Remember rejection is not fatal, it is merely someone's opinion.

@hmmmmmnmmmmmm

3 жыл бұрын

My RSD disagrees

@GabrielTobing

3 жыл бұрын

What if they rejected your life threatening surgery... Ummmmmmmmm... Well, best of luck to ya! XD

@lliw_

3 жыл бұрын

thank you this made me feel better

@estherkissoon4956

3 жыл бұрын

@@lliw_ I'm happy someone finds this helpful. Don't hurt yourself because somone doesn't want you. They don't know what they are missing, but you can't always blame them for having their opinion because we all have our own opinion. But I assure you, you will find the real person soon to be with you. 💕

@lliw_

3 жыл бұрын

@@estherkissoon4956 thank you again ☺️ you are very kind 😌

Rejection is easier to live with than regret. A "no" is better than not knowing.

@roaringflames7167

2 жыл бұрын

Right always better to try and find out the truth.

@lexie02jones25

2 жыл бұрын

True

@GoldenMushroom64

2 жыл бұрын

Yes definitely! Much easier to deal with it

@BikinibottomSeaweed

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly what I said very true :)

@yesjustordinary

2 жыл бұрын

Love this :)

Remember, if they don't reciprocate the same feelings towards you.. they're not "the one" so don't dwell too much over rejections.

@zerkboy7097

Жыл бұрын

But he was

@domispablo7992

Жыл бұрын

I have literally told someone I have a crush and I like them rn it'll be the 4th time if I get rejected. You know I don't believe in curses but. It could start persuading me if it happens

I was rejected by 2 girls in a row...but like all things, the pain will pass. Rejection may knock me down but I will keep getting back up. Stay strong everyone!😁

@seidenschnabelfederflugel5441

2 жыл бұрын

♥️♥️♥️

@athan_valentine

2 жыл бұрын

Im at 5, with the last one being today and hurting the most because she admitted she had feelings too but she's already in a relationship

@imtiazsarkar8832

2 жыл бұрын

Try going to the gym. Look good. You will get a yes.

@andygotthebass6525

2 жыл бұрын

@@athan_valentine that means that you're close to finding the one, I can feel it

@athan_valentine

2 жыл бұрын

@@andygotthebass6525 i'm gonna take a while to heal and move on to someone else but thanks, it means a lot to me

Virtual hugs to literally everyone. Even to the people who don't need ittttttt 🖤

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Yesss!! Thanks for sharing your virtual hugs! - Cindy

@funplayer05.1

3 жыл бұрын

*Huggg*

@kommissarrex9

3 жыл бұрын

Hug ❤️

@Randomstupidthings

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@Saint3188

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for doing this.

Remember rejection is redirection. And it's never about your value as a person. Rejection means that THAT thing or person wasn't mean to be in your life because you deserve something else, something better for you❤️

@benhinton4613

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@scaboi

2 жыл бұрын

A lie. All the people who rejected me are doing much better in life than me. It's like they didn't deserve me, not the other way around. I've yet to see any good come out of my rejections. Rejection is a failure, not a redirection.

@user-ki8pu6jr5i

2 жыл бұрын

@@scaboi I hope you will heal one day

@Boxanadu

2 жыл бұрын

Actually rejection CAN be about your value as a person.

@blushworthyspeaks

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-ki8pu6jr5i holy shit what is wrong with you..."thoughts and prayers" read the room

When one door is closing , another one is opening. Our potential is limitless. Stay safe. Stay blessed and stay healthy

@hethweek2116

3 жыл бұрын

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@yasemink.8402

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this reminder. 🙏🏻🍀

@lexie02jones25

2 жыл бұрын

So true

@shirleyjeannite5724

2 жыл бұрын

😃♥️

@MrLegendary0ne

2 жыл бұрын

So wholesome. Thank you. Im really hurting.

My biggest challenge after a romantic rejection is trying to process the strong and affectionate feelings that I've developed for someone. I'm still not sure what helps.

@hethweek2116

3 жыл бұрын

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@belief7994

3 жыл бұрын

I’m in the same phase especially when that person reach out to u first and liked u so bad now there distant and act as if nothing ever happened 🤷🏾‍♂️

@emeeeeeeeee

2 жыл бұрын

This is exactly what I’m feeling right now. I have a crush and I’m pretty sure they know I like them. I’m certain that they’ll reject me because they are already dating someone and they show no interest in me. Struggling with those feelings are really difficult for me, and I assume you also. I just want you to know there are always other opportunities and other people

@tshegotams4546

Жыл бұрын

@@josephleal529 no

@sunbeam9222

9 ай бұрын

I still have plenty affection for my partner who disappeared after an argument. I've realised I don't have to fight my feelings and feel much better that way. I accept that he doesn't want to be with me. That's ok. I want to be with me so yes this is goodbye. I also accept my love for him, love is not painful when it comes with no expectations from the person.

Rejection is about you not meeting their criteria. Just because you don't meet one person's criteria, doesn't mean it'll be the same way for everyone.

@BriannaGibbsLovatictaylorcyrus

3 жыл бұрын

What if it’s the same way for everyone?

@AutomaticDuck300

3 жыл бұрын

@@BriannaGibbsLovatictaylorcyrus then you can adjust but usually there are some people who accept you.

@nadaaaaaaa707

3 жыл бұрын

Dear Mr. Lemon, your comment was better than the video, thank YOU

@AutomaticDuck300

3 жыл бұрын

@@nadaaaaaaa707 no problem

@scaboi

2 жыл бұрын

@@AutomaticDuck300 What if your not attracted to the people who accept you?

Look at the positive part of rejection, you will not have to get rid of people in the future.

@MindNow

3 жыл бұрын

Sometimes rejection brings u closer to what ur goal by knowing what u should focus on

@feelstora3

3 жыл бұрын

But not everybody who rejects you is a bad or toxic person.

@SelfMadeWealth

3 жыл бұрын

@@MindNow that's true as well!

@pr_mittal

3 жыл бұрын

Not everyone who rejects is toxic

3 жыл бұрын

A guy rejected me in a romantic way. I decided to keep him as a friend. Now, he is the best friend I have ever had. He is the exact opposite of a toxic person. So, this opinion is biased by your own experiences, maybe, what do I know...

As someone who has been rejected multiple times I can say that these tips are very accurate and helpful, never be afraid of new opportunities, always work on yourself and try to be the best version of yourself

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your feedback! Glad you find them helpful!

@jasonwilliams3095

Жыл бұрын

You still got your right hand there.. don't complain lol.that One never rejects you lol

@ysaehikonrad6431

7 ай бұрын

Amen

Ive had men who i liked reject me, later they came around again trying to get me to give them another chance. It generally doesn’t work out like that for me, i just send them back from where they came from. I don’t like being thought of as a second choice only for a guy to give someone the shot, attention, and thoughtfulness to someone else. They didn’t give me the same consideration when we were dating.

@MS-gz7gv

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah exactly like why would let them back when they couldn’t see you the same when you did like them.

@lexie02jones25

2 жыл бұрын

Me too!

@12Marxzero34

2 жыл бұрын

Some people have called me selfish for thinking like this but damn! Letting people come back after their fun is degrading.

@zaidsyed9788

2 жыл бұрын

*back to where they came from , Yea Yea correcting just for fun :p

@jasonwilliams3095

Жыл бұрын

That happend when a girl is fat or Ugly face..

My attitude is that "if I'm not good enough for them," ... then, "they are not good enough for me, either." 😉👍

A lot of people say the worst thing your crush can say is no, but the worst thing they could probably say is "your ugly" or "ew" or "no your werid" so.... be glad that they rejected you nicely (if they rejected you nicely)

@Churlz

2 ай бұрын

They did you a favor. Imagine actually being in a relationship with someone that immature.

"Rejection is not The End. It's The Start of a New Opportunity"

I always keep in mind that rejection is just a redirection and that has really helped not take rejection to heart. I used to cry whenever I was rejected, whether professionally or personally and with that mindset, it happens less often!!

@tommygunn6901

3 жыл бұрын

I've learned to get through that with EMDR therapy. Great thing is that I'm at the point where I'm desensitized by people who reject me. Yeah, it sucks, but I look at it and say "Well, looks like something's going on with them right now" Granted, it's a hit below the belt, but it's what you do about it that makes a difference! 😁👍

@lexie02jones25

2 жыл бұрын

Ammen

@jasonwilliams3095

Жыл бұрын

The women in United States are useless and ultra mega superficial about looks. In Portugal and Italy it happens the same situatioon. women in those country only go with handsome men (all ugly and average men are rejected constantly if they are poor). no chance to get a girlfriend there... The best solution it's move to Mexico for United States men, and for Portuguese men move to Africa.. Mexican/colombian/panama women don't care much about looks and are more focused in enjoy life. You live pretty close to mexico so take a flight and move. That's my advice

Her voice feels like a warm hug 💕

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

She does! Glad you loved her voice. - Cindy

@gargi7772

3 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go 😊

Let's be honest... Every one watching this channel needs this

@valeriewalkerwhite9525

2 жыл бұрын

You too

My parents thought me this when I got rejected from a girl . “Accept and Respect the reject don’t get Upset and there is always more to people to be Met.”

@Saskia-Hannah2004

8 ай бұрын

amazinggggg

Rejection (as much as it sucks), is all natural. We take it so personally cause we feel the want and need to be accepted! After facing so much of it especially last year, I'm at the point of judt being desensitized by it that it really doesn't bother me anymore. I hot the few who are still here, and those who want in are more than welcome to prove it, just as I will. Rejection is nothing personal, so it's time to take back your power and don't take it so personally!

@mohammadangginugrohomcjogja

3 жыл бұрын

True! Thank you!

@scaboi

2 жыл бұрын

We usually take it personally if the rejection was done in a hurtful way.

Sadly everyone has to go through this at some point. I just recently did and I was so embarrassed and my heart wouldn’t stop pounding. The next day I had an idea that I should send my crush a long message explaining things. I thought that if he read that, it would make me feel better and less embarrassed when I would have to see him again. I planned the whole message and thankfully I had the guts to send it. He replied later very respectfully and mentioned that I didn’t need to feel embarrassed at all. Even though he friend zoned me very hard, I felt relieved that I could finally relax and not stress. I have so much anxiety and didn’t know exactly how to handle it but reaching out to him really helped me. So the moral of this story is that THERE IS A WAY. YOU CAN AND WILL GET THROUGH THIS. As I am writing this, I still haven’t seen him since he found out that I liked him. I am dreading when I have to. However, I’m going to keep my head up and have fun with my friends. I’m not going to worry about what him and his friends are doing. I feel like if I didn’t text him my hugeeee message, then when I see him again, I would’ve had a panic attack and been so embarrassed. But I’m ok now and I know I’m going to get through this. So if you’re in this situation right now too I’m here for you. It really hurts but you will get through it. Don’t cry over them, they aren’t worth your time. However, if you want to do something about it, you can always do something like me. I texted them and cleared everything up and it made me feel better. You shouldn’t have to keep feeling the way you do. I woke up and was done with how I felt and I wanted to make a change and I did. I admire my courage. That was the bravest thing I think I have ever done. You can do that too. It’s so easy. Don’t let other people bring you down. Rise against it. Rejection and friend zoning sucks but that’s ok. That just means that that person isn’t the one for you. Give it time. One day you’ll meet someone who will love you endlessly and would never want to do anything to hurt you. For now, I’ll be here waiting with you and know that there are other people around you that understand how you’re feeling right now. So talk to them. Even though they can’t do anything to help the situation, they can be there for you. Sometimes that’s all you need. Comfort. And trust me, it will pass. Mine hasn’t even been a week long and I feel great. I had a unbelievably huge crush on my crush and I thought I’d never get over him. I’m not sure if I have since I haven’t seen him so Idk if I’ll stop getting those feelings when I’m around him, but I do know that I feel free and so happy. Maybe it was a blessing in disguise. Now I can move on. Sry that was a lot but you’re strong and I believe in you. IT IS POSSIBLE. YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS.

@katie2872

2 жыл бұрын

Jeez sorry that was a lot. Good job to whoever read that all

@pieceocake7766

2 жыл бұрын

I read it all. im so happy it went well for you and that u are strong. sadly i was rejected early in my life and im 27 now and never been in a relationship and pretty much have given up hope in that regard. oh well thats life. Anyways have a great day!

@katie2872

2 жыл бұрын

@ PieceO'Cake aww I’m so sorry. But don’t worry I’m sure the right person will come when you least expect it. Sometimes it just takes a long time. But it seems like you’re happy and living life to the fullest and I admire that. I wish the same for me as I get older.

@pieceocake7766

2 жыл бұрын

@@katie2872 thank you. I try to not let it make me bitter. And I try not to give up hope but I cry a lot cause I'm alone

@katie2872

2 жыл бұрын

@ PieceO'Cake aww that hurts me to hear. But I think we are all like that😢 the world can be a lonely place. Stay safe out there. I wish you the best.

I've got too many rejections in my life. Last year I've got a heartbreak. And the one who I called my friend,break my trust. My family also rejected me until I've got a little bit of success. But watching this video just made me relax a bit from my problems. Thanks,Psych2Go🙂

@rexklxss13yo

3 жыл бұрын

Ll

@TheOneAndOnly004

3 жыл бұрын

This is sad to hear. BUT : you got this far, you'll make it through.

@anxyietoo

3 жыл бұрын

Damn, that must be really hard to go through. Even if we don't know who you are, or able to feel exactly as you feel, remember that there's always people out there that's proud that you're still here, including me! Don't be sad too much, there's still much positivity left to be explored. All you need to do is change your perspective on everday things and everything should be going to be even better! Keep going, buddy!

@namelessflower6025

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheOneAndOnly004 Yeah! But still,I'm trying to be fine😊 Also I hope you're doing fine,too🙏🏻

@MindNow

3 жыл бұрын

U to this flora, we believe in u!

Rejection is something that I can’t handle

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Nobody likes rejection but it's an important lifelong skillset to learn. You got this! - Cindy

@mujtab8siddiqu1

3 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go Monica yesterday and Cindy today 😃

@KatbeautyG

3 жыл бұрын

Easier said than done. Very hard😭 but I got it

@Mtz2604

3 жыл бұрын

I'm on therapy dealing with all this because I kinda create traumas with this kind of rejections and losses... Sometimes you need a hand from a mental health professional.

@amiahedmondson6320

2 жыл бұрын

Same, I dwell on it for months😭

1. accept the answer 0:48 2. distance yourself from the situation 1:23 3. allow yourself to feel 2:11 4. spend time with friends, family, or in therapy 2:50 5. do something you love 3:28 6. practice self-care 4:14 7. work on yourself 5:06 8. learn from the experience 5:56 9. put the rejection into context 6:37 10. explore other opportunities 7:23 I hope I could help! :D

@slyevergreens4432

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@universepower110

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks u saved my time 🙂

@unboxingangel5845

3 жыл бұрын

I needed this i really can't cope at rejection i feel too much

@jovan1182

2 жыл бұрын

I practice death

@mskay9597

8 күн бұрын

Thank you! 😊

I was rejected a month ago. Still feel sad about it but it gets better. Sometimes I will cry when I think about it. We are still friends though.

@naton9423

Жыл бұрын

This really pretty girl with an amazing personality which I have become really good friends with just rejected me and I’m not sure how interacting with her from now on will be

@mistresmirano

Жыл бұрын

@@naton9423 hi. I understand your feelings. It’s hard to cope with it. But overtime it will be better. Luckily I didn’t put 100% of my feelings on him. So I got over it just fine.

@odnuu

Жыл бұрын

I just got rejected from my friend and idk how to keep my friendship going on, you know. I want him in my life but I feel like I am trying too hard and making myself hurt even more. Do you have any advice?

@jasonwilliams3095

Жыл бұрын

The women in United States are useless and ultra mega superficial about looks on each men. In Portugal and Italy it happens the same situation. women in those country only go with handsome men (all ugly and average men are rejected constantly if they are poor). no chance to get a girlfriend there... The best solution it's move to Mexico for United States men, and for Portuguese men move to Africa.. Mexican/colombian/panama women don't care much about looks and are more focused in enjoy life. You live pretty close to mexico so take a flight and move. That's my advice

@mistresmirano

Жыл бұрын

@@odnuu hi. Although we are still friends I can sense that he is avoiding me. Since we are working in a same building he can’t avoid me 100%. We still talk to each other. I just pretend I never confessed to him. Even if it’s hurting me I keep reminding myself I don’t want to lose our friendship. Hope it’ll help you

To the person that’ll read this: you’re cool and adorable, stay safe!

@GoldenMushroom64

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you bb 💕

tip for anyone worrying: its really awkward at first if you keep seeing them but thousands of people go through it and tbh you get over it after a few days and life just goes back to normal

Just got rejected for the first time by someone, and it feels like we're still gonna be friends which is what I was hoping for if she said no. But ultimately, I feel so happy that I was able to be true to myself and actually live a little

@andromedaunsure72

7 ай бұрын

Oh gosh I relate to this so much

@LS-yu3or

6 ай бұрын

so real. i got rejected but didn't feel sad. i felt happy that we would at least stay friends and that i took that leap of faith. i feel relieved and like i can breathe again

@sarija8388

6 ай бұрын

Today I got rejected by my first love he told me that he love someone else and his friends was mocking me . Now I understood that I can live without him. I just need my friends.never gonna fall for another one

@user-kf7zu9lk5e

18 күн бұрын

Same only im still a little sad I did not have a emotional outburst and now feel like the hopes I had were for nothing

Most people in the comment section are talking about romantic rejections, but honestly I think professional or career related rejections hurt the most. Today I received a rejection email from a program that I was really hoping to be a part of, I even imagined myself traveling for that opportunity. The rejection email really broke my heart and life seems a little hopeless right now.

@ws7009

2 жыл бұрын

i truly agree with you. Job rejection is so painful and soul crashing. At first i thought i was fine with it but after so many rejections it can be so demoralising. I hope things have gone better for you.

@shumilefatima7851

2 жыл бұрын

@@ws7009 I completely agree with you. Reading this comment made me revisit all those emotions. I got rejected for the same program again but this time I am mentally and financially at a way better place. Although, rejections hurt but I am still going to apply for the programs that I am passionate about.

@EduardoSantos-pv8yo

Жыл бұрын

In my life this is happening simultaneously. I've been rejected romantically and professionally.

@ang8574

Жыл бұрын

@@shumilefatima7851 ❤️

@SpencerLemay

4 ай бұрын

I am starting a business selling stuff to other businesses and get about 10 rejections a week. Lot's of those rejections I am going to go and try again.

I was rejected in the past but my feelings didn't fade. In fact, I was obsessed. After some time, my feelings were gone and so I thought. The next thing I knew, those feelings came back but I really didn't do anything about the situation. Everytime that I think about it, I can't help but to feel hate and disgust to myself.

@cherryblossom548

3 жыл бұрын

I hope you will feel better soon. Genuine feelings will always remain in our hearts - as long as we don't do bad things to justify what we feel, it's only human to keep feeling and remembering. I still obsess about my crush almost 20 years back 😅. Being rejected again recently is making me worried I will keep obsessing for the next 20 years 😅😅😅

@sonzai5162

3 жыл бұрын

@@cherryblossom548 Thank you for the response dear. You're right, we are just faulty humans after all but it still sucks to be in this situation. It feels so pathetic and I still can't forgive myself for that past. The best I can do is to suck it up. I hope the best for you in life. 😊

@cherryblossom548

3 жыл бұрын

@@sonzai5162 i also wish you all the best. This is life - we gotta move on and plod through it, hoping to never repeat the same mistake. 💪🏻😊

@jasonwilliams3095

Жыл бұрын

The women in United States are useless and ultra mega superficial about looks. In Portugal and Italy it happens the same situatioon. women in those country only go with handsome men (all ugly and average men are rejected constantly if they are poor). no chance to get a girlfriend there... The best solution it's move to Mexico for United States men, and for Portuguese men move to Africa.. Mexican/colombian/panama women don't care much about looks and are more focused in enjoy life. You live pretty close to mexico so take a flight and move. That's my advice

The best way to handle rejection, and anything else actually, is to work on your self-concept. It all comes down to personal beliefs about yourself or about different situations in life.

@pepiluci75

2 жыл бұрын

Agree

I had to reject a friend, and she's still struggling with her feelings for me... I care so much about her that sometimes I wish I was in love with her just to make her happy. But I don't know how to help her because I also just don't know what being rejected and loving someone feels like yet.

@pepiluci75

2 жыл бұрын

I understand you. I've been on both sides though.

@linde4649

2 жыл бұрын

@@pepiluci75 it's been 9 months and we're actually together now, has been a long hard period though

@itstacy

2 жыл бұрын

@@linde4649 damn how did u get together did she still pursue you even if u rejected her?

@jovan1182

2 жыл бұрын

Hi

@bethanyparedes8387

Жыл бұрын

@@linde4649 that's honestly crazy omg. ive heard stories of the other party over time liking the person back. im so happy for you too and hope it works out!

Do what you like, that really works. Cars saved me from depression, some of my friends asking me why do I spend so much time and money on my car. I just tell them my car will never friendzoned and reject me, she accepted me for who I am and taught me a lot of mechanically things which I like to learn.

Me who literally just confessed to my crush today and got a date- Edit: thank you so much to everyone wishing me good luck! 🥺

@7tkto_n

3 жыл бұрын

Wish you the best!

@doodlenoodle5237

3 жыл бұрын

@@7tkto_n thanks a lot! It’s my first date so I’m pretty nervous

@haileygg6

3 жыл бұрын

Good luck ‼️ you got it ✨

@doodlenoodle5237

3 жыл бұрын

@@haileygg6 thank you ❤️

@shadowsightliker

3 жыл бұрын

CONGRATULATIONS!

It's funny how I haven't learned how to deal with rejection even though I get rejected so often

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

This time is your turn to shine! :) - Cindy

@eyeamphree3337

3 ай бұрын

Try removing the rose colored frame & see the people who rejected you for who they really are. You may not only be turned off but even completely disgusted. Works every time 🙃

My best friend rejected me. What happened was I asked him out and he said, "I think we are just friends" that stung me. What he did after was he dated different girl in front of me to make me feel worse. When all this happened it felt like a million bullets shot my heart into a million pieces and my heart would never heal. I also thought, "Why is life so unfair. Love sucks. I built up courage for 4 years and I get rejected. " I felt so alone with no one to talk to.

@Mocxhi

Жыл бұрын

I can relate to you , I liked this guy for 3 years and confessed today but he is in a relation with a junior . He said I am like his little sister and the worst fact that he knew about my feelings since 3 years.

@Another_Salty_Bish

Жыл бұрын

Its okay bud. I got rejected yesterday by a girl that i liked and i can relate. Don't worry tho we'll get through this. I believe that YOU can do this and you WILL. Sending virtual hugs to everyone!!

@stevo999

Жыл бұрын

i’m going thru this rn and i feel the same pain. It hurts like a bullet wound exactly like you said

@nabilahghani1977

Жыл бұрын

@@stevo999 hey how are u feeling now

I just got my rejection letter for a scholarship. It was the third time (all different scholarships). I hope everyone who is experiencing the same kind of pain that I am right now, feels better. And always keep this on your mind "Do not make their words, your reality". In essence, it is just a rejection, it is not you. Keep fighting and keep on going, I can't promise that something would happen eventually but it is hope that makes us human. Keep moving forward. 😌

Step one: just don't talk to anyone to begin with. You can't get rejected if you don't talk to people :]

@-rosaniee9602

3 жыл бұрын

but that’s life! rejection feels sucks for sure but that’s how you live and grow if u got rejected that’s just means that that job or project or person is simply not for you or not good for you to begin with so live and do things don’t just sit after one rejection and shut yourself from the world and amazing opportunities waiting or you :( and sorry if my english is bad

@sysorts

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao true, im considering of shutting up since I just can’t seem to accept rejection of some sort, but then again, it’s not a healthy way of dealing with it either.

@antbotsquad6769

3 жыл бұрын

@@connorblair765 wow I understand you so much I also have adhd and being around friends has always been hard for me. I take medicine every day for it.

@shirleyjeannite5724

2 жыл бұрын

@@connorblair765 🙁

@princessofpower4862

2 жыл бұрын

Haha I wish

I applied for a job recently and didn't get it. I noticed that it was causing me anxiety and panic attacks (waiting for the answer and the fear of rejection) so I prepared myself for getting the bad news and immediately started to reflect about what I can improve for the next time I also thought about the good things I won't miss for being unemployed. I started taking care of my body as well, so I feel like I handle rejection in a good way and I'm proud of it. At the end, it's not big deal being rejected and you learn from the experiences, maybe next time you'll get something better than the opportunity you didn't get.

I became a time-traveler by accident and there's no going back.

@slyevergreens4432

3 жыл бұрын

No one cares

@imbattlnscurvy5922

3 жыл бұрын

How?

@mossypawprints

3 жыл бұрын

@@slyevergreens4432 _shhhhhhhhhh_

@shrenalforever2135

3 жыл бұрын

How did you do that?

@andyc9902

3 жыл бұрын

Ok

Everyone makes mistakes even the hardest one in relationships or friendships. Its up to you as the person to change in a good way but to know what's wrong

@MindNow

3 жыл бұрын

So true!

I just got rejected today. I don't really have anyone to talk to about it. Then this showed up and it's been very insightful. I'm hurting really bad now and I really hope I can get through this. Thank you psych2go for this video. I love you guys.

@ummaibrahim6818

3 жыл бұрын

Hello dear, true love never die don't give up anything in life all hope is not lost ❤.

@ummaibrahim6818

3 жыл бұрын

I know a powerful man that can help you get your ex or crush back forever, he helped me too immediately without stress and delay, he have solution to all problems💯.

@ummaibrahim6818

3 жыл бұрын

Text him on WhatsApp📩

@ummaibrahim6818

3 жыл бұрын

+1 (5 3 0) 9 4 8 8 1 2 0.

@jasonwilliams3095

Жыл бұрын

The women in United States are useless and ultra mega superficial about looks. In Portugal and Italy it happens the same situatioon. women in those country only go with handsome men (all ugly and average men are rejected constantly if they are poor). no chance to get a girlfriend there... The best solution it's move to Mexico for United States men, and for Portuguese men move to Africa.. Mexican/colombian/panama women don't care much about looks and are more focused in enjoy life. You live pretty close to mexico so take a flight and move. That's my advice

This video reflects every single one of my “friends.” Except for my one real best friend who I’m so lucky to have

Everyday in the lottery, in Las Vegas & on game shows like "The Price is Right", people are "rejected" constantly without a second thought. Love is absolutely no different. Some will win in this game. But others must lose. We cannot all win, fate won't allow it. The solution is to walk away from the toxic area, and find substitutions. The smart & the wise know this.

I just got indirectly rejected and unrejected within a matter of days and I’m so confused rn

@ranapratap4650

3 жыл бұрын

Your comment itself is kinda confusing 🤣🤣🤣 Confuse your Confusion perhaps

@ohmyohasparagus441

3 жыл бұрын

@@ranapratap4650 your reply adds to my confusion lol

@ohmyohasparagus441

3 жыл бұрын

@@ranapratap4650 basically what happened is I met this guy and we became friends. He asked me if I liked him, I said I wasn’t really sure since we’d only been talking for a little while but I said I really liked talking to him. He said he didn’t have a crush on me and then I realized that I did have a crush on him and I was really sad. Then a few days later he said that he wanted to change what he said and that he agreed with the way I felt. Still not really sure what’s going to happen but wish me luck!!

@ranapratap4650

3 жыл бұрын

@@ohmyohasparagus441 Interesting but yes, a bit confusing 🤣. I wish you very good Luck for the future 🌟

@ohmyohasparagus441

3 жыл бұрын

@@ranapratap4650 I hope all goes well in life for you too!!! 😁

Nice to watch this and realize that I have already been doing this against the recent big rejection. Immediately after rejection, I accepted it and then started looking what I can do to meet my needs instead of trying to change the rejector’s opinion. Of course, I wanted to know why the rejector rejected me in the first place, so I approached her for that, but she could not tell. So I had to reflect on my own and find out actually rejection can be just part of life no matter how excellent you are as a person. I think this rejection helped me realize what I am good at and make me appreciate/value people who can see my value much more!

I can't not feel guilty about it. It's both drama and sadness, like I'm working to be rejected. I can't do something if not for someone or with someone. When doing for myself I only get anxious, think who left and who still is here and what I've done so I won't do this again to the next person. This gets more important than my studies, career, jobs... been so many years like this

For whoever is reading this: I wish you the best 2021! Don't let anyone change you! Your so beautiful !!!

Thanks for this, just got rejected. I think this will help ease the pain 🙂

The most memorable rejection I experienced was rather recent. I got rejected by a close friend who now doesn't want to speak to me again over some disagreement we had. I have been rejected before, but it's never cut that deep until this happened. I'd rather not explain what the disagreement was all about because I fear I might be judged for it. But what I can say is, I knew it was going to happen one day and I knew that this type of rejection tends to happen in my lifestyle, so it let me have a taste of it - let me see what it's like. I knew it was going to be painful, but I didn't expect it to be THAT painful... I'm mostly over it by now, but ngl, a teensy bit of anger is still around. Though that'll pass with time. I'll get over it - I always do.

@belief7994

3 жыл бұрын

I’m curious what conversation did U have ?

@timdaferretmailman7297

3 жыл бұрын

@@belief7994 Rather not say for fear of being judged. Trying to move on, though I don't blame you for being curious.

@belief7994

3 жыл бұрын

@@timdaferretmailman7297 I mean it’s not like we personally know u but I understand

From my past failed relationship, it been taught me that never put high hope and expectation on your partner. We can't controll what other people feel and want. Moving on made my life so much better. I'm so happy working with my hobbies and my family after that. Its very hurt on the beginning, but trust me it much better after that.

My friend got rejected, so I’m trying to help him.

For me, I've experienced feelings of rejection growing up and in my early adulthood. It is not fun and can destroy a person's soul but learning and growing from them can serve to make you stronger and more resilient. I no longer expect much from people and thus, I have little sense of disappointment and feeling rejected. I have become an indifferent person - that means to a large extent, I care very little about anything and anyone. I love myself and I love my cat (and my kids lol) and that's about all that matters to me. Disappointments and rejections and setbacks happen for a reason - it wasn't meant to be and maybe something better is waiting (I am not a negative person at all - just very logical and reasonable!) LOL.

@mw9688

2 жыл бұрын

I don’t have kids… and therefore don’t love anyone outside of myself….. but when you don’t feel much of anything…there isn’t much to love. So I’m likely going to go through life without ever feeling alive.

Isn't possible, how can this video came just in the moment I had been reject yesterday, thank for you exist ❤️

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

You’re welcome 😊! Things will get better regardless what kind of rejection you had to go through :) - Cindy

@pr_mittal

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@Mtz2604

3 жыл бұрын

Take your time to feel good again. We work a lot in ourselves to be how ans who we are (in a good way) that when someone just rejects us, we feel a full body slap in our brain and is hard to understand how you can reject someone's hard work. Is the way it happened to me the las 3 rejections. Take a break to release the emotions and seek help if it feels too heavy to carry on. Wish you the best

@benemo436

3 жыл бұрын

@@Mtz2604 Well, it was the worst kind of rejection, love, it was the fourth time I tried and keep on counting

accept the answer distance yourself from the situation allow yourself to feel spend time with others do something you love (hobbies) practice self-care work on yourself learn from the experience put the rejection into context explore other opportunities

Rejection is painful and tough to cope with, but with loving friends and family, it’s much easier. Don’t feel embarrassed or scared, just know that it’s a common thing which comes across everyone. Accept your emotions and move on. Everything happens for a reason.

@noelgibson5956

Жыл бұрын

I'll often ask someone with the expectation of getting rejected. If they suprise me and say yes, that's a bonus. Just steel yourself first, then the hit will be less severe. Rejection has occurred all over the world throughout history. We're not alone in the experience. My great grandfather probably experienced it. Nobody is spared of it.

I feel like I've gained more knowledge through watching Psyc2GO rather than attending school 🙄 Thank You for these amazing vids ❤️❤️❤️

I always take a break from my social accounts. They kinda suck your energy out sometimes. A good early Morning walk cheers me up. Though waking up before the crowd gathers is tough 🤔

This channel has taught me SO much and has helped me significantly improve my self-esteem. I just want to say thank you.

Thanks Psych2Go for this video. I think I supported or suggested the idea of how to deal with rejection one day, it doesn't matter how it was, what matters is that you guys listen to your community and I personally feel heard when I suggest topics and I feel incredibly good when you cover them. It really helps me with what I'm struggling with.

I was diagnosed with ADHD recently and I'm struggling with Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria.

Rejections should be offset by atleast some successes. Constantly struggling and going nowhere leaves a bigger scar in your mind. Ive lost everything career love etc and nothing makes me happy anymore. I dont have 'close friends' to hold my back either.

I didn't even realize how much I needed this video right now, I thought I already figured all of it out now, but some things you said helped me to look at this situation of mine from a yet different perspective and see the positives in it. Thank you for that.

Such a beautiful video....feels like I have been waiting this forever !!!

Wow, thank you so much. Sometimes I feel like I get called out in some of your videos and they hurt because they are a little to true but this video was very helpful. Thank you for expanding my options!

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

No problem! We hope this video helped you! Which tips from this video did you find most helpful? :)

Lol posting right around Valentine’s, I see you

Cry, take a distance from the situation and work out help me a lot ! being sad took me a few days but i prefer allow myself feeling the whole thing rather repress it

Really enjoy these videos. Down to earth , simplified which is great.

Thank you so much! I love your videos! I'd see the benefits of rejection rather than start thinking about it. I do feel sad but I know I have to be strong and face the reality. I'd distract myself from the rejected memories and make my self do things that would help avoid such situations again.

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing!! We hope this video helped you :)

Love the video! So glad I found Psych2Go! What about advice for overcoming the fear of rejection? I end up choosing not to take the risk to avoid the pain of rejection, but I also self-deny potential opportunities for success.

I have such a fear of rejection now, I’m avoiding any and all social situations and fear of making new relationships.. logically I know it’s someone’s opinion but it cuts me so deeply that it’s traumatizing

Great video! The explanation becomes more interesting with good animation ❤️

I got rejected by my crush to be my valentine! 😥 But it's okay, I'm going to hang out with my best friends. 💖💖

@kenrickbautista6141

3 жыл бұрын

Same here. 😔

@tammiebrown7424

3 жыл бұрын

Same..

@ummaibrahim6818

3 жыл бұрын

Hello dear, true love never die don't give up anything in life all hope is not lost ❤.

@ummaibrahim6818

3 жыл бұрын

I know a powerful man that can help you get your ex or crush back forever, he helped me too immediately without stress and delay, he have solution to all problems💯..

@ummaibrahim6818

3 жыл бұрын

Text him on WhatsApp📩.

Planning to confess to my 3 year crush and one of my friends, just here to prepare for the worst case scenarios

@The_Guy33

11 ай бұрын

I'm probably late but good luck brother.

@B_R_U_H14

11 ай бұрын

@@The_Guy33 already confessed lol, I wasn't rejected But also, my confession wasn't accepted, she simply just questioned me why I liked her but we retained our friendship (I can even say that it grew stronger) . So I guess it went well for me in the end?

Your voice itself is so calming.. It had already reduced some part of the rejection pain

Im so thankful for this channel!

This is a skill we need to learn. Rejection is part of our life.

I know how constant rejection feels. Rejection is like a flu shot, it stings at first, but it also helps in the long run. Stay strong everyone🤠

This video brightened my day , thank you!

Honestly needed this, life truly sucks when you go through alot 😪

After the 21st rejection and the death of my ex am starting to think something is wrong in my life

I've been rejecting boys in fear they'll leave me if I let them love me 😟 And that's also me who believes love is real,but when someone really comes to ask for my hand....that feels so scary to me...It's hard to turn this off...😣

@ranapratap4650

3 жыл бұрын

That's why I haven't actually asked any girl out yet 🙄

@shrenalforever2135

3 жыл бұрын

@@ranapratap4650 Indian? By the way...All girls aren't like me..And I still haven't found true love and also,I'm already burnt enough...

@ranapratap4650

3 жыл бұрын

@@shrenalforever2135 Yes. And that's alright I was just kidding 😅. You have all the right to wait for your Prince Charming. And Sorry for your Burn though, get an Ice cream 🍧

@shrenalforever2135

3 жыл бұрын

@@ranapratap4650 Ha ha..karlungi wait main!😂😂 well,Ice cream ke liye shukriya,meri favourite hain!😉😁

@ranapratap4650

3 жыл бұрын

@@shrenalforever2135 My pleasure 🤣☺️. And Good Luck for future 🌟

These videos are always so helpful, I revisit this channel every once in a while because it cheers me up.

Love your videos, Simplified which is great and down to earth

My brain always causes the “turn it around effect” It is basically that my brain causes me to loose interest in thst person, so much that within a week i wonder why I ever liked her. This only never happened with my best friend, she rejected me 2x but I still kinda like her. But my mind tries to distract me from it by causing crushes on other girls

Simple yet effective Dont ask anyone out

Thanks for the help, I've been through rejection twice in a short time and it's really hurts, but a little better now

Yay!!! Another one....I'm obsessed with these

All I have ever been in my life is rejected, so this video didn't help much lol. The hatred I have for myself runs so deep, it can never be repaired!

@spongebob2456

3 жыл бұрын

Chill, I feel u...Always get rejected if i ever found someone I like no matter how many times I tried, really wish something great really great is just waiting for me out there

It helped a lot, but I'm still stuck in anxiety.

Beautifully done!

I really needed this, thank you 🙏🥺

I was rejected by a friend I met online. Most all these tips were exactly how I handled the situation. The cons outweighed the pros so it was okay.

Dealing rejection is hard, but most important lesson here is how you handle it. You got this! Have you watched 8 Signs Someone Misses You kzread.info/dash/bejne/pZt8k5VraKzLYtY.html ?

@kiwii1027

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks!

@sage8014

3 жыл бұрын

AH TY

This video was so necessary. Thank you very much!

This video helped me sooo much!!! I love your guys channel it always helps me when stuff gets ruff

Here is my simple advice for whenever you get rejected…. WALK AWAY!! and don’t look back.

I always get rejected :(

So I have some ideas for videos. I don't know all the videos you've already made, but these are just some video topics I thought might help myself and others. I love how you explain things and I love that your videos are short and to the point. Video ideas: Types of rejection, types of healthy and toxic sibling relationships, how to deal with generalized anxiety thoughts/worries, types of unhealthy coping, difference between panic attacks and panic disorder, difference between social anxiety, social phobia, and agoraphobia, healthy coping skills and how to do them, how to stop intrusive/irrational thoughts/thinking, ways you can help someone you worry/care about, how to deal with stress and test anxiety, how to overcome generalized anxiety thoughts, and how to deal with social anxiety.

I love all your videos. And I also love the little bonus of the dancing 3 characters at the end, with the cat in the tree. Always makes me smile.❤️❤️💕💕