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  • @user-lb6mj4xg2h
    @user-lb6mj4xg2h5 ай бұрын

    I like watching your videos, because you have a no nonsense, positive attitude about the challenges you face in life. I've worn diapers for the better part of my life and sometimes I'm confident about wearing them and sometimes I'm not. I love that you don't let people tell you who you should be. Be you and keep up the great videos!

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    5 ай бұрын

    Aweee!! Sometimes we have to do what we have ti do and there’s nothing wrong with that! 🖤🖤🖤

  • @petecunnien5368
    @petecunnien53686 ай бұрын

    Another awesome video Pree!! It’s amazing how people put others in there own box and are so blind to others reality that they are just ignorant to the possibility of there happiness being different to theirs. You are such a wonderful soul and I respect you immensely ♥️♥️

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    Thank you! 🖤🖤 Gah your comment was so relatable because having to deal with ignorant people in person gets on my nerve 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @andylarsen3254
    @andylarsen32546 ай бұрын

    Awesome video, thank you for being so open and honest. I’ve struggled with incontinence for most of my life, and due to a spinal injury I’ve struggled with mobility issues for the last 6 or 7 years. There are days where I feel like I’m regressing in my abilities, where I feel like I’m not where I should be. But in watching your videos I feel like I’m not so alone in this, and that I’m not the only one. So thank you for doing what you do!

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    Awe thanks! It’s still so crazy to me how injuries can cause incontinence too! You’re definitely not alone in this and I’m always here if you need someone to talk to, just send me a message on Instagram! 🖤

  • @laratannir655
    @laratannir6556 ай бұрын

    I love how you made a very hard topic to talk about interesting and added a sense of humor to it! YOU ARE AMAZING! 💜💜

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    Aweee thank you and so are you!!!!!!💜💜

  • @QViceroy
    @QViceroy6 ай бұрын

    This was a great video, Pree! It's okay to not feel like being an AB/DL. Labels are whatever we need them to be. I love the way you got into gross motor skills and what they mean for you. There's a lot to think about! I have so much respect for the work you put into these chats.

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    🖤🖤

  • @bobharris5670
    @bobharris56706 ай бұрын

    Great video. I love the subject matter, and the fact that you produce great videos is a huge bonus

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    Awe! 🖤

  • @Rachel-ls3ln
    @Rachel-ls3ln6 ай бұрын

    Perfectly said. You really hit the subjects with such great understanding and openness.

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    🖤🖤

  • @dprboy
    @dprboy6 ай бұрын

    I love your attitude toward life. You are absolutely correct that there are many people who feel sad and have attitude and have no real reason to be that way. I think your attitude is wonderful! Despite what you have been dealt, you maintain a great outlook. I know there are times where it is wearing on. you and that it is frustrating. MS doesn't allow you to do a number of things, but you could easily be a motivational speaker and really, through your videos, you are a motivational speaker. Hugs to you! I will look forward to your next video!

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    Awe! I mean, to each their own. I understand how hard it can be going through problems with your health. I’ve thought about motivational speaking because it would make me feel so happy helping others mentally! 🖤

  • @Chris-tb1er
    @Chris-tb1er5 ай бұрын

    Pree Another Great Video ! I understand how much harder things are for you, but I love how you manage to overcome and battle through ! I think your just Such an Amazing Person ! Keep on playing the cards your dealt and with your attitude you can do anything you want ! Big Hugs to you 🤗🤗 and I’m going to keep on Enjoying your videos ! Sending you lots of Love 🖤🖤🖤🖤🌺🌸🤗

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    5 ай бұрын

    🃏🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤

  • @federicovailati4545
    @federicovailati45456 ай бұрын

    Another great video Pree! In the segment at 4: 06 - 5:00 You literally verbalized my onlook on life and thoughts on diapers and disability so eloquently! Enjoy the rest of your weekend! 🖤😊

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    Awe thanks! I hope you enjoy the rest of your weekend too! 🖤

  • @BadgerOne
    @BadgerOne6 ай бұрын

    love your openness and posts. thank you for sharing

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    🖤

  • @christopherables4235
    @christopherables42356 ай бұрын

    Pree, thank you. I was 34 when a tool-bag fell on my head at work that left me with a TBI and ruptured two discs in my neck. I've got issues all up and down my spine- the 2-level ACDF and two lumbar discectomies as well as a spondylolisthesis. My neurogenic bladder & bowel incontinence is complicated by the range of injuries I've had, and my symptoms are not exactly textbook. That being said, I am VERY thankful for the AB/DL community - they have pushed the adult diaper companies in the right direction. When I first had to live with having accidents, the products available were so inferior to what's available today it's not even funny. It's not even been 20 years and the evolution of adult diapers has been mind-blowing! There are amazingly absorbent and good-fitting diapers for every mood and occasion! We can choose from so many designs, styles, prints, thicknesses, absorbencies, ... and are able to mix & match differently every time we change! Am I someone finding themselves somewhere on the AB/DL spectrum? Yes. Has my "take" on where I'm at changed? Heh, only every 5 minutes, some days! While I'm definitely more on the DL side almost all of the time, I appreciate how friggin' adorable the AB side can be, and I'm very grateful they're around! Each individual has their preferences and we live in a world large enough for ALL of us :)

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing this and that sounds horrible! 🥺 It’s still so crazy to me how injuries cause incontinence too . The Ab/DL community have been so genuine with me so far and the confidence I have today with wearing diapers, wouldn’t had been there had it not been for them.

  • @christopherables4235

    @christopherables4235

    6 ай бұрын

    @@BumblePree Incontinence isn't the only thing we deal with, is it.... Some of your videos address the other things we live with every day. The things we don't always talk about, the things that kinda don't seem "as important" or noteworthy as needing diapers again. Yes, incontinence has a huge impact on our lives but I'd argue that if we add up all the other things (I'm thinking of our sense of balance, aches and pains, numbness, accidental cuts and bruises, danger of infections, vision problems, walking over rough/uneven surfaces...) and all the mental-health problems (my main one is feeling totally unworthy of time or attention yet still deeply desiring them) that *all* of these can cause... methinks choosing which diapers to wear is probably the easiest and most comfortable thing I do every day. You're amazing, and I'm thankful you're sharing so many different aspects of your journey with us! Take care and best wishes :)

  • @joshuabagwell6695
    @joshuabagwell66956 ай бұрын

    What you want to do with your life. All i care about is what's in your heart. As long as you're kind to others and don't hurt people that's all i see. Pree we need more people like win this world

  • @missmuffinmouse
    @missmuffinmouse6 ай бұрын

    I love this. Even though I don't experience the same as yours, this helps me accept my own health condition.

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    Aweee !!!🙌🏽🖤🖤🖤

  • @theblindredneck747
    @theblindredneck7476 ай бұрын

    Great video. I enjoy the wide range of disability topics you cover.

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    🖤🖤

  • @anacnogueira9365
    @anacnogueira93656 ай бұрын

    I can feel what you said. Part of what you talked i pass through and i know and the other part (mobility/mental dificulties)i can imagine how hard is this whole situation. As a adult bedwetter i can feel this infantilizing sensation. I stopped once in late 18's with my young brothers and sisters stopping too much earlier than me and making fun of me a lot of times, it was a horrible times. I only wore protection as a baby/toddler like everybody in my family. But i'm the only one who the issue continued and with 22, the problem came back (in my BF's home, the worst possible place) without stopping, everyday. So, he bought me a pack of adult pullups and at first, it was a very hard decision to do, but the accidents embarrassment talked louder and i decided to wear protection then. Feeling like i have 4 years old in that first attemps. So, the time passed and i felt more safe to do without worries and giving to myself a huge peace in mind because accidents made me feel disturbed after wake up with everything dirty and uncomfortable. I've improved my life quality and my mental health with an easy solution and today, i feel myself more strong taking my own decisions. I hope everything get better with you, you are a warrior.

  • @DLCoates1
    @DLCoates16 ай бұрын

    Lol the intro cracked me up! 😂 Honestly, I have to agree with you Pree. People are so quick to judge these days. I for example suffer from stress induced OAB, and AuDHD. So when my OAB kicks in, combined with the sensitivity issues and the child like nature of being autistic, people also judge or assume I’m ABDL. I definitely am a DL, however I’m not an AB. Just remember though to keep doing you and what makes you happy. And don’t be afraid to give others a polite reminder why they call it an “assumption”. Plus let’s be honest roasting people for trying to bully you can be so satisfying at times.

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    Lmao! 🙊 People always have something to say but we just got to keep it moving and have thick skin! 🖤🖤🖤

  • @ashokpatel8338
    @ashokpatel83386 ай бұрын

    Nice one Pree truffle and honest, as long as you are confident and NOT bothered about what people are saying THEN WHY CHANGE, adapt and carry on " POKER FACE"

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    🙊🖤

  • @toygeekasaurus
    @toygeekasaurus6 ай бұрын

    Great video 🖤🖤🖤 I think it all comes down to self love 🖤🖤🖤 Just loving yourself as you are 🖤🖤🖤 I hope you are doing well 🖤🖤🖤

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    Awe thanks and 100%!! I’m doing good and I hope you are too! 🖤

  • @toygeekasaurus

    @toygeekasaurus

    6 ай бұрын

    @@BumblePree I am doing good 🖤🖤🖤

  • @maidjadeanne2070
    @maidjadeanne20706 ай бұрын

    Pree, Your video really hit close to home for me. Just a couple of days ago, one of my cousins passed away at age 85. She was in her 30s when she almost died from a malignant tumor at the base of her spine that left her paralyzed from the waist down. She eventually learned to walk again with use of leg braces and kept keeping on with her husband and three daughters. Although she didn't go back to her previous job as an elementary school art teacher, she was very active in her children's education (all of them have college educations, professional careers, and families of their own). She was dealt a bad hand but still kept going forward, adapting as she had to. I try my best to be helpful to people, and if it's more than just holding a door open, I ask when offering assistance. I tr to have patience and give people the benefit of doubt because they could be affected with conditions which aren't visible to me. I'm now in my 70s and some of my ancestors conditions are starting to catch up with me. I hope that people have a bit of patience if I'm not as mobile as a teenager.

  • @ficklekid_ed86
    @ficklekid_ed866 ай бұрын

    Love ya Pree

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    Awe thanks! 🖤

  • @ficklekid_ed86

    @ficklekid_ed86

    6 ай бұрын

    @@BumblePree you're welcome, let's rock our diapers proudly 💜

  • @johnweaver311
    @johnweaver3115 ай бұрын

    Your confidence is amazing! Very inspiring two-year-old lol. And if you’re ever feeling down, at least you don’t poop your pants.

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    5 ай бұрын

    🙈 and so that’s why diapers work out perfect for me!

  • @johnweaver311

    @johnweaver311

    5 ай бұрын

    @@BumblePree Girl, same! Got a weak bladder myself. Pull-ups are just a pain to change.

  • @johnweaver311

    @johnweaver311

    5 ай бұрын

    @@BumblePree If I may ask, and if you already answered in a previous video I apologize, but what’s been your favorite diaper that you’ve tried?

  • @mikepence7716
    @mikepence77166 ай бұрын

    Hi Pree ! I am an older man with cerebral palsy and I’m a lifelong DL. I liked what you said about crawling. I am able to walk with crutches but for a very long time I crawled on my hands and knees because it was easier and safer and I could actually do more than on my crutches. And of course, you need to be happy and accept what life brings your way…it beats being miserable. Best wishes.

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    Hello! The crawling definitely is much easier for me too! I’m only 5’2, but with crawling I’m much closer to the ground so I feel safer!

  • @JoelVChan
    @JoelVChan2 ай бұрын

    Very good points! I think confidence can be without being an ABDL or DL.

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    2 ай бұрын

    Exactly!

  • @TheAmazinglyStonedSpider-tt6ms
    @TheAmazinglyStonedSpider-tt6ms6 ай бұрын

    surprised you didn't break out the old pacifier from your ABDL halloween video for this one. at least for the thumbnail lol

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    I had one with a bumblebee on it but I couldn’t figure out how to put the tether thing to the hole. 😂

  • @jvmiller1995
    @jvmiller19956 ай бұрын

    When life deals you a bad you still play the stupid game and keep the game moving but you play it smiling. I like that.. I have to leave the GD out but I love your take on life. Don't ever change girl. Your attitude in life is so far beyond your years. I have been incontinent longer than you have been alive and by a good bit I wish to hell I had your outlook at 26.

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    Hehe! The one thing I learned is that if I’m not mentally strong now, then it’ll just get worse as I age along with my physical abilities. With geibg left with no choice, I just keep reminding myself to keep it moving because life could be worse and I’m just grateful it’s not!

  • @jvmiller1995

    @jvmiller1995

    6 ай бұрын

    @@BumblePree 😍 It can always be worse. I have a close family member with stage 4 brain cancer. He is the nicest dude, done every thing right. Goes to church never drank I have never heard a bad word out his mouth. At age 32 he blacked out at work and fell down and they found the tumor. 3 or 4 surgeries later & he is not suppose to even know how to talk because they removed all of that from his brain. they told him after his second surgery he would never speak again. He also had 1 week to live and it was a hale marry surgery. That was ten years ago. He woke up from that second surgery and was asking for my wife. The doctors to this day have no clue how he can talk and comprehend. I do not know anyone I admire more. He has been on chemo for over 10 years now and gets a monthly MRI. A true miracle from God and the most powerful testimony I have witnessed. Never stop playing the game and smile. That sums him up. I have a lot and lot of heath problems incontinence is one of the least I worry about. But I find strength in people like thi and people like you. I love to share some of my troubles too, in hopes I can inspire someone to look at life and want to live it how ever they can to their best ability. Thank you. Stay in the game.

  • @jvmiller1995

    @jvmiller1995

    6 ай бұрын

    @@BumblePree I never heard how the NS thing went. I hope it was worth your time.

  • @SilentWitness89
    @SilentWitness896 ай бұрын

    I absolutely love your channel. Keep doing what you do. Thumbs up

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    Awe thanks! 🖤

  • @snobak1
    @snobak16 ай бұрын

    Pree....you fashionista!!!!!!! You are always impeccable with your dress and style. Ever since my accident and becoming incontinent from it and trying to walk again after a crushed ankle....I hope in some tiny way I've had a miniscule look into how you must now deal with life. And if you want to wear diapers with prints......GO FOR IT!!!!!! If you want to feel little.....GO FOR IT!!!!!!! BE YOURSELF FIRST!

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    LOL awe! The diapers with prints are adorable! But sometimes I like just the plain colours too!

  • @snobak1

    @snobak1

    6 ай бұрын

    @@BumblePree I'm the same way, sometimes I feel like a plain megamax,then sometimes a critter caboose or daydreamer diaper.

  • @marcussmith7800
    @marcussmith78006 ай бұрын

    I feel you after i graduated i ended up getting french polio i had te learn how to speek walk and run it was hard but it got better first time i ran after this all happened i took a bad spill but i got back up and got better at it you have gone thru so much good for you

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    Awe oh no!! To you getting back up after the fall.. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Yeah, I been through a lot. University for 6 years all while going through a life I just wasn’t used to, was a joke.

  • @marcussmith7800

    @marcussmith7800

    6 ай бұрын

    For me it was just having a positive attitude and friends to pick my up when I needed it have a great day

  • @RJROBINSON02
    @RJROBINSON026 ай бұрын

    Everyone can live their life they want. We all have different difficulties. I have cp. every one different

  • @branboy9936
    @branboy99366 ай бұрын

    As I was young 20 something losing control of my bladder. My mom told everyone in my extended family I like to wear diapers eventhou I was becoming incontinent. +15years now I'm losing control over my right side in a wheelchair barely can walk doing test over place. My Dr and freinds think I have ms too. So I do know your pain. With ontario health care is slow so it will be years before I get a result. Be strong and have a good day.

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    Oh no! Message me on Instagram I’d love to talk! One thing I’ve noticed about the healthcare system is that no one cares. It sucks because at 19, there I was trying to figure out what Trillium even was. 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @BaronVonTomas
    @BaronVonTomas4 ай бұрын

    Ok not gonna lie the main reason i started watching your videos was because i thought you were ABDL or a Little. Now I know different but I stay around for your awesome life videos and diaper reviews. You definitely don't have to be ABDL to need or want diapers. They make life easier for you. Absolutely no shame in that. Love your videos and love you living your truth!

  • @happymark1805
    @happymark18056 ай бұрын

    you deal with the cards you have gotten, sitting down in a corner and cry never helped anyone

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    :)

  • @anjaellieg3027
    @anjaellieg30276 ай бұрын

    I love your clips and you 🙂

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    🙊🖤

  • @themanjake8539
    @themanjake85396 ай бұрын

    You are so beautiful. Literally would pick you over anyone.

  • @choostopher5018
    @choostopher50186 ай бұрын

    I am not one for labels, certainly I respect individuals that identify however they want. Life isn't simple, least we can all do is accept peeps as they are/want to be.

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    🙌🏽

  • @leoisso7033
    @leoisso70335 ай бұрын

    I´m 34 and have to wear diapers 24/7 because of incontinence and I´m definitely no AB and nobody ever expected me to be one 😅 It took some time to get used to the leaking but I´ve realized pretty fast that almost noone ever noticed anything so I just went on doing what I did before I became incontinent. What other people think is their problem. If someone doesn´t ask and just comes to conclusions I don´t need them in my life anyways so nothing to care about 😇 Not everybody learns everything. Of course you´ve lost some stuff on your way but also you´ve gained so much respect and understanding for other peoples struggles which most of all humans will never have because they just can´t feel how it is to leak or not be able to walk properly. I would rather have you alone in my life who can´t jump than 100 people I can´t talk to.

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    5 ай бұрын

    Awe! 🖤 What you say is true! If people don’t get it, then they can go ✌️ I definitely learned a lot along the way!

  • @Soutien-Ukraine
    @Soutien-Ukraine6 ай бұрын

    Hello beautiful young woman, always beautiful your videos take care of yourself and those you love

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    🖤

  • @dinoprincess5487
    @dinoprincess54876 ай бұрын

    It's perfectly fine not to be ABDL. You're happy and not hurting anyone. You should not be forced into a box you don't want to be in. To be honest you are more of a grown-up than me.

  • @doctordeath.5716
    @doctordeath.57166 ай бұрын

    Have you tried any other new thick overnight adult diapers plastic backed with the tabs at all lately?

  • @BenjaminBerry-dr4qu
    @BenjaminBerry-dr4qu6 ай бұрын

    It’s ok I wet the bed too and I have to wear diapers to bed. It’s better than a wet bed. I’m 22 years old .

  • @danielgartin-oh9ik
    @danielgartin-oh9ik6 ай бұрын

    Nice MacBook, I have one as well

  • @michelletackett9489
    @michelletackett94896 ай бұрын

    People love to label others and put others in boxes, or their brain will malfunction. I am who I am, and others are who they are. Why do we have to try and hurt other's happiness?

  • @DLjoey
    @DLjoey6 ай бұрын

    Wow, Pree. You are such a beautiful person.

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    🖤

  • @doctordeath.5716
    @doctordeath.57166 ай бұрын

    This is really cool and I remember doing the 9 hole peg thing at the doctor office when I was a kid. Cute dress that you customize and you can not really see that you are wearing a mega max thick overnight adult diaper at all. I am sorry I have not been around lately at all, I have been busy with work and other stuff, but I have not had a chance buy to any of the mega max diapers yet that I do need because of other bills and all, so I end up having to always buy the Walmart brand of adult diaper and thick overnight blatter control pads I put in my diaper for extra protection and pull up underwear on over top of my diaper because of the velcro, I move around alot at work and then if I do not have the pull up underwear on over top of my diaper, then the velcro would rip on me😢😢😢😢. Remember, you are beautiful and gorgeous and amazing my dear ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    🖤 No need to be sorry and I love wearing either short tights or the InControl Silence pant over diapers bcause it helps keep my diaper in place especially when it has the Velcro! Awe thanks 🖤

  • @doctordeath.5716

    @doctordeath.5716

    6 ай бұрын

    @@BumblePree OK thank you my dear, I wear long underwear/ aka long John's, and the brand name is called free country and that is what keeps my diaper in place with my pull up underwear on over top of my diaper because of the velcro and I do jot want it to rip off of my diaper. I had that happen a few different times and I was a mess afterwards. Thank you my dear for understanding me and you are very welcome my dear. What do the incontrol things look like and do they make them for men? Do you have a website that I could goto to look at them?

  • @ligespiegel4966
    @ligespiegel49667 күн бұрын

    I want to be the male version of you. Because I've epilepsy,was raped as a toddler,and possibly have high functioning autism yet I didn't get diagnosed as a toddler because my now gone biological mom never got me diagnosed due to her gambling addiction. I also have incontinence but currently don't wear diapers full time yet but want to change that for a similar reason to your goal/agenda. Mine is to be the voice for my disabled brothers and sisters who don't have one for xyz reason/s. Such as scared,can't talk due to their disability/condition,and etc. If you're wanting an example wearing a diaper and tee shirt in public and we anyone makes fun of/says a rude comment/swears at me I'll ask them if we can talk then tell them all the facts about disabilities that I've got off the internet earlier. Also put those facts/ statistics into real-life situations/scenarios. For an example 500 people and half are women in that group approximately 83 ladies along with 42 men has been raped before the age of 18.

  • @bennolanswaggerdiaperteenbaby
    @bennolanswaggerdiaperteenbaby6 ай бұрын

    I’m 16 years old. And I act like a 2 year old all the time

  • @ghjjiyeqsg1052
    @ghjjiyeqsg10526 ай бұрын

    While your difficulties and motor skills closely resemble that of the average infant, it doesn’t change who you are, Pree. You’re clearly a very brave, very self-confident woman. Also, you don’t need a daddy to bring out the AB to your DL or anything like that because ‘self-pampering’ exists. So what if people are thrown off or bothered by you crawling on the sidewalk, drooling because of a numb face, or still in diapers at age 26? Your happiness matters, no one else’s. Keep your head high, Pree. The less you worry about what others think, the happier you’ll be.

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    🙌🏽 Awe that made me smile thank you! 🖤🖤🖤

  • @ghjjiyeqsg1052

    @ghjjiyeqsg1052

    6 ай бұрын

    @@BumblePree I’m glad it did. Have a blessed day, cutie.

  • @BumblePree

    @BumblePree

    6 ай бұрын

    Awe I hope you do too!

  • @martinschott873
    @martinschott8736 ай бұрын

    What a dramatic prelude! 😂I´m afraid that there are NPCs out there who would assume much worse things than when they learn somebody wears adult diapers, he or she has to be an AB. 😅 (I´ve been growing up being a chronic bedwetter with occasionally daytime bladder issues in - uh a very long time ago, so I had my share of misunderstanding, abuse, and intolerance for my problem, back then.) Maybe some of them are ABs themselves and maybe they even discovered their AB or DL side when they had to wear diapers due to illness etc., so they would project their story into yours. Our consciousness loves patterns and loves making sense (evolution gifted us with this perk), but sometimes this leads to wrong conclusions and illusions - that´s why sometimes people just see what they want to see. Tolerance and open mindedness are important just as much.