5 Things Every Married Couple MUST Hear - With Ken and Tabatha Claytor

After being married for 23 years we have great advice up our sleeve. If you are married, planning to get married, or still praying to God for a spouse this episode is for you.
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  • @mukc6496
    @mukc6496 Жыл бұрын

    My wife and I celebrated 5years of marriage this year. This is fire 🔥🙏🏾 thank you!

  • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    7 ай бұрын

    Congrats!

  • @kholaaagain

    @kholaaagain

    5 ай бұрын

    Two years for me and mine. Congrats, man.

  • @resmith44321
    @resmith44321 Жыл бұрын

    I am now on the 2nd podcast and you both are amazing. I've been married for 19 years and listening to your podcast it really gives a different prospective on things. I really want to stop and listen with my husband then I thought it would really be nice if we listened on our own then come together and discuss it. Thank you both. May God continue to bless your marriage. ❤

  • @denisa.Y
    @denisa.YАй бұрын

    This was really good. Hubby and I married 8 years in June and difficult is an understatement 😅

  • @Khanyisile3
    @Khanyisile39 ай бұрын

    This is so good even for singles! I just love your wisdom, all glory to God 🎉 ♥

  • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    9 ай бұрын

    Amen! Thanks for watching!

  • @anp0731
    @anp073111 ай бұрын

    The dishes though. Idk if I can ever get to that place Tabatha. I end up doing them, but I am furious and irritated while doing so. Everyone knows their responsibilities. In order for house to function in sanity, everyone must do their part.

  • @lesliecastro4916

    @lesliecastro4916

    4 ай бұрын

    Try your best. Stress is not your friend it causes health issues.

  • @alessiajoy2906
    @alessiajoy29064 ай бұрын

    I love Tabatha's maturity and her soft voice when she may disagree with something's that's said.

  • @3DSuccess
    @3DSuccess7 ай бұрын

    I hear his wife so clearly. She is sharing her truth in such a kind and loving way!

  • @tammyspeakliferadioministr2332
    @tammyspeakliferadioministr233210 ай бұрын

    Tabitha, like you I grew up in the projects, Brooklyn, NY where I developed grit and perseverance. In my adulthood I expect difficulty but with Christ Jesus I can overcome this world.

  • @maameodeadu-gyamfi7913
    @maameodeadu-gyamfi791324 күн бұрын

    Listening From Ghana. I am a fun and I am Learning a lot from you guys. I listen to you when I am at work, home, bathingroom ect

  • @annettelyles975
    @annettelyles97511 ай бұрын

    I am single at the moment. You both have been a blessing. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @ebony2413
    @ebony241310 ай бұрын

    Fantastic!!🙌🏾

  • @hopeshakke9772
    @hopeshakke9772 Жыл бұрын

    Wow! I have followed you on IG for a while and love how you relate. I love your calmness and simplicity. This is my first video of you and I love it. I love your depth in the Word of God and how that's what guides your marriage. I love your authenticity. I am here for it all and will share and share. Thank you and blessings to you Ken and Tabatha.

  • @doneidasimpson-simon9554
    @doneidasimpson-simon9554 Жыл бұрын

    This was such a blessing to listen to.. thanks for sharing and may God bless you both🙏🏾

  • @Kiai808
    @Kiai8089 ай бұрын

    Great content. Thank you so much for sharing your marriage advice! Ken, it’s so funny how you always bring up the first 2 years of difficulty! You’re both amazing :)

  • @rumbichinhara2774
    @rumbichinhara27749 ай бұрын

    I love you guys🤍🇿🇼 I enjoyed catching up with all content you shared before I subscribed. My Spirit Man is well fed by your sharings.

  • @tammycovington3288
    @tammycovington32889 ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing 👏👏🙌👊💯

  • @jstellato921able
    @jstellato921able10 ай бұрын

    Sooo good!! 👏🏼 Excellent relationship & marriage advice! Kudos to you both for all the valuable content you are sharing. ❤️

  • @rosameijering5161
    @rosameijering5161 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for being such a nice, balanced and loving couple. You seem to really fit

  • @AllenADlaminiTV
    @AllenADlaminiTV5 ай бұрын

    Thank you guys, I enjoy how you navigate this ministry of marriage. And I'm inspired because I also sense God incorporate marriage ministry into my calling. Thank you guys 🙏🏻

  • @sivvysetowski3708
    @sivvysetowski3708Ай бұрын

    Thank you for this great content. ❤ God bless you guys.

  • @watchwhatyaeattv
    @watchwhatyaeattv2 ай бұрын

    Great couple , love this channel . Starting a channel as well with my wife and this is the motivation needed. God is good!!!!

  • @SheletaWatts
    @SheletaWatts Жыл бұрын

    Thank you! This information is on time.

  • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    Жыл бұрын

    Glad this was helpful!

  • @blackcure8744
    @blackcure87448 ай бұрын

    wow, I struggle just like Tabatha with worrying too much but when she mentioned what God revealed to her by saying Focus on what is important right now. That just spoke to me to let my worries go because what I have right now is what I need and I'm alright. Amazing show guys, thank you so much.

  • @meshiawashington5852
    @meshiawashington5852Ай бұрын

    I truly enjoyed this! This will not be my last watch.❤

  • @2008Tamez
    @2008Tamez3 ай бұрын

    I love that you reference that verse in Nehemiah. What a wonderful principle to use... fight and build at the same time. Love y'alls podcast!

  • @Megan_Alexis
    @Megan_AlexisАй бұрын

    Been binging these episodes. 😍 I just love Pastor Ken and Tab and look forward to your words of wisdom 🤍 thank you !!!

  • @gracegrace9386
    @gracegrace93869 ай бұрын

    This is soooo great

  • @phriscabless3100
    @phriscabless310019 күн бұрын

    Wow. I just discovered this beautiful couple and I love then already. Thanks a lot. I've been blessed

  • @carola.richards9405
    @carola.richards9405 Жыл бұрын

    I just discovered you two today and am already so very appreciative of your honesty and transparency. I look forward to viewing your other videos. Thank you! ❤🔥🔥🔥♥️

  • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!! 🙏🏾

  • @stephaniereeves7148
    @stephaniereeves71487 ай бұрын

    This was surely good information. I’m not Married yet but I’m looking forward to it. When God sends my husband, I will apply some of this good information to carry when our finally get married.😊

  • @yashicacarr4668
    @yashicacarr466811 ай бұрын

    This episode blessed me so much! May God continue to keep you and your family! Praying for the blood of Jesus covering you all! I thank God I found your channel. Keep letting the Lord use you both. The biblical wisdom you all are giving is better than gold.❤

  • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    11 ай бұрын

    🙌🏾❤️

  • @erinohnmeiss200
    @erinohnmeiss200 Жыл бұрын

    My husband and I celebrate our 5 year wedding anniversary May 12th, this was amazing to listen to, VERY informative and inspiring, marriage is not easy, it is work, and so worth it though!!! Thank you for sharing, I just started following you guys a week ago and I’m really enjoying everything you share! God Bless!!

  • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for your comment, it means a lot to us! So glad you are enjoying what we are putting out

  • @godisgoodjoann
    @godisgoodjoann Жыл бұрын

    Really enjoy your video's Your honest Your both good-looking Your lovingly kind to each other Pray for n me n my Husband Ken...I can't wait to let my husband see this...

  • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for watching. We’re praying for you both.

  • @katrinadodd2315
    @katrinadodd23158 ай бұрын

    " You can be boyfriend and girlfriend and the devil will leave you alone." This is so true. Everything was peaches and cream until my husband, and I said I do after that; all hell broke loose.

  • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    7 ай бұрын

    Satan wants to break the marriage covenant at all costs. God bless your union!

  • @DrVanessaBrooks
    @DrVanessaBrooks8 ай бұрын

    Not just you. It’s a woman and personality thing for sure. It’s not easy. Thinking of the things on your plate and then the unexpected dirty dishes or stuff lying on the floor. So true. Yes… we don’t mean to put the hubby in category as kids but see how it added to the list of dishes or stuff on the floor. Can be a challenge to keep in perspective and not trip

  • @gloriaparham8489
    @gloriaparham84894 ай бұрын

    I don’t agree with the mother just going on and doing the chores. I believe the husband should have a family meeting and take control of that scenario informing the house even himself that mom is not the maid we should all pitch in and do including husband should enforce it, because if she is doing all the chores that other family member should be doing now she’s turned into a maid, get burned out, and that doesn’t help other family members in the household to learn responsibility and being considerate of how the other family members mom or dad feel

  • @latoyabasden4725
    @latoyabasden4725 Жыл бұрын

    Amen!!!!

  • @rosameijering5161
    @rosameijering5161 Жыл бұрын

    4:10 on point

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas498810 ай бұрын

    Opinions are like noses Everybody has one Doesn’t mean I want yours on my face😮

  • @12546382
    @125463823 ай бұрын

    enjoy listening and my birthday is 14 jan

  • @nyamushagibridget9853
    @nyamushagibridget98532 ай бұрын

  • @vitoriaraposo7859
    @vitoriaraposo78597 ай бұрын

    👏🏼🙏🏼

  • @brandygates6583
    @brandygates6583 Жыл бұрын

    1. Expect difficulty

  • @rmechelle4230
    @rmechelle42309 ай бұрын

    I really enjoyed this video, and agree with most things, except for doing the dishes for the children. It teaches children to be irresponsible and to be disrespectful to the mother/wife in the home. I would have called a family meeting and explained that we are a “team”, and everyone has a part to play. The next time that your chores are undone, privileges are being pulled.

  • @3DSuccess

    @3DSuccess

    7 ай бұрын

    I agree It seems as though her true heart desire and need are being brushed over.

  • @brandygates6583
    @brandygates6583 Жыл бұрын

    Stop threatening leaving, divorce or separation

  • @maconmattersliveconversati5127
    @maconmattersliveconversati5127 Жыл бұрын

    😮

  • @valvanixza
    @valvanixza Жыл бұрын

    Pastor ken and mrs. tabitha referring to your comment about spouses that take 10 days away from spouse with friends, would you consider that spending 3-4 hours away from your spouse with friends, reasonable? Or 3-4 hours away with friends is the same has spending 10 days away from your spouse?

  • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for that question. If you’re going to spend time away 3-4 hours is very different from 10 days away. It takes 4 hours to play 18 holes of golf! And that’s healthy. 😀⛳️ It’s really whatever works for your marriage. 🙏🏽

  • @brandygates6583
    @brandygates6583 Жыл бұрын

    4. Stay Flexible

  • @brandygates6583
    @brandygates6583 Жыл бұрын

    5. Divorce is not an option

  • @brandygates6583
    @brandygates6583 Жыл бұрын

    2. Don’t over romanticize marriage

  • @allisonhinds8384
    @allisonhinds83848 ай бұрын

    So did you guys not talk and talk and talk before getting married. So dealing with your depression should have been dealt with it then.