The only thing I'd say about retail prices is that sometimes I'll pay a bit more to support a local business rather than buy online.

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

thank you for saying that! I think that's important !!

@SunnyMidnite221

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, me too. Also, you can often get higher quality products than buying cheap knock-offs from sites like amazon. Quality items last longer and work better, so you do end up saving money in the long run.

@weaver1001

2 жыл бұрын

I bought something not on sale from a name brand - and I feel it was a minimalist choice. My cell phone broke, I immediately went to Best Buy and got the cheapest name brand phone available. It was a necessity, and my decision to purchase it was strictly for that reason. My attitude towards my phone shifted almost 180 degrees, after that. I barely look at my phone since, and I never want to. My phone no longer steals my time.

@johnsonjo8454

2 жыл бұрын

@@MalamaLife 💋💋💋 i love you iam single boy

@intentionalliving7326

2 жыл бұрын

I so agree! Especially during these time✨

*“Reduce the complexity of life by eliminating the needless wants of life, and the labors of life reduce themselves.” - Edwin Way Teale*

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

💪

@rayurlich

2 жыл бұрын

Great maxim.

@ellenwinslet

2 жыл бұрын

Fantastic motto, thank you for sharing!

@BerylWalubengoAnyitiNanyama

2 жыл бұрын

❤️

1. Resorts 2. fancy car 3. bigger house 4. haircut 5. designer clothes 6. Food delivery 7. Fancy restaurants 8. first class air travel 9. Camera gear From what I recall top of mind, in no particular order. Interesting video! Food for thought Edit: 10. Full priced items!

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

spot on!! 😊

@RiDankulous

2 жыл бұрын

I wonder about household and it's a good way in the USA to protect some wealth if there's, God forbid, a bankruptcy necessary. I'm not sure exactly how this could be done different to stay minimalist, such as buying a very large plot and using a very small house, and it probably varies greatly depending on state.

@adamnaughty

2 жыл бұрын

thank you for this , you saveme minutes

@TM15HAKRN

2 жыл бұрын

Thx

@JazminMmasechaba

2 жыл бұрын

I enjoyed watching it from beginning to end.

I used to feel so much pressure to consume more and more because I felt like those external things would fulfil me and make me feel more worthy. I would spend so much money each month on extravagant items and services. Only until I realize that my worth lies within me I was able to stop excessive consumption.

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

😊 yes!! so happy to hear that. I'm going through the same realizations

3 month rule: want something, wait 3 months to purchase it, if you still want said item then you know it’s not an impulse purchase. Helps a lot of people I know. Also if you ever have kids you might rethink the 3 bedroom with a yard. Had a tiny home growing up and it was miserable, came from a family of four and had a brother, but as long as it’s just you and your partner then 1 or 2 bedroom would be fine. Extremely soothing voice as well, thank you for always being a soothing presence to my day.

@Sunflowers9191

2 жыл бұрын

3 months is a long time though, what if it’s gone by then? I always wait a week and I asked others if it’s worth it, if by then I still want it I purchase it.

@jessicamurphy5810

2 жыл бұрын

@@Sunflowers9191 what could you possibly want besides food that wouldn’t be there in 3 months? If it’s not there after 3 months then it wasn’t meant to be but a week isn’t long enough to truly decide if you need something or if you want something. If it’s something for work like clothing where you can’t wait then make sure you have cash in hand for the purchase, that way you are going to the store with intention not to just wander aimlessly and spend all your hard earned money. It’s just advice to help from spending or buying excessive things that we don’t need, use, or wear. Do what works best for you and your needs but it’s always a tip now in the back of your mind if you ever want to try something different. Hope you have an amazing rest of your day and do what makes you happy that’s all that matters.

I primarily spend 99cents on my clothing at thrift stores. I'm proud of not adding to the piles of trash in the world. Thanks for speaking on frugality. I think people get it confused with minimalism and think they are no longer "allowed" to spend a lot of money on things. Far from the truth.

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

I'm with you! doing my part to not add to the landfill as well :) I think being frugal is just being smart. Thanks for watching

@andshery

2 жыл бұрын

I literally see myself on you. New subscriber here. Loving your vlogs! ❤

@RiDankulous

2 жыл бұрын

That's great!

@reginafisher9919

2 жыл бұрын

Yes I totally agree I have been shopping at Goodwill and thrift stores only I will refuse to buy anything brand new anymore to keep things out of the landfill.

@evelinholmes6401

2 жыл бұрын

Don’t understand people that buy from people that hunt from thrift shops and that sell it online for a high markup plus postage. Totally insane. I agree I never shop online. I like to touch and feel and trying it on.

*"Everything in life is easier when you don't concern yourself with what other people are doing."* The chances of you seeing this comment is pretty low, but if you did, *I hope you have an amazing day.* 🖤

@joelstephenson8017

2 жыл бұрын

Are you a bot? I'm not sure... I keep seeing you post random quotes that may or may not match what the video is talking about...

@daisychain3007

2 жыл бұрын

Not just if you do not concern yourself with what other people, but also if you compare yourself to other people's behaviour and expectations. In other words, who is rich? He who is content with his lot.

The beauty of minimalism is that it can be tailored to our reality. Being mindful allows us to make choices and informed decisions. I don’t mind spending on a fancy dinner once in a while, for a special occasion. But I couldn’t care less about a big house or fancy car 😁. I love the way you share your thoughts, it’s always respectful and inclusive. Your channel is a judgement free zone, and your videos are so calming, thank you Sophie 😊

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

I love how you phrased it :) yes! I think that's the beauty of minimalism.

@amitray6614

2 жыл бұрын

Totally agree with you Dom, and everything Sophie talked about in this amazing video.

This is so validating! I like to live modestly but other people think I am crazy or they use me as a benchmark for someone who they can favourably compare themselves to. It took me years to break free of all the conditioning and sadly, most people don't seem to realise that there is even another option other than to buy more and more. I have learned that when you go through life lighter, it makes the journey easier. Plus I can afford to work much less! More time for me to spend in Nature, with my family and friends, helping the community and doing creative projects and less time having to manage all my stuff. We think we own all these things but really, they end up owning us. 😊✨

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

Yes!! love your thoughts

@samvxx

2 жыл бұрын

100% agree!

@maleidi

2 жыл бұрын

Well said! 👌

@ameliamonica5199

2 жыл бұрын

Wisdom🙌 thank you for reminder

@anu_ktg2603

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly 💯

Great tips! I’d only disagree on the last point of never buying full price - I wish to support local businesses and pay prices that an item should have - many things in this world are way too cheap, also thinking about unfair labor. On top of that we can’t continue extorting the supply chain and keep ordering everything online, imho

@chosenhighheart

2 жыл бұрын

I would add that they better be transparent & have excellent customer service - extremely hard to find these qualities in anything these days.

I can relate to all these list. I would have anxiety having all the things in the world to keep up. Life is happier when you don't have too much because you have peace of mind.

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

Yes!! 🥰 couldn't agree with you more

Your content is such a breath of fresh air

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

😊 awww thank you

"you just need yourself to be happy" - saptarshi sengupta.

Yes this video resonates with me! In this society we are surrounded with getting the best things around us and society’s definition is having an expensive house, a branded car, owning and wearing luxury goods and its a while for me to realise that these are not the things I really want. There’s a lot of discernment to do in the midst of the busyness of life. Takes a lot to step back and think for ourselves. Love the videos!

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with you. I think it's soo important to define our own version of happiness and succes! thank you for your lovely comment

I have longed for a bigger house for quite a long time. But I have to admit that a cup of coffee and relaxing music-these such small things-have already made me content this morning. Maybe..whether we live in a big house or not does’t matter after all, but rather, what you add to-or omit from-where you are matters much more.

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

so true ❤️

I’m a new watcher, it has helped me realise I don’t need a bunch of stuff to make me happy. And I have been a lot more aware of what I’m buying now and you know what it really makes me happy. I realised I was trying to fill a void with stuff that never made me happy and would continue to buy useless stuff that really didn’t do anything but make me broke and sad. It’s not even really about money, I think for me it’s just realising what makes me happy. Thank you for your videos they are truly mind opening. 💖

Glad to see you are talking about this! I wish everyone talked about what they wouldn't buy and that it was normalized. 💕

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

Let's normalize it :)

@LaureninGermany

2 жыл бұрын

Instead of those horrible „haul“ videos! I get anxious!

Agree with what you said.. ethical clothing, small cozy home and practical vehicle resonates with me :)

Aloha, Sophie, from Philadelphia. We lived on Oahu for about 15 years before moving back to the mainland. Anyway, very much enjoy your commonsense minimalism and thoughtfulness. You have uncommon wisdom for a person of your age. Your voice and music choices are very calming. Such a beautiful looking young lady with an equally lovely spirit. Looking forward to each next vlog.

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Mark. Appreciate you watching! Much aloha from maui

@markm4606

2 жыл бұрын

You replied to me! 🥰😍😄

I have been having such a difficult time with this concept lately and this video was exactly what I needed to hear. I absolutely agree with everything you said and feel the same way, but I find it’s extremely easy to get caught up with what everyone else is spending their money on and lose yourself- especially with everything being so present on social media. Thank you for being so real, practical and reminding us that this is okay and normal. Your videos seriously, seriously help me. Immensely. Thank you.

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

😊 happy to hear that! thanks Susie

Everyone used to think I'm crazy for not going to hairdresser every two weeks like so many women I know, but I've had the exact same hairstyle since I was a little girl and I only trim my long hair a little bit every now and then and paying for something I can easily and quickly do myself is illogical! I'd add newly released books to this list. I'm an avid reader and buying books second hand from charity shops and online has saved me fortune.

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

there are so many things we can do ourselves!

@Ssaidak

2 жыл бұрын

For reading, you can use the public library. About the hairdresser, I dont know anybody going more than 1 time by year. Must be different in another cultures. I go one time by 4 or 5 years, and it is really cheap. 5 or 6 dollars. Too I dont know anybody have been never in a resort or travelling first class. I always thought that is only for very very rich people, and I never understood the difference. The airplane is the same, the hours, etc. But the reality is most of the people doesnt buy that things because is not an option for them.

I recently moved out from my aunt’s place and started living on my own. The expenses are gonna be so much and my earnings are less. Nevertheless, I am kinda excited to start this new chapter of my life. This video was of great help. Appreciate the little details you have mentioned here. Much love, Sophie.❤️

*I love eating at hole in the wall and ma and pops restaurant; when I travel anywhere I try to find the local places to get the real taste of the culture. I also have an old car 2003 trailblazer and I love it as some of the places me Arvin go are really off road, there is alot of things we already have we can be grateful for and spend our money intentionally.* 😊💕

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

🥰 I agree with you. So many things we already have that we can enjoy and be grateful for. It's the way I want to live my life. Thanks Deandra

You're such a breathe of fresh air in today's culture. Practicality is something we all need to pay more attention to.. I really don't understand those (especially) wearing all the branded stuff with logos all over themselves, it feels like they might be trying too hard on top of that, it's advertising for the brand (s) for free! Some of the fashion KZreadrs here go on a spree every week to update on their over the top outfits, a ton of makeup, big houses, fancy cars that cost a lot & that isn't 'normal' in my humble opinion. Most people don't want to do that, because it doesn't make sense. Yesterday I was watching an ex model who is now in her 50's, and it was sad to hear how the society's expectations of her because she chose to age gracefully, and not getting her hair colored or have any plastic surgery. Happiness, peace & joy usually don't came with a price tag. Or an item attach to it. Cheers x

@daisychain3007

2 жыл бұрын

See how society patronises women? As entertainment for the men. There is nothing wrong with a woman refusing to dye her hair or have plastic surgery.

I completely agree with the house - this is one of the first things that popped into my head upon seeing the intro! It seems like the phrase "Bigger is better" holds court here so often. In my area, smaller older homes are constantly torn down to make way for mansions, 5,000 sq. ft., 6 bedrooms, that sort of thing. I grew up in a nice, small 2-story house (1,500 sq. ft.) that was just the right size for my parents and me. My father shared an even smaller home with his parents and brother. The thing is, once you're used to something, it's hard to downsize; it's always easier to upsize. Where does it end? Also agree with car upgrades/designer items/first class tickets: the extra cost is just not worth the benefit to me. I'll admit, I have loved being in expensive cars or flying first class when the opportunity arose (either relatives having a nice car, or being upgraded due to miles). But I like saving money on these things in order to spend on the things that are important to me. Great video!

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

I feel like I would be tempted to fill my bigger house with stuff which would cost me more money... and this cycle would never end. Thanks for watching Diana ❤️

Amazing video! Thank you for creating it! We need more of these

Love your calm voice and your reasoning

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

🥰 thank you so much John

A beautiful reminder to keep ourselves grounded 🥰👏 Thank you Sophie

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching 🥰

Wow I completely agree with this list! I've owned or experienced everything in the list but I realized I didn't draw that much satisfaction from them, including a big house, fine dining, first class travels, and designer clothes!

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

Glad you agree 😁 I am just as happy without those things

Love this! Every single thing you said I feel the same way about and also act on. I drive an old van which I love and see it as something that gets me where I need to be. I have an old iPhone because it’s paid off and we refuse to stay in hotels unless it be absolutely necessary. And we are a family of 5 and live in a 800 ish square foot house! I love how cozy and warm it feels. Kids wish they had bigger bedrooms but I told them when their older they’ll appreciate their own bigger bedroom in their own house or apartment!!

Your voice is really comforting!

Your a really special person. Thanks for what you do!

Thanks for sharing your stories!

Sophie, I really love your mindset and videos about it. Always Thank U 😊

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

🥰 I'm so happy to hear that!

Agree with you! Thanks for the perspective

Your content is always useful! Thank you for the 10 tips 💗

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

❤ thanks for watching

Wow.... love your perspective!

Thank you for sharing 💛

Thursday morning, getting my breakfast and coffee☕ watching your "so me" video🏡🥰☀️🌷 Thank you Sophie, I totally agree with you!! You make my day always🌷🌷🌷

Wise n thoughtful directions

Love this video!! Simplicity is so much better in life!

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

Yes!! Agree with you. There are so many simple things to enjoy 😍

Such a sensible video ! Love it!

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

❤😍 thank you

you always ground me. Thank you. Always need reminders. God bless

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

🥰

I thought that I have to wait more... wow that's good to hear your voice again. Perfect for my warm night before going to bed. Sleep tight

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry it was so late! I hope you enjoy and gnite!

@tichtaygau.13

2 жыл бұрын

@@MalamaLife no, you're good. thanks Malama

Another beautiful and interesting video Malama ! 😌 ✌🏼❤️

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching ❤️

I love your video style. Sometimes I click on videos with "lists" but I can't watch them fully. It takes forever to go through the list and it's just them staring into the camera and it bores me. I love how you go through quickly with a little reason and also break up the face time with pictures or little snip of video while talking about the list. Really really love that and appreciate it! Keeps my mind engaged. Love your videos :)

Was just organising my whole wardrobe and decluttering and there you go girl with this video …. totally inspirational sophie 🧡🧡🙂🙏🏼🙏🏼

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

😊❤️thank you! happy decluttering

You truly are inspiring. Thank you for your videos. 😊

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

aw thank you so much! It really means a lot

As always ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I totally agree and absolutely loved your video. I can’t even tell you how much your words and advice has helped me through my minimalism journey. You are such an inspiration. Thank you!!! 🙏🏼❤️

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

aw thank you Alejandra 😊❤️

This is very relatable for me too! When I reached late 20s, all of my views have changed completely~ I just want a simple and fulfilled lifestyle as well. I'm also in my early 30s (31 to be exact :D) and your points really resonated with me...well maybe the hair, I couldn't do it but I'm still making it as simple as healthy and less chemicals. Other than that, completely agree

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

I'm 31 too :) I'm happy you can see where I am coming from!

Interesting as always ! Thanks for this video :)

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

🥰 thank you so much

Hey Sophie, i love watching your videos. And today, I've decided to start decluttering my closet. ☺ more power!

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

That's so awesome! I'm coming out with a new decluttering video on Tuesday:) stay tuned ❤

Great ideas. Love your channel. You are living the dream.

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

🥰aww

I agree with you 💯 and I also find your soothing voice very calming and pleasant Just subbed and liked Keep up the good work !

Thanks for sharing 🌹🖐🏾

Agreed. Word by word. We have been a community of people who have been taught/conditioned to live by societal standard of success and ended up destroying the planet in various ways for our convenience. This is the kind of education this generation need to live a more sustainable life.

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

❤️

Thank u Sophie this list resonates with my lifestyle too! Your videos are peaceful, helpful, and inspiring! 🙏🏻🕉☮️

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

🥰 thanks Scott! glad you can relate

Great video! This is positive sharing , the kind of contents that people should watch and learn from. I didn't watch KZread till my 40s and there weren't similar videos then if my memory doesn't fail me. I am so glad I made sane choices since since my 20s. Lower pay and responsibilities were the reasons for my sensible options. A decade ago, I bought a bigger place to house my parents and three children. There weren't much retail options and temptations unlike now,. All the more important for people to be aware and make deliberate decisions.

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 🥰❤

I've been into photography for a few decades now (just as a keen (very) amateur) and I can always remember reading a good bit of advice in a photography magazine: only upgrade your kit when your skills in photography get to a point where the camera you have can't physically achieve the results you want, this doesn't happen very often, typically once when you might upgrade from consumer kit to semi pro/ Pro kit. Nowadays I use a compact Panasonic as my main criteria is portability. Loving your videos and calm demeanor 😊

YOU are what I wanted and needed to hear and see on KZread! I appreciate you a lot you lovely woman!❤️

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

❤️ thank you so much for watching

Really enjoying your channel! 😊

@MalamaLife

Жыл бұрын

Glad you're enjoying 😁

Loved your content dear and ur voice is so so soothing!😘😍😃 and thats what I am going towards in life as well. Simplicity is the best.

I agree with everything you said and I’ve been thinking about these things a lot lately. I think if more people took a step back and really asked themselves what THEY want, not just hop on the more is more bandwagon they would make different choices.

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

Yes!! It helps to take a step back and ask what we really want🥰 thanks for watching

I do agree that for most people, lots of the luxuries and equipment in cars are unnecessary to spend on, but for a car enthusiast like me, driving is an experience; the engine sound, the manual, the speed. These are priceless!😄

Thank you so much, Sophie! I love watching your channel, it resonates the lifestyle that I am creating right now. So much wisdom on the content. I used to believe that luxury equates success, but now, I want to live my live on frugality and practicality and invest on what truly matters. 🥰

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so happy to hear that :) I really appreciate you watching my videos

I found your channel a few hours ago and I've been watching a few of your videos. You're honestly a gem

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for supporting me 🥰 really means a lot

I can relate to most of your list. Totally agree.

On spot !

thank you so much to sharing

thank you so much for this.

Mature well beyond your years...Thank you Sophie 🤟

hi ! i am just 17 but your videos inspire me every time. i know that i don't want to live a life full of unnecessary things... why can't we simply just enjoy a simple life ? thank you so much, because you help me build the future adult i will be.

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

It think that's so great you realize that at such a young age 🥰

@s3l3n0philia

2 жыл бұрын

@@MalamaLife I am so happy you replied, thank you so much ! I can’t thank you enough, you are such a great inspiration for me

Great video. Nothing extreme to give up , just watching where your money goes and prioritizing. Your presentation is relaxing and informative .

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

🥰 thank you so much

Love this. In the same vein, I think you could do more of a deep dive into each of these categories. Especially hair!!! ❤️

Awesome, I’ve been living this lifestyle for awhile

I try love, love, love your videos. They are so peaceful and with meaning, the background is so simple but yet so rich. Tks for what you do and doing it with excellence 💕🔥

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

thank you :) that really made my day

Love the simplicity 🌹

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

It's the best❤️

I’m totally agree with you❤️

Yes, I can relate to many if not all 10 of these. Being fulfilled from the inside, getting your true needs met is what really matters. I realize there's a little bit of overlap, a night or two at a resort does have it's benefits, but it's so over the top of what we need to feel happy. Maybe once a year or every two or three years it might make sense, if even that. I donthink it takes some courage to be honest with oneself about your true needs and "false" needs. With all the subtle and not so subtle marketing and social conditioning, it's pretty hard to cut through it all and just be ourselves and just be natural. It's a kind of "work", to stay true to ourselves. But the rewards are quite significant, and life becomes more meaningful. Anyway, that's my response, but you said it best. Thanks for the message, and help keeping me and many others honest!

I love your videos! Gratitude from Oeste Paulista-Brasil!!

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

🥰 much love from Hawaii! thank you for supporting me

I agree with many of the items, especially the designer clothes part! (I never understood the attraction). For my part, I don’t spend on mani-pedi anymore- I do them myself and results are just as good! Thanks for your video! Your voice is so calming, I relax just listening to you ;)

Oh I love this so much and similar to my life story. I would never own a big house again. Excellent content. Keep it up!

learn so much from your videos

Wish you had a new video uploaded everyday! Love your meaningful videos so much!

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

aww thank you Annie! that's so sweet of you :)

I took a pen and noted down all the things you mentioned in this video. It helped me to figure out and set priorities in my life( and for a deep understanding about this life.)⏳ Thank you beautiful ❤️

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

❤️ aww thank you

Thank you for this video

Good content, please make part 2!

wow i like this video so much sophie. i love all your videos! much love from the Philippines!

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

Much love back from Maui ❤ thank you

Love this.

I really love your life style🌱

You just gained a new fan: Me! ❤ This is sooo relatable.

Lovely and valueable ideas to maintain meaningful Lifestyles

@MalamaLife

Жыл бұрын

thank you

Your voice is everything!

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

😍❤ aw thank you!!

Food shopping is one of my favorite things to do also! 😊

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

:) I'm glad I'm not the only one!

You are so me! I see myself in you👌🏽

Totally agree. Many of the items you’ve listed I don’t buy anymore either. There’s freedom in learning to be content with less.

Great advices, especially about deaigner clothes 😃❤

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

yes! I never really found value in them

Everything you said resonates with how i've lived my life. Never going beyond my means and being frugal my whole life. Excellent video!

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Suzanne 🥰

You always inspire me with your money habits. I’m so happy I got to learn about your channel, always grateful for that. Contents like this satisfy me. At least, someone out there got the same mentality and mindset with me. Most people around me can’t understand why I save up or always seize an opportunity to choose a cheaper choice

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Kade 🥰

I totally agree with you💛