10 Leadership Skills that Every Leader Should Have

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Do you have amazing leadership skills? Whether you are a manager, professional or team leader EVERYONE should know how to inspire others. Being a part of leadership has everything to do with leading a team in many different ways and I will teach you all the leadership skills you need to be a good one.
In this video, I give you my essential leadership skills to help you be the best leader you can b, the science behind exactly how these leadership skills work, and how to be a great leader.
In this video:
0:00 Intro
1:13 Small Yes
3:07 Pygmalion Effect
4:49 Logic or emotion?
6:23 Choosing the Right Seat
7:16 Empty Calorie Time
8:40 Ask Behavioral Questions
9:30 Be Scared.. A Little
10:40 Abandon Revenge
11:35 Embody the Body Language of Leaders
13:33 Invest in Communication Skills
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  • @ScienceOfPeople
    @ScienceOfPeople2 жыл бұрын

    Learn more about being an effective leader in the full article: www.scienceofpeople.com/leadership/

  • @mrzubwolfer
    @mrzubwolfer2 жыл бұрын

    I was a fast food employee for more than two years, and I've been given a management position. Right now I'm in training; trying to figure out how to build leadership. I certainly learned a couple of things in this video, I look forward to doing the best.

  • @sweetsweetheart1477

    @sweetsweetheart1477

    Жыл бұрын

    Same here dude! 👍🎉

  • @DrKTheManagementProfessor

    @DrKTheManagementProfessor

    Жыл бұрын

    There are a variety of leadership styles. I sure you'll find which works best for you and your environment!

  • @thatnerd8988

    @thatnerd8988

    Жыл бұрын

    Do u think the fast food job helped you with your social skills?

  • @dorinamae277
    @dorinamae2774 жыл бұрын

    All people can be benefited with this! Great blessing!♡ I love Vanessa..

  • @DaveTalksBusiness
    @DaveTalksBusiness3 жыл бұрын

    It is interesting how so many qualities of leadership run into conflict with need. Many managers get so focused on trying to "motivate" their staff they end up missing what would have them demoralized in the first place. A poor environment, personal stress, a lack of direction. A manager can take huge steps to being more "motivational" just by being more empathetic.

  • @d.collins1134
    @d.collins11344 жыл бұрын

    Instant favorite. Great video Vanessa, thank you.

  • @GroUp512
    @GroUp5123 жыл бұрын

    Reinforcing positive behaviors through praise has always worked well in my experience. Helping staff understand vital behaviors to success and ensuring everyone feels valued are equally important to leadership. Excellent video! Thanks!

  • @ALACHRSolutions

    @ALACHRSolutions

    Жыл бұрын

    It's great to hear that this approach has worked well for you and that you understand the importance of helping staff understand vital behaviors to success and ensuring that everyone feels valued. These are all key components of effective leadership. I agree that reinforcing positive behaviors through praise is an important strategy for promoting teamwork, collaboration, and engagement. By recognizing and rewarding the efforts and achievements of our team members, we can create a positive and supportive work environment that fosters excellence and encourages continued growth and development. I am glad to hear that you found the video helpful and that you are committed to building a strong and effective leadership style. Thank you for your kind words and for the opportunity to share my insights on leadership. I hope that my guidance can continue to be of value to you as you continue to grow and develop as a leader. -Adrian

  • @mukundshende8548
    @mukundshende85482 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for enlightening on Leadership skills to be a good leader

  • @emerlsonmoses9801
    @emerlsonmoses98012 жыл бұрын

    Excellent and inspiring presentation mam. I have received much information about essential leadership skills- knowledge, understanding, learning, communication, body language, ask questions behaviorally, prospective characters etc. Thank you

  • @rajgajjar7987
    @rajgajjar79874 жыл бұрын

    This video is my favourite because you gave every technical info one needs 😘, extremely positive is your approach on human behaviour.

  • @efrainsantana1216
    @efrainsantana12164 жыл бұрын

    Very good video. Nicely presented, and proffesionally.

  • @rubygovindan352
    @rubygovindan3522 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful explanation. Useful tips to Be a good leader.

  • @tharamanis713
    @tharamanis7132 жыл бұрын

    Inspiring session on essential leadership skills. Thank you ma'am

  • @syedabdulbasith9546
    @syedabdulbasith95462 жыл бұрын

    @Vanessa..Thank you so much for putting this together. Do you have any suggestions on how to adapt these tips to remote working setup ? A video specific to remote working will be very helpful as it is the reality for many of us and some might not go back to regular office environment for a long time.

  • @divyanigam8541
    @divyanigam85412 жыл бұрын

    All the prerequisites of a good leader presented in this video, thank you

  • @dr.rajendrachaudhari1031
    @dr.rajendrachaudhari10312 жыл бұрын

    Very excellent presentation and information on leadership skills.. thank-you.

  • @dineshchandraghosh5049
    @dineshchandraghosh50492 жыл бұрын

    Very effective and informative lecture. Thank you.

  • @PrenaLoveLock
    @PrenaLoveLock2 жыл бұрын

    This was a beautiful, video ! Thank you so much ♥️

  • @topap561
    @topap561 Жыл бұрын

    when i'm at work i dont like getting attractions. i just got the job done, and i make sure my manger wont call me about problems at work when i got home. and because of that i got promoted as a team leader. my main problem is im bad at communication, im not use into talking or commanding or leading anyone but a part of me accepted this challenge. after a few months i am still struggling. so i decided to find videos about leadership and i find this. then i got this idea about praising my team for their improvements last week through group chat. in the morning i was so anxious that they will laugh of what i have said or it might not be a good idea. when the first person i praise approach me he was all smile and it's like he was in a good mood to work, then following person arrived with the same energy and it's like they are trying to impress me. that day it was fun and smooth. it build my confidence and also my team. thanks for this tips. it help a lot

  • @user-ci5si8jz5h

    @user-ci5si8jz5h

    Ай бұрын

    That's great 👍

  • @downloadsgoogle4185
    @downloadsgoogle41854 жыл бұрын

    Hi Vanessa Van Edw - Your KZread Video on "The Essential Leadership Skills To Be A Better Leader" is phenomenally Insightful and Your presentation is effective . Thank you & Well Appreciated

  • @BrianScudamoreO2E
    @BrianScudamoreO2E3 жыл бұрын

    Such an inspiring video! Love the passion and information behind this! As a leader, inspiring others is the most important skill to have! Leaders are there to help their employees, or anyone, feel empowered enough to discover their purpose. Leaders are all about creating followers and connecting with them! Great content :)

  • @julienofelbanaybanay786

    @julienofelbanaybanay786

    3 жыл бұрын

    thanks a lot for sharing, Brian! always inspiring

  • @MNP208

    @MNP208

    2 жыл бұрын

    It's hard when you start a job under an apathetic leader. ☹

  • @tseriwanomore8816
    @tseriwanomore8816 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Vanessa. This is profound, as Leaders we need to master for the best.

  • @ravisankar5297
    @ravisankar52973 жыл бұрын

    Real story quick, Myself and one of my colleague interviewed a person through video call. I asked a similar behaviour question, How did you tackle a particular situation and how did you respond to a client appreciation... And immediately his tone of voice changed and the pace of interview was lost. Suddenly he seemed lost on the first question... Then we also let it go and carried on. Once the call was over, we replayed the recording. We watched it many times and understood that someone was helping him from behind the screen. Carefully looking, his eyes were looking a little bit away from camera or the screen. So the concept of the question you have mentioned here was the lifesaver. But we didn’t watch this video back then and now only got the behavioural science behind it. Such behaviour questions are really useful in current times where people are always meeting online. Thanks for the explanation and best wishes.

  • @drshankarlekhane1174
    @drshankarlekhane11742 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this excellent presentation.

  • @collinhull14
    @collinhull142 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for helping me improve my life lady!!!

  • @pennywheeler2598
    @pennywheeler25984 жыл бұрын

    Great video. A mind full of gold nuggets!!!💙💜💙

  • @shb1989
    @shb19893 жыл бұрын

    This lady is awesome. someone suggest me about this channel 1 year back but i am checking it now.

  • @julianakumabia5144
    @julianakumabia51442 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this. It's enlightening.

  • @lakshmigirish8163
    @lakshmigirish81632 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the informative session on leadership skills

  • @angaraki
    @angaraki Жыл бұрын

    Such a powerful presentation.

  • @MadhawaHabarakada
    @MadhawaHabarakada Жыл бұрын

    this is damn valuable. I personally use few things discussed here and now understand why our bosses use some of these methods on us too. thanks Vanessa. Always love your videos. they are always valuable.

  • @summermiller8764
    @summermiller87643 жыл бұрын

    Hi! It's kind of you to actually share this helpful to us. Thanks!

  • @lusaynimomoh2221
    @lusaynimomoh22213 жыл бұрын

    To be a better leader I think leadership by example is among the best approach so far. One must be consistent, polite, and sometimes be humorous to reduce boredom.

  • @DrKTheManagementProfessor

    @DrKTheManagementProfessor

    Жыл бұрын

    Agreed, but you can still hold those characteristics with various styles of leadership! :)

  • @jaydenliu5143
    @jaydenliu51433 жыл бұрын

    Invaluable! Thanks!

  • @prashantshinde8214
    @prashantshinde82142 жыл бұрын

    Excellent presentation onessential leadership skill to be a better leader Thank you mam for the presentation

  • @rogiervantilburg3440
    @rogiervantilburg34402 жыл бұрын

    I wrote them all down , thanks so much for sharing

  • @goya363
    @goya3633 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your time Vanessa. It has help me a lot your video. God bless you so much. A leader without God is for sure a tiger in this World But a Leader with God is a lions and eagles. Lion takes a territory and eagles are visionaries. We learn this in a Christian World. Just watch a Pastor preach and how he gets millions to follow them..

  • @archanaray6514
    @archanaray6514 Жыл бұрын

    Very Insightful .Thanks for this great learning video.

  • @avinashshete6783
    @avinashshete67832 жыл бұрын

    Nice guidance on the Essential leadership skills to be a better leader

  • @hanzlearningsolutions
    @hanzlearningsolutions2 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely Vanessa! Well said, leadership is the most important and important aspect. its something that can be learned and i always wonder the saying born leader is so overrated, there are skill sets that you can acquire.

  • @metrukovci9073

    @metrukovci9073

    2 жыл бұрын

    O I’ll

  • @Roxjetlagged

    @Roxjetlagged

    Жыл бұрын

    So how do you explain ppl who had same leadership training and one sucks at it and the other is just a natural leader. A lot is how you are as a person. Training can only do so much

  • @beak3432
    @beak34322 жыл бұрын

    7.11 each seat has a different meaning! Could you please elaborate on which one means what and best suited at what occasion? Thanks

  • @pradeepselvaratnam9459
    @pradeepselvaratnam94592 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Vanessa.. Excellent Points and engaging... I believe we must first self lead .

  • @leahleeds4289
    @leahleeds42894 жыл бұрын

    That was your best video yet!!!! Thank you the tips!!!

  • @user-ci5si8jz5h

    @user-ci5si8jz5h

    Ай бұрын

    Yes I agree

  • @andyroyal4039
    @andyroyal40399 ай бұрын

    Real good information to up my already great leadership skills......😂

  • @SudhirSinha997
    @SudhirSinha9974 жыл бұрын

    Nice, Very important and well researched

  • @kkasturri3390
    @kkasturri33902 жыл бұрын

    The session elaborates the 10 essential skills for leadership and it is interesting

  • @corinnalazaro2660
    @corinnalazaro26603 жыл бұрын

    I',ve been listening to your videos and I'm amazed, I've learned a lot 😃

  • @dr.n.b.suryavanshi7094
    @dr.n.b.suryavanshi70942 жыл бұрын

    This video is knowledgefull Thank you

  • @shrutiranade2296
    @shrutiranade22962 жыл бұрын

    Inspiring session Vanessa ... thank you

  • @manishamahatale6589
    @manishamahatale65892 жыл бұрын

    Very informative session. Thank you

  • @hussainmohammad2244
    @hussainmohammad22444 жыл бұрын

    Thank u very much madam

  • @dr.otpoongodi4513
    @dr.otpoongodi45132 жыл бұрын

    informative video on the essential leadership skills to be a better leader.....

  • @dvig3261
    @dvig3261 Жыл бұрын

    I get your point regarding smiling at alphas. But disagree largely. I smile because am happy. I find it attracts good people to do what I need them to. I have several men that work with me, I am not their supervisor and rank as equal, in the company. However I am the most experienced in my field and command a great deal of respect among them, my supervisors and the rest of management in that company. They all ask me what, when and how. And my smile never dips, never has and probably never will. That said, I appreciate this video, and your presentation is top notch! Thanks!

  • @matthewthehawk1066
    @matthewthehawk10662 жыл бұрын

    Love Vanessa, Making the world a better place.

  • @sandipagrawal4962
    @sandipagrawal49623 жыл бұрын

    Very informative,thanks.

  • @laxmankumarsudam7645
    @laxmankumarsudam76453 жыл бұрын

    Madam, It is useful for the progress of every one.

  • @seemamoharil3238
    @seemamoharil32382 жыл бұрын

    Thank you , very informative. Video

  • @dr.santoshkaulkak9749
    @dr.santoshkaulkak97492 жыл бұрын

    I am Really Inspired by the lecture.

  • @cassandranaranjo2895
    @cassandranaranjo2895 Жыл бұрын

    Vanessa Van Edwards was a God to my younger autistic self that so badly wanted to understand other people. Your doing amazing work. I don't think I would have made it this far without your knowledge sharing. Thank you!

  • @ScienceOfPeople

    @ScienceOfPeople

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for being here and I'm happy to hear that my content is helping you ❤ To your success!

  • @migueldominguez8724

    @migueldominguez8724

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @dr.m.gomathi5971
    @dr.m.gomathi59712 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing the information

  • @rhythmicleadership9574
    @rhythmicleadership95743 жыл бұрын

    I frequently say this to my subscribers: "When you are walking and working in a rhythmic leadership mode, you have clearer thinking and a sharpened mindset that ignites your purpose, passion, and priorities."

  • @Duchessella1

    @Duchessella1

    3 жыл бұрын

    good rhythmic

  • @Duchessella1

    @Duchessella1

    3 жыл бұрын

    it is good to be a leader every body

  • @seemamadhukarkale3585
    @seemamadhukarkale35852 жыл бұрын

    Informative and useful video, Thank you mam

  • @suka0706
    @suka0706 Жыл бұрын

    I recently read Angela Duckworth’s book Grit and she mentions, based on Carol Dweck’s research on a growth mindset, that we should praise effort as opposed to talent. Instead of calling someone smart or intelligent we should focus more on what they do to increase their intelligence. Also in Daniel Goleman’s book Focus he states that people who have a proclivity towards daydreaming may benefit from a wandering mind or less focused mind to help access their creativity or creative thoughts or thought process. Just thought I would share what I have recently discovered in my research and I am looking to you for most of my people skill guidance for I am a current awkward person. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and expertise with those of us still trying to find our way out of the darkness.

  • @ScienceOfPeople

    @ScienceOfPeople

    Жыл бұрын

    Very interesting - thank you so much for sharing this! Honored I get to help ❤

  • @eswaramurthyvp541
    @eswaramurthyvp5412 жыл бұрын

    Useful to know qualities of a good leader.

  • @olayinkaadegbite2990
    @olayinkaadegbite29902 жыл бұрын

    Good morning dose for a leader out there. Nice one Vanessa.

  • @mu.makbarzadeh2831
    @mu.makbarzadeh28312 жыл бұрын

    So informative!

  • @alina2rock
    @alina2rock2 жыл бұрын

    Love everything that you do

  • @christianferrer6004
    @christianferrer60043 жыл бұрын

    These videos give me motivation to be better at work. Liability is what makes me reluctant to be a leader.

  • @Jam-tr1ny

    @Jam-tr1ny

    3 жыл бұрын

    Samedt.

  • @MNP208

    @MNP208

    2 жыл бұрын

    LOL, you must work in health care.

  • @DiversityCristian
    @DiversityCristian2 жыл бұрын

    Very helpful! Thanks for sharing with us! Your voice sounds very similar with the voice of Alux KZread channel: Amazing!🤗🥰

  • @KataholosYoutubeChannel
    @KataholosYoutubeChannel9 ай бұрын

    This is excellent, particularly skill 5- expressed in a very novel and memorable way! ☺️👏👏

  • @ScienceOfPeople

    @ScienceOfPeople

    9 ай бұрын

    Yay so glad you enjoyed! :)

  • @GuidoPerdomo
    @GuidoPerdomo Жыл бұрын

    the sound quality of this video is so yummy! Vanessa please consider giving your usual studio some sound treatment, it makes the content that much enjoyable and professional

  • @VoiceoverMomentum
    @VoiceoverMomentum2 жыл бұрын

    This is amazing. I need to take the People School, once I have less on my plate.

  • @shaaverson
    @shaaverson3 жыл бұрын

    Great video and subject! Question: in the current and post-COVID world, which body language will emerge as the best first impression in place of shaking hands?

  • @ScienceOfPeople

    @ScienceOfPeople

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi there! Here's a post on handshake alternatives that may help :) Thanks! www.scienceofpeople.com/handshake-alternatives/

  • @soniagaviraYT
    @soniagaviraYT Жыл бұрын

    Agree! This is an inspiring video for people who seek development in their leadership position!

  • @sumiakther8089

    @sumiakther8089

    Жыл бұрын

    Right

  • @sunitamishra9293
    @sunitamishra92932 жыл бұрын

    Useful session thanks madam

  • @syed-syedehteshamahmed2657
    @syed-syedehteshamahmed26573 жыл бұрын

    @Vanessa Van Edwards , it is amazing to see how you have simplified the knowledge sharing on developing Leadership Skills. Your view that the Leadership skills can be thought is corroborated by a study conducted out of University of Illinois. I have also published a video whether leaders are born or made on my channel. I have been a believer that Leadership skills are vital for the development of 1. an Individual 2. an Organization 3. the society 4. The Nation I have embarked up on a mission to support one billion people to develop High-Impact Leadership skills #syedleadershipalchemist #syedehteshamahmed #syed

  • @aldorossi3177
    @aldorossi31772 жыл бұрын

    thanks a lot Vanessa!

  • @dr.vaishaliperke1456
    @dr.vaishaliperke14562 жыл бұрын

    Very nice and useful information mam thanks

  • @Ashley-ye6yt
    @Ashley-ye6yt4 жыл бұрын

    Oh so good!! #2 is definitely effective for ppl whose love language is Words of Affirmation

  • @syedabdulbasith9546

    @syedabdulbasith9546

    2 жыл бұрын

    Seems you have read '5 Love Languages' :-)

  • @overload119
    @overload1194 жыл бұрын

    == Video Summary == 1. Go for the small yes. Asking for a small request first, leads to a "yes" on a bigger request later. 2. Embrace the Pygmalion Effect. Don't offer a bonus, instead offer praise. When people receive a positive label, they "live" up to that label. 3. Logic or Emotion? Logic (proof, statistics, reason), Intuition (what makes sense in the gut), Emotional (metaphors, imagery, story). People prefer intuition and emotional vs logic, but make sure to have a blend. 4. Choose the right seat at the table. Pick a seat where you can see everybody else (ie. the header of the table) 5. Empty Calorie Time. Don't waste energy on "junk" activities. Take a REAL break (not TV, or Facebook) - prefer alternatives like yoga, meditation, etc. 6. Ask behavioral questions. Similar to an interview, you want to reveal their personality, motivations, and values. Example: "What's something that you use to believe that you no longer believe?" 7. Be scared, a little. Those who set high goals are more satisfied than their counterparts that have lower expectation. 8. Abandon revenge. Globalizing vs Localizing (how important is this, really?). Write it down. 9. Embody the body language of leaders. Leaders smile and move less. Go in for a strong handshake first, and also finish with one. 10. Invest in social skills. Basically, watch this video and ones like it!!!

  • @aditilodhi1236

    @aditilodhi1236

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks this helps a lot 💯

  • @Iam_ramankaur
    @Iam_ramankaur Жыл бұрын

    wow this was so informative ! thank you

  • @georgebauram2995
    @georgebauram29953 жыл бұрын

    Great conversation

  • @parshotamsingh2349
    @parshotamsingh2349 Жыл бұрын

    so good.. Thanks

  • @shaikhmahemudabdulraheman4480
    @shaikhmahemudabdulraheman44802 жыл бұрын

    Very informative

  • @yazpiration490
    @yazpiration4902 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, now i learned that leader smile in moderation, because too much smiling aint good for it may mean that you are tend to be submissive, leader knows where to sit, leader invest in communication.

  • @dranilwagh7533
    @dranilwagh75333 жыл бұрын

    Very useful... Nice presentation mam

  • @k.c.lalmalsawmzauva2703
    @k.c.lalmalsawmzauva27033 жыл бұрын

    Versatile lady,always excellent

  • @tatianagabriel8579
    @tatianagabriel85794 жыл бұрын

    Great video

  • @vinaybhogle395
    @vinaybhogle3953 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @Canseisodever
    @Canseisodever3 жыл бұрын

    I liked so much, thanks

  • @lucianojanducci9907
    @lucianojanducci99074 ай бұрын

    Excellent video Thanks for sharing.

  • @ScienceOfPeople

    @ScienceOfPeople

    4 ай бұрын

    Thanks for watching!

  • @saadabdalla1057
    @saadabdalla10572 жыл бұрын

    Amazing video

  • @edmoneves5680
    @edmoneves5680 Жыл бұрын

    Hello, Even tough you consider yourserf as a leader It worth to learn more, after all a true leader nerver stopping to discovery new skills. Brasil - SP

  • @funanimalsounds
    @funanimalsounds4 жыл бұрын

    Very good.

  • @dr.surendraparmar2336
    @dr.surendraparmar2336 Жыл бұрын

    Very good video.

  • @user-sc4gq7ii4v
    @user-sc4gq7ii4v11 ай бұрын

    I like the tone of the speaker

  • @amishan.prajapati6339
    @amishan.prajapati63392 жыл бұрын

    Such an inspiring video

  • @amelel-rayis
    @amelel-rayis4 жыл бұрын

    I agree with everything you said except when it comes to "smiling"! Smile is not a sign of submission; it's a a sign of self-satisfaction which is part of self-esteem.

  • @ibrahimhamada5910

    @ibrahimhamada5910

    2 жыл бұрын

    You have an attractive smile 😃

  • @jaydevsinhrayjada1677
    @jaydevsinhrayjada16772 жыл бұрын

    Thank you mem for your Nice Video.

  • @balrajmachnoor1351
    @balrajmachnoor13513 жыл бұрын

    Really great video

  • @abebeyalew1507
    @abebeyalew1507 Жыл бұрын

    I loved your golden and beautiful voice + accent.

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