6 Ways You're Over-Pursuing Women

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We often hear from women & society that men are the "chasers" & that women want to be chased by a man, but is that really the truth?
In this Attraction Tips video I'm going to be discussing 6 ways that you're over-pursuing women, or chasing them, that's actually leading to being rejected.
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  • @SkillofAttraction
    @SkillofAttraction Жыл бұрын

    For questions to be answered in the comments, please give a "super thanks" or head over to my website & ask there. 𝕊𝕜𝕚𝕝𝕝 𝕆𝕗 𝔸𝕥𝕥𝕣𝕒𝕔𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟 Men's Social Advice Community: soa.fm Private relationship/dating coaching: soa.fm/dating-relationship-coaching/ Questions or feedback: soa.fm/contact/ Get Your Ex Back: 45dayreattraction.com ✔ SOA APPROVED COACHING PROGRAMS 𝗙𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗱𝘀 𝗪𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗕𝗲𝗻𝗲𝗳𝗶𝘁𝘀 How To Get A Sex Buddy: bit.ly/3Mitohu 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗦𝗰𝗿𝗮𝗺𝗯𝗹𝗲𝗿 Turn a Girl Friend into a Girlfriend: bit.ly/3Kf9EJt

  • @nisanalt9804

    @nisanalt9804

    Жыл бұрын

    ב. י😂 מלף2

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nisanalt9804 I don't know what that means...

  • @nisanalt9804

    @nisanalt9804

    Жыл бұрын

    @@SkillofAttraction sorry by mistake

  • @nisanalt9804

    @nisanalt9804

    Жыл бұрын

    You are grate realationship coach

  • @miltonpowell9520
    @miltonpowell9520 Жыл бұрын

    Facts, love this video ♥️

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks, man!

  • @Mr.Miyagi_
    @Mr.Miyagi_ Жыл бұрын

    Hey Erik, just posting a reminder for you to make a video on the toxic state of dating and covert narcissist. Hope you have a great day!

  • @annettesallee2209
    @annettesallee220911 ай бұрын

    You are so GOOD!!!!!!

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    11 ай бұрын

    Thank you very much!

  • @Iwillroastthesocksoffyoass
    @Iwillroastthesocksoffyoass Жыл бұрын

    I don't pursue women, I pursue money.

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    Жыл бұрын

    Good! Just know that if you want women you'll have to initiate.

  • @jasonwalter8636

    @jasonwalter8636

    11 ай бұрын

    And yet you still have a major void in your life. What a shock

  • @giovannij1368

    @giovannij1368

    3 күн бұрын

    Well why are you watching this then, broski?

  • @da835t
    @da835t Жыл бұрын

    Goes to show the "one and done" philosophy is how it should be done. I know the majority of men ask women out twice but I feel like she already knows so there's no need to repeat. She will have to chase me because it's done after that first time I ask you out.

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    Жыл бұрын

    You have to keep in mind that women often live in uncertainty & need to see a little persistence from you before they go all in. You're expected to take the lead as a man. You just have to be cognizant of the signals she's sending you so you know whether or not try again. I always recommend giving it a shot twice, but if you get rejected or have a negative experience twice in a row, then stop 100% & more or less tell her the door is open & turn your attention elsewhere.

  • @davidthomspson9771
    @davidthomspson97719 ай бұрын

    Not pursuing.. I've given up

  • @antoniobarnes694
    @antoniobarnes694 Жыл бұрын

    I need to find that one about Concentrating too much on a relationship I think I blew any chance with any woman I’ve had a shot with by doing that.

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    Жыл бұрын

    When I mention other videos I list them in the description down below & at the end of the video. But here's the video you're looking for: kzread.info/dash/bejne/pmGEqcSOn5ecYs4.html

  • @nukemaniac123
    @nukemaniac123 Жыл бұрын

    Went out on two dates with a girl. Only texted to set up dates and the dates were once a week. The second date was on a Wednesday and we went out and she was all over me making out and everything and she opened up to me about herself but it was too late at night to do anything as we had work the next day so I sent her on her way (I should have pulled the trigger earlier in the night). She always texts me after the date. On that second date she was really wanting to see me Friday night so I agreed. When she sent her after date text late at night I (stupidly) replied that night with trying to set the details. She never replied and then Friday afternoon she said she had to cancel because she was not feeling well. I said no problem, reach out to me when you’re feeling better and she said okay I will do that. Now, (stupidly) I couldn’t resist and hit her up on Tuesday the next week trying to set a date for later in the week. She said she had finals next week but she would be free next weekend (not this weekend). I (stupidly) sent a voice note (with a flirty tone) trying to plan something later in the week. She said mmmm I’ll have to put some thought into that. I never replied but I am just going to sit back now because I know I’m coming off as needy. Should I hit her up next week or wait two weeks or just move on and set something up if she reaches out?

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    Жыл бұрын

    Please see the pinned comment.

  • @davidquinn7390
    @davidquinn7390 Жыл бұрын

    so i was friends w this girl and we had been on and off liking each other and then back to friends. for the first time we decided to try dating and it went on for ab a month and i pulled away bc i was afraid of commitment. now that she’s gone i realized i messed up and i want her back.. she said she wants to be friends again and if something happens in the future then we can get back together. is there any hope for me?

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    Жыл бұрын

    Please see my pinned comment.

  • @arifsiddique543
    @arifsiddique543 Жыл бұрын

    What should I do, at starting she was over pursuing me, waking me whole night to talk, crying for me without reason, and now she is not even trying anything, she is been toxic. I Told her many time about this but she's been same and making excuses, i left her but she came back and told me i am not able to manage things, than all goes normal for some day's and than she start been toxic again

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    Жыл бұрын

    Please see my pinned comment.

  • @tothepoint4080
    @tothepoint4080 Жыл бұрын

    Just the way i like it

  • @solge178
    @solge17810 ай бұрын

    I can see the point in everything you are saying but bro sometimes it feels so much work to just keep a girl. I mean , what kind of relationship will that be if you cant see her that often due to fear of being taken as granted ?

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    10 ай бұрын

    The idea is to fill your life with pursuing goals, hobbies & a social life. A woman is supposed to be a complement to a man's life, not the focus of it.

  • @solge178

    @solge178

    10 ай бұрын

    @@SkillofAttraction I mean the whole point , atleast in my eyes , of being a successfull man is to have enough "power" and resources to create a proper family in the future with a decent woman. Whats the point of having money or a good job if you cant fully enjoy the company of a lady ?

  • @mfran025
    @mfran025 Жыл бұрын

    Is there any research that pertains to whether men should smile or not smile when it comes to dating app photos?

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    Жыл бұрын

    There is, but it's mixed. OKCupid's research says you should not smile, but Photofeeler (a great place to test your photos btw) says OKC's research is wrong & they found the opposite to be true.

  • @mfran025

    @mfran025

    Жыл бұрын

    @@SkillofAttraction thank you sir! As always you have my support and keep up the great work

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mfran025 Thank you!

  • @Florida_gyrl
    @Florida_gyrl11 ай бұрын

    I wish more men knew this!

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    11 ай бұрын

    Hopefully as many men as possible see it, because you're right...many men NEED to see this!

  • @adon1685
    @adon1685 Жыл бұрын

    My neighbor and i bumped into each other in the elevator after a fast chat she asked to exchange numbers...2 days later she came to my place we had dinner and unbelievable sex...the day after she said was busy and then the day after she messaged me in the morning then i called her so she said ill call you back and never did so few hours later tried to ask her to come to my place at night but she said she finish work late and she gonna sleep today no contact from both sides...is she ghosting me or just playing around...what should my next step be?

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    Жыл бұрын

    Perhaps she just wanted some casual sex. This sorta thing often surprises men, because society implies that women are not really into sex that much, but that's not true. That, or you're behaving too eagerly & clingy. You've now asked her to get together twice & both times she turned you down with excuses. I don't recommend asking her anymore. Don't ignore her or act passive aggressive towards her. Remain upbeat when you see/talk to her & let her mention getting together again.

  • @adon1685

    @adon1685

    Жыл бұрын

    @@SkillofAttraction hello again and thanks for your response...i got a text from here today(after a no contact period) and she asking to meet this week and to hang out with our kids because both of us have the same days when our kids are with us...do you have any special thoughts on this?

  • @adon1685

    @adon1685

    Жыл бұрын

    Any tips??

  • @dronetheworld4k67
    @dronetheworld4k67 Жыл бұрын

    Your attraction link on your website is giving error 404

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the heads up. It's fixed now.

  • @dronetheworld4k67

    @dronetheworld4k67

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@SkillofAttraction ok but now it says: Google reCAPTCHA verification failed, please try again later. when am trying to contact you !... plz help... thanks,

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    Жыл бұрын

    @@dronetheworld4k67 If you're trying to contact me to ask advice, then I suggest you post it on the website or book an appointment for coaching. If you have any other questions just send it to attractionskills @ gmail.com

  • @dronetheworld4k67

    @dronetheworld4k67

    Жыл бұрын

    @@SkillofAttraction yes my question was regarding coaching

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    Жыл бұрын

    @@dronetheworld4k67 Okay. Please send me a direct email to the address I provided & I will get back to asap.

  • @Suspect333
    @Suspect333 Жыл бұрын

    Wow women have this shit easy lol i wish i didn't have to do anything

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    Жыл бұрын

    I never said women don't have to do anything. I'm just teaching men what turns women on & what turns them off. Over-pursuing them turns them off.

  • @Suspect333

    @Suspect333

    Жыл бұрын

    @@SkillofAttraction Do a video on what women gotta do then

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Suspect333 Why? This channel is for men.

  • @Suspect333

    @Suspect333

    11 ай бұрын

    @@SkillofAttraction understanding the womans side would help

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    11 ай бұрын

    @@Suspect333 I explain what happens to women when you chase her. If you want men complaining about women there are plenty of channels for that. Plus I can't tell you what your boundaries should be.

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