of caution and leave her alone. It's not worth risking potentially pushing someone to their breaking point and causing an incident.

@classysubliminals4121

Жыл бұрын

I think if you U know deep down someone's gonna reject you or if you simply just k ow that your gonna be rejected then that person is not the one for you. When someone actually likes you they will show their interest in you, they will chase you and confess to you little by little or a lot. That's the difference between someone wanting you and someone not wanting you at all. It's that simple :) I'm speaking from experience btw

@mdemanuel1911

Жыл бұрын

@@toxictric5ter155 if that's how she will react. Then it's not worth your time

My homies doing these to me 💀

@Unknown86019

Ай бұрын

On god

@box4467

Ай бұрын

The homies are the real ones.

@AG-cs5nb

Ай бұрын

W homies

@AdrianBeats07

Ай бұрын

WORD 😭

@theoreticalphysicist22

Ай бұрын

😂 such is the loneliness 😢

Step 1: BE HANDSOME

@yappycakes2136

7 ай бұрын

That's fair cause how do you expect to pull a hottie when you look like a rat unless you have money.

@LudicrousWizardry

7 ай бұрын

Aw darn..

@paresaquadir8568

4 ай бұрын

Nope. Confidence does the trick.

@Poloposi

4 ай бұрын

@@paresaquadir8568no it doesn’t

@Cado_is_here

3 ай бұрын

Step one cleared Rest of them Failed

I think me and an old friend did all of these unknowingly (to me at least) last year but what I needed the most from this was the last part, being at ease with myself and having fun. I failed the friendship because of the lack of that back then and it became stressful for both of us. It's one of my worst regrets not being able to keep our friendship, which is why I've worked so hard on myself with my therapist to never lose a relationship like that again. And now, I'm reaching out to her again soon, after finals, to at least try to be on better terms. I'm doubtful much will happen, but I need to at least try! I can't just do nothing when I've lost a friend like her, even if it's been a year

@starbangles3252

Жыл бұрын

Rooting for you ^

@starranger4104

Жыл бұрын

​@@starbangles3252 Thank you! I didn't really expect people to actually read let alone reply to this lmao... But it's comforting to hear other people support me, so really, thank you again!

@internetuser1016

Жыл бұрын

go get her, you can do it !

@Kevinopilous

Жыл бұрын

Make sure you never lose sight of the real goal, to improve yourself for yourself. Doing it for someone else or to get someone else can lead to a huge backfire if what you want in your heart of hearts doesn't pan out. I wish you luck on mastering your own heart ♥️

@starranger4104

Жыл бұрын

@@Kevinopilous TRUE, even though I'd like to be friends with her, she isn't the end all be all. There are many people in the world who can be just as great of a friend 💯

Flirting (in my opinion) is kind of scary because you don't want it to be too obvious but not too confusing either.

@markh.6687

Жыл бұрын

Just be Tsundere. That way you can use lines like "D-don't get the wrong idea!" and "It's not like I like you or anything, B-Baka!"

@ozan4702

4 ай бұрын

I dont think anything is wrong with being obvious once you decided that he/she can be a great partner.

This helped me get 3 restraining orders, I recommend!

I would just like to say that if you are being subtle and they don’t take the hint, it doesn’t mean they aren’t interested in you. It means they’re completely oblivious. At that point, the best thing you can do is just say it outright. It doesn’t matter who they are, they can just not pick up the hint. I’m speaking from experience here. I’m a trans woman and APPARENTLY, my boyfriend was flirting with me before he outright said anything. Being oblivious to flirting isn’t something men and only men suffer from, unlike some people would claim. It happens to everyone. So just tell them if they don’t get the hint. People often will assume that you aren’t flirting with them because they’d rather look oblivious than like a creep.

@ShescyastateSuche-pu9qz

4 ай бұрын

Wise words captain rex

That feel when you’re all or nothing and only know how to either avoid your crush altogether or ask them out out of nowhere. I neeeed this.

@tweekzc0fy

Жыл бұрын

YES

@jamtrap_edits

Жыл бұрын

I asked them out of nowhere, and I don’t think it worked because I think I put them on the spot 😅

@writerlairchannel2636

Жыл бұрын

​​@@jamtrap_edits "What are you doing in my house? who you even are?"

@joycor1419

Жыл бұрын

@@jamtrap_edits haha exact same here, I really do believe that if you’re right for each other then showing interest kind of abruptly won’t ruin it. The right person is hard to scare away.

@jamtrap_edits

Жыл бұрын

@@joycor1419 you give me faith ty😌, gl on ur journey

I honestly feel a "Lingering hand on their waist" is a little (or a lot) too creepy. If I was just like standing in line behind someone I liked... And I wanted to flirt with them... I think they'd get a restraining order against me if I just reached out and grabbed their waist. (Okay maybe a restraining order is an overexaggeration but you get the point)

@kaisalis7895

Жыл бұрын

I think it's in the context of a date, not just meeting someone

@NoName-zb1gm

Жыл бұрын

No waist. Try her arm until you know her a little bit.

@peregrine3400

Жыл бұрын

@Kai Sälis It works good if you're in a party setting and things seem to be flowing well. You can invite them to dance and it should make you and the other person comfortable with touch. Sometimes outright asking to dance can work but it depends a whole lot more on their mood and whether they find your appearance attractive or not.

@lowgpu1687

9 ай бұрын

Same, I guess the only reasonable place to do it (if you are still in the "advancing" stage) is if you are in a crowd, and assuming there are a lot of people pushing by her, you can try to move her a bit by doing that lmfaooo

@ladyteebugluv

9 ай бұрын

@@peregrine3400 omg that’s perfect!! Exactly!!

Very useful. Would like to try these ways because I am always afraid of rejection. Honestly, I have been rejected many times and watching this video kinda gave me a boost of confidence

This is interesting info! I find flirting extremely confusing because most of these social cues and body language feel very unnatural to me, and so I end up feeling very unauthentic and uncomfortable when I go out of my way to attempt to make particular expressions, touch others, read/communicate body language, etc. I’m definitely trying to learn, but I feel stuck between a rock and a hard place of “do the things that society says is how you do the thing” and “be authentic to my feelings even if it actively makes it significantly harder to connect”

@ladyteebugluv

9 ай бұрын

Yeah! Just express the way you would non-script wise to someone you love in ur own unique way if you want!:)) just do what comes natural to u!

@ryanmahrenholz3944

9 ай бұрын

@@ladyteebugluv Thanks for the reply! I guess I’m overthinking it and trying to be something I’m not. I don’t know what my unique way would be but I suppose the only way to find out is just do what comes natural like you say and try! Appreciate the advice.

@tas4u93

8 ай бұрын

Own that. I know it sounds cliche but make those strengths your weaknesses. Dont be afraid to tell that to strangers. Youll be surprised how many people relate and respect that you have the 🏀🏈 to actually speak what many try to hide out loud

@byuftbl

3 ай бұрын

I get it, none of these things are natural to me either and I find flirting very hard, except for joking and teasing, I can do that but it comes across as me just bring funny rather than flirting I think

Eye contact... it's the biggest thing for me as I tend to avoid it.

@Psych2go

Жыл бұрын

A tip is to not look at the eyes but look at the nose!

@KVMONFN

Жыл бұрын

​@@Psych2go interesting...

@moocrafter972

Жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go I think i have sozial anxiety and i cant look in nobodys eyes longer than 2 seconds. At the Moment i have a crush on a Girl and my trick is also to look her on her nose or mouth. If i tried to look direktly into her eyes it was so difficlut for me... The Problem of these flirting Tips are that she is a Introvert and I dont see her often because she says that she meets her friends only a few times a month...

@Psych2go

Жыл бұрын

@@KVMONFN Let us know how it goes!

@KVMONFN

Жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go sure 😭 I'm so nervous

Timestamps 1). Flirtatious facial expressions 0:57 2). Smile slowly 1:24 3). Brief glances 1:53 4). Feather light touch 2:22 5). Mind your appearance 2:53 6). Tickle their funny bone 3:28 7). Be more yourself 3:59 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

@sbplankton_1999

Жыл бұрын

My timestamp get it Now better.

@A55a551n

Жыл бұрын

@@sbplankton_1999 okay

Remember regret is worse than rejection

@AtiShard16

4 ай бұрын

No

@YtCoomers

3 ай бұрын

Yes

@RAWDEAL064

Ай бұрын

🧢 if the day goes to this comment

I found it difficult to flirt. I am on the autism spectrum, though was only diagnosed at age 40, and when I was younger I used to get shamed for flirting even though I wasn’t aware I was doing it, so I grew up believing it was wrong (though I didn’t know why, perhaps because the people who shamed me never gave a reason). I would watch other boys/men flirting, often with women I liked, and I would feel frustrated and angry because I get like I had ended up in a position where I would always have to watch while others were successful and never know what it’s like. Then, as I got older, I found ways to get past whatever it was that was stopping me and started to try flirting with women. It was fun, and still is, and it doesn’t need to be toxic. I’ve had moderate success, because I managed to break out of the mindset others had raised me into. Now I find these kinds of videos indispensable, not least because they’ve helped me learn what it looks like when women are interested in me. Ordinary human desire should never be shamed. Society has a strange approach to desire, but so long as no-one’s being hurt there isn’t really any problem.

@justgarfield9721

Жыл бұрын

God this world sucks

@neatomisquito8201

Жыл бұрын

I'm happy for you! 😊

@Millzu

Жыл бұрын

I am autistic too. I find it very hard to flirt because it’s all about how the person responds to flirting. You have to be able to tell how the other person feels in response to flirting and, with autism, it’s so hard to tell how others are feeling. I’m afraid I’ll ruin any chance I have at finding a girlfriend just because I’m autistic.

@baileyplayz1844

8 ай бұрын

I’m autistic too, I never really knew how to flirt the right way and so I’d observe too and just think that some ways of other girls doing it was a little weird. But a little playful teasing came naturally to me when teasing but I’d try to cut it back because I didn’t want to come as offensive to the person I was talking to. Like for example my boyfriend hates carrots and I’d tease him about that here and there but not too much and he also loves ketchup on most things so a lot of people actually tease him about that so I would too. But I agree with what you’re saying about the observation of how to flirt right. I observe like everything that other people to so that I can come around as “normal” and not weird from another dimension type of person if you know what I mean. I mask a lot and I got diagnosed with autism a couple years ago and like it all makes sense now how they say I’d act as a kid and the way I think differently than others and can relate so much with other fellow autistics. Also I tend to make paragraphs out of no where for some reason but can’t write and English paper the irony am I right.

@glo_win

4 ай бұрын

I'm curious about the autism ! How this have the possibility to make you feel not aware of flirt or any responses of someone not only in the flirt situation?​@@baileyplayz1844

You always have to be yourself. If you think that it's okay to change for a person, it means that you don't really love them, you just want to have them. And it's harmful for both of you

@petkofuchalski9809

Жыл бұрын

Ahm, no. That's called hook up culture.

@samuelecallegari6117

Жыл бұрын

And you don't love yourself also

@inquisitionagent9052

Жыл бұрын

Such an empty meaningless statement. I can be no one else BUT myself.

how is your voice so comforting and relaxing

Your voice is so calming and safe and idk why but ya

I'm now in the early stages of my first long-term relationship, and these tips can help a lot!! ❤ [UPDATE]: I'M MARRYING HER NEXT YEAR

@Psych2go

Жыл бұрын

Congrats!

@mrtrollnator123

Жыл бұрын

Yo thats awesome

@neofulcrum5013

Жыл бұрын

Congrats

@_r_n_t_5349

Жыл бұрын

didn’t ask

@ryumii1701

Жыл бұрын

>Early stages >Long term ????? I pray for your downfall 🙏

It's difficult with anxious people to even look someone in the eye, maybe start with eye contact imo as a way of cueing the other person and apply a facial gesture to see if they are interested. Works for me in noisy places

@Psych2go

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing! Great point about eye contact. I think the point you shared can be very helpful for people who may struggle with some of the more outgoing advice from the video. In your opinion, what other tips is great for people who struggle to make eye contact with others?

@Luke-el4jh

Жыл бұрын

^^

In Summer I started hanging out with a group of kids and teenagers too. There was this boy my age that I wasn’t sure if I liked him or not, but one day we were in the playgrounds and completely ignored the others as we talked about our schools, our inderests, our teachers and friends and I felt like I’ve known him for a long time. I think I am falling for him

Thanks This Video Was So Helpful.

Yet another video that came at a good time for the story I'm writing! I'm trying to figure out how I'm going to write the interactions between two characters that eventually fall in love after being best friends for a while, and content like this will most definitely aid in my quest! :D

@simrahsyedda2222

Жыл бұрын

Gurl I wanna read this now if you are making this as a google doc could you click share and look at the 2nd column that says general access and you put anyone with link and link it here anyway this is just a request good luck with the story

@feverdreams

Жыл бұрын

Meee tooo!!

@01.618

Жыл бұрын

Hope your story turns out well! I wanna write too but somehow I know the ending and what happens but don’t know how to start-

@feverdreams

Жыл бұрын

@@01.618 Totally felt that! A tip I found helpful was to just jot ideas down. As long as you are writing something it will come together trust me! Even if you start from the middle. I have been polishing a story and changing it for over a year now and I am finally happy with it. It is absolutely nothing like how it first started! Good luck!!

@justalpha9138

Жыл бұрын

@@simrahsyedda2222 I'm a guy, but yeah, I could leave a link to a rough draft of the story once it's done if ya want. :)

I'm actually scared of dating for... lack of experience and just... don't know what. But your videos are always so cute I can't avoid clicking🥰

@Danny328DT

Жыл бұрын

Being yourself really does most of the work for you. Chances are you'll make them laugh or smile just being yourself. Intimacy imo is harder because you have to know exactly what your partner enjoys versus things they dislike. There are women who don't like when you overdo flirting. It's just a matter of preference i suppose. I've never dated anyone, but I've been so connected to someone that she literally doesn't mind anything I do because she wants to enjoy my company. It's pretty sweet once you click with somebody.

@nael_luna

Жыл бұрын

@@Danny328DT surely it's amazing once you connect, no doubt! I have a few girls I'm very close to, but nothing beyond cuddles and kisses on the cheeks, honestly that makes me super happy already. The problems for the rest are crippling gender dysphoria, not having nearly enough trust in my social skills (that I am trying to develop but I guess scars from all those bullying years and... various events in my life are still in effect) and... just being super shy maybe. It's not a bad thing just that in the conventional sense of dating people should be confident... I think😅 Though I know I can show a lot of love and care once I get close to someone, at least that helps a bit I guess

@Danny328DT

Жыл бұрын

@SparkOfCorn It all starts with working on the confidence. For me I just stop letting people bother me. Everytime someone said I was being too weird, I just didn't care because I made my friend smile. I don't need to change for anybody if I care for myself. I hope you can find something that makes you happy to be yourself.

@Ex-pq6rl

Жыл бұрын

i would start by changing your pfp.🤣

@danthehermit4748

Жыл бұрын

​@SparkOfCorn I'm 100% with you there.

You guys really helped me bc if i didi'nt found this channel i probes would have never found the one boy i really love with my whole heart thx

Bro I’m gonna confess to this dude and had no idea how to I opened KZread randomly and saw this video perfect timing!

Remember guys, liking other people is so 2008, we need to stay on the grind

@zucciniii1878

Жыл бұрын

amen brother 🙏 dont let dem hoes fool you or bring you down 💪

@GokuSolosAnime

Жыл бұрын

KEEP COOKING 🗣️🔥

@Ex-pq6rl

Жыл бұрын

shut up

@imjustaguy6728

Жыл бұрын

Very halal 🗣️🙏

@CHET_CHADDINGTON

Жыл бұрын

Sigma grindset is the only grindset.

I'm so happy that this light-hearted and soft voice is back on you guy's videos. It's just a bliss to experience your helpful clips. Thank you guys very much.

the last one is so true because im nice and when i catch a girl may have feelings for me i just play along, smile, laugh, and generally be myself. another big thing i recommend you do (especially if they're catching feelings for you) is hold eye contact, not in an intense way but in a sort-of passionate and innocent way.

Thank you for this. I really appreciate it.

The slow smile thing is interesting. That resonates. But I guess it's more about knowing why you slow smile instead of just forcing it. But overall I feel like the main tips here are "be funny" and "be confident/secure" which, you know, is really hard for most people.

@Psych2go

Жыл бұрын

Very interesting point. It's always advisable to do what's natural instead of forcing yourself to do something. Do you have any experience with "smiling slowly" without meaning to and naturally?

@Jantonov1

Жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go I'd rather smile and don't break eye contact. A slow smile can scare people away from looking at you. It's awfully intense. Not breaking eye contact has the same effect.

@spacebar9733

Жыл бұрын

You don't have to be funny, especially because trying to force it never works out. Also I don't care if my partner is funny as long as they have a similar sense of humor.

@_the_eversor_lad_

Жыл бұрын

Being funny is not easy as everybody perceives ''funny'' in a different way. Jokes are usually appreciated, but some might not find a joke funny others found hilarious. So I guess it's also about knowing and predicting the other person to decide how to really act.

@Luke-el4jh

Жыл бұрын

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Idk why you didn’t say this in any of ur vids but when I’m working out it helps me to watch videos such as this, it’s weirdly rewarding

@Psych2go

Жыл бұрын

Glad you're staying in shape both physically and mentally! 🏋️‍♂️

Well now I know some was flirting at me for the past 2 years. Thanks.

Your voice and the quality of animations are so good

I am in love with this woman's voice... It's literally so calming, I can sleep listening to it

@sappireflames0009

Жыл бұрын

On the opposite end of the spectrum, her voice infuriates me to the point of me wanting to throw this brick through my computer screen very badly. Although I would never! such a waste.

@atharv2575

Жыл бұрын

@@sappireflames0009 Uhhmmm... Different people, diff pov

@scarose

Жыл бұрын

​@@sappireflames0009I have never seen someone have this opinion on this psych2go voice narrator goodness.. wonder why you feel that way

Of those tips I think the most effective for man is this ability to flirt with a joke. Because it’s rejection proof. If the person doesn’t receive well it’s just a joke, but if the person receives well she will still be intrigued about if you’re or not interested romantically in her and the she’ll think a lot about it. Also it’s a thermometer to whether or not advance in the flirting to be more direct.

Thr Rizzler of Oz sharing their knowledge with us

Tysm for this information I've just realized that my crush was flirting either me for over a year and now I know how to flirt back 😊

I love your videos and this was really helpful! I’ve always been afraid of rejection and I have social anxiety, so the facial expressions part really helps.

I instantly clicked the moment I saw the word: Flirting tips. I needed to know if my characters are well-versed in flirting in my novel or not.

@khwabgaur3934

Жыл бұрын

But you'll definitely find someone and think that he/she is better than you in flirting skills

@paresaquadir8568

4 ай бұрын

Mmhmm

idk if it will ever be a use to me but ill still watch cuz of the narrators soothing voice.

Think you for the tips I've been trying to let the person I like know I'm in to them and I think these tips will help😊

I've actually contemplated on "what is the best way to flirt with this girl?" for a while, but I never found a way that seems to be subtle. I can confirm that rejection is my biggest fear. Now that I've seen this, I hope this will help me communicate with someone I crush on. But a little doubt I have: What are subtle ways IF it's done via texting, voice chatting, or online communication?

@NoName-zb1gm

Жыл бұрын

Definitely give her a light touch on the arm if you walk up to her and she doesn't see you coming. Be funny when you talk to her because your touch will mean more because it's followed up with humor.

@krashplays3211

Жыл бұрын

@@NoName-zb1gm I'll be meeting up with her in-person very soon so I'll take that into account

@fakrehsfakrehs3147

7 ай бұрын

​@@krashplays3211How did it go?

@SebHaarfagre

6 ай бұрын

For chatting? That's hard because it can vary wildly per person... I like goofy and lighthearted girls for the most part. I love to joke around and be silly. I can't name anything specific, but if both like to talk to each other generally, that's the only thing you need to know. (If you make her happy it may just be a friend thing or not ready for something more but there's no other way either way lol, if you make someone happy then they want to see more of you) This probably doesn't help at all lol Whatever you do, though, be genuine. You don't want a girl that want something you're not. Yes people grow somewhat over time but that's not really how this works. If anything, it's more about showing her why "you" can be likeable, *NOT* to change _yourself_ to your perceived (her) interests. Find out what she likes by talking. A person can like a ton of things. If you're even remotely similar on anything at all, chances are you have at least one common hobby or experience that you (or her) genuinely wants to hear more about. Music? Concerts? What kind of genre? When? Festival? Studies? What? Ambitions? Interests? Experiences? Family fields of work? Creative? Made anything? How does she/do you do it? Simple? Teach? Sports? What? Where? Fan? My OCPD got the best of me, I forgot the question lol but I'll keep this regardless... Hmm Well I'd just keep it light hearted and with the occasional winks ;) Use humour (I'm almost incapable of flirting without humour :P) Vulnerability 🫣 Tease (this is the best of all if she likes it) Test the lines while trying to stay classy Maybe even say something outrageous and get away with it as satire/humour etc if the convo is already lighhearted (do *NOT* overdo it) However many of these can be difficult if you don't SEE each other If you don't then you kinda need to know many other things about her/him When I was a teenager, my crush was friend (we did not end up together) and she told me randomly without prompt that she seemed to be the only ones liking how her thong went up her crack lol. We did chat a lot but I can't be anything but generic because I've had so many different experiences. If you do sports you can drop subtle hints like being "soaked" after a session and such. Check if she likes to imagine it. I mean there's not straight answer to this. What do YOU want and what do SHE want and who are you... Others may be better at answering, I just wrote a ton because I can't be stopped once I get going 😂

@SebHaarfagre

6 ай бұрын

@@krashplays3211 Oh I didn't check how long ago all of this was posted. Hey, regardless of how it went, you got to the point to meet up, that's great! ☺ Take everything at face value and follow the flow Two people are like two wavelengths and you most likely need time to adjust/synchronise , don't become overeager like I get sometimes (but not appearing uninterested either)

Not me practicing smiling slowly after watching this vid 😏😂

@RF_OA

Жыл бұрын

Underrated comment

i just got this vid recomended and dayum, its so good! So pleasant voice, nice advices and cute art! Really great job!

a few glances...SHAKES HEAD BACK AND FORTH MADLY

I am Autistic and don't have much experience with dating. But i'm interested in trying and I think this will help me! thanks a bunch

"...and physical attractiveness." Yeah, that's the bit that makes all other pointless for me. To my experience, looks is the easiest divider that decides whether something counts as flirting or harassment. Aside from that, being myself has never helped with anything.

@petkofuchalski9809

Жыл бұрын

The only one of these flirting tips that can be considered harassment is the touching, the rest can be seen as being friendly at worst, dosen't matter if you are ugly or not.

@FFRrox

Жыл бұрын

I'm pretty much in a similar situation with the being myself thing, as I feel I'm way too awkward to anywhere near a relationship, let alone a date. I'm also not the best looking, am autistic and in my early 30s with no dating experience and have only faced rejection. Being shy and introverted doesn't help me, either

@gehteuchnixan3052

Жыл бұрын

@@FFRrox Tbh, some of the dating advice I got could be summarized as "Just be yourself! ...no, not like that." And all that "looks don't matter" isn't anything I can confirm. I've been told that so often, but never found any prove that this is more than people that wanting to be the case as if they want to think of themselves that way rather than actually working out in reality.

@theprinceofcrows8691

11 ай бұрын

Tell that to Grigori Rasputin. That guy knew it was all about trying your hand as much as possible and being good at being mysterious and charismatic. You can be good looking and intimidate a lot of women too. The key is keeping it playful.

@theprinceofcrows8691

11 ай бұрын

​@@FFRroxYou need to find some girl or girls you don't care much about to practice getting over your fear and awkwardness. Find your comfort zone and then branch out to more desirable targets. You can even do it online and get better at playing things along. A friend of mine was terrified of girls even when he knew they liked him and met his wife on a college site while in school just talking chit. She flirted back and he ended up going all in. They now have kids and have been married for over a decade. So make the most of your opportunities and build up your game. Experiment and figure out what works for you. Eventually you will get in a zone and it gets easier to do. Everyone is awkward when they start and I do mean everyone. Your thirties are a good time for that kind of thing too because it is when a lot of women leave a first marriage and re enter the dating world.

Psych2go is just the worlds best therapist lol, i also really love the cute animations and your very calming voice.

Nice vid!

Here's a little tip. Expect rejection. There are 6 Billion people on the planet, it's almost inevitable to be rejected. So expect rejection. After, it'll feel really good once someone finally accepts you.

@blankslate8002

7 ай бұрын

Okay

The bit over being yourself is so true, I'm generally funny because I'm sarcastic and witty most of the time, people say I portray a calm and confident demeanor, that I'm smart and dependable, yada yada, but then when I'm interested in someone I'm a wreck...

@blankslate8002

7 ай бұрын

Hope you can get over it

I realy like the way u guys help people to gain their confidence . This is very helpfull. Thank you

Thanks for your videos, it’s hard for me to pick up on body language and non verbal cues, these really help!

@Psych2go

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your kind words! We're so glad that this video was helpful for you. Which part of the video did you find helpful?

@glocknessmonster115

Жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go I really appreciate the glancing tip because I’ve noticed someone doing that repeatedly and have been confused. And the joke one, I’ve noticed they crack jokes near me more often than usual.

Who knew that flirting could be so effortless? These tips are a game-changer for anyone who's ever felt nervous about approaching someone they're interested in. With these subtle yet effective techniques, you can feel confident and in control while still being true to yourself. Thanks for the great advice! ✍✍✍

@1haunt

Жыл бұрын

yall upvoting chatGPT

It's definetely an ego boost to have memories of myself having successfully completed each of these tips on my own. I guess I'm doing it right😂😁😁🙌

With physical contact I think that it works best in big crowds, like a crowded hallway or something, “accidentally” bumping into someone, stuff like that. Doing it otherwise can be awkward.

She usually made the first move with some of these. I think she's done at least one facial expression. I've used brief glances and feather light touch myself, my shoulder brushing gently against hers. She's even initiated holding hands, which felt nice. My appearance may have something to do with it. And we show each other our fun sides. She's one person I can be myself around.

@ja4309

Жыл бұрын

Dangg can relate. Such a great thing when she actually does these to you as well... Now if only I didn't take forever in telling her about my feelings

@robinandbiscuit1683

Жыл бұрын

This is really what I want to achieve but it feels so hard and I don't know what to do next. Basically I know two of my guy friends like me and I don't know what to do because I don't want to lose friendship with either of them

@Luffy-su1ho

Жыл бұрын

Sounds like you're both fans of Psycho2go...

@tigerx36

Жыл бұрын

@@ja4309 It took me a lot longer to realize what was right in front of me.

@tigerx36

Жыл бұрын

@@Luffy-su1ho I'm not sure she knows about them but I'm a big fan

2:49 how to get jailed for sexual harassment

@MyB4llsHurt

Жыл бұрын

FR

I needed this thank you i always get scared when it comes to this stuff thx your the best :)

I'm glad I found this video, I started talking to a boy and we definitely have a connection but I'm scared to make a move or show my interest in him because I'm scared ill scare him away so maybe this video will come in handy.

Making prolonged eye contact worked wonders for me. In my case the person had trouble keeping eye contact in general so I offered a safe way to practice eye contact through a sort of game.

@blankslate8002

7 ай бұрын

How

He’s glanced, smiled and showed subtle touch. Whenever he’s with me. And yet he started dating a girl as of yesterday.

@byuftbl

3 ай бұрын

I feel that happens to me a lot, they’ll seem to be flirting but then aren’t actually interested and date someone else

@amppari_234

Ай бұрын

Could be that he was interested, but someone was interested in them and they took the chance.

@hisprettiestproblem

Ай бұрын

Can I ask sth? This dude glanced me time to time. I sometimes looked back and sometimes didn't. We have never talked each other lol. But we had many eye contacts. How can I know that someone has crush on me only with glances?

her voice is so calm

This videos are so interesting to watch.

The "be yourself" thingy would probably backfire horribly in my case

Cool... Can't wait to probably not use this information

@excelself

Жыл бұрын

Haha 😂 there is a lot of truth in that.

I'm impressed how I unknowingly do all of these..

your voice is so soothing to me

I don’t normally make comments under these videos but I have to ask. Is subtle touching acceptable? As a man I’m comfortable flirting in pretty much every way except touching. This is because I have a deep-rooted fear in being labeled a creep. Is this a reasonable fear or am I being too extreme and nervous about the subject?

@excelself

Жыл бұрын

No. Honestly if you want to learn some good ways to know if she’s interested or not just check for signs of attraction. Going for touching is only done once you have confirmed she’s into you.

@MsFakx

Жыл бұрын

you can touch her in such a way that she doesn't necessarily know why you did it. like it was by mistake and so you can see what reaction she has.

@ja4309

Жыл бұрын

From experience, if you think that both of you feel comfortable around each other, small touches are fine

@cathisamma6968

Жыл бұрын

I think if you do the other kinds of flirting first, and she seems to like that and flirts back, these short, incidentally touches are kind of nice. And see how she reacts before you touch her longer or more intentional. Then you'll be fine ^^

@cathisamma6968

Жыл бұрын

Also of course just touch unproblematic areas of her body, nothing that is usually sexualized 😅

Ahh yes, the feeling of falling in love with someone. I really miss that feeling, not because I don't want to be rejected, but because I don't want to hurt someone or be hurt by someone again.

Bro I needed this. Thank you 🙏

Your voice is so calming it's hard not to listen to you

i was today years old when I realised I have accidentally flirted with my whole school 😳

You click because you want to learn how to subtlety flirt. I click because that hyouka scene was one of things which will be forever etched in my memory because of how amazing it was. We are not the same.

@mocerlaalacbaino

Жыл бұрын

@SparkOfCorn lmaoo

It’s not even fear of rejection for me, I’m just naturally very sincere and straightforward. It literally doesn’t occur to me most of the time to be lighthearted, and joke or have fun. I’m not super serious or a downer, I’m friendly and nice, but I think I’m on the spectrum or something… I don’t even think to play around or banter with people. It feels like it holds me back socially, and like there’s a whole world of human connection that I’ve never experienced.

@ArtAntiDe

2 ай бұрын

High five for the "I think I'm on the spectrum". 😶 All those attraction/flirt videos go on with step 1: Make eye contact. But that's just a one way ticket to a panic attack for me. I do notice when someone flirts with me, but I just freeze. Also the whole "touch" thing, it's incredible hard even when I'm 200% sure we both want to.

the animations and voiceover are so cute

0:25 PUA tactics? lol 😆 I think I remember a line someone said recently: “Pick Up Artistry is not about making a girl like you but to find a girl who is open to you” Umm 🤔

Their voice is so calming they could read a horror story to me and I'd be calm--

psyco2go I've been following you since 745k followers you are the best you have helped me out with a lot of things and you've grown as a channel. Keep it up yOUvE got so much support from me and millions of others. You are the best!

Thanks for the helpful content

I'm just watching this out of curiosity and because I'm a bit bored but it was fun to watch!

Love ur videos😊

@Psych2go

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 😀 What do you love about it?