12 Harsh Truths It's Time to Accept

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As adults, we begin to follow a new set of rules and understand over time that we’re interesting to ourselves only. There’s no one to push us toward success. And ultimately, there are always going to be people who are smarter, better, and more attractive than us. So here're simple truths we’ve all come to understand at some point or another in our lives.
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TIMESTAMPS:
You'll have to study your whole life 0:31
Your problems don’t mean anything to your employer 1:18
Your parents aren’t always right 2:09
Body positivity doesn't mean the absence of self-care 2:49
Appearance does matter 3:49
Friends will stop inviting you out if you keep flaking on them 4:39
No one will appreciate your sacrifices 5:23
You are defined by your own personal choices 5:56
There’s always someone better than you 6:42
You're not the center of the universe 7:19
You won't get a special prize for overtime 8:03
A relationship isn’t the key to happiness 8:52
Music by Epidemic Sound www.epidemicsound.com/
SUMMARY:
- o be a really valuable expert in your field, you have to always be ready to learn something new and continue to beef up your qualifications.
- No one is gonna treat you differently at work just because you're taking care of a sick relative or you have 3 kids to work your schedule around.
- As we grow up, we stop treating our parents’ words and actions as an unquestionable truth. At some point, we realize that moms and dads are just ordinary people.
- Letting your body-positivity threaten your health is never an option.
- Although they say you shouldn’t, the cold hard fact is that people do judge a book by its cover.
- If you keep flaking all the time, your friends will just assume that you're not interested in hanging out with them, so they’ll stop inviting you.
- No one actually needs your sacrifices, and, more often than not, people feel awkward or even annoyed by such obtrusiveness.
- You're the only person who’s responsible for your actions or for what kind of life you have. If you don't know French, that's because you didn't learn it.
- Getting old and seeing your face and body change over time might upset you, but there’s nothing else that can be done about that except for welcoming those changes with your head held high.
- Don’t put yourself under such huge pressure that doesn’t do your mental or physical health any good.
- Before you decide that you’re ready to find someone to share your life with, you should learn to be happy on your own.
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  • @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL
    @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL5 жыл бұрын

    Hey guys, how old are you? 😊 Let’s see, who’s the youngest and the oldest here!

  • @averyy1x

    @averyy1x

    5 жыл бұрын

    BRIGHT SIDE I’m 2

  • @Number-ex6jm

    @Number-ex6jm

    5 жыл бұрын

    Im 1 in a half

  • @skittlzvevo5611

    @skittlzvevo5611

    5 жыл бұрын

    Im 0.11627363756 seconds old

  • @KitSunZoro

    @KitSunZoro

    5 жыл бұрын

    30

  • @itsjrdanff3516

    @itsjrdanff3516

    5 жыл бұрын

    18 soon 19 🇯🇲🔥

  • @martindanrasmussen7237
    @martindanrasmussen72375 жыл бұрын

    Harsh truth: no matter how nice you aim to be to others, you are always the villain in someones story

  • @medic8377

    @medic8377

    5 жыл бұрын

    F$%^in eh, man.....

  • @Deathprf88

    @Deathprf88

    5 жыл бұрын

    Everyone thinks they're the hero in their story.

  • @wpropst8797

    @wpropst8797

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@Deathprf88 not true

  • @AdrianaAmbrosio

    @AdrianaAmbrosio

    5 жыл бұрын

    So true

  • @alphaomegawolf2433

    @alphaomegawolf2433

    5 жыл бұрын

    Well stated.. and so true 👍

  • @stinkbean1
    @stinkbean14 жыл бұрын

    My grandmother told me this: Hardest truth: some people will not like you. You didn’t say nor do anything wrong, some people just will not like you.

  • @MindfulMatters734

    @MindfulMatters734

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wasn't a bad lesson to learn no matter what age you had to realize that.

  • @redraymondreddington853

    @redraymondreddington853

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's China 101

  • @mamta6029

    @mamta6029

    3 жыл бұрын

    We don't care like or not like

  • @brandons2400

    @brandons2400

    3 жыл бұрын

    Your grandmother is right i learn that a long time ago

  • @aoifedeborha2420

    @aoifedeborha2420

    Жыл бұрын

    I know! And I find this one hard to accept, but I guess no-one can help it. The thing is, the little "why?" at the back of your head is impossible to get rid of!

  • @fellowtemplar5679
    @fellowtemplar56795 жыл бұрын

    Truth #13: You shouldn't let the KZread video decide how you should live your life.

  • @dannyharris2000

    @dannyharris2000

    5 жыл бұрын

    hahahahahah

  • @GregBrownsWorldORacing

    @GregBrownsWorldORacing

    5 жыл бұрын

    and if you live your live via youtube comments section, well...

  • @dannyharris2000

    @dannyharris2000

    5 жыл бұрын

    youtube brainwashed and also teach lol

  • @ImAlwaysHere1

    @ImAlwaysHere1

    5 жыл бұрын

    I always consult KZread and Facebook before making any important life decisions. Never has there been information more true and accurate than what you can find on these two sources.

  • @tarvoc746

    @tarvoc746

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Fellow Templar This, tbh.

  • @btntetatainment
    @btntetatainment5 жыл бұрын

    Just because they are family it doesn't mean they love you

  • @paulamugabi7320

    @paulamugabi7320

    4 жыл бұрын

    Well said

  • @nithyasree3350

    @nithyasree3350

    4 жыл бұрын

    So true because some people in our can be a danger to our life or for our goals

  • @_meechan__

    @_meechan__

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mom dad siblings .. that's it ... no uncle aunt cousins

  • @symonesotica6246

    @symonesotica6246

    3 жыл бұрын

    Or like you

  • @rollorod8914

    @rollorod8914

    3 жыл бұрын

    Very true facts

  • @Mo10tov
    @Mo10tov5 жыл бұрын

    Everyone is hurting with something, Anxiety, Depression, Family troubles, Bullying, Sickness, etc. No one is special. The most you can do is try to overcome your problems.

  • @jazzali786

    @jazzali786

    5 жыл бұрын

    Zecory 3, your very true well done

  • @Mo10tov

    @Mo10tov

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Crush your a soda, it was gonna happen one way or another ;V

  • @Mo10tov

    @Mo10tov

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Crush Oh no!

  • @scarface5487

    @scarface5487

    5 жыл бұрын

    That is true I have aids and living the American Dream

  • @CrimsonA1

    @CrimsonA1

    5 жыл бұрын

    And by doing that, it's okay to reach out for help. Therapy or even just talking to someone about your struggles can be a tremendous help in getting over negative things such as anxiety and depression. We all need each other in some way or another. We truly don't solve all our problems just by ourselves.

  • @Valentine_massacre
    @Valentine_massacre5 жыл бұрын

    Finshing College doesn't mean you've succeeded

  • @KaliKali-hv9bt

    @KaliKali-hv9bt

    5 жыл бұрын

    True. Someone tell my mom this. She believes old school formula that you will just get hired and earn a lot of money, which can happen but a lot of people with advanced degrees are out of work, therefore not much income.

  • @oskarngo9138

    @oskarngo9138

    5 жыл бұрын

    For most ( not all) undergraduate, as a student, you are a customer. As long as you don’t do some serious crime, the school will automatically graduate you. The cold real world hits you in your first career job!

  • @jean-noeljabagi3653

    @jean-noeljabagi3653

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@KaliKali-hv9bt your parents aren't always right,you know listen to your own voice,meditate and count your blessings.

  • @KaliKali-hv9bt

    @KaliKali-hv9bt

    5 жыл бұрын

    Jean-Noel Jabagi yes. Still learning how parents aren't always right, even now. Lol

  • @romeoneverdies

    @romeoneverdies

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@KaliKali-hv9bt just tell her most billionaires don't have a college degree and some not even a high-school degree.

  • @jesussotelo4775
    @jesussotelo47755 жыл бұрын

    3 rules 1.Graduate hs 2.dont have kids you cant afford 3.get a job.

  • @nightwingaven69

    @nightwingaven69

    5 жыл бұрын

    thanks ben

  • @mytruepower2

    @mytruepower2

    5 жыл бұрын

    I would add the words "full-time" to point 3, but in general, that seems right.

  • @jesussotelo4775

    @jesussotelo4775

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@mytruepower2 you are correct

  • @andresf491

    @andresf491

    5 жыл бұрын

    Don't get married and don't have kids. Go MGTOW

  • @Aloykhess

    @Aloykhess

    5 жыл бұрын

    4th: u can do ur own business also job is not the only way to earn monthly money.

  • @RobinAlbatroz
    @RobinAlbatroz5 жыл бұрын

    Worst truths I ever learned 1) Santa isn't real 2) income tax 3) you can't pick family

  • @hot00head00red

    @hot00head00red

    5 жыл бұрын

    Really Robin Santa isn’t real omg nooooooo

  • @starrrx1

    @starrrx1

    5 жыл бұрын

    That 3rd one... oooooooft!

  • @jyfoxxc5929

    @jyfoxxc5929

    5 жыл бұрын

    How does this not have more likes 😂

  • @livewireOrourke

    @livewireOrourke

    5 жыл бұрын

    Property taxes

  • @RobinAlbatroz

    @RobinAlbatroz

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@livewireOrourke oh man for real its like you really dont even own the house if you have to pay taxes on it after you bought bruh like whats the point?!??!

  • @ojaswitrivedi6810
    @ojaswitrivedi68105 жыл бұрын

    13th harsh truth: It does not matter for how long you've slept, you're still gonna be sleepless.

  • @uglyguy2519

    @uglyguy2519

    5 жыл бұрын

    I swear that was the hardest one of them all to me.

  • @Silver-gd9lg

    @Silver-gd9lg

    5 жыл бұрын

    :O

  • @trishulyumnam2452

    @trishulyumnam2452

    5 жыл бұрын

    Dang.... This is too deep

  • @tomoghnadas6354

    @tomoghnadas6354

    5 жыл бұрын

    U are a genius!!!

  • @krishorsley9574

    @krishorsley9574

    5 жыл бұрын

    So true

  • @LostChildOfTime
    @LostChildOfTime5 жыл бұрын

    The truth will set you free, but first it will make you miserable.

  • @lotusflower950

    @lotusflower950

    5 жыл бұрын

    Poison Kiss Lol yup

  • @darrenyoung7475

    @darrenyoung7475

    5 жыл бұрын

    BMTH nice...

  • @anttikettunen8601

    @anttikettunen8601

    5 жыл бұрын

    Or ... No one likes the one telling the truth.

  • @aundreawilliams2982

    @aundreawilliams2982

    5 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂I love it

  • @Wangash18

    @Wangash18

    5 жыл бұрын

    I'm going to quote Morpheus in the matrix. Blue pill:you take the blue pill the story ends you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. Red pill:you take the red pill you stay in wonderland and I'll show you how deep the rabbit hole goes.

  • @danm3813
    @danm38135 жыл бұрын

    A harsh truth that now a day many poeple need to learn: "nobody owes you anything"

  • @Mcginnmc

    @Mcginnmc

    5 жыл бұрын

    Unless you owe me money then I get like Stewie Griffin. You don't mess with the $

  • @littlehersheygirl6876

    @littlehersheygirl6876

    4 жыл бұрын

    Learned that at a pretty young age

  • @ProdigalDaughter85

    @ProdigalDaughter85

    4 жыл бұрын

    Dan M Amen!!! And to add to your comment and one my dad told me from a young age that has always stuck with me: “The world doesn’t meet anybody halfway.”

  • @brandons2400

    @brandons2400

    3 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @-mayanvsszn
    @-mayanvsszn5 жыл бұрын

    "Relationships are not the key to happiness." I'm not surprised

  • @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL
    @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL5 жыл бұрын

    TIMESTAMPS: You'll have to study your whole life 0:31 Your problems don’t mean anything to your employer 1:18 Your parents aren’t always right 2:09 Body positivity doesn't mean the absence of self-care 2:49 Appearance does matter 3:49 Friends will stop inviting you out if you keep flaking on them 4:39 No one will appreciate your sacrifices 5:23 You are defined by your own personal choices 5:56 There’s always someone better than you 6:42 You're not the center of the universe 7:19 You won't get a special prize for overtime 8:03 A relationship isn’t the key to happiness 8:52

  • @sahibheer12

    @sahibheer12

    5 жыл бұрын

    @S M 6:57

  • @monsoon_magic2874

    @monsoon_magic2874

    5 жыл бұрын

    There won't always be a guy who summarizes long videos and helps others save time.

  • @kyle4016

    @kyle4016

    5 жыл бұрын

    I am the center of my own universe 🙄

  • @metamorphosisbyaprile7167

    @metamorphosisbyaprile7167

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thanks

  • @cautarepvp2079

    @cautarepvp2079

    5 жыл бұрын

    most of these are right! Specially the one with " there is always someone better than you" and "you are defined by your own personal decisions" Now this was a really good video! Liked it.

  • @celeste8389
    @celeste83895 жыл бұрын

    My thoughts: 1. You can't please everyone! No matter how hard you try... so do you! Be considerate of others, but live your life. 2. Be kind. Not just for the next person, but for yourself too. Feeling guilty about an unkind act you did is real. 3. Do not compare yourself to anyone else. Your life journey is yours alone. You may cross paths with several people, but their journey and yours are different.

  • @CrazyMazapan

    @CrazyMazapan

    5 жыл бұрын

    Brilliant

  • @godspoopychild8287

    @godspoopychild8287

    5 жыл бұрын

    I really have a problem with the first one 😶

  • @celeste8389

    @celeste8389

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@godspoopychild8287 May I ask what your thoughts on it are?

  • @vineconnected5761

    @vineconnected5761

    5 жыл бұрын

    They should have used all of yours instead very good points. I think @ God'spoopychild meant he/she has a problem doing #1 not a problem with your #1.

  • @AlicitySherie

    @AlicitySherie

    5 жыл бұрын

    Stella Kumwenda I love what you wrote, so true!

  • @isaacdallyn
    @isaacdallyn5 жыл бұрын

    Don't take loved ones for granted, you don't know when you'll never get the chance apologise to them

  • @roserevancroix2308

    @roserevancroix2308

    5 жыл бұрын

    ...apologize for what?

  • @lafan2003

    @lafan2003

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@roserevancroix2308 For all the wrongs you have done to them.

  • @nomercy8989
    @nomercy89895 жыл бұрын

    The problem with school. 90% of the things that you get thought are 100% useless.

  • @hanihussein1264

    @hanihussein1264

    5 жыл бұрын

    Taught* Clearly school is useful

  • @coolnvigilantoutreach9418

    @coolnvigilantoutreach9418

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@hanihussein1264 Actually, it was that interaction that was useful. Human communication in real time. Not a mediocre education system that ejaculates obedient factory workers.

  • @medic8377

    @medic8377

    5 жыл бұрын

    Indeed. I work in I.T. and I can tell you that 90% of what I learned in tech school (not college) is now useless after only about 5 years. Sadly, it's the same story (if not worse) for college students going into this industry. They'll spend 4 or more years studying for a degree that's outdated, if not completely worthless, before they even graduate. I.T. moves so fast, you have to study like you're in college all the time just to stay relevant. I thought I would like the challenge (before I got into this industry I had a job that barely taxed my brain power and was therefore low paying), but it turns out it's just frustrating.

  • @jellyacc

    @jellyacc

    5 жыл бұрын

    if you attend a decent one youll at least learn the basics. and aside from that the environment is a lot like the society outside of school, so its kinda like practice before going out into the real world

  • @ofanning06

    @ofanning06

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hmm... Like spelling?

  • @MNkno
    @MNkno5 жыл бұрын

    Mom and Dad aren't always right - but they aren't always wrong, either!

  • @regmainville655

    @regmainville655

    5 жыл бұрын

    Meg Nakano depends a lot on who’s your parents and their personality to my opinion

  • @roserevancroix2308

    @roserevancroix2308

    5 жыл бұрын

    What a childish comment. I think someone needs to grow up;

  • @regmainville655

    @regmainville655

    5 жыл бұрын

    RoseRevanCroix yeah you, i precisely stated that that was MY opinion.... and happy for you if you had good parents. Can’t tell that from mine, so sorry to have hurt your feelings

  • @summerci885

    @summerci885

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@regmainville655 i don't thinks she's talking about you, that's why she said "comment" not reply.

  • @munirajc3575

    @munirajc3575

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mom and dad are the spoilers of their children . Get the bitter truth

  • @ZacharyLaid
    @ZacharyLaid5 жыл бұрын

    Treat others the way you want to be treated.

  • @annausufxaii4087

    @annausufxaii4087

    5 жыл бұрын

    Caught my words 🤗😂

  • @uttamkumarghosh5267

    @uttamkumarghosh5267

    5 жыл бұрын

    Treat others the way they want to be treated.

  • @justsomeguywithoutabeard8306

    @justsomeguywithoutabeard8306

    5 жыл бұрын

    uttam kumar ghosh Man you're a legend😂😂

  • @bluehoundlegitgaming7893

    @bluehoundlegitgaming7893

    5 жыл бұрын

    uttam kumar ghosh idgaf how you want me to treat you, now make me my kebab

  • @Number-ex6jm

    @Number-ex6jm

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sadly it doesn't work that way

  • @kekwokeson6499
    @kekwokeson64995 жыл бұрын

    Fact number 13: everything is meaningless Fact number 14: the only constant is change Fact number 15: you’re about as significant and impactful as a gnat is to a tectonic plate Fact number 16: it doesn’t matter what you do or how you live, the result is always death.

  • @RobertA-bj7ou

    @RobertA-bj7ou

    3 жыл бұрын

    Not all is true and you know it

  • @oradsincesar90

    @oradsincesar90

    2 жыл бұрын

    Tell me you are a pessimist without telling me you are a pessimist

  • @10RBREEZY

    @10RBREEZY

    2 жыл бұрын

    You're so wise. I assume you have been awakened too.

  • @10RBREEZY

    @10RBREEZY

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@RobertA-bj7ou But it is. The deeper in the rabbit hole you go the more depressing facts you'll recieve. Go in anyways to see. Take it 1 small step at a time for mental health purposes. Then be enlightened with life.

  • @anti-matter5874
    @anti-matter58745 жыл бұрын

    4: there is always someone better than.yup dam true. 4.5 there is always some worst than you. Yup that's true too.

  • @AnonymousAnonymous-mu1bo

    @AnonymousAnonymous-mu1bo

    5 жыл бұрын

    Anti- Matter no it’s actually impossible for that to be the case with everyone on earth-think about it if someone is always better for everyone on earth than someone must be at the top of that category and you may be at the top of something

  • @maeangeligenolos3326

    @maeangeligenolos3326

    4 жыл бұрын

    better think of being on top of something rather than downgrading yourself and thinking you're a hopeless potato 🙄

  • @littlehersheygirl6876

    @littlehersheygirl6876

    4 жыл бұрын

    Anti- Matter no everyone is equal in the word of God. Smh. The internet changes people’s minds around so much.

  • @jdguy23

    @jdguy23

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@littlehersheygirl6876 amen

  • @jilledmondson6894
    @jilledmondson68945 жыл бұрын

    When it comes to working at ANY profession/job EVERYONE IS REPLACEABLE.

  • @thewarlord4555

    @thewarlord4555

    5 жыл бұрын

    Except the owner.

  • @jilledmondson6894

    @jilledmondson6894

    5 жыл бұрын

    Even owners are replaceable if the business fails or is bought out.

  • @ted8232

    @ted8232

    5 жыл бұрын

    Everyone is replaceable. But some aren’t as easily replaced as others. Really good employees can be hard to come by.

  • @rebeccafrost5542

    @rebeccafrost5542

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@ted8232 no such thing as good or bad employees. All depends on type of character and place.

  • @ted8232

    @ted8232

    5 жыл бұрын

    Taylor Owure pc nonsense......

  • @jgmoney
    @jgmoney5 жыл бұрын

    Don't believe everything on the internet.

  • @justicemartinez2625

    @justicemartinez2625

    5 жыл бұрын

    So true

  • @tysonmcnab9662

    @tysonmcnab9662

    5 жыл бұрын

    The internet does not lie.

  • @thereisnosanctuary6184

    @thereisnosanctuary6184

    5 жыл бұрын

    Believe Most.

  • @roserevancroix2308

    @roserevancroix2308

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes, Jaron - but apparently you are not smart enough, or ready and mature enough, to "believe the truth. The truth is that you don't have to believe the truth - it's still true=) No-one cares if you believe it or not. The only one that end up suffering because of this is you.

  • @bdflatlander

    @bdflatlander

    5 жыл бұрын

    That’s for sure!

  • @Charvale
    @Charvale5 жыл бұрын

    Another harsh truth: "Nobody really cares about your opinion, especially if it doesn't align with their own." Humans can be fickle creatures, and many of the beliefs held by people are based on either faith (religion) or blind trust (politics) an opinion is simply a thought and doesn't really require a belief or fact to make it real in a person's mind. Your thoughts are important to you, but if someone else doesn't believe it then it's simply a difference of opinion. Many people bounce ideas off others expecting positive/constructive feedback. Unfortunately, most of the feedback given (especially with social media) is either nonconstructive or negative, but most of what they say is also a "thought" or an "opinion" so those don't matter in the long run.

  • @kadoradaniels8117

    @kadoradaniels8117

    5 жыл бұрын

    What happened to you to hurt you in your life brah

  • @Charvale

    @Charvale

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@kadoradaniels8117 Take your pick: Teasing, getting beaten up daily for 16 years (by my peers) without so much as a week off, the constant harassment, being drowned, dying, coming back after turning my back on the soft voice and white light at the end of the tunnel, PTSD from it, not being able to hold a job, having uncontrollable anger, not being able to trust easily, or just watching as society slowly eats itself. Take your pick... but don't forget the rest.

  • @kadoradaniels8117

    @kadoradaniels8117

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@Charvale brah I know it's rough, but the things we go through are to make us better versions of ourselves. With all the things I've been through and shall not name, I've decided to see the good in people and the circumstances around me. Take it easy, happiness is from within, not the society.

  • @randygrodi

    @randygrodi

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your opinion.

  • @ty3901

    @ty3901

    5 жыл бұрын

    Kadora Daniels shaatap

  • @jonathanwat8567
    @jonathanwat85675 жыл бұрын

    9 is so true, love yourself no matter how you look is right, but you still have to strive for a better self. Loving one doesn't mean thinking one's the best.

  • @billosterjr.3848
    @billosterjr.38485 жыл бұрын

    As for number 3 your boss is more likely just deciding how your good idea can be turned around to make it look like his and take the credit.

  • @permanentmakeuplosangeles

    @permanentmakeuplosangeles

    5 жыл бұрын

    that's actually a good thing let him/her take the credit because they will grow dependent on you for ideas and wont want to lose you

  • @HariSeldon913

    @HariSeldon913

    5 жыл бұрын

    One time I was doing a project for one of the VP's and was waiting to see him to get his opinion between two different drafts I had made. While I was waiting, the CEO wandered by and asked what I was up to. I showed him the drafts and made mention of making two because the VP was rather vague on his parameters. When I did see the VP I told him nothing about this so I always wondered how the meeting went when he showed the CEO what "he" had created.

  • @tarvoc746

    @tarvoc746

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@permanentmakeuplosangeles Uuuh... no. Bosses lay down people all the time after taking credit for their ideas.

  • @samuelpentowski6077

    @samuelpentowski6077

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@permanentmakeuplosangeles That goes two ways. Meaning if upper management also recognizes your talent and tries to promote you out of your bosses domain you boss could and probably will sabotage that promotion to keep you right there feeding them ideas. Don't let yourself be used that way, someone will probably be getting rich and/or promoted on your idea and you got literally nothing but pigeon-holed into a position with no additional compensation for your ideas.

  • @roserevancroix2308

    @roserevancroix2308

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes that's right=) So, keep your brilliant ideas to yourself and don't share them with others or someone else WILL take the credit for it and not only that but start making money from it as well;

  • @alliefe2439
    @alliefe24395 жыл бұрын

    No one is going to do it for you. You have to do it on your own. Very true.

  • @dolomite13

    @dolomite13

    5 жыл бұрын

    Unless you pay someone to do it for you then they will literally do it for you ;)

  • @gugulymaguli5885
    @gugulymaguli58855 жыл бұрын

    You should call this channel Dark side not bright side

  • @mayankhb

    @mayankhb

    4 жыл бұрын

    Deep 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @maeangeligenolos3326

    @maeangeligenolos3326

    4 жыл бұрын

    proably

  • @nickaiser5231

    @nickaiser5231

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @sneshhtaeshh

    @sneshhtaeshh

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol very true😂

  • @pinkicesugar

    @pinkicesugar

    3 жыл бұрын

    Right

  • @HE360
    @HE3605 жыл бұрын

    13. Harsh truth: Some thing said on this channel will not always be best for you and some things said on here should be taken with a grain of salt.

  • @callummagee1313
    @callummagee13135 жыл бұрын

    Accept that your dad is not coming back from the store.

  • @isratliza1740

    @isratliza1740

    5 жыл бұрын

    Does ur dad work in a store?

  • @erp.i.n.s4941

    @erp.i.n.s4941

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@isratliza1740 Except*

  • @Vdalem

    @Vdalem

    5 жыл бұрын

    My dad was too busy with his other kids.

  • @isratliza1740

    @isratliza1740

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@Vdalem you mean ur siblings?

  • @kurapikatard325

    @kurapikatard325

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@erp.i.n.s4941 its accept

  • @protipswithjason5939
    @protipswithjason59395 жыл бұрын

    Unpleasant truth: Not everyone can be anything they want to be. Most people have limitations.

  • @blessedevelyn339

    @blessedevelyn339

    5 жыл бұрын

    2000-2017, the age of illusion 2018- the age of cold hard truth....

  • @holyghostmanelisi9782

    @holyghostmanelisi9782

    5 жыл бұрын

    Limits are in the mind,1 is unlimited,versatile, 1 has to tune to the better version of the 1,with all, observe the thoughts, aline 1s energy, thoughts nd action. Hav a good daet, a good daet is wat 1 eat,drink, leston to,watch and think. One must b one wth nature, every1 is there 4 1 2 learn,with or without being involved..bt mostly 1 mst be able to give love nd b able 2 recieve it 2. 1 seeks everytime coz one dies,get 2 b born and grow everytime...eg 1 eats nd bcom wat 1 eat. New sells seeks new things. Thats y 1 always suprise 1's parents.

  • @protipswithjason5939

    @protipswithjason5939

    5 жыл бұрын

    False how? So everyone could be a professional basketball player? Everyone could be a nuclear physicist? I know plenty of people who would love to be either of those, but they were born with physical or mental limitations that make it impossible.

  • @freddiemercury2075

    @freddiemercury2075

    5 жыл бұрын

    unless you are Chuck Norris.

  • @VeryKinkyCurl

    @VeryKinkyCurl

    5 жыл бұрын

    Tattooed Gamer Facts

  • @jonjacoob
    @jonjacoob5 жыл бұрын

    One truth I've noticed is that you never know who's going to help you in life, majority of the time it's someone you least expect it from.

  • @loremartstyle7623
    @loremartstyle76235 жыл бұрын

    Wow. I didn’t know that as soon as you turned 30 your face would decompose. Thanks Bright Side of life.

  • @peachibread1983

    @peachibread1983

    5 жыл бұрын

    i hope you enjoyed your face while it lasted.

  • @loremartstyle7623

    @loremartstyle7623

    5 жыл бұрын

    Capin Cruncheeze I must be old coz I don’t show my face on my profile? Good try, but not really. I will keep you posted so you know when my face decomposes.

  • @kinkineki

    @kinkineki

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yeah just for women too. Apparently men all ages will only look at 20 Yr women

  • @bhabadipTWO-ONE

    @bhabadipTWO-ONE

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Dawn Isola men in their 20 are dumber than older guys. Older guys are more masculine.

  • @bhabadipTWO-ONE

    @bhabadipTWO-ONE

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Dawn Isola I am not talking about older man like 70+. I am talking men like 30-50 they are definitely musculine, knows more and more mature than a 20 year old.

  • @utkarshpathak8268
    @utkarshpathak82685 жыл бұрын

    HARSH TRUTH : Bright side isn't always true😉

  • @AngelaGrant2015

    @AngelaGrant2015

    5 жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @wesleytillman9774

    @wesleytillman9774

    5 жыл бұрын

    Their goal is one thing; clickbait.

  • @andre9897

    @andre9897

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@AngelaGrant2015 harsh truth: sometimes you have accept the harsh truth

  • @NighthawkX02

    @NighthawkX02

    5 жыл бұрын

    Utkarsh Pathak Lol how old are you?

  • @JohnMiller-iu2sx

    @JohnMiller-iu2sx

    5 жыл бұрын

    I'm 38 these are some pretty true harsh truths.

  • @Peacepeacelovelove
    @Peacepeacelovelove5 жыл бұрын

    #11 is untrue, I know several people who are treated differently at work. Its call favoritism & nepotism, lets get real people🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @tarvoc746

    @tarvoc746

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yup.

  • @venture1174

    @venture1174

    5 жыл бұрын

    So true

  • @AprilHarmony9

    @AprilHarmony9

    5 жыл бұрын

    NO! It depends on management darling. Whomever is part of management is usually going to dictate the culture at your job, for better or for worst.

  • @missshiningbind

    @missshiningbind

    5 жыл бұрын

    Very true, my sister works at a place where she gets a lot of judgment not just from her bosses, but from her co workers all because she has tattoos even though she keeps them hidden which says a lot right there about appearance, and she's a hard worker. Pretty much, unless you're working at Hot Topic, Guitar Center, or any place like that, no one would want to hire someone with tattoos unless they are very well hidden..

  • @angorachic

    @angorachic

    5 жыл бұрын

    They are not talking about people being treated better due to favoritism, they are talking about holding someone to a different standard because he/she have issues in his/her life...Your boss doesn't care what happens outside of work...He/she expects you to be on time and able to do what is required of you while you are at work...It doesn't mean some people are not liked more, treated better, etc...

  • @ms.miwitdatbul520
    @ms.miwitdatbul5205 жыл бұрын

    This stage in my life I now realize my parents were right about a lot of things

  • @roserevancroix2308

    @roserevancroix2308

    5 жыл бұрын

    That's an exception and not the rule. This video is not just about you and your parents.

  • @bdflatlander

    @bdflatlander

    5 жыл бұрын

    Mark Twain said it best: “When I was 17 I thought my dad was the dumbest person in the world. Then, when I turned 21, I was amazed how smart he became in just 4 years.”

  • @SRBOMBONICA86

    @SRBOMBONICA86

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@roserevancroix2308 parents are always more right ,no matter how too proud you are to admit it

  • @michaeldavidnvitales
    @michaeldavidnvitales5 жыл бұрын

    This is golden advice. Awesome video. I would add: “Be friendly to everyone, but know that not everyone is your friend.” Honoring boundaries helps a lot.

  • @ulthuncho7123
    @ulthuncho71235 жыл бұрын

    13 harsh reality The thumbnail was definitely click bait in some way

  • @kingdavig

    @kingdavig

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes it was but it was also true lol

  • @spiritualmeli5014

    @spiritualmeli5014

    5 жыл бұрын

    foreal

  • @SouthCalifas619

    @SouthCalifas619

    5 жыл бұрын

    As a high school boy i can verify this

  • @ulthuncho7123

    @ulthuncho7123

    5 жыл бұрын

    Snowy23 sound like someone been on the red pill my man 👍

  • @user-bd1yv8gd5x

    @user-bd1yv8gd5x

    5 жыл бұрын

    David I That depends on how hot they are.

  • @bringdawn
    @bringdawn5 жыл бұрын

    Simple, never expect or desire from others. Be happy

  • @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL

    @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL

    5 жыл бұрын

    DAWN®✓ do you follow this rule?

  • @omglom2519

    @omglom2519

    5 жыл бұрын

    DUDE THATS UNREAL

  • @bringdawn

    @bringdawn

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL yes, i follow to maximum extent

  • @bringdawn

    @bringdawn

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thanks to Bright side..

  • @Blaqjaqshellaq

    @Blaqjaqshellaq

    5 жыл бұрын

    Relationships may not be the key to happiness, but happiness is the key to relationships!

  • @isaacbakan1295
    @isaacbakan12955 жыл бұрын

    In this video the 30 year old looks a lot hotter than the 20 year old. And i say that as a 19 year old guy

  • @astgoddess

    @astgoddess

    5 жыл бұрын

    Isaac Bakan Well A, it's a cartoon. And B. Obviously what someone finds attractive will vary by individual. Of course 30 year olds look great! That's still young. But some don't, just as some 20 year olds don't. Take care of yourself at any age and you'll be alright.

  • @Cynder23mg

    @Cynder23mg

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sameee ✨✨✨

  • @2beesfarmstead819

    @2beesfarmstead819

    5 жыл бұрын

    I love a hot sexy 45 year old. Oh yes

  • @roserevancroix2308

    @roserevancroix2308

    5 жыл бұрын

    As a healthy normal man we men will always choose younger women because of their fertility. They have less baggage and hopefully no kids. That's a fact. If you like older women more, Isaac - you may have unresolved mommy-issues that you need to work at with the help of a therapist. Good luck;

  • @shintiariva6012

    @shintiariva6012

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@roserevancroix2308 lol, well then bad news for older men cause as young fertile normal women we women always choose young fertile healthy men over an older man out of his physical and reproductive prime unless the women have daddy issues. BTW speaking of mommy issues, men like Chris Hemsworth, Nick Jones, Jason Maoma, Hug Jackman seems to be doing great in their both personal and professional life with their much older wife.

  • @pusheenbuttercup8319
    @pusheenbuttercup83195 жыл бұрын

    Harsh truth: Being a manager is not "always fun." You're the person they send all the angry people to. XD

  • @roserevancroix2308

    @roserevancroix2308

    5 жыл бұрын

    No-one said it was. In fact it's a LOT of work, stress and responsibility. It is not for everyone.

  • @pusheenbuttercup8319

    @pusheenbuttercup8319

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@roserevancroix2308 some people believe it is a fun and easy job, especially when they're young :) I had my "harsh truth" about that learned the hard way xD it's always easy to idealize people in positions above you... until you get there

  • @bdflatlander

    @bdflatlander

    5 жыл бұрын

    I was a manager for 22 years. At times it was like trying to herd cats.

  • @lafan2003

    @lafan2003

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@roserevancroix2308 People at my work ask me when i will become manager. I tell them never because i never will have the personality for it.

  • @hardeep1806

    @hardeep1806

    3 жыл бұрын

    All Karen’s love managers 🤣

  • @corrijackson
    @corrijackson5 жыл бұрын

    #6 NO 1 will appreciate your sacrifices! 🙋🏾‍♀️learned the hard way .. even family.

  • @tanyatressler3132
    @tanyatressler31325 жыл бұрын

    I would add one more: If you work in fast food, expect to be treated like garbage...from managers especially..it's just how it is. I quit after 7 months of the hardest work I have EVER done in my 68 years on this Earth...do ANY other job but that!

  • @jamie49868

    @jamie49868

    5 жыл бұрын

    So the question is "why are you working fast food at 68?" There are tons of job for older people that need/want to work in retirement. But I suggest you try roofing if you think fast food is hard.

  • @tanyatressler3132

    @tanyatressler3132

    5 жыл бұрын

    jamie t I said that I quit after 7 months...sure, I will try roofing...why not?

  • @ssunfish

    @ssunfish

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@jamie49868 try concrete if you think roofing is hard braggart!

  • @renaword5633
    @renaword56335 жыл бұрын

    This video amplified my depression

  • @pinkicesugar

    @pinkicesugar

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here.

  • @samanthapeters8314
    @samanthapeters83145 жыл бұрын

    There will always be a jealous person that will try to sabotage you.

  • @zombierage8130
    @zombierage81305 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes hard work doesn't pay off

  • @tardeify

    @tardeify

    5 жыл бұрын

    If it didn't pay off, it means your hard work wasn't hard enough!!

  • @bdflatlander

    @bdflatlander

    5 жыл бұрын

    The reward for hard work is more hard work

  • @thor2070

    @thor2070

    5 жыл бұрын

    Join the club.

  • @susanmancha286

    @susanmancha286

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah sometimes it’s just work. Every once in a while it pays off

  • @jab7168

    @jab7168

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Teddy Li really? How so?

  • @VaidasMaldzius
    @VaidasMaldzius5 жыл бұрын

    1. Its better to have one good friend then a ten of average ones. 2. Choose friends very wise, because they build influence on you and change you in a way you don't realize. 3. If you want success but don't know how to get there. Find person who done this and follow his footsteps, and don't be afraid to ask for help and guidance, they once were just like you. 4. You do not fail if you messed up, you fail when you stop trying. 5. Failure is a stepping stone for success. 6. If you get a no, that's fine. Shake it off and move one because that no made you one step closed to the yes that you seek. 7. Read self help books, they will enrich you in a ways you never thought possible. 8. Surround your self with people you want to be like in next 5-10 years. 9. If you change your mind the way you think, you will change the course of your life. It's imminent. 10. If you are not going to plan your life, someone is gonna plan it for you.

  • @lockedoutofaccount371

    @lockedoutofaccount371

    5 жыл бұрын

    This is why Im leaving my job and going for a new one

  • @rockinrver7414

    @rockinrver7414

    5 жыл бұрын

    Great advice, Mr. Brain. Way better than this Bright side BS I will never watch again. Lol

  • @VaidasMaldzius

    @VaidasMaldzius

    5 жыл бұрын

    @keithyoutube Not having time is the worst kind of complain ever. How does one have so much wealth and the other does not. Everyone have 24 hours in a day its what you do with these hours that count. For sure you can't just work 24/7 you're human, you need sleep you need eat you need to be entertained otherwise you loose your mind. If you have time to watch KZread, you have time. It's the priorities my friend. If I don't have time but want to accomplish anything you set it up for priority right? Because you care about it and you need it, its important. You look at your day and see where you waist time so you find time, and find money and find people to make it happen. Its a choice, do you gonna watch sport this evening or you're going to do something. So many people try to escape hard reality by drinking, drugs or making them self uselessly busy like watching tv because they for one, don't believe in them self that they can do it in a first place or they just make them self occupied to make up some complain to don't do it. Mostly fear of failure plays part in this. In this case you need to work on yourself, read self help books. Read books recommended by entrepreneurs, hopefully you'll have enough brain to do it and if you wont find time for that you done for it. You are prisoner of your own mind, no one can help if you don't want it. Anyway i could go on and on, I shaped my mind like a this and its gradually changed my life so i know this. Sorry for a long text lol

  • @VaidasMaldzius

    @VaidasMaldzius

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@lockedoutofaccount371 Do what you love man.

  • @VaidasMaldzius

    @VaidasMaldzius

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@rockinrver7414 yeah its garbage honestly.

  • @AmandaIsAwesome
    @AmandaIsAwesome5 жыл бұрын

    That pretty girl in her 30’s should look for a younger guy who’ll appreciate her skills 😏

  • @underdogtv2855

    @underdogtv2855

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thats a good idea! oh wait... but when the 30 year old hits 40 the younger guy will ditch her for a younger girl 😮😮😮😏

  • @jdguy23

    @jdguy23

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@underdogtv2855 lol trust me there's always someone who's into something odd like that

  • @MultiDracco

    @MultiDracco

    3 жыл бұрын

    if you have money you have plenty of chances to get who you want for as long as you want. Money and power make you perfect partner, perfect lover.... never forget this hard truth, money make miracles!!.

  • @Largo1845

    @Largo1845

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@underdogtv2855 I don't think they will be in a 10 year long relationship. One night stands or friends with benefits don't work like that.

  • @samyurovski1428

    @samyurovski1428

    3 жыл бұрын

    I hope that u can have a healthy relationship with that attitude...p.s. be a better version of yourself and don't run away from people like a chicken ...u young though...I understand why u feel like that

  • @salymnayeli5206
    @salymnayeli52064 жыл бұрын

    One of the harshest truths that I think most people don't think about is that no matter what you do - diet, exercise, etc... - we are all going to die at some point in our lives. None of us get out of here alive.

  • @kilakila5431
    @kilakila54315 жыл бұрын

    I just watched because of the Thumbnail 😅

  • @gracecat2759

    @gracecat2759

    5 жыл бұрын

    me to

  • @celeste8389

    @celeste8389

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sadly, me too. I turn 30 this month 😂

  • @Josco31

    @Josco31

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same!

  • @JMysticStar7

    @JMysticStar7

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@celeste8389 I turn 30 next month.

  • @a_tease

    @a_tease

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thumbnail is the self explanatory harsh truth itself

  • @martytaylor1478
    @martytaylor14785 жыл бұрын

    I saw the thumbnail and was like nooooo I’m 30 this year! Love to all the 89ers out there!

  • @user-jc3lj6eu5q

    @user-jc3lj6eu5q

    5 жыл бұрын

    Im also 89

  • @ayallamas5997

    @ayallamas5997

    5 жыл бұрын

    Im also born in 89...

  • @YouYou-sm8tf

    @YouYou-sm8tf

    5 жыл бұрын

    I'm also 89.......Let's make this year special........I'm going to make it something I've never tried before. Thanks GOD I'm not married and don't have kids so I can enjoy my peaceful and simple life

  • @jimmythornseed8605

    @jimmythornseed8605

    5 жыл бұрын

    I'm also born in 89. This year though I'm going to get fit and finally feel good about myself for once in my 20's.

  • @scarlettg.5772

    @scarlettg.5772

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@jimmythornseed8605 good luck. You just need to stay with it. You can do it.

  • @donnajoseph-barford1076
    @donnajoseph-barford10764 жыл бұрын

    Nice to be hit on in your teens, 20's, 30's, and 40's but now I'm 50 I'm over it.

  • @va4488
    @va44885 жыл бұрын

    #13: No one is loyal to you except for your PARENTS

  • @sreeramkumar7693
    @sreeramkumar76935 жыл бұрын

    And we're off to the comments section... Lets see what the experts think..

  • @RiqochetRoseTarot

    @RiqochetRoseTarot

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lol!

  • @rileylove37

    @rileylove37

    5 жыл бұрын

    Haha

  • @outlawsaint3012

    @outlawsaint3012

    5 жыл бұрын

    The comment section in a nutshell

  • @blessedandbeautiful8365

    @blessedandbeautiful8365

    5 жыл бұрын

    😂😅 facts I was here in the comments at 0:01

  • @lavanyakarthikeyan1616

    @lavanyakarthikeyan1616

    5 жыл бұрын

    I am your 100th like

  • @aaaaann9600
    @aaaaann96005 жыл бұрын

    People ALWAYS remember the Bad thing you do instead of the Good thing.

  • @JuanTomlinson472

    @JuanTomlinson472

    5 жыл бұрын

    Fina Eka 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @pepehimovic3135

    @pepehimovic3135

    5 жыл бұрын

    Meh, more like 80~90% of the time

  • @fauberkaupfmann982

    @fauberkaupfmann982

    5 жыл бұрын

    Because they think "doing the right thing" is an obligation/moral duty (meaning you were cohered into doing it, even if you didn't realized it ) while "doing the wrong thing" was an egotistical choice you chose to do because you're going to get some form of pleasure by doing it, and the only reason those types of people remember that is either because it hurted them in some way, or they're envious that you had the "courage " to do that in that situation while they wouldn't do it if they were in that situation simply because of some moral obligation that they would have that would impede them from doing it, basically those people have "guilty problems", and think the only profit they would gain from not doing something is being able to judge people who do those things, so basically avoid those types of people.

  • @roserevancroix2308

    @roserevancroix2308

    5 жыл бұрын

    So stop making bad things then! Hope that was helpful. Cheers;

  • @steelhere5519

    @steelhere5519

    5 жыл бұрын

    Like that time you went to Starbucks.

  • @lisaswineheart6537
    @lisaswineheart65373 жыл бұрын

    I'm a grand 64 and loving this channel! Another hard truth is that you can't get time back. So if your manager calls you on your day off from work and it's not mandatory to come in and you could spend time with your kiddos say no to that boss! Children grow up so fast and that little extra bit of money won't mean that much later on. Really it won't-but the memories of your kids will. A hard lesson I've learned.

  • @maureenpaulina
    @maureenpaulina5 жыл бұрын

    i look much better now than in my twenties XD

  • @RicoLen1

    @RicoLen1

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wow, that's harsh???

  • @osirisofthesouth2853

    @osirisofthesouth2853

    4 жыл бұрын

    No you fkn don’t 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @osirisofthesouth2853

    @osirisofthesouth2853

    4 жыл бұрын

    mmaposer loool she is finished, fam

  • @roshawngreene7069

    @roshawngreene7069

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same here 😁😁😁

  • @sabribri1466

    @sabribri1466

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yup

  • @duftstabkerze4236
    @duftstabkerze42365 жыл бұрын

    13. Accept and respect yourself. You are ok the way you are! If you do not think so, then change yourself. But never make yourself depending on other's opinions.

  • @medic8377

    @medic8377

    5 жыл бұрын

    Earn and keep your own self-respect. You know yourself better than anyone, so you know darn good and well if you have reason to respect yourself. Then keep on earning, keeping and deserving your self-respect.

  • @roserevancroix2308

    @roserevancroix2308

    5 жыл бұрын

    The first part of your sentence sounds nice,, just what everyone like to hear, especially insecure people with lots of flaws. The truth is that everyone is NOT okay the way they are and they need to change or improve themselves. To tell idiots that they are okay the way they are will not make them or anyone else any favors. So stop writing meaningless nonsense to feed people's egos to make yourself popular.

  • @lafan2003

    @lafan2003

    5 жыл бұрын

    I never make myself depend on other peoples opinions either. It feals so great :)

  • @neonmajora8454

    @neonmajora8454

    4 жыл бұрын

    Eh it's not always bad to take advice from people.

  • @maeangeligenolos3326

    @maeangeligenolos3326

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@roserevancroix2308 :v em a hopeless potato

  • @artik3085
    @artik30855 жыл бұрын

    #13: Even BRIGHT SIDE can be wrong.

  • @tash7212

    @tash7212

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hahahaha,

  • @AprilHarmony9

    @AprilHarmony9

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hater lol

  • @jasperjosephleido4233

    @jasperjosephleido4233

    3 жыл бұрын

    #14 you're just offended

  • @91364Steve
    @91364Steve5 жыл бұрын

    Age 51 here. From my own experience, I agree with most of this. I disagree about sacrifices being unappreciated, at least universally. While volunteering to make a sacrifice for someone you're not close with may go unappreciated, the rule changes with close friends. Part of how I define a friend is when someone is willing to either take a risk for you or make a sacrifice for you. In my own experience, my sacrifices, when carefully chosen, are greatly appreciated, and I greatly appreciate sacrifices made for me. As for the truths about employment, you're spot on. I got reminded of this when, for three years, I opted out of entrepreneurship in favor of the safety of a regular job.

  • @freedomring3022
    @freedomring30224 жыл бұрын

    1: Always be the hardest working person in the room 2: Never skip leg day

  • @Gamer88334

    @Gamer88334

    3 жыл бұрын

    Just because you’re the hardest working person in the room doesn’t mean you’re going to get a promotion.

  • @freedomring3022

    @freedomring3022

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Gamer88334 that’s what lazy people tell themselves

  • @TradeWithPK67
    @TradeWithPK675 жыл бұрын

    *Who else is scrolling through the comment while watching the video?* 😂 One day my channel will be just as good as yours ❤️

  • @divyapradhan7076

    @divyapradhan7076

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me😀

  • @eshelarnold5835

    @eshelarnold5835

    5 жыл бұрын

    me

  • @UltraEnderBlaze

    @UltraEnderBlaze

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me

  • @bluboi2424

    @bluboi2424

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me lol

  • @Njt393

    @Njt393

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me

  • @juliethompson3706
    @juliethompson37065 жыл бұрын

    As a long time workhorse of anywhere I've ever worked, I've learned a couple things. 1) If it'll take less than 5 min extra of your time, just do it and don't really ask for anything. It'll help your boss think favorably of you if you want to climb the ladder. 2) Say no sometimes - even if you don't mind too much. This way they bargain a bit with you. When they know that your time outside of work is important to you, they will make working extra worthwhile. 3) See what perks you can get instead for extra work - THIS IS IMPORTANT. When I was in high school/college I worked Fast Food (I was full time for most of the job). I would work an extra hour or two (paid of course) to help them finish a To-Do list. I would cover shifts for my coworkers - even the 4am shifts. In exchange, I could wear headphones when I was staying late (or very early) to do something, they would frequently buy my lunch, I also got priority for time-off requests. 4) If you are trying to climb the ladder, and your boss knows you are a workhorse, TELL them that you want to move up in the company. As a workhorse, they might not want to promote you. If you are the best at your job and you work extra - why should they? To them, you fit that spot perfectly. TELL them you want a promotion - that you are doing these extra tasks so that you understand the job - and give them a time frame. If they can't at least put you in a training program for a promotion within your time frame - or within reason - find a new job. Apply for a new job and use those experiences to beef up that resume.

  • @jakelowang4132

    @jakelowang4132

    5 жыл бұрын

    True but my boss don't want to pay overtime so i do 5-10 hour max in case i miss a days, i hate when people owe me money so a do little as needed.

  • @engwiki
    @engwiki5 жыл бұрын

    Life has no inherent, divinely assigned purpose or destiny. You define your purpose and existence. You make your own choices. Outcomes are a complex dynamic of your own choice and factors beyond your control.

  • @thewolfateandthegoatremain2454

    @thewolfateandthegoatremain2454

    4 жыл бұрын

    I like this! This very much explains my view of fate/chaos dilemma.

  • @noorazmi2329
    @noorazmi23294 жыл бұрын

    I thought the coffee segment at the beginning was an ad.

  • @ProfVRandall
    @ProfVRandall5 жыл бұрын

    The other truth is parents aren't always wrong.

  • @queendyna2543

    @queendyna2543

    5 жыл бұрын

    Not always infact parents can derail your progress with their protective nature

  • @zyckzyck6822

    @zyckzyck6822

    5 жыл бұрын

    👍👍👍

  • @darrellcole6311
    @darrellcole63115 жыл бұрын

    Dear Abby had it right when she said "that others can't take advantage of you UNLESS you give them permission."

  • @rkomada88

    @rkomada88

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ok then yes it's always your fault...... geez great advice.

  • @rayblack9661

    @rayblack9661

    5 жыл бұрын

    And she was absolutely right. It's all about establishing boundaries. For without them people will always they have the right to use/take from you.

  • @Mcginnmc
    @Mcginnmc5 жыл бұрын

    27 but I look like I am 16 or younger it is so annoying to get dates my age!! An the overtime is right on point. I came into work 2 hours early if my boss needed help. Well I didn't get paid for it.. I can tell you that. It actually started turning me into a workaholic. So I decided " Hey I take a 3 hour bus trip to my job, come in 2 hours earlier than need, I am going to relax till my shift starts" When your the overachiever at work, people will walk all over you. I can't tell you how many times I had to come in at 7 am and stay till 6 pm miss my bus and wait to get home at 8:20 pm. So overachievers DO NOT BE SHY TO PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN with people you think are taking advantage of you. I learned that the hard way this effected my mental and physical health paid terribly for it. There was once one day my health got so bad I felt dizzy and I couldn't hold myself up no matter how much water I drank or food I ate. This was really bad cause I was a preschool teacher and needed to be alert at all time, so I had to get someone to cover me. Not a fun experience!

  • @LadyAbstract
    @LadyAbstract5 жыл бұрын

    She's 30 but looks 20. Haaaa! Got eeem!

  • @reimourrpower9357

    @reimourrpower9357

    5 жыл бұрын

    The 30's chick is hot (as drawings go ha). In the words of KRS-1: "girls look soooo good, but their brains are ready, I don't knooooow? / I'd rather talk to a wooooman 'cause her mind is so steady, so here we gooooo..." --- 'Criminal-Minded' BDP 1986

  • @vperez6086

    @vperez6086

    5 жыл бұрын

    ReiMourr Power 💯

  • @SollomonTheWise

    @SollomonTheWise

    4 жыл бұрын

    til its heard she's 30, than her reproductive value publicly drops like a stone XD

  • @ARedMagicMarker

    @ARedMagicMarker

    4 жыл бұрын

    When I was in my early 20's I used to lie and say I was 30 to get the horndogs off my back. It didn't work. >____________> So much for 30 being the old-granny age, though I still do tell women to lie about their age and say they're older to get some peace.

  • @underdogtv2855

    @underdogtv2855

    4 жыл бұрын

    you get an L

  • @sino6418
    @sino64185 жыл бұрын

    The hard truth is to think your crush picks his or her nose

  • @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL

    @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL

    5 жыл бұрын

    Nolwazi Masuku does your crush do it?

  • @uglyguy2519

    @uglyguy2519

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thought about it because you said it. Honestly, it didn't affect the way I think of her at all.

  • @kittiescorner222
    @kittiescorner2225 жыл бұрын

    Excuse me. I'm in my 30's and I'm way sexier then I was in my 20's. I also have more self confidence, so don't be acting like 20's are better.

  • @eiffelviolet

    @eiffelviolet

    5 жыл бұрын

    F*** yeah! Preach!

  • @ranvijayrao4209

    @ranvijayrao4209

    5 жыл бұрын

    Nah 20's are always better, but there are always few exceptions

  • @theshield1613

    @theshield1613

    5 жыл бұрын

    after 30 the wall comes in

  • @janestaton5626

    @janestaton5626

    5 жыл бұрын

    👏👏👏👏👏 So far I feel like I look just as good in my 30's as I do 20's.

  • @eviegonz4055

    @eviegonz4055

    5 жыл бұрын

    I feel the same way!!

  • @Bani_Maini
    @Bani_Maini5 жыл бұрын

    Such an amazing video. Things we all know but forget to apply! Thank you for reminding us.

  • @MikinessAnalog
    @MikinessAnalog5 жыл бұрын

    "Logic can get you from A to B Imagination can take you everywhere" -Albert Einstein

  • @ZubbykingMusic
    @ZubbykingMusic5 жыл бұрын

    you're the only person responsible for your actions👍

  • @cookiedough3028

    @cookiedough3028

    5 жыл бұрын

    Um I think everyone needs like so Like that comments know?

  • @nsiandekweka8373

    @nsiandekweka8373

    5 жыл бұрын

    ZUBtv and your happiness!

  • @thehuman2861

    @thehuman2861

    5 жыл бұрын

    But only when you understand this

  • @gingerplz1

    @gingerplz1

    5 жыл бұрын

    Unless you’re found guilty of a crime you didn’t commit. But don’t take my word for it! A quick google search will prove you wrong in no time at all!

  • @guyoflife

    @guyoflife

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Antun Šturlić I'm pretty sure you're trolling but they said YOUR OWN actions.

  • @MsEternalpeace
    @MsEternalpeace5 жыл бұрын

    11 is not always true. If you are sincere and good at your work, there are bosses who do care about your problems and support you

  • @quackaddict9810

    @quackaddict9810

    5 жыл бұрын

    MsEternalpeace agree completely

  • @julieerin115

    @julieerin115

    5 жыл бұрын

    But in general, don't expect your boss to make you casserole dishes when you're going through something.

  • @ianmackenzie686

    @ianmackenzie686

    5 жыл бұрын

    Very true. All depends on that individual boss.

  • @ssunfish

    @ssunfish

    5 жыл бұрын

    This is only because there is always an exception to the heuristic

  • @addybaig9003
    @addybaig90035 жыл бұрын

    most wonderful video i saw on KZread.. #1 deserves the top list as most of the people thinks that whatever you are doing to make yourself better is actually trying to make your partner jealous or something negative.. making friends, socializing or any other thing doesnt mean that one has lost interest in other.. be positive and stay optimistic.. peace

  • @kamyalk2073
    @kamyalk20735 жыл бұрын

    If you are nice to someone then that must mean that you did something wrong and you are trying to make up for it, right? What if I just want to be nice? If you feel like being nice to someone then they just get suspicious...it’s hard to even be nice to people now. An even more depressing harsh truth is that it seems like it only our favorite foods that aren’t as good warmed up...☹️

  • @darkorion69
    @darkorion695 жыл бұрын

    Sounds more like-harsh truths for the middle class to accept to appease their corporate owners lol

  • @ssunfish

    @ssunfish

    5 жыл бұрын

    It DOES! The rich can't get enough money, praise, positive attention, special treatment etc. Bec they lick up all they can get without losing appetite for more

  • @ssunfish

    @ssunfish

    5 жыл бұрын

    Like let's all be mindless, brainwashed lackeys

  • @THEdowntowndoll

    @THEdowntowndoll

    5 жыл бұрын

    EXACTLY!!

  • @KatieCatWalker

    @KatieCatWalker

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sadly this video is also true. If you can't do the job you are fired. A business no matter how big or small has to run in order to be successful. If you owned a business and you had a employee who is always down, drama filled and hardly there, you would fire them. 2. Appearance does matter. You take pride in yourself, sometimes it is OK to be a slob at times but in the end you will just turn off people who will see that this is your life style, slob, attitude problems and a loser. And finally everything in this video is true. It isn't for corperates trying to mind control you. It's life.

  • @bakpfeife2224

    @bakpfeife2224

    4 жыл бұрын

    Those things are true even if you are a corporate owner so...

  • @MeNooNie1806
    @MeNooNie18065 жыл бұрын

    Baileywick from Sofia the First once said: “A job well done is celebration enough” I know not many people like that show, but I agree with that quote. The best feeling is finally finishing something you really wanted to get done. You don’t need any award. The feeling of a project being over is rewarding. Until the next project lol🤣

  • @beans9019
    @beans90194 жыл бұрын

    This is why you gotta work on yourself and be financially stable with or without a man. Facts. If they feel threatened then the trash took itself out.

  • @RaylenePrice
    @RaylenePrice5 жыл бұрын

    Guys want woman who are to good for them and to young for them

  • @davidbolha

    @davidbolha

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yep. I mean who would want an old resentful hag, c'mon !? 😅

  • @paranormalsoulcircle3176

    @paranormalsoulcircle3176

    5 жыл бұрын

    Tristy Price true

  • @RaylenePrice

    @RaylenePrice

    5 жыл бұрын

    Raylene is waiting for her Handsome Husband (Bridegroom) 🦁👰🏻

  • @roserevancroix2308

    @roserevancroix2308

    5 жыл бұрын

    Actually, healthy men prefer younger women and women prefer older guys. And woman are usually not good for them but instead make their life more difficult.

  • @evenstar4076

    @evenstar4076

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@davidbolha This is why so many men are single. They think photoshop and makeup is reality. Delusional men! Stay single!

  • @J_Bravo
    @J_Bravo5 жыл бұрын

    *Maybe I'm too old but I knew all of this 🤷*

  • @uglyguy2519

    @uglyguy2519

    5 жыл бұрын

    I'm 22 and I knew it too. I was surprised.

  • @ADDIE.

    @ADDIE.

    5 жыл бұрын

    Love how u watch this too haha am subscribed to ur channel, big fan

  • @J_Bravo

    @J_Bravo

    5 жыл бұрын

    yes I love brite side I'm actually changing up my thumbnail for tomorrow's video because of him :D thanks for your fanship :D

  • @monicagaglione1939

    @monicagaglione1939

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @whateversinmymind5644

    @whateversinmymind5644

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me too, I'm 13

  • @theonlyladylabyrinth
    @theonlyladylabyrinth5 жыл бұрын

    Just because no one will appreciate your sacrifice, don't mean you shouldn't sacrifice for something you think its worth sacrifice for.

  • @civicaerodeck14

    @civicaerodeck14

    5 жыл бұрын

    yes. I help since years a family with a boy in a wheelchair. It costs me often money but I dont care. I help. Sorry for my bad english...

  • @roserevancroix2308

    @roserevancroix2308

    5 жыл бұрын

    Okay, so go and sacrifice for someone that doesn't appreciate it then=) Let us know how it went;

  • @lafan2003

    @lafan2003

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@roserevancroix2308 It goes very well actually. It feels good to help people out :)

  • @Dante440x
    @Dante440x5 жыл бұрын

    no. 1A - stop taking life advises from youtube. you may watch for fun

  • @tvpcoder6967

    @tvpcoder6967

    5 жыл бұрын

    This.

  • @neilhardie6312

    @neilhardie6312

    5 жыл бұрын

    Actually this video was pretty true.

  • @Dante440x

    @Dante440x

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@neilhardie6312 sure

  • @neilhardie6312

    @neilhardie6312

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@Dante440x Well what exactly in the video did you disagree with?

  • @neilhardie6312

    @neilhardie6312

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@Dante440x ???

  • @stefan1669
    @stefan16694 жыл бұрын

    the thing that makes or breaks you is the fact that "Size matters!"

  • @flyhigh9944
    @flyhigh99445 жыл бұрын

    Women who are 30 or are much older than 30 also look amazing.

  • @flyhigh9944

    @flyhigh9944

    5 жыл бұрын

    Noctor Anjith lol nooo. 😂😅 I’m saying this from experience I know many beautiful women over 30.

  • @robicelus

    @robicelus

    5 жыл бұрын

    flyhigh dear, after 30 only makeup can save a woman's face. after 1 ton of makeup is gone, that's when men will run for the hills.

  • @flyhigh9944

    @flyhigh9944

    5 жыл бұрын

    robicelus ah so harsh 😯😅 I don’t maybe it varies from place to place or culture etc but I’m not saying this to be nice but many older women look stunning too.

  • @syamin72

    @syamin72

    5 жыл бұрын

    Woman 30 & above look so hot, it's unreal ❤ They also tend to understand better generally

  • @ritabhatta8330

    @ritabhatta8330

    5 жыл бұрын

    Women after 30 are wise and hot

  • @Whoeverwhateverwhenever
    @Whoeverwhateverwhenever5 жыл бұрын

    20 vs 30? Are you kidding me? Some 45-50 women look much better and get more attention than some 20 y.o. Look at J.Lo!

  • @lauragonzales355

    @lauragonzales355

    5 жыл бұрын

    True, Im 50 and wear size 3 junior's

  • @amymusa2

    @amymusa2

    5 жыл бұрын

    Haha, not for my 59-year-old husband, im 19!

  • @julieerin115

    @julieerin115

    5 жыл бұрын

    It doesn't help that the 30-year-old in that picture looks desperate.

  • @amymusa2

    @amymusa2

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@julieerin115 yeah

  • @amymusa2

    @amymusa2

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Dawn Isola??? What about him?

  • @TheMetalSandman
    @TheMetalSandman3 жыл бұрын

    Totally agreed with Truth#1: Relationships isn't the key to happiness! Learn to be happy on your own first!

  • @pokemonsound4947
    @pokemonsound49475 жыл бұрын

    The most important truth is NR 1. Relationships arent the key to happiness. I see this so many times, people who just broke up go into relationships between 1-6 months, they feel unhappy with themselves unless they have social proof of a ''significant other'', first find out how to have fun on your own, then youl find your partner. 99% of people wont get this (or think they know themselves), but the ones that really do are so much further in life and will get a lot more out of it. Divorces rises in popularity as it is more social accapteble and people realize they actually dont fit with the other after many years, 50 years a go people married in their small social circle and only divorced when something should have gone horribly wrong to do so. My parents are happy and married for 40+ years, but both say: They didnt marry the love of their life... Interesting huh? They went into a relationship when mom 20 dad 26! and both have different dreams they did not meet, however they can live with eachother enough to have 4 happy healthy kids who have famillys of their own - I dont think they took the same path a second try.

  • @DavidMosesakasha
    @DavidMosesakasha5 жыл бұрын

    There is no intrinsic meaning to the universe. You are the one that creates meaning for your life.

  • @johnscallan5648

    @johnscallan5648

    5 жыл бұрын

    Does this mean you are a cliche?

  • @DavidMosesakasha

    @DavidMosesakasha

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@johnscallan5648 yeah I guess it does.

  • @AprilSixsmith
    @AprilSixsmith5 жыл бұрын

    “Or their favorite house plant died or something.” I died laughing. So random.

  • @PortugueseGirl27

    @PortugueseGirl27

    5 жыл бұрын

    me and plants ..... it's a nightmare

  • @OroborusFMA
    @OroborusFMA5 жыл бұрын

    The economic injustices of late capitalism automatically condemn most to live from paycheck to paycheck with no hope of saving for retirement - if you even have a job at all. And a college degree doesn't impact that.

  • @TheBroccoliFox
    @TheBroccoliFox5 жыл бұрын

    Totally agree with this list, though about number 7, I've been that person who continually turned down invites to social gatherings. I would just make up some excuse as a reason I couldn't attend. The real reason was my depression. Looking back on that time, I regret not being honest with my friends and letting them know what I was dealing with and the real reason I kept saying I couldn't go. If this sounds like you, I encourage you to open up to your friends about what you're going through if you feel like you can trust them with your personal business.

  • @JK-wz7uj
    @JK-wz7uj5 жыл бұрын

    Remember you are unique, just like everyone else.

  • @ayndie38

    @ayndie38

    5 жыл бұрын

    J K 😂😂😂😂

  • @davidbolha

    @davidbolha

    5 жыл бұрын

    So mediocre then. 😄

  • @jaymedalbeth6962
    @jaymedalbeth69625 жыл бұрын

    I disagree with "There'll always be someone better than you". We were all created from the dust

  • @jaymedalbeth6962

    @jaymedalbeth6962

    5 жыл бұрын

    Someone who thinks they're better than me is stuck up

  • @xanderbg1
    @xanderbg15 жыл бұрын

    You hit the spot with this one and I can proud myself with realizing all of these on my own :)

  • @Derpaherpa123
    @Derpaherpa1235 жыл бұрын

    A large proportion of how your life ends up is just how intelligent you are. How quick you are able learn and apply that learning

  • @balisong4227
    @balisong42275 жыл бұрын

    These videos usually make the women look desperate and always trying to appeal to men.

  • @roserevancroix2308

    @roserevancroix2308

    5 жыл бұрын

    Really? In what stage of the video does it "appeal" only to men?

  • @traceylennon1204

    @traceylennon1204

    5 жыл бұрын

    Very true!! @Balisong

  • @traceylennon1204

    @traceylennon1204

    5 жыл бұрын

    Not all of them..some desperate women have spoiled it for the ones that aren't,but, as a result it's assumed we ALL are!! @Zz Z

  • @traceylennon1204

    @traceylennon1204

    5 жыл бұрын

    She probably meant other videos not necessarily this one..@RoseRevanCroix

  • @ytuporquenotecallas

    @ytuporquenotecallas

    5 жыл бұрын

    I find them really patronising bordering mysoginistic. Plus there's always the male voice, the silly "tips for girls", the sexualised female cartoons etc... I don't need mansplaining thanks ;-)

  • @jasikmartin476
    @jasikmartin4765 жыл бұрын

    Number 1 is so true. If you truly understand this fact you will never be sad again. We, humans, always tend to look out for something that will appear out of nothing and makes us happy. But there is no such thing. True happiness is in us all the time, it just waits for being found.

  • @tecnotrog1
    @tecnotrog14 жыл бұрын

    The fact you have to explain these truths is the truly frightening part

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