5 Words Gentlemen Never Say (What to say to sound classier)

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  • @AndyD89
    @AndyD89 Жыл бұрын

    The blind leading the blind here…..

  • @MayaHendsenmayajs19442

    @MayaHendsenmayajs19442

    Жыл бұрын

    Cry

  • @DavyDave1313
    @DavyDave1313 Жыл бұрын

    Don’t say garbage. Say gar baj.

  • @AyushSharma-xh5cz

    @AyushSharma-xh5cz

    Жыл бұрын

    Don't say "Italy", Say "I tally"

  • @skipskops
    @skipskops Жыл бұрын

    You should always say pardon....never say what.

  • @KeefsCattys

    @KeefsCattys

    Жыл бұрын

    'What' is only right if you are not being friendly or you are rude..

  • @jonsidds6963
    @jonsidds6963 Жыл бұрын

    Being raised as a Southern Gentleman, we say pardon.

  • @barnastil591

    @barnastil591

    10 ай бұрын

    Damn right.

  • @jameshendrix349
    @jameshendrix349 Жыл бұрын

    How about “ where’s the shitter?

  • @brothercinnamon2479

    @brothercinnamon2479

    Жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣

  • @attemptingwit
    @attemptingwit Жыл бұрын

    😂 Don’t say pardon? Say what? It’s most certainly considered rude to say ‘what?’. The majority of people in the UK are working class and in these circles ‘pardon’ is polite and respectful - which is not to be underestimated. ‘What?’ however is considered rude and as Tatler tells us “…although accepted high-born wisdom tells us that ‘what’ is the way forward, we recommend approaching it with caution. For fear of looking like an arrogant arsehole.” If you really don’t want to say ‘pardon?’ you could say ‘excuse me?’ or ‘sorry?’ Which is considered the middle way.

  • @ManForToday

    @ManForToday

    Жыл бұрын

    Firstly, it isn’t. It’s only rude if you say it rudely. You say it yourself with friends and family. Excuse me is for physically excusing yourself or begging someone’s pardon, which has a particular use, but saying Pardon was the old English middle class affecting French manners because they wanted to seem ‘posh’. That’s why it’s technically not great to say pardon, people think it’s polite because that’s a bad tradition that passed down. Royal family say ‘what’ to people all the time, for example. If you can’t say ‘what?’ and not sound rude, then I’d say you’ve got tone issues.

  • @attemptingwit

    @attemptingwit

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ManForToday speaking of tone issues 😂 great reply it really make me feel great for interacting with your content. Didn’t make me feel condescended to or that you think you’re better than people. I don’t say ‘what’ I say what I say ‘pardon’ because that tradition was passed down through my societal circles, just because truly posh people didn’t like it doesn’t mean it’s a bad or wrong tradition. I would suggest that the majority of British people think it’s more polite to say pardon. Just because the royal family prefer not to doesn’t mean it’s not good manners, the royal family are so far removed from society that their ideas hardly make sound advice anymore. I’d always rather think of what sounds more polite than what makes me sound like I’m not trying to be posh. Finally, your title is about ‘what to say to sound classier’, sounds like your affecting your language to sound posh rather than me 😂

  • @ManForToday

    @ManForToday

    Жыл бұрын

    @@attemptingwit I accept it was a tradition passed down, but I'm suggesting an alternative by revealing the real reason it became a (bad) tradition. It's what's called Non-U. How you feel about the Royal Family sort of makes it pointless to reply because that's your prejudice against them, so we'd never agree. I say otherwise, but let's not get into that debate. There's nothing wrong with wanting to sound polite, but nowadays, people think the softer and weaker the wording, the more polite it is, which is just wrong. You can be perfectly respectable, polite, and well-mannered and still use simple direct English. Anyone who can't clearly struggles with that. Only the modern English speaking want to dance around with words to avoid sensitivities at all cost just because they were told that way. Just maybe, question it? And consider the alternative. Lastly, YT titles universally are for SEO purposes and nothing more.

  • @attemptingwit

    @attemptingwit

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ManForToday Very well. Revealing the etymology and history of a word is lovely, but you’re implying people use it today to be posh, which i hardly think is the case. Whilst I do think the royal family is vastly out of touch for the most part, i am in fact in favour of royals (perhaps with some slight amendments). In terms of language being used, language is constantly evolving and I maintain that the majority believe ‘pardon’ to be perfectly acceptable and correct. Of course it’s up to the individual. Should I find myself saying ‘pardon’ in front of the royals I’d hope they wouldn’t be so petty as to think low of me and ‘correct’ me. I’d also suggest that ‘modern English speakers dancing around with words to avoid sensitivities’ is a further evolution of language etiquette, whether it catches on is yet to be seen, though I admire the changing of language to avoid being rude and become more inclusive. I’d be more apposed to changing my language to suit the opinions of the upper class. I’m glad you’re encouraging me to question it, although, I was under the impression that’s exactly what I was doing? And yes, I do understand the importance of SEO grabbing titles etc, but that seems to be your compromise and not mine. Then again, I don’t put the effort into making content so who is to say what I would do? I’d like to say I admire your efforts into ‘educating’ the public on ‘correct’ ways to perform but I now find myself questioning whether it’s fuelled less by joy and more by a desire to be seen as ‘better’ or ‘correct’? Though you know your motivations better than me.

  • @JoeyHumble

    @JoeyHumble

    Жыл бұрын

    “What?” could mean you don’t believe them. “Sorry?” sounds an apology. “Pardon?” is the best for asking them to repeat themselves in my opinion. Besides lots of English words come from French. However, I totally agree that napkin is better than serviette.

  • @oakpope
    @oakpope Жыл бұрын

    I'm French, I'll say pardon.

  • @Stevewilldowhat
    @Stevewilldowhat Жыл бұрын

    Wow, this guy needs a reality check.

  • @randomsm
    @randomsm Жыл бұрын

    Thanks :)

  • @sandorzoltangergely
    @sandorzoltangergely11 ай бұрын

    Very good Idea 👍 Thank your very mutch!

  • @alexcrompton9509
    @alexcrompton9509 Жыл бұрын

    Only a scouser would suggest saying what instead of pardon

  • @svza998
    @svza99811 ай бұрын

    I'm going to poo in the loo, sir

  • @za.307
    @za.307 Жыл бұрын

    Saying "what" does sound bloody rude. No matter what tone you say it in. I tell my daughter to say "excuse me. Could you repeat that".

  • @nancyblackett8777
    @nancyblackett8777 Жыл бұрын

    When advice is being given by a scouser you know you’ve got problems

  • @b1gmustang567
    @b1gmustang567 Жыл бұрын

    Things not to say when you're British and in the states. Don't say the phrase " when she's getting the strap on, he knows who's boss". Different meaning here in the states

  • @MrOzzyGuy
    @MrOzzyGuy7 ай бұрын

    Just say ‘what?’ LOL

  • @yungnatedagreat
    @yungnatedagreat Жыл бұрын

    Pretentious

  • @ManForToday

    @ManForToday

    Жыл бұрын

    All about tone.

  • @CymbalVault
    @CymbalVault Жыл бұрын

    Sofa is more french than the word couch.....

  • @h.s6698
    @h.s6698 Жыл бұрын

    Can you do a short on mens grooming and how to look neat as well as a short on how to look and feel confident. Also, love your videos. Keep up the great work.

  • @ManForToday

    @ManForToday

    Жыл бұрын

    That's certainly different types of videos but yes I am planning more long and short-form content. Suggestions welcome!

  • @premk2892
    @premk2892 Жыл бұрын

    Say excuse me for sorry

  • @jeffreyhoward879
    @jeffreyhoward879 Жыл бұрын

    Except that, when you say pardon, it is short for I beg your pardon.

  • @davidbowie2046
    @davidbowie20465 ай бұрын

    You do know that we were speaking French in Britain many years ago? Hence French words still in use today Restaurant, Omelette, Chef being a few

  • @johnroy7784
    @johnroy7784 Жыл бұрын

    This guy never had a friend that said he needs to cut this cute shit out and have a pint.

  • @raim325
    @raim3252 ай бұрын

    Napkin vs Serviette. Napkin is apparently an upper class term in UK vs serviette which is a more middle class or lower-class terminology. Isn't that sounding fake or affected too? Great videos!!

  • @ManForToday

    @ManForToday

    2 ай бұрын

    Thank you, but not exactly, Napkin is the proper name for it if you look at the etymology. Napkins are small examples of table linen (nappe).

  • @raim325

    @raim325

    2 ай бұрын

    @@ManForToday Gotcha. Your content & style are great. I rarely see stylish guys whenever I go to London even though I am always at the hotspots lol. Its the women who seem to dress well - which is what I love :)

  • @doctorwho01
    @doctorwho01 Жыл бұрын

    As a franco-anglophone,I disagree

  • @maximkovalchuk2147
    @maximkovalchuk2147 Жыл бұрын

    I’m Latvian, not from UK, but I think that “excuse me” is more suitable for situations when you willing to say “pardon”

  • @nrntlp445
    @nrntlp445 Жыл бұрын

    whatever, il say whatever I wanna say 😅

  • @rivenzi
    @rivenzi Жыл бұрын

    funny to watch when youre actually french

  • @paulmcdade9849
    @paulmcdade9849 Жыл бұрын

    Il say wtf i want 😂

  • @ManForToday

    @ManForToday

    Жыл бұрын

    And in whatever spelling too, good on you Paul.

  • @paulmcdade9849

    @paulmcdade9849

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ManForToday yeh you got problem with that huh? Cos if you have check yourself for perfection first before you point out others mistakes.

  • @ManForToday

    @ManForToday

    Жыл бұрын

    @@paulmcdade9849 I'm merely pointing out that for someone who has no interest in changing anything about themselves clearly is wasting their time watching my videos.

  • @Alexander-vs2ee

    @Alexander-vs2ee

    Жыл бұрын

    You can leave. It's not for kids anyways.

  • @paulmcdade9849

    @paulmcdade9849

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Alexander-vs2ee by looks of you, your the kid…

  • @P-CRUZ
    @P-CRUZ Жыл бұрын

    "How to move 10 steps back..."

  • @uchihahitachi4905
    @uchihahitachi4905 Жыл бұрын

    He : teaching English Me : What happens to his forehead ?

  • @gentlemaninjapan1994
    @gentlemaninjapan199411 ай бұрын

    I always thought aftershave was the balm you use on your face after a shave

  • @frankmcgonagle6143
    @frankmcgonagle6143 Жыл бұрын

    I almost subscribed to this account and then I came across this video. Bye Felicia

  • @Chalchuny
    @Chalchuny Жыл бұрын

    ‘What’ is considered rude

  • @biiased
    @biiased6 ай бұрын

    do not say "what?" to people it is considered inpolite to many people...

  • @user-op2nk8nw9b
    @user-op2nk8nw9b Жыл бұрын

    I live in the UK and I never heard anyone referring to bathroom as a lavatory😂

  • @l75rd83
    @l75rd8311 ай бұрын

    Don’t say this because you’re not this, say this even if you aren’t this. You literally told us to do what you said not to do…

  • @bradenbird8484
    @bradenbird8484 Жыл бұрын

    I’ll stick with my southern lingo.

  • @luvinnicholas
    @luvinnicholas Жыл бұрын

    Mf is this a tutorial on how to talk British

  • @brothercinnamon2479

    @brothercinnamon2479

    Жыл бұрын

    exactly

  • @MayaHendsenmayajs19442

    @MayaHendsenmayajs19442

    Жыл бұрын

    Mind your language.

  • @iCQ_www.SPCL.tk_
    @iCQ_www.SPCL.tk_ Жыл бұрын

    i am french, excuse my french never say never to me little brother

  • @zekeyeager1458
    @zekeyeager1458 Жыл бұрын

    Last time I checked, I’m pretty sure you don’t use fragrance for aftershave 💀

  • @ManForToday

    @ManForToday

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly, and on the contrary. People often say aftershave when they mean fragrance.

  • @MayaHendsenmayajs19442
    @MayaHendsenmayajs19442 Жыл бұрын

    Don't mind these triggered immature people in the comments. I'm sure they are just jealous because you're a good looking and well-mannered gentleman

  • @kingcharizardakaCX
    @kingcharizardakaCX Жыл бұрын

    What about saying restroom?

  • @ianpodmore9666
    @ianpodmore9666 Жыл бұрын

    I've just learned that I'm not a gentleman. I'm f*****g gutted.

  • @tomcharles1730
    @tomcharles1730 Жыл бұрын

    MUCH BETTA

  • @vintagebabyseventythree6244
    @vintagebabyseventythree6244 Жыл бұрын

    Don’t teach etiquette when you have none

  • @pannu679
    @pannu679 Жыл бұрын

    I beg your PARDON

  • @shrivatsavakil8729
    @shrivatsavakil8729 Жыл бұрын

    Bro ain’t seen Seinfeld.

  • @rodnee2340
    @rodnee2340 Жыл бұрын

    Don't say pardon, say sorry... never apologise for anything that wasn't your fault. So pardon is fine. And we have plenty of words from the French language in English. Any word with 'tion' at the end for instance is derived and spelled the same in French as English. Construction, constitution, immigration. Are some examples. That's a learn French quick hack BTW. Thank me later.

  • @rorr121
    @rorr121 Жыл бұрын

    India 🇮🇳❤️🙏

  • @Billiard-cp1my
    @Billiard-cp1my Жыл бұрын

    I have been speaking the English language for over 60 years. I don't need some little upstart telling me what I can and cannot say. Now I am going to the toilet to wipe my arse on a serviette, so there!!

  • @jeffreycassidy9186
    @jeffreycassidy9186 Жыл бұрын

    Nope

  • @alexanderreeveshamilton3577
    @alexanderreeveshamilton3577 Жыл бұрын

    Listen darling be who you are sound the way you sound because there's nothing more unclassy than videos teaching others how they ought to be rule 101 of life!!!!

  • @RaviRomana
    @RaviRomana Жыл бұрын

    While Indians are trying to switch from saying sofa to couch😂😂

  • @user-yi5td3fj1b
    @user-yi5td3fj1b2 ай бұрын

    Change your words 😂

  • @elmerfudd1086
    @elmerfudd1086 Жыл бұрын

    Sorry , HOW ABOUT NO?

  • @caskaronn
    @caskaronn Жыл бұрын

    Wait till this guy finds out “Sorry” and “What” also come from other languages smh

  • @m__o8phoenix
    @m__o8phoenix Жыл бұрын

    👌

  • @starlight3049
    @starlight3049 Жыл бұрын

    We say this even if we’re American

  • @piterpark3rr508
    @piterpark3rr508 Жыл бұрын

    Link to buy the white shirt

  • @simonmaximov8443
    @simonmaximov8443 Жыл бұрын

    What’s wrong with the word toilet?

  • @DJoseR1313
    @DJoseR1313 Жыл бұрын

    The comments are eating him up also… who talks like that?

  • @POMAH_MOHISH
    @POMAH_MOHISH Жыл бұрын

    Shitter. Bed. Paper. Colonge . Can you say that again?

  • @pvc292
    @pvc292 Жыл бұрын

    Don’t say poo poo. Say pee pee

  • @cleftturnip7774
    @cleftturnip7774 Жыл бұрын

    Pardon

  • @paulcox2447
    @paulcox2447 Жыл бұрын

    Or stop being neurotic about your language and simply focus on being articulate. If someone is that judgmental about someone else's vernacular, then I don't think they are intellectually worth the effort to "impress".

  • @samadams219
    @samadams219 Жыл бұрын

    Pardon?

  • @andresmoreno8244
    @andresmoreno8244 Жыл бұрын

    Say razors

  • @waldemarnajda9831
    @waldemarnajda9831 Жыл бұрын

    A classic French person that’s a new one

  • @jeremyrussell9712
    @jeremyrussell9712 Жыл бұрын

    Bad advice. It's I beg your pardon is correct. A napkin and serviette are two different things. A napkin is made of material and a serviette is made of paper . Lavatory in this day and age really ...I don't think so.

  • @lurch8111
    @lurch8111 Жыл бұрын

    What a load of bollocks. I you can use any euphemism for the room with no name

  • @bbbl8910
    @bbbl8910 Жыл бұрын

    Je m'excuse l!

  • @akito3151
    @akito3151 Жыл бұрын

    Is it good if you say excuse me?

  • @ManForToday

    @ManForToday

    Жыл бұрын

    It's fine, but a bit wordy sometimes. I wouldn't naturally say it in a quick conversation.

  • @alexflips393

    @alexflips393

    Жыл бұрын

    What’s a better alternative

  • @colinsalter9569
    @colinsalter9569 Жыл бұрын

    The only one I disagree with, you never say what, that is rude,

  • @ManForToday

    @ManForToday

    Жыл бұрын

    Fair enough, I believe all in the tone. It's possible to say what in a polite tone.

  • @Brucelee-pv6uf
    @Brucelee-pv6uf Жыл бұрын

    This have nothing with to be a man

  • @ManForToday

    @ManForToday

    Жыл бұрын

    Men speak properly.

  • @koos4654
    @koos4654 Жыл бұрын

    Uhm no

  • @MJ-hh1tm
    @MJ-hh1tm Жыл бұрын

    I’d take the advice but only when you can string the sentences together properly. Honestly, don’t listen to this crap! Be you and don’t change things you don’t need to. This is a waste of your time.

  • @pinkpantherer
    @pinkpantherer Жыл бұрын

    I disagree

  • @servantoftheexpander9688
    @servantoftheexpander9688 Жыл бұрын

    Don't say lavatory. Weirdo!

  • @mh1793
    @mh1793 Жыл бұрын

    What a load of nonsense Perhaps you should go outside and talk to people

  • @ManForToday

    @ManForToday

    Жыл бұрын

    That's what lead to the video...

  • @raajunnikrishnan4752
    @raajunnikrishnan4752 Жыл бұрын

    Sofa potato🤓 Latin lavatorium ‘place for washing’, from Latin lavare ‘to wash’. Now what you punk?

  • @creativesource3514
    @creativesource3514 Жыл бұрын

    What a load of bollox.

  • @lalithkumar9529
    @lalithkumar9529 Жыл бұрын

    infinite loop ...........

  • @kcw1963
    @kcw1963 Жыл бұрын

    Bs

  • @robsyaboy
    @robsyaboy Жыл бұрын

    Unfollowing with immediate effect 👎

  • @brothercinnamon2479
    @brothercinnamon2479 Жыл бұрын

    this is some colonial nonsense.

  • @artielarengano9287
    @artielarengano9287 Жыл бұрын

    Lol you can’t make this shit up 😂

  • @shahrukhjoomun1173
    @shahrukhjoomun11736 ай бұрын

    This is bullshit

  • @pizzaaddicted__6553
    @pizzaaddicted__6553 Жыл бұрын

    Guys speak like how you eat its far esier

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