I truly hope that people are listening to every word this man says. Not only is he teaching us about relationships he's teaching us valuable lessons in life. This content is absolutely gold

@user-sj4bt9qh8e

9 ай бұрын

You need a powerful spell caster like Dr Oman to help you with things like this, 24 hours he will help you fixed your home and put a smile on your face like what he do to me.

@jennifernixon563

9 ай бұрын

I agree gold

@roseluz1765

8 ай бұрын

⁠@@elizabethtorrez9232 What is meant by avoidant type person? Thank you.

@fern-cx3bf

7 ай бұрын

@@roseluz1765they think they can depend on themselves, even if they can they will miss your energy to a certain degree

@isaacjacobs3785

5 ай бұрын

If you believe anyone on YT over your own journey, you are going to fail. Every situation is different. If I followed this advise, I wouldn't be back with my ex and now married with a daughter. Dont be naive.

My ex broke up with me 2.5 months ago & I went NC the day after we broke up. I never begged or pleaded with him, didn't text him, NOTHING. I'm not here because I want him back, I'm here today because I still miss him & the friendship we developed & was super close to texting him today & am trying to stay strong. I know I wont text him, but this message gave me a little strength to hold on & keep my dignity & grace in tact.

@DrCassie-PsyD

7 ай бұрын

Same

@evagonzalez1170

5 ай бұрын

Same

@andeka72

3 ай бұрын

Same as me

@edinapolyak4802

2 ай бұрын

Any update since then?

@maclove8135

2 ай бұрын

Yeah me too

My ex popped over on my doorstep 18 days after ghosting me. Not a word, no phone call, no text. I left him on my doorstep knocking, knocking, knocking.

Genuinely guys he’s not wrong. Literally tonight my ex called me, telling me how she made a mistake and wants me back. I’m not jumping back into a relationship though. Taking things slow. She’s asked to see me on Friday. Wish me luck! Also promise I’m not a bot either, real person here.

@user-wr3ij3rl7q

8 ай бұрын

How was it??😊

@jose.chatham

7 ай бұрын

Update 👀👀👀👀

@JustBramz

7 ай бұрын

@@jose.chatham We have met regularly and are slowly building back up our feelings for one another. She’s not ready for a relationship just yet but we have agreed to remain exclusive. So right now we’re dating.

@solaimanwahab5286

4 ай бұрын

yeah either a bot or it didnt go well for him @@jose.chatham

@kimberleighwilliams5921

3 ай бұрын

@JustBramz So what ever happened with your reunion with your ex? Inquiring minds want to know! 😂

I listen to these for comfort , I love my ex but I can’t take back a cheater took me a bit to understand why I shouldn’t take a cheater back and why I should respect myself more than how the love felt . I’m not fully there yet , I’m scared I might take them back or relapse on wanting them back. But for now these are my comforts

@dfateekh

9 ай бұрын

Yeah me too

@moniquebelle429

9 ай бұрын

Guuurl, this is me too!

@chisomoffor6877

9 ай бұрын

@@moniquebelle429 it’s a heart and mind struggle fr

@hulyotv6210

9 ай бұрын

you’ve got this! cheering for you!

@helloareyouthere9992

8 ай бұрын

I’ll be your BF

Let my ex have the last word & didn’t respond back for a week & a half just went about my business & she came back wanting me & a relationship. We back together but I’m not responding fast & I am letting her have freedom. “Mysteriousness & Silence” Calculated coach thanks!

@Rhaine7788

9 ай бұрын

Good moves.. let her prove to you she reserves you.. otherwise put her in the garbage bin.. hahaha

@user-sj4bt9qh8e

9 ай бұрын

You need a powerful spell caster like Dr Oman to help you with things like this, 24 hours he will help you fixed your home and put a smile on your face like what he do to me.

@moniquebelle429

9 ай бұрын

This is me too. My s/o said he “needed a break.” I gave him a break and no contact. It’s been over one month and he keeps texting, calling, we’ve even met up a couple of times. He wasn’t expecting me to not be clingy and needy (cause I had gotten that way in the relationship; but, only because his avoidant attachment style triggered my anxious attachment traits).

@user-sj4bt9qh8e

8 ай бұрын

@@moniquebelle429 I will leave Dr. Oman email address below this comment, I will need his help.

@user-sj4bt9qh8e

8 ай бұрын

Dromanherbalcure@

Lost. Fear of missing out. Scarity. Lottery effect you will always be here

Honestly this is like free therapy! I won't lie when I say Coach Blac is driving me more and more everyday to go out and get a degree in Psychology! One day I would love to be able to afford this man's 1 on 1 coaching lessons. But until then I can continue to support his KZread channel. Thank you sir for your calmness, directness and words of wisdom.

@user-sj4bt9qh8e

9 ай бұрын

You need a powerful spell caster like Dr Oman to help you with things like this, 24 hours he will help you fixed your home and put a smile on your face like what he do to me.

I'm not gonna lie I was So scared of doing the no contact cause two months went by with no contact.. And the steps went exactly how coach black said we started texting and know he told me he missed me,, I was so shocked...And soo happy smiling all day

@derekenlow7607

3 күн бұрын

Update please

I previously struggled with no contact and always tried to contact her in some way. we also work together. She then blocked me recently and i managed to control myself and kept no contact. Yesterday she unblocked me and reached out, but I told her I am happy being just a colleague and I don't regret my decision.

My ex left me, her sister told me "arent you afraid that he starts seeing someone else?" My ex responded "No, hes too shy and hes not used to go with girls"...I think if I show her I can, that fear and anxiety of loss will come true

@CatwalkPurz

2 ай бұрын

She is so entitled and cocky - wow! Exactly what was said in this video! 💁🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️😳

A soul is only worth how much it gives. Not what it needs… Growth is comfortable and beautiful.

This whole NC thing can also get in the way of the Universe and the energies of putting you back together. If there is true love and you both miss each other, then talk. Forget the power, just feel. Go with the energy, keep it respectful, don't allow to be used, but also don't allow NC too much power in itself, you might lose your forever because you are not communicating.

@pallana3701

3 ай бұрын

Should have chose Communication first …….

@isaacjacobs3785

3 ай бұрын

@@pallana3701 Of course we did that!!!!

@DaniColeLLC

2 ай бұрын

I agree and disagree. Sometimes people aren’t meant to go where you’re going and that’s okay. God removes them for a reason and IF you all rekindle, in my experience I still didn’t learn the lesson and/or that person still had something to teach me. Silence is always golden and if they don’t appreciate me in the silence, they could never appreciate me in the flesh. Feelings aside, when I let go, I always ended up seeing why the person wasn’t good for me or where I was going in life.

Your gonna blow up bro, you have all the right psychology with a really therapeutic delivery. Thanks coach

No contact works, after 1year he called me today and told me that am un replaceble , he wants me back, but I never knew that he can ever look for me coz he was too educative, had material things, money but me am from a middle classes family

I'm at the place where I don't want him back bcus he has hurt me and ghost me so many times. The last time I had a breakdown but this time idgaf. I just made the mistake of trusting to soon this time and he ghost me for no reason. I left my ring that was a gift of someone who is no longer on this earth. I took it off to wash my hands . I want it back but I think he's keeping it hostage to keep me calling him and soon I'm gonna say keep it and I hope him and his new girl choke on it.

@CatwalkPurz

2 ай бұрын

Yes, stay no contact. No possession is worth your power and self-respect. I love how you value yourself more. ❤

As a stockbroker and my experience in relationships his analogy is spot on. They sell shares because they think the stock will decline 😂 good analogy bro

Great video dude!

This is very true. Thank you so much,

Great advice.

I needed this right now

Good info...keep up the Good Work☝👍

You Mr Blac are a truly good coach. Thank you.

Wow, Coach. When you were saying about cash vs credit card…I felt that. 💯

Coach, you are platinum & gold

I have watched 5 of your videos. I love your delivery and content. Thank you.

Amazing video with a lot of valuable examples. Thank you❤

The stock comparison is so good, wow

Thank you, coach Blac. 🙏 You are very helpful and I really appreciate your videos!!

As a business educated person, I love the way you explained this 🎉

Thank ypu for your videos, you're a very smart guy😊

Your videos are the best that I have seen in regards to the content of your channel. I love it! Thank you!! You are a comfort to people who are heartbroken.

Terrific mssge

I appreciate the knowledge that you teach . I just walked away from a relationship because the girl took me for granted and I kept catching her in lies. She keep showing me she’s for the streets .

Xcellent Somtin💯

Thank you for your videos

i LOVE THIS

I started the no contact with my ex and bang within 7 days she came back more loving than ever after saying she no longer wanted anything with me anymore.. shit works lol

I really think it’s one of your best videos so far. Thanks a million 🙏♥️

@blacademic

9 ай бұрын

Thanks man! 🤞🏿

⁠BEST content on the internet! We have to DETACH By going no-contact. It creates emotional disconnect and helps you to see “the ex” clearly, instead of through rose colored glasses. If they discarded you, THAT IS how you are to remember them…as someone who was cruel and threw you away. It requires rewiring the brain though. The brain wants to fix a problem. So it keeps you strategizing “the how” to fix it but THE ONLY way to truly disconnect and detach is by going no contact.

You have to Learn to appeal to your exes emotions vs to their logic mind. I really like that. So deep.

I broke up with my ex because i had a sense that he didnt value me, my needs, desires and happiness was not a priority to him. I gave my all. He just walked away without any fight or fuss. He never matched my level of effort and didnt value my opinion. Communication was poor. I would love to try and talk and come to some sort of compromise and work things out but i know he sees me as low value so no amount of no contact will work. 😢. I know i need to place more value on myself which is why i broke up with him.

Everything you’re saying in the vids I’ve watched are 100% right to a self aware mind that doesn’t want to accept what they know and can’t act on cause impulse and emotional rejection that makes the strongest person act outta character. Once you show unconditional love after something happens in the relation you will be a weaker person in their eyes and devalued to them. Moral of it is, accept that you should value yourself and it’s okay to go to that dark place a grieve for awhile but don’t stay there to long and lose who you know you are and who you need.

Thanks!

Your analogies are so insightful 👏

Me and my recent ex when we split up I swear it was definitely some of the hardest days I have ever had to encounter, it’s that gut wrenching feeling of how you see them live there life so why can’t you live yours, and I took that to heart. Started to be more socializing and partying but not as a distraction but more as this is my life that I gotta live. Nobody is steering this ship but me, cannot lie of course there are days where I genuinely do miss this woman a lot Since our families & friends are so close it’s almost impossible to not bring her into the conversation but I try to always put it in a positive approach I recently saw her again and I would say it felt almost comical in a way Just laughing and sharing stories but i definitely feel the energy is still strong You never know what could happen is what I would say But take it day by day

@doubleJJ01

2 ай бұрын

Same , but she left me I never give up on her im still hurt whenever I saw her , should I text her I really do want her back , she told me last time I broke no contact, to move on....idk if she still love me but I noticed she was looking at me few days ago in college, I didn't talk to her , should I text her

@Steve_uni.2290

2 ай бұрын

@@doubleJJ01 Nah don’t text her king, Best way to move is always in silence Be the best version of yourself right now, if she left then why should she be so easy to come back too She left for a reason So stand ya ground If this is something that could be avenged in later time, then approach it slowly

@doubleJJ01

2 ай бұрын

@@Steve_uni.2290 thanks man , I didn't text her , but I feel like sometimes I always try to find ways just to get to talk to her and may be fixed things up one last time , I never cheat on her , I caught her texting other men and was a bit flirting to them soo I feel disrespected and we fight , but I never thought of breakup, she left me eventually telling me that I never trust her , she broke the trust now I got the blame for reacting to it...its been hard for me its been 4months since she left , I broke no in Feb 7 , with a hope that may be after 2months she would have missed me but to my surprise she doesn't care at all , and told me " we're never getting back together " " no one is forcing u to text me " I said to her , while you're single its fine if u text to other dude but not when ur In relationship and entertaining other men , she replied " my foot " Since then I stop disturbing her and I knew she was rude ,knowing the fact she broke the trust by herself , I still care , and I still want to work things up She has change her dress sense , her hair , she has upgrade too , while dating me she doesn't care much , now she look more invested in her facial , dress etc.... It hurts me more to see her like that While I'm here having a hope that one day she'll realised her mistakes I'm still waiting its very hard but I also am healing myself too....its hard

It’s been 10 months. And I was a super loving wife. I filed for divorce. He hasn’t once tried to get me back. After I filed he still wanted sex. Once I cut that off because he was messing around. He still didn’t try to get me back. Months later I am living on my own. We were married 9 years. Together for 13. We are in no contact. Have been now for sometime. He still has made no effort to win me back. I’m moving on. My heart hurts but I’ve excepted it now that he’s just the player he is . And I deserve so much more.

@shauneady8803

Ай бұрын

So why go for a divorce? That seems like a bluff gone wrong

@brendanvasquez

22 күн бұрын

Ma’m, you divorced your husband and come onto the internet talking about how he hasn’t tried getting back with you… why would he??? YOU divorced HIM. Idk why yall leave men and think we’re supposed to chase behind yall.. not happening

Recently found this channel. Ive watched lots of breakup coaches, i think he is at the top along with craig kenneth, and coach lee. Masculine energy and Love chat are also great. Brad browning, chris seiter, love advice tv and dan bacon can give some bad advice. Corey Wayne is great also, but he is very pushy about selling his books. But coach blac has a good way of making you feel strong

By following your words I got so much support and strength for my mind please make a video on leaving wife along with kids

@CatwalkPurz

2 ай бұрын

The third video ever made on this channel, specifically talks about no contact when children are involved. 🙌

I'm 3 months into no contact after my dismissive avoidant left me. I've done it by the book and never reached out and heard nothing from her. I've tried moving on, tried working on myself and I'm still traumatised.

@azeezadeogun7321

9 ай бұрын

I’m in a similar situation my relationship ended 6 weeks ago and I’ve been in no contact since.

@droflivelife

9 ай бұрын

@azeezadeogun7321 good luck bud. It's a horrific journey

@Kerriwalther

8 ай бұрын

Same here. My. Avoidant man left 6 months ago after 6 years with no warning. We work together and haven’t spoken at all. He isn’t coming back and I know it. Just hurts seeing him everyday when I gave hom everything and it was too much he said. Now he can watch me glow up and be successful without him while he went back to friends and drinking and partying every weekend and I have paid down debts and sold some houses.

@droflivelife

8 ай бұрын

@Kerriwalther you did it hard. Wow after 6 years. Somehow I'm glad it happened earlier then later. I still need closure and I can't seem to move on yet. Watch my phone 24/7 waiting for something that will never come.

@Uknurse464

5 ай бұрын

You need to lift your self worth. Get in the gym and build a body like you’ve never seen in your self. When you see results and get attention from women who are better, you will feel better trust me

Man finding this general is the greatest thing happen to me all yr cause I was feeling sick from our break up and now I got nothing but motivation to strive for better! I start playing golf, got some trip plan, and girls I can talk to on a regular basis.

I’ve noticed this with my ex. She is always one of the first to view stories, she liked my Tic Tok reposts for a week, then noticed she started reposting some sad ones on Sunday and noticed one of them had the caption “I Just Want You”. She undeposited it after I liked it (probably shouldn’t have done that). I started liking some of her stuff, but probably should stop and go away for a while. It’s been 47 days NC. It feels like there is a shift coming. She still has me unblocked on social media and my number is still unblocked even though I haven’t text her since we broke up.

@CatwalkPurz

2 ай бұрын

No contact means STRONG no contact. When you like her stories and social media you are giving her “energy” interest, not scarcity. SCARCITY increases value as brought out in this video. Any updates? 🙌

This is most likely my favourite channel.

@blacademic

9 ай бұрын

Welcome to the family 🤞🏿

@user-sj4bt9qh8e

9 ай бұрын

You need a powerful spell caster like Dr Oman to help you with things like this, 24 hours he will help you fixed your home and put a smile on your face like what he do to me.

May God continue blessing and protecting this guy .. Genius, helped me and still helping ... Guys follow what he saying it’s golden 💯

I just went through a really mentally confusing breakup and was wondering what ways i could reach out to maybe talk ab it. I’ve been binging your vids like a mf and have genuinely learned a lot and gained more clarity. I don’t have an insta.

We never had miss understandings ,he just turned silent at me it was painful but i accepted the stiuation that his Gone

My ex wife reached out after 2 weeks of strategic contact asking if i was ok because i hadnt been in contact with her with the exception of when she would drop of the kids for our weekly time together ( shared custody) she mentioned that i dont know everything about how she feels and just wanted to know that i was ok, its a baby step but i remained polite, friendly and responded to her without a mention of saving our marriage ( as i want to together 19.5yrs married 18 ) and finished text simply stating hope she was doing well, and back to no contact i went, not sure what to think about this but through your videos i think i handled it pretty well

Hi couch in my situation it doesn't work,thanks i moved on,god bless you ❤❤

I need a video explaining why she could just go and stay gone, no looking at my stories, no breadcrumbing, no games, just ended it nicely and gone. Broke contact today after 2 weeks because I want to see my daughter, I'm seeing her tomorrow

@CatwalkPurz

2 ай бұрын

The third video ever made on this channel speak specifically about no contact when children are involved. 🙌 when you watch all the videos the answer to your question becomes really clear. 😌

People ultimately want what they can't have. When my ex knew I wasn't going anywhere and I was pleading with her constantly, she just kept pushing me away. But when I went no contact, she started to panic and email me frequently. I knew things just wouldn't change that easily, so I didn't respond. Then came the day that I shared a female friend"s story on my snapchat, which she was watching every story by the way, she lost it. She started accusing me finding somebody else and moving on and not wanting her anymore. I played it cool I told her she was just acting, but she wouldn't let up. Finally she started fighting for the relationship and kept showing extreme jealousy and insecurities when she finally thought that she lost me for good and I had moved on and found somebody else.

We had a 6 year relationship, and a 2 year old child. At first i chased, then went minimal contact. Recently we have been been catching up and talking more. I found out that she is pregnant with this guy she’s been seeing only 3 months after our breakup. I guess I don’t need these videos anymore because we can never get back together now.

Does anybody in the comments know when coach will be going live again? Thanks have a great day

I hate my ex (I don't want to hate him but he forced me to with the things the did after the break up!). He was narcissistic and couldn't forgive and wasn't understanding of me anyway so maybe it was for the best. It's reallly too bad because I thought we were building something WONDERFUL and great. I truly will miss him. I thought he was the one. I really did. But he let outside opinions influence the relationship too much. Lesson to you ladies, that's a RED FLAG!

@user-sj4bt9qh8e

9 ай бұрын

You need a powerful spell caster like Dr Oman to help you with things like this, 24 hours he will help you fixed your home and put a smile on your face like what he do to me.

@JB-dk8zc

8 ай бұрын

If your situation is anything like mine, and it sounds like it is...your emotions are getting the best of you. I hope you're able to allow your heart to heal and be empathetic of this man and his past emotional trauma. Ill even guarantee that you'll always be the one he confides in with the simplest AND most complex situations. Matter of fact, were you to reach out to him...he would SHOW you how understanding he was/is. Not just words. Hate is a strong word. I bet you love him like no other. Narcissistic is a strong word. It gets thrown around like Love. True love defeats even the most trying times in a relationship, unconditionally. Were you to allow yourself to be vulnerable with open communication he would not judge, condemn or invalidate your feelings in the least. He wants to meet your needs, mend your broken heart and seal it away in a loving foundation stronger than Fort Knox. I guarantee his actions after the break came from an anxious feeling of despair. He saw the love of his life slipping away. It never should have gone that far, but we learn and forgive. Love is patient and kind. Love makes you do odd things sometimes. None of it was with the intent of harm, although he may have overstepped some boundaries. He's in love with you. If you, for example, decided to get on that American Airlines plane and surprise him this weekend, he would be open to communicating his expectations, visiting what a strong relationship should be and take all accountability for his actions. Your reciprocation would be desired, but he would understand taking slow steps to rebuild the union you both had into something that would stand the test of time. I'd bet my life on it. You matter. He matters. If you could see him now, you'd see a strong, disciplined, dedicated and faithful man that will continue to grow and nourish such a valuable relationship. You are more precious to him . Both of you will be vulnerable, and there will be tough times. But, if you extend that olive branch, those seeds will be planted and The Tree of Everlasting Life will flourish into something beautiful. He's forgiven himself. Will you? You both have much more love to give each other. I'll also guarantee he'll do whatever it takes to help you feel secure, safe and loved. There's no rush, but don't you want to start the rest of your lives together as soon as possible? He promises to do the hard work with you. Tell him you'll see him soon. The greatest days of your lives together are yet to come.

@viktor2915

8 ай бұрын

If you miss him you dont hate him, you hate sides of him. And people can learn to change.

Hey Coach Am enjoying your videos but i think with subtitles would be more attractive

@CatwalkPurz

2 ай бұрын

You can follow the transcript. 😉🙌

Thanks

Think about how offensive that would be, to be somebody's back up plan. It should make you want to reconsider even being with them again at all...if that's what they really do. Value yourself, even if someone else is too foolish to see it at the moment.

@EpticityOG

3 ай бұрын

It would be funny to deny them wanting to come back and showing them how you’ve moved on and are doing great without them.

I had a Random suggestion for a new potential video. Would you be able to make a topic on how to remove toxic traits and conversations with your significant other and or ex? It Would be super beneficial, thank you for your help on all your videos!

@user-sj4bt9qh8e

9 ай бұрын

You need a powerful spell caster like Dr Oman to help you with things like this, 24 hours he will help you fixed your home and put a smile on your face like what he do to me.

Went NC and felt amazing but when they reached out and I fell for the lies is when I became torn. Regretting that I should have never allowed this to happen when he showed me who he is time and time again. If NC is established please leave it that way since it’s destined to remain that way at least in my situation.

My ex broke up with me saying we were not going anywhere, but literally every day she looks at my stories on Instagram, she had text me here and there, I had only replied, saying, let’s “meet and talk”, bug she ignores those messages. It’s so annoying , I even stopped posting on social media because she looks at it every day.

This is helping me so much. My ex and I broke up exactly a week ago because he lied and I confronted him. My birthday was two days ago and he sent me an E-gift card to my favorite store for few hundred dollars with the note, “I love you so much, this is gift #1, can’t wait to give you the rest”. Never got a call or direct message from him. I text them and said thank you and got no response. Talk about royally confused. I miss him and I’d be lying if I didn’t say I was In love but I’m watching these videos and taking it one day at a time. Went into no contact immediately after we broke up.

@CatwalkPurz

2 ай бұрын

Any updates? 🙌

@DaniColeLLC

2 ай бұрын

@@CatwalkPurzlol he sent 2 dozen roses a week later saying I love you, and he ACH deposited money in my account the day before Christmas Eve. I didn’t respond to either. He never actually called or text to apologize so I said nothing. I moved on and haven’t looked back 😊

@DaniColeLLC

12 күн бұрын

@@CatwalkPurz no contact worked and we are back together! I allowed him to chase me and come back. It took about 4 months and a long conversation but we are very much back together and the relationship is stronger than it was before ☺️

@CatwalkPurz

11 күн бұрын

@@DaniColeLLC in am so happy you received the outcome you wanted 🙏🤗 ((((hug))) and thank you for the update too 🥰

I wish I saw this we broke up 6 months ago. I didn’t do NC. Instead I would reach out here and there. We ran into each other for once last week. I texted her. Then saw her again and she texted me. I should have done no contact after that convo but I didn’t. I am now going to do no contact and just live my best life and love her from a distance. She played the no contact with me and would barely answer when I did reach out.

I am hopeful that this method works, which is why I’ve been on the 30-day no contact. It’s been just a few days since the break-up. But I’m not contacting her I’m gonna wait to see if she’ll reach out. Kills me though not knowing when she will do so, or IF….

@CatwalkPurz

2 ай бұрын

when you watch all the videos/content on this channel you will see that no contact is •forever• until the dumper reaches out. They broke it, they have to fix it.🙌

@miamibrando3471

2 ай бұрын

@@CatwalkPurz they did reach out and we are currently back together, I’ll keep you guys posted with updates

@CatwalkPurz

2 ай бұрын

@@miamibrando3471 I am so happy for you both 🥹🙌

Its so good listening to you coach u have a smooth and calming vibe and voice ❤❤watching from S.A

it took 4 weeks this works

Been in NC since the break up about a month ago. She sat me down to break up with me but I was the one who asked her if she wanted to break up because it seemed like that was what was happening. I also agreed that it was probably the right move. I still think about her every day and I’m almost positive she would respond if I reached out. I think we both still care about each other a lot. The main reason she gave for the breakup was long distance, but I think that wasn’t the only thing that pushed her to the decision. Is NC the right move?

@swastikrout6662

9 ай бұрын

it absolutely is brother , stay strong don't show desperacy , girls smnell it from a mile , plz dont reach out to her , i just got off my long distance relationship , she left me for the same reason as yours , the distance but the environment she lives in comes into play as well, my guy , she might have been getting the same masculine energy from different men out there, what you need to realise is that she will only value you if you give her the space to do that , i dont expect my ex to just pop up because of no contact rule , i am just helping myself heal with it . she left me it was her choice , i dont need this trauma all over again in my life

@user-wr3ij3rl7q

8 ай бұрын

Are you sure she wanted to break up? If you asked about it first, she could've said yes just out of raw emotions. Maybe she was hurt sad, didnt bring up something that bothered her in a relationship etc (poor communication) Maybe instead it would be better to sit and talk in the sense of "I want this to work out. How can we make this work?"

@keithbrown2425

5 ай бұрын

I feel ya bro my ex and me was ldr for 4 years we Shelly met each other at least twice a year or more. But she always complained about me not being there and being alone all the time and having no friends. Now she broke up with me and with some other guy who’s closer to her. She blocked me which was kinda my fault cause I tried to text her and ask her baker the guy and she told me she moved on

@CatwalkPurz

2 ай бұрын

@@swastikrout6662 The long distance is definitely hard, but it’s not the reason. They broke up for emotional reasons, and they’re using logic to back up their decision. Distance was not a problem previously so it just became something you couldn’t argue with and made the break up easier for them. 🙌 but you are right, no contact is the best answer

@CatwalkPurz

2 ай бұрын

⁠ The long distance is definitely hard, but it’s not the reason. Period. They broke up for emotional reasons, and they’re using logic to back up their decision. Distance was not a problem previously so it just became something you couldn’t argue with and made the break up easier for them. 🙌 but you are right, no contact is the best answer

My recently ex gf wanted to be left alone. Although I understood her depression apathy and did everything I could to be there, she pushed me away nonetheless. To be honest, her behavior started to take a toll on me and I was getting hurt, so she decided to end the relationship. I never wanted to breakup, but she was in so much pain dealing with this feeling of guilt, that I believed letting her go was the wisest decision at that time. I couldn't soothe this thought of hers. Before the separation, I made clear if she ever needed anything, I'll be waiting, no matter if time is uncertain. Then, we started no contact phase. Now I feel horrible for not being at her side anymore, but isn't this having respect for her choice? I don't know if I should ignore all this and show up against her will, or keep my distance. She even removed me from her socials to avoid the guilty thoughts from appearing. 😢

@retrovertigov

8 ай бұрын

Update: Turns out she lied and was cheating on me. It was all a coward excuse for not telling the truth. I found out anyways, lmao. L girl :(

@fern-cx3bf

7 ай бұрын

@@retrovertigovhow you holdin up man?

@Uknurse464

5 ай бұрын

She will still come back when she realises cheating and chasing attention and sex gets boring as you mature and grow up.

Let's hear it! I'm dealing with a retired bull fighter so he's very strong weeew.

She broke up with me not because of love or physical attractions, but because i wasn’t financially stable,and mentally distraught in my own mentality, she cried and said sorry during breaking up with me because she didn’t know what to do,she pushed me to be better,supported me but i put no effort to be better myself, our relationship was pure, love wise but she questioned if i was someone she can have a family with and depend on me as a husband, love,mentally,physically and financially, Fucked up with no contact the first two months, but now im doing it,she has texted me twice and we have had short and i cut the convo twice. I even held back from double texting at one point because she didnt reply, but i didnt and by the end of the night she reacted to my last message which was me saying “super busy, have a great day” and i didnt reply to that. And currently NC .

And I am on the stage: he is stubborn, he has strong pride - he will not contact me 😢😂

@dfateekh

9 ай бұрын

@@danilaroche1156 that :)

@TimStJohn-xp8rv

9 ай бұрын

Preach it! 🙏@@danilaroche1156

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@blacademic

9 ай бұрын

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I recently had a break up with a girl after 9 months. Its been only 3 days since we broke things off. I feel so devastated. I feel like it was my fault for the break up. I still care for her so much I really want this person in my life. I don’t know how she feels. She blocked me on everything. I plan to focus on myself during NC. I want to apologize to her at some point. Lmk if anyone has any advice or anything.

Think you can address what to do when you’re doing no contact but you frequent a lot of the same places as an ex? How do you react in those situations.

@EpticityOG

3 ай бұрын

Ignore them and mind your own business

I went no contact with my ex. She was so stubborn we havent talked yet. Its been 4 years. Weve both moved on.

I found out my ex was a covert narc so I will stay no contact!!

Broke nc twice once to send a letter saying i couldnt be his friend but i was gonna work on fixing my situation.. the other was 3 weeks later ...today fi dinf out hes been through 2 woman and now in a relationship after saying he didnt want one. So i called him a lier a d a coward. Im moving on and dropping him im done

My ex breadcrumbed me, used me and reserved me for almost 4 mos... when I confirmed she is starting to date, i told her i never wanted to be friends (she never cleared this up she texts me everyday like nothing happened) and I am out once she starts to get interested in someone else. This is the 3rd time I am applying NC because she always comes back and nothing good happened for me. Her last response was like, I thought we were really done and it's clear. I blocked her afterwards because I am just tired of the dance and a person disrespecting me. I need to have my dignity back. Then a few days after, she blocked me back. This may be a power play. She lost the power when I walked away and blocked her. She had to do something to feel the power is back in her hands. I am just healing right now. But it has been tough.

@Vincedaprince1

7 ай бұрын

🙏🏽

My son made a friend from school. So I met the friends mother and we hit it off instantly. We were just talking as friends over texting but never met before in person. So, she was in the middle of healing herself from a previous relationship. After about a month of talking, I told her I wanted more. She was fine with it. But we still haven't met yet, and I have done some things around her house when I would pick up her son to stay the night with my son. She appreciates everything I have done for her. So about 2 weeks ago I told her I just didn't care about her and I anymore because we were not moving forward in the relationship or I should say situationship lol. So a few days go by and I told her she needs time to heal from her past relationship in order for us to move forward because the relationship we had was putting me in an unhealthy place. She agrees with me. So I am trying the no contact with her, but every time her and her son get into an argument, she calls me to fix things. Because her son Dad is an alcoholic and lives 1200 miles away. I honestly don't know what to do in this situation. She is a good woman and I want something with her, but she isn't committing to me.

@mobheadbussa1304

6 ай бұрын

Bra u acting like a female…. Stop tryna put a title and time on things…. You jus said it yaself she needs time to heal…. Let her be the one to ask you for commitment…..

@7pointscam

5 ай бұрын

This is definitely a interesting situation. I would say time is for sure on your side though if you can be patient. But also don’t sit around waiting

@Quickdraw812

5 ай бұрын

I ended up finding someone else. I think if a woman or a man wants to play games with someone feelings cut them off and move on. I learned the hard way, but not anymore.

@7pointscam

5 ай бұрын

@@Quickdraw812 happy for you either way bro💪

What if the only contact is the occasional brief message like "how are you?" but not much else - should I even reply to this kind of thing, or stay no contact until I get something more substantial? Thanks

Over 3 months NC; I don't think she'll be chasing me

@legobrianskywalker12

8 ай бұрын

@@Aresss332Not necessary. I left my ex and I am still single. It’s been 8 months already and now is when I feel the need to have somebody.

@EpticityOG

3 ай бұрын

@@sainjaxgalLol no, women subconsciously find men who chase as weak, you guys prefer to chase a man and enjoy the more challenging it is. You can’t deny it As a man I’m not gonna chase no girl, that’s how my exes have done so take that as you will. So OP don’t chase, I hope you didn’t and I hope that you instead focus on yourself to improve every aspect of your life not for her but yourself, I hope you regained your confidence, your value you worth your respect back.

i was off and on with this chick i was starting to date. I was hot and cold and disrespected her. contacted her and said i was sorry made mistakes she said dont contact her anymore. So i explained if thats what she wants. I think she will eventually be back. I really cared alot for her. When i was with her it was an energy that was so magentic. I was married for 5 years and this was more powerful this love i had for her like no other. Now i will give her the space she wants. If she comes back ill take it slow. If not, then i wish her well.

I was dating a guy for almost 3 months and he ended up disrespecting me pretty bad so I broke it off. Does this still work in that situation? It’s been over a week and haven’t heard from him

What do you do if you run into your x when he is alone when in no contact. Or what do you do if he is with his girlfriend in no contact?

Does it work if my ex is stubborn? Does NC last longer?

@CatwalkPurz

2 ай бұрын

They are all *very* stubborn. 😅 when you watch all the videos/content on this channel you will see that no contact is forever until the dumper reaches out. They broke it, they have to fix it.

My wife & I are separated but still living together. I think she would divorce me but she doesn't think she can afford it. How do I create no contact with her while we still live together?

I really need a coaching session, it says webcam... Can't there just be a phone call?

He thinks now I’m seeing someone else.. also I’m not.. so his ego won’t allow him to reach out to me.. which it’s cool.. I’m focusing on me..

@blacademic I went on a holiday to visit a friend. And during my ex girlfriend says she loves me and misses me talking on the phone when she’s going to sleep and crying that she misses me and making plans with me when I come back and when I came back she broke up with me. She says it’s just a feeling she can’t explain that she doesn’t want a love relationship. Currently in NC. But what are your thoughts on this?

@RandyLos1994

9 ай бұрын

And that her feelings are gone. Her friends saw me a few times but don’t like me. Her family loves me. So I think she’s listening to much to her friends. I was a bit cocky around her friends. That’s my fault. But give me a chance on that instead breaking up

@user-wr3ij3rl7q

8 ай бұрын

​@@RandyLos1994she doesn't respect you. Move on

I’ve tried no contact for the past 3 weeks and he contacted me and i answered on day 8… then we argued and he said he didn’t want a relationship with anyone so I cut him off again and after 10 days he contacted me again and I gave in smh.. but he still says that I have his heart but in his head he still doesn’t want a relationship.. we are talking now but it’s not getting anywhere.. he’s blaming everything on me… so I’m thinking about going ghost for good..

@DavaiDavaiVotak

Ай бұрын

Update???