6 Stages of Having a Crush

For years, psychologists have been trying their best to understand the mystery of love and unpack all the complex processes that govern attraction and romantic relationships. And even after decades of countless studies on why we fall in love, fall out of love, stay in relationships, and crave romantic attachments, there’s still a lot left for us to learn, especially when it comes to the earliest stage of love - having a crush. So, here are 6 Stages of Having a Crush!
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Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Script Editor: Kelly Soong
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Reference
Seiffge-Krenke, I. (2003). Testing theories of romantic development from adolescence to young adulthood: Evidence of a developmental sequence. International Journal of Behavioral Development, 27(6), 519-531.
Fox, J., & Anderegg, C. (2014). Romantic relationship stages and social networking sites: Uncertainty reduction strategies and perceived relational norms on Facebook. Cyberpsychology, Behavior, and Social Networking, 17(11), 685-691.
Connolly, J., Nguyen, H. N., Pepler, D., Craig, W., & Jiang, D. (2013). Developmental trajectories of romantic stages and associations with problem behaviours during adolescence. Journal of adolescence, 36(6), 1013-1024.
Brumbaugh, C. C., & Fraley, R. C. (2006). The evolution of attachment in romantic relationships. Dynamics of romantic love: Attachment, caregiving, and sex, ed. M. Mikulincer & GS Goodman, 71-101.

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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go3 жыл бұрын

    Instead of crushing on someone right now, is anyone curious on how to make some cloud cake this weekend? :) Found this video here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/iHaWsq-sfsbbeLA.html

  • @Pepo..

    @Pepo..

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hmmmm cloud cake

  • @JoseVasquez-pg6or

    @JoseVasquez-pg6or

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thx :) I love the love and support ^^

  • @Irxsdiissxction

    @Irxsdiissxction

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @bIueberryz

    @bIueberryz

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hello

  • @Irxsdiissxction

    @Irxsdiissxction

    3 жыл бұрын

    I love cloud cake

  • @creamcheese268
    @creamcheese2682 жыл бұрын

    My stages: 1. Denial 2. More denial 3. Realization. "Oh frick, I *do* like them" 4. Simping but from afar 5. More simping but from afar 6. Thinking of how I can interact with them even if it's very small and stupid 7. Failing 8. Continuing to be a simp for 2 more years

  • @carmelmiller5180

    @carmelmiller5180

    2 жыл бұрын

    Omg yessss sameeee

  • @oliviasmythe1107

    @oliviasmythe1107

    2 жыл бұрын

    Literally wut happened to me…

  • @GtheCatLady

    @GtheCatLady

    2 жыл бұрын

    A spot on representation of whenever I have a crush on someone.

  • @leselimakoko1394

    @leselimakoko1394

    2 жыл бұрын

    Bestie I can relate...

  • @linoswater

    @linoswater

    2 жыл бұрын

    the way it’s *2 more years* same

  • @jokermain6665
    @jokermain66652 жыл бұрын

    This is incorrect, the real stages are 1. Having a crush 2. Being a simp 3. Getting rejected 4. Dying inside

  • @neoncentix

    @neoncentix

    2 жыл бұрын

    The stages made me ride a different path. My old crush now stalks me. Edit: yay I'm famous, MoM gEt ThE CaMeRa

  • @SourMangoRoblox

    @SourMangoRoblox

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@neoncentix Why do I keep see you in every comment?

  • @neoncentix

    @neoncentix

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@SourMangoRoblox I genuinely don't know. Coincidence maybe?

  • @snehanampally5091

    @snehanampally5091

    2 жыл бұрын

    exactly😭

  • @1brytol

    @1brytol

    2 жыл бұрын

    Dude i'm dying inside before getting rejected. Correct to: 3.Dying inside 4.Getting rejected 5.Dying inside even more

  • @samchiu9918
    @samchiu99187 ай бұрын

    1. Denial 2. Anger 3. Bargaining 4. Depression 5. Acceptance 6. Infatuation

  • @narcher1124

    @narcher1124

    5 ай бұрын

    bruh

  • @hamdiyazid200

    @hamdiyazid200

    5 ай бұрын

    No way 😂😂

  • @luminievevt2552

    @luminievevt2552

    4 ай бұрын

    Me

  • @Itsyagirl387

    @Itsyagirl387

    4 ай бұрын

    Isn’t this from monk? Lol

  • @iiamiinfamousyt6385

    @iiamiinfamousyt6385

    2 ай бұрын

    I'm in bargaining fo sho

  • @strawbsy7731
    @strawbsy77319 ай бұрын

    Having a crush for me is: they’re cool, I’m kinda obsessed, overthinking, constantly overthinking, no reciprocation, slightly depressed.

  • @Whitewall25

    @Whitewall25

    9 ай бұрын

    Me too

  • @15.06.

    @15.06.

    6 ай бұрын

    THIS

  • @crazybunimama

    @crazybunimama

    4 ай бұрын

    U said it😢

  • @Randomtipsandhacks-wi6uy

    @Randomtipsandhacks-wi6uy

    3 ай бұрын

    It's hard for me because the person I like goes to a different school but the person I used to like who goes to my school and they like me

  • @WolfTwep

    @WolfTwep

    3 ай бұрын

    Same

  • @evauwu5190
    @evauwu51902 жыл бұрын

    I have only 2 stages: 1. Falling in love 2. They don't like me back.

  • @BlazingVix

    @BlazingVix

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same my dude 🥲

  • @idiot2296

    @idiot2296

    2 жыл бұрын

    mines not even real

  • @fashionsuckman4652

    @fashionsuckman4652

    2 жыл бұрын

    Crushed aren't love

  • @dextrose750

    @dextrose750

    2 жыл бұрын

    my stages : 1 liking a girl 2 rejecting that i like her and move on

  • @criticaipanther1107

    @criticaipanther1107

    2 жыл бұрын

    Mine are liking a girl Denying that I like them Them leaving or me leaving

  • @imthehottestokay111
    @imthehottestokay1112 жыл бұрын

    my stages: 1. denial 2. denial 3. denial 4. we don't talk anymore edit: the guy I was talking about in this, we're dating now

  • @fine_stfine_stgirl7871

    @fine_stfine_stgirl7871

    2 жыл бұрын

    by Charlie Puth ft. Selena Gomez

  • @imthehottestokay111

    @imthehottestokay111

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@fine_stfine_stgirl7871 lol

  • @alissa9882

    @alissa9882

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@fine_stfine_stgirl7871 like we used to dOo 😩

  • @alyannasophia4117

    @alyannasophia4117

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same 😃 but not the "we don't talk anymore" its just that we are not classmates anymore

  • @Macield2

    @Macield2

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@alyannasophia4117 literally tho

  • @_SwagByakuganPrincess_
    @_SwagByakuganPrincess_9 ай бұрын

    RELATABLE:I dont have feelings for him anymore, 3 mins later..crush says hi, my heart:😳 😳 😳 😳

  • @N00DL3PAWZ

    @N00DL3PAWZ

    8 ай бұрын

    OMG U TOO???? I AM LIKE “nah they are just my friend” AND LITERALLY TODAY SHE WAVED AT ME AND I WAS FLUSTERED FOR DA ENTIRE DAY

  • @_SwagByakuganPrincess_

    @_SwagByakuganPrincess_

    8 ай бұрын

    @@N00DL3PAWZ FR! I WAS LIKE RED AS A TOMATO AND I WAS SO HAPPY THAT HE SAID HI😂

  • @yuttgamer

    @yuttgamer

    Ай бұрын

    i have that feeling too, when i don't have feeling on my crush anymore, then 10 mins later... she said hi, me: blush

  • @rianneb4821

    @rianneb4821

    26 күн бұрын

    Fr fr tho! 😂

  • @skylarmercykilled1986

    @skylarmercykilled1986

    17 күн бұрын

    Yeah that's me

  • @user-ce7ei1gq8p
    @user-ce7ei1gq8p6 ай бұрын

    My stage: Dreams about them constantly. Watches all the shows they love even if I don't think the shows are that great. Constantly talks about how brilliant they are to every sentient being in sight . Day dreams about them until my cat stops me.

  • @rosie3449
    @rosie34493 жыл бұрын

    basically, when you crush on someone you can turn into a complete stalker

  • @poncandn1

    @poncandn1

    3 жыл бұрын

    oh hell nah

  • @jonfee5081

    @jonfee5081

    3 жыл бұрын

    Especially on instagram

  • @iliketolaughatidiots

    @iliketolaughatidiots

    3 жыл бұрын

    I don't know how to show my emotions, and get really uncomfortable with being affectionate and stuff, so it leads me to get obsessed, and usually checking what social media I have if they posted anything or are playing anything. It also leads me to become really jealous, and when they don't give me enough attention (Pretty neglected by my mom, and they're usually the one that gives me attention besides my sister). My crush knows about this, and is perfectly fine with it (thankfully). We both know what we've are going through and stuff, and we can't really be mad at each other for what we do.

  • @passin-3451

    @passin-3451

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yup

  • @Jimthemoth

    @Jimthemoth

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s why I always reach stage two and skip all the way to stage six immediately

  • @ichiyochan4263
    @ichiyochan42633 жыл бұрын

    6 stages of having a crush 1. cry 2. cry 3. cry 4. imagine a whole life together with them and consider talking to them but get scared you’re being too obvious 5. cry 6. cry

  • @slytherinlady3907

    @slytherinlady3907

    3 жыл бұрын

    *mood.*

  • @noonaaa6489

    @noonaaa6489

    3 жыл бұрын

    I felt like my crush was not responding me back i got frustrated and blocked him.. for days then he called me and asked did I block him? Then I unblocked him 🤷‍♀️ now I feel okay jus move on but I do have a small crush on himm

  • @funplayer05.1

    @funplayer05.1

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@noonaaa6489 good thing I hardly ever use block function

  • @noonaaa6489

    @noonaaa6489

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@funplayer05.1 its all about ur own convenience bud

  • @funplayer05.1

    @funplayer05.1

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@noonaaa6489 thats true tho

  • @musicaddict1046
    @musicaddict10469 ай бұрын

    My stages so far as someone who is demiromantic: 1. texting them (friend of a friend) 2. growing closer, becoming friends 3. opening up more, developing mutual trust -> platonic love 4. they drunkenly ask if I have a crush on them -> confusion, questioning my feelings, self-reflection 5. realizing I also like them romantically 6. months of stress and barely seeing each other 7. spending more time together, obviously into one another but too anxious to act on it 8. lots more self-reflection 9. mutual friend picks up on it, starts shipping aggressively until we get together 10. telling friends and family 11. still anxious, but very happy.

  • @goodomenslee4004

    @goodomenslee4004

    6 ай бұрын

    That‘s very cute🥹

  • @musicaddict1046

    @musicaddict1046

    6 ай бұрын

    @@goodomenslee4004 Thank you! ^^ 💛 Honestly this version is very shortened, in reality it took months of self-doubt and awkward pining over each other and don't even get me started on when we _jokingly_ proposed to each other or that evening she literally asked me if "I'd come to bed soon", both of which happened _before_ we finally talked about it. But tbh, now I wouldn't have it any other way. ^^' At this point her brother has even started calling me his "favourite sister-in-law". 😂 (mind you we've been dating for less than half a year now and are hardly at an age to consider marriage) Definetly got lots to figure out still, both on our own and as a team, but it feels good to be able to move on from the "if" to the "how" now. "How"s are usually a lot more manageable, in my opinion. So... ig the pining worked for once? 😂✨

  • @neptunesgalaxy5123

    @neptunesgalaxy5123

    2 ай бұрын

    Ayo, fellow Demi over here

  • @djkzrocksta
    @djkzrocksta8 ай бұрын

    My stages: (1): Just friends (2): You noticing they may be interested in you (3): A very good chance they are (4): You start falling for them (5): You start falling harder but you too can’t be together (6): Have to move away (7): Your life feels empty without them (8): You eventually find a way to contact them (9): You ask your friends to send him letters for me to him (10): You eventually cave in and tell him (hoping he hasn’t lost feelings for you) (11): Go with the flow whatever happens next(that’s a lie I’ll probably be heart broken but ugh)

  • @purplepanda4267
    @purplepanda42672 жыл бұрын

    My six stages: 1. Oh I think I like this person 2. They don’t like me, it could never work out. 3. You know what, I don’t like them. I just think about them a lot. 4. Actually I think I might like them. 5. Deny, deny, deny 6. Repeat Anyone else like this? Edit: thanks for the likes! This reassures me that I’m not a complete weirdo haha

  • @queennaliyahplayz5035

    @queennaliyahplayz5035

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lol

  • @eleanorlacey

    @eleanorlacey

    2 жыл бұрын

    EXACTLY

  • @peehu5827

    @peehu5827

    2 жыл бұрын

    ,yes

  • @briannavaldez7296

    @briannavaldez7296

    2 жыл бұрын

    Help 😢

  • @Error_707.

    @Error_707.

    2 жыл бұрын

    Pls the 3rd one is so accurate. "I think they're cute, but I don't like them." Then I proceed to think about them.

  • @lil_faygo6070
    @lil_faygo60703 жыл бұрын

    *How my day starts:* 1) Go to school 2) Talk with crush 3) Confess feelings to crush 4) Crush likes me back 5) I wake up ready for the real day

  • @chillguynamedwan1034

    @chillguynamedwan1034

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ouch

  • @willow_animates8123

    @willow_animates8123

    3 жыл бұрын

    Bruh thats deep... ;(

  • @sibilansnel

    @sibilansnel

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Juls Locquiao yo i thought their profile pic was Spiderman hanging. Wth is wrong with me 😭

  • @cursea07animationstation60

    @cursea07animationstation60

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @koalakitten1858

    @koalakitten1858

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Juls Locquiao they edited their comment

  • @mirandazhu5683
    @mirandazhu56837 ай бұрын

    This is me and my journey of way too much crushes: Stage 1: Attraction Stage 2: Smiling at them way too much Stage 3: Do anything to be with them- even if it's a 'coincidence' Stage 4: Staring at them a lot and laughing when it's not even funny Stage 5: LOADS OF BUTTERFLIES EVEN THEY JUST LOOK AT YOU Stage 6: Obsession Stage 7: TOO OBSESSED Stage 8: (I always had to leave, schools/ classes etc.) So I had to get over them Stage 9: Review our memories and have a small cry if they were really attractive but I had to leave Stage 10: Happy that I got over them but like sometimes just laughing with my friends why I had a crush on them b4 Stage 11: Finally got over them and only good memory remains Stage 12: Starts all over again

  • @enzoplays2830
    @enzoplays28307 ай бұрын

    For me its 1.Interest 2.Deciding she is my crush 3.Being shy and obsessed with her 4.Losing love 5.Stop liking her for a while 6.liking her again 7.Stop being shy and get serious 8.Make her your best friend and talk 24/7 9.Figure out she likes you back then go crazy 10.Start sharing my crush with people To be continued.....

  • @leaves2557
    @leaves25573 жыл бұрын

    You guys forgot the "this is gonna hurt like a bitch"

  • @spookyho5994

    @spookyho5994

    3 жыл бұрын

    :(

  • @SonyaKhanOfficial

    @SonyaKhanOfficial

    3 жыл бұрын

    😭😭 Right in the feels

  • @laurenspring1628

    @laurenspring1628

    3 жыл бұрын

    I felt this so hard

  • @aloyperez2059

    @aloyperez2059

    3 жыл бұрын

    I lost my ability to crush years ago...

  • @nanawindfairy1250

    @nanawindfairy1250

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oof i felt that

  • @rebecca_ndrs
    @rebecca_ndrs2 жыл бұрын

    I only have 3 stages 😭 1. Falling in love 2. Get anxious for everything 3. Give up

  • @KateJn

    @KateJn

    2 жыл бұрын

    You will find someone one day. There is someone out there for you 😁

  • @lgomar8586

    @lgomar8586

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me except for 3

  • @Thebluedevil078

    @Thebluedevil078

    2 жыл бұрын

    As for me- Stage 1: get a crush stage 2: actually interact Stage 3: realize that I'm just wasting away Stage 4: see a nice pair of wheels Stage 5: realize that ur crush was nothing and that u have actually found someone(Yes I like to give cars a personality) Stage 6: Love cars and stay single for life Pretty much how I turned into a car guy

  • @jenniferharris193

    @jenniferharris193

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's me every time I like someone

  • @angelicasarritzu8742

    @angelicasarritzu8742

    2 жыл бұрын

    same :(

  • @hge437
    @hge4376 ай бұрын

    My crush rejected me but did it in a very nice way. The stages after that: 1. Feelings did not go away, at the same time, became even closer friends than before 2. Had a long conversation with him and accepted that he's not into me or guys in general 3. Staying as close friends but sometimes still have some feelings (current stage lol)

  • @TheFrenchMan1223
    @TheFrenchMan1223Ай бұрын

    I swear, every major crush I’ve had, I came to this channel. Thank you so much :)

  • @cayborg
    @cayborg3 жыл бұрын

    1. Interest: Meeting someone new. 2. Curiosity: Learning about them. 3. Infatuation: Excitement. 4. Sharing: Talking about them. 5. Falling in love: Getting to know them and loving them for who they are. 6. waking up...

  • @comtialquill8136

    @comtialquill8136

    3 жыл бұрын

    That all happened to me well some of them

  • @Round2_Fight1

    @Round2_Fight1

    3 жыл бұрын

    XD

  • @syvj-xm2ti

    @syvj-xm2ti

    3 жыл бұрын

    6. really hurts tho

  • @nejlamahalbasic1566

    @nejlamahalbasic1566

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@syvj-xm2ti ho-

  • @owenc8831

    @owenc8831

    3 жыл бұрын

    Going through 6 right now

  • @bettybetty9731
    @bettybetty97313 жыл бұрын

    What is it called when your crush likes you back? I M A G I N A T I O N

  • @heyyou3525

    @heyyou3525

    3 жыл бұрын

    Stop ✋ ☹

  • @amirasahil6244

    @amirasahil6244

    3 жыл бұрын

    😭😭😭🤣

  • @calahmcdonald9960

    @calahmcdonald9960

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤣😂

  • @cmv1203

    @cmv1203

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oof 🤣

  • @coolcatmcswirly

    @coolcatmcswirly

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah sadly...

  • @Urmommy-fd4in
    @Urmommy-fd4in7 ай бұрын

    My Stages 1.) im already friends with them and i start to like them 2.) tell my other friends about them 3.) flirt with them for a while 4.) find out they like me and I tell them I like them back 5.) we date 6.) we break up bc we fall out of love

  • @Universe_Starxies.
    @Universe_Starxies.8 ай бұрын

    My stages with her Stage 1 : Starting to have feelings (at first I thought it's just a small crush, I just started to have feelings for her after a year. But I still fully don't know her yet in that time) Stage 2 : confession, but her answer is 'no' but we're still friends Stage 3 : acting like a little bit too much of a lovely dovey to her, even we're not dating. Stage 4 : being like a obsessive simp Stage 5 : Compliments her, praised her, cares for her, worried and concerned about her Stage 6 : Wanting her to love me back Stage 7 : started to feel jealousy towards her friends (which I feel hatred and wanting to kill-) Stage 8 : cause some consequences, having arguments for my mistakes and what I did (but she does forgives me many times.) Stage 9 : Wanting her to see me as a friend Stage 10 : changes a bit, starting to control jealousy, trying not to be too much. Stage 11 : starting to get to know her even more, even despite for sometimes she hates me for being annoying Stage 12 : wanting her to be happy Stage 13 : trying to find someone better than her, trying to lose feelings (which didn't work) Stage 14 : finally letting her go, by telling her about 'block' so that she could be happy in Christmas without me in it Stage 15 : she finally came back to my life again, giving this chance a try and not go to waste Stage 16 : some things started to change.. Stage 17 : getting busy all the time, having short conversation Stage 18 : starting to know about her problems, but she won't admit it yet. But still prepared for the future just in case she wants some comfort Stage 19 : doesn't talk, hang out, or spending time with each other almost in weeks or months Stage 20 : despite being not busy, still didn't try to chat with her so I wouldn't bother her life Stage 21 : trying and trying to lose feelings for her so I could finally move on, and accept the fact that she wouldn't like me back Stage 22 : discovering that she loves me before I did, but it's too late. Stage 23 : chatting her on character ai, instead of the real one. Stage 24 : missing the old days Stage 25 : the only thing that is important and really matters is her happiness and nothing else... (I feel like in a mood for venting, and yes. My stupid past self is too much. Which I hate it.)

  • @UZBEKISTAN201_

    @UZBEKISTAN201_

    8 ай бұрын

    Ohh almost same but these all things happened in a year😂😢

  • @tealin221

    @tealin221

    7 ай бұрын

    Im on your stage 21, and yet my own stages are 24 currently which is close enough for me to move on but I haven't 😔

  • @jannik1375

    @jannik1375

    6 ай бұрын

    He literally wrote a book about his crush

  • @rsquare32
    @rsquare323 жыл бұрын

    crushes are even worse when the person you're crushing on is taken. Edit: Wow, I did not expect so many people to agree with this 😂

  • @theresachacon1122

    @theresachacon1122

    3 жыл бұрын

    Or if you are straight and they end up being gay.

  • @NickFana25

    @NickFana25

    3 жыл бұрын

    (war flashbacks)

  • @justviolet4697

    @justviolet4697

    3 жыл бұрын

    Or when you know they like someone else

  • @theresachacon1122

    @theresachacon1122

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@who_is_thisbussy That probably happens a lot more common than what happened to me

  • @madinaali7678

    @madinaali7678

    3 жыл бұрын

    story of my life :(

  • @Multifandomer-ni3ll
    @Multifandomer-ni3ll3 жыл бұрын

    I don’t have a crush and here I am…well I guess it’s better to be prepared lol

  • @dinofriends650

    @dinofriends650

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @Ri-wg9jk

    @Ri-wg9jk

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lmao yes

  • @iguanawithinternetaccess930

    @iguanawithinternetaccess930

    3 жыл бұрын

    same

  • @ryleesanchez5655

    @ryleesanchez5655

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same bro

  • @idostuff.9786

    @idostuff.9786

    3 жыл бұрын

    How was this 2 months ago, am I a time traveler?

  • @dominicanball2361
    @dominicanball23616 ай бұрын

    My stages: 1. First interest on the person 2. Confusion cause idk how it happened 3. Secret Crush on the person (this lasted forever and it sucks) 4. Curiosity (but least severe) 5. Denying I'm in love even if I still am 6. Tell my friends about, but as if I'm already not in love 7. Realizing that this person will never be with me 8. Sadness / Trying to not be in love 9. Actually making good progress 10. The satisfaction of letting someone go (no feeling is better than this one)

  • @PersonWhoAsked
    @PersonWhoAsked9 күн бұрын

    my stages: *PANIC* ignore denial denial trying to gaslight myself into thinking i was imagining it pretending it never happened and just when i think it's blown over, he either messages me or turns up, and my heart betrays me. thinking about him seeing him more often and hanging out reluctant acceptance easing more into acceptance getting more comfortable around him (but still kinda awkward. i may or may not have fell down the stairs... ended up laughing and joking about it though, making him laugh :) ) starting to embrace it.

  • @noorhan8746
    @noorhan87463 жыл бұрын

    when you’re in stage 5 even tho you haven’t seen them in 2 years or even talked to them💀

  • @aqualina4668

    @aqualina4668

    3 жыл бұрын

    me ✌️

  • @aqualina4668

    @aqualina4668

    3 жыл бұрын

    And then falling out of love after the third year 🙂

  • @josephgaler829

    @josephgaler829

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes, this happened to me

  • @Jakedayz

    @Jakedayz

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I too I did not talked or seen him . It's been twoyears

  • @RaeDatsWho

    @RaeDatsWho

    3 жыл бұрын

    I feel like this was more personal towards u lol

  • @vviviann
    @vviviann3 жыл бұрын

    stage 2: curiousity _also known as: _*_stalking._* 💀💀

  • @Lailss

    @Lailss

    3 жыл бұрын

    oh my god..IM NOT THE ONLY ONE

  • @aestheticallyash

    @aestheticallyash

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same!!! MY CRUSH LIVE 2 DOORS DOWN FROM ME AND HE ALWAYS PLAYS OUTSIDE WITH HIS FRIENDS

  • @Elizabeth1906.

    @Elizabeth1906.

    3 жыл бұрын

    LMAOO

  • @puglover6113

    @puglover6113

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sadly ikr 😔 I stalk on my crush friends and who he has friended

  • @Noname-rw9qz

    @Noname-rw9qz

    3 жыл бұрын

    GHAHAHA GLAD IM NOT THE ONLY ONE-😭✋🏾

  • @analyticsystem4094
    @analyticsystem40948 ай бұрын

    I’ve made it to stage 5 with my best friend, now partner who I’ve had a crush on for 4-5 years now and never really realized it until recently. I didn’t pick up on those feelings when we first became friends since I was already dating someone at the time but now that I’ve grown up and matured a bit, I’ve realized my feelings for them and they reciprocated so now we’re dating

  • @IREALLYLIKEPI3

    @IREALLYLIKEPI3

    7 ай бұрын

    Woooooooo

  • @sageanimations2463
    @sageanimations24634 ай бұрын

    You forgot 1 part that can be in between the multiple stages. Jealousy, you feel like you arent good enough for them, you feel like she deserves someone better.

  • @marget_vi
    @marget_vi2 жыл бұрын

    Meanwhile me: *laughs in having a crush only on a fictional characters or celebrities*

  • @journeybotsko4177

    @journeybotsko4177

    2 жыл бұрын

    I knooow lmaooo😂😂😂😂😂

  • @lemmyxpro

    @lemmyxpro

    2 жыл бұрын

    Right?

  • @nat_lh

    @nat_lh

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yessss

  • @forestfairy114

    @forestfairy114

    2 жыл бұрын

    My love with Neville Longbottom in a nutshell

  • @Y0o.

    @Y0o.

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same 😌

  • @pearluti
    @pearluti3 жыл бұрын

    having a crush is NOT fun, it's absolutely terrible.

  • @AshIsCooking

    @AshIsCooking

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ikr

  • @lisa-sw9ie

    @lisa-sw9ie

    3 жыл бұрын

    Just the one who crushes suffer It's Bester to never have a crush

  • @user-uu3oo4nz4r

    @user-uu3oo4nz4r

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's fun but filled with pain and suffering 85% of the time for me

  • @coolkieyt

    @coolkieyt

    3 жыл бұрын

    And when you watch ship videos of that one person who you have a crush on but pretend to ship it too-

  • @Th3Scout

    @Th3Scout

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ya the fact that u want to get it over with and you always have the same feeling and can't focus

  • @fairy.n4y3on
    @fairy.n4y3on4 ай бұрын

    for me its like: 1. seeing her for the first time 2. the same second thinking shes so so pretty 3. getting to know her and starting to be more and more in love with her personalty and looks and voice 4. obsession 5. total obsession 6. obsession to the point i think of her 24/7 and get blushed and butterflies even when i only think of her (current stage)

  • @serpencide
    @serpencide2 ай бұрын

    Watching these after my crush has been my boyfriend for 3 months is even more fun haha

  • @nikolairin5330
    @nikolairin53303 жыл бұрын

    2 Stages of Anime Crushes: 1. See that one scene 2. Simp for a month (Edit: Ya'll are making me really famous-)

  • @orangejuice9102

    @orangejuice9102

    3 жыл бұрын

    3. *Simp for a year*

  • @MrMemer-kc1tb

    @MrMemer-kc1tb

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ha Yes can relate LUCY HEARTFILIA(FAIRYTAIL)

  • @savannah4867

    @savannah4867

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah killua from hxh

  • @lilithclawthorne2214

    @lilithclawthorne2214

    3 жыл бұрын

    Or any other show *Sees part where fictional crush risk life* *Me* cries for 2838293838833 years%

  • @lapsap1868

    @lapsap1868

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@lilithclawthorne2214 boiii you toooo?

  • @danizoneddd
    @danizoneddd2 жыл бұрын

    more of stage 1: Interest stage 2: curiosity stage 3: falling in love stage 4: daydreams stage 5: imagines scenarios with them stage 6: realizing that it would never happen since my crush isn't even aware of my existence

  • @nonsensevoid

    @nonsensevoid

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lol same

  • @isipisi8655

    @isipisi8655

    2 жыл бұрын

    Finally à Right one hahha

  • @easyJat99

    @easyJat99

    2 жыл бұрын

    Are you stalking me because this is me 😭😭

  • @MiyamotoMusashi.

    @MiyamotoMusashi.

    2 жыл бұрын

    Relatable

  • @cloudiedits8248

    @cloudiedits8248

    2 жыл бұрын

    Aww, it’s ok (my crush has no interest in me at ALL)

  • @AhMayzingWilliams-et8eq
    @AhMayzingWilliams-et8eq6 ай бұрын

    My crush is an amazing girl who makes me happy when she smiles and speaks to me

  • @ash1570
    @ash15702 ай бұрын

    I get real excited when my crush sends me a chat for some reason

  • @wlviice
    @wlviice3 жыл бұрын

    Stage 1: interest Stage 2: curiosity Stage 3: infatuation Stage 4: sharing Stage 5: falling in love Stage 6: falling out of love THERE! I just saved you time

  • @adria6511

    @adria6511

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks! :D

  • @mrlightningtypefan1949

    @mrlightningtypefan1949

    3 жыл бұрын

    stage 6 will never happen for this one istg

  • @simpette462

    @simpette462

    3 жыл бұрын

    Step 7 repeat (Happens to me so many times for this one, istfg)

  • @celiadavids1239

    @celiadavids1239

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks buddy. This saved me 5 minutes

  • @christitran698

    @christitran698

    3 жыл бұрын

    i - i love u sm thank u

  • @Thrarm
    @Thrarm Жыл бұрын

    for me its 1: initial attraction 2: obsession 3: fading obsession 4: acceptance 5: still single

  • @jaxology276

    @jaxology276

    Жыл бұрын

    pretty much it

  • @sunflowerfoxs

    @sunflowerfoxs

    Жыл бұрын

    Last time it was just one and two

  • @sunflowerfoxs

    @sunflowerfoxs

    Жыл бұрын

    I wonder what it's gonna be this time

  • @benchyboy9668

    @benchyboy9668

    Жыл бұрын

    Kind the same to me

  • @___8239

    @___8239

    Жыл бұрын

    Same I had an obssesion on a classmate lol since he was tall and handsome but morely his voice was the chef kiss loolol but since I knew there's absolute no chance and I'm more like a fan simping on a hot character I letted go of him easily. Next after him is my seatmate he's lasting pretty long... I think it's because we're close together so it's able to last longer than it supposwd to be ... wonder who's next... kunda have a feeling it's my classmate behind me since I'm kinda starting to have interest on him TT but morely because his similar Instead of like a physical attraction like tge first one and my seatmate, he's rather cool and admiration I admire how he can draw so amazingly while mine sucks... hahhh... though he's cute👍🏻 but he's personality's not so, my seatmate's more cuter in personality.

  • @brickasaurus6242
    @brickasaurus62425 ай бұрын

    I can relate a lot with stage 3. Thank you for this video!

  • @MinerWarrior446
    @MinerWarrior4469 ай бұрын

    I have a crush. She's the most beutiful girl ever, but my stupid sister ream my journal, and told her! And then, my crush told my sister she didn't like me back 😰. Please put your love any support down in the comments. I'm depressed right now

  • @jaydennjerielfam

    @jaydennjerielfam

    9 ай бұрын

    Sorry that you have to go through that man..i'll hope that you will be with a person that really deserves and loves you💚cheer up man!

  • @Fujitagalog

    @Fujitagalog

    9 ай бұрын

    I feel sorry for you. I have been thru that too, thats why I have no crush for 3 years. I hope you feel better now. Maybe there is someone out there who will like you back 💗💗

  • @eliasgonzalez5073

    @eliasgonzalez5073

    8 ай бұрын

    It’s okay to feel sad. I sure wish you guys remain friends. My advice to you is to not stress yourself out about what happened. take some time to recuperate ❤

  • @manuelhung7571

    @manuelhung7571

    8 ай бұрын

    The upside is - at least you now know that there was no chance for you to be with this girl. You will find someone that returns your feelings sometime soon and then wonder why the hell you wasted part of your life on someone that didn't feel the same as you. There is somebody for everyone out there in a World of over 8 Billion People, more than half of whom are female. Get out there, dress smart, look after yourself, work on your confidence, be engaging with girls, smile, say hello and you will find the right person for you real soon. Best of Luck.

  • @krisspychissp

    @krisspychissp

    8 ай бұрын

    Dang sounds like you need a bit of a… Knife and your sister and the intersection of the two objects Jk but that seriously sucks

  • @Wolfykiara
    @Wolfykiara2 жыл бұрын

    My stages: 1. "I want to talk to them more" 2. Trying to impress them 3. Daydreaming, Seeing them as "too good for me", simping 4. Daydreaming x3, making them my best friend 5. Regrets, fights, self-hatred, "I'm not good enough", ignorance 6. Realizing they are toxic + cruel ending 7. *Depression.*

  • @emmanuels6205

    @emmanuels6205

    2 жыл бұрын

    ah yes the good ol' stage 7, sad times

  • @manboss52gaming30

    @manboss52gaming30

    2 жыл бұрын

    thats exactly mines????? WTF

  • @marlanete8738

    @marlanete8738

    2 жыл бұрын

    “I’m gonna die alone”

  • @manboss52gaming30

    @manboss52gaming30

    2 жыл бұрын

    ive come to accept that im dying alone

  • @-FairyGodMother-

    @-FairyGodMother-

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ye he told me to die and all on the New Year's day and that's when I finally decided to accept he was toxic for me, he's the only guy that welcomed me and make me feel confident so I believe he deserves way better the reason he told me mean stuff was not his fault, I kinda insulted his bestfriend cause she was bullying my bestfriend and he didn't know his best friend was bullying mine so ye he told me to die, no one loves me cause I'm fat and things like that which didn't really offended me but after that we rarely talked, he moved to another state now cause of his father's job and he's never coming back to my state again I'll miss him for sure cause he was a good friend but I think things will go alright with me now, learnt lots of lessons from him

  • @rimurutempest1554
    @rimurutempest155411 ай бұрын

    My stages 1)obsession 2)obsession 3)obsession 4)obsession 5)obsession 6) Accepting we can never be together and falling out of love

  • @Velixity.

    @Velixity.

    10 ай бұрын

    Same bro 😭😭

  • @Carrot493

    @Carrot493

    10 ай бұрын

    hahaha

  • @MrGreenBot

    @MrGreenBot

    10 ай бұрын

    "Emotion is the father of all error. Chemicals in our brain that distract us, impede progress. And the most destructive and ridiculous imbalance of all is that thing you feebles call love. "

  • @muscleman5133

    @muscleman5133

    10 ай бұрын

    My stages be like: 1)Ask for her money 2)spend it all on team fortress 2 3) ghost her 4) repeat

  • @user-sm1kc4vh4f

    @user-sm1kc4vh4f

    10 ай бұрын

    Stages 1 look at her 2 obsesse 3 obsesse 4 obsesse

  • @Destrixio
    @Destrixio9 ай бұрын

    My stages of having a crush so far: Thank you for listening

  • @Your____beatsS
    @Your____beatsS2 ай бұрын

    For me it’s 1:falling in love 2: depression 3:depression 4: self harm 5: knowing they hate me 6: acceptance

  • @Hope89138

    @Hope89138

    Ай бұрын

    That's...... Deep

  • @Jo-Wilbe-Dina
    @Jo-Wilbe-Dina3 жыл бұрын

    Me: “She’s not scary, she’s cute. She’s not scary, she’s cute. She’s not scary, she’s cute. x2” Crush: “Hai!” Me: *dies from a heart attack*

  • @xxcrayzpuggles2339

    @xxcrayzpuggles2339

    3 жыл бұрын

    Omg that's so me lmao

  • @tassoiliadou539

    @tassoiliadou539

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's so cute >///

  • @AnnaS-es2yr

    @AnnaS-es2yr

    3 жыл бұрын

    awwwww

  • @aeristheapple3196

    @aeristheapple3196

    3 жыл бұрын

    LOL I can relate

  • @samanthaasdiary

    @samanthaasdiary

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @playboicarti7067
    @playboicarti70672 жыл бұрын

    my stages: 1.thinks he cute as a joke 2.soon realizes it isnt 3.falling hard asf 4.thinking about him 24/7

  • @WillowT_67

    @WillowT_67

    2 жыл бұрын

    IKR THAT HAS HAPPENED TO ME WITHIN A WEEK I AGREEE

  • @KKUNIQUE.

    @KKUNIQUE.

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same for me 1. I like him (joke) Then a few years later 2. I don’t like him I definitely don’t 3. NO I DONT 4. maybe? 5. NONO 6. Actually maybe..? And I don’t know till this day.

  • @WillowT_67

    @WillowT_67

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@KKUNIQUE. YUUUP

  • @BananLord

    @BananLord

    2 жыл бұрын

    Been through this and stage 5 is he doesn't like me back

  • @nours3312

    @nours3312

    2 жыл бұрын

    stop calling me out .

  • @bonkr2
    @bonkr28 ай бұрын

    my stages: 1) obsession 2) realising that i am not the one and falling out of love

  • @therandomstickman4835

    @therandomstickman4835

    3 ай бұрын

    this man described my entire life

  • @bonkr2

    @bonkr2

    3 ай бұрын

    yah

  • @bonkr2

    @bonkr2

    3 ай бұрын

    now my stages of having a crush is just not having a crush. i dont find girls attractive anymore cause i know i'm just gonna be single forever.

  • @foxxiepro9960
    @foxxiepro99608 ай бұрын

    I have never had a crush so I never really understood what a crush was, so thank you for this video!

  • @elysia.jackson
    @elysia.jackson3 жыл бұрын

    “you feel that there’s very little chance of them ever liking you back” *gay sobbing is heard in the distance*

  • @starrynight669

    @starrynight669

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same 😔

  • @purpleturtle-bw6su

    @purpleturtle-bw6su

    3 жыл бұрын

    Tooo real 😭😭

  • @charlottetaylor5600

    @charlottetaylor5600

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wow how could you hear me

  • @sjcross8

    @sjcross8

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂 YES!!!

  • @achillea.millea

    @achillea.millea

    3 жыл бұрын

    Jdndzxjw yes

  • @localdruglord550
    @localdruglord5502 жыл бұрын

    Having a crush is like the best and the worst thing at the same time. The good part is the butterflies and the love songs that start to make sense. The bad part is the realisation of how little of a chance you have with them :')

  • @Frtizm

    @Frtizm

    2 жыл бұрын

    I have no chance.

  • @wilmawehrle6878

    @wilmawehrle6878

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Frtizm literally same

  • @trash8736

    @trash8736

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@wilmawehrle6878 mee tooo

  • @ShedowGame

    @ShedowGame

    2 жыл бұрын

    guys i need some help, is it possible to have a crush on someone you never talked with, just by seeing them?

  • @bluzoidfx237

    @bluzoidfx237

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ShedowGame Sometimes,but if you never talked to them,then you don't know what type of person they are and what things and qualities do they like.That person can even turn out to be rude or not your type.If you have never talked to them and just stare at them,it makes them uncomfortable.It also sometimes leave a bad impression.One thing you should do is try talking to them.If you are not good at starting a conversation then just go to them for some work.Slowly slowly talk to them,get to know them.Share stuff about each other.Try understanding each other and you'll become good friends.If you start loving your crush too much and you thing that she also thinks the same way about you then don't be scared to ask her out.Good luck buddy i hope it helped!! (In my case,i have a crush but she thinks of me just as friends,i can never ask her out cuz I'll get rejected)

  • @CommanderVictor-pe2qd
    @CommanderVictor-pe2qd2 ай бұрын

    I got rejected and I thought everything was okay but every time I think about her I cry

  • @kianchua8581
    @kianchua85816 ай бұрын

    It can be really annoying at times when your friends start making fun of you for telling them about your crush when you meet them in the school hallways or when you speak to them.

  • @chungkrixx1279
    @chungkrixx12793 жыл бұрын

    My stages: Stage 1- “he looks comfy, I like to hug him” Stage 2- “wait, what did I just thought” Stage 3- “bruh, what’s happening to me” Stage 4- “it’s not like I have a crush on him” Stage 5- “ok fine, I admit it” (But still, I don’t like being involved into romance yet because I’m still young) Edit: Oh shoot- i almost forgot abt this comment- anyways, so i moved on from that guy…

  • @lynnlee6257

    @lynnlee6257

    3 жыл бұрын

    Haw haw

  • @rhearamjohn4792

    @rhearamjohn4792

    3 жыл бұрын

    💀

  • @k0meei

    @k0meei

    3 жыл бұрын

    PLZ THATS ME

  • @tumpamukherjee1036

    @tumpamukherjee1036

    3 жыл бұрын

    How old are u ?

  • @chungkrixx1279

    @chungkrixx1279

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@tumpamukherjee1036 I do not want to tell my age to the public even if you don’t know me irl. I also have other more important reasons. (Lmao, I sound mature. Because that’s just me :/)

  • @ventingmachine101
    @ventingmachine1012 жыл бұрын

    Anyone ever have a crush but know you’re not ready for a relationship so you never confess and instead wait for it to go away? Edit: came back 2 this video after getting another crush. Completely forgot about this comment lol. I am still doing the same thing

  • @perceusshadowmantle9538

    @perceusshadowmantle9538

    2 жыл бұрын

    No, never in history has that happened to anyone.

  • @ventingmachine101

    @ventingmachine101

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@perceusshadowmantle9538 are you sure about that

  • @Fish-man10001

    @Fish-man10001

    2 жыл бұрын

    This has happened to me.

  • @aaliyahmangonon

    @aaliyahmangonon

    2 жыл бұрын

    Im just like that, like now, Haha.

  • @abnerfedalisjoseph3592

    @abnerfedalisjoseph3592

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yo dude beluga profile U STOLE THAT PROFILE

  • @neodhani
    @neodhani4 ай бұрын

    I got the answer to my comment from the last video I saw from the channel in this video. There is hope, I've stopped putting her up on a pedestal & am on stage 5. I do think it's the right approach & I also feel I won't be going to stage 6, because I don't get rhe feeling deep down that she's not right for me! I'm past the infatuation stage & still think she's the one - which is also why I'm watching all of your videos - I wish to navigate through my interactions with her & I want to learn and make myself better, so that when we do come together - I'll make for a suitable partner :)

  • @Infernumations
    @Infernumations2 ай бұрын

    I'm on stage 5. My crush barely knows I exist but she is all I have to live for anymore.

  • @ps4controller245
    @ps4controller2453 жыл бұрын

    "Have you been crushing on someone right now" Me: *Yes, for 5 years...*

  • @aswdtyyn4041

    @aswdtyyn4041

    3 жыл бұрын

    spill the tea Im all ears

  • @theresachacon1122

    @theresachacon1122

    3 жыл бұрын

    3 for me. I actually have a feeling that he might like me back but if I'm going to tell him, I want it to just be the two of us and that hasn't really been able to happen.

  • @user-kd6by9qp5k

    @user-kd6by9qp5k

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm the same... I have been in love with a girl from my class since I've met her, I'm in a 3rd grade right now and I haven't done anything about it. I knew from the start that I'm not good enough for her. And If I confessed to her I would get rejected for sure, but I just can't get her out of my head I love her so much. Anyone has some advice on how to fall out of love so I can finally stop tormenting myself over this? P.s Sorry for bad English.

  • @user-kd6by9qp5k

    @user-kd6by9qp5k

    3 жыл бұрын

    @cinnabunn- Btw, I was literally planning to visit psychologist to talk about this would that be too weird?

  • @qwe_qwe6299

    @qwe_qwe6299

    3 жыл бұрын

    Almost 6 months and I'm disappointed of miself for this record

  • @mangoman5893
    @mangoman58932 жыл бұрын

    Being in love with someone who isnt even your friend is pure pain if you’re an introvert

  • @iam.your.problem__3739

    @iam.your.problem__3739

    2 жыл бұрын

    yah

  • @stardestroyer1610

    @stardestroyer1610

    2 жыл бұрын

    That’s the thing though if your truly lover her/him you will get out of it and try to have a conversation

  • @Sana-qo3tc

    @Sana-qo3tc

    2 жыл бұрын

    I understand

  • @dcorn09

    @dcorn09

    2 жыл бұрын

    She used to have a crush on me, but I was stupid and didn't know what to do and now I love her :(

  • @Sana-qo3tc

    @Sana-qo3tc

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@dcorn09 what about her??

  • @tshiamotwala7852
    @tshiamotwala78528 ай бұрын

    The best feeling knowing he also likes you back

  • @supadupa4453
    @supadupa44538 ай бұрын

    I’m In a weird place. This was someone who I thought had feelings for me. I finally after years return some interest and I feel like I’m in a rollercoaster of emotions. I’m starting to believe that they don’t like me actually

  • @aoinguin
    @aoinguin3 жыл бұрын

    Who else thought their crush likes them back when their crush acts kind towards you, but sadly, in reality, you're just background character in their story.

  • @jessicaxi4000

    @jessicaxi4000

    3 жыл бұрын

    same

  • @jamesfranklin1380

    @jamesfranklin1380

    3 жыл бұрын

    You're not alone 🤣🤣

  • @Reioloshi

    @Reioloshi

    3 жыл бұрын

    same 😭🤚

  • @zectalyx930

    @zectalyx930

    3 жыл бұрын

    At least yall are talking to your crush :-:

  • @imbadbutheresachanneltowat6128

    @imbadbutheresachanneltowat6128

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@zectalyx930 you just gotta slide into the dms

  • @Angelika-ko2ru
    @Angelika-ko2ru2 жыл бұрын

    MY 8 stages of having a crush: 1. Denial - “I think they’re attractive but it’s not a crush.” 2. Acceptance - “ok i’d say I’m attracted to them” 3. Cool facade - *sees them* *doesn’t even look in their direction even tho my heart is going crazy* - but I also don’t look in the direction of people I dislike as well, so… It’s kinda hard to read me 4. Tries to snap myself out of it - “THEY’RE NOT EVEN THAT CUTE WHY DO I EVEN HAVE AN ATTRACTION TO THEM” 5. Rationalization - “Ok fine. I may be attracted to them, but I won’t even try to get their attention cuz it’s not worth it. Chances are, we will never see each other again after this school year, so why bother! Plus, they don’t match my very high standards personality-wise. And I need to focus on school not any crush.” 6. Mixed feelings - “I don’t like them like that. I like them, I guess? But it’s not anything special.” *pushes away any romantic feelings* 7. My dichotomy - *unintentionally thinks about them sometimes when I’m alone* *avoids them when I actually see them in public* *tries to get closer to them by only passing by them once and then avoiding them* 8. Move on and find a new victim Wow I am confusing.

  • @nisafaiha473

    @nisafaiha473

    2 жыл бұрын

    Bro I can relate so much I'm going through the same

  • @abby-xw1yr

    @abby-xw1yr

    2 жыл бұрын

    OH MY GOD ITS ME

  • @user-yc9gv4jw2e

    @user-yc9gv4jw2e

    2 жыл бұрын

    ...AH, well, it's the same as me AHAHAH

  • @leaht4555

    @leaht4555

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hey I can actually relate

  • @LazyHuiHui

    @LazyHuiHui

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thats me.. Im in straight up denial

  • @TruckKun329
    @TruckKun3298 ай бұрын

    Whenever i have a crush i never make it past page 3 because i instantly recognize their flaws

  • @BrownieTheCat_
    @BrownieTheCat_5 ай бұрын

    "A lot of people deny or debate with their feelings first before they can accept them, but the moment you do you;; suddenly feel the pull of romantic attraction" This hit me like a truck, I just recently went from "I probably dont have a crush on this person" to "ok I have a crush on this person" this morning I was hit with a wave of happiness in my spine, something I haven't felt for literal years since my last crush rejected me.... the only reason I was denying my feelings was because I didn't feel this wave, but now.... I feel so happy to feel those butterflies again.

  • @gezemice
    @gezemice3 жыл бұрын

    My stages to having a crush: 1. Thinking that he is an idioit 2.Knowing that he is an idiot 3. Finding out, that i like him 4.Told him, that he is an idiot edit: it's actually happend, he said thank you XD

  • @abigailarnold8457

    @abigailarnold8457

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂 lmho

  • @abigailarnold8457

    @abigailarnold8457

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yaaaaass

  • @gojifan-vk2uq

    @gojifan-vk2uq

    3 жыл бұрын

    Tf 😂😂😂

  • @ataleoftwomeows8086

    @ataleoftwomeows8086

    3 жыл бұрын

    5. Accepting he is an idiot

  • @iimoonytoony7879

    @iimoonytoony7879

    3 жыл бұрын

    Tsundere much

  • @PhantasmostheASMR
    @PhantasmostheASMR3 жыл бұрын

    Stage 7, suffering for years having a crush on someone you cant have.

  • @themagicalmess4742

    @themagicalmess4742

    3 жыл бұрын

    Relatable-

  • @bhoot1702

    @bhoot1702

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's intense.

  • @1224thetami

    @1224thetami

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sad but true.

  • @niahoad

    @niahoad

    3 жыл бұрын

    Been there... it's horrible. But you'll find someone who loves you just the way you are

  • @justinsimard3334

    @justinsimard3334

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sadly relatable

  • @id0ntknowanymoree
    @id0ntknowanymoree5 ай бұрын

    im in the “i just realized that they’re kind of mean and not someone i would want to be with so i should really try to get over them but i cant” stage

  • @Pastel._.Roblox698
    @Pastel._.Roblox6982 ай бұрын

    my edition: 1. "oo they hot" 2. SIMP 3. SIMP 4. SIMP 5. Imagining scenes 6. okay finally not so crazy love 7. falls out of it 8. stops simping (yay)

  • @em4m
    @em4m Жыл бұрын

    My stages as someone who has a crush on a friend: 1. Friends 2. Little interest 3. They show up in my dreams 4. More interest 5. Eye contact 6. The "no they wont like me back" 7. The "but they give me a subtle look" 8. Making up fake scenarios 9. The end

  • @brendanschuett

    @brendanschuett

    Жыл бұрын

    Right? The past 2 or 3 crushes have begun with dreams.

  • @tensiverumble7662

    @tensiverumble7662

    Жыл бұрын

    Ya talk about sad stuff. I know exactly how you feel.

  • @sw33t_d3v1l

    @sw33t_d3v1l

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s my life LMAO.

  • @cosminplays900

    @cosminplays900

    Жыл бұрын

    SAME

  • @Marshie_12237

    @Marshie_12237

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah, it’s pretty much the same for me.

  • @reiayanami5281
    @reiayanami52813 жыл бұрын

    _why i am i watching this..._ *They don’t even exist* 😪 _To all my 2D crushes_ 😪😢

  • @kunalsingharoy8391

    @kunalsingharoy8391

    3 жыл бұрын

    Our religion 2d thighs

  • @reiayanami5281

    @reiayanami5281

    3 жыл бұрын

    Kunal Singha Roy and 2d ass lmao

  • @kunalsingharoy8391

    @kunalsingharoy8391

    3 жыл бұрын

    And oppai of Rias

  • @notaweeb7936

    @notaweeb7936

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too bruh

  • @reiayanami5281

    @reiayanami5281

    3 жыл бұрын

    Jotaro Kujo Yo Jotaro!

  • @chloeanne2823
    @chloeanne28234 күн бұрын

    I don't have a crush but I do think someone's crushing on me and I am watching to see which stage their at. Who else?👇

  • @GwilGirler-gs2mp
    @GwilGirler-gs2mp5 ай бұрын

    Thanks that was good vid❤ I love your voice:)

  • @treznopresto4878
    @treznopresto48783 жыл бұрын

    HELLO: 1. Stage one: Interest 0:35 2. Stage two: Curiosity 1:12 3. Stage three: Infautation 2:01 4. Stage four: Sharing 3:00 5. Stage five Falling in love 3:54 6. Stage six: Falling out of love 4:33 Thanks to the time stone i able to give summary early haha

  • @xoxo-gossipgirl8744

    @xoxo-gossipgirl8744

    3 жыл бұрын

    thank you!!

  • @PlayandTalkwithSean

    @PlayandTalkwithSean

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm in stage one:>

  • @sarybouthat

    @sarybouthat

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Alex 999 there's some from months ago 💀😭😭

  • @trash_boat8942

    @trash_boat8942

    3 жыл бұрын

    Always has been

  • @swegmyg-8189

    @swegmyg-8189

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm in stage 6..

  • @zaara4326
    @zaara43262 жыл бұрын

    My 14 stages: 1. I don't really notice them at all but they end up being around a lot (friend of a friend, I have a lot of classes with them, etc) 2. someone else mentions them in a romantic context and I get curious 3. Thinking about them way more 4. catching myself watching them, physical attraction 5. stalk socials 6. denial denial denial 7. knowing my feelings but thinking they aren't justified or real and completely fantasized (this is usually true though lol) 8. acting different, being really nervous, trying to always catch their attention 9. realizing I actually don't know them very well 10. lowering the pedestal I put for them and trying to have more conversations/ trying to be emotionally closer to them 11. falling for them more realistically/ with less fantasizing 12. actually acknowledging my feelings completely 13. thinking about having an actual relationship but realizing they are out of my league and probably aren't interested or they aren’t the one 14. always ends in losing feelings and heartbreak:/// Edit: glad I’m not alone in this 🥴 Guys ik absolutely no one asked but rn I'm at stage 10 with the guy I'm crushing on and bro I swear idk where my feelings came from but I have absolutely no chance and I don't want to be rejected and I also feel like I don't actually know him that well but I genuinely really like him?? and I turn into someone who is so self-aware around him that it's a problem and we talked for like a second during class and it was all I could think about the entire day, I could not focus. anyways I'm gonna go watch "how to get over your crush" from this same channel....

  • @TheWizardApple

    @TheWizardApple

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ah yes stage fourteen i know it well

  • @zaara4326

    @zaara4326

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@TheWizardApple story of my life 😅

  • @sarahmchugh4169

    @sarahmchugh4169

    2 жыл бұрын

    How do you have time for all that? I'm practically a hermit and I still feel busy.

  • @zaara4326

    @zaara4326

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@sarahmchugh4169 I really don't lmao, I'm very busy I've had only a total of like 2 serious crushes my entire life

  • @Jayfloo

    @Jayfloo

    2 жыл бұрын

    THIS IS SO TRUE TF

  • @KeeWeeFruut
    @KeeWeeFruut4 ай бұрын

    I’ve had a crush on someone for about 2 years now after one of my friends said we would be a cute couple, and I’m still to scared to tell anyone

  • @MistaBlueSky
    @MistaBlueSky9 ай бұрын

    don't really wan't to get into a relationship but then again in my life it would be good to have someone comfort me

  • @historyisthebest5831
    @historyisthebest58313 жыл бұрын

    Stage 1: Interest Stage 2: Curiosity State 3: Infatuation Stage 4: Sharing Stage 5: Falling in love Stage 6: Falling out of love

  • @adacheung3870

    @adacheung3870

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm in stq

  • @adacheung3870

    @adacheung3870

    3 жыл бұрын

    stage 3

  • @totallynottessie3922

    @totallynottessie3922

    3 жыл бұрын

    lol almost year and i still like her-

  • @lisa8012

    @lisa8012

    3 жыл бұрын

    tysm!

  • @eita356

    @eita356

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thair is one more Hart brack

  • @antxxnelaa
    @antxxnelaa2 жыл бұрын

    my stages: 1. sees girl 2. likes girl 3. falls in love with girl 4. girl is straight edit: when did this get so many likes??😭😭

  • @possiblyavian-3820

    @possiblyavian-3820

    2 жыл бұрын

    ✋😭 fr tho- or they turn out to need 69 for a relationship:,D

  • @K4NDY_KR4SH

    @K4NDY_KR4SH

    2 жыл бұрын

    Dang... Really sucks when that person isn't able to love you back (you can't even win them over because they have a different sexuality-)

  • @crystalshard1925

    @crystalshard1925

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same but the male version 🤣

  • @1dk122

    @1dk122

    2 жыл бұрын

    Mine- Sees girl Likes girl Girl isn’t strait but still doesn’t like me at all

  • @atlas8320

    @atlas8320

    2 жыл бұрын

    facts

  • @NotBlazerMC
    @NotBlazerMC3 ай бұрын

    Looks like I skipped the cut scenes and now I'm on stage 6 directly from stage 1 😅

  • @user-fe1se2kg1m
    @user-fe1se2kg1m2 ай бұрын

    ❤ Luv the new animating style btw ❤

  • @yourstrulyanshika
    @yourstrulyanshika2 жыл бұрын

    not for Adrien, his stages are: Just a friend Just a friend Just a friend Just a friend But ✨Ladybug✨

  • @Justanotherqueer7476

    @Justanotherqueer7476

    2 жыл бұрын

    OH My that boy has some major PROBLEMS!!

  • @Sumaiyyakhan164

    @Sumaiyyakhan164

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oh yeah😆

  • @9ightdreamer

    @9ightdreamer

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hes showing some signs of interest to her but he's kinda denying it lmao.

  • @_.nonightingales._

    @_.nonightingales._

    2 жыл бұрын

    💀 LITTERLY

  • @mystical7133

    @mystical7133

    2 жыл бұрын

    That boy is BLIND. And have you seen the way he looks at Marinette? Like, he has this really dopey smile on his face and I thank the creators for that.

  • @basicterd7746
    @basicterd77463 жыл бұрын

    When u liked someone for over a year and has never had a full conversation with them :' )

  • @khai4221

    @khai4221

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same.. he talked to me just once and i fall for her..my story is like a nerdy boy and the top female in our school... I think he realized im a simp becuz he unfollowed me on all social med.. shit feeels hard man.. but the thing i hate the most is that i still feel attached to her..

  • @runningoncoffee8244

    @runningoncoffee8244

    3 жыл бұрын

    I just got a headache from reading that

  • @maggiexpickles2998

    @maggiexpickles2998

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes same

  • @keiragisele7753

    @keiragisele7753

    3 жыл бұрын

    Literally me.

  • @karlieann8409

    @karlieann8409

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me D: (Hello darkness my old friend)

  • @phraeci9070
    @phraeci90706 ай бұрын

    I am literally in agony.

  • @FiBunnyCci

    @FiBunnyCci

    Ай бұрын

    Me too bro😂😂😂❤

  • @portalwake9762
    @portalwake97625 ай бұрын

    I went through stage 1, 2 and 3 recently. I didn't really talk to friends about her, I was too anxious but also a little embarrassed. Actually, I don't know, I couldn't think straight 😂 I didn't really know my crush well, but I still got so excited when she sent me messages. I've never had feelings as strong as this, so most of the time I didn't really know how I felt, plus I had crippling anxiety, partly because of the crushing. Even before the infatuation or before I was aware of it, I had this huge urge to tell her how I felt. When I still wasn't sure, I kept complimenting her. Then, she was all I could think about, I couldn't concentrate on anything else, so I told her everything. She told me I'm an amazing person but she has her heart set on someone else and thought we could just be friends. I just felt so sad and depressed. I knew she wasn't perfect - but she felt perfect to me. Someone so beautiful, kind, supportive, friendly, caring, humble... It hurt so much. I knew it wasn't love, but I was hoping we could be in a relationship, to find out if we could love each other. I don't like to wait to ask someone out until I fall in love, I would do it as soon as I can, just in case they like me back and it turns into love later. If we don't like each other anymore, that's that. Right now, I'm not as sad but my feelings are still lingering slightly. I still dream of being with my crush. I want to be friends with her since we got on so well before I told her. We still talk to each other but she doesn't always respond to me in person, mainly if I'm complimenting her work. She hasn't been responding to my texts recently either. I'm trying not to push it, I want to know what's best and I want to know how she feels about me so I don't feel so awkward trying to think of when to talk to her and what to say, but I was told I should just leave it. It already hurts that we can't be partners but I'm slowly starting to accept that, it'll hurt even more if we can't be friends, she's such a nice person!

  • @eruditewitcheverdeen
    @eruditewitcheverdeen3 жыл бұрын

    Yuz having a crush seems nice, but imagine actually being someone's crush. You know, giving them butterflies and making them see the world with a more beautiful perspective. lol

  • @phoenixbright7710

    @phoenixbright7710

    3 жыл бұрын

    and thinking what to do about it when you are not attracted to them

  • @patsonical

    @patsonical

    3 жыл бұрын

    I have quite a powerful imagination, but this is the one thing on Earth I can't imagine.

  • @daimondplayz3775

    @daimondplayz3775

    3 жыл бұрын

    I never thought about this...but I know it's not possible lol

  • @thiccchungo1041

    @thiccchungo1041

    3 жыл бұрын

    “Like that’s ever going to happen”

  • @1224thetami

    @1224thetami

    3 жыл бұрын

    Cant relate

  • @lickyro1234
    @lickyro12343 жыл бұрын

    How is nobody talking about how SMOOTH the animation was

  • @thegoods7011

    @thegoods7011

    3 жыл бұрын

    it's actually not that smooth. but, it was still pretty good

  • @wowoyoyo524

    @wowoyoyo524

    3 жыл бұрын

    bc it wasn't

  • @annymus4502

    @annymus4502

    3 жыл бұрын

    Because it wasn’t? It was literally tweening?

  • @lickyro1234

    @lickyro1234

    Жыл бұрын

    hello me from the future the animation was in fact not that smooth strange how im back to the same video two years later though...

  • @marcuspangregrewmusicofficial
    @marcuspangregrewmusicofficial8 ай бұрын

    This just made me cry man...

  • @phantomjaddie7851
    @phantomjaddie78512 жыл бұрын

    My stages: 1. Denial 2. More Denial 3. Realizing then denying 4. Questioning whether I like them or just overreacting 5. Realizing 6. Trying to forget that feeling 7. Slow Acceptance 8. Planning to tell them to let it out but backs out 9. Accepting and planning to tell them in the future-

  • @dudududuuuuu6011

    @dudududuuuuu6011

    2 жыл бұрын

    Future…. What a beautiful word. For me it’s like very very far away🫠

  • @nikkiskaleidoscope3053

    @nikkiskaleidoscope3053

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m like, the denial queen for some reason 🙄

  • @ahanafakun8510

    @ahanafakun8510

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thats my current situation

  • @evaelenahincapie2539

    @evaelenahincapie2539

    2 жыл бұрын

    OMG YES OMG ONG

  • @phantomjaddie7851

    @phantomjaddie7851

    2 жыл бұрын

    ngl a day or 2 after commenting this- I confessed- and then he was like "Phase 1 complete" ... like bro- wtf?!- I am a huge overthinker so here I am still thinking whether he was serious about him liking me or just playing me 🙂

  • @myasmeltedoreo245
    @myasmeltedoreo2452 жыл бұрын

    I’ve had a crush on my best friend for a while, and recently she told me she liked me too. For us though, we’re actually in love with each other. Guess what? I finally asked her out yesterday and she said yes! Edit: Thank you guys so much for all the love ❤️ I appreciate it! And yes we’re doing great! 😇 Just note that the right person/people will come along eventually, you just have to wait. Good luck! 👍 Another Edit: As requested by a person in my comment section, you are all invited to my wedding even though it’d be many years down the line 😂

  • @spookyspikes6576

    @spookyspikes6576

    2 жыл бұрын

    Soooo happy for you!!!

  • @myasmeltedoreo245

    @myasmeltedoreo245

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@spookyspikes6576 Aww thank you!🤗

  • @lee-heedayan

    @lee-heedayan

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yesss!!!!! I’m so happy for you

  • @deepxenon69

    @deepxenon69

    2 жыл бұрын

    Good job maaaan

  • @myasmeltedoreo245

    @myasmeltedoreo245

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@deepxenon69 I’m a girl but thank you😂❤️

  • @JMPRD171
    @JMPRD1718 ай бұрын

    You're voice has always been so soothing and you're videos explain so much.

  • @majapuenktchen
    @majapuenktchen7 ай бұрын

    I'm aromantic and I think this video helped me to understand how having a chrush/loving someone feels like

  • @Zeliktric
    @Zeliktric3 жыл бұрын

    My stages: 1) person compliments or says something nice 2) I think they like me 3) i start liking them back 4) i try to engage more with them 5) i realise they actually dont like me 6) i continue liking them T_T

  • @chachathepigeon

    @chachathepigeon

    3 жыл бұрын

    OMG! Same!

  • @areebahnawar7048

    @areebahnawar7048

    3 жыл бұрын

    daeng right

  • @mollymichalak5130

    @mollymichalak5130

    3 жыл бұрын

    I only like someone if I think they like me back 🥲

  • @agusttea8615
    @agusttea86152 жыл бұрын

    Incoming rant: I feel like a crush can end without a relationship and still feel good. Unrequited love, as some call it, is such a beautiful thing. Social media makes us believe that if a crush ends without a relationship it was tragic, but I think the idea of having a crush in and of itself is not tragic at all, even if it ends without a spark. There’s something so pure about the idea of having your entire day made by simply brushing shoulders with that special person or feeling euphoric when they smile. Sometimes you might even go out of your way to see them, whether it’d be going down a different hallway at school or going somewhere you’ll know you’ll find them. Not to mention the urge to better yourself so they’ll notice you. You might start working out more or dressing up better. It’s funny to think about how us humans try to woo other people we like. It’s even better when the other person doesn’t know that you like them! It really goes to show how we impact others without even knowing it. Who knows? Maybe someone is crushing on you too. Maybe someone admires your smile from afar and goes out of their way to bump into you. Maybe you’re that special person they think about when they watch these kinds of videos. And maybe one day they’ll look back on their life at one point and an image of you will pop up in their head. Even 20 years from now, you can be the cause of someone to smile and not know it. See what I mean? One sided love is not always tragic. That special spark is one that, unlike many relationships, will last a lifetime.

  • @simbodu8662

    @simbodu8662

    2 жыл бұрын

    Then why am I dead inside?

  • @ojeinoway6968

    @ojeinoway6968

    2 жыл бұрын

    This honestly made my day

  • @kyreine

    @kyreine

    2 жыл бұрын

    im crying why did this hit so hard as someone whos had a hopeless crush for 4 years until quarantine started and is now possibly regaining feelings again, reading this made me happy :,) ily

  • @agusttea8615

    @agusttea8615

    2 жыл бұрын

    @SAM STROMBERG I’m glad it got you thinking :)

  • @agusttea8615

    @agusttea8615

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@kyreine You were definitely meant to see this then! No matter the outcome of your crush, try to look at your feelings in a positive light instead of stressing over them. It will make everything much easier :) Good luck !!

  • @potatoextreme4252
    @potatoextreme4252Ай бұрын

    Having a crush is like the most horrible cat and mouse game ever, but simultaneously kinda nice.

  • @El_Stylinson
    @El_Stylinson8 ай бұрын

    I’ve had the same crush for 3 years. We talk all the time. 1st year I liked him I told him. He friend zoned me. Second year I liked him. I told him over text. He kinda ignored it. 3rd year I liked him. I texted him. That was tonight Now I have a boyfriend! 🥺❤❤❤❤