“If you’re not her first choice, why do you want to be her choice at all?” Straight fire!

@TCBabcock

3 жыл бұрын

Let's be realistic though. You're probably not her first choice. If you are, something is wrong.

@reverendmarvelous2243

3 жыл бұрын

Uh, because there's literally no other women here.

@seandafny

3 жыл бұрын

Because she looks like jada pinkett

@dvez7542

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you! Glad I saw this. This clarifies my view on someone I like but letting that shit go because clearly I'm not her first or any choice (it seems) despite the very tight body to body hugs she gives me at every greeting. Letting it go. It's a disinterested pussy anyway. Your sentence spells it all out!

@learnpianofastonline

3 жыл бұрын

Unless it's a casual thing, as in a friend with benefits.

I once asked a female "friend" why did she only call me when she needed something. I asked her why couldn't she call just to say hello. She never called me again. That was a wake up call. I now call people out a lot sooner.

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

So frustrating. Good for you for being able to recognize that! It’ll save you a lot of time going forward. People can be so shady!

@tmklunk

3 жыл бұрын

Saves so much heartache

@afifafif8844

3 жыл бұрын

kzread.info/dash/bejne/pJeFmNZ6osrcktI.html

@KT-dk6ej

3 жыл бұрын

@@CourtneyRyan I am a follower of @alpha m. and I can say "When a girl likes you but is shy to call you casually, she will make some reasons to call for your help. This is the best situation where she wants to spend time with you while you help and then she also gets a chance to give you something in return!!! Boom!!! Do you want to miss it? The difference to identify is: to understand if you are not loosing anything when you do that help and if she is beside you trying to help you help her. If yes, then you should say Yes to her. If no, then... maybe do not say anything... as we never hurt woman whether they are good or bad."

@therealjulez7886

3 жыл бұрын

congrats homie. u are filtering out the ones who are using u for help & attention. I call them out quick now, I have no time for games. only time for $$$

My motto, don't expect anything from anybody at any time. Have no expectations of others.

@marcpavlik

24 күн бұрын

And you end up as a 55 year old man, never married, no kids, no dates in over 2 decades and I have 2 real friends. Much better in my opinion, this way. I'm not a game player, if they aren't real, then I'm gone.

@APOLON-bm7ym

23 күн бұрын

@@marcpavlik Still better than what my uncle did. He is now battered man 60yrs old. She even turned kids against him. A redneck woman that came from some Bosnian village and was stationed in one hotel for solitary ppl, dealers and basically scum for 10 yrs, waiting for a prey. Worst thing is that he was a guy that was swithing girls regulary like every month or so. Then, one day, when he was 40, he brought her and said "this is my wife". I was like 13-14yrs old, and my friends together with me were just stunned watching her. She was one male-like creature without any womans characteristics whatsoever, completely unattractive. I moved out after sometime, but still own 1st floor and a small yardhouse there (reason I left is I couldnt listen them making love at night. Actually hers "ah-ah" - was utterly disgusting. Especially if I was downthere with a GF. I was convinced she deliberately did it in the room just above my own - They have 3 floors and no need to screw above my head). Sorry for the length. Ah yes, doctors found to my uncle malignant cells in prostate, some 2 months ago and diagnosed him cancer. But, instead of changing at least the diet, she kept feeding him with cheapest flesh from supermarket. So, if you marry somebody like that, any enemy would be almost harmless in comparison to that wtch.

@LisaHack-hq3dv

2 күн бұрын

​@@marcpavlikJesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

@marcpavlik

Күн бұрын

@@LisaHack-hq3dv Actually, Yes, Jesus was put to death by the Romans, Yes, the Bible says He was crucified. It was the power of God that was able to conquer death. That is our HOPE! I understand what you are saying, but fact of the matter, the human life of our Christ Jesus was dead.

The saddest part after listening to this is is that you realize no one in your life actually ask you about you and actually like you.

@peterplotts1238

7 ай бұрын

Almost nobody cares. They are too busy thinking about themselves and are overwhelmed by self-consciousness. However, you don't have to do that. If you train yourself to be interested and engaged with other people, including women, and resist the temptation to focus on yourself, you will find the results rewarding. People will be drawn and attracted to you.

@zerocal76

3 ай бұрын

@@peterplotts1238 What timing. I read your comment when today, I basically made the decision to go in the direction you speak of (much less about oneself, more about the ppl around us). I was already on this path but damn, nice to see someone else sees things like this. Cheers mate and happy 2024 🖖

@peterplotts1238

3 ай бұрын

@@zerocal76 I'm so glad you agree Women are attracted to men who can make them laugh. But don't try too hard. Be cool, be confident. Enjoy the moment. If anything doesn't go quite right, behave as if you are completely unfazed, and deal with the issue with calm, grace, and humor. She will drive herself nuts wondering if and when you will call her. (I'm giving myself a pep talk. I hope you don't mind.) Good luck and best wishes.

@peterplotts1238

3 ай бұрын

@@zerocal76 By the way, thanks for cheering me up.

@zerocal76

3 ай бұрын

@peterplotts1238 well im not easy to make laugh and u got a lol out of me w that pep talk 😄 Thing is in a world of consumerism, everyone's trying to make $$ off the invidual. Imo that's what pushing us even further to selfishness. It's refreshing to see someone who can see beyond the reg persons view u know? The reg person would just shrug their shoulders at this. Question, at what age did u realize what u said in your original comment?

When she finds out you have an American Express Black Card, she’ll start liking you real quick.

@loyal4theway159

3 жыл бұрын

A man supposed to provide

@user-mi3fs5qh5z

3 жыл бұрын

😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂

@travisloftin7086

3 жыл бұрын

@@loyal4theway159 A woman shouldn’t just drain a man like a leach it should be a balance. Never give advice to a man about a relationship it’s clear you’re looking for a free ride through life.

@loyal4theway159

3 жыл бұрын

@@travisloftin7086 LOL Bruh relax it's just a KZread video

@loyal4theway159

3 жыл бұрын

@@eballa2121 female needs security And love Just keep that in mind

I'm so sick of dealing with emotionally damaged women.

@RascalFascal

Жыл бұрын

thats why: I swear to god 90% if these kind of videos on youtube(not just on this channel btw.) make absolutely NO SENSE to me. BECAUSE of one simple question: What REAL MAN puts up with this kind of bullshit? IF...and I really POINT OUT HERE...if I get a girls phone number...I try to call once,twice...MAYBE a third time. If that shit doesn`t work I send one text...ONE. Something along the lines of: "hey we exchanged phone numbers the other day...how you doing?" or whatever. if the bitch doesn`t respond...she is out! I change her name in my phone too "don`t answer" and that`s it...I get on with my life. And suggest EVERY PERSON who reads this comment to do the same. safes you a lot of BS and stress. PEACE you`re wellcome.

@Ray_Adams

Жыл бұрын

thats about 85 to 90% of women. its really sad.

@allendaigle6351

Жыл бұрын

Do you a second Amendment on that because you got my vote

@alamrafique6216

Жыл бұрын

Chill man!

@allendaigle6351

Жыл бұрын

@@alamrafique6216 you don't have to live with five of them

Easiest way to get out of the "Friend Zone" is to simply... Stop being their friend. And if they ask why you're being distant, tell them. It probably won't work in terms of getting them to like you, but at least you know you were finally yourself to them.

@hangtran7700

20 күн бұрын

why can't we be friends ? it's better being friend than being strangers no ?

@Ripuli1974

4 күн бұрын

@@hangtran7700 This isn't friendship. You can't be friends with someone you have feelings for. When someone puts you into his/her friendzone the only way to get out of this miserable situation is to break up contact. Life is too short to spend your energy into hurting yourself.

@LisaHack-hq3dv

2 күн бұрын

​@@Ripuli1974Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

@LisaHack-hq3dv

2 күн бұрын

​@@hangtran7700Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

If she keeps bugging you, asks a lot of questions about you, always looks for an excuse to touch you, and give you hints that she wants you to take her out……..I’m pretty sure she’s into you. The biggest problem of both sexes is that it’s tough to find someone who likes you back and puts the same effort.

@bobross1829

9 ай бұрын

Another one that a girl does not like you is she does not remember anything you already told her about you when you see her again. Women remember everything about a girl they like, when they talked to them, what they said, where they work, where they go to school, etc.. If she remembers that kind of stuff and asks for example, how is (your school/specific job, etc..) chances are she likes you

If SHE doesn't actively and persistently seek to be with you, she's not interested. It is that simple.

@michaelsmusic3532

3 жыл бұрын

Let me get this straight, if she doesn't want to spend time with me then that means she doesn't want to spend time with me ? LOL Ok, just joking 'round guess some people need this advice

@mcali-reviews5585

3 жыл бұрын

In other words don't be like Steve Urkel chasing Laura Winslow 🙅🏃🚮😂😂

@herculesbrofister265

3 жыл бұрын

@@mcali-reviews5585 urkel's cool, remember when he was in that gang, Dragons i think they were called.

@mcali-reviews5585

3 жыл бұрын

@@herculesbrofister265 lol yeah

@mcali-reviews5585

3 жыл бұрын

@@herculesbrofister265 remember when he turned to Stefan the bad boy and Laura was all over him

One thing I've learned in 50+ years is that If I like them, they Don't like me. If I don't like them, they won't leave me alone.

@dieselcowboy777

3 жыл бұрын

Or the reality you never understood is the kind that you don't like are your true matches.....but you want the ones that are not your match

@dieselcowboy777

3 жыл бұрын

So you either have to start liking those in your beavis and butthead mind that are your true matches that you don't like.....or continue living alone rejected by the women that are not your match and you do want

@dieselcowboy777

3 жыл бұрын

I know what you are talking about because that is why I am still single.... I refuse to date women i am not attracted to and i only want the attractive women that don't find me attractive It seems all the attractive women find me unattractive and the unattractive women find me attractive... I get lots of black women telling me how handsome i am and the attractive white women roll their eyes and turn their heads away or scrunch their noses at me....totally frustrating

@pflans2306

3 жыл бұрын

@@almightyretrosoul No it doesn’t.Get used to it.

@codyburgess5522

3 жыл бұрын

good

in my experience, as a male. I've friend zoned females. Only to later actually be attracted to them as I got to know them. So I'm sure this can apply to us guys. I've had it happen myself where I girl I liked, I swore hated me at times. And later, after a year or so of being around each other and mutual friends, was apparent she was interested in me. Fuck this friend zone bullshit. Just be around people you like, and things may or may not happen. Just don't force it. Be genuine.

@ArcaneTricksterRS

9 ай бұрын

A girlfriend I had for 3 years, we were initially friends for almost a year. I wasn't really sexually attracted to her at first, but as we spent more time together playing games or hanging out with friends, I develop that sexual attraction and it took almost a whole year from the first time we met to finally getting together. But I think I'm just the exception, or this situation is a vast exception. I wouldn't expect to ever happen again in my life, or to anyone else. It's a rare situation to happen.

@craigclermond8001

8 ай бұрын

nah, no one should wait around to be second choice. if things are to happen they will but just being around a girl hoping things will just better is a loser. Thats like saying just go to work everyday and hope you get a promotion. Work for what you want but never just stand around waiting.

@romans52345-cy3tq

8 ай бұрын

Women don't get friendzoned ok

@haroldrios8940

8 ай бұрын

That happens to us men because we increase in attraction through presence and share times. Women works different. Also, you get in the FZ because you are interested in her but do not make a move.

@morikibbutz2734

6 ай бұрын

@@romans52345-cy3tq wrong

I went a date with a girl and it went really well, we hung out for several hours, great convo and banter. She even texted me the following day. She also expressed interest in attending this event that I invited her to, but was ultimately unable. We were texting a little and she was very responsive at first, then a day later, things shifted and she just stopped. I was getting one response every 24 hours, but she would also lazily volley the question back at me with a "What about you?" Which kept the convo going. Making one last attempt, I texted and asked her out again, this time she just ignored it completely. This has been my dating life in a nutshell. Things seem great, then suddenly... ghosted.

@dinguswiffle1866

6 ай бұрын

You described my situation spot on, it’s more common than we both think!

@ejays99

6 ай бұрын

@@dinguswiffle1866 I think they find another shiny object that distracts them away, and chase that until something even shinier comes along.

@dinguswiffle1866

6 ай бұрын

@@ejays99 Yeah man they don’t feel emotions the way we do. It seems so short and unimportant to them, while we are really hoping for a true relationship.

@MattKittredge2112

5 ай бұрын

I JUST had this experience (again) myself 2 weeks ago. I’m just over it at this point.

@bensherman8976

4 ай бұрын

Yep im going through that now..

I think I am a semi-attractive guy, but rejection is still devastating. My friend gave me the best advice "Who ever cares the least has the most control". There you go. Make sure it is you.

@RandomCrap

Жыл бұрын

Yeah I can feel your pain.. I had multiple girls who would text non stop over the weekend and then suddenly starts texting only smiles or 1 word messages, shows no interest at all.. I hate that feeling where you know you just wasted multiple hours texting someone which is worthless to you. Also its important to see that shes not playing with you as well as some will use opportunity to gain your compliments, attention just to make herself feel good that day.. Just make sure you not giving everything she wants or if you notice that shes not talking to you the same way anymore - dont give her anything at all

@DaZHurt3r

Жыл бұрын

Every guy gets rejected even alot of girls as well nowadays. It happens to everyone so don't let that stop you bruh

@MarkJones-gt2qd

Жыл бұрын

@@RandomCrap Girls are very different mentally than men. They are a bit like mentally challenged males on meth. I say that with love, but they are always thinking, planning, worrying, considering, imagining. It must be exhausting, and I only see it now that I'm trying to support my daughter, as a mother figure rather than a father, or a mixture. I don't enjoy being in my daughters head, and she is, afaict, a wonderful human being. Without emotional boundaries, women especially go out of control. They aren't men with boobs. The point being, the rejection isn't ever a rational thought. It's incidental. I heard a woman complaining about her lot the other day, she was wishing she'd accepted some bloke who now is doing great, even though she has a great husband, and at least functional sons. she still thinks about a decision she made 30 years ago. Women think and rethink everything.

@jdmans

Жыл бұрын

@@RandomCrap Go to Nevada and get a girl for the day in a county where pros is legal, they will appreciate you much more than those people

@stuartbritton4811

Жыл бұрын

If you are gay or semi you'll never attract the right woman. If we go back a hundred years, we might succeed, but not today.

I'm at the point where if a girl likes me, I get suspicious. I start asking questions like, "Who are you working for?" "How did you find me?" "Who is your parole officer?"

@tonmoysam2533

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@DirtySouthJR

3 жыл бұрын

Then she tells you to pay for her Only Fans.

@lanerussell7958

3 жыл бұрын

@@DirtySouthJR so far I've not had that request; but I'm sure it's not far behind.

@TCBabcock

3 жыл бұрын

I feel the same way. There's a joke that goes something like when someone shows interest in me I lose all interest in them. Can't be with someone with such poor judgment!

@DirtySouthJR

3 жыл бұрын

@@lanerussell7958 oh just wait it's an epidemic brother. If you get any, what I call, "digital stripper" vibes the only fans request is inevitable.

This is actually so truth. It's tilting AF when you're into a hot girl who doesn't like you, but she instead likes another guy who is seemingly nice but is taking her for a ride and most certainly does not have any deeper feelings. It's when you realise that, that this chaotic ladder of acceptance works more ways than one. Let the fools be played, while you learn from your own mistakes and move on.

@blaqsteel9

10 ай бұрын

Well said 👍🏾👍🏾

@seandana72

25 күн бұрын

And never give them a chance again… unless it’s a pure pump and dump.

"I just think we all deserve someone who wants to be with us." - The Office

1. She doesn’t talk to you 2. If she cancels and doesn’t hang out 3. No physical contact or doesn’t like physical contact 4. She calls you friend 5. Talking about other guys (bringing up other guys)

@MixSonaProductions

3 жыл бұрын

mostly every girls. They only talk with me, when they need me. Sometimes they show 5 signs of liking as pointed out in Courtney's video, ended up being a wrong sign

@fitnessguru8012

3 жыл бұрын

Talking about other guys. I had a girl call me after she got my number from the guy I met her with🤣😂 kzread.info/dash/bejne/dYuMpbOohKqWk5s.html

@avatar19822

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for summarizing for us

@bahaatamer1245

3 жыл бұрын

Nice. Now I know I don't need to pursue anymore.

@southerncalifornia3155

3 жыл бұрын

If she calls you friend ,tell heer friends with benefits sounds better.

Brothers, it does not matter if she doesn't like you. The right person, who will support you for being you will eventually come around. Don't force it. Invest time in yourself and work on your goals. When you find the right person at the right time, go for it. If the time isn't right, remember to always put yourself and your family first.✊

@JohnCastleSmokeless

Жыл бұрын

"The right person, who will support you for being you will eventually come around." Or she won't. And it's in learning to accept that possibility that you find real power.

@FidgetyGuy

Жыл бұрын

If you want to get out of the friend zone, tell her about your new promotion at work and $180,000 per year salary. American women are awful.

@perfectspare3009

Жыл бұрын

No they won’t. They don’t just pop up out of nowhere

@thom-4614

Жыл бұрын

@@perfectspare3009 no not if you stay in your house playing Pokemon. Go out, play sports, do your hobbies. Eventually you will find a likeminded person. Maybe it will take a while or you get into a few bad relationships first, but if you can find likeminded people, then I believe everybody can find their match.

@GPEG

Жыл бұрын

Don’t date a western woman, it’s not worth it and it’s collapsing at an incredible speed. 💥🎈🫧

How to get out of the Friendzone: Say I'm not here to be your "friend". It may not give you what you want, but it will earn you respect for being clear about your intentions VS trying to read the tea leaves. Confidence IS everything.

I deal with ghosting. That’s how women express they don’t like me. Situation I find myself in now is confusing, exciting, irritating, hopeful, a rollercoaster to say the least.

"It is 2021 and you are no longer going to beg for a girls attention." I needed that.

@shady_the_one

Жыл бұрын

I got here a year later, but I guess better late than never

@needparalegal

Жыл бұрын

It was always a mistake in every year in history.

@shady_the_one

Жыл бұрын

@@needparalegal yeah. And now we know to pass THAT to future generations

@needparalegal

Жыл бұрын

@@shady_the_one Boys now have the Internet. A storehouse of knowledge undreamed of until this Century. I wasted so many years in garbage colleges in the 1990s. I could have learned everything in half the time on my own. I am a licensed patent attorney. I never would have chosen that path if I had the Internet.

In high-school, I was crushing hard on a girl. I asked her out, and she said, "No, and please don't ask me again." I was devastated. Briefly. But I very quickly became grateful to her for her honesty, because it allowed me to move on and not 'try to win her over'. I had no chance, and that was fine. Eventually, I saw a different side of her, and realized she would not have been good for me anyway, so she really did me a favor. Thank you, Annie... :)

@wanyelewis9667

2 жыл бұрын

Big time dodged a bullet.

@gilbertb8078

2 жыл бұрын

Respect them and their wishes.It makes Life easier for you.You are who you need to look out for .

@xybersurfer

2 жыл бұрын

@@gilbertb8078 your lack of a space after a period, is confusing youtube

@GK-ji3pm

2 жыл бұрын

Good for you, son! Sounds like Annie had quite the ego then.."Don't ask again?" Wow!..Now, Let's hope she got hooked up with some real loser that left her fat with two problem kids that make her life completely miserable! Never thank those who are mean to you...She probably laughed it up with her bitchy girlfriend later that same day and probably still tells other friends how she pretty much told you to drop dead! I don't see the positive lesson here.....I'm glad you came to terms with it, though..

@madnessbydesign1415

2 жыл бұрын

@@GK-ji3pm She wasn't being mean, just matter-of-fact. She wasn't interested. She didn't have to be. The positive lesson was that her directness allowed me to move on quickly, rather than holding out hope that she'd change her mind. It worked out fine for me, and I hope she found what she was looking for... :)

The problem is the mixed signs , she aways want to do something with me invites me to watch a movie, go to a restaurant, have a lunch with me ( we are coworkers) but aways cancels this things .... Its soo weird.... My gut tells me we are just a friends, but I dont wanna miss a oportunity at the same time... Its such a weird spot...

@landontruman3632

8 күн бұрын

She's probably not interested. Move on. If she is interested, she'll maybe try harder when she sees you walk away. Either way, don't beat yourself up over it. She's not worth it. I guarantee it!

I completely agree with that quote! "Of you're not her first choice, why do you want to be her choice at all?" Now, that's painfully true and means the whole world.

It's okay to not be liked by the wrong people because it makes room for the right person to like you.✌️

@Introvertedalpha

Жыл бұрын

💯🙌

@Luellan

Жыл бұрын

If they exist at all! 🤣🤣🤣

@SimplyKnownAsTron

Жыл бұрын

@@Luellan 😂🤣😅😆😆😆😆😆😆😉🙃😁😁😁😁😁

@toeknee3302

Жыл бұрын

@@Luellan ah I'm sure they do, there's enough people on this earth for anuthing to happen 😭

@youtuber3328

Жыл бұрын

please read my comment

The best way to get out of the friend zone is to put them in the end zone. Meaning, stop even talking to them and go live your life. I refuse to be friends with someone I even thought for a second that I’d ever be with. The minute you stop pursuing them and find other women, either one of the two reactions will happen. Either she will find you attractive because she sees you have a life and have something to offer other women and will want you for herself, or, she will continue to not give a fuck and still not want you. Either way, you’re not her “friend”. It’s a waste of fucking time and money. Move on with your life and have some self respect.

@dennispacelli1007

Жыл бұрын

damn fking right!

@richkiddo1658

Жыл бұрын

Have self respect, the most important thing

@youtuber3328

Жыл бұрын

please read my comment

@dmitry5319

Жыл бұрын

Yep. Unless you have self-respect they are not going to like you. So, chasing a girl if she explicitly says that she does not want you does not make sense. On the other hand, I do not think it is a good strategy to try to attract one girl by dating others. This is very manipulative and not nice. Girls are very strong at manipulations and at the end of the day you end up playing all those manipulation games instead of having normal relations.

@youtuber3328

Жыл бұрын

@@dmitry5319 it's nice to meet you and to be TOTALLY honest i'm speaking in general when i say things did do and will VARY for different reasons with different individuals and you say it doesn't make sense to chase a lady who's not interested but in grade school you learn fact vs opinion

Its okay to be friend zoned. When a woman puts me in the zone i put her there too. I am very clear to her that i am honored to be her friend but being a friend means limiting how much i am willing to invest. Friends dont pay for a friends dinner 3 times a week and they dont spend each evening chatting on the phone. The benefits of having a female friend are that it increases your attractiveness to other women. You practice communicating with women. You have a friend.

@davidkuhn3695

20 күн бұрын

My strategy too! Most guys don't understand it.

@marcpavlik

17 күн бұрын

Get used to being used then brother, that's what you will get used to. I refuse to do things for anyone for free. Sick and tired of me being the fix it guy and the douchbag that can only look good and be a sex partner rather than an equal. Screw them all.

Really good advice, thank you :) I recently walked away from someone that was emotionally manipulating me, feel much better being out of that now

“Let’s be friends” is like a dagger in the heart

@joelombrdo

6 ай бұрын

Someone said something interesting and that was don't let yourself get emotionally involved until the lady proves herself. This way if she friend zones you it's no big deal.

@user-xs4wm4vm4w

4 ай бұрын

Then “ I’m not interested in dating cuz God has already shown me the man I was made for” is a shot gun blast

@hycron1234

Күн бұрын

If you take away the expectations, you feel nothing.

"If you're putting your time and energy into someone, you should be getting that back"

@Dahmer_Jeff

3 жыл бұрын

Don't count on it. Re direct that energy towards your purpose

@musa3171

2 жыл бұрын

@soo beautiful u r

@berkaydemirbas3841

Жыл бұрын

That's definitely correct. It is how it works in this world

@Introvertedalpha

Жыл бұрын

💯🙌

It’s really not that complicated but because of our emotions and not wanting to accept the truth we try to overthink it. Let me dumb it down for everyone: if she responds to your texts right away or as soon as she is actually available, doesn’t send short responses like its a burden, and when you ask her out she does everything to make it a priority. If she can’t make it, she’ll apologize and go out of her way to find an alternative. When a girl wants a man, she’ll put in the effort to go get it.

I don’t know which video to come in but I really want to say that your advice helped a lot I’m finally dating someone, she’s a really special person and she’s very positive, plus I did my best to follow everything you stated out in your videos, so thank you Courtney Ryan.

1:26 Lack of communication 3:15 She flakes out 4:13 No physical touch 6:08 Friend 7:12 Talking to other guys Thanks Courtney :)

@craigsaunders9599

Жыл бұрын

When I made money , cars, motorbikes and real estates . Swimming pools and flying business class airlines then these females ran after me like " GOLDDIGGERS".

@Isleofskye

9 ай бұрын

Legend for doing that :)

@nighthawk20011

9 ай бұрын

A friend of mine was trying to offer me dating advice. He said women are talking to at least 5 other guys at the same time they are talking to you.

@andydo9308

9 ай бұрын

There's nothing wrong with physical touch

@billbally4419

9 ай бұрын

She doesnt blow you.

I’m very appreciative of you and your videos. I was recently rejected by a waitress I have been spending time with during my work breaks and I was convinced she liked me. She would laugh at my jokes and always tell me how funny I am, she would tell me she doesn’t want me to leave when I go to finish work, she was quitting her job soon and would tell me she is going to miss this and maybe I could visit at her new work, her co-workers would tease me about her when she wasn’t around. I was convinced and I shot my shot just to get shot down. I was devastated because I am not the confident type and have never felt so sure about a girl liking me just to be wrong. It’s hard when you are captivated by someone and get turned down 😔

Courtney, I'm writing to tell you that this video has shown me so much truth that I was in denial of. I have known this lady for three years and have always thought she didn't like me. I think she was only nice enough to me to keep me hanging on. I see her a lot at the local softball games and we would talk, well she would talk while I listened, but I didn't mind. We went to the county fair and she would not sit with me the whole time the band played, but then talks to everyone else but me. I actually felt empty in a crowd of people - when I came with her. I am a gentleman and walk her to her car after the games when it's dark and at the fair. Now I find out that she's going to the softball season banquet at the Legion with one of the players. Here I thought that being friends was better than nothing because I liked her so much, but I was getting nothing for 3 years. She recoiled when I asked her to dance and has never touched me once. I asked her to meet me at the local flea market this summer and I waited an hour and a half. She finally showed up and gave no excuse (oh I was talking with my neighbor and then I forgot to eat). Your video has shown me the reality that she was never interested in me and I have to let go. She just doesn't care, it's going to be difficult because everywhere I go in this small town I see places and things that remind me of her. Sometimes I think females are not very romantic at all. Thank you for listening and I have enjoyed your videos, but they have never hit me like this one did. You have great insight and I'm grateful for your advice in this matter. Thanks a fan, Joe. Ps, Today the two of them made plans to go to the banquet right in front of me, that is so rude. I would never think of doing that to a girl - asking another one out right in front of them. I must say women are rotten, they only care about what they want regardless of anyone else.

Women in their 20's: I have a boyfriend Women in their 40's: I have a cat

@mikerodrick2430

Жыл бұрын

Women in their 20s..I had a boyfriend. Women in their 40s..I have your boyfriend.

@brianricoh3242

Жыл бұрын

I generally avoid Cat women

@nebularain3338

Жыл бұрын

@@brianricoh3242 Thanks for doing them a favour.

@gjergjaurelius9798

Жыл бұрын

@@nebularain3338😂 wow what a bitter b***h

@eatmyshortsman926

Жыл бұрын

@@nebularain3338 😂

One thing I'll say about lack of communication is some girls are just huge flirts with many guys even ones they're not interested in romantically. Just because she's being bubbly and nice and continuing conversation does not mean she's into you

@Dwahada

2 жыл бұрын

Reminds me of my father when he comes back from the shop and the female staff are just being friendly 🤣

@kevinmalone3210

Жыл бұрын

I have a brother who married a woman like that. She even flirted with me. I knew better to take it seriously.

@dennisrobinson8008

Жыл бұрын

did it annoy him?

@lukamilas8648

Жыл бұрын

Joseph Ramirez-- this is very very true!

@johnyberra5328

Жыл бұрын

I CARED AT ONE TIME WHAT OTHER'S THOUGHT ABOUT ME ESPECIALLY GIRLS AFTER MY CONVERSION AS A CHRISTIAN I REALIZE THAT ITS NOT WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT ME ITS WHAT I THINK ABOUT YOU THATS WHAT I WILL BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE FOR....ALSO I LOVE PEOPLE FOR WHO THEY ARE AND IF I AM REJECTED THEN ALL THAT MEANS IS THAT I AM IN THE WRONG PLACE AND REJECTION IS NOTHING MORE THAT REDIRECTING AND MOVE ON J/S

I enjoy watching Courtney's vlogs. Lots of good common sense and wisdom. Even hope and encouragement mixed in there.

If a woman doesn’t reciprocate your attraction and attention to her then she doesn’t deserve your time AND she isn’t interested AT ALL with you. Being “friend zoned” is up to them and they are entitled to their own boundaries but if you have intentions beyond friendship then your choice is clear: move forward and move on. You too deserve to be happy and demonstrate self respect. Find your way towards the woman who likes and respects you and above all, shows you she’s into you. If you have to second guess every damn sign then she’s not into you. If she asks to be friends don’t do it. More likely she doesn’t want to be friends; it’s just to “console her conscience” and then she will abandon you. You deserve a woman who likes and ultimately loves you in equal measure to your feelings and intentions.

To any guy who might be in the “friend zone” here is the simplest way to get out: LEAVE THAT GIRL ALONE AND MOVE ON TO ANOTHER ONE!

@archangele1

3 жыл бұрын

Best way to get out of the friend zone is to just be busy when ever she needs something from you. Another good technique is strategic flatulence. You can quickly rid yourself of 'users' and "Friend zoners' with a good fart... Problem solved.

@TrueJediHero

3 жыл бұрын

Something I have been preaching since high school. Got called "gay" or "scared" by cucks, simps, cringey "chads/players" and clueless women but that showed me how dense people are.

@davester1970

3 жыл бұрын

Never be a woman's gay BFF if you aren't gay and you desire her that way. I long ago learned to cut that BS out. If I ask her out and she isn't interested, I move on to the next one. Only someone who is young and inexperienced with women will waste his time and money being a bo-ho orbiter believing someday, one day she will come to her senses and see him as lover material.

@TrueJediHero

3 жыл бұрын

@@davester1970 Facts, my friend. I remember a few of the guys I went to school with litterally wanting to fight me because I didn't want to waste my time begging some girl to get with me when she wasn't interested at all. They for real called me a loser because I didn't act like a creepy simp. However, my friend's and I (and also a girl I started dating not long after) jumped them after school when they tried to follow us to the burger joint a mile from our school.

@davidlumbardough3358

3 жыл бұрын

Ya there's no way out alive. Or at least not with your integrity intact. Keep it moving. Be busy. Stay busy. One day, surprise, hey you're gettin busy. Easy peasy

You have to be comfortable with yourself first. Never rush to be loved, have fun & enjoy life.

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!! 👏🏼 so true

@donaldduck7461

3 жыл бұрын

@@CourtneyRyan Thank you for the videos Courtney

@keltecdan

3 жыл бұрын

It also helps if you’re tall muscular and good looking with a good mouthpiece.

@davidlindgren7605

3 жыл бұрын

I bet there are hundreds of spinsters and bachelors who followed that advice into their 50s and 60s, and where are they now? Still comfortable with themselves, but unattached. Shitty advice.

@donaldduck7461

3 жыл бұрын

@@davidlindgren7605 Proverbs 27:15 is what happens if you pick the wrong one mate.

These five things were very well described and explained. It just does makes sense. I will very much remember these when dating as I approach 60.

My uncle used to say"Just because a girl smiles at you doesn't mean she likes you"

@mattmichel451

Жыл бұрын

The hard truth

@chrisconsorte7893

9 ай бұрын

You got that right!

@pw601

7 ай бұрын

So true. They spend ages in front of mirrors practising while putting on make up..

@dictionarypictionary9872

2 ай бұрын

they didn't even need to smile at some of my old friends, just walking past them and they think it's a sign.

Other signs: 1) When you ask her out she says she is busy and does not offer an alternative time. 2) You can sense that she is uncomfortable around you and she would rather be anywhere else. The best piece of advice you gave was the lack of and/or brevity of communication. Too many guys think they need to try harder to fill in the gaps in the conversation. In reality, she is trying to end it ASAP.

@buffymcmuffin5361

3 жыл бұрын

Yup, definitely #1. If she likes you, she'll make time for you.

@kzariuscook1275

2 жыл бұрын

#1 is so true 100 percent. unfortunatley ive never had the chance to even experience#2

@dnegel9546

Жыл бұрын

@Pine Ohio 😒im his basement now.. Still not talking to him.

@adamd9166

Жыл бұрын

Exactly! the biggest indicator is LACK OF EFFORT ON HER PART. If she blows off a date and isnt pushing for another time (then actually follows through on that other time), then she isnt into you.

Hey Courtney, all 5 boxes for me I checked off which hits hard with me but it feels relieving in a way to finally know where this girl I was interested in stands on me. I know with the internet these days it is hard to get some truthful advice but everything you said in this video was very logical and common sense base that I can certainly agree on. Thank for your help.

This is all good advice - being rejected happens to the best of us and it's an essential part of growing up and part of life. Being rejected can be very funny and make for a great story down the line. You can't make her like you, so accept it. Move forwards and upwards.

Golden rule: if a girl does any of these you must absolutely MOVE ON! There is no winning her over, if she doesn't like you now she never will.

@framemaxxer

3 жыл бұрын

well... if you dont see her in 10 years and you become a rich jeff seid she will love you

@harlanwilkinson3142

3 жыл бұрын

In that case, we'd never meet anyone lol.

@buffymcmuffin5361

3 жыл бұрын

Never pursue uninterested women. There's plenty more out there - especially as you get older.

@harlanwilkinson3142

3 жыл бұрын

@@buffymcmuffin5361 I'd think there'd be even less out there the older you get, because women get married, have kids, go crazy, and the dating pool gets fewer.

@buffymcmuffin5361

3 жыл бұрын

@@harlanwilkinson3142 The dating pool gets smaller only for women. As a Man gets older, he dates both women his age and younger women. And he doesn't mind dating women who have less money than him. Women don't want to date men with less money or less education than them. One of a Woman's main assets in attracting a man is her looks, and that declines every year. One of a man's assets is his wealth & experience, and hopefully that's increasing each year.

I think the worst thing to hear would be, "you're like a brother to me!" unless she's from Alabama

@mosescordovero8163

3 жыл бұрын

lol

@thetruthisoutthere8598

3 жыл бұрын

😆😆😆

@justsomeguywhokeepsgetting4885

3 жыл бұрын

The first thing I noticed was a prequel quote

@jdanon203

3 жыл бұрын

Or Kentucky.

@albertgirard7857

3 жыл бұрын

I get this bs all the time

So many vids on girls liking you. It's refreshing to finally see a vid that helps with the opposite. Don't wanna ever be overstaying my welcome if I'm barking up the wrong tree.

Even at 66 I fully appreciate you're views and if us guys really think you hit it on the nail. I'm in retirement and in Canada. How many times I wished there was someone who did what you've done here.

The friend zone is forever. There's no way out. If she changes her mind it's because she's manipulating you or you're manipulating her. Either way a relationship based on manipulation is not worth it.

@Ripuli1974

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely true.

@thesavantart8480

Жыл бұрын

Not true. Girls can change their minds if you go your own way and not give a fk about her. Suddenly they might start to like you because they see you're not some pushover or when you start getting attention from other girls that are equally to or prettier than her. Or just becoming more successful might do the trick. It's fked up but lots of girls do be like that.

@SandevistanSeanzo

Жыл бұрын

Just act like you don’t care about her at all. She’ll start liking you.

@dennisrobinson8008

Жыл бұрын

Sounds ideal. In our society a little bit is required.

@flawlessjewels

Жыл бұрын

I generally agree that the friend zone is forever but there are exceptions and they don't require manipulation. I have gotten out of the friend zone a couple of times without trying. In my experience, if you do something that causes her to see you in a different light that suddenly makes you appealing to her in some way, you stand a good chance of getting out of the friend zone. It doesn't happen all the time but when it does, take advantage.

If she puts you in the friend zone, stop hanging out with her. She is only holding you there until she is done getting her back blown out. You will only be the last resort when all the other guys hit it and quit it.

@mbardos

2 жыл бұрын

It is possible to escape the zone, but you have to know her pretty well to pull that off

@ramonlarson6806

2 жыл бұрын

Don't got to stop hanging out, just don't prioritize her like you would've. It's good to stay in touch but don't chase

@kzariuscook1275

2 жыл бұрын

@@mbardos maybe if you act like you dont give a fck about her, that might help.

@juanarocha8629

2 жыл бұрын

And not even then because she is just not attracted to you

@ognjenradanovic1256

2 жыл бұрын

@@mbardos not really when she says can we be friends just say no and leave her there you go out of friend zone.

The friend zones only bad if you stay in it. The second you know you’re there, get out and stop talking to her. And you’ll almost always grow from that experience. If you stay you’re only hurting yourself

I agree texting is a significant indicator.

If she likes you, you'll know about it. If she hasn't made anything clear after a certain time, chances are she doesn't. In my experience, they just don't tell you, or don't want to hurt you.

When you find out , or even think someone doesn’t like you, do not try to change her mind, move on, and don’t look back.....

@sezagolden9427

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your advice. I do agree.

@buffymcmuffin5361

3 жыл бұрын

Never pursue uninterested women. There's plenty more out there - especially as you get older.

Thank You Courtney. FANTASTIC Advice ! Appreciate it !

Thanks for posting; I had an experience too, when she was in need, she knew the direction to my dm. But as soon as she got what she wanted, she distanced herself.

If a woman doesn't like you it's a blessing in disguise

@morikibbutz2734

6 ай бұрын

mgtows coping with rejection be like:

@greglavers

2 ай бұрын

Well it's a very good disguise then.

@MichaelBabaoKuyaPotato

2 ай бұрын

Awesome 👌

@MichaelBabaoKuyaPotato

2 ай бұрын

Agree

@carlosgarcia-jz3dq

2 ай бұрын

facts

Her voice is so calming which just makes you pay more attention to what she's saying 😂

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

😂 I love it

@TuneinR

3 жыл бұрын

Really...hahaha.I don't pay any attention to the presenter....i pay attention to the message if it is worth watching no mattee how bad or good the voice is.

@lucaschaundler355

3 жыл бұрын

@@TuneinR Yea true but it helps when the voice/accent doesn't make it a pain to listen to.

@tjzen1180

3 жыл бұрын

I totally disagree, her voice is croaky and breaking up, it makes me cringe , I dislike this sound, is she ill, ?

@davidlumbardough3358

3 жыл бұрын

I was thinking the same. Apparently not everyone agrees. On the internet. Imagjne that. 🤺

I doubt there will be someone that doesn’t like you. You’re a doll.

@landontruman3632

8 күн бұрын

If you're s guy, gotta stop the simping man. No more free attention for women! Its killing us.

This was a very informative video. Thank you, Sister Courtney.

I feel like Courtney is that older sister that tries to help you out and give you tips, and they really come in handy. Thanks for the quality content!

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

That’s my goal! Thank you Jordan! ❤️☺️

@ybk6858

3 жыл бұрын

shes more like an older stepsister if you know what I mean

@krishnadastr8232

3 жыл бұрын

@YBK 😋

@ppernett1

3 жыл бұрын

Like an older sister who you wouldn’t mind nailing?

@yojimbos1

3 жыл бұрын

@jordan- wank it dude- she's a troll in makeup.

I just realized that every girl I talked to or had a “relationship” with never liked me 😂

@FoereaperGaming

3 жыл бұрын

Congrats on never stepping in a bear trap. Leave the forest before you wander into one.

@daveware4117

2 жыл бұрын

Same, including my ex wife

@tsepheletseka5115

Жыл бұрын

Same here. I've been ghosted I don't know how many times by women I was in a relationship with.

@rafaelbruce6765

Жыл бұрын

I remember this one woman who was in a relationship with another man. I realize that I was being used for money. I got away from her for good.

This is solid advice and all True. Guys, Don't be friends with a girl your into though. It's straight torture. Once you are friend zoned admit to yourself it's over; Be nice to the girl but don't be her buddy. It's more then likely not going to happen and if you keep being her buddy it's without a doubt NEVER going to happen.

@randyreynolds107

7 ай бұрын

To add to that, don’t be her buddy unless you genuinely WANT to be her buddy. But don’t be her buddy in hopes that her feelings will change if you just buddy up enough.

God bless you for these advice! Thank you Courtney!

The easiest way to get out of the friend zone: Walk away completely from the girl who friend zoned you and find another girl who will invest her time into you better.

@John-zg4ly

Жыл бұрын

Many years ago I was trying to get with this girl. She just wanted to be friends. I thought I could make her change her mind. I should of just banged my head against a wall. Never happened. On the flip side, the exact opposite happened. She was seeing my buddy, he lost interest, I stepped in. We hung out a lot as friends. I helped her move, and I remember lying on her living room floor because she had no furniture yet. We started kissing and got serious from there. I had a great time. We eventually went our separate ways. Good memories.

@donaldmackerer9032

10 ай бұрын

👍

@charlieyellowstone8248

10 ай бұрын

When that has happened to me, I basically tell her to go to hell and cut her off forever.

@Subhuman5season

9 ай бұрын

Or don’t try to find a woman at all cuz no matter how much u try they will never be interested

@coryleblanc

7 ай бұрын

is it ok if i dont want to be friends with women who dont find me attractive?

The minute she tells me “ I’ll let you know” I just laugh and walk way. ✌🏻

@johngonzalez4298

3 жыл бұрын

Anything that is not a yes, it is almost a guarantee no

@texasrebel7754

3 жыл бұрын

When I got that reply once, it really threw me off. Yes or no was expected and left me in limbo. Never again.

@jordancuea123

3 жыл бұрын

I don't understand why do they have to be so.............. you guys know what I want to say. Girls Please don't make us waste our time we are only expecting a 2 or 3 letters word not a freaking newspaper that at the end of the day means NO.

@irshadmusaphir1123

3 жыл бұрын

Totally true they say that to me all the time.

@ECO473

3 жыл бұрын

The best response to "I'll let you know" is to say "You just did."

The trouble is that you instinctively know it's just that you don't want to admit to it. Especially when It's someone that you really care about.

@myballsitchsomethingfierce6319

Жыл бұрын

Bingo, we want to be wanted by the person want

@juanpatino330

Жыл бұрын

you said it, you said everything

@pw601

7 ай бұрын

Hope. One of the most futile human emotions. It blinds us to reality. It's a cruel thing as it keeps coming back. An absolute fortune could be made for the person who makes a pill to get rid of this pestilence.

Appreciate your honesty & amazing way you speak your mind without being rude! Ty for your efforts and quality content Cheers! 🥂To your health & happiness

My goodness, this woman is absolutely stunning and very intelligent.

@landontruman3632

8 күн бұрын

Stop the simping! (If you're a guy). Simping has to stop. Women get too much free attention today. Its one of the causes of all the dating issues were having.

I really appreciated it when a woman told me that she already had male friends and that she did not want to hurt me. I felt that it was a very clear way to communicate that there was nothing going to happen despite our connection and mutual experience of each other's humor. Oh, well. Her loss.

@Dwahada

2 жыл бұрын

Lol male “friends” you dodged the worst bullet of all

@sarahkanto1883

Жыл бұрын

She's riding a carousel

@karlheven8328

Жыл бұрын

Thats nice of her to be so straightforward.

@majikmike0169

Жыл бұрын

At least she was upfront about it. That itself deserves respect. Most women hide it and then you find out anyway. Those women I lose respect fast.

@jamesbrooks3664

Жыл бұрын

@@sarahkanto1883 no she is the carousel! Lol

If you get the impression that a girl doesn't like you, this is actually correct. It's akin to a gut instinct and it's not something that you consciously think about. It comes down to being able to interpret subtle body language, mannerisms, etc. and then not to overthink it.

@svenhassel3150

3 жыл бұрын

Very true.

@kramer1372

2 жыл бұрын

... yep... the subtleties.. clues that we dont even realize that we are deciphering...all, “in the back of our head”, stuff... which then, creates a very tangible feeling ...

@stickmastercaleb3251

2 жыл бұрын

Spot On 🎯

@GregXHunterz

Жыл бұрын

Body language is what u gotta rely on nowadays, especially in a dating culture where honest communication is no longer the norm.

@nunya2512

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely true to the max!!!

Good and helpful insight, thank you, Courtney.

Your voice is just so soothing for these videos!

"If you are not her first choice, why would you want to be with her at all"....well said.

The sooner you realize this, the sooner you can move on with your life. Beautifully said

Wow this is really a good topic at times a girl pretends she loves you meanwhile she doesn't

The way out of the friend zone is to walk away. If you bump into her be courteous but be brief because the more you give her the less she'll reciprocate. Just keep it moving.

Shorthand: (Note -- these are signs for after relationship established / several dates have been had) 1.) lack of / terse communication 2.) flaking out on commitments 3.) no hand holding, hugs, etc 4.) friend zone (meant to turn you down lightly usually 5.) Talking to other guys as much / more than you, including asking you about these other guys (she sees you as a guy friend, not a romantic partner), includes talking about exes And remember, if you're not her first choice, why do you want to be her choice at all

If a girl judges you on trivial things like what and how you eat, then that’s a good indicator that she doesn’t like you. People judge those who they don’t like, and overlook the faults of those who they do like.

@soundcheck2k7

Жыл бұрын

Facts. When I was dating a girl and when that started 2 months into dating, I knew it was over.

@franco7928

Жыл бұрын

If a girl is judging how you eat it means you eat like a pig 🐷 and it's time to go to finishing school to learn how to eat with some dignity and more importantly, manners. Thank her later 💃

@meesteranonymous8177

Жыл бұрын

Exactly, halo effect

@rozzisalizar

8 ай бұрын

not completely true. i judge this girl on little things and i like her

Having abandonment issues compounds the emotions I experience when she doesn't text back after I reach out. It can be extremely rough.

Back in high school, there was this girl I was madly in love with. Was always nice to her and treated her with respect. But regardless, she would never give me the time of day. And when I finally summoned the courage to ask her out, she turned me down, saying that we were "just friends" and that I "wasn't her type..." (she seemed to have a thing for the tattooedd bad boy/jock type, which I wasn't) Well guess what? I ended up meeting ... and then DATING her best friend, who I felt I had a better connection with anyways. Well, when she later found out that I was dating her best friend, she managed to get my number from a close associate of ours ... and actually had the nerve to call me and ask "So when are we going out on that date??" Me, with a confused look on my face, said "NEVER!" and then I hung up on her! 😂 BEST. FEELING. EVER! And that goes to show just what kind of person she truly was: I mean if she would do something as sneaky and disrespectful as that to her best friend (calling me behind her back while we were STILL dating and then suddenly wanting to go out with me, KNOWING that I was still dating her best friend) imagine what she probably would have done to me later on! It's safe to say they were no longer friends after that... A wise man once told me: _"What women want most is what they can't have ... but sometimes they'll do whatever they can just to get it!"_

@BarriosGroupie

2 жыл бұрын

Man, what a vile thing to do to her 'friend', but it all makes sense given her attraction to 'bad boys'. But still, you should be worried that this was/is her best friend and I'm afraid like tends to attract like.

@benserkowski4663

2 жыл бұрын

Wise words

@markbeeby3608

2 жыл бұрын

If someone did that to me, I would be suspicious that she was testing me on her friend's behalf. More likely in your case she just wanted to get one up on her friend for her ego. I know plenty of men who do that - just so you know they are top dog in your social group. She probably would have turned her back on you once she got one up on her friend. On the other hand, people (both men and women) do tend to want what they can't have so playing hard to get is valid sometimes.

@jeffcabral8077

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing mate. Hopefully that evil one didnt ruin the relationship you had with her best friend.

@ohnowendigos8804

2 жыл бұрын

Seriously, you dodged a bullet. You’re right in that sometimes we have to wait & see what people are really like under the surface

Never understood women. Shit, never understood people in general. Single is where I belong. xD

@mosescordovero8163

3 жыл бұрын

what does shit have to do with it?

@joshua50101

3 жыл бұрын

@@mosescordovero8163 That ppl are shit

@blairbailey1692

3 жыл бұрын

They sure are

@mosescordovero8163

3 жыл бұрын

people are shit? well how are they able to think or do things if they are made of shit?

@craigdelo8853

3 жыл бұрын

Thank God for serial killers

Everything she said here IS TRUE. I experienced all of these 5 things.

You'll "feel" the signs long before you'll ever "see" them.NEVER ignore those feelings.

Strangely enough, I’m really good at noticing disinterest, but bad at seeing signs of interest haha!! Excited for the video

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

Haha make sure you watch my signs she likes you video 😂

@admirbarucija2018

3 жыл бұрын

@@CourtneyRyan Haha I already have, but never hurts to look again 😂

@bensonmartin4424

3 жыл бұрын

I have the same problem. 😅

@ybk6858

3 жыл бұрын

@@bensonmartin4424 yeah there have been some situations in which people later told me how apperantly obvios it was a girl was interested in me..

@finishin.my.coffee8780

3 жыл бұрын

@@ybk6858 Same here. I never would have guessed but other people, men and women, knew right off the bat.

If she likes you, she will make it easy for you. She will do most of the calling, texting, etc. If she rejects you twice, walk away!

Thank you so much for this video. I have been good friends with my lady friend for almost 15 years but long distance through the Xbox 360. She finally wanted to meet me because our lives have always been going two different directions. She lives in P.A I live in N.Y and I made the trip over there for 5 days to be with her due to her invitation. Many of our mutual friends wanted us to hook up but I was always skeptical because of the lack interest she always showed me but again we lived miles away from each other. This time I was finally going to meet her face to face and she was more beautiful up close than just video chatting. She let me stay in her place to avoid hotels and travel. We went out and hung out alone and I know we had a good time but I remembered this video and others you did and looked for the signs. As I felt in my spirit/heart/instincts we are good friends but...she did at least 3 of the 5 things you listed here. She didn't even let me pay for anything. Which was annoying but I respected it especially we were still studying each other. That was when I got my answer at least I felt I did. Broke the news to our friends that her and I are...just friends. I'm actually okay with it. I don't want to be with anyone who in short doesn't want me and I know that was God and him showing me your vids about a year ago. Thank you for your advice so much...God bless and be safe❤️☕

Everyone just needs to be honest where they stand. Stop with the games. You are either into them, or you aren't.

I’ve been married 47 years and I don’t think she likes me.........APRIL FOOL!.....we get along great!!!!!

@RaZoR7i7

3 жыл бұрын

Sad man I feel you

@nightfangs2910

3 жыл бұрын

That's irrelevant everything between a woman and a man is transactional, just keep supporting her all is well

@jpweek5885

3 жыл бұрын

In 47 years, she probably got to know he real you 😂

@eddiehaskellii

3 жыл бұрын

After 47 years of course she doesn't like you.

@patrioticaussiesams8581

3 жыл бұрын

Don't get Married guys especially in this day and age in Western countries.. Marriage doesn't offer anything Good for Men anymore

"shes repulsed by me, its irresistable!" george constanza

@davidlumbardough3358

3 жыл бұрын

Toxic! Lol. Jk

@cuauhtemocmorisco3493

3 жыл бұрын

Your not an animal LOL

@blackticalmayhem8461

2 жыл бұрын

LMAO love that show.

The pat on the back hug! Total friend zone tip! 😂

If she cancels on you twice in a row, she's not interested. If she's busy with no explanation, or suggested alternative date, she's not interested.

Three words for you, "My Best Wingwoman".

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

🥰🥰🥺

@tanmaymane6493

3 жыл бұрын

@@CourtneyRyan I am still watching the video 😂 and you replied.

@balthazarbotbol8519

3 жыл бұрын

@@CourtneyRyan only question I have is tiddies or not tiddies, if no tiddies i don't watch, like this one

@balthazarbotbol8519

3 жыл бұрын

@@tanmaymane6493 stop simping, that's embarrassing

@Tubbs777

3 жыл бұрын

Facts

fear of rejection is a tremendous phobia many suffer from but it's never on the minds of people who just get on with it long, they endure it, experience some of the agony but already have an eye on the next goal. think that's the thing that keeps you buoyant, make sure you have a next plan.

Just pretend you don’t care about that girl who friend zoned you. Ignore her. Don’t reply to texts. Do whatever. Don’t give her your full attention. Keep yourself busy doing things you enjoy.

@spinj3307

8 ай бұрын

Is some many situations when you do so, it turns the tables, especially if the two of you share something in common and can't avoid each other. Portraying yourself as a cool guy, who is good in many things cares about his life, can make her reconsider if you treat her just like you everyone in a cool way and you're not bad to her

@apexjoe4769

7 ай бұрын

I agree with your strategy but a lot of us guys have a difficult time in maintaining the "I don't care" behavior.

@sirkalilak6841

7 ай бұрын

It's like seeing a flower out of the window which you are not supposed to touch because your touch is bad for it, but you can't help to look out of that window to make sure it is not withering and - as heartwrenching as it is - wasn't picked by someone else, knowing perfectly well, there is absoluetly nothing you can do about it.

First of all , I loved your voice. You explained so well, I want you to be my teacher 😊

If a woman puts off any vibe other than wanting to know more about you, stop caring about her or what she thinks and live your life for yourself. Make them break the ice. Make them make the first move. Make them figure out what they want fast or don’t give them the time of day. Be out the door and on to the next adventure in your life.

They're all "talking" to other guys. Girls are very direct when they like you and flaky when they don't.

@blastorange2460

3 жыл бұрын

robdaslav Daslav ah no some are but most aren't

@davidlumbardough3358

3 жыл бұрын

Ya 'talking', right wink wink. Other girls too. Never count them out. it is 2021 after all. Pay attention. Always!

@dh12.

3 жыл бұрын

Alpha fucks beta bucks

@funstuff8895

3 жыл бұрын

not girls who play games. some girls will test you and do stuff that may seem discouraging, but they actually do it to gage your reaction and see if you'll chase them. it's bullshit, but it happens.

@brwils3378

2 жыл бұрын

Usually not Flaky just plain out hand to face and say eww 😷 get the Fuck away from me and my friends😡