4 Ways to TORTURE The NARCISSIST | Marcus Aurelius

Discover the power of Marcus Aurelius' Stoicism to transform your approach to dealing with narcissists. Learn to control your emotions and use reverse psychology effectively. Gain insights on stopping overthinking and applying Stoic principles in daily life for significant change.
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1:42 What is Narcissism?
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    @stoicseverydayАй бұрын

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  • @hlolangozo3041

    @hlolangozo3041

    29 күн бұрын

    I thank you with everything thank you so much I would like to have maybe a book 📖 so that I can learn from it to remember.

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    28 күн бұрын

    @@hlolangozo3041 Sure, I will research more in the same direction, and may be one day I will come up with a book. Till then keep supporting and stay tuned with the updates. Also, Please subscribe if you haven't yet.

  • @StoicSpirit101

    @StoicSpirit101

    11 күн бұрын

    Thank you for your support and kind words, Stoicseveryday. I'm glad you're enjoying the content. Which video or topic has resonated with you the most so far?

  • @chica319

    @chica319

    3 күн бұрын

    😊p0⁰

  • @Luckystoic
    @Luckystoic18 күн бұрын

    don't need to watch this to find out if they're evil.I can be standing beside them and feel the evil just flowing off of them

  • @soniamilano3737

    @soniamilano3737

    7 күн бұрын

    I absolutely know what you mean, I think they have a kind of anxious jagged feeling coming off them

  • @allisonnovak500
    @allisonnovak500Ай бұрын

    This wisdom is helpful for stoic growth. I don’t believe that practicing stoicism in order to deal with a narcissist will change a narcissist. They’re incapable of self awareness, reflection, realization, or admitting that they’re anything less than perfect.

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    So true! Dealing with narcissists is like trying to teach a cat to fetch!

  • @tekatt1

    @tekatt1

    Ай бұрын

    Assigning and shamefully embarrassing to themselves. What do they hope to accomplish with each endeavor? Good question and if they have friends how do they treat their friends⁉️ They need the Lord I guarantee this will change whatever is happening in that Brain space 😊 Do they keep friends thinking this way?? Silly Birds!! 😝

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    @@tekatt1 True indeed. I will research more and try to know the medical condition behind this. May be when I get enough content to show, I can make another video addressing your questions. Till then keep watching, and stay tuned 🥰

  • @Jantango

    @Jantango

    14 күн бұрын

    Many decades ago, I had nowhere to turn for this kind of information. I didn't know I married a narcissist until six months ago when I began viewing stoicism videos online. Not only did I marry a narcissist, but I finally realized that a sister is one as well. Do they ever change? NO! I had to leave the situation after two years with an abuser. This video will help viewers identify a narcissist in their life and then they should get as far away as possible from them. No one should have to suffer being controlled by a narcissist. It's hell. I recovered and enjoy a peaceful and joy filled life during my senior years, far away from both narcissists.

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    13 күн бұрын

    Wow! finally out of that relationship, good for you. now take care of yourself by all means. I will appreciate if you subscribe to my channel for more such content. :)

  • @Taller-yl9yn
    @Taller-yl9yn25 күн бұрын

    Leave them alone .

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    24 күн бұрын

    exactly 👍

  • @jmsmurfy9

    @jmsmurfy9

    20 күн бұрын

    Yes, I agree..been there done that

  • @StoicSpirit101

    @StoicSpirit101

    11 күн бұрын

    Thank you for your straightforward advice, Taller-yl9yn. It's often easier said than done. What experiences led you to adopt this approach?

  • @titaniumcranium3755

    @titaniumcranium3755

    10 күн бұрын

    Until they try and come back and act like you're crazy for leaving

  • @StoicSpirit101

    @StoicSpirit101

    9 күн бұрын

    @@titaniumcranium3755 Thank you for sharing, Titaniumcranium3755. It sounds like you've encountered challenges in maintaining boundaries with certain individuals. How do you navigate such situations while staying true to yourself and your decisions?

  • @dark7angel456
    @dark7angel45616 күн бұрын

    I've never had a healthy friendship yet everybody's exploitative and manipulative and I always feel suicidal after. Nobody changes nobody cares nobody apologizes nobody has remorse I need help out of this rut that I'm in! Im glad i have these videos when i have nobody else to support me!!

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    16 күн бұрын

    you can share things here, we are one community one family here. take care of your mental health buddy.

  • @Clevelandsteamer324

    @Clevelandsteamer324

    5 күн бұрын

    It’s a safe space here. Try fostering a dog or cat. Get plenty of sun. Exercise. Eat healthy. Our gut is our second brain. Get a full blood panel test at your doctor office. You might be deficient in a certain mineral. Don’t give up! I’ll pray for you .

  • @stayingfitandfocused
    @stayingfitandfocusedАй бұрын

    Ignore them mfs and set yourself free and you will never have to worry about them.

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    "Absolutely! Letting go of negativity sets us free. Thanks for the reminder!"

  • @jimstenlund6017
    @jimstenlund601710 күн бұрын

    Getting the Narcissist’s speech out of your head is of utmost importance. They could be dead and gone, yet still abusing you via the repetitive phrases of negativity that will continue to haunt you unless a conscious effort is made to remove/replace these thoughts.

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    10 күн бұрын

    You're absolutely right; the impact of a narcissist's words can linger long after they're gone. It's a constant battle to free oneself from those repetitive, negative phrases. It takes conscious effort and self-compassion to replace them with healthier thoughts. Recognizing this is the first step towards healing and reclaiming our mental peace."

  • @bethanyphillips622
    @bethanyphillips62229 күн бұрын

    Why are there SO MANY narcissists out there?! Actually they are everywhere, to one degree or another. We have to look for the signs and when they show up, break that relationship asap. I’m 71 so I have met quite a few of them through the years. Good luck!!

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    29 күн бұрын

    "Thank you for sharing your experience! It's unfortunate how prevalent narcissistic behavior can be, but you're absolutely right about being vigilant and recognizing the signs early on. It's crucial for our well-being to set boundaries and prioritize healthy relationships. Your wisdom from years of experience is invaluable. Wishing you continued strength and resilience in navigating any encounters with narcissists. Take care!"

  • @susancampbell7335

    @susancampbell7335

    11 күн бұрын

    Rise in evil

  • @StoicSpirit101

    @StoicSpirit101

    11 күн бұрын

    Thank you for your thoughtful comment, Bethanyphillips622. It sounds like you've had a lot of experience with this. What are some early warning signs you've learned to recognize in narcissistic behavior?

  • @hd98_883
    @hd98_88325 күн бұрын

    Own the things you've done and may still do.. be better.. dont hurt others w selfishness..be happy n free......

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    25 күн бұрын

    Yes absolutely 💯👍

  • @janeycooper940
    @janeycooper940Ай бұрын

    I got away! But the trauma & guilt continues 2 years on

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    Two years on and the trauma & guilt are still trying to steal the spotlight, but you're the director of your life, don't let them take the lead role.

  • @xyzlmnop5206

    @xyzlmnop5206

    23 күн бұрын

    GUILT..for what? Recognizing that the person you were with was self satisfying only. You have absolutely nothing to be guilty for.

  • @hobson1979

    @hobson1979

    11 сағат бұрын

    I still feel it almost 4 years on… but it’s getting better at last!

  • @wakeupdottv414
    @wakeupdottv4149 күн бұрын

    Use the narcissist as one massive challenge to yourself for MAJOR GROWTH ….

  • @tried2once
    @tried2onceАй бұрын

    Very helpful….Ive lost my “self” over the years. I’ve allowed a narcissist to jumble my head up like a jigsaw puzzle and anytime I try to put the pieces back together they come and jumble it up again. For me there’s no immediate way out…I have to deal with it for the time being, but I heard a good quote this morning, “pain is inevitable….suffering is a choice.” Thank you for posting the video

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    I am glad you like it, remember you need to be in an positive environment to be your best self. no matter how hard it is to cut all the ties with that person, being with her/him is never gonna help you in the long run, it will just drain your energy. Take care of yourself.

  • @roklickr
    @roklickrАй бұрын

    Before I watch this . I have hit my bottom. I'm tired of being manipulated by someone I truly love. The disrespect and lack of effort to want to do is better. I am done. Today. But I don't want him to suffer because I love him. And maybe when I'm gone and he's alone I the 15yrs will mean nothing and I'm positive he has the next girl lined up. I wish the best. Bye.

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your feelings with us. It takes courage to open up about personal struggles. We're here to support you.

  • @abbz23

    @abbz23

    Ай бұрын

    You have to now detach emotionally

  • @enoch6977

    @enoch6977

    Ай бұрын

    You have to radically accept that of they are in fact a narcissist they have never loved you because they are simply incapable of loving you. It's only when you swallow that bitter pill that you can begin to heal and regain your autonomy.

  • @stoicdiscoveryus

    @stoicdiscoveryus

    Ай бұрын

    I don't know if you can read my comment, but I still want to leave a few lines here. Think more positively, girl, maybe it's God's will, he wants you to find someone who knows how to love and appreciate you more

  • @xyzlmnop5206

    @xyzlmnop5206

    Ай бұрын

    Good for you Girl....go live and enjoy YOUR life and not be trapped into making a narc's life content and happy. YOU are far more important the he will ever be.

  • @soniamilano3737
    @soniamilano37377 күн бұрын

    Watch for that Grande Finale when they know you are finally onto their games, they'll blame you for everything wrong in their lives when it's actually their own chaos and confusion about themselves which is to blame. watch for fast forwarding, hoovering you in again and again, don't fall for their charm, it is all that they have your reaction is what they live for. Imagine throwing water over a mirror.. the image of the reflection is distorted... this is what they see, a warped reality which no one can understand, not even themselves. They are deeply troubled, insecure and feed like lice from their focus, remember this...they admire, de-value then discard to everyone they know.

  • @user-wi1bi4bc5v
    @user-wi1bi4bc5v17 күн бұрын

    Do Not Lend Credence to Evil✝️

  • @Ana-yt7yi
    @Ana-yt7yi7 күн бұрын

    The narcissist is addicted to ego doses, so his kryptonite is indifference, non-attention. How dare a servant ignore Julius Caesar or Cleopatra? How dare a servant decide when he stops serving his tyrant?

  • @Wau12345
    @Wau12345Ай бұрын

    Noone, can manipulate me anymore, I don't care for Narcs, tactic is no ways 😅❤❤❤

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    haha.. so good to know that :)

  • @StoicSpirit101

    @StoicSpirit101

    11 күн бұрын

    Thank you for your empowering comment, Wau12345. It's inspiring to hear about your resilience. What strategies have you found most effective in maintaining your boundaries against manipulative behavior?

  • @user-co2gk7lu1n
    @user-co2gk7lu1nАй бұрын

    Thank you. I needed to hear this today !

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    I'm glad it resonated with you!

  • @leannehicks4374
    @leannehicks43743 күн бұрын

    Pray for Knowledge and wisdom God says and believe you receive them. Thank you for this. Let God seek revenge

  • @DonnellDDrew
    @DonnellDDrew29 күн бұрын

    I am an eagle with my eyes fixed on a narcissistic sparrow

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    29 күн бұрын

    Haha, love the analogy! 😄Thanks for being here! Please Subscribe.

  • @jmsmurfy9

    @jmsmurfy9

    20 күн бұрын

    Me too!

  • @susancampbell7335

    @susancampbell7335

    11 күн бұрын

    The Eagle can fly at higher altitude above any other bird. When smaller pesky birds bother them they go higher.

  • @ayanahmed2072
    @ayanahmed207228 күн бұрын

    Wow, thanks a lot. I really need that. Yes, I was dating a narcissist for 11 years. Thank you so much like to read and listen to more of this kind of videos.

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    28 күн бұрын

    You are so welcome. I am glad you are out of that relationship. Good luck to you.

  • @ayanahmed2072

    @ayanahmed2072

    26 күн бұрын

    Hearing your speeches and your motivation, speeches, it uplifts all kinds of women in all kinds of relationship for me. I appreciate it and I will always listen to it inspire me to do better. You make sense thank you so much for doing a great job and giving us the inside and things we already knew, but we forgot, and you reminded us and much more, I wish there was more guys like you so much. I got your comment and yes I will. I don’t actually need luck. I am moved on and there’s no way he can put my middle so that good luck is for him. Thank you though appreciate your comment and returning it take care. Have a good one.

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    13 күн бұрын

    thankyou so much for such kind words. I will keep doing this to help more people like you.

  • @a_paradoxfunction4156
    @a_paradoxfunction415629 күн бұрын

    Thank you i’m dealing with this situation-the video was awesome❤

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    29 күн бұрын

    I am glad you like it, I will appreciate if you subscribe to my channel for more such videos. :)

  • @a_paradoxfunction4156

    @a_paradoxfunction4156

    21 күн бұрын

    @@stoicseverydayalready subscribed❤

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    13 күн бұрын

    Aww, much appreciation :)

  • @peter86781
    @peter867816 күн бұрын

    True love of wisdom.. I am learning new skills every day. Thank you

  • @leonramsay21
    @leonramsay21Ай бұрын

    Profound teachings. Respect.

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    I am glad you like it...😌

  • @anni730
    @anni730Ай бұрын

    18:33 Narcissist'ss are also very insecure. They experience resentment and envy because they were starved of genuine love and affection. It is said that they were seriously neglected, psychological and emotionally. This has led to them becoming this way. Remember protect yourself but don't lose your compassion. They are often empty without having this type of behaviour. It's very sad. Be boundaried and believe in your self.

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    I appreciate you highlighting the importance of self-protection and compassion.

  • @tried2once

    @tried2once

    Ай бұрын

    Great point! Never give them a ‘taste of their own medicine.’ In my experience when they are exposed or confronted with their insecurities they will lash out to unwarranted extremes to get ‘pay back’. They can be a vengeful sort and know when and where to ambush people they deem deserving of their wrath…. Which is anyone that gets too close and starts to see behind the mask

  • @sharoneh8929

    @sharoneh8929

    26 күн бұрын

    YEP! That is true. He got his revenge on me, when while we were engaged he married someone else. That is too extreme, I had no idea until someone else told me. What a shocker😮😮😮. The end is definitely a new beginning for me. Now the worm is his wife's problem and she has no idea that she in a demonic entrapment. He married her after 2 weeks on NO Contact. I am in a place Peace now. I accept the rejection. God continues to keep and protect me👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽💯💯💯.

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    13 күн бұрын

    Oh my god! that extreme indeed. But I am happy you are out of that relationship. Now always be happy and take care of your health. I will appreciate if you subscribe to my channel for more such content. :)

  • @sharoneh8929

    @sharoneh8929

    13 күн бұрын

    @@stoicseveryday Thank you for your kind remarks. I am resting in Jesus. Moving on with my life. I realized that I only loss; a loser, a liar, a cheater, and a Coward. Not someone I really even knew, he was pretending and didn't love me at All.

  • @belevhersboutique4727
    @belevhersboutique47274 күн бұрын

    I needed this so bad at this very moment.

  • @alinabrauet9083
    @alinabrauet9083Ай бұрын

    I saved this lecture and your excellent philosophy wich never CHANGES.... to listen and better myself as much as can in this life. This is the finding Happiness by following All MIGHTY GOD ....and going to a trip for Happiness And virtue in all my Lifetime. Your References are needed FOREVER. BLESSINGS to you and the detailed trip to inner truth ..... independence and peace. ❤

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    Hey, thanks a ton for the shoutout! It's awesome to hear that my lecture is making a difference for you. Keep up the positivity and keep rocking on your journey to happiness and peace.

  • @williamhunter719

    @williamhunter719

    23 күн бұрын

    Emotional Strengthen.

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    13 күн бұрын

    I will appreciate if you subscribe to my channel for more such content. :)

  • @karenjoslyn4051
    @karenjoslyn4051Ай бұрын

    Thanks so much!! This is soo helpful!!

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    Glad it was helpful! ☺️

  • @clyndermoody4192
    @clyndermoody4192Ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for this information. It is a great help.

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    You are so welcome! 🤗

  • @paulineking-wood3882
    @paulineking-wood3882Ай бұрын

    , 😮 this gave me a greater understanding of what's been going on around me thank you very much❤

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    Awesome to hear that you found the video useful! Keep watching for more insights.

  • @AnicettoBiyok
    @AnicettoBiyok9 күн бұрын

    This video reminds me about all indevidual religion, thinking about that each of them saying that "my religion is correct.

  • @user-lm9xw8wd1y
    @user-lm9xw8wd1yАй бұрын

    Very hood information thx u

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    So nice of you. :)

  • @shamrockfmTV
    @shamrockfmTV20 күн бұрын

    and this is wonderful!

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    20 күн бұрын

    hey i am glad, you liked it. please consider subscribing :)

  • @shamrockfmTV
    @shamrockfmTV20 күн бұрын

    and YES!

  • @user-qi3jl8yz9p
    @user-qi3jl8yz9pАй бұрын

    It was very educational and opened my eyes...thank you so much😂

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    Awesome to hear that you enjoyed the video and found it educational! Thanks for watching!

  • @georgesontag2192
    @georgesontag2192Ай бұрын

    In other words, change it if you have control, if you dont have control, just dont give a fuk. And mean it.

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    Wise words! It's all about focusing on what you can change and letting go of what you can't.

  • @CarmenMartinez-us8tn
    @CarmenMartinez-us8tnАй бұрын

    I appreciate all the advice suggestions ❤❤❤ thank you 🙏

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    You are so welcome! 🤗

  • @shamrockfmTV
    @shamrockfmTV20 күн бұрын

    and I agree!

  • @khanjanki8207
    @khanjanki820728 күн бұрын

    Amen

  • @shamrockfmTV
    @shamrockfmTV20 күн бұрын

    Awesome

  • @111raimundas
    @111raimundasАй бұрын

    Thank you for the wisdom.

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    You are so welcome

  • @brianmurack6082

    @brianmurack6082

    Ай бұрын

    So many of these people it's like trying to doge the devil

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    True, Indeed.

  • @velandasmith8393
    @velandasmith8393Ай бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    You're welcome!

  • @Mia-sp8jc
    @Mia-sp8jcАй бұрын

    Effective advice. Ty 💥

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    My pleasure! :)

  • @jkol8781
    @jkol878111 күн бұрын

    Very concise description.

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    10 күн бұрын

    Glad you liked it🤗

  • @DianaRovatti-bw8fs
    @DianaRovatti-bw8fsАй бұрын

    ❤🎉😂thank you for this message ❤️ 🙏 it has brightened my narrow minded pain that I haven't seen until now.

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    That's awesome to hear! Keep shining and growing!

  • @StoicSpirit101
    @StoicSpirit10111 күн бұрын

    “The best revenge is to be unlike him who performed the injury.” - Marcus Aurelius Thank you for watching! What do you think is the most effective way to maintain your integrity when dealing with difficult people?

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    10 күн бұрын

    When navigating interactions with difficult individuals, I prioritize staying true to my principles and not letting their behavior dictate mine. It's about taking the high road and setting an example through patience and resilience. How do you preserve your integrity in such situations?"

  • @mariamckenzie2847
    @mariamckenzie28477 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much.👍♥️

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    15 сағат бұрын

    You are so welcome :)

  • @debbielawrence9811
    @debbielawrence981113 күн бұрын

    Interesting video. I've been watching a lot of these videos lately and learnt some things I didn't know..

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    12 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much 😊

  • @HildayulianaYuliana
    @HildayulianaYulianaАй бұрын

    I love this ❤

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks a ton for the love, really appreciate it!

  • @AnaSilva-to1sy
    @AnaSilva-to1syАй бұрын

    lf you were tormented the way that Narcissists were when they were at a defenseless age, you would think of ways to get back at humanity too!

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    Totally get what you're saying! Childhood experiences can have a lasting impact on how we view the world.

  • @user-hd6fc6hb7l

    @user-hd6fc6hb7l

    5 күн бұрын

    Are there any videos of healing narcissists getting psych treatment?

  • @AnicettoBiyok
    @AnicettoBiyok9 күн бұрын

    At the end, narcissist needs only someone to understand them, they are like a child

  • @tomcharter4127
    @tomcharter4127Ай бұрын

    I like everything you're saying except for the part where they realize something I don't know that that's possible

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    I'm glad you enjoyed most of what I said! Your support means a lot to me.

  • @riancreamer6904
    @riancreamer690420 күн бұрын

    I appreciate the video but, man, am I the only one feeling that narcissist is becoming over used? I mean, aren't we all narcissistic at times?

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    20 күн бұрын

    yes sometimes we all are. but here i am talking excessive behavior when it become a disorder. hope you subscribe to my channel for more such interesting content.

  • @riancreamer6904

    @riancreamer6904

    19 күн бұрын

    @@stoicseveryday Fair enough. It's not This video, per se, more the general public dialogue. It seems everyone is a narcissist these days ...

  • @Clevelandsteamer324
    @Clevelandsteamer3245 күн бұрын

    How do you torment someone that is already tortured by toxic shame 24/7?

  • @prasanna161075
    @prasanna161075Ай бұрын

    Amazing ❤

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    I appreciate your support, it means a lot to me!

  • @HikingHalfdead
    @HikingHalfdead23 күн бұрын

    I’m destroyed by someone and will not be ok for a long time. But I’ll figure it out somehow. Perhaps this man has never met someone who no matter how logically and calmly you answer someone they will still manage to make you into a pice of filth .

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    23 күн бұрын

    I am sorry to hear about your experience. I have met people like you have mentioned, and yes I know it's hard to change someone like that..but still I hope that with my videos someone can help themselves earlier than I did myself.

  • @Yubeta1
    @Yubeta1Ай бұрын

    I believe my stepdad is a narcissist, however my mother doesn't see it. But I see it or atleast something that is not genuinely good. He will say my house my happiness right in front of her and me.

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    It's tough when you see something others don't. Have you tried talking to your mother about your concerns?

  • @Yubeta1

    @Yubeta1

    Ай бұрын

    @@stoicseveryday I appreciate you as a stranger hearing me out, it makes me feel better about my situation. However yes, and she replies with if I'm not happy that I can leave.

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    so sorry to hear that. you try to keep surrounding yourself with positivity my friend. may be i hope one day she realizes the truth. i know its hard to leave someone in a situation which is clearly wrong, but you cant do anything in that case, because their mind has been manipulated to feel and live that torture, all you can do is just keep your doors open for her and take care for yourself. all the best buddy.

  • @alcrys000
    @alcrys000Ай бұрын

    My bf's niece behavior is like that when we have family gatherings specially outing. She did guilt tripping, i can read her actions and know every details of her. She's jealous i might get her bf because i look younger that her but she's younger than me. My bf is her uncle i can't do what she's thinking, its immature mindset for me and unempath, my bf told me his niece is matured and intelligent according to her actions for me she's not, she doesnt know what is wrong and what right, she the only acquaintance i have encoutered thinking about those things for me. But its okay for me, I know myself i have respect for myself and others have respect me. I just want to look young and to be a cool mom and wife for my kids and husband soon. Fitness doesnt mean flirting but for healthy living.

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    Wow, that sounds like a challenging family dynamic. Keep being your awesome self!

  • @Clevelandsteamer324
    @Clevelandsteamer3245 күн бұрын

    If you find it hard to leave. You are probably trauma bonded

  • @relaxuuu
    @relaxuuuАй бұрын

    love your content❤

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks a bunch for loving my content!

  • @pellestianomasai1220

    @pellestianomasai1220

    Ай бұрын

    Wow wow wow! This content has touched and captivated my mind to its core. Please keep it up, because you have just won yourself another subscriber! 😂

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    @@pellestianomasai1220 thankyou so much for such kind words.

  • @Thunderroad8517
    @Thunderroad8517Ай бұрын

    Thanks for this wisdom. I am going through a separation from which another family member is a narcissist. It seems that my partner has been groomed to turn on me and run away from responsibility and accountability. We are selling the house and it feels that most of the responsibility is thrown off on me. I am trying hard to see what I have done that’s cause all this. I look back in my life and see many narcs. I guess I’m teaching people how to treat me. I really never learned to stand up for myself with these folks I just continued to blame me in one way or another. Getting away from them has helped only to attract more. What am I missing here. As of now I don’t know how to best navigate my life situation. I want to change the pattern and the outcome. I have spent many years in trying to heal myself. I have not been to a psycologist. I haven’t had the resources to keep one long enough to unravel this mess. I will continue to listen to this video and trust I can make the change necessary to move to where I want to be. I’m tired of the hog pin with the swine! Thanks for listening.

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    I'm grateful that my video could offer some insight. Remember, you're not alone in this journey.

  • @Thunderroad8517

    @Thunderroad8517

    Ай бұрын

    @@stoicseveryday It sure as hell feels like it.

  • @kathryngracey7993

    @kathryngracey7993

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you very much for your heartfelt sharing. I can closely relate to everything you wrote. 🤗

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    @@kathryngracey7993 Much love..Keep supporting each other, as we are all one community here. :)❤‍🩹

  • @Thunderroad8517

    @Thunderroad8517

    Ай бұрын

    @@stoicseveryday there is a song that speaks to this. I have it on Spotify. It’s New way out by Tremonti. Thanks for your response .

  • @xyzlmnop5206
    @xyzlmnop5206Ай бұрын

    YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE A NARC!!! Good try tho!!!

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    It's tough dealing with a narcissist, but recognizing the signs is the first step.

  • @robt4390
    @robt439013 күн бұрын

    If you recognise Narcissism to be a “disorder”, why did you “choose” to suggest that “torturing” one might be considered virtuous?

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    13 күн бұрын

    Yes we have people with disorder but it makes things difficult for you, to save yourself while dealing with such people you have to come up with some tricks ..right, by torturing I mean simply using those tricks, because in the end it's your mental health that you need to take care of right..?

  • @robt4390

    @robt4390

    13 күн бұрын

    @@stoicseveryday I just think it’s an evocative title that appeals to the baser instincts of your perceived audience. As a hard determinist I would just advocate for trying to distance yourself from such people - family as close as parents and siblings included - unless they are your children/step-children and you could play a positive role in perhaps softening the worst of their behaviour during their childhood development.

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    12 күн бұрын

    Yes you are right, by teaching our kids , we can break that cycle.👍

  • @tracylyle1902
    @tracylyle190225 күн бұрын

    A way would be divorce…

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    24 күн бұрын

    that's sad, but yes you should always give yourself priority, if you are stuck in a bad relationship, getting out of it can be the only solution. take care of yourself

  • @Flokix4
    @Flokix4Ай бұрын

    😢

  • @Markology777
    @Markology77729 күн бұрын

    😂😂😂when the bag reaches Jamaica, let me know 😁😁😁👍🏿

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    29 күн бұрын

    🌴😄 Thanks for watching and leaving such a fun comment! Please Subscribe.

  • @user-lm9xw8wd1y
    @user-lm9xw8wd1yАй бұрын

    My son is a narcisist

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    Ай бұрын

    That's tough, man. Have you tried talking to him about it?

  • @user-tf4uj2fs8o

    @user-tf4uj2fs8o

    16 күн бұрын

    So is mine

  • @user-tf4uj2fs8o

    @user-tf4uj2fs8o

    16 күн бұрын

    I’m trying but until he respects my boundaries I’m out

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    13 күн бұрын

    Yes, always give yourself priority. You deserve all the happiness. I will appreciate if you subscribe to my channel for more such content. :)

  • @HikingHalfdead
    @HikingHalfdead23 күн бұрын

    That’s hilarious, go ahead try to get them to see a different perspective it’s called cognitive dissonance, doesn’t work.

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    23 күн бұрын

    Hey, thanks for letting us know your perspective. I agree with you, but instead of focusing on changing them, we can just save ourselves for our own mental health.

  • @mariep4018
    @mariep401810 күн бұрын

    I am abused every day by narcissists. There isn’t one day that goes by that day do not try to control manipulate degrade shame me that goes by.

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    10 күн бұрын

    "Thank you for sharing your experience. I'm truly sorry to hear that you're facing such difficult circumstances. Remember, you deserve to be treated with respect and kindness. If you haven't already, please consider reaching out to a trusted friend, family member, or a professional who can offer support and guidance. You're not alone, and there are resources and people out there who can help you navigate through this. Take care of yourself."

  • @buddhacook1087
    @buddhacook108718 күн бұрын

    Sounds another like a description of Donald tRump ....... & my 'mother'🙄 A passing Aussie

  • @stoicseveryday

    @stoicseveryday

    18 күн бұрын

    Donald Trump is no problem but if ur mother is giving you hard time..talk to her buddy..may be you find a solution. Sending blessings for you , hope things gets right with time. Please consider subscribing for more such interesting content.🙂☺️

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