How to Speak Like A Gentleman | 9 Talking Tips to Earn Respect

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In this video men's style, grooming, fitness and etiquette expert , Aaron Marino of www.iamalpham.com, talks about how to speak like a gentleman. Aaron Marino gives you 9 talking tips to earn respect and communicate like a gentleman.
Aaron Marino of alpha m. covers speaking etiquette 101 for being a gentleman. You may look and act like a gentlemen, but if something comes out of your mouth that is unbefitting of a gentleman, you have totally screwed the pooch. Here are tips for how to speak like gentlemen:
1. Say 'please' whenever asking for anything
2. Say 'thank you' whenever you receive anything
3. Do not use profanity on a regular basis
4. Never talk down to anybody
5. Does not gossip about others
6. Speak in a positive manner
7. Doesn't say anything hateful about anyone! Whether sexist, racist, homophobic, bigoted, it's disgusting!
8. Wait to speak and do not interrupt
9. Know when to shut up

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  • @thecowboy9698
    @thecowboy96986 жыл бұрын

    "You don't need to curse to be funny, or to get your point across." That is 100% true.

  • @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes i do lmao 🤣 😂

  • @user-um9sl1kj6u

    @user-um9sl1kj6u

    10 ай бұрын

    Precisely. Anyone, Even women can behave badly. Then they just look like rabble

  • @blakeklenner2832
    @blakeklenner28327 жыл бұрын

    This should be a high school class for young men

  • @leahanderson1576

    @leahanderson1576

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes! Lessons for people in general.

  • @shirleycarreon9693

    @shirleycarreon9693

    3 жыл бұрын

    I agree

  • @diegoc1925

    @diegoc1925

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agreed

  • @jeffreyhooper4307

    @jeffreyhooper4307

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes I agree

  • @sinofprideescanor6619

    @sinofprideescanor6619

    3 жыл бұрын

    Completely agree so many problems would just go away.

  • @victorcavazos5012
    @victorcavazos50127 жыл бұрын

    "Manners maketh Man" Wish more men would remember this. Thanks Alpha

  • @g-man6677

    @g-man6677

    4 жыл бұрын

    Victor Cavazos i agree, and nice Kingsman reference, but I do not believe he portrayed the entire idea perfectly. His comments on please and thank you were correct and useful, but the rest was a bit sloppy. Especially when he says that profanity is the beat way to sound dumb, but stumbles over his own words for 5 seconds, which is the easiest way to sound dumb. He made points that did not need to be made and also showed a lack of understanding of the topic by not including many key rules.

  • @g-man6677

    @g-man6677

    4 жыл бұрын

    And to be clear, I do agree with what he said, but there are other points he should have made, so points he did not need to make like the thank you point, which could have gone with please. He also should have been more careful to not break his own rules in my opinion

  • @g-man6677

    @g-man6677

    4 жыл бұрын

    Oh, and I am sorry but one more thing to add on him breaking his own rules. He makes subtle sexist remarks all the time. In the past he has said both, “ the way I see it, women drink wine, guys drink beer, and gentlemen drink whiskey” and also “A gentleman must drink one of 3 masculine drinks” to quote a few. These are both very subjective and borderline sexist.

  • @johnwongtw1
    @johnwongtw15 жыл бұрын

    You were robbed and then stabbed in the gut. You: Thank you!

  • @harinandr450

    @harinandr450

    4 жыл бұрын

    I appreciate it gentleman 😂

  • @OnyxBloodStone

    @OnyxBloodStone

    4 жыл бұрын

    A true gentleman has respect for himself, and as such does not let other people take advantage of him

  • @thisgamez9491

    @thisgamez9491

    4 жыл бұрын

    You really got me LOL

  • @beena2730

    @beena2730

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@OnyxBloodStone i want to say woosh.. but i wont ! Because there are many people as u have said exploits gentlemen s patience I cannot withstand that But he should be knowing how to behave in such situations

  • @viplavvikas2141

    @viplavvikas2141

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! You made my night !! ( Why should days have all the fun ? Huh? )😄😄

  • @bradleyspinks7922
    @bradleyspinks79227 жыл бұрын

    If anyone see's this message, I hope you are having a great day

  • @jamessimmons3186

    @jamessimmons3186

    7 жыл бұрын

    have a great day , unfortunately it's a bit late but at least i'm the first heheh , Thank you , gentleman

  • @bradleyspinks7922

    @bradleyspinks7922

    7 жыл бұрын

    Not a problem always nice to see someone commenting back so thank you

  • @jamessimmons3186

    @jamessimmons3186

    7 жыл бұрын

    you're always welcome brother , take care

  • @alex-sv8ru

    @alex-sv8ru

    7 жыл бұрын

    ty!

  • @skyscout3

    @skyscout3

    7 жыл бұрын

    lol gentlemaning much

  • @Shun101010
    @Shun1010108 жыл бұрын

    A man has many faces and a gentleman has many dates.

  • @maximusdecimusmeridius4325

    @maximusdecimusmeridius4325

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Jaqen H'ghar Oufffff well said mate!

  • @kaycyrus4251

    @kaycyrus4251

    8 жыл бұрын

    awesome

  • @toteknowledge

    @toteknowledge

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Jaqen H'ghar may I implement that in my mental mantras ?

  • @vroomie

    @vroomie

    7 жыл бұрын

    Jaqen H'ghar heha nice one

  • @Apwolsopcjrhei

    @Apwolsopcjrhei

    7 жыл бұрын

    I was also a foo'in legend from Gin Alley.

  • @mercentperrault
    @mercentperrault5 жыл бұрын

    0:20 He uses the word “Unbefitting”. Seriously, we need to bring back those classy, elegant words. I mean, their usage takes the speaker to a whole new level.

  • @masterc1172

    @masterc1172

    5 жыл бұрын

    Fuck you are right. Sir you are right.

  • @f.b.i9512

    @f.b.i9512

    4 жыл бұрын

    MasterC117 or that is true, you are correct

  • @01DaBoss

    @01DaBoss

    3 жыл бұрын

    SIMPS!!!

  • @Ask_LyRc
    @Ask_LyRc6 жыл бұрын

    "don't use profanities" "crap!" "shut up!"

  • @masterc1172

    @masterc1172

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thats not profanity

  • @jewbearidk

    @jewbearidk

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@masterc1172 yeah it is

  • @kappa-np4qr

    @kappa-np4qr

    4 жыл бұрын

    ty!

  • @shadygaming6523

    @shadygaming6523

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@jewbearidk no it fucking not .

  • @glendamontoya9645

    @glendamontoya9645

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @Rannbo
    @Rannbo9 жыл бұрын

    Is it respectful if I say wassup my nigga to my professor in college?

  • @alpham

    @alpham

    9 жыл бұрын

    i'm going to go out on a limb and say no...

  • @Rannbo

    @Rannbo

    9 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the video sir. Greatly appreciated. Now I will stop greeting my professor with a "wassup nigga" and instead greet him with a "good morning professor"

  • @emadrid7895

    @emadrid7895

    9 жыл бұрын

    Rada ignorant

  • @Antash_

    @Antash_

    9 жыл бұрын

    alpha m. So no black humor even if it is just a joke, that doesn't reflect what I really think about certain things and it is said to closest friends? ;(

  • @Antash_

    @Antash_

    9 жыл бұрын

    I'm asking about black humor in general, not only jokes about black ppl, and certainly not about calling my friends "nigga", it actually wouldn't work in my country - different language ;)

  • @Linkous12
    @Linkous128 жыл бұрын

    As a person who grew up in the South I wish these tips were more commonly used. You're never too old to say "sir" or "ma'am". How a person treats a stranger tells you who they truly are.

  • @rezaipe
    @rezaipe7 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this amazing advice ! Implemented it for about 6 months and people around me start to respect me more and start to doing what i did. Keep up the amazing work Sir !

  • @leahanderson1576

    @leahanderson1576

    3 жыл бұрын

    Good, I am so glad it worked out. I will try it too.

  • @maplekandayo
    @maplekandayo7 жыл бұрын

    hello Alpha, I have been in love with your page since years. you have helped me get over my depression, lost all my extra weight, and just changed my life. I love and appreciate you so much. thank you for being the original you. thank you for regular uploads. thank you for your candor and your humor. keep up the great work :D

  • @ffff7865
    @ffff78657 жыл бұрын

    I am a British offer cadet who has just finished training. We learn how to be gentlemen in all aspects from negotiations on the battlefield, or parley. To hosting a banquet and in general life. I think all men should learn the quality's of being a gentleman as there would be far less violence, racism and all the other evils in the world.

  • @thethirdman2135

    @thethirdman2135

    6 жыл бұрын

    John steed, the avengers the ultimate gentleman

  • @Isosceles1

    @Isosceles1

    6 жыл бұрын

    Apparently, spelling and grammar were not so important in your training.

  • @Freespiritedqueen

    @Freespiritedqueen

    5 жыл бұрын

    @ff ff, you all are some dapper dressers. I've got to give it to you British!

  • @ngurahauhnar1181

    @ngurahauhnar1181

    5 жыл бұрын

    Which Regiment..? Regt. No. Rank????? If you are an Officer...

  • @nealdew71

    @nealdew71

    5 жыл бұрын

    Someone's looking for likes.

  • @drz616
    @drz6167 жыл бұрын

    Take a shot every time he says "gentlemen".

  • @CidGuerreiro1234

    @CidGuerreiro1234

    7 жыл бұрын

    Have an ambulance on stand by.

  • @noelt8895

    @noelt8895

    5 жыл бұрын

    He never says 'Gentleman". He says "gennelmen". He needs to remember there is a 't' in the middle of the word.

  • @pineapplecoke7627

    @pineapplecoke7627

    5 жыл бұрын

    David ok gentleman

  • @noelt8895

    @noelt8895

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@anmolak1783 Not 'arf!

  • @mercentperrault

    @mercentperrault

    5 жыл бұрын

    If I do so, then how many shots will I end up drinking?

  • @vxhub2430
    @vxhub24304 жыл бұрын

    "Thank You" for guiding us to be a perfecto

  • @samirgtb8916
    @samirgtb89167 жыл бұрын

    "you just received a F on your 100 point essay" me: Thank You! 😭

  • @johnwongtw1

    @johnwongtw1

    5 жыл бұрын

    Gentleman!

  • @Zveki
    @Zveki8 жыл бұрын

    Also, a gentleman speaks quietly. He does not shout irritatingly.

  • @ivangartenhaus4276

    @ivangartenhaus4276

    8 жыл бұрын

    +ZvekiSU There is a fine line between gentlemanly ways and being just .... well.... gay.

  • @jonaswomack4493

    @jonaswomack4493

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Ivan Gartenhaus Where exactly does his comment mention attraction to other males? Or was that totally random?

  • @ivangartenhaus4276

    @ivangartenhaus4276

    8 жыл бұрын

    Rocket Otaku No it was a general comment, not just about this particular video.

  • @rayva1

    @rayva1

    7 жыл бұрын

    I do believe the same must go for the ladies.

  • @resyncs6357

    @resyncs6357

    7 жыл бұрын

    No, he does not speak quietly, he articulates himself so that what he is saying may be heard.

  • @a.enrique2407
    @a.enrique24079 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the plethora of undeniably, beneficial advice. You simply stand out in a tarnished world as a true paragon. Keep up the great work.

  • @alpham

    @alpham

    9 жыл бұрын

    thanks brother!

  • @kool-aidman5828

    @kool-aidman5828

    9 жыл бұрын

    alpha m. I love that ending

  • @Lireoec

    @Lireoec

    9 жыл бұрын

    Kudos for using the word 'paragon'.

  • @Armyofone98GTC

    @Armyofone98GTC

    9 жыл бұрын

    "Tarnished world"? Really?

  • @TheSteelEcho666

    @TheSteelEcho666

    9 жыл бұрын

    +Lireoec At a glance I misread paragon as pigeon.

  • @BarackBananabama
    @BarackBananabama6 жыл бұрын

    When the referee says, "Gentleman, I want a good, clean fight. Listen to my commands at all times. Touch gloves and go back to your corner." I learned everything I need to know about being a gentlement which is use jabs frequently and don't forget to give the other guy a big one on the nose.

  • @mohamedkuyateh9596

    @mohamedkuyateh9596

    5 жыл бұрын

    😃just stop!

  • @mercentperrault

    @mercentperrault

    5 жыл бұрын

    Cuz that's how gentlemen settle disputes.

  • @masterc1172

    @masterc1172

    5 жыл бұрын

    You sir I applaud from one fighter to another!

  • @losmentos5078
    @losmentos50787 жыл бұрын

    Magnificent video! You truly show you care and want to influence people for the better. Watching your videos fills the empty spot for the big brother I never had. Thank you.

  • @adalet127
    @adalet1277 жыл бұрын

    AGHH THAT TIE IS NOT SYMETRICAL .. I mean .. That Tie of your is not correctly positioned on that beatiful suit of yours.

  • @rileybagnall2250

    @rileybagnall2250

    6 жыл бұрын

    Yours*

  • @rileybagnall2250

    @rileybagnall2250

    6 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful *

  • @rileybagnall2250

    @rileybagnall2250

    6 жыл бұрын

    Yours'*

  • @alanv3185

    @alanv3185

    6 жыл бұрын

    lol

  • @cvrucodex9542

    @cvrucodex9542

    5 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful" sorry I couldn't help myself.

  • @antoniopaquette4757
    @antoniopaquette47578 жыл бұрын

    Every thing that you said in this video my dad taught me as a little kid

  • @viveus_

    @viveus_

    6 жыл бұрын

    You have a fine father.

  • @zarcero21

    @zarcero21

    5 жыл бұрын

    Unfortunately, the dads aren't around these days, because the bitches have run them off.

  • @Andre-gn4sj

    @Andre-gn4sj

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@zarcero21 Excuse me sir. but i think its supposed to be unsavory induviduals of the opposite gender.

  • @Rdot19

    @Rdot19

    5 жыл бұрын

    I wish I had a dad like that.

  • @harinandr450

    @harinandr450

    4 жыл бұрын

    My dad too

  • @spectre5x5
    @spectre5x55 жыл бұрын

    Smooth delivery Aaron! Very good advice from a retired Army Officer responsible for morale and discipline of Soldiers.

  • @martin6742
    @martin67423 жыл бұрын

    This is basicaly the ten comandments but explained in a non religious way. Marvelous! Keep up the amazing work.

  • @Foretelling
    @Foretelling9 жыл бұрын

    I apologise for saying this in advance, but it blows my mind how so many American's don't say Thank You. I mean, I was in the states for my Summer Holidays, and I honestly felt a bit insulted when it came to people completely ignoring me doing things to help them out, such as holding a door open etc. I'm a 16 year old brit, and I was brought up that way, so I guess I just expect it to happen. But in the UK, people are so much more polite. I am sorry if I offended anyone with this. Just my observation.

  • @wildone106

    @wildone106

    9 жыл бұрын

    Happens to me too man, I hold the door and they either look like Im trying to rape them, or dont say anything like I had nothing better to do than hold it.

  • @thescientistsalarian2441

    @thescientistsalarian2441

    9 жыл бұрын

    Here in America we have this idiotic cultural dilemma where one having basic manners is considered "nice," and if someone is nice, they are seen as "weak." A lot of people here would rather be rude morons than "nice and weak." It's not everyone of course, but it's too prevalent to not be noticed.

  • @wildone106

    @wildone106

    9 жыл бұрын

    ok re-quantify by saying 'Humans in America' then? idiot

  • @jaysun9138

    @jaysun9138

    9 жыл бұрын

    ***** He said "so many Americans" not all. He isn't generalizing all of them. I'm American and I completely agree, I live in America and most people don't have manners.

  • @Foretelling

    @Foretelling

    9 жыл бұрын

    ***** Dude, you're a bad keyboard warrior. I don't recall generalizing anyone in the slightest. Saying 'So many Americans' is not Stereotyping or Generalizing. So many can be a number from 10-The whole population. Get your facts right.

  • @dtbwolfie9090
    @dtbwolfie90909 жыл бұрын

    "Do you curse a lot?" "Fuck yeah I do."

  • @christophernathanael728

    @christophernathanael728

    7 жыл бұрын

    DTBWolfie Me too.

  • @later8123

    @later8123

    7 жыл бұрын

    DTBWolfie damn I read that out loud..

  • @yzuniga13sa

    @yzuniga13sa

    6 жыл бұрын

    Fuckkkkkkk......!

  • @lostcloud6615

    @lostcloud6615

    6 жыл бұрын

    fuck if i know

  • @jakk1154

    @jakk1154

    6 жыл бұрын

    I do as well.

  • @umerk2305
    @umerk23055 жыл бұрын

    I am shaking my head at the negative comments of people onf here. What kinds are you - keyboard warriors and have nothing better to say in your empty heads? Get life people and stay positive. Say "Thank you" to this great man for teaching you manners you manbabies. Happy New Year World. Peace.

  • @mariamossai5166
    @mariamossai51666 жыл бұрын

    Something I've noticed about your videos asides from your amazing sense of humor is that you know excactly the right time to end a video and make it look so funny

  • @michelletulumello661
    @michelletulumello6618 жыл бұрын

    Great advice. I'd say the same is true for a lady.

  • @TheFirewolfx

    @TheFirewolfx

    8 жыл бұрын

    Gentlemen need ladies, and ladies need gentlemen.

  • @popnbunny8704

    @popnbunny8704

    6 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely. Be the example to make a change.

  • @username6135

    @username6135

    5 жыл бұрын

    If she's hot I couldnt care less. But if she's really dumb I'd be bored.

  • @mecikarabderraouf3866

    @mecikarabderraouf3866

    5 жыл бұрын

    Good for you 👏

  • @mecikarabderraouf3866

    @mecikarabderraouf3866

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@TheFirewolfx but not the fate ladies 😂😂😂😂......

  • @crackedoutmayor1942
    @crackedoutmayor19427 жыл бұрын

    rule number 1: -saying please is not a necessity. showed weakness and gives them a chance to pull the upper hand (im a corporate account executive so i know a few things about persuasion ) -saying thank you is a must! never say please, you could say, "i would appreciate it if you could"

  • @BoHorn

    @BoHorn

    7 жыл бұрын

    eden m Ending on please definitely sounds weak. "Could you get me that pen please?" as opposed to "Could you please hand me that pen?".

  • @richardkeijzer636

    @richardkeijzer636

    7 жыл бұрын

    This is why I consider most account executive assholes. They think money is life and have very little empathy for others. I know this, because I used to work as one. Thank god I quit that job, which I consider to be one of the most useless, shitty jobs on earth.

  • @tawsifchowdhury6781

    @tawsifchowdhury6781

    7 жыл бұрын

    crackedout mayor i really agree with you! Thank you!!!!!!!!!!

  • @tawsifchowdhury6781

    @tawsifchowdhury6781

    7 жыл бұрын

    Richard Keijzer here is the thing! I recently moved to US an i've been observing how people behave. If u actually say "please", it creates an opposite reaction and the other person would actually never help you! I promise i'm not bs*ing. It's from my personal experience.

  • @richardkeijzer636

    @richardkeijzer636

    7 жыл бұрын

    Sir Bastion why would you ever want to move to the US? This is the fakest 'country' in the world haha

  • @robertphelps9773
    @robertphelps97737 жыл бұрын

    How refreshing to hear. As a middle aged Englishman, I would absolutely agree with AlphaM. 'Good manners maketh the man'. They cost you nothing, but place you head and shoulders above the crowd.

  • @leahanderson1576
    @leahanderson15763 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, sir. If ladies and gentlemen were more like you, the world would be a better place.

  • @ferretprince4054
    @ferretprince40548 жыл бұрын

    remember folks: profuse profanity paints people in poor perspectives.

  • @sarahsafdar1781

    @sarahsafdar1781

    8 жыл бұрын

    got it

  • @TheBCSledder

    @TheBCSledder

    8 жыл бұрын

    But I love cussing :(

  • @ferretprince4054

    @ferretprince4054

    8 жыл бұрын

    TheBCSledder ah, but i said PROFUSE profanity.

  • @patriot9487

    @patriot9487

    7 жыл бұрын

    Ew. Do you know that people who cuss and swear have larger vocabularies and are more intelligent? There have been many tests to prove this. Though, cussing and swearing in general is uncouth.

  • @charlesderosas5577

    @charlesderosas5577

    7 жыл бұрын

    Tronald Drump South Park creator's lol.

  • @byron9369
    @byron93699 жыл бұрын

    People should top saying crap about this video i mean, it's just a tip on how to become a gentlemen if ever you want to. He is not forcing everybody to become a gentlemen so please understand the point and sense of this video. Hey alpha m today 1/11/15 is the first day that i've watched your video i just saw this on recommended videos and i must say this to you, "you are awesome!" i can see your sincerity on giving advices to your subscribers and to the others. Keep it up man!

  • @SABRE-ls5fu
    @SABRE-ls5fu7 жыл бұрын

    Watching this video in particular has made the soul in me realize I have been ungrateful towards a certain someone and thanks to you Alpha I can change that not only for them but for myself. Thank you~

  • @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    Жыл бұрын

    So can i

  • @RoniloJrLawas

    @RoniloJrLawas

    10 ай бұрын

    @@TravisAndrews-lb1kk (i may not the OP) certainly yes stranger the very thought of wanting to change speaks volume of the hope enstore for you

  • @unkwn1157
    @unkwn11574 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! For teaching me how to not be unfitting when guests are visiting me and my family.

  • @yashkataria8588
    @yashkataria85887 жыл бұрын

    Aron, it was a great video. Thanks, for guiding me to be a better person ( not only physically but also mentally). Please keep up with your great work that you're doing.

  • @markgrayson6759
    @markgrayson67599 жыл бұрын

    I was brought up in a very strict conservative household and my parents taught their children manners, how to speak, and how to respect others. though i've moved and hold different views from what my parents brought me up in but my core values that they taught me is still intact. not to talk about myself too much but i've made so many friends in my journey through the way i carry myself. i've been in relationships that ended amicably and even if it ends badly down the line they still call. i believe that "the gentleman" is a dying breed and what's weird is we're in high demand.

  • @reikomyles1495
    @reikomyles14955 жыл бұрын

    Sir you spoke truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. These words of wisdom us ladies can apply to our lives as well. Thank you.

  • @DerbyMods
    @DerbyMods6 жыл бұрын

    The please and thank you are something people should always say, I was raised that way and most gentleman probably are.

  • @LBrownoffical
    @LBrownoffical8 жыл бұрын

    Anybody else realise they do all of these things anyway and didnt know it was so Gentlemen like. Boss. He forgot the power of saying "Excuse me" in getting someones attention, getting past someone or even sneezing.

  • @saurabhnaik9984
    @saurabhnaik99846 жыл бұрын

    Makes me feel like I was never a gentleman before... This video is certainly going to change my life !

  • @prad44973

    @prad44973

    5 жыл бұрын

    you are devaluating your current life

  • @masterc1172

    @masterc1172

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@prad44973 you are stopping it

  • @harlanabraham7772
    @harlanabraham7772 Жыл бұрын

    Most of these things that you talk about I have been practicing most of my life. Didn't realize it was a gentlemanly thing.

  • @Myinspiration2009
    @Myinspiration20097 жыл бұрын

    From Spain I thank you. I find your videos useful, refreshing and funny! From September 2017 I am planning to use your videos as a tool for my English students. A lot of teenagers just don't have manners!

  • @nisheet10
    @nisheet109 жыл бұрын

    You, Sir, are a true inspiration. So much positive energy in the videos. Love it! Gonna download the app as well. Kudos! P.s. You should write a book. Keep up the great work. :D

  • @alanlake9762
    @alanlake97627 жыл бұрын

    "A gentleman he also know when to shut up" lol

  • @alexandern3160
    @alexandern31604 жыл бұрын

    One of the best videos you've ever made, Alpha M. This is great.

  • @taesankim9267
    @taesankim92673 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for teaching me how to be a gentleman and better human being

  • @hideosaeki4984
    @hideosaeki49847 жыл бұрын

    I love his energy :')

  • @varun878
    @varun8786 жыл бұрын

    Awesome! Keep it up Alpha... love your videos!

  • @Kashido12
    @Kashido124 жыл бұрын

    You're personally my favorite,funny,smart,cool,perfect guy 🤣

  • @althoffb
    @althoffb6 жыл бұрын

    Love this video. Every man on the planet should watch it. Even guys that have good manners, such as myself. Very good refresher.

  • @bobsettoi1144
    @bobsettoi11447 жыл бұрын

    Excellent speech Alpha!! as a woman I tell you guys.. a man who is a gentleman is even sexier 😉 and opens doors of success too.

  • @solazos
    @solazos7 жыл бұрын

    I believe that using profanity in little certain situation emphasizes your point in a special manner. Just in certain situations.

  • @masterc1172

    @masterc1172

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@noelt8895 I was told they are words of expression and smart people use them because when smart people get angry at stupid people for saying stupid things then stupid people understand.

  • @parrisestatessouthernhomec3246

    @parrisestatessouthernhomec3246

    5 жыл бұрын

    using profane every once in a while doesn't hurt. but women don't want gentlemen anymore they chase dope heads

  • @JohnnyRebKy
    @JohnnyRebKy3 жыл бұрын

    There is one class above gentleman. A Southern Gentleman 👍. Thank you is always followed by Darlin' , Dear, hun, sweetie, or sweetheart 😅

  • @akshaykumawat1279
    @akshaykumawat12796 жыл бұрын

    Dude u really made my life. You just switched on the beast mode in me

  • @sistercoffee3158
    @sistercoffee31588 жыл бұрын

    Earned my respect with this one Alpha, well done :) I'll add that strong apology skills are highly desirable. Everyone has their shortcomings; being able to apologize for them quickly and without digging yourself in deeper is a must if you want to make up for them and move on with your life. Anecdotally, the first time I met a guy who could apologize well, I thought "holy crap, I'm gonna marry that man," and that's exactly what I did :)

  • @Raiyan0070

    @Raiyan0070

    Жыл бұрын

    Could you please some show me some videos regarding strong apology skills?

  • @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    Жыл бұрын

    I used to be this guy

  • @KeshavKhanna
    @KeshavKhanna9 жыл бұрын

    Your suit is impeccable.

  • @knightjacob80
    @knightjacob802 жыл бұрын

    I started smiling and laughing while saying thank you. I enjoyed that.

  • @youngca3s2r
    @youngca3s2r7 жыл бұрын

    you are just simply got the PERFECT ATTITUDE, wish others could learn to act decently. Thank you for making such a video like this.

  • @DamionFJS
    @DamionFJS6 жыл бұрын

    I feel like cursing applies to both men & women

  • @leahanderson1576

    @leahanderson1576

    3 жыл бұрын

    All these points are gender neutral.

  • @GringoBack
    @GringoBack8 жыл бұрын

    A delightful ending sir.

  • @bilalrashid7096
    @bilalrashid70963 жыл бұрын

    Aaron We Need More Videos Like this.

  • @houssemeddinechioukh6669
    @houssemeddinechioukh66696 жыл бұрын

    you're channel is just great , thank you bro

  • @nguyenlong9853
    @nguyenlong98535 жыл бұрын

    1:41 say thank you Me: f you 1:44 i did not know that was gonna come out like that Me: how did he know, LOL

  • @averagejoe6884
    @averagejoe68847 жыл бұрын

    I say thank you whenever I buy something from a store or when I go shopping lol

  • @pmbluemoon
    @pmbluemoon6 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the video, I had to check off a few as "guilty" for me, oddly enough; not profanity, but interrupting others! I need to work on that, and saying please more often. Thank you for the tips Alpha! Keep them coming! 😀

  • @moevaabdoulfatah3998
    @moevaabdoulfatah39983 жыл бұрын

    It's my first that I meet and I subscribe. You are comic, thank you mister !

  • @sunnyGsss
    @sunnyGsss9 жыл бұрын

    I'm almost 20 years old and realised i need to grow up, hence why i am now subscribed to your channel. I ticked all points bar 2 that you said. I figured youtube would be an easy way to learn to become a man (which it is) although according to your video, my father just ticked literally every point of being a gentleman...not even kidding. Sooo basically i guess i should act like my father. Thank-you for your videos. They are already helping to make me into a better man.

  • @sunnyGsss

    @sunnyGsss

    9 жыл бұрын

    Shadowlit001 that situation is very true

  • @sanjay3018
    @sanjay30186 жыл бұрын

    I am write down these thing and put this as a poster and read it everyday morning. Thank you

  • @sirjames19
    @sirjames19 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for posting this video!

  • @raihan200
    @raihan2004 жыл бұрын

    So this means I am no gentleman. I will take this video to heart and learn these wonderful words of wisdom to better myself towards becoming a good gentleman. ''Thank you''

  • @oldtimerock6088
    @oldtimerock60886 жыл бұрын

    😂Dawmn he told me...i have all those bad habits. But he's my idle, ill take his advice...Thanks Alpham

  • @nadiyakaralash7878
    @nadiyakaralash78788 жыл бұрын

    Thank you.

  • @RennanJorge

    @RennanJorge

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Nadiya Karalash You're welcome! :)

  • @nadiyakaralash7878

    @nadiyakaralash7878

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Rennan Jorge I was saying thank you to alpha m. :P

  • @vixaa

    @vixaa

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Nadiya Karalash No problem

  • @nadiyakaralash7878

    @nadiyakaralash7878

    8 жыл бұрын

    Vixalify no problem with what lol

  • @empty19941

    @empty19941

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Nadiya Karalash thank you too

  • @aaroncharlie-silver4938
    @aaroncharlie-silver49387 жыл бұрын

    we rise by lifting others and you are a good sir

  • @andrescastro4468
    @andrescastro44687 жыл бұрын

    I love this video so much! I really try to apply these basic principles to my every day life, i'm not saying I am a know it all, and i'm "Mr.Perfect" but these things can and will help you out in life I guaranteed or your money back! Alpha M will even throw in a free boost in your confidence with the 90 day trial of these manners....... Batteries not included.

  • @sammiller6852
    @sammiller68528 жыл бұрын

    This sounds more like the rules of common sense.

  • @noelt8895

    @noelt8895

    5 жыл бұрын

    I agree, but obviously not so "common" anymore.

  • @DRJGD666
    @DRJGD6667 жыл бұрын

    I love that suit.

  • @mohamedkuyateh9596
    @mohamedkuyateh95965 жыл бұрын

    This video is very healthy. I believe this will serves as a life changing experience for any person that view this vid. Bravo Alpham keep it up!!!!!

  • @fabkury
    @fabkury7 жыл бұрын

    Alpha, I like this video and your work in general. You help make society at least a bit better.

  • @Karan-pe8hd
    @Karan-pe8hd6 жыл бұрын

    Love the end of the video 😂 *”A Gentleman knows when to shut up”*

  • @BaseballCards35
    @BaseballCards359 жыл бұрын

    Here's the best tip you'll ever receive. Be yourself, life is much easier than trying to be a "gentleman" and appease others. If you're true to yourself and act the way that pleases you life is much, much, MUCH easier.

  • @Thaulin

    @Thaulin

    9 жыл бұрын

    the worst tip ever

  • @fengkorberfer

    @fengkorberfer

    9 жыл бұрын

    that sucked fucking shit.

  • @BaseballCards35

    @BaseballCards35

    9 жыл бұрын

    Thaulin haha ok, go through life trying to please others you brainless sheeple. Let me know how you make out!

  • @BaseballCards35

    @BaseballCards35

    9 жыл бұрын

    fengkorberfer You're obviously young and haven't experienced life yet. It's cool, you'll learn once you grow up....

  • @TheNoobSensei

    @TheNoobSensei

    9 жыл бұрын

    Yes, life *is* easier when you aren't worrying about "appeasing others" (i.e. being a decent human being). That doesn't make it a good idea, nor does it make it the course of action that will lead to your own long-term happiness. If you're always doing whatever is easiest rather than expending a little more effort to be a good person, you aren't going to get very far in life.

  • @lucianlihaciu1916
    @lucianlihaciu19166 жыл бұрын

    I didn't know how much I swear till I seen this video,Thank you Aronn

  • @nathankimbro2639
    @nathankimbro26396 жыл бұрын

    Great stuff thanks for sharing. This is favorite video you’ve made so far.

  • @bloodcards3084
    @bloodcards30848 жыл бұрын

    I like the way you ended the video, it made me laugh. keep it up.

  • @dswaglemore9142
    @dswaglemore91428 жыл бұрын

    This video truly inspires me as a 15 year old male to improve my demeanor towards different cultures, sexualities, races, etc. as well as towards myself, and more importantly; other people. I had no idea how profoundly I would be affected by simply clicking on, and watching this video. Thank you for posting this, I look up to you as a role model in my life.

  • @cityhawk
    @cityhawk7 жыл бұрын

    A true gentleman treats others the way he, himself, would want to be treated.

  • @thekidphxntom
    @thekidphxntom6 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Alpha so much!!! I don’t know what I would do without you😂🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @AR-il7gn
    @AR-il7gn9 жыл бұрын

    I am black and proud.

  • @DuskyNoodles

    @DuskyNoodles

    9 жыл бұрын

    I am white and proud.

  • @nyg6863

    @nyg6863

    9 жыл бұрын

    DerCartwright lmao...

  • @DGRWPF

    @DGRWPF

    9 жыл бұрын

    DuskyNoodles haha nice. i am white and proud too! :))

  • @MrPikkabo

    @MrPikkabo

    9 жыл бұрын

    DuskyNoodles fucking racist idiot nazi

  • @nyg6863

    @nyg6863

    9 жыл бұрын

    MrPikkabo Wait, what about the other guy..? Oh, I get it...because only white people can be racist right...? The only fucking idiot here, is you.

  • @Amansalwan
    @Amansalwan7 жыл бұрын

    Hey alpha m. You forgot SORRY! Whenever a gentleman makes a mistake he always apologises regardless of the magnitude of the mistake.

  • @mrrobinet5551

    @mrrobinet5551

    4 жыл бұрын

    Never say sorry! that should be the first rule!

  • @shafaet1194

    @shafaet1194

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mrrobinet5551 How is that gentle though?

  • @wesdowty79
    @wesdowty797 жыл бұрын

    Nothing but truth right there brother. Good video!

  • @danflueras7598
    @danflueras75987 жыл бұрын

    In this moment , right after i saw your video i've really changed some thoughts... You are really helpful , keep going . You are doing it good!:)

  • @ghiathameer692
    @ghiathameer6929 жыл бұрын

    A gentleman he also knows when to shut up.. END of the video Hahaha u r a really funny gentleman

  • @RaneWalker

    @RaneWalker

    9 жыл бұрын

    I actually liked that video....

  • @1IdeaAhead
    @1IdeaAhead8 жыл бұрын

    I don't know why I noticed but your teeth are very sparkly and clean.

  • @NeverTouchedGrass69
    @NeverTouchedGrass692 жыл бұрын

    I’m thanking you for teaching us!!!

  • @westlisbon6307
    @westlisbon63076 жыл бұрын

    This the most hard hitting and enlightening video I have ever seen. This is done very gentlemanly and genuinely. This was very hard to watch. I am going to watch it repeatedly.

  • @Julian2Sounds
    @Julian2Sounds5 жыл бұрын

    "Prejudice is an emotional commitment to ignorance" - Jane Elliot.

  • @leahanderson1576

    @leahanderson1576

    3 жыл бұрын

    You are absolutely right!!!

  • @dashcostello6667
    @dashcostello66679 жыл бұрын

    You didnt say, "Please say it again"

  • @deus_ex_machina_

    @deus_ex_machina_

    9 жыл бұрын

    Dash Costello "Pardon me" is a better way to convey that message.

  • @dashcostello6667

    @dashcostello6667

    9 жыл бұрын

    Arjun Shenoy And a more Ideal way to convey yours would be replacing "A better way" with "More Ideal"

  • @deus_ex_machina_

    @deus_ex_machina_

    9 жыл бұрын

    Dash Costello A rather erudite suggestion, kind sir. I shall change my orientation on tumblr to sapiosexual shortly.

  • @dashcostello6667

    @dashcostello6667

    9 жыл бұрын

    I highly agree with your repose sir. May I please know your tumblr my kind gentleman?

  • @akshaykumar-tg2lm
    @akshaykumar-tg2lm5 жыл бұрын

    You gained my respect through this video...

  • @adamchalker2902
    @adamchalker29026 жыл бұрын

    To be honest man, you are my role model, I have learnt a lot from your videos and so I guess all I am trying to say is thank you, thank you for making these videos and giving me a real male role model

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