OMG when going through my divorce, I asked him if he ever bought her to our home…..he blustered & shouted ‘what sort of person do you think I am !!’ Gut told me he was lying….. thank you for the confirmation…..

I love how Janine blinks her eyes when she's getting complimented! I have never heard of any of you until today (6/26/21), but I am a natural body language reader and new subscriber, now!

Interesting how a lot of the signs of stress and anxiety that come with lying are similar to attraction

Love these videos so important for judges to study, lawyers and police because it’s now rampant especially here in Canada!🥶🇨🇦

I learned quite-a-bit ladies! Thank you!

The simple truth is short, not a long and complicated explanation.

If his mouth is moving, he is lying...quite simply

@kcoh77

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly... if their mouth is moving and sounds are coming out...😄

@jbstudenthv

3 жыл бұрын

Love that

@stuartbrigham8832

3 жыл бұрын

It’s not just the men...

@strokesidedesignsllc4969

3 жыл бұрын

Looks like you have some trust issues. I guess you always meet guys who lies to you right? What you focus on expands. What you fear you attract. Have some self respect.

@Suzu52

3 жыл бұрын

@@strokesidedesignsllc4969 let me guess, YOU are a liar because apparently my comment triggered you and you felt the need to insult me.......deflection 101

Thank you.

This is great; thank you, I would like to know how to take the joy of deception completely away from the lier

This I pretty amazing

Truth conveys simply Liars over convince, selling it

Nodding and touching himself... ohhhhh myyy gooooosshh 😵 I constantly wonder why he rubs his face and head SO MUCH when we ‘talk’ and now I know why... constant LIES!! 😖😖😖 it’s SO TRUE. And the lie tone of voice 😵 as soon as I ask a question and get a higher pitched ‘weeeellll... I was JUST...’ and I know I’m in for a LONG EXPLANATION aka LIE! 😖 convince vs conveying too. When the heck were we supposed to learn all this!?!? Have I been living under a rock?? Do people know this stuff and I’ve just been BLIND!!! Uggg

I do not agree if I think about myself. When I am accused of something I can really never do or someone accuses me I am lying, I naturally increase my voice and call the name of people who knows me to defend my position and I really I am not lying in that moment: I am only disperatly trying to make people who does not believe me to understand I am telling the truth. To be accused of something I have never done make me angry and I feel offended.

@anttiketonen8541

3 жыл бұрын

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So if someone was to say something like “I haven’t cheated on you” when your confronting them about ur suspicions or what if they say things like “I don’t gotta look for none anywhere” ??

Any how? I'm not ready yet to live my future so I let u new wat is hoppening to my future and we can look forward to future yah! 🤔

Love this. When i found out my narc had STD disease. I asked him about it. He raied his voice and kept saying.. I am proud to say i have never had an affair..then how do you get it

This was great. Very informative. I wish I had this several years back. Though I learned some of this through trial and error, there were times I had to navigate through the lies so deep I felt as if I was drowning when I was doubting all that was unfolding. If you don't think like a liar and your home base comes from love and healing, its very hard to imagine the effort and intensity one incorporates to protect the source of empowerment he steals to fill his empty vessel. Thank you for this!

@anttiketonen8541

3 жыл бұрын

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This is fascinating!

Excellent info ladies! Thank you!

Wait! You have your own podcast?! Where can I find it

Greg Hartley - The truth doesn’t need a qualifier.

Watching dirty John right now. Just finished dr foster. Hard to watch but also desensitizing.

It was an Irish reporter. Brilliant ladies and keep up the good work.

This is amazing!!! It would have saved me 2 marriages had I known how to listen to my gut AND how to spot a lier!!! Thank you so much for this.

AMAZING! 😁🤗👏👏👏

I knew my future ex-husband was lying to me. His mouth was moving.

Thank you, I took 3 pages of notes. So appreciated! Learning to grow. Thank you thank you ladies!!

Rebecca Zung reminds me of my Mother (Mentality wise)

Are we on air?

Every time I see Janine I learn something new. I'm grateful and happy that there are people like her sharing their knowledge. 🌹🐀

It's u person I looking for for long time?

I've been with my narc 20 years, were married. I've been in denial about his NPD for years, I've come to the sad n disgusted realization to myself. and that I'm going on 6 years now with no intimacy. No affection, no communication, no touching, sharing, friendship, no nothing. I say, I have more use for my couch than him. He don't cook, clean f_#*, nor does he do any hobbies, work parent anything productive or positive, he just lays there watching TV. All day like a sausage link. He had good looks, uses that to bait women, he's cheated with about 15 women during our relationship n always when we split apart. It's no wonder he gets another within a week while I'm torn apart trying to figure it out. It's bad enough he's extremly lazy, n a none responsive parent. I'm the rock that holds our family together. The ONLY ONE WHO PUTS AN EFFORT IN EVERY SINGLE THING, I'm tired, wiped out of energy, losing my mind, my pride, my humility, my self esteem, I've had suicide attempts also in the past b4, n he didn't budge to help nor stop me. That's about 4times. Sex maybe 2 times in 6 years, he uses every excuse why he won't perform, but when he gets a chick when we split up, he smashing her daily! I know, I've had him watched, n he confessed. he knows my prime happens once in my lifetime n I've waisted most of it. I want out, I need a divorce, I feel trapped cuz I have no income n nowhere else to go with my daughter. I made this home a home. But since it's under his name, he won't go, he'd rather me go out n figure it out. Im so disappointed in myself I've put so much love, blood, n sweat in our fake image relationship. He won't n will never see nor appreciate whatever I've done. N I e done a hell of a lot, more than the average, I've been to prison for this man! I've done a lot of raising him too. I've done the beyond normal limits, for him to blame, silent treatment me, ignore me, n show no response to me even existing right b4 his eyes as if I'm a ghost n he's never met me. I can't believe it, it's as if I don't even no him when I used to worship the ground he walked on. I see it now, I feel I wasted half my life. I AM AN AUTHENTIC EMPATH, im full of compassion n empathy, I try to save everyone I come across, in every way I can, I'm loaded with too much feelings sometimes, that too, drains me..therefore I never gave up. But now I, n even my children realize, it's time for me to be happy instead of living for someone else's needs, convenience, n happiness, to boost their fake image, it's horrible. I'm pretty hard on myself to see I've been fooled for so long, putting up with the games n mental torture, n ppl think I'm nutts when I describe him cuz he don't make sense. But since I been viewing your videos, u describe him as if u no him personally. As if you are married to him. I'm glad I'm not going crazy, n I'm not the only one. I need a plan to evacuate his dilemma of psychosis. I'm sad I let this go on so long, but thank u for all your advise, it help me at least relate, n think of ways to deal in the meantime. N u have proof for me to show others that this strange behavior n treatments are real. I made the mistake of showing him this, how the scales went even, n how I do n do, n he don't n never has, I didn't no better b4. Now he's against me, but thanks to our videos, My kids won't think I'm nutts now nor the bad guy with his twisted stories..I wish I had help to leave...plz pray for me..thank you

@therealjd1503

6 ай бұрын

I hope it worked out for you.

I was in move long time and log of people in my drim so wat is it ?😅

It's she really seare this future

Did u star this love letter long time ago

Super helpful...confirms so much! Spot on....thank you

Thank you for the video. I had this gut wrenching feeling that my husband was/is hiding something from me, having an affair to be exact. I approached him about it and his answer was a quick, flat sounding “No”. Didn’t even look at me when he said no, didn’t say anything reassuring, just a “No”. So I’m over here wondering if I’m overthinking everything or if if he is lying. I don’t know what to do. I do have some trust issues, past experiences and all that, so I don’t know if I’m just being paranoid or this gut feeling I’m having is legit and my mind and body and trying to tell me something. :( So that’s what brought me here.

@Debo4ah

2 жыл бұрын

Same. It’s so overwhelming and I’m too embarrassed and ashamed to say anything bc I don’t want him to pull away.... which is stupid bc I don’t nag him or breathe down his neck. I just want a sound mind. Its very challenging to train my mind to overcome mental/emotional flooding. I have been bracing myself for impact while at the same time pushing myself to just let go and focus on Jesus (whom is the same yesterday, today, and tomorrow; whom is with me always; and whom comforts and encourages me; and is the only one who cares even when nobody else does). Thank you for sharing your story.

@Lannie74

2 жыл бұрын

Your story sounds just like mine. My husband has all the signs of cheating but refuses to admit it. I basically know. I too am always thinking and wondering who it was. I feel like if I knew from his mouth I could probably try and move forward but without knowing the truth I’m always going to wonder

@staceystrukel1917

5 ай бұрын

If he loved you and cared about your relationship wouldn’t he want to talk about it?

U ask Michael he's one always take my picture so I don't make moves hellow😮

This is my mom or wat I'm looking for my mom she right me letter first time and she gon never tolk to me for long time so new there lot of people in my mind

New this bill is coming out is for world to go forward so we all go forward together in future no problem booking us

Janine is just fascinating, and so personable.

OMG my ex-husband narc would constantly do the head and arm gesture

Rebecca.... do the Ted Talk

3 smart, fun women hosting a very interesting video. Thank you all so much! Not sure I would live through a happy hour with you three. My stomach would hurt from laughing, I would probably have tears rolling down my face (from laughter) from your stories & my brain might explode with so much new knowledge. "But" 😁 it would be SOOO much fun. Cheers

Wst they want new?

The Exes tone would go up while he angrily 😡 deflected me say hi 👋🏼 to the neighbor Maria for me. He would overreact ....dead giveaway! Suspicious reaction

I don't need friend so way ?

Wat is this show?

Sorry I'm lost this story?

How me ?

Right new i have to much stress ftom this evil peopl abouse me so i xsnt dink about love or sex im stress out i need break 😢

How new u guys can read this cocoi I can't they hiding it from me that way I don't do duty job for them to go forward

sounds so evil. i learned a long time ago when i was in 2nd grade that telling the truth is just plain simple. even when i messed up admitting it was just great because an honest man has nothing to worry about. i’ve never worried. i do work with a a bunch of liars. they brake something and lie about it. things brake just say so. putting away things that are broke drives me nuts.

@strokesidedesignsllc4969

3 жыл бұрын

I respect this.

@Suzu52

3 жыл бұрын

@@strokesidedesignsllc4969 oh you "respect" this but are disrespectful to my comment...so you re a MAN Got it

@strokesidedesignsllc4969

3 жыл бұрын

I feel like you are pissed off at men than. Good luck with that. I wasn't disrespectful. I just stated my opinion. Disrespectful is just a story.

And I'm world future ❤️

This was so AWESOME TYSVM FOR doing this I love you ladies. Wow so informative and great. My husband whom I am divorcing is so this. Can't wait 2 connw r with all Susan and Janine I APPRECIATE YOU ALL. YOU ALL ROCK! SO EXCITED 2 SEE AND LEARN MORE so helpful to me for confirmation ....and closure. God. Less all u do. Hugs 🙏❤

I'm not ready yet to my future yet so don't sceard me new

Wdt do u won't me to new ? 😊

He's breathing, so there's that

This is absolutely great great great great, and for me also helping and giving counsel too many people I have always said listen to the decibels either they’ll raise or drop if someone is lying or trying to manipulate you.

@fleetlife9305

3 жыл бұрын

And you’re doing a awesome job to as well and I definitely appreciate your channel🙏🏽💯❤️😇

Great show! Thank you.

I would happily accompany Susan to a restaurant but lucky for her, I'm in the UK. 😂

The X also said he doesn’t talk with his mouth full while he was chewing a mouthful , haha 🤣

I see them wen they tolk to world about this cocos I don't new about in this body

Are this my hikers

Wat is this conseling loving or wat ?

Wat are u guys taking about this reading in this Coco s I don't new about or I can't see wat are u guys taking about please don't confuse me

......... 1988 NASA Aircraft and Derivation ... Stop avoiding it

Narcissists. How can u tell if ur narcissist husband is cheating on

@anttiketonen8541

3 жыл бұрын

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@cas1889ify

3 жыл бұрын

I'm asking myself the same thing 🙄

@nikkid4890

2 жыл бұрын

Narcissists know that they are lying and would also have adapters and nonverbal cues. If you remember that deception makes them feel so much more clever than you, you can look for hallmarks of arrogance such as duping delight, head lifting and almost looking down their nose at you, and explosive behaviour when you dare question them

What about if you are accusing them of things involving another and cheating and they are angry and feel that as they stressed that im suspicious and cant trust him and he has never even gone out with talked to bought things for or screwed.... everything I accused him of he repeated and said hes never done anything with this person Ask her yourself.. go on make yourself a fool or he said if you cant trust me we are in trouble But he continues to alter screens when i walk past his laptop or takes iphone to the toilet He has the financial position of power ... threatens this .....

@suzyharpa459

3 жыл бұрын

And so did Bill Clinton said the same... i never had sexual relations with that woman ... then we found out it Was true about his sexual affair

I've been watch already that "Dirty John" thank you ladies for sharing this topic about Lying that lately i found it that my husband he's lying hiding the money or something legal.

One sign for sure is when their pants are on fire

How do I new if someone is wat me or love me I don't read mind so yolk to me I'm new wat u don't like but right new I'm in middle of world I can't held this would my self do I but my realsnship after this problem and and I start my life and my future with someone that she care or wat to live with me in future

Thought of an idea would be kool if a body language expert gives their opinions on adverts that are trying sell things x

Why do you use men as though they do all of the wrong or lying? I'm going through a lot with my womans infidelity. I know for sure, and she won't admit it. She does everything that you ladies are talking about.

Well right new my Brian is broke I can't dink

👍

Lot of rules lady's,?

Sorry but seen a comedy video about a “lion tamer” that have never thought of ever or heard and now it’s hard not to hear it.

also im. not a powerful liar. i suck at lying. i’m honest and people say in to honest. i say there is no such thing. but somethings would be simpler but if someone can’t handle the truth i don’t give a fuck

Well u new world is to crowded of people they like evthing so wat is it u see u don't like me to do online

what about the yawn and a another yawn and a another etc with knowing they are looking uncomfortable while yawning

Stop that yet ? U new u see me every day I can't see u wat ur doing so how do I new ther is somebody care I never new this realsnship it's really or not

Janine… When you said “yeah, you killed it… You were awesome.“ Your eyes were closed the whole time. What does that mean? And I’m wondering why you’re totally resting your chin on your hand? ( you said “win”; so power? )I’m being totally serious with these questions. Because of who you are… Are you trying to look real relaxed and put your body in a certain position so people don’t come at you… Kind of like I am, but I’m being nice. I’m pretty good at reading people, but I would love to know more. I always thought that a sign of pure boredom. Thank you.

O. M. G. !!!

@oscarwilliamson1128

Жыл бұрын

Cheryl Hillskemper,You are beautiful 😍,Hope you are with a good man 👨….

How I'm going to hendel two of u new ?

one dead giveaway someone is lying is when they have more than one excuse. if it’s a couple paragraphs it’s a lie. if it’s short and sweet it’s the truth. also the truth doesn’t always make sense. lies always make sense cause their lies.

@stuartbrigham8832

3 жыл бұрын

Great analysis. Unfortunately, the truth was always questioned as if I were lying for the simple fact that the truth didn’t always seem convenient. My significant other would always be able to explain why she did certain things and then completely lose me in her dizzying conversation. Rarely would I just get a straight forward answer. Someone who is telling the truth says it simply because they don’t have any cognitive dissonance and subconsciously don’t have a reason to verify what they’re saying.

@strokesidedesignsllc4969

3 жыл бұрын

Chris you are right except for this : 1) never assume it's a lie. Make an educated decision based upon more than 1 signal. 2) don't assume they are going to lie. Watch out for bias and go with an open mind. 3) Short answers without too much details are usually lies. which is the opposite of what you say. The only time what you sajd applies Is when they have had time to think through it and make it credible. That however can't stop you from spotting the lie if you know what to look for. Ask lots of questions.. By the way read Janine book because you cannot cherry pick information and make people liers without knowing what you are taking about.

U new i this is not tolk about in puplic goss i hsve men live with me ok

Can we tolk are realsnship letter goss I'm stl living with rat poor and this ev peopl are blocking me to forward ok 🙏😜

Wat? Please I'm confused wat are u guys taking about stop

How is she another lover?😅

I bought your book and I didn't receive it.

Don't worry I've seen dirty John more than three times lol so no spoiling it for me lol. Loved it caus it made me laugh at how he just kept the last es 🥐 ng and looking like such looser. Omg. Scary that men think people don't see right through it.

Tree of u hell no are u guys going to kill me

Thou protest too much!!

@oscarwilliamson1128

Жыл бұрын

Wendy Saysrs,You look cute 🥰,Hope you are not with a narcissist…

You know I've done most of those things while telling the truth. They more seem like an indicator that the other person thinks you think they are lying

That’s why they say, “belly up to the bar!”🤣

All this time theh show my cocos yo world new they wst money for it

Thst drug they but me live with drug ok so dont tell ne u but camera in my house watching wat im doing in my house report me

Mine constantly makes the excuse that he's going to the doctor's and block me from calling or texting because "he's at the doctor's" during covid-19 7 times a month or more I mean really I swear it's every week he tells ne he's got to go to the doctor all I want to do is punch him in the eye an eye for an eye lol

New wat u worry about way are u getting mad to me ?