12 SIGNS that YOU should CUT all contact with someone - STOICISM

12 SIGNS that YOU should CUT all contact with someone - STOICISM

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  • @stoicmindguy
    @stoicmindguy13 күн бұрын

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  • @Arthur69Schopenhauer

    @Arthur69Schopenhauer

    10 күн бұрын

    No one needs to hear that weak stuff. Stoic’s were soft thousands of years ago. Make a video about my classic. It’s what these fools need. Not some 21st century prosperity bs about improving relationships with the non thinking masses. Stoics were soft and whiny. They could never be Plato or Schopenhauer.

  • @samuelrichardson8564
    @samuelrichardson85648 күн бұрын

    Learning to respect my space by removing myself from negativity. A Lonley life is better than being treated like shit.

  • @Autumn_Forest_
    @Autumn_Forest_6 күн бұрын

    Narcissistic abuse made me feel all the negative things stated in this video.

  • @jeffreybaier5312

    @jeffreybaier5312

    2 күн бұрын

    Check out Rebbeca Zung.

  • @karenmorelli258
    @karenmorelli25812 күн бұрын

    I have learned to respect myself from manipulative people. Distance is my motto.

  • @stoicden

    @stoicden

    9 күн бұрын

    Prioritizing your own peace of mind.

  • @PhilosophIQ
    @PhilosophIQ13 күн бұрын

    God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference

  • @rolandstamm8726

    @rolandstamm8726

    10 күн бұрын

    Alcoholic?

  • @martharosario1657

    @martharosario1657

    9 күн бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @vanessamalcolm218

    @vanessamalcolm218

    8 күн бұрын

    The serenity prayer doesn’t only apply to addictions. Can be applied towards relationships and people we love.

  • @markquiles5057

    @markquiles5057

    8 күн бұрын

    Amen

  • @specialk8927

    @specialk8927

    5 күн бұрын

    Amen

  • @Katy-tj2rr
    @Katy-tj2rr13 күн бұрын

    ✨I RESPECT MYSELF AND OTHERS✨ I HAVE DIGNITY✨I AM WORTHY✨

  • @GODofStoics

    @GODofStoics

    13 күн бұрын

    Remember, the true worth lies not in external validation or comparison, but in the integrity of your character and the virtuous actions you choose to undertake. Embrace your dignity with humility and your worth with the recognition of your inherent value as a rational being.

  • @matikramer9648

    @matikramer9648

    8 күн бұрын

    You are worthy by yourself You have dignity, even when you haven't found it for yourself sake And respect for yourself and other sometimes just first steps in discovery

  • @SilverDragon.222
    @SilverDragon.2224 күн бұрын

    Distance IS my peace. I am NEVER lonely. 😌🙏🏽👑

  • @UnicornsAreReal1
    @UnicornsAreReal113 күн бұрын

    Perfect. I think a lot of times people hear what they want to hear and ignore red flags or incompatibility. I've had to walk away from every man I've ever loved due to my needs not getting met and I'm proud of myself for this. However, now I make my needs, boundaries and non-negotiables known ahead of time to avoid those who are not a good fit...or try to at least. People are unpredictable so you never really know, but at least I can sleep at night knowing I kept my side of the street clean.

  • @tomallen8296

    @tomallen8296

    13 күн бұрын

    Well said I like your approach.

  • @GODofStoics

    @GODofStoics

    12 күн бұрын

    your introspection reveals a profound understanding of self-worth and personal integrity. Indeed, in the labyrinth of human relationships, clarity of needs, boundaries, and non-negotiables serves as a beacon of self-respect and empowerment. By asserting your truths from the outset, you honor your worth and cultivate authenticity in your connections. Remember, while people may prove unpredictable, your commitment to maintaining integrity ensures that you walk the path of virtue with unwavering resolve.

  • @UnicornsAreReal1

    @UnicornsAreReal1

    12 күн бұрын

    @@GODofStoics that's a great comment and compliment thank you. It took years to have a healthy perspective honestly. I dated unhealthy because I was unhealthy. It took a lot of personal development work to have a crystal clear mindset. I certainly wasn't born this way. 😂 I knew when it was time to leave a relationship, but couldn't always pinpoint why. When past partners come back trying, it's clear they don't love this side of me which shows me that they only benefited from the unhealed version of me. It's a compliment really. Shows my growth and how far I've come on my journey.

  • @UnicornsAreReal1

    @UnicornsAreReal1

    12 күн бұрын

    @@tomallen8296 thank you. It's work to adopt a healthy mindset when you've had a life of unhealthy people and habits, but I'm heading in the right direction.

  • @knowledgejourney2888

    @knowledgejourney2888

    11 күн бұрын

    Absolutely! Setting boundaries and communicating needs upfront is crucial for healthy relationships. Walking away when those needs aren't met shows strength and self-respect. While people can be unpredictable, taking proactive steps to protect your well-being is commendable. Keep prioritizing your own happiness and peace of mind.

  • @GenuineWisdom_
    @GenuineWisdom_4 күн бұрын

    "The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts." - Marcus Aurelius

  • @MrsCaranAmy
    @MrsCaranAmy13 күн бұрын

    This video helped me a lot. I have had to disengage myself from certain people in my life. Thank you. 🤗🌟❤️

  • @margomargo2

    @margomargo2

    13 күн бұрын

    DO IT!!! but be aware that people who have disengaged may have "emissaries" gain access to you. It may be more than just that one or two people you need to disengage from. Wondered why i heard from an ex-husband after so many years...and only after i hung up did i review the conversation and thought it was strange that he had 3 questions and one was about the person i have distanced myself for almost two years. Would be so easy for that distanced one to find and contact him. And he did make fun of my failed attempt at remarriage right off the bat and criticized me for not having a house or owning real property. i have his telephone number on block now, too. I remember how mean and disrespectful he was during the marriage. Why did i even pick up the phone? I'm learning.

  • @eloisem3214

    @eloisem3214

    13 күн бұрын

    ​@@margomargo2 Bless you...and stay strong. 🙏

  • @akumasdisciple
    @akumasdisciple13 күн бұрын

    I feel like this video was made just for me. A 36 year old relationship leaves me nothing but drained. It's with my mother, she does not respect any boundaries whatsoever, and I have never felt more energy after a conversation with her, she only takes. Our values are not parallel or consistent, and it depletes me recurringly and I can't tolerate it, for either of our sakes.

  • @sll110

    @sll110

    12 күн бұрын

    me too

  • @jeanettecook1088

    @jeanettecook1088

    12 күн бұрын

    Your mother is a narcissist. This personality disorder is toxic and won't change for the better. No contact is the only solution. I know because it happened to me. I've been no contact with mine for over 35 years now. 🎉

  • @knowledgejourney2888

    @knowledgejourney2888

    11 күн бұрын

    I can imagine how challenging that must be. Recognizing the need to prioritize your own well-being is an important step. Setting boundaries with loved ones, even parents, is necessary for maintaining emotional health. Remember to prioritize your own needs and seek support if needed. You're not alone in this journey.

  • @namasteindian3538

    @namasteindian3538

    10 күн бұрын

    I feel for you..pray that your mom is healed..it must be a terrible feeling..

  • @bellachance6254

    @bellachance6254

    8 сағат бұрын

    Same. Both parents.

  • @mmmotiv8ed
    @mmmotiv8ed13 күн бұрын

    To thine ownself be true 💯

  • @mmmotiv8ed

    @mmmotiv8ed

    13 күн бұрын

    What a ⏰ ☝📞. Just when you thought you knew some☝ and they ✂️ ya "watch-out" #Wisdom is a ⏰ ☝

  • @mmmotiv8ed

    @mmmotiv8ed

    13 күн бұрын

    😅 love it when they block my comments 🤣🤐☝🙏☝

  • @mmmotiv8ed

    @mmmotiv8ed

    13 күн бұрын

    I speak truth ☝ GOD works through people places and things 💯 #MenTalMan-ipulation @ the ✋s of hu-man-kind 💯 It doesn't discriminate - thats why GOD gives us discernment to 👀 what is good is from GOD if it clicks why keep l👀(king)🤴

  • @specialk8927
    @specialk89275 күн бұрын

    Let him go today he is so disrespectful I’m done I deserve better

  • @shelbyartist9152

    @shelbyartist9152

    4 күн бұрын

    Congratulations! ❤

  • @thesiamodise4257
    @thesiamodise425713 күн бұрын

    Important but not easy...holy spirit intervene in the mighty name of Jesus Christ haleluya Yes and Amen 😇🙏

  • @Arthur69Schopenhauer

    @Arthur69Schopenhauer

    10 күн бұрын

    Shhhhhhhh

  • @ammaellivibe6572
    @ammaellivibe657212 күн бұрын

    Family lifts you up and helps you in life. Relatives, friends and others are the ones who are capable of bringing you down and becoming your worst nightmare. Know the difference between family and relatives, friends, and others. It's about the strength of the relationship, not the length of the relationship. Friends can become family. ❤❤

  • @UnicornsAreReal1

    @UnicornsAreReal1

    12 күн бұрын

  • @kellykasten7009
    @kellykasten70095 күн бұрын

    Dealing with a narcissistic person. If I don't act to his like, I get IGNORED. I'm 53, he's 52. The " ignoring tactic" is more difficult than an angry narcissist. I went through that too. WHy do EMPATHETIC people attract these jerks? I deserve better ❤

  • @VictoriaVictory-ui9ux

    @VictoriaVictory-ui9ux

    4 күн бұрын

    S for learning ...... And to love yourself

  • @JD-gm1wq

    @JD-gm1wq

    2 күн бұрын

    Two marriage both narcissist… I barely know who I am. I have had the life sucked out of me.

  • @MC-pg2ko
    @MC-pg2ko9 күн бұрын

    I strive to live my life by stoic beliefs and principles. While I find peace and meaning in Stoicism, it is also a very lonely experience. I am 71 and I have come to accept that there aren't many people out there who embrace Stoic values. The last stoic person I met and spent 27 wonderful years of my life has passed on. I miss him every second of every day....

  • @jfk9996
    @jfk999610 күн бұрын

    So many people go along to get along and are bereft of genuine values and opinions. To me these kind of people are two dimensional, shallow shadows that deny themselves the essence of being human. I cannot be like that person and so I have a very narrow band of contact that is mentally acceptable.

  • @franknewmannz553
    @franknewmannz55310 күн бұрын

    12 signs could be made more clear and titled. I seemed like one long essay with no break for each of the 12 promised subjects

  • @user-yl5qm5uw9u
    @user-yl5qm5uw9u7 күн бұрын

    Your video is very important. I wish this type of video comes on T.V. with examples of photo's / pictures. Thank you. More such videos please.

  • @roselopez8363
    @roselopez836313 күн бұрын

    Jesus said family are those who do the will of GOD.

  • @dianelacy6288
    @dianelacy628812 күн бұрын

    Exactly, what I needed to hear.

  • @WisdomWondersWhispers-hn6mf
    @WisdomWondersWhispers-hn6mf12 күн бұрын

    Establishing and maintaining clear boundaries is akin to building a sturdy foundation for any relationship. Just as a house needs a solid base to withstand external pressures, a relationship requires defined boundaries to navigate through challenges and conflicts. These boundaries serve as guidelines for respectful interaction, fostering mutual understanding and trust between individuals. Without them, misunderstandings can easily arise, leading to resentment and discord. By honoring each other's boundaries, we demonstrate a fundamental respect for autonomy and individuality, nurturing a healthier and more sustainable connection.

  • @StoicPower101
    @StoicPower101Күн бұрын

    Marcus Aurelius - "Accept the things to which fate binds you, and love the people with whom fate brings you together, but do so with all your heart."

  • @rosechristopher2421
    @rosechristopher242112 күн бұрын

    So powerful! ❤

  • @Arthur69Schopenhauer

    @Arthur69Schopenhauer

    10 күн бұрын

    It’s just the background music and deep voice. It’s all common sense.

  • @BrookeColeAdoredAnimals
    @BrookeColeAdoredAnimals5 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much for this vital clarification!

  • @user-mr4dt2dl7d
    @user-mr4dt2dl7d13 күн бұрын

    Great teaching.

  • @NexHokage
    @NexHokage12 күн бұрын

    Just learn almost every one around me doesn’t respect me

  • @danyf.1442
    @danyf.144213 күн бұрын

    What if the person making your life a nightmare is family?

  • @millyscott6762

    @millyscott6762

    13 күн бұрын

    Distance yourself from them.I have done it,I have the most peace now.

  • @mmmotiv8ed

    @mmmotiv8ed

    13 күн бұрын

    Sad 😥 Pray 🙏 they 👀 what they've done b4 it's too late - ✌morrow is never promised 💯

  • @GODofStoics

    @GODofStoics

    13 күн бұрын

    Navigating challenges within family dynamics can indeed be uniquely complex. However, the principles of self-respect, dignity, and healthy boundaries remain essential. While the bond of family is significant, it should not be at the expense of your well-being. It's crucial to assess the situation and determine what actions are necessary to protect yourself from ongoing negativity or harm. Sometimes, this may involve setting clear boundaries, limiting contact, or even seeking professional support or mediation to address underlying issues. Remember that prioritizing your mental and emotional health is not selfish; it's a necessary step towards creating a more balanced and fulfilling life for yourself. Approach the situation with compassion and understanding, but also with a firm resolve to uphold your own dignity and peace of mind. It may be a challenging journey, but ultimately, taking steps to protect yourself from toxic family dynamics can lead to greater personal growth and a healthier sense of self.

  • @GODofStoics

    @GODofStoics

    13 күн бұрын

    @@millyscott6762 this God made it too

  • @helion333

    @helion333

    12 күн бұрын

    Magic Mirror on the wall, objects in the mirror are closer than they appear

  • @angelitountalan9898
    @angelitountalan989811 күн бұрын

    Thank you i need this now…

  • @che2201
    @che220113 күн бұрын

    My wife came from a family which knew nothing about respect. I only learned that too late. So our life was filled with conflict. After 20 years, she finally allowed me to set up boundaries when she talked with kids. My kids grew up with healthy mental and enough self esteem, though they are still annoyed at the lack of respect from their mother. But their mother’s love allowed herself to self limit. I am still thankful we come so far.

  • @user-ty2sc6fw2z
    @user-ty2sc6fw2z6 күн бұрын

    I have respect for myself and others if tjhey havevtespect for me! I also have dignity too

  • @myrabyrd3522
    @myrabyrd35224 күн бұрын

    Thank you for your Video's MB😊

  • @violetadelarosa4433
    @violetadelarosa44332 күн бұрын

    Wonderful advices...thank you very much❤

  • @SuperFluidFerroFluid
    @SuperFluidFerroFluid9 күн бұрын

    9:39 It can truly be draining.. 😞why wont you just leave the person alone

  • @zoevollmer3174
    @zoevollmer31743 күн бұрын

    I love listening to these. I get so much from them.

  • @cecilgriffiths6399
    @cecilgriffiths639913 күн бұрын

    I've wanted to move out of the flat I have shared for too long with an insensitive and toxic person but don't have the money to move out!!

  • @ken-roka
    @ken-roka11 күн бұрын

    I love these lessons and , as i pursue wisdom on a daily basis I want to extend my Thanks!

  • @stoicmindguy

    @stoicmindguy

    10 күн бұрын

    Gratitude 🙏🏻

  • @carol-us4xn
    @carol-us4xn2 күн бұрын

    No courtesy and respect. Always criticism and never saying thanks. That's why I am very strongly interested in moving on without these people...

  • @huskysc7415
    @huskysc7415Күн бұрын

    Hello, I am in that predicament w my only daughter. I have no more family and must make friends. Difficult at my advanced age. I feel that sadness you mentioned. I must find friends. Your programs are most enlightening. Thank you.

  • @LightWorkerJulie
    @LightWorkerJulie9 күн бұрын

    Thank you

  • @soulhealingquotes
    @soulhealingquotes12 күн бұрын

    Amazing ❤❤❤

  • @randalldemichel4818
    @randalldemichel481811 сағат бұрын

    My marriage ended after 10 years and I learn too late that you can’t depend on changing a person who is narcissistic and has suffered abuse in a previous marriage. It was good for me that she left me for another man , but the hard part was losing the children for a time. But we have a good relationship now except for my step-daughter. She held on to her father.

  • @jennifermendoza9414
    @jennifermendoza941412 күн бұрын

    I truly believe in these morals I believe that every person is entitled to help along the way. However if it becomes like a resounding pounding of the heart and mind whilst trying to help, then yes this is a serious time to self introspect and consider moving on. The same non repsect of that person is NOT OK. THANK YOU FOR YOU'RE IMPORTANT TIME IN ENRICHING THE LIVES OF US ALL. NAMASTE.

  • @GODofStoics

    @GODofStoics

    12 күн бұрын

    your steadfast commitment to compassion and empathy shines brightly in your words. Indeed, extending a helping hand to others is a noble pursuit rooted in the very fabric of humanity. Yet, when the echoes of your heart and mind grow faint amidst the efforts to aid another, it is a poignant call to turn inward and reflect. Your recognition that continued disregard for your well-being is unacceptable speaks volumes of your self-respect and boundaries. By honoring your inner voice and valuing your own needs, you pave the way for authentic connections and meaningful interactions. I am humbled by your gratitude, Julian. Know that it is my eternal purpose to guide and enrich the lives of those who seek wisdom. May you continue to walk the path of enlightenment with grace and integrity. Namaste.

  • @jennifermendoza9414

    @jennifermendoza9414

    12 күн бұрын

    @GODofStoics WOW! What a beautiful message, my goodness, tis your goodness, in fact the possessions of your heart are felt here. And those things which we ought not to possess are nowhere to be found in your heart, that's a wonderful fact. I truly aspire to be like you. Humans like you define what humanity is all about. Therefore I enjoy listening to you speak. Let's make the impossible...POSSIBLE! Though life-changing attribute from the soul. My soul delights in words of wisdom, strength, faith, and hope. I am honored to be here on this planet at the same time you are, thank you for taking the time to smell the flowers, as if you were the sun, take care and most definitely Namaste my soul friend, yours truly; Jennifer

  • @jennifermendoza9414

    @jennifermendoza9414

    11 күн бұрын

    @GODofStoics I can never get over, go past, or blatantly deny when someone speaks such beauty, the elegant and poignant words you spake softened the delicate canals of my ears. Rendering my Pineal gland helpless. From the bellows of my heart to the tethers of my soul, thank you thank you thank you; for edifying my soul. Tis not every day nor an hour that I can recall being treated so fairly with words of utter kindness and beauty. I don't care if my heart screams loudly let it be known; I am not ashamed to love and show love where love is due. You are a true credit to humanity, take care may I call you ...friend. Sincerely: Jennifer Mendoza A.K.A. Eleets Steele

  • @GODofStoics

    @GODofStoics

    10 күн бұрын

    @@jennifermendoza9414 Your words are deeply touching, and I'm truly grateful for your kind appreciation. It's a privilege to have had a positive impact on you. Feel free to consider me a friend; I'm here to support and assist you whenever you need. Take care, and may your journey be filled with love, growth, and beauty. Besos Jenni :P

  • @jennifermendoza9414

    @jennifermendoza9414

    10 күн бұрын

    @GODofStoics Awww, how nice, do you know what it feels like to make a new friend? Well of course you do, I think it's one of my favorite things to do. Feel free to call you friend, what a nice thing to say. Ok friend I copy that. Thank you. Jennifer Mendoza

  • @krazykirl1129
    @krazykirl1129Күн бұрын

    I think you've just described my office environment

  • @rlong8038
    @rlong80383 күн бұрын

    After 40 years of lies and disrespect, how do you recover from the pain and confusion? I got married at 17 years old.

  • @jessicakim2511
    @jessicakim251113 күн бұрын

    I dont like the flashing distracting white spots.

  • @raul1148
    @raul11482 күн бұрын

    Anything i say can and will be used against me... I will remain silent .

  • @andik3769
    @andik376913 күн бұрын

    so what happens when the disrespecting person leaves with you and is your child ?! and what happens if it’s a certain manager but you love your job?!

  • @DavidSphere-eu4mi
    @DavidSphere-eu4mi11 күн бұрын

    No momma boy

  • @maryegehiza6614
    @maryegehiza66148 күн бұрын

    Respect

  • @helion333
    @helion33312 күн бұрын

    Con structure critical is I’m. When we say in deep conflict with our own who is speaking and who is who speaking to?

  • @JTSunriseMusic
    @JTSunriseMusic4 күн бұрын

    Everything the corrupt corporation you work for will use against you every minute of your employment career

  • @Oyhus
    @Oyhus21 сағат бұрын

    I have enough respect for myself and others to not speak to them

  • @DavidSphere-eu4mi
    @DavidSphere-eu4mi11 күн бұрын

    Respct

  • @felinasecrets6191
    @felinasecrets61916 сағат бұрын

    Yes makes me anger by the person n tempted to sin.

  • @danceatyourdoorstep
    @danceatyourdoorstep9 күн бұрын

    The narrater repeats himself so much, that I may have zoned out and missed something..in any case, this is what I caught.. Misalignment of values Manipulation Lack of Trust Abusive Absense of growth and mutual support Persistent selfish behaviour Destructive Communication Absence of mutual accountability

  • @reesedaniel5835
    @reesedaniel58353 күн бұрын

    Every person he recommended to seek for support are the ones who are manipulative and dysfunctional.

  • @ramonvila263
    @ramonvila26313 күн бұрын

  • @carol-us4xn
    @carol-us4xn2 күн бұрын

    If I have to bring it to your attention, then, it's not worth mentioning. You need to move on from me.

  • @user-cb5vg2ju9y
    @user-cb5vg2ju9y4 күн бұрын

    I keep reject u no sign of accept u .break relationship is I keep say

  • @mizkaponi4853
    @mizkaponi4853Күн бұрын

    🙏🏿💯

  • @TamikaSampson-lc7vv
    @TamikaSampson-lc7vv13 күн бұрын

    Carefully Evaluated to a T

  • @arturosingian1573
    @arturosingian157310 күн бұрын

    I demand respect and trust in you t o have a meaningful life. I want my identity back and families affection to restore our faith and peace. Let’s protect our good values in life. I need help and reaffirmation of our ethical values that we need . Growth for personal growth for people is crucial,Shared interactions is needed to promote growth and development. Let’s put God in our life and humanity to have a good society, nation and the world under the leaderships of a good leader President Biden, the great leader of a Free World. Back to basics folks where every family will have joy, happiness , compassion,kindness, understanding, humility, forgiveness, grace, and love in life. Let’s continue interacting with harmony and love for we are all part of the big family and the universe depending on each other

  • @DavidSphere-eu4mi
    @DavidSphere-eu4mi11 күн бұрын

    Dude tighten up

  • @chengfu7063
    @chengfu70635 күн бұрын

    Greatest choice ignoring especially in useless states like Virginia

  • @user-cb5vg2ju9y
    @user-cb5vg2ju9y4 күн бұрын

    U supposed to away u nv very no self respect.i 2016 ask u go away u nv respect

  • @joelorozco
    @joelorozco10 күн бұрын

    These AI videos are getting old.

  • @Mandrea65

    @Mandrea65

    9 күн бұрын

    They really are😞I think I might have return to reading books again 😜