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@Idamay-ct2pk

11 ай бұрын

Thank you!

When we first got married, my husband would only remove his pants after the lights were out. It was because he hated his thin legs. So, one day, I told him I loved the shape of his legs. He was shocked and said something like, "Really? I think they are too skinny." He had not worn shorts since he was a kid, so I bought him a pair of shorts and coaxed him to sit in the backyard with me and keep me company while I sunbathed. Which he did. Pretty soon, his legs had a better tan than mine, and I whined about that fact. Ever since then, he wore shorts almost ALL the time. In a few months, he will turn 76.....and will be wearing shorts, thanks to that compliment I paid him 50 years ago. All I can say now is that it's a good thing we live in the south. If not, I will need to find a way to tell him how great I think he would look in a snowsuit and ski boots. 😉

@cellechidors7817

2 жыл бұрын

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@denisalekaj8770

2 жыл бұрын

For the record I live in Michigan and people wear shorts in the winter all the time lol

@grinning_owl

2 жыл бұрын

@@denisalekaj8770 Be careful. "They" might use that info as proof of global warming... lol

@tenadefiant

2 жыл бұрын

That is sooo sweet🥰

@grinning_owl

2 жыл бұрын

@@tenadefiant 😄

And some men are narcissists who fall in love with your positivity and fun, then *after* marriage, crush the fun and joy out of you with unrelenting criticism and harsh treatment. Then they’re mad because “she isn’t fun anymore.”

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2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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@preeapraag342

2 жыл бұрын

So true

I asked my husband and his friends why men are more attracted to younger women and I was shocked by their answer. I expected them to all say that younger women were more beautiful (less wrinkles and tighter firmer perkier bodies) but they all said “more fun / carefree”. Younger women make men forget about the stress of life. That changed my thinking and started trying to focus on having fun and living in the moment instead of standing in the mirror worrying about wrinkles and weight. It comes full circle because now I actually feel more secure and safe knowing that my husband is more excited about me when I laugh and smile even with no make up.

@heatherframpton9693

9 ай бұрын

Interesting perspective more about the "more fun/carefree" less about the beautiful, younger looks! Thanks for sharing that. 😊

@katl3892

8 ай бұрын

I don't believe it's true.

@candicevaughn4027

8 ай бұрын

I don't think it's just a "fun personality." I've never seen a successful middle aged man with a 200+lbs 20 something. Also, young women are more fun and carefree because they are naive (which can be a good trait) because they haven't been around long enough to be burned over and over my selfish men. Generally, it's the men in our lives and how they treat us that push the middle aged woman away. It's our experiences with them.

@emmahedgecock7091

6 ай бұрын

I used to feel super insecure when I was 24 and barely a server (ok, I wasn’t a server. I worked in a restaurant but I uh ran drinks for the bar because they didn’t think I was a good server yet). I got with a 39 year old guy who had a career and I was so embarrassed. Now I’m like wow I was fun, that guy was lucky! I was lucky too. I had a lot of fun with him. But wish I could go and shake a lot of young woman and tell them their value. I think it’s easy to be insecure when you’re not established in the world (which, naturally yoj probably won’t be compared to someone older). I think one thing younger people innately have is a kindness. Like wait your boss is mad at you? Why does that matter? If they’re being mean that’s not nice! You’re cool it shouldn’t bother you. It totally makes sense why someone with a hosue, kids, and career would be worried about a possible career threat. It would be almost insulting if a man opened up and his wife said, “Why are you worried about that?” I think naturally they can provide more support and comfort, while someone with less life experience might remind them that it’s not the end of the world! In more of a why does that even matter, this is planet earth, who cares some dude is mad at you, where as someone older is more likely to have a comforting it’s ok, I’m here for you and understand why you’re worried but I have your back. They’re both good. I’m glad you’re marriage is getting even happier! I hope to have the balance. I think it’s unlikely I will ever be as carefree as I was when I was younger. To be so would almost be irresponsible. But I hope I can channel it into the areas it matters, keep the attitude that over all that is not a big deal! It’s ok to worry, but in the grand scheme of things it’s all ok, yet still bring that grounding kind of comfort that comes from understanding why things are important, why some things are serious, why people not be happy all the time, and still offering support and a positive view of your life is way bigger than this chapter and it will all be ok. 🖤 I liked reading your comment it made me happy

@lumity238

6 ай бұрын

So True ... 😊

When my husband and I started dating we went out, had lots fun, kissed and said good night. We dated for 11 months before we were married and did not have sex before we were married. He wanted to wait and I was not going to fall into that trap again of giving a guy what he wanted before he married me. We understood each other from the start. We started dating near the end of November and got married the following November after dating for 11 months. We’ve now been married for 35 years and are still madly in love with each other, have 3 great kids who are also married! We’ve showed them what it takes to make a marriage work so hopefully they’ll take those lessons to heart. I can’t wait to spend at least another 20-30 years together! We’re 64 now so hopefully will it make at least another 20!

@magoolamiriam2760

10 ай бұрын

I tap into that Blessings to date my future hubby and have sex when married.

@peggyleach1610

10 ай бұрын

Awesome story

@pammieramsey8525

9 ай бұрын

You two are so blessed to have one another!

@violatanui9896

9 ай бұрын

@@pammieramsey8525 is this even real😱...we are barely 5years in marriage and it's hectic I feel like it's gonna end tomorrow....what's the secret for long lasting marriage

@dsiepiela6449

9 ай бұрын

Sex before marriage is not a trap. It fun and educational. I pity the people who find out after marriage that they are not sexually compatible. But in some religions, that doesn’t matter as long as the man is satisfied.

Isn’t it sad that we lost the concept of how to be in a healthy relationship; we have to watch videos and read books and sign up for online courses. And of course there are so many different opinions on “how to win the man”, “how to keep the man”-Why can’t we just be honest, genuine and if we like or love someone, let them know and show them? Why does it have to be so complicated?

@sca7068

2 жыл бұрын

Omg I feel that Shelly!!!

@chambriayarbrough3289

2 жыл бұрын

As I have heard it said; "it's a game!" Also, "the difference between men and boys are the price of their toys!" In this video, Matt confirms the "fun addiction"! Women become and remain too serious! Too serious far too often and long! We feel safe, secure and guarded----which isn't carefree, relaxed and lose! We as women need to learn to be all of the above; when it's time too be! How more relaxed; more carefree and just flow with the guy or lead with fun!

@daniellefristoe7170

2 жыл бұрын

It's smart to research these things not sad. It's not like they teach us anything in school. It's worth doing the work so get busy!!

@LisaGemini

2 жыл бұрын

@@chambriayarbrough3289 With all due respect, I meet a lot of men who are not fun at all. They are stressed out and have no sense of humor. I am funny and fun but cannot seem to find a similar guy. Everyone acts too serious all the damn time.

@belindamalgas1945

2 жыл бұрын

So true

2:00 - 1) It feels good. You’re fun to be with. 4:00 - 2) Investment. People value relationships they’ve invested in. 5:58 - 3) Reward for doing something nice for you or a variable, spontaneous reward. Emotional rewards, validation, appreciation.

@barbaracartwright468

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks

@dawnwatson2209

2 жыл бұрын

Thankyou

@mandylebouef4368

2 жыл бұрын

You are the best thanks so much for this.

@PlayToTeachSpeech

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@amaj_lex

2 жыл бұрын

Lmao thank u

My beautiful Husband of 33 years, died of cancer, almost 2 years ago. Watching this video just reminded me why every single day of that marriage was so happy. We somehow managed to fill all 3 of these criteria, without even knowing it. This man knows exactly what he’s talking about.

@nana2five790

Жыл бұрын

Sorry for your loss- what great memories you have- ❤️

@ayuravagni6826

Жыл бұрын

Sorry for your lost. sending hugs 🤗🤗🤗

@jacquelinefaye9669

Жыл бұрын

@@ayuravagni6826 ❤️

@kimgordon3695

Жыл бұрын

😥🙋💞 Revelation 21 : 3-6 offers hope

@lorisimons1852

Жыл бұрын

Unless your husband was any kind of narcissist

I had a boyfriend in the past where while we were waiting for public transportation when meeting up after we both got off work one day…he kissed me sweetly and I went limp in his arms as if I fainted because of his kiss. He fell right into character and called my name as if to “awaken” me. Then I sprang up…we both started laughing as well as other people who witnessed our sillyness. That was just one fun time I can think of.

@bridgettedy3957

Жыл бұрын

Hahahaha i laughed at this! 😂Will do this if i have a bf 😂

To all single people out there who are also believers, ask God to write your love story... He is the author of Love... First ask Him to heal you of your childhood hurts and insecurities, to help you be the right person... And then see the miracle unfolding... 🙏

@reni0908

Жыл бұрын

@Alice my dear, I am not desperate for a man, nobody should be... That's the reason so many are in unhealthy relationships and find it difficult to break unholy patterns... I am the child of the most High God who gives good things to his children, in His time...

@repentjesusiscomingsoon1529

Жыл бұрын

@@reni0908 Amen, well said!!!!

@ellenkno5233

7 күн бұрын

Amen. After my husband passed, I told God I wasn't looking for anyone. If HE had a plan for me that included a man, He would have to drop him in my lap. And 3 years later, he did. God is so good.

I encourage my man to follow his dreams. That is my way of keeping him into me. He wants to fly. I ask him flying questions, he becomes so animated, He has a flight simulator, I suggest he takes a night for himself to practice. He looked into going to finish his lessons to earn his license. He treats me so wonderfully, that is my way of saying, I value you and I want your happiness to be complete.

@ln8896

2 жыл бұрын

You go girl!! That's the way!!

@SanctifiedLady

2 жыл бұрын

I do this too! He feels safe to tell me what he does or doesn’t want when he may not tell his friends

@modupeadewale425

2 жыл бұрын

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@modupeadewale425

2 жыл бұрын

Whatsapp him for help

@MariaDiaz-ri8hh

2 жыл бұрын

The thing that holds my guy close to me, is support. It's easy to support him thru easy times, but if you can step up and show him you'll be there to support him thru the bad, even if it's taking him out for a few beers and pool, his favorite songs on the jukebox, maybe even kareoke, dancing, to just being there for advice or a cuddle. That means alot to a guy to know she can be his rock when he needs it.

I’ve been married for over 50 yrs to a man that crushed me and destroyed the love I had for him. I could never get out. The man you date isn’t the man you marry.

@sandymcleodlivingston3640

Жыл бұрын

Amen to that

@sandradube4456

Жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry😢

@ChocolatePheonix

11 ай бұрын

:( I'm so sorry

@steph4922

9 ай бұрын

That's very sad. Try to find it if he's just a bad person or did something happen. Sometimes it takes 2. Not just one person is in the wrong. Sometimes it's true, the man is bad.

@MichaelThomsa

8 ай бұрын

Am finding for real relationship

I can rambert, must be at least 30 years ago, my husband said, " Oh I love your company , I love being with you " it was so wonderful to hear and I've never forgotten it .

My mantra is to 1) Make him laugh 2) Thank him 3) Encourage him 4) Tell him how handsome, intelligent and fabulous he is and 5) Make memories together As a woman, as much as I would like to mention all I'm thinking of, I think it best to not go on and on with negativity and insecurities. Time is so much better spent with a positive attitude. This is not to say that I don't communicate with my Beloved in tough times. I just try to keep a balance. In the end, it brings pleasure with no ending to see him happy and feel myself protected, wanted and loved. Luv Ya Mat and your lovely wife !! :)

@sonariorigoni1669

2 жыл бұрын

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@sonariorigoni1669

2 жыл бұрын

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@MKD-dd6ng

2 жыл бұрын

Agree with these five, 100%!!! 🙂

@angelaelwell4507

2 жыл бұрын

I learn to say great great great whenever my husband called and asked how things were going!

@stacyr4768

2 жыл бұрын

@@MKD-dd6ng How do you “make,” someone laugh ? When people try to be funny it’s annoying.

Hehe. So like a puppy. You play with him (fun), then you teach him some tricks (how he should treat you) and then he gets a treat. After the treat you repeat the cycle! How simple! Thank you 🙏🏻

@linnie14

5 ай бұрын

OMG. "A puppy" made me laugh. Thank you.

@juliemahfood8298

3 ай бұрын

Had the exact same thought! Except I didn’t think puppy 😂 I thought: OMG they’re exactly like dogs!

@noidea1712

2 ай бұрын

Yeh most of them need training 😅

@elbo55

2 ай бұрын

​@@juliemahfood8298 There's a 60s movie with Sandra Dee and Bobby Darrin (If a Man Answers) that has training a man as you would a dog as its plot!

@mariloutank6195

2 ай бұрын

Had the same thoughts indeed. I would say just like a dog the way my partner wants to be treated but I will try train him😅

1. It feels good 2. Investment 3. (Variable) Awards

Nope … my husband did not say he wanted to feel “fun” … he said he wanted to feel “good,” “companionship” and “calm.” And totally yes to the validation, compliments and rewards!!

@MichaelThomsa

8 ай бұрын

Am finding for real relationship

Your channel indeed changed my life. After watched all your videos, I understood how to love and appreciate a man. I met the one I’ve been looking for in my past 30 years, and after only 7 months, we got our marriage license today. Thank you so much, you changed my life.

@eleanyaalexander668

2 жыл бұрын

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@eleanyaalexander668

2 жыл бұрын

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@wendyladybug355laurie4

2 жыл бұрын

Many PRAYER'SNLUV,May God Bless Your Marriage 👼👼💝💝✝️✝️🙏🙏

@georgeanny6519

Жыл бұрын

Congratulations 🍾🥂

@phyllisbennett9950

11 ай бұрын

Nowadays, one sure sign this man has secrets, ask him if he would like to look at your mobile phone ,and, you, look at his !. If he even hesitates he has a hidden phone, or, if he gets angry, then he will or is, cheating. It is a quick way to find out, and, not get hurt by him This obviously goes for women as well, let us not forget that !. Good luck in your lives, that you find a good faithful and loving partner, there are some people who won't chest on their loved ones, how wonderful is that.

So - how do you explain a man who asks to marry you on the first date without so much as hand holding? Yep. No lie. First date. That was almost 60 years ago. Yep. Love at first sight is real and can last a lifetime.

@SashaSamara

Жыл бұрын

That is beautil, if it is right, it's really gonna last.

@mekdishotekuame5623

Жыл бұрын

It depends on the situation

@shalinimalickal1182

Жыл бұрын

I had that experience too

@laurawalker546

Жыл бұрын

Amazing ❤

@SueSletto

Жыл бұрын

I have had that happen to me just the past ten days. Amazing and scary at the same time. And it’s so very exciting.

Thank you for sharing this! I literally texted my husband after this video because I want him to feel cared about. He's at work and has been pulling our weight in bills and stuff lately because I've been sick. I texted him that I appreciated the things he has been doing lately for us and that I'm so grateful he stepped up while I've been out of work. He called me within minutes and said how that made him feel so appreciated. I could tell it really made him feel cared about. I think maybe I've been doing things wrong with how I communicate with him lately, so it was nice being reminded that they operate differently and that I need to be a little more fun, less stressful to be around and to make him feel loved back.

@V.Hansen.

Жыл бұрын

That’s beautiful. I’m wondering if you’ve turned up the fun and how it went.

@julie2673

Жыл бұрын

It sounds like your husbands love language is affirmation. Have you read the book, the Five Love Languages? It’s been helpful to me in our marriage as well as other relationships.

@MichaelThomsa

8 ай бұрын

Am finding for real relationship

#1 fun conversation #2 genuine compliments #3 knowing that I genuinely care for him as a person #4 knowing that I respect and value him, including his opinions. #5 knowing that we really are on the same page with how a relationship should flow

@joycehogg6180

Жыл бұрын

9lll

I just went on a date and it’s funny my date asked me what makes me the happiest and I said feeling secure and being able to enjoy the things I love to do and my date said being with someone that he can have fun and enjoy their company with makes him happy.

Never, ever, live by your feelings.. feelings change daily. Live by commitment.

Whatever happened to just be yourself and if they like you they like you and if they don’t they don’t 🤷‍♀️

Did all this. 8 yrs later I am getting divorced. I understand that a foundation is needed in order to build. The best thing I would encourage women to do is to seek mutual relationships and always be forward with your communication.

@auberjean6873

10 ай бұрын

I'm sorry, yet happy, for your loss. Perhaps you will find a man who appreciates you more this time. The more he works for it, the more he will try. If you wouldn't let a friend treat you that way, don't let him. Trust your gut! Good luck!

@mariahhinderager1827

9 ай бұрын

And don’t waste time with men who don’t have the capacity to love anyone but themselves. You were probably with an abuser.

@shashirekhakamle4655

8 ай бұрын

True. Self love is also important.

@MichaelThomsa

8 ай бұрын

Am finding for real relationship

Just being more easy going and having fun instead of worrying about where the relationship is going has helped a lot

I discovered they want to be with me: - My looks - My personality - My charm - My ambition & independence - My intelligence 🤓 - My sympathetic & how protective of the ppl who deserve - Diplomatic I am And other stuff..!!

1) Fun - The more fun you're creating the more fun you're having together the more likely he'll become addicted to that experience because the better it'll feel! So life giving, light hearted, expansive, avoid drama, depressive, heavy, critical topics. Create Joy, laughter 2) Investment - We value what we put effort into. Holding standards.

Hey, Mat...When you suggested setting standards, it sounds like the "playing hard to get" tactic. I must have done that with my husband the first time he asked me to have dinner with him, which also was our "first date". Since we were basically strangers, I was feeling a bit leery about getting in a car with a man I did not know. For all I knew, he could have been Jack the Ripper. So, being able to trust him was definitely an issue. To help overcome my fear, I told him that I would agree to have dinner with him, but only if I could bring my best friend along. She was older and more experienced than me when it came to dating men. I was just 19 and she was 24. Plus, she carried a gun in her purse and knew how to shoot it. But, as it turned out, I ended up going without her. After I had conveyed my safety concerns to "the strange man", it must have pushed his "macho button", like he must prove to me that I had nothing to fear and that he would protect me. And after listening to you talk about setting standards, he must have thought, "Wow, this chick is not going to let me get away with anything bad, so I better be on my best behavior." And he most definitely was. He opened doors for me and pulled my chair out for me as we reached the table at the restaurant. He insisted that I order first. He had me home before midnight (the curfew my mom had set for me). All in all, he acted like a true gentleman. At first, I wondered if I had scared him into not asking me out again, but little did I know at the time that he loved the fact that I wasn't going to be an easy catch (because of those standards you mentioned). He was a hunter for sure, now that I think back on it. I even told him I didn't want to even think about getting married until I was 30 or something. Well, let me tell you I couldn't have beat him away with a baseball bat after that, because, as his friends put it, he was a confirmed bachelor. LOL Now, after 51 years, he swears I was the one who caught him. 😆 Mmmmm....maybe he's gotten a little smarter in his old age. Hahahaha

@MichaelThomsa

8 ай бұрын

Am finding for real relationship

I'm older than some ladies, but I highly suggest for all women, young or mature, to be alright with being alone. No one will be happy to meet all your needed, so you better enjoy your own company.

I'm in the process of making my relationship. Not letting him go. We both actively speak out truth. Best thing ever.

1. Dial up fun to dial up desire ...ignite fun to feel good 2. Invite a man to invest in you, to earn your time/neg through setting standards for him to achieve value you 3. Reward your man thru validation and appreciation , telling him you make me melt when I'm in your arms, you're amazing

@abigealmayowa1001

2 жыл бұрын

l know of a manl who helped me bring my ex back he can also help you just as he did mine, he does a perfect work l' m assuring you, you gonna testify....

@abigealmayowa1001

2 жыл бұрын

Wha'tsapp him for help...

@casperinsight3524

2 жыл бұрын

Seriously ?!? Spam bots are everywhere

I agree with this guy entirely. Positive attitude, having a good laugh, encouragement, gratefulness, appreciation, are essential to every relationship and from both sides.

There isnt a single day in our home that goes without laughters. We dont have kids or pets. Just the two of us and our daily laughters together. I love you amor ❤️

As an aspiring KZreadr myself, I just wanted to say thank you for bringing us all on this journey with you. It’s videos like this that keep me inspired to create every day ☺️

Encouragement: I let him know how amazing he is at his job. How he knows his stuff and has confidence in what he does. Fun:. I make him laugh as often as I can. Playing or teasing him with certain differences, since he is Polish and I am American. Well they say men wear stockings. I had a field day with that, which he laughed over and came out with the sentence I always want to hear, "What am I going to do with you?" And my response is always, "Love me forever " I have realized through life experience, life is to short to not enjoy each moment, so I make the best out of them, and this has allowed him to crawl out of his past experience and enjoy them with me. I can relate to these three behaviors and they work. Loving someone with your heart and soul allows this to happen and it works so well.

@LoveLove-hf3jr

2 жыл бұрын

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@LoveLove-hf3jr

2 жыл бұрын

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@blackbeardsdaughter2613

2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful comment, Michelle S. I completely agree with you. You are spot on. I love that phrase "What am I going to do with you?" in jest. Absolutely precious! :)

@joannaaltena8174

2 жыл бұрын

I co ja mam z tobą zrobić? ;) That's your sentence in Polish ☺️

@richardsmith7696

2 жыл бұрын

@@joannaaltena8174 Hi Joanna, it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Richard by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends??

This is one of the best channels for good, sound, sane, relationship advice that I've come across.

sounds great. this channel proved some real stuff. the same as my sister's trick about enahncers such as spanish fly which is according to her super easy to use + relieve stress and boost energy. (in fact i tried it as well and it's great, even my partner loves me more now)

These are three very enlightening tips. Being three hours apart, my guy and I see each other every ten days or two weeks. Absence does make our hearts grow fonder. We met through Facebook dating and exchanged phone numbers right away. We texted and called each other for eight months before meeting in person. While on the phone we each “took the other person along” by vividly describing where he or I was going or what each one was doing. I feel very connected to him and I think he feels the same way.

Listening to this made me smile because all of the three points are what I gave and still give in my relationship with my husband. I suppose I watched this to get reassurance of my relationship. My husband rarely expresses his love in words, and when he is quiet I feel uncomfortable cos I have been trained and socialized that when someone loves you he should tell you. However I have been with my husband for 10 years and he is with me all the time, we enjoy each others presence and without verbalising we are each others security blankets. Listening to those three points it reminds me he is addicted(in a good way) to being with me, without saying a word cos I am his fun element, I have always had standards and I throw rewards at him. Thanks for reminding me that I am loved. ❤️

When we work towards a life goal together..and that life goal means a lot to both of us individually..i feel the bond gets tighter. (For eg: studying for a very important exam.) We were going to work on that goal anyway..but now there is a partner who has the same vision and is as passionate as you about that goal! So when we work together, the results increase many fold! The best feeling..and feels like a blessing to both.

Matt, i just love watching your videos. You speak with so much wisdom and honesty, I've begun to apply the things you recommend. Thank you for starting this channel 💖

My man told me in the beginning that he wanted to feel appreciated. What a simply desire and easy to fulfill in my eyes. Gratitude goes a looooong way! Verbal rewards are very important absolutely work in our relationship

@MichaelThomsa

8 ай бұрын

Am finding for real relationship

Thank you! I love your advice! It inspires me to try again and do better❤️

Its always good to express your gratitude to your man, it strokes his ego, makes him feel good!

I have discovered that by supporting his time with his male friends ; hunting, working out, playing sports, etc; that our time together is going to be more enjoying and not rushed. We love taking trips and being around nature and each other.

For me, if I like a girl, I'd let her know in person and just tell her how beautiful her smile is, how much I like her positive energy or something else that I thought would made her special to me. Hey I'm old school and believe it or not, it worked well for me and I'm not a very good looking dude like James Bond 007...best of luck to all ;)

I've watched a lot of your videos and I don't think you know how much you've raised young ladies self worth and young men have more respect for women. You are a leader in healthy relationships which equates to a new healthy society. Tell your wife you didn't pay me to say that! LOL God bless you man! 😊💕🌎

Thank you so much, Matt, I can’t tell you how much I needed this video today! Love your content so much. Bless y’all

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Six years! And still no commitment?

You said it right being positive and fun is what keeps him coming back for more! And yes we have to always remember to acknowledge him and validate him and respect him!

I Don’t want any man to be addicted to me!!! I want a man to be faithful and to love me.

When i'm with him I make sure he sees that I am happy around him all the time, which makes him happy and we always compliment each other and laugh around and talk a lot, we always have our phones down when we're together. Also, side note. always lean into him closer while talking, sitting, etc. It's psychological, and he loves that

I think you essentially mentioned it but for me, I’ve found that owning your personal time and encouraging him to have his, helps both of us in wanting to spend that quality time together. The old adage, ‘absence makes the heart grow fonder’ holds some weight. Self-care in a relationship and acknowledging the importance of his self-care, speaks volumes about your willingness to sacrifice some time with him, to make sure he is taking care of himself. ♥️

Well said Mat. Thank you for saying it out loud. The formula is quite simple. however like anything else worth doing, changing our behavior can seem difficult. It works ladies and gentlemen. Listen to this man. Wisdom! It's addictive.

My cooking used to give my man some wow moments and he said it made him feel special knowing I made the dish especially for him, for forty seven years. He loved the way I incorporated his favourite smells and tastes and made enough only for him. His special dishes are still in my recipe book. Sadly I don’t cook them anymore, the angels cook for him now.

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4 ай бұрын

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3 ай бұрын

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Hi Mat! I love your tips. Thanks. To answer your question, I try to think of my husband's needs. For example, if he has been on his feet all day, I'll lotion up his dry feet and give him a feet massage (without him asking). I notice it relaxes him right away. Seeing him relaxed like that pleases my heart too.

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8 ай бұрын

Am finding for real relationship

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Be happy, genuinely smile a lot, make short eye contact to give him emotional space.

Definitely need to practice these three beautiful behaviors in order to have a beautiful relationship. Thank you Mat for this beautiful one u done for us 😀

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2 жыл бұрын

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Thank you so much for sharing good ideas about relationship

Grateful as I’ve learned a lot from your video, really helpful content. Keep it up. Thanks a lot.

Every word you said is so true and so accurate.. the key to any relationship is definitely fun aspect and quality investment cause nowadays time is money 👌🏻

This advice is applicable to non-toxic people. Toxic & dangerous people like narcisssists, sociopaths, dark empathy & psychopaths are very good at mimicking these 3 behavioural advice here, usually by first reeling you in with their sob stories that may not be 100% true, just to test your empathy level. They need you to be empathetic so that they can get away with bad behaviour in the future. However, their acting last a few weeks/months only. You know you got a rotten apple in your hands when toxic people throw tantrums at you if they don't get their rewards/demands fulfilled from you a.s.a.p.

@rebeccaliew2247

Жыл бұрын

@Anna some exes - especially narcisssistic abusers - are not worth going back to. The pain they'll do in the future, is just a repeat cycle they did to you before & now. They are good at promising things you want to hear but they don't intend keep/fulfill it for long. So thanks, but no thanks.

Sincere compliment works everytime!

wow this was very helpful! thank you!

I do all these things naturally. If a man is not invested these things will not matter. They will want you to keep pouring them on and take. But if a man cannot reciprocate ...your in for heartache.

@Shyamazha

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely true. If the intentions are not true and if the person is an idiot, of course, it doesn’t matter who you are. A psychopath or a serial killer or a narcissist doesn’t value anything. In fact they’ll start using and taking and taking everything you give, and play mind games, and treat you like an option. Those a shitty people. I guess, this guy here is talking about men with integrity. Don’t even try them with those that have no standards, or those whose standards are selfish.

One thing I have done as a variable award, is put a thank you card, as well as gift card for a coffee shop, in a male co workers locker to thank him for everything he does, and to thank him for protecting me.

You’re awesome! Thank you for your great advice!

I appreciate all of Mat's insights AND being able to fully immerse myself in the content with zero ads/commercials..really keeps the flow. Thank you Mat 👏

@JonhAbel

9 ай бұрын

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@MichaelThomsa

8 ай бұрын

Am finding for real relationship

Thank you, my standards are high and I don’t like being pressured into a physical relationship. I always had fun with my husband. Yes I agree with the psychological rewards, being kind works as well .👍

I really appreciate your videos and I like when you share statements we can say to inspire, motivate and show our men appreciation. It’s awesome. Thank you so much.

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2 жыл бұрын

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Honesty being honest with him, I haven’t met him yet, but I love him so much

I love how healthy all your advice is. How to be a high quality partner and work your strengths to become your best version, rather than manipulate someone to get them in a relationship I see way too often. Thanks for the amazing videos Matt, I've been a fan for years!

@MichaelThomsa

8 ай бұрын

Am finding for real relationship

I try to do these three things. Two have become second nature now. One has not. It requires more thought. Working on it. 1. It feels good. Fun.... 2. Investment. Holding standards. 3. Rewards or variable rewards. I love my bf to bits, but he's a workaholic. I understand why, to provide for us in future. We are middle-aged soo we have to look ahead. But I wish I could get him to work a bit less and spend more time with me. I know he's addicted to me or he wouldn't be with me. 😊❤

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2 жыл бұрын

@ rezotydnic He isn’t work for you, you are just the girlfriend that keeps his life together for him while he works for the still unknown woman he is going to marry.

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2 жыл бұрын

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Wow!! Do really love this, gentle but tipsy

These were good, easy, especially correct comments. Great vid.

Mat, thank you what you do! Great advices 💚 I am wishing all the best to you and your family 🍀

Celebrate every precious moment with him.....don't take him for granted....be his escape from the mundane.....have fun and be playful.....

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2 жыл бұрын

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"Be happy" is so true. My husband (13 years and three boys later) had told me before that I always look prettier when we are on holiday. He might be joking but it could be true as I always feel much cheerful and happy during holiday.

@inspirations9552

2 жыл бұрын

So more holidays and getaways. Stress is not good for anything

I've been married since 1998 at the age of 18. I have lovely daughter age 23 now. I broke up my husband twice. But because of what i've learned from your video' s he comeback to me. He said , i'm different from other woman that he have relationship.

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Thank you for your sharing information.

Thank you!! So heart opening!!

I agree with you definitely that a little encouragement works wonders.giving him space and laughing at his mistakes also makes him depend on you for emotional support.

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Humor - laughter brings joy and lightens life up

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2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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Thank you so much for this helpful information ❤

Thank you Matt! I appreciate your on point expertise!

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So much value in one video 👍🏻

I find all your advice so perfect.

Great content!! My sweety and I try to keep the field of goodwill super charged so we both feel good. We do this with a shared daily gratitude practice and sharing validation. When times get tense this practice can help us sail through challenges with more grace and ease.

I was told I make him feel like a man when he’s with me because I’m so feminine. He loves spending time with me mainly for that reason.

This blew my mind 🎉 Very interesting!! Easy to enact. It's a simple start.