its 70% divorce rate among my friends. 7 out of 10 friends are divorced.

@financial_quickies5737

Жыл бұрын

Stop telling your friends that u can do better

@jonjonboi3701

Жыл бұрын

It is true that the divorce rates are high but it isn’t as high as many people think

@RedPillExamined

Жыл бұрын

You need new friends.

@armyparrot9353

3 ай бұрын

Same here I thought he was going to say it's higher. I agree about who has a greater chance. But in real life it is RARE to see a couple over 30 years married. I know a few very close to me and half are together just for the kids and finances.

@armyparrot9353

3 ай бұрын

I think it is higher. Based on family, friends and people I know in Canada. I would like to see where he is getting the starts.

Yeah, please trust a divorce attorney and get married....after all, we know how little they benefit from the meat grinder known as the divorce machine.

@knovafly6879

2 жыл бұрын

😂

@uhmeizuhngralphf0549

2 жыл бұрын

😂🤣

The funniest part about all of this is that 50% is literally the number in my personal life. Me and my closest cousin sat down and did the math. We've been to 24 family weddings during our 32 years of existence. 12 of those couples aren't married anymore.

@OneTequilaTwoTequila

Жыл бұрын

Mine is like 70%. I'm 55 and single. All my friends are broke af because of ridiculous court rulings awarding 60% of my friends' net worth to useless women that were just waitresses or flight attendants. One of my friends caught his wife in bed with another man. She got 70%.

@keyhimself3542

Жыл бұрын

@@OneTequilaTwoTequila Behind every walmart greeter is a divorcee who took half

@anomaly9156

Жыл бұрын

I've been to around probably more than 50+ marriages. I only know 1 person that divorce ld my uncle and he lives in us.

@keyhimself3542

Жыл бұрын

@@anomaly9156 You have to also add the people who are miserable marriages but are afraid to get divorced

@armyparrot9353

3 ай бұрын

Same I think it is closer to 60%. And those that remain married are mostly together for the kids and finances. And really not happy together.

It's in your best interest that people get married, that's for sure.

@mgtowoutlaw6950

2 жыл бұрын

No no it's not

@cobrakingkai

2 жыл бұрын

@@mgtowoutlaw6950 I think he means the guy in the video.

@mgtowoutlaw6950

2 жыл бұрын

@@cobrakingkai possibly

@Islandfist

Жыл бұрын

Lol, i was thinking the same thing.

@monas

Жыл бұрын

How so? He is not live forever. And every person who get divorce in the future is not gonna go to him

Im still not getting married.

A divorce attorney doesn't want people to get divorced?

@SteamedBunXKuro

2 жыл бұрын

No. He doesn't want people become afraid of marrying. After all, he make money when people divorce.

@introvert8637

2 жыл бұрын

Cops say they don't want people to go to prison but ain't that how they get paid?

Old Amish Preacher's saying, " your first wife is from God; your second wife is from the people; while your third wife is from the devil." These days, not necessarily in that order. Nuff sed.

@giorgioc8263

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly …think the third one is actually the one from God lol

California has a divorce rating of 75% according the divorce lawyers website. Other things to consider, marriage rates (which are going lower and lower) and religious culture (not bound by Government.

You didn't cite in your video, your description, your comments, the data you claim that shows that it's not 50%. Where is the data that you are saying is more positive, coming from ?

@jonjonboi3701

Жыл бұрын

Well he is speaking truth that it is misinformation

What's scary isn't the divorce rate but the dwindling rate of marriage. It was highest on average in the 40's around 12-13% with a high in '46 of 16.4% I believe which was likely due to post WW2. The most recent data shows it at 6.5%. So while divorce numbers are actually at an all time low, it's purely due to the all time low marriage rate.

@davidfrey5654

Жыл бұрын

and that fact that people living together while unmarried has become more accepted in our society.

@Mike_Daddy

Жыл бұрын

@davidfrey5654 So my wife and I lived together for a year before getting married, and I would actually credit that time as beneficial in preparing us for learning how to perpetually cohabitate. I got to see that part of married life in sharing everything with someone.

@boston312

Жыл бұрын

nothing scary about it. Its called enlightenment. Men finally learned from the mistakes of previous generations.

@boston312

Жыл бұрын

@@Mike_Daddy you do understand that you signed a contract with the government and state when you signed that marriage paper? The lawyers, gov and state will force you to hand over your money as they see fit in the case of a divorce.

@Mike_Daddy

Жыл бұрын

@boston312 Which is why I won't ever divorce because I chose wisely. I chose a person with ethics, values, and determination to never give up because marriage is hard work. Using "the government" as an excuse to never marry is a cope imo.

The truth is that the overall divorce rate for any number of times getting married is over 60% and that doesn’t include the rest that are unhappy that stay in a marriage. That’s the reality. No reason to even take a chance to find out. The single life with occasionally dating or being in a long-term, but not married, relationship is the best in my opinion. 👌🏻

@ooooswain

Жыл бұрын

I think the biggest problem with marriage in the US, is people do it because it's expected of them. Most people aren't marrying because they believe they've found the one, they're marrying because they're getting older and it's abnormal to not be married by a certain age. I worked in the wedding industry for years and I'd say about 50% of the couples I worked for are now divorced. It was also obvious to me many people marry for the wrong reasons. I will get married if I ever feel like I really want to spend the rest of my life with someone, but I'm not getting married just because I'm 35.

@kingrobotnik6950

Жыл бұрын

@@ooooswain I hope to find someone. Ikno for many 28 is still golden years for single. I’ve never liked being single honestly but I’ve been in a few “gross” relationships and it made me realize, i need to prepare better.

@Super-yw7ss

10 ай бұрын

I’m almost 50 and let me say, I love being single, marriage in the USA is dead, forget it, just live with them, why have the courts in your life, if she is of this country why are you marrying her/him???

@armyparrot9353

3 ай бұрын

Totally agree. I would see even long term relationships for men are mostly not beneficial aside from cosr reduction. We all know familiarity breeds contempt and less sex from women. Some lucky guys do find a woman that is totally on board with their lifestyle, but it is rarer and rarer....now there is a constant power struggle to get one's needs met. In part thanks to feminism.

It’s roughly 40-45 percent for first marriages. 60 percent for second marriages and 75-80 percent for third marriages.

@BrownFamilyLawDivorceAttorneys

2 жыл бұрын

You’re literally just making up stats. Never even been close to those numbers ever in the history of America.

@alex124241

2 жыл бұрын

@@BrownFamilyLawDivorceAttorneys so what is it then?

@BrownFamilyLawDivorceAttorneys

2 жыл бұрын

I address it in other videos. Check them out.

@BrownFamilyLawDivorceAttorneys

2 жыл бұрын

@@iminheaven3505 because you know a small subset of people, probably mostly of one political party, one socio-economic group, one culture, etc. Your subset does not dictate actual reality.

@marcoeats8660

2 жыл бұрын

@@iminheaven3505, yes, about 70% of divorces are initiated by women. But, that doesn’t mean the women have broke in the marriage, that simply means they filed first. I personally think there’s a fair amount of sex more for that goes on that is wholly detrimental to marriage. It comes from both the ultra feminist camp, as well as the reactionary masculine side. The idea that the other sex is a problem is horribly detrimental to human beings in general, and marriage in particular.

I’m never getting married

"Divorces is not ubiquitous" -Says a Professional Divorce Attorney

Lawyer don't take statistics unless in a undergrad business program or STEM program. Most lawyers have a history or english degree.

@samuelbekele3601

Жыл бұрын

Not relevant. First time divorce rate is about 40 percent. This number can be reduced by marrying someone who has good mental health. This number can also be reduced by marrying a person with the same belief system. Athiests have some of the lowest divorce rates in America for example. An Athiest marrying a Christian leads to a constant mental state of conflict. Families will turn on one another.

@CatotheE

4 ай бұрын

@@samuelbekele3601 The Amish and Hindus have the lowest. I doubt atheism is keeping a marriage together.

Also risk of divorce is elevated if you simply fall out of the 25-32 marital age sweet spot. If you’re below 23 risk increases moderately and increases a lot if you’re below 20/21

Divorce attorneys look at marriage as inventory!!!

Note: Divorce Attorneys aren’t going to pay your alimony for you. Be wise.

Roughly similar income and lifestyle requirements. Same religious worldview. No kiddos without planning.

It's 44% for 1st marriage. I saw bureau of labor showed educated couples have a 29% divorce rate, even higher if they make a good salary. Can you explain why? For uneducated couples divorce rate is 56%.

Personality disorder is painful for the carrier and the one aroud him. Loving someone with personality disorder and seeing that person self destroy is a sad sight. Hopefully I've never been with a narcissist or a psychopath yet. I'll do my best to avoid those two extrem.

I agree it's MUCH HIGHER!

Mr. Brown: please get married so I have job security and can help you with your divorce.

All you have to do is a sample of a population sample using the delta formulas and others to see that the divorce rate is closer to 70% or more. And that's just the cases filed we are not talking about separations ect.

So as a man who changes most of my beliefs, values, and spirituality, and behaviors constantly marriage sounds like the worst thing I can do.

Can you actually give us a source for this claim that about 70% of marriages last a lifetime?

If I'm under 20 years old when I get divorced my chance of getting divorced is elevated? 🤔 Dang I would have thought that meant it was 100%

I think the more concerning aspect of divorce than its probability is its severity.

The divorce attorney knows!

100% of people who got divorced, got married. Don't get married. They also wore shoes. Don't wear shoes

You left out if you are a young attractive woman working around alot of high earning males while your husband is in grad school you have a high likelihood of divorce. Let's just stick to the numbers. Thank you

If it continues there will be no system called family

@edgar22452

Жыл бұрын

Oh well! Marriage isn't what it's cracked up to be.

@praveenpinacle3753

Жыл бұрын

@@edgar22452 without system called family future will be just like matrix movie , government will manufacture humans and allot department according to their talent

@edgar22452

Жыл бұрын

@@praveenpinacle3753 Well thank feminism for that. That's what destroyed traditional families. Besides not everyone is meant to reproduce bucko.

@kingrobotnik6950

Жыл бұрын

@@praveenpinacle3753 we need these fellas steppin up and these women back in the kitchen. That’ll fix this right on up.

Good advice at the end. 💯

This ain’t a myth, I know 10 people alone at my job who’ve gotten into a divorce and they are all severely crippled by it, it’s enough to make me stay clean away from marriage

@blacklyfe5543

10 ай бұрын

It's a myth

@MyNamesHunter75

20 күн бұрын

How many people work at your job, what's the average education between all of them and in your town, did they get married young, same race or mixed race couple, different or same political and religious beliefs were they faithful, either of them have any issues with mental health, how often were they intimate, how many kids do they have, did they want them? what's their wage, did they own a house, did they live together before getting married, how long were they married, etc, etc. These are all things that play into it as it's different for everyone statistics are based on smaller sample sizes and are heavily skewed based on the area where they are done and people lie. Your experience with 10 people having been divorced means nothing the job you are in can even play a part in it. Most people I know are clinically depressed or have been diagnosed with autism doesn't mean everyone is in fact autism is extremely rare and clinical depression is also very low. People tend to gravity towards those similar to them or different enough to make them interesting to the other person to engage personal experience is not fact statistics are not fact and aren't accurate the same way a polygraph test is not admissable in court. It's hard to prove the actual accuracy of these things because so many factors have to be accounted for that it's impossible to get an actual concrete idea of what divorce rates are given how vastly different people tend to be in most aspects of their life

not 50% maybe 100% percent hehe

Source: Trust me bro.

U r right, i work with numbers. All theses stats worldwide are rubbish.

So everyone in my family is crazy then, none of em can hold a marriage for more than 20 years lmao

Great info. Thanks for sharing. Awesome advice too.

All you did was mention words like "elevated" or "characteristics" without a statistical number to counter the 50% argument. You didn't help any. We can talk about hard numbers such as divorce filings where women file 70% of divorce proceedings.

It's more like 60%

Divorce rate in india is 1% get an advise from an Indian for this.

@davidfrey5654

Жыл бұрын

But how many live like roommates rather than passionate soulmates?

@gsxr1189

11 ай бұрын

Indiana is one of the 5 states that reports their marriage rate to the Federal government but not their divorce rate because it's extremely high.

Sorry but i call cap 🧢 on all of this. This is wishful thinking rather than reality. Percentages are more around 60-70% chance of divorce

With approximately 330,000,000 Americans, you R one person. I don't believe you. I believe what I see. All around me people are divorced multiple times. People have wandering eyes and are ruled by youth and physical beauty. From rocket scientists to sanitation workers, only they know the reasons why they lose interest in their spouse.

@Ikaros23

6 ай бұрын

1: New shiny object fallacy. They think the new feelings is going to last. But it won`t 2: Their partner may have lost interest in sex, so they feel alienated, lonely 3: Their partner may have personality dissorders like narcissism or other toxic traits 4: They get brainwashed by media to think magicaly. That life should in reality be a constant euphoric high. When in reality life is about handling " discomfort" like boredom, stress and so on in a mature way. You can see on the people who think that life should be a " adventure" that they never grow up, and never feel content. And that they soon get bored with their spouse. Then get divorced to later get divorced again for the exact same reasons. That is they are fools. My conclusion is that this game is alot like the stock market most people lose, and can`t handle the swings. Or they get fooled by randomness. The trick is to find a mature partner and " stick with it".

R U DIVORCED?

Unless your Christian’s/religious maybe marry???

DISLIKE Yeah right, you want me to marry and then get Divorced And then extract fees and money from me... You are pushing men to marry becuase you want those Divorces in the future, you want job security. Nice move, future proofing you job.. Sorry bud I will never marry !!

Great video

If you are going to dispute this how about giving an actual number, all you said is it isn’t 50%. You talked about lot about characteristics but shared no metrics. Your argument was so basic it is just based on authority. I come from a STEM science background not something ambiguous like law. Anyone who reads can know law not everyone who reads can be an engineer.

Normal people? Lol…

Mathew 19

Jew.

Complete bullshit. From personal experience, 70-75 percent of couples don't stay together.

MGTW all the way

@limitless1692

Жыл бұрын

Indeed :) stay single stay free brother :)

To solve this problem just don't get married

I love these advices. Love is everything