Mature people do not believe on a random video that tells about whether you're mature or not.

@Prince.C

6 жыл бұрын

+kastoori saxena pretty mature statement

@kastoorisaxena9232

6 жыл бұрын

Get Better Together I'd say you got a mature way to take criticism 🤔😁

@atheefkhan9710

6 жыл бұрын

kastoori saxena lel impressed ✌🏽✌🏽

@Adv.abhisheksinha0629

6 жыл бұрын

That's really impressive point... I can't agree more with u...

@GardeniaInc

6 жыл бұрын

Mature peope like to reflect,observe,mastered in controling emotion&handling issue etc..most important those label"mature"given or admit by other/close people around them most of them dont even realized.bragging is not their act they low profile.experienced and always learn..even watching youtube video..knowledge is every where.

Just make sure you don't judge others who haven't yet reached maturity, they need help, so help them. We must help each other. Add being judgemental of others is also a sign of immaturity.

@cathebillondo4262

5 жыл бұрын

V. F. B..,,, yeah

@pureocd7227

5 жыл бұрын

Nah, too much work, nobody helped me.

@lovechallanges1608

5 жыл бұрын

How do you help your loved one who is very immature as well but, doesn't think he is or has every right to be that way? It feels like the blind leading the blind.

@lovechallanges1608

4 жыл бұрын

@Grande Leonardo I appreciate that. But it's been hard trying to be patient with them. Even though he's been patient with me. But, I pray I get it right soon.

@lovechallanges1608

4 жыл бұрын

@Grande Leonardo thank you. I really appreciate it. I will take that into consideration the next time I'm with him. I love him greatly and we argue a lot. It's been extremely hard. But, I want to make this work with him. Thank you again for your advice.

Maturity is also accepting people's as they are . Never compare your quality to another it makes a barrier. Different people have their own qualities so never judge them on the basis of only education.

@Prince.C

5 жыл бұрын

Well said 👍

@jamespittman1884

4 жыл бұрын

That's a great point you have to deal with people at their level.

@selenajoefield3104

4 жыл бұрын

So true

@RohitMishra-ox6oy

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks 👍👍 guys

@latoyawatts168

3 жыл бұрын

I so agree!

*this is one of the most meaningful videos I've watched in my entire life*

@mira394

4 жыл бұрын

Is... this sarcasm?

@siyarmirza3917

3 жыл бұрын

Imagine not being mature

@orakimchi3577

3 жыл бұрын

@CMN hey watching anime doesn't define you if you are mature or not it means that you think its a cartoon but its not sir believe me there are many animes that are only made for mature audience but i guess you are not sorry sir bye

@ronnie2820

2 жыл бұрын

@@siyarmirza3917 People have problems being mature okay? A lot of things effect your maturity, Like the way you’re treated, You’re surroundings or any mentally effective disorders such as bipolar.

Maturity in my opinion is to remain calm under adverse situations and tackle the problems rather than hyperventilating about them. Also includes not giving a damn about negative criticism and continue with your work if you think it's right. A mature person listens more, speaks when necessary and is focused about his goals. Nice video.

@Unknown-yz2yj

6 жыл бұрын

Naren kumar sahoo absolutely right:)

@lebronjames5287

5 жыл бұрын

Naren kumar sahoo if you’re mature you should be able to take negative criticism, that’s how people improve in general

@-idontknowanything9579

5 жыл бұрын

Naren kumar sahoo that’s basically my life, right there, no one understands me in school and I’m only 15. It kinda sucks to be mature. I have annoying people wanting to be my friend when all they do is talk shit on me and they think it’s funny. When it’s stupid. I can’t stand up for myself and tell them to shut up and don’t even acknowledge my existence because I hate them and won’t even get it because they’re too immature and ignorant to understand my pain on them. I don’t even wanna fight them, I just wanna gone from life. I do not know what to do because it sounds childish to fight over name calling and just be annoying in general. I’m sitting here wondering how to deal with immature people. Because I’m gonna look immature for getting sensitive and weird looking if I throw anger at them. Why can’t everyone just try to mind their own business and just chill. I feel outcasted in school everyday because I have loneliness for not expressing myself. I rarely talk to anyone in school because I’m always bored and tired of hearing worlds’ problems. And I have no confidence at all for having a girlfriend or more friends because I act boring and just a normal being. People just like blabber and blabber about anything. Like they can’t come with something more original and new. Imagine surrounding yourself around people like this every single day of your life. And just knowing you’ll die without being satisfied with yourself. The way I see the world is nothing but a thing. In reality, what so bad about the universe being destroyed and we all die. Nothing. But, what ever, I know I sound like a complete hypocrite but, I’m just giving a comment and probably don’t give a damn. This is why people do weed. Weed makes me feel more comfortable, relaxed, confident, socializing, and actually care about the life. I wonder if you actually took your time reading this.

@francieodendahl9351

5 жыл бұрын

People hyperventilate because they've been holding it in for so long and it finally bursts open. And they are not taking any drug. I've come to realize that most people need something to get through life whether it be a drug or a person. If you can remain calm in all situations, it is either a sign of maturity or a sign you don't give a damn. Be a man they're perfect for this. Our best generals were all men. Women were taught to care more that is probably become emotional. People do get tired of being ignored. The Narcissist always remains calm, because they have no feelings or emotions anymore. Hence Robots and artificial intelligence. I've learned to stay away from people who want to see you react instead of really help you or be your friend these people are devious and divisive and just pure out evil.

@asarahgus

5 жыл бұрын

Naren kumar sahoo I totally agree with you that make so much sense

Being defensive is a survival instinct. It's good to not be defensive, but on rare occasions, it's very necessary. Knowing the difference is maturity, not avoiding defensiveness.

@Prince.C

6 жыл бұрын

+Jake Rosser I agree 🙋

@Thestarvinstudent

6 жыл бұрын

Get Better Together Great video. Liked & subscribed!

@Prince.C

6 жыл бұрын

+Jake Rosser Thanks mate, cheers!

@saswatibiswas6770

6 жыл бұрын

I agree!

@violetgirl1996

6 жыл бұрын

Jake Rosser Agreed. Wise words :)

1. You are reactive 2. Obsessive with looks 3. They are defensive 4. They play the victim card Okay.

@r011ing_thunder6

5 жыл бұрын

I'm embarrassed that I'm guilty of #2 and #4

@r011ing_thunder6

5 жыл бұрын

All of these actually lol

@dynam1cdrox711

5 жыл бұрын

Obsessive with looks is overlooked. Taking care of yourself is a mature thing because you care about your health.

@cathebillondo4262

5 жыл бұрын

#3 they defensive ...., so if you're a sensitive, you're immature?

@horschiday9449

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks. That just saved my time to watch the whole thing.

Damm I'm so immature. I was waiting for one that didn't fit me but you hit me hard with each one 😂

@angelinalasquite9663

4 жыл бұрын

Gosh I feel the same as you think

@marleneallen80

4 жыл бұрын

Same

@AniketBhandari

4 жыл бұрын

You are not defensive now..

@rbsa672

3 жыл бұрын

@Vladimir Putin well said

@esssyafie3375

3 жыл бұрын

You are funny kris wu is pretty defensive

If this is true, then 98% of the world is immature, good video

@MohammedAli-ze9ic

6 жыл бұрын

Jane James not true wat u said. U must b overly immature

@richardbaranowski

6 жыл бұрын

Citation Needed.

@youarelife3437

6 жыл бұрын

LOL it certainly looks like that. Most of the world is fighting and being selfish all the time so I think you might be right on that.

@janejames6729

6 жыл бұрын

Mohammed Ali to take the time to notice I'm overly immature is the pot calling the kettle black, don't you think

@JustAGuy85

6 жыл бұрын

I dunno, but I heard that 78% of statistics are made up.

"you are what you are today because of the choices you made yesterday"

@carmilo9399

6 жыл бұрын

Reenika , you speak truth.

@rafiqsorathiya9

5 жыл бұрын

very true reenika ....

@frakez6155

5 жыл бұрын

You are what you are today because of the choices your made and the behaviour that was implanted to ya

@tuhinislamnur7590

5 жыл бұрын

Well said

@sabelomadlala2340

5 жыл бұрын

correct

maturity feels more like how you deal with your emotions, relationships and situations, and seeing situations from a wide perspective rather than narrowing down on something tiny frequently running away from situations and refusing to deal with pressing issues in relationships, letting your emotions get the better of you, letting your ego get the better of you, prioritising your self image, not owning up to your actions and the effect they had, all feel like immaturity

@yatibailey2580

4 жыл бұрын

So true..spot on.

@shivrajyadav2998

2 жыл бұрын

are u an army

@denzelvillegas6550

2 жыл бұрын

Indeed true

I came here cause friends of mine, NEVER take me seriously I’m changing for them.

@esh8604

5 жыл бұрын

u shouldn’t change for others. being mature also means that u should be yourself. ur probably a really nice person.

@lina5698

3 жыл бұрын

don t change for them your too good for that 💖 affirm yoursel as the way you are

@pineapple3555

3 жыл бұрын

same. It really sucks, they think I'm immature and that their better than me, and It really makes me frustrated! Worst part is I don't even know how to prove to them anymore, I just feel dumb, makes me sad too

@Mustardddd

2 жыл бұрын

@@pineapple3555 When i say something that we never mentioned in a while they say: “what wut? Man i’m confused” i feel so misunderstood like bro they react to what i say and never analyze it, I literally have to spell it out to them

@jorenhinacay9392

2 жыл бұрын

How the change buddy

Do mature people watch this video to find if they are mature?

@davidsmythe2223

6 жыл бұрын

Green Wood that’s a good question.

@crazycoollady

6 жыл бұрын

I'm wondering the same.

@rigzinooob5663

6 жыл бұрын

Point

@tezasviable

6 жыл бұрын

Nic one

@aliandmouse

6 жыл бұрын

Green Wood yes they do, I just did ;)

Basically, don't care about anything and your mature

@Fairyfromthehollows

6 жыл бұрын

Dark Reavenger yea when life hits you and you realize its not worth it. Lol

@larsswig912

6 жыл бұрын

Just like how you don't care about the difference between your and you're

@darkreavenger2054

6 жыл бұрын

Michelle Cannes Nobody's perfect

@larsswig912

6 жыл бұрын

Dark Reavenger And neither are you So if you're asking me I want you to know....

@DaSpookitty

6 жыл бұрын

Michelle Cannes when my time comes, forget the wrong that I've done

the guy i like called me immature and that’s why he doesn’t like me. i didn’t think i did these things. god i feel stupid.

@gautambhatia4360

2 жыл бұрын

No u r not immature it is just he is too mature for this world he wouldn't even have fun

@AmritAmmz

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah sometimes we think that he or she is the one who will be life partner for the rest of our life but believe me the person who is ur true love will always come back for u. U don't have to change shit for somebody else u should stay the way u are and u shouldn't care i believe in that❤️

@sabbirahmedsumon3678

2 жыл бұрын

Some guys have too much arrogance for that. Fucked up life holders always thinks they are mature.

It's not about maturity or immaturity, Its about living happily and peacefully without harming others.

Failures makes man mature😎

@Prince.C

6 жыл бұрын

+akash Prajapati Yes that's true

@genesisdynamics9

6 жыл бұрын

akash Prajapati lol...true...I must be VERY mature

@xjiqw7070

6 жыл бұрын

yeah sometimes they go to jail.

@richNfit4life

6 жыл бұрын

Or rather, if he/she learns from those failures in a constructive and positive manner. Some people try something and fail over and over, never trying something different and just complain, making them immature and insane.

@crazycoollady

6 жыл бұрын

akash Prajapati I guess I am very mature on that part.

I was ended up in the Jail Custody for 10days cus I had accepted a false allegation to save my bestest friend. When I was released fortunately my friend broke the friendship and said "I don't want a criminal to be my friend." I understood from that very day that you yourself is your bestest friend and most of the people in this world are cunning and will come up for undue advantages.

@tayokarate

6 жыл бұрын

Why on earth would you do that?

@celestialbeing4421

6 жыл бұрын

Pralay M Damn! That son of s devil...! Henceforth choose ur people wisely dear...

@ANUPAM-ny8ee

6 жыл бұрын

I feel sorry for you man☺ Go kick his ass

@techblueprint9887

6 жыл бұрын

😞

@bikhalphukon2138

6 жыл бұрын

What goes around comes around ! .... Don't worry mate .. You will be fine !

1.Reactive 2.Obsession with looks 3.Defensive 4.Victimising oneself

@naragrace3870

4 жыл бұрын

Water Existing cool thx I have the first 2 but not the second two so I’m halfway mature acc to this particular video lol

@sz_muray

3 жыл бұрын

I have all of those traits but I like the way I'm☺️

@ricaella9124

3 жыл бұрын

@@sz_muray Acceptance😍

@its_fucking_princess_babe

3 жыл бұрын

i'm fully mature but u know most of the people says that i'm immature cuz of my child behaviour and..... ya also i'm looking like a child whatever i'm mature at early age according to these points

@yunghuztler1000

2 жыл бұрын

so pretty much described women

I call it boring not mature 😂😂😂 😂 Life is too short to be too mature Find your child within but remember to be kind,open minded and hug someone you love now 💕💕

@mamtag9835

5 жыл бұрын

Miu Miu Koo are you Pisces?

@mamtag9835

5 жыл бұрын

Or Sagittarius

@galbatorixhacks6481

5 жыл бұрын

Of course, to have a childlike nature is never a bad thing. One can certainly Be insightful , discerning and wise but yet be childlike at the same time . this video is flawed to a great extent if I'll be honest

@purpp-esque1711

5 жыл бұрын

Are you trolling?

@MiuMiuKoo

5 жыл бұрын

@@purpp-esque1711 No Iam trying to cope with the sudden death of my partner at the moment Its not easy but its a comfort to know that the last thing i said was I love you 😢

Stop pleasing everyone you come across... Discussion is always better than Argument... Be there when someone needs help but never leave yourself behind... Take a stand on "what is right" instead of "Who is right" No one can make you happy unless & until you are happy with yourself first... "Happiness is just a choice" Never compromise your values...

@samar5962

6 жыл бұрын

That's the way to go :)

@saswatibiswas6770

6 жыл бұрын

Ronnie Shah beautiful words you have there!

@Unknown-yz2yj

6 жыл бұрын

Ronnie Shah very TRUE!!!

@temitopeoluwadare906

6 жыл бұрын

Ronnie Shah absofuckinglutely true

@TrieuDungCuong

6 жыл бұрын

This is truly penetrating through my mind, thank you so much

KZread Comments are immature, 90% of the time.

@crazycoollady

6 жыл бұрын

I agree with you 100%.

@crazycoollady

6 жыл бұрын

SegaDisney KZread replies are also very immature most of the time.

@SegaDisneyUniverse

6 жыл бұрын

Yes, definitely the replies! Especially the ones that make no sense at all!

@crazycoollady

6 жыл бұрын

SegaDisney Or the ones that insult the OP for no reason.

@thegoat1382

6 жыл бұрын

So is this comment

Everything in this video hits me hard. I'm immature myself due to the stupidity I've done until now. Another reason why my sister keeps insulting me at the same time. The only thing unnacceptable for me is when she judges how chubby I am, and I thought judging people based on their looks is considered immaturity. By watching this I'm beginning to regret how I've been acting all along, little by little.

@kevinc.cucumber3697

10 ай бұрын

If it bothers you, go run a mile

frst sign m not mature,i clicked dis video

@contrastentertainment1749

5 жыл бұрын

Frst step toward being.......

@kennycyrillambasan6831

3 жыл бұрын

*speek englesh looser*

I am mature . Because i know a 5 minute video can't decide wethr i am mature or not.

@Prince.C

6 жыл бұрын

+Divya P That's a pretty mature view, thanks for taking the time to watch 👍

@sghqz

6 жыл бұрын

4:37 stupid immature fool

@rendomguy8992

6 жыл бұрын

Divya P however you are immature for making that comment

@locvo4880

6 жыл бұрын

CDS how I'd what you say what you are so if I say cat I'm a cat?

@mornmorn4367

6 жыл бұрын

Divya P ignoring facts or other peoples opinions is actually quite immature your comment is very defensive :D

Another sign you are not matured is you put girls over your goals

@thehandturkey8484

6 жыл бұрын

TheMoosFrequency I fail there 1000000000%

@ush7184

6 жыл бұрын

TheMoosFrequency but what if girls are your goals 🤔

@MrSdsok

6 жыл бұрын

then you are not a man just a navel lint

@ush7184

6 жыл бұрын

MrSdsok i'm just saying. Like having money and everything ypu ever seeked then comes the girl you always dreamed of and you set her as your goal

@Ninja360r

6 жыл бұрын

That is when you dont have the girl yet. The perfect example i can show you is when you got work to do (a job that you love) but at the same time your girlfriend asks you to go watch movies together. So a wise man would choose his job over his girl. Even if there's a girl you like, you should not prioritize her more than your career/purpose. Tip: A job that you don't enjoy is NOT your goal. Leave it if you have one :)

I really appreciate this video, man. I'm 22 almost 23 and I'm still victim of a lot of my bad habits; mindlessly and anxiously living life through trials and tribulations. Now it's time for me to really take life by the horns and do as I should. Thanks again boss

@austin8037

Жыл бұрын

Good luck with that, I'm 24 will be 25 in July and I am big time dealing with a quarter life crisis as I call!

i honestly appreciate the video as i really needed the last message, i honestly don't typically complain about life but recently i guess i have been influenced a lot of those people immature around, anyway i will remember this, thankyou 💖

Be true to yourself no matter what ...

@crazycoollady

6 жыл бұрын

That's a mature statement.

@sheilavo82098

6 жыл бұрын

No. Be the best version of yourself.

@Lazaro38Roca2

6 жыл бұрын

True Thank You

*Me while watching this video* : oh shit I'm immature. *Me also* : nah! don't care!

@stainfxce2303

6 жыл бұрын

Little Prince I feel ya

thank you so much, "Let it go and be more responsible" is stored in my wallet now.

This video was actually very useful, thank you!

One thing that I learned when I was younger that really helped me a lot was: If someone insults you or says something about you ask yourself "Is it true?" If it's not, calmly tell them they're wrong and don't worry about it. If it IS true, ask yourself "Is this something I need to fix/ is this a problem area?" If the answer is no, stand proud as you are. Be yourself. Maybe you might want to explain your views, but that's about it. However, if it is something you need to change, then work on changing that part of your life. Calming down and analyzing insults and what people say about me through this method really helped me a lot. My elementary school life was me reacting and blowing up at insults and me losing my cool, to in high-school (I figured this out late in elementary) I was more calm and thoughtful about things. Saved my life. Thank you Mrs. Naylor.

@daniellamaria5887

6 жыл бұрын

shadowpod13 that's amazing. I need to try this in future - thanks for sharing!

@zahranoorchaudhary7787

6 жыл бұрын

And being yourself means that you are happy with what you are and if you are happy with what you are then you dont need to satisfy yourself with these silly tests.I believe that i m immature that is why i m here.

@tsushibu3493

6 жыл бұрын

I just didn't give a shit

@jkville1899

6 жыл бұрын

what works best for me is to respond to any verbal confrontation with 'hey, you're entitled to an opinion'

@Sylvaniaq

Жыл бұрын

@@tsushibu3493 no u

Blaming someone else whenever u fail is also a sign of immaturity as those people dont see their fault or they just dont want to see themselves blamed for certain things. But, really admitting our own faults and learning out of it is the right move for a MATURE person.

@Prince.C

6 жыл бұрын

+Amit Savaran True words

@gloop7458

6 жыл бұрын

Amit Savaran What about if it actually is their fault It's never happened to me but I saw a case where a teacher got fired because they altered a students project so they got an F when if they just left it alone they would've gotten an A So in that sense it really is the teacher's fault they got an F (Btw I saw it on a video somewhere and it was the footage and an explanation of what was going on (the footage was of the teacher altering the project in their room))

@3buddieszahraamaraandrabia122

6 жыл бұрын

true

@saswatibiswas6770

6 жыл бұрын

Amit Savaran very, very true!

@aachaitu

6 жыл бұрын

Amit Savaran Stupid Fool

Sir. Idk how i got here but, it sure made me think twice about my immature side. Thanks!

I think im watching this too late anyways thanks I'm still not mature but I'll definitely try make myself mature instead of complaining 😉😉

I used to be over defensive cause I was bullied since childhood couldn't tell if they were joking or really want to hurt me in high school. But as I entered college I haven't experienced a lot of bullying and I understood better that maybe I have done some dumb things in the past, but I own up to it. Now I'm in the military I have to mature significantly and I'm glad to take that leap.

@jayveerchavda3243

6 жыл бұрын

Turok duels same story bro !!! I know how that feels

@AtharvaVaidya

6 жыл бұрын

I can relate. Lost 3 years of my memory. Turned out to be good ❤️😂

@Amynity

6 жыл бұрын

Yeah, i was also disliked by the boys from my school, my defense mechanisme was to ignore them because that was what my sister told me to do, But the name calling,trash throwing,ect did not end. Then i heard that maybe i was bullied because they think i was a snob for not friendly with them,so i tried to change by smiling more and try to talk, but the next thing is i heard that one of them called me slut behind my back, i revert to being quiet and ignored them again. i realized that i prefer being called a snob rather than a slut. When i went to college, nothing like that ever happen. It really put my self esteem down really bad back then.but now i am glad to never have to meet them again.

@theuserintheroom4450

6 жыл бұрын

Emanonaeza This is why the public school system is a failure. And the staff doesn't do squat!

@epikcyne

5 жыл бұрын

I’m happy for you bro

In my opinion, maturity is also understanding that many people have issues that you may not have (needing to wear glasses to see, having autism, being blind, being in a wheelchair, being tall or short for your age, etc.)

@Prince.C

6 жыл бұрын

+crazycoollady1999 true words

@crazycoollady

6 жыл бұрын

Thanks for replying. I am autistic, was considered tall for my age, and needed glasses when I was 4. Bullying anyone with those kinds of conditions is basically not understanding these issues.

@thetruthwithbhavyapanchal4292

6 жыл бұрын

crazycoollady1999

@crazycoollady

6 жыл бұрын

THE TRUTH with Bhavya Panchal Yes?

@crazycoollady

6 жыл бұрын

Daredevil I'm glad you agree.

This vid helped a lot! Thanks 👍

Thank you for this video, honestly it hurt to know that I have every sign on this video but I hope to mature and be a better person

"Accept what you can't change"

@domengasperinii4443

6 жыл бұрын

Healthify My Life The fact Tramp is president.

@saswatibiswas6770

6 жыл бұрын

Healthify My Life that's actually the most important point!

@kjkszpj7506

6 жыл бұрын

Absolutely, but sometimes people think they can't change something they actually can, putting them deeply in their comfort zones and then, depression, then comes the victim card which makes it even worse. What happens then is just sad, a waste of potential

@saswatibiswas6770

6 жыл бұрын

Ja Sam Ja very true! Good point!

@wikstr18

6 жыл бұрын

Healthify My Life i used to get sad when the wather was bad xd my mom would tell me that i cant change the facts but i refused to listen to her but now i just go with the flow, go out with friends, study and do other stiff no matter the weather

God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference 🌸

Thanx for making this amazing video. 🤩🤩

KEEP DOING YOUR WORK.ALL THE FACTS U SAID IS TRUE.TNK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR KNOWLEDGE WITH THE WORLD.

Maturity doesn’t make you happy tho.Based on these symptoms,seems like once I was a mature guy too,how interesting it is that I have grown up to be immature! I used to not care about my look,I tended to keep all my feelings inside,I was nearly emotionless,I didn’t complain about hard work,instead,I just keep working.I was used to be offended,never defended myself, and I didn’t want people to know my problems. How miserable I was and still am,but now I know I can do my hair in a different way or I can at least not to wear the same clothing everyday. I used to work 15hours everyday without knowing how morbid it is for a middle schooler.And sharing my feelings and problems really make me feel good, people are suppose to help and share with people all the time,it’s really nice to get your feelings out. It’s ok to be immature,being immature doesn’t mean you’re inferior,people in general tend to admire mature people and mature lifestyle ,because society is giving people standards and pressures,society always wants us to be mature,it could be a tradition that pass down from former time,when only a small group of people rule the world,these group of people needed obedient people with a great “ethic” and less self-consciousness to help them shaping their world,we were been told it’s always better to restrain yourself.In fact,we do need mature and efficient people to develop the world,but I don’t like the idea of having to force oneself into maturity,it’s ok to be who you are,just to find your balances

@raycen477

6 жыл бұрын

I also don’t like what he says about immature people only care about themselves,immaturity doesn’t equal to selfishness,maybe immature people have a tendency of being selfish,but it’s still very immature and superficial of him to make such a conclusion.Even I don’t think he is mature enough,he speaks things in a bitter tone,which makes him sounds like a person who pretends he is mature, it’s the most immature thing to do,but he has a right to express his opinion,and I try my best to not judge his personality

@rakimahmanda8709

5 жыл бұрын

Couldnt agree more

@ZVENOM6134

5 жыл бұрын

I think you’re mixing up maturity and being boring. Maturity is also knowing when to have fun. You can be mature and playful at the same time, if u know when to be playful, and when to be serious. But u can also be immature and boring as well.

@pranavlonaree6732

5 жыл бұрын

How he wrote all this? And what time it took to write this all! 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😅🤔🤔🤔🤔

@elizrebezilmadommdo1662

5 жыл бұрын

From what I'm reading, I don't think you've grown immature at all. To me it just sounds like you've grown confidence and a backbone. Frankly, I think another sign of maturity is not that you hold in your feelings, but rather that you're able to vent and express it in a civil and kind manner. And taking care of yourself physically or wearing certain clothes and styling your hair a certain way in order to express yourself isn't immature. I think what the video meant to say was that if you take your looks WAY too seriously, to a point where your happiness depends on whether or not you look good that day, you have a toxic and immature mentality. And people who don't stand up for themselves (mind you, in a calm and neutral tone, and also during the right situation where it's appropriate and you know the way the other person is treating you is unjust) or cannot express their emotions are slightly immature in a way as well, at least I think. So in other words, people like me. haha So basically, I think you've actually grown more mature over the years, but I don't think you realize that because you have a different idea of what maturity is. I suppose it subjective, but I personally don't find you particularly immature. You're not perfect, every one has room for improvement, but you're on the right path, to maturity that is.

I like your insight a lot. I realized that I was defensive too and learning to let things go is so liberating. Most times people don’t mean to hurt us and even when they do, it’s more of a reflection of them, rather than you. Good stuff!

@fuckoff6431

6 жыл бұрын

Payton's Problems

@Zalamandar

6 жыл бұрын

P R E A C H

@fuckoff6431

6 жыл бұрын

Zalman Schipp I love you

@fuckoff6431

6 жыл бұрын

Zalman Schipp lol let's get married

@fuckoff6431

6 жыл бұрын

Zalman Schipp the worlds fastest reflex lol I laughred

Thank you, I will surely improve

Thanks for this video man, i really learned a lot and it was a huge help, keep up the good work

The thing is u can't change the weather.

@dennispetrov9628

6 жыл бұрын

But you can move to places with a more suitable climate.

@mohdsuffiyan9147

6 жыл бұрын

Dennis Petrov absolutely bro you can move to places with suitable climate,apart from that you have no option but regret.

@lostcity-thunderbeings8034

6 жыл бұрын

You can enjoy every weather, as soon as it isn't too cold nor too hot. And, as long as weather doesn't describe your feelings...

@saswatibiswas6770

6 жыл бұрын

Shqiponja Mehmeti true!

@saswatibiswas6770

6 жыл бұрын

Dennis Petrov nice one, but moving every time you don't like the weather..... you need to be very very rich for that!

Have to disagree with the appearance issue. I see people going to work wearing jeans and not caring about their appearance. Mature people get out of bed, take pride in their appearance and look the part. Not some 35 year old dressing like he just came from the skateboard park.

@Top-Lip

6 жыл бұрын

MrJoefizzy Thats actually got nothing to do with maturity and is rather a superficial influence based on notions of what is normal or culturally acceptable in your environment. That's entirely dependent on what is popular in your environment aswell as different countries have different styles. That will change over time, and is entirely dependent on the workplace, the universal notion of looking smart would be incompatible in a nuclear plant for example, or in an environment where health and safety equipment is necessary. Taking pride in appearance is actually something that is very superficial and unnecessary, and fuels emotionally immature behavior like narcissism and competition. It's often something people do during young adulthood when looking for a relationship or trying to impress friends or not feel judged. People who pay a great deal of attention to how they externally look often do so to compromise for internal discrepancies, the stronger the discrepancies and the deeper the insecurity, the more emphasis on the external image. too much attention to external image, could actually be symptomatic of insecurity, anxiety or a self conscious mentality. Over time, many people actually mature and tend to grow out of this behavior, especially when they are retired. Its not so much not caring, but rather letting go of superficial attachments that burden people during youth, in favor of prioritizing things which are more productive and beneficial for personal development. Such attachments are not necessary for the entirety of an individual's life journey. Adults are often very immature and that's ok, because people cannot expect to have a lifetimes worth of experience before they have actually lived. People don't usually truly mature until their life journey is close to an end, that's when people tend to reflect upon their life choices the most.

@cheshirealice8461

6 жыл бұрын

Primal for me, mature style is one that gives you confidence and comfort. As long as they feel confident and they’re productive, there’s no issue. If someone feels uncomfortable dressing up everyday, it lowers their productivity

@theaccidentalcook8557

6 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY!

@user-jz5ki1ek7v

6 жыл бұрын

Theres a fine line between dressing up properly, take pride of it and focusing too much on how u look all the time to the point u frequently stop the task at hand to fix ur look

@synthiaayuk3437

6 жыл бұрын

i think the speaky is talking about those who think looking good will give them a pass into all doors! dont b too concern abt your looks and forget your purpose

So insightful! Thank You so much!

I will work on these..These points were so good and are needed to get better...👍

I hope people don't watch this video and try to change themselves to be more mature, because that's just, immature.

@crosses101

6 жыл бұрын

Thương Trần ---- Good one 👍

@bunnydesi7450

6 жыл бұрын

Thương Trần how

@izzyy5892

6 жыл бұрын

Change is good

@joshcims6616

6 жыл бұрын

i agree

@dalym8678

6 жыл бұрын

He's talking about the good change. Which is what all maturity about.

I love this video. I could understand the changes in me due to the social life circumstances I'm feeling more optimistic compared to few years ago

Thanks for making this video. Your words are true.

You are doing a great work man!!👍👍

This video is rather unreliable, everyone has a child inside.Maturity is not determined by a video, but by your actions.

@crazycoollady

6 жыл бұрын

That is very true. You made a great point.

@roswithabearfield5374

6 жыл бұрын

The video basically implies this.

@vickyvinay23

6 жыл бұрын

xXMx_G4MINGXx This video explains those actions.

@be5753

6 жыл бұрын

Its in the video.

@SabirKhan-wu6je

6 жыл бұрын

xXMx_G4MINGXx the child inside is rather a different thing. Being playful for example is a sign of maturity when its not necessary for you to be serious. This is the bad childlike characteristics of a person. But yes a vid doesn't mean much.

Wow, the last part really struck me there. Maybe I do need to change. Thank you for the video dear sir! Love it and apprexiate!

Vroh a very amazing and a useful video for me ima gonna download this and watch it sometimes Your points are sooo accurate bro

this helps a ton. thanks

I know i aint mature, just got curious by the thumbnail Wow didnt expect to get this many likes, thnx guys

@seokjinisanactualangel465

6 жыл бұрын

Smiling Sh15 same lmao

@saswatibiswas6770

6 жыл бұрын

nice one :-)

@kpopuniverse1273

6 жыл бұрын

Ok then I just clicked here cause of the thumbnail too

@brandontucker7460

6 жыл бұрын

Smiling Sh15 me too

@deningunlado3086

6 жыл бұрын

I clicked this shit outta curiosity too, & it turns out according to this shit I am more mature than I thought

4 SIGNS OF IMMATURUTY REACTIVE. EMOTIONAL. CARE TO MUCH ABOUT APPEARANCE. DEFENSIVE. LAST LIKE TO PLAY VICTIM. WOW..

@grayblackhelm6468

6 жыл бұрын

Curtistine Miller I do three of these. Apparently depression is immaturity.

@soulcaliburmaster94

6 жыл бұрын

Everyone does it. Just more or less

@arnoldo9319

6 жыл бұрын

Gray Blackhelm well yeah it kinda is in my opinion. big whole of the people "deppressed" are not actually deppressed they are just immature crybabies

@princessalia6

6 жыл бұрын

Gray Blackhelm if u have been officially diagnosed with depression then that is different; ig this wouldnt apply to u then

@grayblackhelm6468

6 жыл бұрын

Alia Younus It’s been ten years since I was diagnosed, clinically. I can recall being this way since at least five years prior. I’m too young to be this sick. Maybe that’s a point of opinion rather than objective fact.

Instant subscription my man

I appreciate how this hand wrotes the examples

This really helped . Never realized that I had been such an immature brat the last one really shooked me

What i have learned so far is that life does not go as per our plan. So learn to accept that not every little things you want in your life will happen according to you. Do not forget to enjoy the journey of life because destination may or may not be what you wanted. 😊

I just can't recover from watching thee videos for years......I keep coming back to learn

I have never felt so matured in my life until this.

Good video! I'd also list seeking approval from others as an indicator that you are not fully mature yet.

@Prince.C

6 жыл бұрын

+Black Screen Education good one👍

@GeekyMino

6 жыл бұрын

+Get Better Together I am glad you liked it😊

@keisi1574

6 жыл бұрын

Black Screen Education I strongly disagree with your comment!

@debrajessen7975

6 жыл бұрын

Rusty Sanders 😂😂😂

@goodcatch6203

6 жыл бұрын

You Need To Grow Up Dude.

I like how you stated your own faults as well 💪🏾

Good info on how to work on my own immaturity. Thanks!

Thank you for this easy to understand video 😅

Thanks a lot for uploading this video. There used to be a time when I was defensive, but not I've changed and realized how immature I used to be.After watching this video, I could easily relate few experiences in my own life.

@Prince.C

6 жыл бұрын

+Nithin Ganesh Thanks👍 glad you could relate

I'm 23 and have to say I'm still very immature. I care too much about my appearance, overly defensive, take things for granted like crazy, I don't stick to my plans, I'm spoiled 😢😢😢😭

@crazycoollady

6 жыл бұрын

Because you admit that you have immature traits about yourself, I think of you as very mature.

@TheWarfare07

6 жыл бұрын

crazycoollady1999 😀😀👍

helpful tips my bro good work

The points you mentioned in the video are facts..I myself have gone through it...Anyway good video..

What if when the victim is INDEED the victim? How does immaturity has anything to do with unfortunately being the victim? This is just such an unfair world we’re living in.

I don't want to Grow up, I'm a Toys R Us Kid❤

@crazycoollady

6 жыл бұрын

I'm with you.

@saswatibiswas6770

6 жыл бұрын

how sweet, and so cute stay as you are :-)

@valentinovich2149

6 жыл бұрын

I can't understand what you've wrote...

@edenthesubwoofer4440

6 жыл бұрын

MrR3D he is trying to explain he is a kid into toys still.

@djninjitsuchannel7857

6 жыл бұрын

You know... Growing up isn't so bad, sure you'll have to think more about your life, think about taxes, your work,your house, ecc... But... You learn somethings too, you learn to take the life with philosophy sometimes instead of just crying over everything, you become more intelligent and learn to think by yourself and stand up for yourself. Growing up is underrated and overrated at the same time lol.

Maturity is depends on our mind set and our attitude towards the things or situation ... Matured person can understand the things properly and react properly

@cathebillondo4262

5 жыл бұрын

VIDHYA R.,,,, so if you cant control your temper you're immature?

@redrose1896

2 жыл бұрын

Is mature person laugh too much ?

Thanks man! I'm 29 now and still experiencing these terms, mainly arguments and playing victim cards, really wanted to get rid of this.

Some people who also care alot about their looks can also mean they are very insecure, it doesnt mean they are immature, doesnt apply to all scenarios

I always have had a problem with how people express the general attitude towards speaking out about problems. Whilst some say it's self-pity, attention grabbing and playing the victim, others find it's a way to allow one to releave themselves of stress. I think it's important that we make a clear boundary between expressing your troubles and fishing for attention. Because this unclear statement has caused many people I know to lock away feelings which cause them great harm.

Even though I am watching it after 2 years , I loved it ! Thank you for the information and knowledge

Thanks bro it was really a help for me

I’m 17 and have been the oldest male in the household for a decade. Being the oldest of 3 siblings and having a single parent made me mature beyond my years and significantly more so then my friends my age. Can anyone else relate?

@chipchippington4551

6 жыл бұрын

yes but I was the oldest of 7

@ayecee4107

6 жыл бұрын

Max Duke wtf same dude

@GardeniaInc

6 жыл бұрын

The different between mature and not mature is people perspective towards them"SALUTE" they just.."AMAZING..btw you're not alone..know how to manage life also one of mature sign.trial is part of life..

@JuleZz__z

6 жыл бұрын

I can relate, I'm am an only child with a small family, I educated myself and seen my fair share of bullshit, I usually talk to people older than me and I like listening to their outlook on life and phrases that mite help me, I also got a job at a young age and left school for a course in construction, I did most things myself, teens my age are usually immuture, superficial morons who complain and take everything for granted

@crazycoollady

6 жыл бұрын

As a woman who has lost my father and aunt when I was young, I can definitely relate.

Dislikers are immature i guess...😂😂😂

@adhokshajacharya99

6 жыл бұрын

😂 proves you're too... Lol

@varunkializeh3962

6 жыл бұрын

Congo For 102 Likes !

@raisa_cherry33

6 жыл бұрын

xDD

@kuyaken379

6 жыл бұрын

Agree bro..

@faumash831

6 жыл бұрын

Adil Ahmed 😆😆😆😆🙌🏻🙌🏻

Thanx a lot man, I will surely try to implement these in my life

Wow superb!! Meaningful...

That people their moods are connected to weather is not immaturity, it is a fact. There is a reason that people get more depressed during the winter.

@ArchangelTyrael

6 жыл бұрын

Bitter Truth lol I am just saying that his information wrong, and your shows why this is necessary. You see this video and blindly accept the information without researching or questioning the facts. To be honest nothing in this video is correct, it is all based on opinions. On his definitions of being an adult. He has to provide sources or researches to back up his claims.

@ArchangelTyrael

6 жыл бұрын

Bitter Truth you still said I was immature for defending, which I wasn't even doing. And yes people are that gullible, that's why Trump is now the president of the U.S.A, he randomly claims stuff without facts or research and people believe him. And sure there are less good researchers, but what does have to do with anything. Generally those researches don't get used, or when they do, they get proven wrong which leaves the claim with no support.

@crazycoollady

6 жыл бұрын

In a way, that is true. I tend to be more miserable when out in the heat (although I tolerate it better than most). Also, many people need the vitamin D from the sun to have their mood improved.

@Drakensson

6 жыл бұрын

it is actually a legit reason to be upset, especially if you dont have a driver's license and have to walk in shit weather and get your formal clothes wet etc

Im mature according to this video but I like being immature at will sometimes.

@saswatibiswas6770

6 жыл бұрын

M. Cobretti, I know exactly what you mean!

@crazycoollady

6 жыл бұрын

I'm immature according to this video, but many people in real life remark on how mature I am.

@diaaro9406

6 жыл бұрын

M. Cobretti ...same

@richardbaranowski

6 жыл бұрын

"A little non-sense now and then is relished by the wisest men." - unknown

@crazycoollady

6 жыл бұрын

Richard Baranowski That's true.

This video is actually so true

this video was so helpful with my level of maturity

I like this video.. it has really taught me something... really opened my eyes.. :)

this is a really nice video

Loved this video!!! Channel name is amazing!!!!!

Everyone was judging me for my age.. Then about months after all of the judgments I got, i was diagnosed with social anxiety. But now I'm better and i can say that i learnt a lot from everything that happened to me.

I dont think being reactive should be classified as being 'immature'. Being reactive is just a different way some people handle their emotions. Its unhealthy to bottle it all inside and sometimes it is actually healtier to talk it out. By your definition, does it mean one should be stoic when their loved one just passed away? Or got murdered? Having the ability to feel and express emotion is a human's basic right. Of course it doesnt make it okay to vent your anger on someone by screaming at them, but it shldnt be classified as immature, but rather the person is possibly going through some serious depression or mood disorder in life, and may need help. Either that, the person generally does not respect people.

@pablodee9024

6 жыл бұрын

ThatPinkKoala Acting on your emotions without reflection is very immature. It’s called, not having self control.

@smallyk99

5 жыл бұрын

I think it begs the question, what is true maturity? The ability to control/hide emotions? Than would a person who's indifferent to everything be mature? I just can't seem to figure this bit out

@lukerothnie9266

5 жыл бұрын

I think it should, like you gotta learn the drop it, let it slide and don't be so quick to react to stupid shit ya know

@ZVENOM6134

5 жыл бұрын

Kevin Noh Emotional Maturity is honestly one of the hardest values to achieve, and few are able to do so. Physical maturity is the easiest, just physically grow up Mental Maturity is what most people have as they age Emotional maturity on the other hand... Controlling one’s emotions can be both good or bad depending on the situation. One who is emotionally mature is able to sense when its approperiate to lament about their feelings and express emotions as well as knowing when not to do so. Eg. If you have been struggling with an issue, knowing it will cause problems in the future, (pet peeve of a friend doing something u dislike), it would be mature to find the right time to tell him/her.

@galbatorixhacks6481

5 жыл бұрын

@@smallyk99 there are times when expressing strong emotions is totally justified and there are times when it isnt . being able to tell when that is and being able to control it in that way is a good indicator of maturity in other words, discernment . defensivness and outrage can be justified and beneficial in certain circumstances .

Wow!!. This is literally me. But I hv learnt alot THANKS

@Prince.C

6 жыл бұрын

+derby mordi Thanks👍

Good video,short to the point,nice clear voice .

@Prince.C

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you

thank u for this details.