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@fakename8856

Ай бұрын

Coffee isn’t a “date”, but it’s a great place to meet a woman and see if she might be worth going on a real date after getting to know her a bit. Almost never do I ask a woman on an actual date because most women aren’t worth knowing.

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

@@fakename8856 Of course it's a date. What you're saying is the definition of a date.

@fakename8856

Ай бұрын

Women need to actually EARN a date, coffee is more like a screening process type of meeting. Dates are when the man takes the woman out for more than an hour, coffee is brief on purpose.

First one is clearly still single, and we can all see why. She's happy proving her point to herself, so leave her alone - win/win. Second one, sheesh I had to mute it. She's physically attractive still yet the moment she opened her mouth we could all see why she's single and getting bitter.

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

Yeah, I was on the fence about even using the second girl, because she's so annoying & shrill...

The first girl had a tattoo on her wrist which is a huge red flag for me. Plus on a scale of 10 with 5 being average she is a 3.5. If a girl agrees to a first coffee date with enthusiasm that is a good start. Shows some signs of humility which is good. The second girl is, yes, annoying, and probably after experiencing a high body count in her teens and twenties is hitting the '30' wall and is frustrated. Stay away from her.

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

I think you nailed it on everything...

That first chick with the beaver teeth really thinks she's something else.

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

I'm baffled by that as well...

@mattburke5491

Ай бұрын

@@SkillofAttractionher delusional standards keep her single. That and her friends.

@kyleharr10

15 күн бұрын

Yea and her nose is gross you can see up her nose 🤮

The man is ALWAYS the villain.

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

Of course, or otherwise it be something she did wrong & women are never wrong....or responsible. 😂

I am a women. That first lady is crazy. Coffee dates are a good way to just talk and see if you get along in time. The majority of dates my parents had gone on were coffee dates, talking for hours. They have been married now for 45 years. Need I say more?

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

Exactly! Same with my parents...& they've been married over 55 years!

I've spent so much money on first dates inviting women to dinner. Dozens of'em, by far most of which went nowhere 🙈 Never again! No more dinner invitations before the 3rd date. If she insists on dinner on the first date you know she's a golddigger, like these egocentric and aggressive women in the video. My current girlfriend was happy to go for a coffee with me on our first date. Love your videos and your work! Greetings from Germany ☀️

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

That's much better way to handle it. A good way to look at it is that you don't give her girlfriend treatment until she's your girlfriend...

It’s a great way to test women in my opinion.

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

Absolutely!

Coffee dates spare you time, money and energy from: 4:49 YES! Well said! Respect! 👌

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

Yes, many women believe that just being a woman is enough & men should be thankful for any crumb of attention women give them. Apparently the don't realize that they chase after the men who don't fall into line.

Keep knocking 'em down, coach!

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

Thanks, man!

Coffee dates are perfectly fine. You can go on a walk in a parc so it creates momentum and opportunites for small talk and you don't have to sit awkwardly feeling trapped. Also, it filters good and interested women

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

Absolutely! 💯

If they don’t put much effort in, in the beginning, they probably never will. $75-$100 is to much for a meal. Keep it under $25

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

The way I teach things, there's a slow escalation. You have to build tension & anticipation or she'll lose interest. Giving it your all from the get-go always ends up backfiring later.

@nolagospeltracts8264

Ай бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction I made the mistake of making some chick I just started dating a mix CD (remember those?) Things went south pretty quick after that.

@megalodon1726

Ай бұрын

False. You don't start at the top of the mountain. Effort and expense escalate over time. Men will take their wife or long-term girlfriend on vacations to Hawaii or Europe, but won't do that for a woman they met last week. The first date is not the top of the hill; it's a starting point and things go up from there.

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

@@nolagospeltracts8264 Hey, I used to make mix TAPES. But yeah, that's a bit too much, too soon.

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

@@megalodon1726 Exactly!

I'am wondering why men have left the cotton fields. Great vid coach.

@SkillofAttraction

29 күн бұрын

Thanks, man!

Also if you dont click then spending a lot of time together eating is hell so a short coffee date is just better.

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

Exactly!

Coach you’re the man but omg I wish some people didn’t have a voice on social media.. these women are influencing others and it’s not good. Yikes… MUTE!

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

Exactly! They're hurting younger women with their very flawed "advice".

Simping ain’t easy 😂

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

True. Simping is all about bending over backwards & jumping through hoops for just a few crumbs.

A 20 year old guy may be in school and not have any money.

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

Yeah, don't pay attention to them. As long as you make the experience fun any decent woman isn't going to care how much you spend.

oh man that second woman is irritating

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

Yes, she is!

@theoeguia3302

Ай бұрын

I had to Skip it.

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

@@theoeguia3302 Honestly, I don't blame you.

….just wants enjoy your money rather than your company.

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

For these girls, yes. That's not usually the case though.

Are these girls for real? Who cares how much he spends. I’ll buy my own cookie! It’s not about that. Someone’s gotta shut these women down before they get to our youth🤨

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

Agreed! Unfortunately their opinion is a growing one online.

If I met a great guy that I got a long with, I'd want to be with you

@SkillofAttraction

29 күн бұрын

Exactly! I tell men that if she really likes you, she's not going to care where she's taken on a date (within reason of course).

Coffee dates are not really dates?? What do you expect ? You want to go out for drinks? which guys want to get you drunk and have sex with them on the first date? Uh. don't want to spend a lot of money on the date and dating stinks!

@SkillofAttraction

29 күн бұрын

A growing number of women online believe that a coffee date is not good enough for a first date.

These Chics all they want is a FoodieDate Seriously! SMH. Get your Passports! Lets Go! Godspeed!

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

"Foodie call" ...that's what the media has dubbed the act of women using men for free dinners.

Show up early……buy your coffee ……let her buy her own coffee when she arrives.

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

I recommend springing for a cup of coffee...

First Date meet in a parked car at a nice location....see where it goes..if she likes you BINGO!!

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

I'd meet in a parked car in a dark alley... 😃